How do you honour your boundaries?

[@magicowlme]

Oh bless you two! I'm really impressed you managed this far. I've absolutely loved your videos. They had become the highlight of my week, so I'm not going to lie, I will really miss these videos. Totally understand how much commitment it takes and love that you are honouring what feels authentic to you both.

[@KuhlaShine]

Thank you :)

[@DottyDelightful]

We will be doing more so don’t miss us too much ❤

[@suebolton2825]

Thank you both so much. Love your painting Ruby, and Kula’s too. You must take care of your energy levels and not over-do it, as that’s when you becomes ill. Your body picks up viruses and it has no energy left to fight them off. I have so enjoyed listening to you both and look forward to the next one- whenever that may be. 🥰

[@Thejournalmagpie]

I enjoyed chatting and crafting together. That was enough. 2 wonderful people to spend time with. Glad you realized it was too much for you both. DO what feels right is the name of the game for sure.

[@DottyDelightful]

Thank you, it’s been great fun connecting, we will be back with more soon for sure x

[@magicowlme]

So glad you got most of it back.

[@lindacleary1494]

Everything is for a reason. Would love to bump into one of you in the supermarket! :)

[@DottyDelightful]

You wouldn’t find Kuhla in one and I would have my headphones on to shut out the world 😆

[@shirley-annrigby-jones8731]

What a beautiful conversation between two magical women. ✨️ thank you for all the sharing of your wisdom a fun but deep chat, especially about patriarchy and the conditioning we experience as women. So great that you both are looking after yourselves. Look forward to your next video whenever inspiration and energy comes. Love and hugs to you both xxxx

[@DottyDelightful]

You are so welcome! I’m so glad you enjoyed it x

[@KuhlaShine]

Ah Shirley-Ann thank you so much for your kind words ❤

[@fionawilsoncreates]

I'm pleased you are taking time for your healing which may lead to more artwork. Love all the amazing topics you cover and I will look out for more videos when the Universe guides you both. Be well dear ladies. 😘

[@DottyDelightful]

Thank you Fiona, it’s been great to have your support and we are excited to be back soon

[@TuckerandTulipsdesigns]

Oh, ladies, this was great!! I especially love the discussion on allowing ourselves to engage in our joy and not allowing ourselves to do it unless we truly deserve it!! I can totally relate, and I wonder if you think being a woman has anything to do with it? My husband has no problem going golfing when he has tons of stuff to do! LOL, I would love to hear your thoughts..also do you two have a schedule or do you upload when you can? I have the bell on..and if you would both like to...I have a crafty channel too and would love your support if you would be so kind. Thanks for a wonderful time, looking forward to next time! And if you ever want a guest I would love to be considered...I love a good chat with other like-minded people! You two are a delight! XO Trudy

[@DottyDelightful]

Hi Trudy, I am so glad you enjoyed it, yes I totally believe it is because of being a woman, my partner was in the kitchen cooking and washing up (man) and I was sat reading, I felt really guilty, so I asked if he wanted help and he said no, I sat a bit longer and told him how I felt, and asked does he feel like that when I'm in the kitchen, and he said no, it didn't even enter his head. Thank you for subscribing and of course, I will pop over now. Ohh you being a guest would be wonderful!

[@LittleHoneyPie]

I have so loved you chats,will miss you both,but totally understand the time management elements.😊 I am sure we will meet one sunny day lol❤

[@KuhlaShine]

We wont be gone for long!

[@DottyDelightful]

We will do more, just not as often ❤

[@magicowlme]

Ooh there is a fantastic exercise you can do to show energy. You need 2 metal coat hangers (or snap one in half) and bend them into an L shape. Then roll a piece of paper, or use a paper straw, and put it on the shorter side of the L, so the rod can easily twist, without you turning it. Hold them out in front of you and think of something that makes you angry or sad etc. The coat hangers then cross over themselves. Then think of something you love and imagine sending that feeling out to the world and the coat hangers will go wider apart.

[@magicowlme]

Noooooo! I would cry if I lost everything I'd done on canva for a year! Oh MY!!!

[@DottyDelightful]

I know right!! It’s made me dig my hard drive out

[@magicowlme]

I love that painting Ruby. Gorgeous.

[@DottyDelightful]

Thank you, I can’t wait to add to it

[@KariGibsonArt]

KZbin is hard, i just do one a week now and just one live a month. Even with that schedule (and my up and down mental health), I still het burnt out every now and then. So yes, take care of yourselves and I look forward to seeing you when you're ready and able! ❤❤

[@DottyDelightful]

Yea I can be, we are interested in going live, do the lives stay on after it’s ended?

[@KuhlaShine]

Thanks Kari

[@KariGibsonArt]

Yes, Ruby, youtube saves them as if by magic (i am no technical expert) 😅

[@DottyDelightful]

Ohh thank you that’s great to know

[@LittleHoneyPie]

Hi two special magical women.Ruby I love how your paintings evolve. What does the mushroom drink taste like.😊

[@KuhlaShine]

Hello lovely

[@DottyDelightful]

Thank you for your lovely words, it’s a bit sweet for me as I don’t have sugar, it has Stevia in it. It tastes like hot chocolate

[@lizzieh5284]

Hi ladies. I have had CFS for years so I can relate to Kula.I also pushed myself for years then catching a virus was the last straw. I ended up having to finish work.I still find it difficult to manage my energy levels. I watch youtube videos and have to remind myself thst a lot of those I watch are a lot younger than me and dont have CFS. Its a constant battle. I need to start being kinder to myself.

[@DottyDelightful]

ahh Lizzie yes you do need to be kinder to yourself, but I know from chatting with Kuhla how frustrating it is, she has had such a life changing detox from social media and business and she is healing now. You have to put yourself first and see what changes and accommodations can be made to give yourself the grace you deserve xx

[@lizzieh5284]

@@DottyDelightful Thanks Ruby. ❤😊

[@magicowlme]

I would love to do a video with either or both of you at some time.

[@DottyDelightful]

Happy to Chris, we had fun with the book one didn’t we

[@magicowlme]

Where you say the GP turned down your ADHD referral, what would they have done if they hadn't turned it down?

[@DottyDelightful]

They refer you to a clinic to see someone who then goes through loads of questions with you

[@magicowlme]

Self absorbed?

[@DottyDelightful]

Yes that’s it!