Dianna Nepstad and Rebecca Crews answer "How can we know we met the right man and you are ready for marriage." Watch full episodes of Better Together weekdays at 1:30pm ET on TBN or anytime here: bit.ly/39diGnt
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@nxtchpforme91543 жыл бұрын
She has a gentle demeanor.
@ebonyta923 жыл бұрын
Sil
@ItsMyLifeDaralynn3 жыл бұрын
When he doesn't inconvenience himself for you, he doesn't love you. Amen!
@ebonyta923 жыл бұрын
Imconvenience?😂
@Pacifica743 жыл бұрын
It's scary how men are
@ladennayoung29393 жыл бұрын
@@Pacifica74 You can't be cynical in put all men in the same category.
@racqueenus3 жыл бұрын
Let the church say Amen!! She said that.
@kanishambunwe9243 жыл бұрын
Chaii! powerful.
@amandashongwe35214 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mrs Crews. It was painful to hear but I needed to hear this.
@Rosedaleb14 жыл бұрын
That’s a mature response. So many women either compromise by repressing the truth and staying in a relationship that is not meant to be. How much happier and at peace will one be if she’ll trust God enough to walk away from what’s familiar and follow her divine path instead.
@irenedarkwah63293 жыл бұрын
God is your strength.
@sylvietapos8073 жыл бұрын
I really love how honest, and how genuine she is. I am 51, and I have never been married. I don't think I want biological children at my age, and so I don't know that all her pieces of advice apply to me. I do love how real she is though.
@aalayacooper29483 жыл бұрын
When you become the aggressor in the relationship, you are with the wrong man. If he thinks you are too easy to obtain, you are with the wrong man. *Both of these statements are significant, because they reflect a woman's worth- to HERSELF. You are worth being pursued. You are not easy- that doesn't mean you're playing hard to get, but it means that whoever is pursuing you feels like he has won a PRIZE once he has you! If he feels like he didn't win, that has nothing to do with your worth- but his perception of it.
@brittanyjackson64323 жыл бұрын
Speak Queen!!! You said ALL of that!!! So good!😁👑💜
@JeanneRehema3 жыл бұрын
Yes girl! Speak it!!
@siskristie21132 жыл бұрын
Oops didn't realize how old your post was! Amen 100% It feels so much better if you are pursued. I don't know why women are chasing after these men? Girl, they are buying these men cars, giving money, buying clothes. I am like STOP!!!! The crazy part is that he is taking your car to go see someone else! How many times have I seen this. Over and over again. It's foreign to me! Ladies, we must not be a doormat just to get male attention. You are worth so much more. I stop telling men my profess because they thought I was literally going to be their Suga Momma. I kid you not. Their eyes would light up like a Christmas tree when I told them what I did for a living. I could see them crunching my numbers in the head. I kid you not! I was oh no! That ain't happening. My brothers would kick my butt all over Detroit. I would get a serious butt whipping from all of them.. And a real man would not accept money from a woman. It's just something that is in them. Once you are married, things change of course. But as far as dating.. oh no! I never had a problem attracting men of all nationalities. Kristie does not discriminate at all! I used to but I am getting better/healing from the past regarding a specific race of men. Better every day!
@itsbelledivine3 жыл бұрын
It's crazy because I'm hearing it through a lens of how we should love God: putting Him as priority above all else, making sacrifices, not having a compartmentalized life but going all in to love... It's really good to think about this, I love this. Definitely something to think about! 🧡
@MoMotivation03043 жыл бұрын
Lord this is what I went through for 10 years. I kept thinking he would treat me better and start showing love again through action. He was able once, but the damage was done & things never were the same. I finally left after 15yrs. Lord continue to give me strength, cuz it hurts.
@obinwomonoh71593 жыл бұрын
May the Lord give you strength, healing and peace to move forward 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@MoMotivation03043 жыл бұрын
@@obinwomonoh7159 thank you! 🤗
@tranquility93253 жыл бұрын
Babe you deserve better.
@MoMotivation03043 жыл бұрын
@@tranquility9325 Thank you love 🙏🏾
@ngreat43903 жыл бұрын
Amen! May God heal your heart and fill you up with his Spirit so you thirst no more.
@alanamaharaj3 жыл бұрын
I think another point to look for if YOU are ready is: are you ready to submit to him? God calls us to submit to our husbands (and surely he is supposed to be worthy of that submission as he must be submitted to Christ first), and not to try to lead him or be controlling, but able to submit to this man of God as the head of the household. If you are not ready to submit then I don't think one can be ready for a God-ordained marriage.
@jackiethefaithwalker14943 жыл бұрын
@Alana Maharaj yes I agree.
@alanamaharaj3 жыл бұрын
@@jackiethefaithwalker1494 amen sis!
@alanamaharaj3 жыл бұрын
@Dee Cee yes. And the onus should not just fall on women/wives-the church doesn't preach enough of how a man must be submitted to Christ first, and worthy of that submission from his wife-but the onus falls heavily on the men as well. His readiness to lead in Christ must be present otherwise a woman is just submitting to a man. Not a godly man. And the two are vastly different. I believe that in the same likeness, he is not ready for marriage as well if christ is not his leader
@simoiyahector-morales37813 жыл бұрын
@@alanamaharaj absolutely 💯agree. Hit the nail on the head
@lukekelly59643 жыл бұрын
Hello
@dorisruffin47003 жыл бұрын
You ladies are saying all the right words! Diana Epps Ted well said, “When you (disconnect) from your mom, your dad and you (become) a unit all on your own.” Don’t get involved with anyone that’s not willing to cut the umbilical cord with their mama.
@ItsMyLifeDaralynn2 жыл бұрын
... may I add if you smell a narcissist . Run!!
@ladennayoung29393 жыл бұрын
Yep. This is true. Lord bless us to be patient, and wait for the one that YOU have for us in Jesus name. Amen.
@lukekelly59643 жыл бұрын
How are you doing today
@ladennayoung29393 жыл бұрын
@@lukekelly5964 Hi. I'm good. Thanks for asking.
@bluebelle68333 жыл бұрын
This is so true, I left my ex husband, because I was never first, even with the women he cheated on me with. I have never been happier, God told me to get out and I did
@Picca653 жыл бұрын
Saaaaaammee!! He continued to live as a single and after he wasn't "in love" anymore, I was treated like the inconvenience. The advices on this channel are all so spot on!
@MH-gn8sc3 жыл бұрын
How did God tell you to leave him?
@Naan7952 жыл бұрын
@@MH-gn8sc Be careful with this. I am not sure God advise you to leave.
@girlyessencee52733 жыл бұрын
This message is so on time. I get a lot of pressure from the people around me to get a man and to get married. But deep down inside of me I know, that I'm not ready, I'm quite independent and still trying to figure out different aspects of my life. Marriage is truly about two people becoming one and building a future together in agreement.
@siskristie21132 жыл бұрын
If you are not ready don't push it and especially don't let other people push you!
@speakintothemicb3 жыл бұрын
That is so true! I've been engaged twice. Before going deeper in those relationships I asked myself can I see myself with this person 5 years from now? My answer was no. If you don't see a vision with him let him go. She is so right.
@Shikswanjiks2 жыл бұрын
Hey just broke off my engagement too.. didn't imagine myself with him and am just not ready
@siskristie21132 жыл бұрын
Worse, he doesn't even have a vision! Hello!!
@cnD644 жыл бұрын
Amen, so true!! I see that with my husband, he literally said he would do anything for me when we first started dating. It was then I realized he really does love me!
@aladynamedSusan3 жыл бұрын
Going through this now. And he's willing and has chosen celibacy with and for me. I think he's the one
@aladynamedSusan3 жыл бұрын
@@joyc9323 he wasn't prayer answered and celibacy still intact look at God💪🏾😁
@FavouredNancy883 жыл бұрын
I couldn't be more happier watching this. God bless this team. Found this channel a week ago. I've been blessed
@dorisruffin47003 жыл бұрын
I’m crazy about Better Together T.V.! God is loving us through these beautiful sisters in Christ. Words can not began to express my attitude of gratitude of all the wonderful encouraging words to cheer us viewers on in Christ.
@nyce1882 жыл бұрын
Yes this channel has been blessing me! I’ve watched so many videos of theirs
@kathywherry98103 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the confirmation. I broke up with this guy because I started seeing that he did not make sacrifices for me.. Glad I made the right decision.
@dieuseulphilogene36003 жыл бұрын
Huh
@HotHoneyAndSpice3 жыл бұрын
I just want to say how grateful and blessed I’ve been by these videos. Thank you for sharing your Godly wisdom ☺️
@thegreencleancrew28183 жыл бұрын
I found this channel today. I'm so blessed that the stories are real and people are genuine! God is moving and helping me learn through your stories. This is how the body of Christ should look like!!! Glory to God 🙏
@BetterTogetherTV3 жыл бұрын
Welcome! We are so happy that God lead you to our community! Our prayer is that you continue to be blessed and encouraged by our conversations! 💜
@thandoq3 жыл бұрын
They were just dragging me by the edges here 😭😭😭
@andyv11313 жыл бұрын
So important to talk about this, wish I had known this years ago, it would’ve save me from so much heartache, so much time wasted... Love this channel so much 💗
@BetterTogetherTV3 жыл бұрын
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@lukekelly59643 жыл бұрын
Hello my dear how are you doing today
@dorisruffin47003 жыл бұрын
@@BetterTogetherTV love you ladies to life. Such an inspiration to us viewers. Y’all have been a great blessing to me in my Christian walk with Jesus. I love y’all’s transparency and willingness to share your walk in Christ with us.
@adielegrace51353 жыл бұрын
Loved the wisdom, these two women are simply overflowing with the Love and wisdom of God, like your fairy Godmothers who will not let you settle for any less than the best God has for you,😍...sending out bug hugs to you two😘❤️
@alaohurublessing55643 жыл бұрын
When you see your future in him,then he is the one
@abigailmoodley82043 жыл бұрын
I love Rebecca's testimony of her marriage, and i admire her for her wisdom and how she handled such a hard situation.
@dwaynejohnson13293 жыл бұрын
How are you doing?
@abigailmoodley82043 жыл бұрын
Im well thanks and how are you
@dwaynejohnson13293 жыл бұрын
Am good, where are you from?
@dwaynejohnson13293 жыл бұрын
I I’ll like to know more about you if you don’t mind
@ihama993 жыл бұрын
I think the better term was cut out unnecessary distractions. Not cut off family and friends. Nope. You cant survive in your marriage without people..Good people that is. People who will not interfere in your marriage negatively e.t.c Either way great video
@stephiekashosi8663 жыл бұрын
She did not say cut off she said priority. Who comes first. When married the family with your husband comes first because you have left your father and mother🤗
@kassie.sondashi4 жыл бұрын
So insightful!
@antoniawall61233 жыл бұрын
Thank You so much for this response to this person's question, this is confirmation to what God was saying to me in regards to someone I love, but that person says they love me but he wouldn't inconvenience himself for me but I was doing it for him. So I decided to wait on God thanks again Blessings!!!
@RoyalMasterpiece3 жыл бұрын
Rebecca King Crews is an angel from Heaven on Earth! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@lukekelly59643 жыл бұрын
How are you doing today my friend
@Atlanta7183 жыл бұрын
Prioritize one another. See your future with this person. Fit your life together in the purpose of God. Kids, living arrangements, faith, destiny, etc Loves you and wants to build a family
@concernedcitizen84483 жыл бұрын
NOPE! It didn't say that! That comes AFTER he has earned you. We make the mistake of giving a man credit that he does not deserve by always "giving him the benefit of the doubt" or "what he meant to do/say was..." He should know you are the prize first and believe you are essential for his purpose in life THEN we are charged (after marriage) to help him meet his FULL purpose. But he should be so in tune with God that he knows what that is off the riff. Him being undecided makes him UNSTABLE!!!
@concernedcitizen84483 жыл бұрын
A man with POTENTIAL is unrealized productivity/effort and of no effect.
@umamichelle3 жыл бұрын
“You can be cute in your blue jeans and keep on walking 🚶♂️”
@keviwevi013 жыл бұрын
This wisdom is oh so good. All the comments so true and insightful. Thank you for sharing this helps me. I want to also add that we also as women must 1st Love ourselves and Love God. He is the source of Love! Once we know and understand this it will be easier to weed out men that don't truly Love us😊
@Lilyeh-OMJ3 жыл бұрын
Wow. You are so right on the So biblical. The answer had the presence of God on it.
@wendyomanga3 жыл бұрын
am so blessed by this message. a blessed, prosperous and happy marriage is my portion here on earth. may God provide.
@nxtchpforme91543 жыл бұрын
Love the pink hair??
@royaldominionauthorityglob48133 жыл бұрын
I met Diana Nepstad a few years ago at a Women’s Conference in Savannah. I love this show/panel of diverse group of women on fire for God!
@allthingschidi63544 жыл бұрын
So much wisdom in one video 💛
@sunshine13593 жыл бұрын
It's so simple yet do much wisdom in this.
@DashaTheDivineDivah3 жыл бұрын
Had to learn this all the long way...lol but grateful i did. No time or love wasted. I'll wait for what's for me.
@elizabethaustrie93712 жыл бұрын
Amen to this. I've had this experience, now I'm single. These are true words all, take heed.
@dcthompson33472 жыл бұрын
I love the representation, you two together bring a special strength and wisdom to the topic.
@nabulimeflavia4893 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank You Holy Spirit. Thank you preachers. I have been blessed.
@Heleen7774 жыл бұрын
Excellent Ladies!!!
@ngreat43903 жыл бұрын
Hallelujah! We bless God for your wisdom! I believe that God is calling me out of the single season soon. I feel it in my Spirit so I know He's working on it. I'm not sure where He's taking me but as far as He's the one leading, I will gladly follow. And yes, His son is going to give me the highest regards and respect possible and I will be at rest, not because His son is perfect but because the marriage is preserved by Him!
@fireomen873 жыл бұрын
I feel like there are many men who sacrifice a lot for their wives but the wives don’t realize it and start to “expect” it without anything in return. It would have been nice for them to mention that the sacrifices they desire so highly from a “great man”, should be acknowledged frequently to said great man and so you ensure they also feel appreciated; Instead of just expecting and taking from them. And that women themselves should also be willing to self sacrifice. Relationships aren’t a one way street after all.
@fredajohnson5062 жыл бұрын
Amen I just love how Rebecca Crew's answer the question to people about marriage. She definitely on point with the answers, so was the other woman on the show. There's old saying go like this, if you don't stand up for something you're settled for anything, It's sad so many woman's don't know their worth. They rather have a piece of man than be by themselves, life is to short be miserable.
@deniseobryant3023 жыл бұрын
Thanks for confirmation 🙏 🙌
@ellaweezy05153 жыл бұрын
That was very solid sound wise advice. Thank you ladies.
@olayinkaestherbabalola54623 жыл бұрын
So apt and direct.... I needed this. Thanks mamas
@carineaguh16863 жыл бұрын
Thank you soooooo much ladies! Just what I needed to move forward! Abundant blessings on you both for this amazing talk!🙏🙏❤❤❤
@BetterTogetherTV3 жыл бұрын
We praise God for this breakthrough! God bless you! 💜
@nita86193 жыл бұрын
This is very helpful. Thank you. Amen sister
@MyMARI33 жыл бұрын
Awesome video. I love Mrs. Crews!
@shaphatyahawadah13733 жыл бұрын
A man must always be dedicated to his purpose FIRST above and beyond a woman because that is how he provides for himself and eventually his wife. For example the movie..mo..betta blues, him being dedicated to his craft paid his bills but did you notice SHE was tryin her best to get him off his game and spend time with her and he did eventually get married BUT NOT TO HER ! The lesson is..a man must fulfill himself in order to be any good to you
@letty45583 жыл бұрын
Well, when he loves you he proposes to you. You meet his family, he talks about things like, do you want for kids, where do you see yourself in 10 years, futuristic stuff. He treats you well, you feel good around him.
@CourageDearHeart3163 жыл бұрын
She is so calm ... Wow
@lovenakesner2424 жыл бұрын
Great Wisdom , Thank you so much for sharing .🙌🏽
@kimbattles23993 жыл бұрын
You Ladies from better Together are the BEST, howerver when I watch you all you ALL are sooooo perfect. Its as though you've never had any challenges in your lives at all. Especially Mrs. Laurie Crouch she seems so perfect.
@nicoledouglas75243 жыл бұрын
Rebecca Crews shared on this show the very serious trials she has gone through in her marriage to Terry and in her childhood. Keep watching!
@dorisruffin47003 жыл бұрын
I don’t see these sisters in Christ as so perfect. I see them as overcomes. Sharing their testimonies, being transparent are their way of saying to us viewers that if God brought me out. If He walked me through my growing pains. He can and will do the same thing for you. They let you know that you are not alone, to be encouraged and that if we have faith in Jesus and see life lessons through His eyes. You will be victorious. These Better Together sisters in Christ are beautiful inside out. God through them always give us an right now word.
@daphniegabriel65544 жыл бұрын
Well said 👏
@user-kx2vw8xe5h3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with her
@mandyofori63873 жыл бұрын
Yes
@beloved34593 жыл бұрын
If he doesn't fear, love & put Christ first, then you are with the wrong man, He won't know how to love you if He doesnt have an obedient relationship with Christ first. The order is: God-The Father, Chirst-The Son Man-Under the headship of Christ. Woman-Under the headship of Man/Husband. If its not that order that marriage is a recipe for failure. Marriage is designed to reflect the glory of God & unity of the Godhead. Its not for show-off or about our Selfish ambitions or "Pride of Life" is about the one who sitting on His Holy Throne. 🤗📖💕
@Username00293 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!!!
@fredajohnson5062 жыл бұрын
This was some very good advice about preparing for marriage it's true people know that it's certain things that don't really agree with while dating the person but choose to settle after they realize that the person is not really marriage material like you said that's a recipe for distruction so it's no body fault but yours.
@jenniferh.72193 жыл бұрын
It has just come to me, is this Terry Crew's wife? Love this advice!
@tranquility93253 жыл бұрын
Yes, she's also a singer, actress and producer
@jenniferh.72193 жыл бұрын
@@tranquility9325 Awesome! Didn't know, will look her activities & endeavors up!
@Faithinme90 Жыл бұрын
Greatest man in history, had no servants, yet they called him Master. Had no degree, yet they called him Teacher. Had no medicines, yet they called him Healer. He had no army, yet kings feared Him. He won no military battles, yet He conquered the world. He committed no crime, yet they crucified Him. He was buried in a tomb, yet He lives today🙏🏻. His name is Jesus.❤
@obedan39902 жыл бұрын
If he stop texting...You MOVE ON FORWARD!! Dont wait!!!!
@agiftedchildVictoriaGrimes Жыл бұрын
Well said!!! Thanks Ladies
@abitofgenevieve3 жыл бұрын
So true Thank you for the wisdom
@boitumelomakobosheane29283 жыл бұрын
Ouch 😣 this is so good and opened my eyes
@1234nfd3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@ambermccutchen84513 жыл бұрын
Amen miss crews this advice I can used in my relationship with my own husband when a man loves woman that man will put his wants and needs beyond everything else for that special lady in his life sincerely yours Mrs Amber McCutchen
@jacquelinecabanatan7925 Жыл бұрын
This is so eye opening ❤️ Thank you
@Simlicity093 жыл бұрын
I wasn’t going to click on this video...because this was a word. Thank you.
@sandseabreeze3 жыл бұрын
So good! Thank you! ❤️
@nyce1882 жыл бұрын
I can’t hit the thumbs up enough!!! This is spot on!! Thank you for this!
@Naan7952 жыл бұрын
Sacrifice should be one with the other, we think we love the other but if the others is not feeling being loved. I under God is Above everything and then the spouse, with unconditional love
@shaecarter18373 жыл бұрын
God really blessed me to see this 💖
@timbawangu30383 жыл бұрын
Forsaking all others👏
@mammaof3angels6853 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy cuz I know I met the man I’m going to marry but he’s not ready yet and it’s frustrating knowing what I know and having to be patient and watch him kind of go thru a few storms because Gods still working on him before he will be ready for me and the life I know we are meant to have to together... and it’s not easy ugh
@Goddessv7173 жыл бұрын
If it is of God you should not be frustrated. Allow God to do his part and do God/ focus on God whilst you wait, therefore you wont be frustrated. Stay bless ♥️
@kanishambunwe9243 жыл бұрын
I love this. Lol! U can be cute in your blue jeans and keep on walking. God bless you,women of God. More grace.
@LisalovesMichael3 жыл бұрын
Right on point. Than you.
@TEDDYBEARTOWN11113 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this powerful message! I needed this.
@jemmy9243 жыл бұрын
Wow! How profound and insightful🙏 Thanks ladies!🙂
@missadug3 жыл бұрын
I love Rebecca Crews pink hair!!!!
@Lana-ro6cb3 жыл бұрын
Ty
@Queenbelieveit3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Amen.
@Peaceoutman772 жыл бұрын
Right on
@sallykabukuru16383 жыл бұрын
Amen! What a blessed message!
@ryansmith77213 жыл бұрын
When you see your future in him!!! 🙌🏾
@annikaminina76703 жыл бұрын
Loved this 🧡
@lydiaokoth63003 жыл бұрын
Thanks for advice
@LindaLove0073 жыл бұрын
Thank You Thank you Thank you 🔥🔥🔥 Amen
@laquonsabest79734 жыл бұрын
Great information🌷
@victoryfire47503 жыл бұрын
This is AMAZING 😍
@aladynamedSusan3 жыл бұрын
This video deserves way more views🤦🏾
@lataviajohnson74843 жыл бұрын
Noted, for future reference.
@MaryellenS.13 Жыл бұрын
At 64 years old I do not want to Marry. I’ve done that for 31 years and raised my children. There is nothing in marriage for a woman my age, it would just be extra work for me, no Thanks! BUT, I WOULD LOVE a great Man whom has his own home and his own responsibilities and we simply enjoy companionship for travel, or fun and interesting activities to share 🙏🏻💙🕊
@indyarandle1932 жыл бұрын
Thank you I needed this
@MM-vx9eo2 жыл бұрын
Great stuff
@daniellescheepers39573 жыл бұрын
This is so helpful thank you.
@Yaya-xs4rx3 жыл бұрын
This is great advice the most common needed message! Thanks to #BetterTogether
@Laur_r.3 жыл бұрын
That’s really good advice!
@wanjirukarago93083 жыл бұрын
NOT READY !
@nadineneza57322 жыл бұрын
I think when u have the same priority things become easier for both of u