Nicole C: Are Your Dating Standards Too High? | Better Together YouTube Exclusive

On Better Together's first KZbin Exclusive, Nicole C answers questions about Christian dating.
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[@patrciakavini]

“My husband is FY-INEEE” hahahah amen!😂😂 *insert meme* Lord Jesus, I see what you’ve done for others, and I want that for me too. Lol in all seriousness this is a great and encouraging video, thanks for sharing!

[@soulfulpo3t]

She is amazing🥰

[@imaniscript6323]

I loved that. 😂😂 Lord knows I want a FY-INEEE husband. 😍 I guess he's working on giving me the strength to resist sexual temptation when he comes into my life. 🤩😅

[@maanaatagoe6260]

I want that for me too Lord!!

[@dawnaporter9932]

YESSSS. It was THAT part right there for ME !

[@mrssilk1ify]

"Trust Him, not Him for what you want, trust Him... His timing...His character...His heart". That statement just did it for me. Thank you for that beautiful Testimony & Congratulations on your godly marriage!! I receive this experience for myself because I've never experienced God's Best 'Yes' for me in relationships either!

[@imohdeandreanselem1548]

And you will! ❤️🕊️

[@kateosmond1090]

Congratulations Nicole and your husband and God's blessing on your marriage and the future. I listened to your video that you shared with the women of Better together when you said you wanted a relationship like Christ and His church. That really opened my eyes. Thank you so much. I am believing God for the God's best too because i feel i have never experienced that in relationships. God help me and shower me with your grace.

[@Dora320]

Amen 🙏

[@onthatilebentley5942]

I needed to hear this message. God said “Not yet” to me.

[@onthatilebentley5942]

I have a testimony… the “Not yet” that I got from God was accompanied by an actual name and reason- Imagine getting a confirmation a day later. It stung for a few moments but it was followed with such great gratitude and I truly felt a sense of renewal and a nod from God saying “There is so much more in store”. Moments later, I got a few calls regarding my career and possible deals. I felt like He was saying “I need you to focus on this for now”.. I am so grateful 💗💗💗 God truly is good

[@CHAMPIONS4CHRISTCHURCHATLANTA]

This is a very good topic. It's nothing wrong with setting high standards for yourself. However, we must ask ourselves can we live up to the expectations of that person who meets that high standard that we set for ourselves.

[@brynajones8076]

Agreed...thank you!

[@terrismith5281]

I really enjoyed hearing your words of wisdom and simplicity of explaining dating righteously. I love to hear about your story of redemption! It truly gives me hope for my time of love redemption as well. 😊❤️

[@eleanorjordan3404]

Loved her for so long…her music…her ministry…her journey… her suffering. My daughter and I bonded to her ‘Talk About It’ album!! So when she met Mr. Fiii-INE, I couldn’t have been happier for her…and that her journey THERE, brought encouragement to those of us who are STILL waiting for those ‘breakthroughs’, whether it’s our careers that are barren, or our womb, or our ‘arms’, we can follow those who have walked that journey…❤️

[@stephanyngatirahsimons6984]

Trusting God with His no. I love it. Thank you 🤗❤

[@CookieCoCo_OG]

This is truly a beautiful love story! My prayer is for a Godly man who will honor me in the capacity your husband honored you and God. Beautiful and powerful testimony/teaching.

[@millieempowers]

Sis that was such a beautiful story!! Thank you for being so transparent. I was literally saying this to myself that I want to see the goodness of God even if things are not looking too good. I recently experienced a mini heartbreak where I the guy that I liked didnt really like me as much, and I took that really hard. It was the 1st “Godly man” to pursue me (well so I thought he was), but I didnt have a lot of peace with moving things forward with him based on our few conversations. Then Finally, the guy just stopped showing interest in me & I was sad. But watching this, I see it as God’s protection, so I am just gonna wait for his best.

[@MsBdoll87]

Rejection is God’s protection. He knows when we aren’t willing to give it up ourselves. He loves us too much to allow us to stay in that space. One day you will know why he couldn’t stay. That is also why God tells us to forgive others. You’re upset with Him when he couldn’t help that God ran him off lol. I pray this helps you. 💗 Remember, you are fearfully and wonderfully made!

[@dianahardwick9327]

I am single and this is such great wisdom you're sharing. I needed to hear this.

[@rrnn6472]

So powerful - amazing testimony🙏🙌. This is the second time this week that I've heard a message about Abraham's sacrifice.

[@tonikastricklin1629]

Wow Nicole! I remember you being on the christian dating show only a year ago & now you are married. If I’m not mistaken, the Lord sent someone 3 months later! God is so good & I’m sooo happy for you; congratulations!

[@jemmy924]

Amen! I love this ❤️ So much precious and insightful nuggets to take away. God bless your marriage Nicole. Psalms 84:11 "...no good thing will He withhold from those who walk uprightly". Praise God🙌

[@purpleroyalty3290]

Amen

[@elizabethdanner3681]

Have been praying for a wife for our son like her... love God more.

[@charlottemugisha7793]

Wow! What a powerful beautiful Godly story. I almost cried by listening to it. God is just amazingly so good

[@Webbgurl2000]

By waiting he honored himself as well.

[@itssricaa96]

Exactly !! But something tells me this isn’t entirely true

[@ughnotuagainughnotuagain4275]

@@itssricaa96 what?😂 Are you in the relationship?

[@joycewalker5164]

This was so needed in my life. I was thinking that maybe I didn’t deserve better and was so enlightened and encouraged by this episode. Thank you God for this revelation knowledge 👏👏👏🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 God loves me and values me♥️

[@ncumisatshengele6745]

Wow, this is so encouraging. Theres hope for me too

[@lisanorman256]

This blessed me SO MUCH. I had 2 conversations about this yesterday. This is confirmation in re: to where I am in my life & my thoughts about dating in this season, etc...😇🙏🏽🙌🏾 Thank you for sharing.

[@garetemeh621]

I love this msg. Purity and Love God above all

[@diolinefiyangum7247]

The need to lay it down... Thank you so much. God told me this too, and honestly, I've been groping with what it could mean till now. Thank you!

[@iamcolormecourtney9136]

I need the full video of this!! Right on time word..thank you Lord!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@kanisha188]

Wow this is beautiful, her redemptive story!

[@BlessedBaeLLC]

As a young 29 yr old person living in a microwave era world, this gave me the encouragement to lay what I want so badly and entrusting God to do his works. Its hard trying to date and live pure in this Era we live in with secular temptations. But I thank God he's keeping me protected with his Sovereign hand and covering me, until my purpose partner is ready ❤

[@anuajihdeYahweh]

I'm married but this was great! 🤗 Never apologize for having Godly standards ladies and men. It is far better to be single longer than it is to marry a foolish person quickly. Thanks for the upload!

[@Winniemac_]

Y'all pray for me Going through a, major heartbreak💔

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[@YolandeBeyala]

Amen!!! Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us... This is a big shift for me, I ended up a relationship that I built myself (I realized it was Ismael after I came to the Lord), although I ALWAYS FELT unsafe, worried and all the emotions we SHUT UP and that we are not supposed to feel in a relationship 💔 My standards have always been high but I settled for less and I wasn't even prepared for those standards... So now I pray to be my godly husbae's expectations and vice-versa... I like when you talked about him praying for a wife who loves God MORE THAN himself... That resonates... Remain blessed and oooh yeah, you have that godly love shine light on you... (We've all noticed😌☝🏽😊) Blessings from Cameroon 🇨🇲

[@Dora320]

Pray for me. I don't want to be scared Amen

[@AngieeShipps]

This was so encouraging!! Love this!

[@LadyGoodeSpeaks]

Wow! I really REALLY needed this! Thank you for sharing!

[@abigailmoodley8204]

Thank you, i needed this message. Trust God period. If He doesnt give you what you want, then trust Him to give you someone better. Ephesians 3:20

[@joyh.729]

Love this!! Thank you beautiful woman of God for sharing your story!🌟 Rev 12:11

[@TEDDYBEARTOWN1111]

Amen! Very nice and beautifully expressed. Well said, Mrs. Nicole C. I love Better Together TV.

[@sharondamarrell4488]

Beautiful 🤩 praise Jesus my sister. Thank you 🙏 💜

[@bebetter4912]

So happy for her!!!!

[@norma8778]

What a beautiful testimony. Thank you for sharing. May God continue blessing you with wisdom. 💞

[@taffeyblue6805]

Great message! Thank you and be blessed 🙏🏽

[@barbaraanngould4251]

I cannot begin to express how grateful I am to hear you speak and to see such a godly woman as you are Nicole. I feel so blessed that you are a part of the lovely group. The first time I saw you was on the video "The God Who Sees." Now I am so blessed to be a part of such amazing true Christians. Thank you for sharing the fruits of God's Holy Spirit and for helping to keep us growing stronger in the Lord. ❤🙏❤

[@cristalroberts9962]

Timely message thx🙏🏾🥰

[@glorymwangi77]

Such a blessing!!!!🙌🏼🔥 Am I willing to lay it down for God?

[@diosadivine]

Thank you so much for sharing your story & your wisdom! This was perfect timing for me & my journey/walk with God ❤️ I’m encouraged to wait and I am going to trust in God and His timing. Amen.

[@dressedinthefavourofgodble6558]

Very well said!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@almostcollette]

Look at God! Always on time👏🏾👏🏾

[@julietoneill1268]

Beautiful! God, he's faithful 👏🙏💕

[@its_didine152]

Love you so much Nicole! God bless you !

[@dee5904]

So encouraging ! Thank you 💕

[@kahnicacole5692]

This WORD is GOOD!

[@lexie02jones25]

Ammmen! God is great and good!

[@shantechavis2489]

This is good stuff!

[@trishburns7004]

Powerful!! Thank you😊

[@worthyy1]

So encouraging!

[@ellayira7383]

I love this💯

[@MsBdoll87]

This is so timely for me! Thank You Lord for Godly examples and reminders! 💗💗💗💗💗

[@sineshabalala6249]

Love this😊❤

[@ahbeeguatlo2203]

Wow when you said my husband is Fine does it mean God sent you your husband 😲 been waiting for a decade still waiting for God's will

[@50andbecoming]

Thank you ❤

[@morake452]

Love thiiiis! ❤️

[@chrisruth2040]

I need hear this. God help me to wait on your timing with women you have for me

[@RonshicaM]

Soooo good! Wise counsel for sure!

[@azaleagirl6275]

Amen sis. 💟💟💟

[@ChaM_25]

Beautiful 💕🙏🏾

[@lovincerokello8994]

Godly standards! Well noted

[@userdoesnotexist5160]

Wow powerful

[@karengoree7335]

Awesome

[@TheFisayo]

I love it. 🥰🥰❤️😢

[@itssricaa96]

When she said her husband was “ FINEEE “ like that I had to look him up .. So now I’m a bit confused I’m reading she was married & divorced from David because of “ biblical reasons “.. articles also state he was physically & mentally abusive.. So what is it ? Did he actually wait until marriage to honor you & God ?! I now agree she’s supposedly in a relationship with Donnie Mcclurkin . Im just confused that’s all .. 🤷🏾‍♀️👀

[@ToniAnnHenry]

She's recently remarried. I'm not sure of his name because it's not in the media but check her instagram and you'll see him. He is

[@tracey1brave.]

Your question is valid. Marriage and Singleness is a Choice but use wisdom and take your time. But you don't have wait like a waiting room for a Doctor's Office waiting for your Name called. There's no scriptures that say wait until you get Married. If you want to get Married do so. From a Episode of Better Together the. 1st Marriage was in Twenties and that Husband Abused her and she divorced. The 2nd Marriage was with David Mullins was irreconcilable differences. Donnie McClurkin dating but broke up. So what she's sharing is good.

[@skajs426]

Hi Ms. Nicole, you have beautiful, prominent facial features that define your lovely beauty. Would you consider wearing a braided ponytail or sleeker hairstyle to show off your face better? I'm curious to see this, with the highest respect.

[@cordulasubes511]

Very beautiful 💖❤

[@Warblaaster]

Wow powerful message on dating. It's simple but impactful. But I have a question, when God had asked you to "lay it down at the alter", what did He mean why Lay it down? Like, let go of the relationship and wait?

[@katyb2793]

It sounds like they broke up for 3 days until God said it's OK to get back together again.

[@Warblaaster]

@@katyb2793 Oh ok cool thanks!

[@purpleroyalty3290]

Amen

[@nicolersmith432571]

🙏🏽

[@neliswajokweni5872]

❤️❤️❤️

[@pccc145]

I’m late to the party. When did she get married?? The title also drops her former last name Mullen.

[@jenjen7558]

💗💗💗

[@monahcallahan4580]

There is hope💗🙏💖

[@damilolaoluwaponmilekayode7707]

We have God's standards🤍 this

[@tokelot.tsotetsi6191]

❤❤

[@chichis7768]

💕💕💕😊👏

[@chelseakaviza5060]

Hw du u hear from God

[@clairewhalesmbabazi3113]

Wow a woman whose after the heart of God Sacrifice is giving something that’s costly