How do you make love ? All about LGBTQ+ Love life | Living as a LGBTQ+ in KOREA

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[@K.asthetic]

Ngl This squad is really hilarious and I love seeing their interactions so much

[@ButterFlyMan622]

agree

[@Yue_yunn]

Yena at 3:25 softly touching Idea and going "That must be hard being outed" really got to my heart😭❤ she has such great big sister energy, i love her🥺

[@heatherlee2967]

0:35 They didn't translate everything here: Terrah's mom got called to school cuz he kissed a boy on the cheek in pre-kindergarten

[@lau_moonchild2756]

Thank you, I was confused a bit

[@onemore4775]

I love extraness of him since he was young..

[@amye.8000]

Oh wow. Thank you for the translation.

[@asterzalea886]

Thanks

[@nevergiveupbaby1720]

A lot of the translations make no sense

[@StephenGLargy]

I’m both heterosexual and “old”, but I love the honesty and courage displayed in these videos. Your choices are YOUR choices and I hope that you all find love and happiness. More importantly, I hope others who are less courageous can learn from your confidence and honesty. ❤️

[@whyparkjiminnotridejimin]

That's sweet🥰

[@myeong-hee6041]

Aww, as a lgbtqia+ person, you’re comment really made my heart all warm. 💕

[@poojaasharma]

Being LGBTQIA+ isn't a choice. Your comment is nice, I just had to point this out.

[@hahahanulinka]

@@poojaasharma I think he meant that you choose if you'll live in the closet or be true to your identity.

[@StephenGLargy]

@@poojaasharma, good point. ‘Choice’ was the wrong word. Better to say ‘…the person you are is the only person who counts’?

[@im_just_vidu]

These 4 are my new favourites. I like that they all talk openly. Normally people are awkward when they talk about sex stuff. But them are so comfortable with them as well. And also I like that all four of them respect everyone. It feels like a safe place. 💖

[@Cluhx]

Anyone kno the les girl insta?

[@womenarehot281]

When Idea said that she was outed I was like 'same girlll 💅' but I will tell you that being outed is not fun especially if the boys in your class are homophobic

[@akale2620]

Shouldn't being left alone by bois be exactly what you wanted anyway as a lesbian?

[@6012reasol]

@@akale2620 well yes, but they’d rather bully us than leave us alone

[@womenarehot281]

@@akale2620 exactly what elodie said, they would just bully us not leave us alone

[@crystalphoebeliew2725]

Yeah as a bi woman I can confirm that. But what's worse is you receive hate from both LGBTQ+ and straight community.

[@akale2620]

Can't relate. Never bullied anyone. I'd leave y'all alone.

[@silverspoon386]

as heterosexual person, this kind of videos give me insight to understanding lgbtq+ people

[@clay_themultifan]

thank you 🙏

[@reharm_reality]

I was thinking about Idea's nails when she was speaking too so when Yena grabbed her hand I was cracking up lmao

[@lau_moonchild2756]

Omg same!

[@peerlesscucumber9522]

yena is so thoughtful and respectful of what she said or what she tried to pour her thoughts :( her and idea are my fave ppl from this whole lgbtq series

[@k-pop-k9057]

I’ve told my “friends” that I’m a lesbian (im Bi, I thought I was lesbian) and they almost told everyone in college as gossip or “well if you are lgbt then there is this girl who is…” Let me tell you it’s not fun. Especially when you live in an religious country plus homophobic😵‍💫

[@bluerosesv5905]

Just know that we love every lgbt member (as a 15 year old Bi

[@anadd6195]

It can place our lives in danger. I'm comfortable in my country but being outed is not ok.

[@nevergiveupbaby1720]

Yep at least you figured out they weren’t your friends before you told them anything else

[@shyzocas2381]

when they said that she’s not a giver because she has acrylic nails but her middle finger has no nail 😭😭😭 caught

[@penguiiiiiiiiiin]

We need more of these videos. The younger generation needs to see that it's normal to be whoever you are, whatever you like. Thank you for bringing a great group of people together for such a fun conversation.

[@maruxx3229]

But it's true, the feeling of vulnerability as a woman. 😭😭😭

[@addicted2artlikethe_flints611]

Life's can b rough and yes Living This Womankind /GirlKind Life 30+yrs ...different from Teen yrs 1996 to 2005 in Portland Oregon In North America...Only Problem as teen even 12yrs older men who horny ages 2?yrs up to 50/49 yrs. Certain 1s trying to get youngsters n their car _ Ewwww! NO! Keep Your Distance _ daring to even when teens only want to relax @ home listen to portable cd player outside house on the stairs while watching Varying Vehicles go by ..or all u wanna do is walk to store then walk through park enjoy the store bought treats icee drink and weather through public park . ( true facts __ )

[@heinrich.hitzinger]

@panko 'True facts', methinks...

[@nevergiveupbaby1720]

Everyone is vulnerable

[@RV-rs5zr]

I like the vibes that I get from this group.

[@agnesaugustin9313]

This was some of the most interesting conversations I've heard.. they genuinely asked most questions that even I as a straight person has and it was amazing to get such unabashed responses.. The world is healing and its conversations like this that will lead it towards a better place

[@shannonflorer6187]

I love listening and learning from this group! They are so fun!

[@simonesaldanha7110]

This episode was so informative and funny at the same time😂😘

[@AHuman-jn7dv]

less than a quarter of the way through the video but liking for what Yena said about trans people being "evolved gay" because that's a really funny way to explain it

[@naonabi]

IDEA LOOKS COOL

[@zamatif]

Nobody noticed Idea not having long nails on her right hand middle finger 🫣

[@helgaseele6203]

All of them are so funny, smart, sweet and beautiful ❤️ Love their videos~ Great team! It's very interesting to see the world from other points of view than hetero.

[@chandrabalisarkar7959]

3:05 i totally get her point cause i got outed during one of my seminars... one of my batchmate disagreed with one of my povs and she thought my paper being bias maybe because I love sleeping around with the lesbian girl of the university... mind it my paper was on LGBTQ rep in film industry and the seminar was about gender and sexuality

[@amye.8000]

I get that that was the topic but assuming someone is sleeping around is wrong and then attributing it to your paper is invalidating the work you put into it. Sorry this happened.

[@chandrabalisarkar7959]

@@amye.8000 thank you for understanding... i'll work harder in future...

[@swan8711]

yena is so respectful when asking

[@renliu9722]

i love this dynamic of these four and would love to see more of them 😍 they seem all very lovely and comfortable and funny! sending love to all of then and to staff 🥰

[@amteun]

their group chemistry is next level, i love how natural they are about their shared experiences but also continue to be open about and learn from the different struggles of each other. i also like that they speak for themselves and not necessarily claim to represent the entire subcommunity, but it's still freeing to have somebody speak up about the things that may be taboo for others. i feel connected to them in a strange way, and i think queer people who feel lonely can definitely find comfort from this and straight people will have learned something too. i know this is their fourth (?) video together but this group dynamic is truly unmatched, i hope we can get them back on the show often!! 🤍

[@daisneylacroix]

The way they revealed their ages with the Digimon reference 🤣🤣🤣

[@Jzaday]

I just adore this group. So open and so respectful and finally a group that includes bi and trans people

[@miniyoongles]

these four are my absolute favorite on this channel :))

[@elivile.]

As a bisexual transman, I cut my hair short(well, I shave it because I'm broke) because I just don't feel right having long hair. Sure, there are men that have long hair(i.e. metalheads, stoners, etc.), but long hair isn't for me. I prefer having shorter hair over long hair. And in regards for which I prefer percentage wise as bi; it's a 50/50 percent for me. I like men as much as I like women. I will say, however, that transgender men and women are attractive for me, too. I'm not excluding them at all. I came out as bisexual when I was 16, and then I came out as transgender when I was 20(however, I did in fact dress more masculine even before coming out in middle and high school; i.e. tomboyish looks and all that jazz). My family and friends support me wholeheartedly and I'm thankful for that. I'd truly hate having to be shunned for who I am as a person.

[@elivile.]

@lemonssssssss4 It truly is!

[@akale2620]

As a normal man, it's true. Short hair is easy af.

[@Lyo_Massart]

@@akale2620 normal… we have a hidden transphobe right here

[@elivile.]

@@akale2620 You should've just said straight cis man, my dude. rofl

[@crystalphoebeliew2725]

Glad to hear that mate

[@clay_themultifan]

i had all those worries back then, "coming out" .. all these people around me, my family, my relatives, my friends --- the biggest question in my self was "what if they wont accept me from who and what i am?" .. all my worries are gone when I came out to my mom and she just accepted me with an open arms, after that i didnt care anymore if other people cant accept me for what i am, what matters most was MY MOM ACCEPTED ME, thats enough for me ❤️

[@amaril-kb7131]

I thought this video is so interesting. I am a straight person and a lot of my questions were answered in this clip. I also had a lot of stereotypes and hurt some people subconscious with this. I didn’t want to make the same mistakes, so I never asked those questions I was so curious about. So thanks for speaking about it so openminded. I hope I will understand the hole community a lot better in the future.

[@miraclebug5250]

I'm honestly very straight but I love watching this group. It is almost like every time they are on I learn something new, which is what it think is best rather than just judging according to my "knowledge". LOVE THEM😘😘😍

[@BookNerd4Music]

I'm really loving these four and learning from their experiences even though I'm much older than all of them

[@vmateo2842]

Yena and Terrah killed me, hilarious 😂 LOVED the openness. Sex is the kind of topic my friends and I would even have at a restaurant packed with people, with no shame and restraints. I wish it would be normalized a bit more.

[@mcbapbabe]

You are right girl....the perfect guys are either gay, transgendered and/or taken. These are smart people I would want to hang out with, never a dull moment.

[@beebco]

I'm LGBTQ+ from America, it was very refreshing and fun to see some LGBTQ+ people from another country/culture, i loved it!

[@reneeluv1986]

Terrah is a whole ball of Fun 😃

[@mairaleao]

I'm obsessed with this video. Wow. Amazing content! Please, do more things like that.

[@midzy4life]

I need more of these 4 people together because I love them, their all so funny and beautiful Idea and Purum are also so pretty

[@РашмиБТС]

you guys are brave, and trust me these videos are probably gonna help the younger members of the community.

[@Kiwi-ws4tu]

I love this channel, because they answer questions so openly and make it funny, rather than akward or disgusting

[@biaswreckage]

love this rainbowwwww they had a good vibe even though they don't know each other I loved it

[@artsy.metamorphosis]

i really loved them, i would easily be friends with them if i met them, they are so lucid, with such good energy. (I'm bisexual, and I get emotional seeing that even in a conservative country they have the courage to be what they were born with. It is wonderful.)

[@kellypeters5379]

When one of my friends came out to me and our other friends it was very emotional. We al already knew he was gay but he just never really said it,so when he finaly did we were all so happy. I am happy to say that after that he just became so much happier and more alive than he had ever been. He has a steady boyfriend now and they live together. I don't know if they want to get married, but I am happy that we live i country were they atleast can if they want to. I hope lgbtq+ rights in korea will improve soon.

[@xisnothappy]

I love this group. I'd like to see an all lgbt group again where there are more guys or 2:2 gender wise. This group is 3:1 girls to guy ratio. I'd like to see an opposite 1:3 with a lesbian, trans man, bi guy, and gay man. Or a lesbian, bi girl, trans man, and gay man. Or lesbian, Trans girl, Bi guy, and gay man. I think those combos could all be interesting in their own ways 😳

[@karlaruiz8685]

Good idea!

[@hulahula8614]

This video is informative and very fun to watch. These guys were so open in their conversation.

[@Come_AsYouAre]

These guys are all so precious and warm w each other , bless themmm💕💕

[@U-Gozoo]

Idea is so pretty 😍

[@luna-thevives]

The whole video was educative in its own way. I never knew so many informations about the LGBTQ community before this

[@ineffablemars]

Terrah seems like such a good guy! And his English is so good! They all seem so cool

[@yeodeolb]

I love them. I wish I had more queer friends 🥺

[@zeirra.]

Hey guys thanks for the video! I just wanna point out 2 things; first, the beautiful trans girl (sorry for forgetting your name) is SO nice and incredibly respectful and caring thank you for your kindness princess. The second thing I wanna point out to the people in the comments, you have to bare in mind that the circumstances and situations involving LGBTQ+ differ so much from a certain country/culture to another. For example; from what I've seen in these few vids of this group about the Korean LGBTQ+ culture and my own culture in the middle east I'd say it's safe to assume that homosexual people fit and act like a very stereotypical version of what you expect their gender/sexuality to be. I'd say maybe to try to feel more validation and prove themselves as the person they are. For example; gay men usually would behave in a certain way that might seem extreme in other countries where homosexuality is acceptable and not a big of a deal or where they don't feel challenged to prove they are gay. Some even have to act and/or dress more feminine in order to prove their sexuality as it is a somehow clear indication in these type of cultures that that man is not straight. Same goes to lesbians feeling obligated to look masculine and behave in a masculine way or even change their voices. To some people that might be just a part of who they are but to most they feel like they "have to" or they would be looked down upon or invalidated. So; these type of videos can help you learn a bit about homosexuality in the eyes of a certain culture but never assume that that's the case in general because in the western society two people can look like they're two female best friends but they could easily be two gay men and you'd have no idea because sexuality and gender DOES NOT have to LOOK a certain way. Also.. switching exists so good luck with that too.

[@nitsa3173]

I like that they all talk openly.

[@gentleman2410]

Very honest conversations. I really appreciate it!

[@namjooningOT7]

Ok im into that Preety bi girl Pureum, she seems cool

[@susansharphaynes555]

When a person is outed its so disrespectful #1 it's zero their business #2 a homophobic friend of my brother was stabbed to death for outing a gay man #3 You never know how much the outed person has dealt with being made fun of, bullied and ostracized!!RESPECT EVERYONE REGARDLESS OF SEXUALITY!!! #4 I Love you all!

[@breezybri4574]

I loved this! And she is so right about percentages change with the person. I'm bisexual and my percentage is I'm 70% into females and only 30% into males.

[@Laticia1990]

give these four their own sitcom

[@oblivion97]

I LOVE THIS FOUR, GREAT CONTENT

[@ss-ck1mi]

god!!! i love being gay💘😩our comunity is so hilarious

[@mandanam.m.1745]

Yena seems like so much fun ❤

[@frankynath5847]

I just love them so much! 😍

[@xisnothappy]

I used to think I was bi and when I told people that in middle school they said "ew thats weird..." 💀 which I honestly didn't expect cuz I live in the US and it was a girl who said that 🧐 idk I just expected a girl to be nicer about that 🤧

[@reharm_reality]

Are you a girl/afab? In my experience cishet girls would be weird about me being pan because they think I must be attracted to them.

[@xisnothappy]

@@reharm_reality Yes but we were friends :( if she thought I told her for any reason other than telling my friend about me that's her problem 😰😭 I get what u mean tho that seems to be really common 🤧

[@reharm_reality]

@@xisnothappy That is definitely her problem and you deserve more supportive friends :((( but yeah it is really common hence why most of my friends are also queer

[@JimFeig]

In the US straight girls often goto gay clubs with friends. I even brought my straight younger brother so he ended up getting all their attention.

[@ononifechigor2241]

I was outed too in highschool when I was really confused...and confessed my feelings to a girl....and she told the whole class😂...and no one talked to me for the session 😂😂

[@snwwkt]

i’ve been outed in school and to my family and it really breaks you, for a while i’ve felt this paranoia about being betrayed again and it clings to me till this day. i full heartedly agree that it should be viewed as a crime

[@atiny_multi]

Okay but Idea is so pretty!!

[@noahpuke4136]

i wish the trans boy could be there too:( but the video was really good!! thanks to these ppl for sharing their stories for us to watch

[@ineffablemars]

😂😂 “she’s not a giver (top)” and she shows her nails!!

[@SwissLotus]

I love this group so much!!

[@makotohideki9509]

All of them look like nice and cool people, but I want Yena to be my friend so badly.

[@idalsuyeon]

idea n pureum are so JSDIDFJSDIFJ

[@lucasa1849]

If you're in an environment with people that would hurt you if they knew, outing can be very dangerous.

[@elleisamultifan]

i grew up in a pretty accepting and open family, ever since i was 4 if i would join contests in my school, my mom would contact my gay uncle, he does such an amazing job in make up and hairstyling that's why i grew up loving him even if i meet him only in those occassion, and we know few neighbors who are part of the community, my math tutor when i was 6 was lesbian too and i have always thought she's so cool because she was teaching me math🤣 one my bestfriends too in grade school was gay, so i really thought that it was just normal, that there are these many genders when i was young, so not until i turned 11 or 12 that i started to see and understand the issues in the society related to hate crime against them, i really DID NOT understand how these came to be since i have always thought that everyone knows there are girls who likes girls and boys who likes boys, as a younger me would put into words.

[@Imitationist]

I am interested to know if Idea is more receptive to be a giver or a taker when it comes to a relationship. Terrah has revealed his indirectly (with the top/bottom dynamic).

[@RoseSmell2005]

I'm pretty sure this video has a good intention. But the subtitles(embeded captions) says gender identity when it supposed to be sexual orientation. They are two different things. Gender is who you are and sexuality is who you're attracted to, roughly speaking. There's 3 cis gender people and 1 trans person in the video. Sexuality is each of the LGBT acronym.

[@possibly_a_sign_from_God]

0:55 So relatable as a bi person haha 6:18 Yess exactly!

[@clay_themultifan]

PDnim.. put all of them, even Jihoo, Dowon and Pani 😂 put them aaaalllll together in 1 show.. and wait i forgot his name, the other gay with Jihoo on a different concept.. 😂

[@animos1271]

LGBT Yena and Terrah should have switched position haha L for Idea G for terrah B for Pureum and T for Yena

[@catlover7015]

I’m glad that I’ve never been outed, but at the same time, it’s rather sad that I was so obvious about being aroace when I was younger and no one noticed because they didn’t know what it was. Like, in 5th grade or so a boy liked me (it spread throughout the class until people were asking me about it, he never confessed or anything luckily) and I told him that I felt I was too young, and I would date him when I turned 15 lol. I didn’t see any problem with that logic. And another time, my table at lunch was talking about crushes and someone asked me, and I just said that none of the guys were attractive and I couldn’t lie any of them since I’d known them from preschool. I was the personification of “why are none of the people at my school attractive??!!”

[@ButterFlyMan622]

please do more interviews with the same ppl i LOVE ALL 4 OF EM

[@leerose8342]

I think something got lost in translation because gender identity is not at all sexuality. A gender identity is like trans woman, trans man, nonbinary, cis woman, cis man, etc. Sexuality is like bisexual, gay, lesbian, etc. Hope this helps ❤

[@sinikkatress6452]

It was very interesting for me as a heterosexuell person to get all this information.....I wish that many people could now about it......to understand better Thank you ! ❤️👍

[@Bansarishah-]

I love this intrection

[@nandaschomakers6472]

Really interesting this talk thanks!

[@chandrabalisarkar7959]

with each video I'm falling for Idea

[@blaahhshs]

i fell for her in the first vid😻😻

[@Vvvvvvvvvssssssssssssss]

I love them

[@Ribeiro332]

A lot of people said about this so many times at the comments sections Gender identity and sexual identity are NOT the same thing

[@m3ow97]

Only one of them are a real thing

[@GDricequeen]

Keep up the great content super cute 🏳️‍🌈☺️

[@Jarvis_Mari]

My solution for the long nails is to leave my index finger and middle finger on my dominant hand shorter and get the rest long. 🤭 But I couldn't help but laugh about the nail comment lol.

[@wheeinisbae6568]

I love these 4 sm

[@MoMotaroDaisuke]

Yena is so beautiful oh my gosh😮

[@jazmingalloway3172]

Yo Terrah speaks English really good wow!

[@kangbalus5891]

They are really good in asking Wow

[@reginaaldana1311]

It would be very interesting if they included asexual and/or aromantic people in these talks

[@hazellguzman9020]

You’re not alone

[@hannah_rai178]

Yena is so pretty 😍

[@conanmyselfandi]

Ok I'm in love with Pureum

[@dishadas63]

I am asking this question since I couldn't find an answer. But is M to F transgender considered as a gay or heterosexual if they have a male partner? I mean no disrespect simple curiosity 🙏

[@Velvetx4cove]

Heterosexual. I forgot which episode, but it's a question that popped up. I wasn't sure of the answer until then, either, but I love how informative these videos are!

[@dishadas63]

@@Velvetx4cove thank you for answering. 😊

[@Liljakbat]

since M to F means she is a woman, her being with a man means she is heterosexual. Women who like men are heterosexual. She is not a man, so she can't be gay :)

[@dishadas63]

@@Liljakbat thank you for replying 🙏

[@RoseSmell2005]

Their sexuality can be anything actually. Just because a trans woman is with a man doesn't necessarily mean she's straight. She could be bi, pan, poly, omni etc.,.But in this case yes. She said it in an earlier video that she's hetero meaning she's only attracted to men. Same goes for a trans woman with a woman. It doesn't necessarily mean she's a lesbian.

[@foxesfromparis]

Yena's side profile is beautiful