How Does An Ex Come Back And Why

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In today's video, we are going to be addressing the question, "how does an ex come back and why?".
If we say something, its based on the present moment. If the ex feels like the ex is going nowhere they will break it off in the moment. But that doesn't mean that they will not regret that decision tomorrow. You need to understand that the truth of today does not mean it is the truth of tomorrow. Tip number one: people will get back together because they realize they were able to change. Many people ask the question, "why do people not change before the breakup?"Its because, before the breakup, we don't realize how important it is to change until the relationship has finally ended.
Don't feel guilty about the past relationship or the mistakes that you made, but rather make a change TODAY. Work on bettering yourself and improving your own life so that you become more attractive. As human, we are not built to lose what we have. In your ex's mind, they think they still have you...until you participate in "no contact". Watch this video to learn what makes an ex want to come back into your life!
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[@spiroguru]

do what you have to do to be happy..dont relay to someone else for your hapiness...exes come and go....

[@goldscythe6242]

In the process of making yourself better, you will most likely meet someone new. OR you will grow so much that you may not want to be back with your ex.

[@chedukanimachelela4399]

well said

[@scorpion1828]

Exactly because now I don’t want my ex back because she’s an ex for a reason

[@MrsMoore1]

Whew! Speak a word!👏👏👏 Exactly how I feel. Now that we are a part, it’s like my vision has been made clearer of what I DON’T want and all that I was sacrificing in the relationship. After my glow-up, it’s not appealing for me to go back. I can’t be the only person that changes/ grows..

[@5xnccanes327]

My ex dumped me on feb. 6. I’ve been in NC ever since and I gotta be honest, I’m really not missing her. And I WILL NOT Contact her!!! Stay strong y’all!!!!

[@gbalo241]

im going through that now and im in that area too lol did the same thing i do try to talk to her

[@MaryGj]

How you forgot her ?

[@MultiStar84]

An ex comes back because it failed with the side-dude or she ran out of options and needs an ego boost.

[@zerihunchekol3860]

They always come back after realizing the grass is not greener on the other side. Never be an option for someone who ran away from you to get somebody better and comes back when it didn't work for them.................

[@riddhitakyar1153]

I feel this channel has been so supportive to my growth....so motivating... You guys are doing a great service to all of us, not just by helping us get our ex back, but by actually encouraging us to grow for ourselves first❤️ Thank you 🙏🏼

[@kathiresanmuthu710]

You said it well. Work on yourself, improve your value. Very sensible and scientific advice!

[@maviszer]

This is really powerful

[@illmeeillmee9373]

Has anyone here been rejected/ignored by a CRUSH and they came back? like months later after you've moved on?

[@nassleer279]

I have to thank you for giving me so much hope and confidence back you are truly god sent I’m going to follow step by step starting on myself.. Change to a new and improved better Man

[@poojashetty7450]

Very much needed for the time being..... Thank you so much Love from INDIA 🇮🇳 LUCKILY AM THE FIRST ONE TO COMMENT 🤭

[@keithfaith1132]

Wow am excited to watch this video 😍

[@terminemuradyan686]

Thank you so much 🙏❣

[@travis6694]

It’s been almost three months since the breakup and they look all lovey dovey on social media.

[@yolandachamboko7151]

Nice video😍

[@starsandoval6526]

Thank you this was very helpful and I've been definitely making these changes I'm just hoping that after going to court on February 15th I will be able to have at some point a way of speaking to him because I miss him every second every minute every hour but I have definitely been suffering and making a lot of changes to my life

[@apope06]

I dumped a girl TWICE and came back after a week both times. The reason was I broke up on principle for behavior that I misunderstood as a significant violation. In other words, i came back because I never stopped loving her. I never wanted to dump her.

[@terminemuradyan686]

Love your videos ,ALEX you are the Best!!!

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Appreciate your kind words, Termine. Coach Natalie

[@millicenttyu2123]

Thank you soo much alex for the advice 🙏🙏💞💞💞💞

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

You're welcome, Millicent! Coach Alex

[@mariaqueenie9834]

Alex you're amazing 👏 ❤ 💖 💗 i always view all your videos This is Maria fro Phillipines

[@jhietanola8877]

Watching from Saudi idol Alex God bless

[@ragishirom436]

Iam making a comment here just to make another comment later on when she comes back.Even if she doesn't come back,i will commeent again if i find myself strong enough.Thanks for the video 👍

[@keithfaith1132]

Hi, Mr Alex

[@fatemaal-jalali445]

can u make a video about if the no contact rule works on stubborn egoistic exes please

[@NicoleEivissa]

Alex: "I need you to destroy the like button - " Me: *done that before the video even started* :DDD Love you guys so much!

[@rspreeya1545]

Love your videos, Alex! Always so empowering.. I do have a question. My long distance ex broke up with me about a year ago after a 3 year relationship (I always strived for the best I could, but he kept saying I did not meet his needs), he immediately jumped into a relationship with someone else that failed after 6 months, but somehow despite the distance and the problems, we're still in touch till today over phone calls/texts. When he's cold, I would be distant and try to focus on my things, and he would initiate a text. After a year now, he says there could be a future, but he's still not sure about me and that being in any kind of relationship is not a priority for him at the moment (he's focusing on stabilising his career). What more can I do to create attraction with my long distance ex.. or get him to be more certain about me for the time being till we meet in person?

[@SexAndCandyHair92]

Last I knew my ex is in a new relationship. I’ve been trying to stay off social media for fear that I will see something that bothers me (we have a lot of mutual friends) it’s been 4 months of no contact. I’ve been focusing on myself. The first month or two was extremely hard though.

[@ApostleThe344]

Hey hows it going now for ya?

[@dreh.407]

You got this💪🏾

[@sammansell1590]

I feel for you so hard to listen to and hear about .it cuts deep .you can be strong

[@winbatyleo7010]

Hi my friend.my name is Winifred loiea from PNG 🇵🇬. And I am going Thrue this brockup problem. But your service help me to manege this life. So I want to make a comment about your service. This service help more people to understand and maintain the situations.

[@sumaiya5995]

Hey Alex.. I have followed your advice as well as coach Natalie.. It really helped me to realise many things about my love life. My ex keeps giving me Hot and cold response.. This is the second time I have started No contact period.. But he is calling me.. I didn't answer his calls... Now plz tell me what to do.. He thinks I have changed a lot..

[@thomaspeaster4777]

How do I get my long distance finance back with the travel bans and now she is with someone else. We were together for 3 of the most wonderful years ever. Officially together for 2

[@howeverhh3264]

My ex is really stubborn I’m doing the no contact rule rn and I’m ready for what I have to do when the time comes it’s just that I’m scared if it doesn’t work I’m scared to love someone again and they’ll just leave me I showed her I was desperate in the start and now I’m showing her that it’s not a big problem

[@mariaqueenie9834]

You're so great i learning a lot from you ... I'm LDR he always abandoned me but when i followed your advice now he chasing me bwa..... bwa ... love you alex You're great This is MARIA FROM PHILIPPINE

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

I'm glad my advice worked for you! Best of luck my friend!

[@BonjourBijou445]

It sounds so easy in principle but in application it’s awfully difficult to do. I think my ex is already with someone else. I’m heartbroken all over again, but more than anything, I miss not feeling anxiety. It’s been four months since we broke up and two since we last spoke.

[@andreasalcido1687]

Hi coaches I’m was recently broken up with from my long distance relationship we’re practically together for 2 and half years and the reason he broke up with me was because he started seeing a girl and now he says it won’t work but we have known each other since we are kids so we have been in an out of each other lives but I do really love him and I know he does too and I’m just trying to take it day by day with no contact and i want guidance on how to heal from the pain and hopefully for me to feel better and for him to do better too that way we can finally be together Thanks for reading

[@sammansell1590]

I feel your video help alot .i am not handing it well ,as he ended as he find gf .but he saying we are only work colleague .but wants us to be friends and do not hate him .I still cry over what he done and said and some things are not good .i wish I could let go he said he I am desperate to find someone ,he say put my self first .I think he wants me to wait for him why he saying.i done with hurt no more .just need to get over him .wishful thinking I guess .he did not want me .

[@melodysakala9290]

It is just difficult

[@kuldeepsingh-fs7hu]

If we are in long distance relationship and what if during no contact rule she make another relationship??

[@alialtamimi3317]

My ex left me after 5yrs and moved on with some in the first week. I see her everyday because we work together but she keeps saying we are done we did 5yrs it didn’t work out move on. I want to be happy and you didn’t make me happy. But she keeps taking about our future plans and comes to my brothers house to see the kids and talks to me about having kids and biking a house all our dreams that we shared at once. PLEASE HELP GUYS SHE is so Confused but keeps saying that I hurt her and she will never ever be put through that again with me and she only remembers me in the most negative ways

[@JojoJojo-uc7cs]

Jess from Lebanon, i need you to answer me if my ex hasn’t stopped texting me though he asked to end up the relation. Iam confused, what is he trying to do, does that mean he doesn’t want me in his life again

[@DavidEOwen]

How can they see your growth if they have blocked you on social media?

[@novel-loverAriya]

ok, 💙

[@AnonymousxxxV]

Does this work even if she is with someone new?

[@somyashrivastav1534]

Make a video on.. When your ex cheated you but aren't ready to accept that yet. And already in a happy relationship with someone else. Do karma ever work?? Please reply.. As you said you read every single comment.. I'm waiting you to reply It's already been 1 year. I'm dealing with this.. Amd also in no contact from 7-6 months

[@priyankaganesh5797]

Hy coach alex ..we are in long distance relationship for about 2 yrs but now he had to let it go since his mom dint want to work due to some indian parents mentality of caste and religion stuff . Make some video to gt bak an ex who is mammas boy

[@proudcabbage2665]

I was trying to get a coaching section with you but sadly I can't afford it now

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for reaching out. ⭐ Want To Tell Us More About What You Are Going Through? Call Our Hotline Now 👇: 786.635.8373 Coach Adrian

[@greenvlog3517]

Hey alex . Everything is work in my relationship after a many drama on her. But suddenly after she lost her job on my company she move to other town because of covid19 . She suddenly silent at all never reply to my comment on fb. All the love we spend lost. I come to her work place far away from my town n she never appeal on me. I brain about this. How to make her want me back n go work on my company again since covid19 is almost gone.

[@Cobyt501st]

Does no contact work a second time?

[@efisavvidou7243]

Alex I keep contact, we are texting, I don’t begin, I don’t ask him anymore to be together... he is already in a rebound relationship but he still keeps contact with me. I am who is texting him first of course 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@noneya2355]

My ex lives an hour away. I feel this has been a factor in the break up and now he is seeing someone that lives closer. We have a child together. Is there hope?

[@Tony-sw3ft]

My ex keeps trying to talk to me about how shes not happy with her new man. What should i do?

[@mrptrader7788]

Hello coach.I have been in no contact.she asked for a break not a total end.now I have changed my life.she is starting to comment on my stories on instagram.what should I do next

[@andreacortez4274]

He broke up with me. Told me I deserved someone better than him. He always looks at the things I post. I have gone No Contact for 1 month. I don’t know what to do now?

[@krish9939]

But they also can see your growth and think you don't need them anymore

[@naomimpakula1315]

I have been staying with him for the past year and he ended things with me 2 weeks ago and I haven’t tried to contact him, I’m applying the no contact rule. Should I text him to ask for my stuff at his place ? Or keep in with the no contact rule

[@FactFuse99]

she want to talk to me but she hesitate because she think will reject her what to do

[@minioncid8985]

How to know he is interested in me

[@a9gel76]

We both love eachother but due to cast difference... There family not accept our relationship soo in this situation....what should I do??

[@kimberleypuddicombe6168]

My old bf says that he finds true happiness in me

[@peetee5282]

My ex unfriended me on facebook during no contact.Does that mean he has moved on?

[@nestinaviolachemba7914]

👌

[@lisat5666]

How's he supposed to know the “new” me?

[@remaborlado7028]

We break up 04-19 and i do radio silence now he contact me and he get apology from what he did !

[@koyenadutta5747]

He talks to me when I call him. Shall I continue this or go no contact? He talks to me like a friend about vacays and all and I do the same.But he said my voice scares him and he didn't seem interested.It felt I am giving hundred person.It did not feel different.

[@sayanwitadas7630]

I and my ex were in a very good relationship, very good understanding was between us.. but my father did not want him to be in my life, so some family problems were created and he decided to leave me without even informing me.. all of a sudden i came to know that ha has moved on.. and i was shattered.. i tried to contact him.. and his mom too.. but none of them want me anymore.. they want me to move on .. but i cant move on still now.. its been 7 months he'S not talking to me... he has blocked me every where.. what can i do...please.. tell..

[@proudcabbage2665]

My ex girlfriend cheated on me and I confronted her about it and she beg I told her that we should go in our separate ways she begs me so I forgive her we have been together over 4 years plus and we are in a long distance relationship, a week later we had a little argument which she told me that she has lost her feelings and wants to break up, so I tried to talk to her to change her mind but she insisted so I have been watching your videos and am on day three on no contact

[@corny_john]

10months ago my girlfriend left me for another dude. We were 1 year togheter and after i found out she was a month with another dude she blocked me on everything. The problem is deep inside i still love her. I found out she broke up with that other dude but i'm still blocked on everything will she ever come back? Ps: sorry if my english is bad i'm from Belgium

[@mariakamenova9249]

I don’t consider this guy that I met in the summer,had sex,he was interested and all of a sudden he just got cold. I don’t know I forced a conversation to see where I am,where he is and he said that he can’t respond to my feelings and he wishes for both to get out of this circle and find our soul mates. So I consider this for an ending. Sorry for that I cut off everything,but I just felt it that way.

[@emmawatson3636]

@coach alex, i did block my ex somedays before & he hates blocking.. now i unblocked him but did not msg him for 9days..now what can i do? please help me!

[@javierdomenech8905]

I need you!!! Help!!

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for reaching out, Javier. ⭐ Need Immediate 1-on-1 Custom-Tailored Coaching | Schedule A Call With Us 👇: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Coach Adrian

[@itayelbaz1884]

A friend told me my ex stopped following me and she deleted our photos together from IG. Im not on social media first becuase i dont want to see her with someone new and second, i wanted to change my life for good. Now my mind is still on her even after 1 year of breakup. The first half was ups and downs with talking cuz we had to close things with out apartment and seconds half radio silence exepct for this recent unfollowing of her from me on IG. What can I do so ill be happy? Its weird but still think about her even though i dont want to be with her agaib

[@SusmitaSarkar-hl1ll]

He doesn't love me what can I do and he don't want to marry with me?

[@harshrajput7607]

Hey alex, just want your opinion, a year ago my ex brokup with me and after 6 month she came back with regret and approced me and planed a relationship unfortunately this time it was long distance relationship and was very serious about us Everything was fine but suddenly after one month one day she suddenly brokup with me and moved in relationship just next day and within week they came close more than we ever was.. the reason she gave was her intemacy needs and no future, I'm stucked what i should do now move on and let it go.

[@angelaparker6668]

Can't see the private video to watch

[@charlottendinelaoshekutamb2637]

Hi, what does it mean,when your ex comes out of no were and hit your ass .. without me noticing it

[@lizjim5535]

I don’t see the link

[@heatherceravolo161]

My Ex now has legal issues with another woman.( not sure details). He has started ignoring me though. I don't know what there relationship was either. ( I may have been the side chic or rebound, but not sure). He told me he loved me but I'm not sure if that was a lie. I want to at least hear his side of what happen. Do you think he will come back and share if I leave him alone or do you think he will walk away for good considering the situation?

[@chandrahaskamkar9404]

❤️

[@deborahnormegbor3040]

My ex is married but still want to be with me what should I do pls

[@Kiddah91]

Hi, So I had a short relationship of 2 months. But we saw each other a lot, talked on whatsapp almost everyday. She broke up with me, saying she's going to get too attached and there's no point. Because her culture parents wouldn't accept me. I was needy also, pretty sure that played a part. I've changed, but she doesn't view my Instagram stories, not sure about my posts. She also blocked me just from viewing her Instagram stories, but she didn't block me from her actual page and she still has me on whatsapp. No mutual friends, so don't know how to show her my change. Been in no contact for about 3 weeks. Havnt seen her for almost 2 months now. I wrote a accountability letter, just for my peace. Not sure if I should give it to her. Any suggestions please for my situation? Thanks.

[@user-zk7mc3jv5m]

My ex says he left to make himself happy. We were together 27 years. We still live together, he sleeps at friends on his days off. We spent the weekend together, he says he enjoys my company. Can I still get him back?

[@chandrugajapathy7802]

My ex she is married and i am married we were in hearty relationship for two years then suddenly i started behaving needy so she left me and again came back after two years and at that time i expressed my feeling slowly she started distant and now she is not messaging, talking or meeting how to get her back what i expect is her care affection and preseence daily in my life . Please help

[@khwahish94]

Hey Alex..my relationship is too complicated..but I'm so hopeful as you suggest something wonderful... He has a lot of trust deficit in me, he doesn't trust me on any single thing...that's he broke up with me..please suggest something man.. Love from India 😘😘❤

[@rashmsenglishworld8829]

Same here...

[@rustyshakleford9681]

How does your ex see that you have changed if they don't talk to you or see you?

[@rustyshakleford9681]

These videos are dumb false hope. If they left screw them they didnt value your love.

[@cathalwalker3308]

My ex broke up with me when she went to Dubai and met another guy and they went to the Maldives together for a week only a month ago. She came back 2 weeks ago and started wanting to hang out with me and we slept with each other twice and she would kiss me every so often and when we went for walks she would hold my hand and tell me she loves me but she doesn’t want to be in a relationship anymore. She then flew over to England only a few days ago to see the guy she met in Dubai and she didn’t tell me. I kept begging for her back and now she says she doesn’t like me and that I am annoying and that she is finished for good and that she might get into a relationship with this new guy. I feel like she made me fall for her again during those 2 weeks and she was playing games with me. I still love her so much and I desperately want her back but she has gone cold towards me and says that she just wants to be friends with me now and I don’t know what to do because I still really love her and want to be with her. I don’t know what to do please someone help me

[@isaiahfavour7601]

Hi Alex I’m confused because my boyfriend is ignoring me after asking for a break what do I do

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for reaching out, Isaiah. Please take a look at this article, believe it will be helpful for you. www.withmyexagain.com/blog/how-do-i-give-my-ex-space/ Coach Alex

[@kenouk6183]

My ex and i broke up about 2 weeks ago, i immediately used nc, she hasnt blocked me on facebook but she doesnt post anything or connect to the facebook messenger, im just worried about her, i dont hate her because it was my fault, i was needy, and maybe still am, i would just like to know if she’s ok....

[@victoriamiller6539]

My wife left me after 19 years. She even got a boyfriend now. He is nearly perfect but I think he is a narcissist. She is living with him now. I'm currently doing the no contact and its rough. She is starting to post pics to my kids. She knows they going to show them to me. He been with her for 4 months now. Is it a lost cause.

[@girls2762]

Hello...18years together (10married), left me out of the blue for his affairs partner claiming he loves me but not in love anymore and fell in love with the other one. We have kids. 3m separate (2 of distance to decide what he wanted, 1 “separated” decided to continue with the other one). Any help, is welcome. Thank you for your advice

[@gbalo241]

i was married ten years my wife is with another man downgraded at that

[@DanielSmith-np4fe]

Could some body contact me.....we've been broken up for 3mons her family has been the problem!!.... .This isn't the first time!!....No contact in 21/2 mons. Would lke some advise on rather to move on.

[@alefiyaalibhai911]

If you are in no contact..long distance and your person had been giving you mix signals, and one day he has no feelings for you and sees no future with you. The funny part is,he keeps posting quotes on his wgatsap status. My question is .. should you read the status or no and what should I do ?

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for reaching out, Alefiya. Please watch this video, I believe it will be helpful for you. kzbin.info/www/bejne/bam6l2OJfLR2pNU Coach Alex

[@Swiss_Girl]

mine came back 2.5 month after no contact. the breakup was mutual

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Glad to hear that!

[@lgminsight4875]

Is it not fully over when you're blocked on social platforms?

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for reaching out, Lloyd. ⭐ Want To Tell Us More About What You Are Going Through? Call Our Hotline Now 👇: 786.635.8373 Coach Adrian

[@lgminsight4875]

@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity I tried to call and left a voicemail

[@rehanicky5870]

How to get your ex back if they left you because they found some one else and you want to get your ex back desperately

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for reaching out, Reha. I understand what you're going through. ⭐ Need Immediate 1-on-1 Custom-Tailored Coaching | Schedule A Call With Us 👇: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Coach Natalie

[@mml5808]

My ex broke up wi me cuz depression last month on the same day that she told me where she wants me to propose, and we’re in the same friend group as well as that so I’m drifting from my friends now as she’s on the Group FaceTime’s Any advice?

[@khalidakhan243]

Im so disturb ..he continously ignores me...and he said he have no morr feelings for me ... Please tel me what should i do..i really love him

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Hey Khalida, I am sorry to hear about that, I know it must be difficult to go through something like that. We would love to know more about your situation so I'd highly suggest you booking a coaching appointment with us! www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ - Love Advice Team

[@chaitalidabhi4934]

Email ?

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for reaching out. ⭐ Want To Tell Us More About What You Are Going Through? Call Our Hotline Now 👇: 786.635.8373 Coach Adrian

[@beshirrickymohamudally56]

🇨🇵❤

[@iqrasaad6158]

Where is ur emaail

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for reaching out, Iqra. [e-mail] Coach Alex

[@jenniferbohn433]

Have you ever helped lesbian couples

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Thank you for reaching out, Jennifer. ⭐ Need Immediate 1-on-1 Custom-Tailored Coaching | Schedule A Call With Us 👇: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Coach Adrian

[@sonickhanzada]

Hi coach, I had my wife we are married in distance relationship She came here to Canada on 8 day in home we had argument where I raised my hand but didn’t hurt her; She extrapolate it and left home with police on 20th day now she in protected custody ever since then. She have blocked me on WhatsApp and cell phone contact. Kindly assist its 30 days she left home and 40 days when we were last together