How Forgiveness Will Transform Your Life - Lisa Nichols

[@ososandi]

I love this “idea” of not measuring forgiveness based on the level of an offense. As I’m on my own journey to self forgiveness I realize that I should and can forgive myself for the big things just as I forgive myself for the small things.

[@rgangan84]

To heal oneself from abusive & toxic relationship, forgiveness is the best solution to move on.

[@anyangthiep8802]

Lisa, what I love about you is the way you celebrate other people success and accomplishments. You want everybody to do well in life. That is so rare at this time we arr living in right now.

[@augustababeta]

In tears! I had lost so many parts of me due to bullying in school, including me an A-class performer, I have just left an abusive job where my productivity dropped to less than a quarter of before, I am fighting now for a cause that is not mine against an organization that betrayed me and now have to face the people who alienated me head on again. Everywhere someone needed forgiveness, and I struggled in light of how I hurt or performed poorly in light of those moments. Memories of me flooded my mind. You have given me the strength to see the God in them, not judge and in turn not judge myself because they themselves will grow from love and recognition of who they are. It has freed me from the responsibility of being their savior because I see them as whole. Oh my God.

[@francetineinman-dennard8610]

Forgiveness has no options when it comes to your destiny, even when we have been betrayed or hurt to the core! Forgiveness doesn’t free the person who hurt you, but it free you of bitterness and hatred. Thank Lisa

[@candacejones1525]

Lisa! I have had to listen to you speak about forgiveness countless times before it actually set in. Sometimes the most difficult person to forgive is yourself. Yesterday, I hit the reset button for myself and decided to give myself permission to play full out! Learning to forgive myself for my short comings was the release that I needed to let my inner beastess out! Thank you for reminding me that I am enough, I deserve forgiveness and I AM ENOUGH!! #BOL

[@ImanRefaat]

Forgiveness isn't measured by the depth of betrayal. How fantastic. Thank you! You transformed my life since I started learning from you. Gratitude from Egypt.

[@r011ing_thunder6]

Iman Refaat how's it like in Egypt? God bless

[@monaepitts5436]

BOL I just appreciate this episode more than words can say. I had to just apologize to my adopted son because I was not forgiving him for the years of things that he had stolen from me. Your story of Nelson Mandela really moved us. Yes I allowed him to watch and he also apologized for not allowing God to take control of his life. We are now reconciled and making a unified commitment to live a transformed lifestyle. Thank You Lisa for being a fabulous example of humility and wonderful single motherhood.

[@janetfrancis2618]

Lisa my biggest lesson i just received from your presentation is recognizing the selfishness I harbour within when i make it so difficult to forgive.I make it all about me and the pain i experience.From today I want to remove that burden from my chest and just let go, yes let it go whatever who ever just let it go. Yes I commit to letting it go and moving on. Thank you Lisa. Big reveal. Thanks.

[@MirandaCasiano]

Thank you for this video, Lisa!! My #BOL is "Don't measure the level of betrayal or persecution to the access of forgiveness." I know I have to forgive the boy who abandoned me when he knew that I was broken and needed his support. It is hard, but it will give me the inner strength to find the right man who will always encourage and support me in the same way I would for him. Thanks so much 💜💜💜💜

[@z.poindexter7921]

Miranda Casiano hi sister I can relate and your not alone even though we may feel it sometimes. My husband left me and our two boys with nothing but on my journey I found Lisa this amazing woman who I know is going to transform me and I’ll find that independent woman deep down and well find the strength to forgive and something greater will come to us. Have a beautiful journey love and light💜

[@sheriesehenderson8518]

Im gonna practice this method . Im releasing the pass relationships that hold up my time. And focusing on myself.

[@missyedwards8066]

Beautiful message today and right on time for me. I choose to completely forgive myself and push the reset button. I also choose to forgive all the other wrongs that others have done to me to free up space for love. Thank you Lisa!

[@brwnskinnedbeauty]

BOL: if you want to step into the best version of yourself, you have to walk into the door of forgiveness. (Wow)

[@kinshalove4217]

I needed to forgive myself for not showing up fully in relationship with the most incredibly direct,soul-activating friend in my life. I held onto what I didn't do in our relationship. Now that i've recovered from the shame of being absent in her life, I can reach out to her in sincerity and humility. Thank you Big SIs Lisa for always bringing the good news at the right time. You are the best.

[@baxterntshonono3458]

Lisa I'm so addicted to your teachings ever since i went through your teachings from you tube i just can't get enough of them thank you for leading me on the path of success you are my mentor

[@MeezynLocaE]

I have been going through many different videos, listening and watching many different speakers. But I I also drawn to you Lisa and your speeches and videos. I believe I have found "my tribe". Your messages really speak to me and I find so much more about myself that I didn't know. Your messages move me and motivate me and inspire me. I have begun my mirror work and I am so excited to see where my new journey takes me and brings me. I am grateful for finding your channel because it is helping me in the areas where I struggle, the areas I don't like about myself and the areas I want to reach my highest.

[@sharronmcgee9295]

#BOL! #speakandwrite Lisa Nichols, I met you (not physically) five years ago on KZbin...something inside of me said "remember her" and I said "I will." As I've been spending the last few weeks on your virtual campus, I have re-discovered me. The me that I tucked away, because I allowed people to smother my brightness. The most "unforgivable moment" came in the form of me losing my twin sister to Cancer...that could have been treated (in the beginning) successfully. But the choices that my brother in-law chose, led to her demise and all of us looking up saying, "What happened?" Now you might say, it may not have been choices...but a year before, my brother was at stage 4 with no hope of surviving and with the choices that his wife made, there is no cancer. My point is, I thought I had forgiven him until I heard this lesson. "Forgiveness is not an option." If you want to step into the greatest version of you, you have to be willing to walk through the door of forgiveness without measuring the act of hurt or betrayal." WOW!! I never thought that this would be a problem for me! This is one thing that I truly have to work through because I have to help others, possibly my brother in-law. Please keep me in your thoughts

[@renee3498]

this is so true---I had to forgive some people and it made a real difference in my life. I would recommend forgiving people who have wronged you and forgive yourself.....do this for YOURSELF

[@nanaanan4731]

Thank you so much for sharing the lessons regarding forgiveness. "To be the best version of yourself, you have to walk through the process of forgiveness." Nelson Mandela is a great example of that. Thank you again, for sharing.

[@thembindimande3860]

Over the years I felt entitled to my right not to forgive because of the pain I went through then. I had a list of things that I was not to prepared to forgive. I didn't realise that my healing has nothing to do with who hurt me and what was done to me. The choice I make now to forgive has cleansed my spirit and set me free. I benefit a lot from letting go.

[@thembindimande3860]

Rainy Mesmudi Thank you and stay blessed.

[@arleathahenderson5461]

Lisa, Great piece!!! Touched a current situation in my life with a friend who I betrayed verbally; although not intentionally. I know forgiveness is powerful, even it is not an option, it challenges the inner fibers of our relationships and our being. Nelson was an ordinary man with extraordinary convictions. I love one of your quotes, "Conviction and convenience do not live on the same street". I choose conviction, and to live an extraordinary life!!! Thank you for verbalizing the heart and soul of relationship and life challenges.

[@ReformationOfBeauty]

This conversation hit deep for me. I have been burned out for a while and I began to recognize it only after I had been burned out for sometime. One of my biggest hurdles has been holding things in that hurt me and withholding forgiveness from those who were not sorry or who saw no issue for their actions. I had to be reminded that Jesus did not do that to me. His love that He so freely gives to me I do not deserve it so how Can I withhold forgiveness. I also am learning to forgive myself for allowing things to happen for allowing my boundaries to be broken for allowing my pain and stress to break me. I am on a journey for God to heal me so that when I interact with others I can be used to help heal others. As I said this goes deep for me and this response is only a corner of what you shared is doing for me.

[@preciousg.e.m.ministries3971]

Thank you so much for the message. Unforgiveness is a hard and rough road to walk down, especially since are you carrying a destructive weight by choice. By God's grace forgiveness lifts the load and takes the pain away, allowing you to walk down a much smoother path. God is good. Be blessed.

[@BeckyJBenes]

Amen, sister Lisa. In all the work I do with small business owners the process of forgiveness is the first step. It has the power to melt away the wall that separates you from your True self, others and your God. For me, forgiveness is no longer a choice, it is always the first step in my clients Transformation. Once the wall is melted amazing blessings flow into their lives and they experience true joy, peace and abundance. Thanks for sharing.

[@biglifebigdreamswithsheryl9392]

Yes, yes! Forgiveness itself is transformational and who else could be a better teacher than Nelson Mandela’s! Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us....I truly Love what you are doing and YOU! Thanks Sis!

[@juanitanovember7135]

Yes YES!!!! Tears of joy i have no words but THANK YOU for using my former president as an example of forgivness. Thank you GOD BLESS. 🙂

[@Myraisacutiepie]

Lisa I am from India , I love you because you are unapologetically you . I had a deeply saddened experience once being rejected but when I see you talking loaded with emotions for the gal pals I gain strength from you will always look up to you for inspiration

[@Diamond18116]

YES..I USE TO HATE OTHERS NOW I HAVE LEARNED TO GIVE UP AND FORGIVE ..I FEEL SO LIGHT AND GOOD INSIDE MY BODY AND HEART...THANKS A LOT LISA

[@javihntay6445]

The videos that you posted 3 years ago, is transforming my life today. You're incredible ❤️

[@karimamoor2037]

What was the video?

[@kereendawkins882]

Forgiveness is the key....is hard at time....but it's a must. Love your work Lisa . Love From Jamaican 🇯🇲land we love.

[@aaronhernandez3622]

I keep sharing your videos because I believe in you, your authenticity, your message so much. Where have you been all my life. I'm so happy there are many videos to watch. My aha moment was thinking of forgiveness as not an option even though it shows up in the space of choice. Mind blown. I'll apply that from now on. But you know, the hardest thing right now is to forgive myself for past things I've said or done. It weighs me down, but I have to let that energy go. Energy grows where energy goes.

[@beverleyjohnson4052]

You make me feel like I'm worth something!!!

[@jazmineperez9045]

I’ve learned this lesson years ago and I practice everyday. It’s great to hear the story about Nelson Mandela. 🙏😊

[@OrangePLUM31]

THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! Listening to this has helped me realize that "Not forgetting" is another form of not forgiving. Not forgetting the pain can leave you trapped in faux forgiveness... THANK YOU, Lisa! I am FREE!!!!

[@yvettebergh6146]

Suffered a psychotic break and suffer from severe anxiety and had a gastric bypass finding myself isolating from relationships. Utilising the tools in these videos to rebuid myself from my roots ..greetings from South Africa

[@LisaNichols]

Heyy Yvette! I am here for you!

[@WWZenaDo]

Thank you thank you thank you Lisa Nichols for being a sane, strong voice of kindness, forgiveness & love in this world. You say the things that a truly good parent would say to their children, which is healing balm to those of us who had less-than-stellar (or even viciously scapegoating, narcissistic) parents.

[@disme2072]

Your an angel and Godsend, I can tell by looking and watching you that you are GENUINE AND YOU ARE Approaching THROUGH YOUR HEART!

[@augustababeta]

Lisa I was in Johannesburg when you were there! You are a ROCK in my life. I owe transformation and love to you and to Vishen. I cannot describe how you are like the long lost hope I didn't see anywhere else in the course of my lifetime - but now I've taken it on as my own. I listen to your work a minimum of once a week and I see you. I would love to expand your presence here. PLEASE contact me when you next visit. It will bring me to tears and I would LOVE to serve you! XxX

[@augustababeta]

I work in the arts and will be in Johannesburg soon. My email is [e-mail].

[@anjaniefarrell7610]

I luv u lisa,thank u sooooo much for helping me to learn how to forgive myself first and then others.

[@soultherapytw]

Thank you for dissecting forgiveness for ME. I, too, have been holding the belief that I am only to forgive based on the measure of hurt or betrayal I've experienced. As you shared in this teaching I felt a weight release from me. I've known that forgiveness is for me, but I did not exercise the idea that it is a requirement for ALL of my freedom into next level living. Thank you, again.

[@baxterntshonono3458]

Lisa I'm learning so much from your teachings I'm gaining strength to stand up again my self belief has been strengthened i love you Lisa from Botswana southern Africa

[@lydiangaca2802]

Its been 2 years since I heard this video and I still realized that Forgiveness is the best choice to make especially after the betrayal I recently went through from my cousin and boyfriend. Thanks Lisa for the wake up call

[@pscutt9883]

This showed up on my feed just in time. I love how God hears our prayers and responds in the right time. I was accused and was hurt and in tears wondering why. But before I shut the door of my heart I decided to leave it open for forgiveness. I can do this and I got confirmation as I watched this episode. Thank you Lisa and my tribe for facilitating this place of retreat and renewal.

[@stopsweepingitunderthecarpet]

I have walked through that door of forgiveness after being made an outcast by my siblings, without measuring the act of hurt and betrayal and it felt great that I did not have to walk around with what felt like a huge burden on my shoulders

[@phayreed1099]

Thanks for being a doer and healer...

[@anujuppal4406]

Hi Lisa.. another heart stirring & changing video.. thank you.. thank you.. thank you.. "hurt people hurt " .. "forgiveness is not a choice ".. it's a MUST !!

[@kyungyu1481]

I am so falling in love with you. It's so clear how you love yourself and in doing so, it is allowing me to love myself more. I have been defining myself so narrowly all of these years that I have in turn, trapped others in narrow definitions of who I believe them to be. Your teachings are helping me forgive myself and then forgive others. Your energy is magnificent and your transparency is truly powerful. It reminds me that being naked is one of the most powerful things. Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you!!

[@belindahwanjiru9952]

Thank you Lisa...... yeah Forgiveness is not measured by the size of hurt or betrayal.

[@kristinkoeblitz6854]

I watched this on May 25th 2023, I heard the story of a family tragedy and the daughter’s comment on forgiveness was that if you do not forgive the aggressor, then they win twice. Nelson knew he had so much more to do and he was not going to waste one minute of the rest of his life.

[@jobiesprout8693]

Wow! wow, wow, wow. "Betrayal is the blessings wrapped up in FORGIVENESS." Lisa, earlier you spoke of a young lady who said "You are so on time with your words of wisdom and encouragement. I too say the same. I've given a lot of advice on many topics but always shy away from FORGIVENESS. It's a long story so for now, I thank you, on this sort after topic. Keep doing what you're doing. Blessing all the way.

[@berryzem]

I had a visceral reaction to this. This was almost overwhelming. I hardly have the words to say. I'm afraid this feeling might go away when I wake up tomorrow morning. I want to stay in this space. It's borderline indescribable. Lisa, thank you so, so much for sharing this with me, with us. That was a beautiful story and I hope the actions I take from now on start to reflect what I've learned right here. Thank you.

[@beverleyjohnson4052]

It feels like summer when I listen to you. X

[@achu557]

Hey Lisa, one of the greatest lesson learnt today.... forgiveness one such big thing to do...to live the greatest life ever.. before forgiving others I wanted to forgive myself and be the best version of me...and serve the blessings I have got...am so honoured by ur service and blessed to have found u...Thank you...and I'll meet u one day for sure.. thanks a lot😊💗

[@healingembrace250]

Thank you for your beautiful and eloquent video on forgiveness. You are such a masterful creator of change and upliftment. I loved how you shared so intimately with us your painting of Nelson. I loved how you shared the necklace around your neck for your son. I love finding your videos as I am in the middle of your 30 day Speak to Inspire Course! I love how you pointed out that forgiveness doesn’t require us to measure the act of hurt or betrayal - wow, you hit that right on the nail with that phrase. I still have remnants of forgiveness to release to in regards to my family. This statement will propel me into that with ease. Thank you Lisa for the priceless diamond that your are, the deepest chocolate skinned sister that we are so honoured to have walk among us today. I am truly blessed to have found about you.

[@Placebo4FutureHealthCare]

I need to learn this to give it all to self-forgiveness as well. Thank you 🙏

[@isingoutloud6533]

Hi Lisa sis... Love your energy. At first I was sceptical about this video and the lessons, but soon your words opened my heart. I can feel my eyes teared and willing to forgive again. Greetings from Malaysia

[@evephillips6701]

Lisa your sharing of the 'visit to Mandela's centre' was a brilliant piece about forgiveness and brought a tear to my eye....And made me think and look at forgiveness in a different light....Thank You!

[@denaihill2541]

Yes yes, Wow! All in my feelings at work, [I am dsp (direct support professional) the title US care givers in Intellectional developmental disable individials companies] & I CHOOSE to listen to this video; Lisa I tell U it was divine intervention GIRL Exactly what I needed right now!!! Feeling hurt, manipulated, conflicted, lied to just array of feelings & beating myself up for procrastinating on putting the ACTION in behind the belief of your teachings ANYWAY the point is giving myself permission to forgive starting with, mainly Self!!! Say WHAT?!? BOL for me is the necessatie to do just that in order to Move forward the pain of not only feelings but being stuck unforgivable. Thank U thank U thank u

[@krymyst8091]

This really helped me to forgive someone who kept betraying me. A wonderful start to the new year!

[@staceymcanoy547]

I am so blessed and grateful that I was drawn here listening to a motivational video on new year at a time of heartache and hardship, I found you and I am hooked! I was brought here for a reason, I am trying to apply it all, my life in 6 months is changing because i am changing things in me that I never knew needed changed. I admire you and I am so engrossed in studying your work that is helping me on my journey. God bless you 😘♥️😘♥️😘♥️

[@devonbeard306]

Forgiveness ensures longevity. Stress Drama and negativity makes your life shorter. I’m sure there’s scientific proof out there somewhere 😊

[@sonya5568]

Wow...another youtube I NEEDED to see. The lord knows my mind is consumed with so many things and he has brought several things I needed to my attention. Thank you for this as that was definitely something I needed to learn about with Nelson Mandela. At times i feel as if i have forgiven but KNOW that something is still keeping me from fully forgiving some folks. Thank you for this!

[@angelmielke2016]

I adore you, Lisa Nichols!!! You are an amazing person.

[@adwoaghana1622]

Today is my first time listening to your story and I am in tears now at the same time motivated. I have just subscribed and I know I won't be the same.

[@leahesterzerbib1794]

Thank you🌹❤. G-d sent me this lesson. I just had an experience that I needed to forgive someone, right before I opened this link. I was upset for being ignored by someone who is very important and close to me. Hearing what you said, was as if G-d was showing me that I have to forgive in order to heal and recover. I know there is a lesson for me, but it is painful. Love you Lisa Thank you❤🌹🌹🌹🙏🙏

[@lindaschwartz504]

I am going through another stage of this forgiveness type of thing with my brother. I have been abused by him many years of my life and cut him off from my family since 2008. Now he contacted me to ask for my phone number as an emergency contact for health reasons. We have such animosity between us. I don’t even know exactly what to do. So my husband and I are discussing our feelings about this and he says it is time for a closure. So prayers are needed because I wasn’t ever able to speak to him. 😔🙏

[@dawngissendanner5063]

Forgiveness is one of the things I'm working on and this video is very very helpful!

[@janicejop5064]

Wow...speechless cause this really resonates..., thank you Lisa

[@neerumahajan7401]

Hi Lisa, thanks so much for everything.if we want to hv positive approach towards life ,we hv to forget n forgive.i did this,use all my energy for larger intereste,all your videos are very helpful for those who were betryed nd" broke and broken,hit the rock bottom .want to live d life ,they deserve...thanks

[@annemuthonimuturi2578]

I love your energy Lisa, you have imparted my life so positively!Yes Yes !!!!

[@intuitivelybellanovaenergy146]

My first big BOL this morning listening to your video. I have wanted to really feel forgiveness but I couldn't find the depth I was desiring till I started to think what do I really want from forgiveness, what is the gift? I thought I want to be in the place where I greet everything in my life with Thank You. No matter what that is the place of gratitude I want to live in not just talk about.

[@elainequizado479]

Thanks Lisa for sharing Mandela’s life with us!! I need to find his biography book. What an inspiration!!

[@jenni3lov3]

Wow!!! Yes! YES!!! I'm on day 4 of hearing you for the first time ever Lisa and I'm so greatful i found you😊🦋 This topic about forgiveness is just what i have needed to hear... I have been living with SO much hurt and anger for too long because i dont know how to forgive but I'm greatful for how you put it... Thank you with All my mending heart

[@Knel143]

I have been receiving questions from friends like "How do you manage to stay nice to people who betrayed you?", "How do you manage to communicate well with people talking behind you?". Just right now I've realized what the answer was - FORGIVENESS. Yes, it is and will always be! I have been cheated a lot of times. When I was in high school, my teachers tried to steal the medal that symbolizes my 4 years of hard work, luckily enough the truth prevailed. When in college, the same scenario almost happened, the job that's supposed to be mine was given to somebody else. When I started working, my manager manipulated my KPI and definitely got terminated. Yet, through forgiveness, I was put in a place where I am supposed to be. Touching peoples lives is my passion and thanks to "The Secret" for leading me to this tribe. Allow to share this as well, I found my someone special few months after applying what Liza said in the secret which is to "Begin loving yourself". We've been together for morethan six years now. Thank you Liza! Love

[@kereendawkins882]

It my time to Soar . Thanks Lisa for your words of motivation......I have a project doing and I have set my completion date for June of 2018 . I'm going to bank today to get some funding to get the job done. It's my time to Soar.

[@kereendawkins882]

Forgiveness is the key....it hard at time but it's a must.

[@shamayahu]

Thanks for all of your great energy.. Much Love to you 💕

[@Through_lens]

Hi Lisa ! this episode made me cry out loudly as i decided to forgive some people who had hurt me. and same time i also understood that hurt people hurt others so i had a problem with one of my sisters and i had been hurt many times because of her rude nature but now i get to know that may be she has got hurt bysome of my actions and so i have just said sorry to her lets see what comes as a reply!!!! fingers crossed!!!

[@ufoufo9182]

Riddhi Agarwal i am watching this video because my sister said something that was pretty hurtful. This happened 2 days ago but I have refused to speak to her. I can't get the words out of my head. I'm angry. Been giving myself pep talks saying let it go but each time I see her I honestly want to hurt her. Sigh

[@hazel-annb5954]

Hey Lisa thank you for sharing I now see forgiveness at a different level. YesYES.

[@ginav.4776]

Thank you so much for this wonderful message. I love you!

[@gianninasubaran8207]

Beautiful message

[@joseamadopolancomartinez5512]

I LOVEEEE YOU LISAAAAAA!!!!!!!

[@faithtireito819]

Thank you Lisa！ You are a great woman

[@creamekay]

yes yes yes I love you thank you

[@tawanapope9032]

Yes yes thank you Lisa and I know now forgiveness is to set me free and prayer is the strength to do so. Thanks for the BOL

[@NttainMe]

Currently 😰😶 about a life change can’t wait to adopt her philosophy.

[@tania0070]

U are awesome. Thank u for this (made me cry).

[@jessicamoore1575]

Flawlessly spoken.... smh. Now I'm able to forgive. Thank you

[@boogie3035]

Beautiful story. Om

[@revjw72]

A journey stood still is like a car with no wheels.. It's not going anywhere. You have to move. And growth is the ability to move in shifts and just like a manual, straight shift or stick shift when you move.. You have to move in the grove. In other words get your butt up and get it in gear and prepare yourself to go to the next level.

[@carmenmendozacoach6031]

Thank you 🙏🏼 love your videos!

[@theauntofdragons]

I did not want to watch this video because I knew it would bring up the pain I recently experienced. But then I realized I still carry around that pain. I wake up and go to sleep with it. And I'm even have a hard time forgiving myself, for putting myself in that situation. This video has put so many things into perspective for me. Thank you, I love this!!

[@blissworld660]

#BOL, forgiveness is not optional even though it is wrapped in a vessel called choice! I've been on the process of manifesting greater abundance. A lot of things have been falling in place - my aggressive relationship with my daughter as a result of fear of unknown, my daughter I have waited for years to have, being the only daughter in my own home. I discovered a lot more as I learnt my process # to give love without fear. Its been life. Fountain of peace, a dream come through and an internal healing. Meanwhile I discovered that I had this heavy hump of feeling against my husband. Initially I thought it was a scarcity feeling that I couldn't handle colleague and romantic relationship with him. Now, after this video, with tears of forgiveness in my eyes I realize #forgiveness is not optional even though it is wrapped in a vessel called choice. I chose to marry him, when I just came right out of rest from the psychiatric home, after being diagnosed acute depressed and schizophrenic. I managed my chatter with little knowledge, but with a made up mind to meet with the me on the abundance side that I see. I didn't know all the many rules on how to communicate my mind. I only knew, SEEK TO UNDERSTAND, THEN TO BE UNDERSTOOD and a few other tools I had crammed from 7 HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE. I had diagnosed myself inability to effectively manage my success and relationships. For some time, I sought to understand, and I bore many situations that pained me to my soul. I saved the moment, and the marriage appeared beautiful, because my husband thought I was happy, meanwhile I was in pain. Sometimes, it showed up as an outburst, which he will overlook, because every other thing was looking good, but I was in pain. I momentarily forgot it, and lived a kind of life that wasn't mine in order to keep us moving. I kept hope alive, even when I battled with that. One day, we had an outbreak, and I was feeling I was giving too much, I felt I had short paid myself, because I felt he was taking too long to learn and understand - limited knowledge (on how I am the chief architect of my destiny). I couldn't pass it on well because I was actually supposed to remind myself and grow it higher for him too see -VALUES before CHARISMA, OBJECTIVE BEFORE SUBJECTIVE. I had crammed these to help me maneuver situations straight from the psychiatric home. I didn't realize I was trying to give my saving bow to my husband to catch a bird that I desired - my harmonious home. I also didn't realize I hadn't diagnosed inability to manage MYSELF ( A lot to learn). I was supposed to keep the bow to myself. I didn't know. I also all of a sudden forgot to be too grateful that with some symptoms of suicide still left, I had manifested a marriage - ignorance. One day, I was fed up, he was not listening, I felt like walking away. I knew the other saving grace of the marriage was for me to let go of understanding and be understood at the moment, meanwhile I didn't know how. I hit him, with my new baby in one hand and he hit me in my eye. He apologized instantly, even though I felt it was not genuine - ignorance. I had a red eye for some time, while I went out, to market products, taking steps to find my way to abundance. This pain I covered all this while just uncovered itself. I shed tears while I type. #A new me is being born# Thank you LISA. #THANK YOU# I FORGIVE.

[@catherinekirsch9875]

yes : love-u-! / much gratitude . . .

[@nanaanan4731]

The biggest takeaway for me is forgiving someone else's pain. Doesn't seem like I should have to forgive someone's pain, but I think that my perception is that "the choice to hold onto a story that you [family member] know isn't true is choosing the pain. I have begun to lack compassion, because it's their choice. I can forgive the fact that they're making the choice to hold onto the story and act out of the subsequent pain in ways that continue to taint our relationship. I can lose my attachment to them making a different choice. I can forgive and release my attachment to them being different.

[@sweety0931]

I love u Lisa!!!

[@mikexfinds]

she's my queen

[@sherriespencer2461]

Powerful!!!

[@dotoflove95]

I love u and i been going through so much.

[@madomx2]

You can only love yourself when you love others.

[@jennkanjennkan8004]

I like you and you geting better and better! Thank you ☺👌☺

[@madomx2]

Is there is any video where you speak about rescuing a relationship instead of breaking and loving yourself. Something like giving before taking.