How Generational Trauma passes down 3 Generations 😂

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Atsuko Okatsuka

Atsuko Okatsuka

6 ай бұрын

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@andreamp1360
@andreamp1360 3 ай бұрын
I imagine growing up with a mum with schizophrenia must be difficult. Kudos for still honoring her. Grandma is incredibly strong.
@abene5000
@abene5000 3 ай бұрын
I can tell you from personal experience it's extremely hard.
@andreamp1360
@andreamp1360 3 ай бұрын
Sorry you had/still have to experience this..cause it's literally not your fault..Stay strong.
@DeeKate
@DeeKate 3 ай бұрын
My schizophrenia is a big reason I don't want kids 😔 I'm worried I wouldn't be able to be the best mother at times
@slinkieDinks
@slinkieDinks 3 ай бұрын
@@DeeKatetrue
@Alexandra_B.G.
@Alexandra_B.G. 3 ай бұрын
​@@andreamp1360Of course it's not. How would it be his/her fault someone close has schizophrenia?
@myrrh2000
@myrrh2000 3 ай бұрын
Your grandma is a Pillar of strength!
@user-pr9wy5mn4j
@user-pr9wy5mn4j 2 ай бұрын
Istg
@Crab.with.abs.
@Crab.with.abs. 2 ай бұрын
Big time
@marcellabaldwin6899
@marcellabaldwin6899 3 ай бұрын
It’s so healing to see other people talk about growing up with a schizophrenic mother. That shit felt straight out of a sci-fi novel when I was growing up
@finchfamily7268
@finchfamily7268 3 ай бұрын
Especially when she convinces you the voices are real, that's when stuff gets really exciting
@alliewilson7036
@alliewilson7036 3 ай бұрын
My mom's got Schizophrenia and Bipolar 1 she's on meds now, but with her, it's never a dull moment.
@jin_cotl
@jin_cotl 3 ай бұрын
@@finchfamily7268oh god 😨
@emilybryan1713
@emilybryan1713 2 ай бұрын
I’m scared of traumatizing any future children or my friend’s kids but my paranoia gets STRONG and it legit feels like the peak of a horror movie is about to happen and my dog doesn’t help when she stops to look at a sound I didn’t hear
@crabstick250
@crabstick250 2 ай бұрын
Agree. I didnt talk abt my "crazy" mom until i was in my 20s. I too was comforted that other people had similar experiences.
@nenabee2830
@nenabee2830 3 ай бұрын
I was also diagnosed with schizophrenia, it’s so cool to see her living such a normal life! Gives me hope.
@dustbunny4527
@dustbunny4527 2 ай бұрын
Start with: You can’t treat something that’s not there. So what is there?
@erynsmerch3
@erynsmerch3 2 ай бұрын
What? ​@@dustbunny4527
@Lori_L
@Lori_L 2 ай бұрын
I used to work with people with schizophrenia. The most important thing is to stay on your meds & keep your therapy appts. Wishing you many happy days. Don't give up!
@BlakeGeometrio
@BlakeGeometrio 2 ай бұрын
I've also got schizophrenia. With the right meds and support, it's not as harrowing.
@mitza420
@mitza420 2 ай бұрын
​@@dustbunny4527 what?
@just1moreepisode.735
@just1moreepisode.735 3 ай бұрын
My mom also suffers from schizophrenia.. between the awful episodes and the side effects of meds and the emotional struggles, you learn to create little pieces of happiness ❤
@RegentofArrako
@RegentofArrako 3 ай бұрын
How did u get your mom to take meds?❤ I can’t get mine to get any help
@cronehagwitch3384
@cronehagwitch3384 3 ай бұрын
Sorry to intrude on this thread, but am genuinely curious about how you’re both handling this. My mum has been hallucinating (hearing and sight) for about a year. Has not shown signs of impairment, just hears things and thinks her phone and house are bugged. I live across the ocean from her, and am not sure how this is going to work once the doctor sees her tomorrow. How do you make sure your mum takes her pills?
@just1moreepisode.735
@just1moreepisode.735 3 ай бұрын
@@RegentofArrako It's been 12 years for my mom. At first, she refused to go. So I went alone and described the symptoms to the doctor, and then later, I can't tell you how many books, blogs and videos I went through to understand what she is going through and how to approach it. And I convinced my mom to visit by telling her that cause I love her so much it hurts to see her in pain and I used to be the fav kid so I used that emotional bond to make a connect that her being in such bad health hurts me and I want to see her grow old happy and with me enjoying life. I ended up crying a lot cause my mom was completely gone and cut off from world and family, food, everything. Finally that connect, cause I asked her to live for me and told her that I won't be able to live without her so I begged her to try out this doc for once and that the meds might help quite the voices and will make you less restless and will help with anxiety. The golden rule was to never say that you are hallucinating or you are sick, or it's not real, you are seeing or imagining things. Whatever she says, I just go with it. It's best to stay neutral. There have been many times when she refuses to go to doc or dont take meds. So I always wait for couple days and try to do activities or things that she likes or will cheer her up then I randomly without putting any focus on it suggest her to take meds so that she can sleep better. The meds help her sleep she has severe insomnia. So my usual is "it will help you with sleep, anxiety and will make you feel better" So in my case, Emotional validation is the way to go. However I understand that with different people, it's different. I will suggest you to consult this with your doc once, tbh they can guide you best in this as they're the ones who know your mom's case the best. Sorry for not being able to help. I wish I could have told you a sure way but dealing with someone suffering from schizophrenia is very unpredictable.
@just1moreepisode.735
@just1moreepisode.735 3 ай бұрын
@@cronehagwitch3384 In my case, it's been 12 years. If say I've got it handled that would be a lie. I myself have become a mess mentally but I know it's million times worse for our mom's. My mom was first diagnosed with paranoia stage of schizophrenia. It was severe. She refused to visit the doc, and at that time she had stopped talking, eating or even sleeping on bed. She had changed rooms and used to sleep on floor. So when I found a good psychiatrist, what worked in my case was emotional bond. I was 17 I think, went to my mom and bawled my eyes out 😅 told her that it breaks my heart to see her like that, that it upsets me, and I want her to get better and to not be so restless and anxious and I don't wish to see her suffer like this and begged her to try out a doc that I had found (didn't tell her that it was psy. Or that she will be going for mental illness treatment) and told her to go to the doc so that he can help her sleep, eat and feel better and help with anxiety. My mom's case is such that every so often she even finds all her family as bad people who want to harm her and then she refuses doc visits and meds then I wait for couple days, give her time and space and do things that she likes, and then randomly suggest to take meds so that she can get some proper sleep (cuz she also has severe insomnia)
@just1moreepisode.735
@just1moreepisode.735 3 ай бұрын
@cronehagwitch3384 In my case, it's been 12 years. If say I've got it handled that would be a lie. I've been working from home for the last 3 and a half years now. And I will continue to keep her with me cause she suffers from a lot other serious physical problems other than this one. I myself have become a mess mentally but I know it's million times worse for our mom's. My mom was first diagnosed with paranoia stage of schizophrenia. It was severe. She refused to visit the doc, and at that time she had stopped talking, eating or even sleeping on bed. She had changed rooms and used to sleep on floor. So when I found a good psychiatrist, what worked in my case was emotional bond. I was 17 I think, went to my mom and bawled my eyes out 😅 told her that it breaks my heart to see her like that, that it upsets me, and I want her to get better and to not be so restless and anxious and I don't wish to see her suffer like this and begged her to try out a doc that I had found (didn't tell her that it was psych. Or that she will be going for mental illness treatment) and told her to go to the doc so that he can help her sleep, eat and feel better and help with anxiety. My mom's case is such that every so often she even finds all her family as bad people who want to harm her and then she refuses doc visits and meds then I wait for couple days, give her time and space and do things that she likes, and then randomly suggest to take meds so that she can get some proper sleep (cuz she also has severe insomnia)
@Dakota199551
@Dakota199551 3 ай бұрын
I'm schizophrenic, and sometimes getting older feels like a death sentence. Thank you for being so normal about it❤
@ElysetheEevee
@ElysetheEevee 2 ай бұрын
I don't have schizophrenia, but I do have other severe mental illnesses. I used to joke that these illnesses are "terminal." The older I get, the less it's really a joke, but still. It's stuck with you for life, unfortunately. We really need some strong research into changing brain chemistry. It feels like nobody studies things besides Alzheimer's and more geriatric illnesses in any large way, and there are millions of us out there that basically lose our minds the second puberty hits, get second doses of insanity at every adult milestone of change, and then can still get the diseases that are studied more, like Alzheimer's. It'd just be nice for a better quality of life. Medication never really worked for me, personally, and I was on up to 9 anti-psyche meds and 7 herbal supplements a day at one point. From talking with many others in similar situations, medication never really helped them as much as it hindered, too. The side effects are something else. Things just need to change. Sorry, I'm not trying to be depressing. The good news is, as you age with your mental illnesses (depending on what they are and how they affect you, of course), some of us do a little better with living with the symptoms. You have the experience to cope and live more freely, as well as less volatile chemistry since puberty is over. I haven't hit menopause quite yet, so we'll see how that goes. My mentally ill mother punched me in the face one when she was going through it, lol, so.... Sometimes, it gets worse with age. As long as you try your best to build a solid foundation of coping mechanisms and healthy mindsets while you're younger, it'll help exponentially as you age. Trust me. Don't despair in the future, though. Enjoy what you have now. Life is always going to be especially uncertain for people like us, so it's a good way to live.
@kiwo579
@kiwo579 2 ай бұрын
@@ElysetheEeveethanks for your words
@joceyno
@joceyno 3 ай бұрын
My mom was manic, and when she was in up mode - she would take me to EVERYTHING. Drag shows, comedy shows(I saw Marc Maron when I was, like, 12), concerts(BOWIE). My grandmother was my rock, and kept me sane. When she died - I knew everything was going to change. Kudos to you, and your support system.
@jujuoof174
@jujuoof174 2 ай бұрын
All my condolences, God bless your grandmother and you, no matter how much you miss her, she’ll always be with you Trough memories, trough the way she made you you❤
@clairemann2
@clairemann2 2 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss! You got this love! ❤
@brilovelybowie
@brilovelybowie 2 ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss 😢
@ssteeds7194
@ssteeds7194 3 ай бұрын
Knowing how hard it can be, you bring joy to them and to many of us who need it.
@famprima
@famprima 3 ай бұрын
Your grandmother is a very strong and remarkable matriarch. ❤
@KayPeeVee
@KayPeeVee 3 ай бұрын
3 generations of 3 strong women! hope you, your mother, and grandma continue thriving 🙌
@angelp4724
@angelp4724 3 ай бұрын
Grandmas are so strong! My granny was an orphan, her parents died due to war, she was then abused by her guardians who refused to pay for her schooling & she was coerced into working for their business plus taking care of their children for them including another orphan. She had to learn writing/arithmetic herself. Things didn't get better when she finally left that abusive place via marriage, her husband cheated on her not long after the wedding & expected her to stay threatening to not give any child-support (there weren't stringent laws back then), she mustered up all her courage to leave him & worked 3-4 jobs to take care of the kids. Her life was incredibly hard.
@clofii5143
@clofii5143 2 ай бұрын
i wish you and your grandma the best and may you both also stay safe!
@kkilljoy3588
@kkilljoy3588 2 ай бұрын
Life isn’t easy now, but when hearing stories like this it’s near impossible not to say “we sure have it easy….”
@every_planet_we_reach_is_dead
@every_planet_we_reach_is_dead 2 ай бұрын
She sounds like a champion. Teaching herself how to write back in the days without internet or access to education is _insane_ ❤️‍🔥
@elaela5585
@elaela5585 3 ай бұрын
So grandma is everything in both of your lifes, yours and your mother’s!
@lemoniefish
@lemoniefish 3 ай бұрын
Your grandma is a queen!! Your mom is a champion. And you are amazing! I grew up with a schizophrenic mother too - I understand and support you ❤️
@feolizx
@feolizx 3 ай бұрын
Hey! Do you mind if i ask how it was like? (I just want to know if we have any overlapping experiences!)
@user-ll1nc2ru4t
@user-ll1nc2ru4t 3 ай бұрын
Your grandma has Faced such insane odds and she's still going! How inspirational! One person's strength can really change the course of that whole bloodline. I'm sure your grandmother is very proud
@kenjidub
@kenjidub 3 ай бұрын
My mom also has schizophrenia, it's very lonely as sometimes I think my mom is not there anymore. Also found out that she loves dancing and be surrounded by family.
@amyjo1293
@amyjo1293 2 ай бұрын
My son and I have autism but we always keeping trying our best. Sometimes we are lucky, sometimes we are unlucky, sometimes we crying together or joy and that's life. We still do our best.
@casalist5426
@casalist5426 3 ай бұрын
I am happy you girls are open about what the problem is. In my family, I have aunts, uncles, and cousins who obviously have some issues and not one person say anything. I asked when I wanted to get pregnant just so that I knew what to expect; and most of the old people told me “ There’s nothing wrong! Or she was a brat kid who behave bad to get attention. That cousin is in a somewhat institution and still there’s nothing wrong. I wish wherever she is ok and feel loved.
@kkilljoy3588
@kkilljoy3588 2 ай бұрын
My family was a “how are you?” “GREAT!” kinda family. The only acceptable answer was “great!” We were never great, or even good. But appearances were everything. Nothing was ever talked about or addressed in any way. That leaves its own battle scars beyond the original scars of the damage done by dysfunction. Most trauma can be dealt with - or at least dealt with better - if we can openly discuss it with people we can trust and will treat us and our feelings and experiences with care, tenderness, and grace.
@abigailgonzalez6078
@abigailgonzalez6078 3 ай бұрын
Atsuko, what a beautiful message. Strong women across the board and your mom is lovely. Your acquaintances are lucky. ❤
@mimi123b
@mimi123b 3 ай бұрын
my mom has schizophrenia i never see people mention it! thank you for being open. ❤
@grandmasgopnik9642
@grandmasgopnik9642 3 ай бұрын
Bro my Dad has schizophrenia too!❤ much love thankfully his isn’t super debilitating…usually 😅. As he’s gotten older though the symptoms are harder for him to deal with 🥲 (he’s still young! He literally turning 50 this year and I’m almost 30) I love seeing your mom and grandma vibe 🪩
@wisegaylareayl
@wisegaylareayl 2 ай бұрын
Loved this❤❤ thank you for sharing facts....those generational traumas don't play. As a mother of 5 kids now on my self-conscious spiritual journey. I've learned so much about myself of how I was passing down my family's generational trauma from African-Black's slavery, being ripped & stolen from their homeland to Indian/Indigenous -Black's land being stolen & they too being taught to disown their origins, etc. Ppl don't realize how much emotions create our minds & mental states of being & we continuously teach that mindset to carry on & into our kids. So what a blessing she broke her family's generational curses/blessings by finding comedy & still loving her momma no matter what & honoring her grandma ❤
@sofritobandito8928
@sofritobandito8928 3 ай бұрын
When I was a kid there was only 1 other kid at my school who had a schizophrenic parent. I grew up feeling very alone. I appreciate all of the comments on here sharing your experiences. ❤
@Godfavourite01
@Godfavourite01 3 ай бұрын
Comedians are the one who experienced harsh life but knows how to turn sad life into good one , you guys are the strongest humans on earth❤I am proud of you Girl ❤❤🎉
@Tam712
@Tam712 2 ай бұрын
It's why you're a comedian - you know life is tough and you want to bring joy to others, and what better way to do it than bringing laughter. Three amazing women.
@Delisosrotties
@Delisosrotties 3 ай бұрын
My mom is delusional schizophrenia as well. She is 80. You have to laugh because if you don’t you’ll cry.
@animesoul167
@animesoul167 3 ай бұрын
I understood why she became a comedian, because that's how our family lives. Mom with anxiety, depression, OCD. Me with anxiety and ADHD. mom probably has undiagnosed ADHD
@buzzy5244
@buzzy5244 3 ай бұрын
Gotta try it out! Let's see if if works!
@kkilljoy3588
@kkilljoy3588 2 ай бұрын
@@buzzy5244haha love the snark 😘
@frostbluez
@frostbluez 2 ай бұрын
As long as you’re laughing with her and not at her :)
@bebapr4pr
@bebapr4pr Ай бұрын
My mom loved dancing on her good days, and we'll watch stars at night, she loved animals they will calm her down. On her manic stages she was a dragon (that's what I called her) furious and strong, she was also brilliant a 160 IQ, how is that possible such a brilliant mind and not so brilliant at maniac.. I became an Animal Biolost and elective in Astronomy because of my mom's love for the cosmos❤ miss her😢.
@ipsy777
@ipsy777 3 ай бұрын
Grandma is so strong as a person omg ❤
@fnomore333
@fnomore333 3 ай бұрын
Wow, your gorgeous Grandma is amazing, and raised you to be just as much!! Your mom is a sweetheart and I love that yall all have the bond that you do!! Continue to treasure them as they deserve... Much love from Texas💓💓
@khingnakhonexay6283
@khingnakhonexay6283 3 ай бұрын
@classicstrawberry6633
@classicstrawberry6633 2 ай бұрын
As someone on the schizophrenia spectrum I know it must've been rough growing up but know she tried. That doesn't excuse any trauma you may have or things that have just stuck with you. I've found giving grace to my parents as an adult and learning more about my own mental and physical issues has helped me understand them more. It will never excuse whats happened in the past or the pain I still feel but it has helped us have a pretty ok relationship. I don't know who needs this but you can heal on YOUR time, if you aren't ready to speak to someone then don't, but take that time to understand yourself more. Some people don't deserve forgiveness and I don't agree that forgiveness is for you either. Forgiveness let's people know they can keep hurting others, especially you. You don't have to hold a grudge but what's most healing is letting it go, knowing you don't have to deal with that person and owe them nothing, not even forgiveness.
@siyarakb5305
@siyarakb5305 3 ай бұрын
Grandmother raised you just right . Respect 🫡
@susanneS371
@susanneS371 3 ай бұрын
Your Grandma is such a lovely lady. ❤
@nursedarra
@nursedarra 3 ай бұрын
May you continue to prosper and persevere! We all have generational trauma. All good. You make me smile
@wordzmyth
@wordzmyth 3 ай бұрын
I am so glad I discovered you too. Even the hard history creates deep wells of inspiration
@sophiefrancis8295
@sophiefrancis8295 2 ай бұрын
Do we?
@MagneticUnicornVlogs
@MagneticUnicornVlogs 3 ай бұрын
Such amazing women. I have a sibling with schizophrenia, it's hard ❤
@usa45CC
@usa45CC 3 ай бұрын
There is no perfect family
@libra48100
@libra48100 3 ай бұрын
Through generational trauma...you've not only overcome it, you survived and thrive it... your grans ma, your mom and now you. You all came our of it as winners. 🎉 live enjoy and celebrate 🍾
@libra48100
@libra48100 3 ай бұрын
In this world... we have sometimes need to be crazy to sing, dance and laugh despite trauma. May you have more followers.
@dykevader01
@dykevader01 3 ай бұрын
My father has anger issues, a lot of unresolved traumas and almost certainly raging bipolar passed onto me he got from his mother and he made my life hell for 18 years but now we have a good relationship which isn't easy for me to accept. It's good to be the one who got therapy but it's also hard to be the first one
@volylatimer
@volylatimer 3 ай бұрын
wow im literally going through the same thing as you. im sending you a big hug
@Dreamplandoradij
@Dreamplandoradij 3 ай бұрын
Wow , here with you going through the same , all hugs , love and respect yourself in any situation - you are a precious beauty in this world ❤
@volylatimer
@volylatimer 3 ай бұрын
@@Dreamplandoradij thank you so much right back at ya ❤️❤️
@montananerd8244
@montananerd8244 3 ай бұрын
For all of you ❤ - Think back across your family's many many generations. If you have kids or play a big role in the lives of kids in your family, you are the BRINGER OF JOY & STABILITY to your family line! What a tremendous position of honor that we have, and then we share our tools with our kids, and each generation gets better! Even if you don't have kids in your family, you are bringing these tools to your community, and that is desperately needed. It sucks to be the first, but you'll know that your life mattered so much and what a tremendous legacy!
@peaceandlove544
@peaceandlove544 3 ай бұрын
Wowww I ve had a bad relationship with my father because he was and is a womanizer still in his 82 years old, he looks younger and still works as a business mogul and is involved in politics.
@kaitlynhull6815
@kaitlynhull6815 3 ай бұрын
Your soul shines bright! ❤🎉 Thank you for being YOU, trauma and all, it's beautiful. We love you. 🩵🤸😭
@dranamarie
@dranamarie 3 ай бұрын
Cheers to making the best of it !!! ❤this was a beautiful clip!
@sarahe2274
@sarahe2274 2 ай бұрын
I'm so glad this woman found success 🙌 She deserves it and no doubt worked hard for it
@alyssaf1285
@alyssaf1285 2 ай бұрын
You're not trying your best, you're DOING your best! This is so sweet; I love it so much.
@sweetpjess
@sweetpjess 3 ай бұрын
My goodness I have been following you for a few years now and this video really hit me in the feels. Thank you for sharing your family and your talent. Blessed to have your best.
@michellethechosen1629
@michellethechosen1629 3 ай бұрын
Just call it your story....you are the generation to heal the trauma. Well done! You've repaired the family!
@Nothereforit174
@Nothereforit174 3 ай бұрын
They all matter. I’m not sure what you’re trying to say here. Her mom failed for...having a mental disorder? Her grandmother for being alive during a war and having her husband murdered? Sometimes these cheesy sentiments aren’t what y’all think and should stop being shared with people. They’re all doing their best.
@kaylabrownell1268
@kaylabrownell1268 Күн бұрын
Give your Grandma a hug from me please? She lost her husband, moved to another country, and raised you to be the stunning person that you are, that's alot of strength she has.
@jayvee1387
@jayvee1387 2 ай бұрын
Everyone is dealing with things no one else can see! This is truly beautiful. Whats even more amazing is that you all are TOGETHER! That is a beautiful blessing in itself. ❤
@cyall1548
@cyall1548 3 ай бұрын
I love this! Your family seem like awesome ladies
@pluribus_unum
@pluribus_unum 6 ай бұрын
Masterful! _Ensure your umbrella is upside down_
@baay376
@baay376 2 ай бұрын
My half siblings mom was schizophrenic. It was terrible for them when it was bad, but when it was good? AMAZING. I wasn't born until they were adults, but we are from a very small community & people used to say incredibly distasteful things to me before I was old enough to understand what they meant. We are all we are. And our history shapes us in incredible ways. I love your family dynamic & how happy you all look here. ❤ Hold the good times dear & make the trauma work FOR you. 💯
@CocoQTpie4u
@CocoQTpie4u 2 ай бұрын
What an amazing family! Transmutting all that negative energy (from the trauma) into love and laughter is just . . . well, amazing!
@MrGearoid65
@MrGearoid65 3 ай бұрын
Know all about schizophrenia. Horrible illness. Kudos to your mum and you for supporting and LOVING your grandmother. Xxxx❤
@ajayfacts81
@ajayfacts81 3 ай бұрын
You are bringing joy to everyone while you have tough life. May your mom get well 🙏🙏🙏
@roisonfox9132
@roisonfox9132 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for being here to make everyone smile, including your sweet family ❤. They are beautiful women, very strong. I look up to people like you.
@Cove_Blue
@Cove_Blue 3 ай бұрын
I love how much joy there is in this!
@abomejohn
@abomejohn 2 ай бұрын
I love you and your family. Thanks for sharing. I wish you all success and happiness in this life and the next. You three deserve everything good now. Continue to make them happy the remainder of there days especially grandma. She’s a queen and a rock. She can finally get a break in life. I’m sending grandma 1000 hugs and another for mom for trying. You are a great refreshing comedian…thank you for the laughs, God bless you and your family. Keep going.
@AutumnalMountains
@AutumnalMountains 3 ай бұрын
Hey Atsuko, Wonderful to see how you're so transparent and also celebrating your family as they are. I ❤seeing you take your mother out. 😁 I'm Australian-Japanese, and I definitely feel a lot of Japanese and even Asians have this hush hush, keep it on the lowdown approach from the public eye, neighbours etc when there's a family member who suffers freedom mental illness. You're awesome Gurl, Keep going ✊❣️. Celebrate where you've come from, and all your ancestors who helped make you who you are today! 💓💫
@macummings7818
@macummings7818 2 ай бұрын
This brought tears of appreciation ❤ Esp. the music, the truth of beautiful music and culture, Louis! - playing a part in healing us all!
@donnaragon4291
@donnaragon4291 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your beautiful family with us!! And thank you for making the world a better place, one laugh at a time
@trangn6564
@trangn6564 3 ай бұрын
Beautiful strong women!
@ljsings6011
@ljsings6011 3 ай бұрын
I love how NORMAL you all are. Don't lose it!
@user-zn7gk9vk6e
@user-zn7gk9vk6e 3 ай бұрын
This was gorgeous!! A loving and strong family 💛
@NihilisticJawbreaker
@NihilisticJawbreaker Ай бұрын
Generational trauma isn't discussed enough. Thank you and your family for being vulnerable and sharing with us!
@korean_instinct
@korean_instinct 4 ай бұрын
You are genius, love all of your works❤
@debbiebohne7101
@debbiebohne7101 3 ай бұрын
That's beautiful 😍 ❤to stand by your family and help them sounds like they have been through some trials very strong women ❤
@1995marixsa
@1995marixsa 3 ай бұрын
Three generations enjoying eachothers company, so wholesome.Love this video
@irish73tjk
@irish73tjk 2 ай бұрын
Just discovered your videos, so glad for the lives your family lived to share your joy with the world. Your family is loved!
@Miriam-ui5pw
@Miriam-ui5pw 6 ай бұрын
You are awesome, Atsuko🎉❤
@valtheginganinja6717
@valtheginganinja6717 3 ай бұрын
Super wholesome. Love!
@miriamroberts7558
@miriamroberts7558 3 ай бұрын
This is so real 😍 I love how you embrace the individuals so completely 🥰
@misssunshine6200
@misssunshine6200 3 ай бұрын
Every family is different and a little crazy. But usually with lots of unconditional love ❤ Love this. I envy how you’ve all made it through! 🎉
@susanschnee6880
@susanschnee6880 3 ай бұрын
Rock it girls. Your main mission in life is Joy❤
@lisaweber9245
@lisaweber9245 3 ай бұрын
And on another note.... Not only are you fun, fun, funny but dang you have a super cool style! Where are your thrift stores beautiful human?
@AlleyCryptid
@AlleyCryptid 2 ай бұрын
Bless you, bless her, bless all. Love you. Stay bright, shiny star that you are.
@phylliscooley9528
@phylliscooley9528 3 ай бұрын
The beauty of your openness helps everyone. Thank you for sharing.❤
@christinelaloba8869
@christinelaloba8869 3 ай бұрын
Drag shows, that explains some stuff😂😊❤
@dancetempNEIU
@dancetempNEIU 6 ай бұрын
Love this ❤
@noctifer.
@noctifer. 5 күн бұрын
Your grandmother is so strong! I'm also happy to share my first name with someone with a great sense of humor!
@laurag6879
@laurag6879 2 ай бұрын
I love seeing all of the supportive messages 🥹🥹❤❤❤❤❤. Thank you for sharing this short too ❤❤❤❤❤
@BebbaDubbs
@BebbaDubbs 3 ай бұрын
Wow... Personality disorders are no joke. Thanks for sharing with us!
@beepboopbeep4801
@beepboopbeep4801 3 ай бұрын
Schizophrenia isn't a personality disorder.
@EARSHOT123
@EARSHOT123 3 ай бұрын
It's not- its a condition that affects memory and behaviors, like dementia but worse in some aspects.
@craigmerkey8518
@craigmerkey8518 6 ай бұрын
🔥 Freakin amazing!
@travelwithmestranger
@travelwithmestranger 2 ай бұрын
The result of that generational trauma ends up taking the form of a beautiful strong humorous human like you. Lots of love to you, your mom and grandma from India. Keep smiling. 💜😊
@judyannludchawefoyagao8278
@judyannludchawefoyagao8278 Күн бұрын
I love it that people like you who have visibility acknowledges mental health issues publicly. It lessens the stigma to it. As a kid who grew up with a father and aunt who has mental health struggles, it would have helped a lot if these information were available three decades ago. It would have made me feel less lonely feeling like it was only our family like that.
@suchalooser8784
@suchalooser8784 3 ай бұрын
no such thing as generational trauma
@AniDitch-cs1on
@AniDitch-cs1on 3 ай бұрын
And what are your qualifications on the topic? Maybe a couple of hours reading the numerous psychological studies and papers on the topic might help you understand
@JG-fp1tv
@JG-fp1tv 2 ай бұрын
1. Become a comedian 2. No one laughs 3. ???? 4. Profit
@beatpirate8
@beatpirate8 2 ай бұрын
i feel a lot of us deal w generational trauma and mental health needs. thx so much for sharing so much about your family! you are inspiring and i also feel i try often to be a comedian for my family. its easier to laugh and move through it than to sit and sulk in it! stay boldly you! hugs! 🥰
@BabyRastasaurus
@BabyRastasaurus 3 ай бұрын
I don't understand what this has to do with generational trauma
@glorygloryholeallelujah
@glorygloryholeallelujah 3 ай бұрын
Same. I don’t think they quite understand what that means…?
@every_planet_we_reach_is_dead
@every_planet_we_reach_is_dead 2 ай бұрын
Generational trauma just means the baggage that people pass on to their kids (or affects the way they raise their kids) doesn't it? The connection seems quite straightforward to me.
@Capeverdeluv1
@Capeverdeluv1 6 ай бұрын
💝
@elberethreviewer5558
@elberethreviewer5558 Ай бұрын
You are so lucky to have a Grandma who cared so much.
@marigonatoffolo7801
@marigonatoffolo7801 29 күн бұрын
What a beautiful message ❤ So much love for the 3 of you ❤❤❤
@oliveoyal
@oliveoyal 6 күн бұрын
I just discovered you. Where have you been??? Seriously, I love your comedy, your hilariously, rye, facial expressions, and timing, yourself, depreciating humor… And you’re stunning style. Being honest about inheriting generational trauma it’s so courageous of you. Bravo, I I look forward to enjoying little timeout of comedy with you throughout my day. Thank you for that and stay well!!
@Pratida
@Pratida Ай бұрын
Sending your family so much love! Thank you so much for sharing your love and light with everyone.
@Coach_Ahava_3333
@Coach_Ahava_3333 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for healing and finding your way. ❤
@xyva5897
@xyva5897 2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ adorable grandma with all the strenght to continue living with all that situations and be supportive to you and your mother
@carmensofiabajo2826
@carmensofiabajo2826 11 күн бұрын
Omg they look like I need a hug! I’m following your mom right now 🥰
@Sarah-yk9xv
@Sarah-yk9xv Ай бұрын
It can feel so scary and isolating having a mom with schizophrenia. You just made me and probably many others feel less alone:) Thank you for sharing your family's story.
@maxwellali-kinney5856
@maxwellali-kinney5856 2 ай бұрын
May y’all get all the blessings in this life 🫶🏽
@bdubztv
@bdubztv 2 ай бұрын
I was scrolling through her shorts for a good laugh before bed and now I’m crying and inspired? 😭😭😭 excuse me!?
@jujuoof174
@jujuoof174 2 ай бұрын
I’m so glad and proud of how far you’ve all come❤
@Catherine26791
@Catherine26791 2 ай бұрын
This brought tears to eyes. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Sigh.
@emiliawilson4378
@emiliawilson4378 3 ай бұрын
The schizophrenia thing broke my heart. I'm so sorry I can't imagine. You are doing your best and your best is amazing❤
@ajcab819
@ajcab819 2 ай бұрын
How this made smile and start crying at the same time, I don’t know. Love you, your mom and grandma! ❤
@SeeNightingale
@SeeNightingale 3 ай бұрын
Yes, that part: we all are trying, some are trying their best.
@ellebannana
@ellebannana Ай бұрын
So happy I found this wholesome and wonderful channel
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