How has my husband changed after marriage | Slow Vietnamese story for Beginners | Northern dialect

[@ericj763]

Maybe one of the most fun and interesting VN learning videos I have seen! You have a great sense of humor and the video also includes so many useful words and phrases. I am sure you and your husband had a lot of fun making this together. Keep up the great work!

[@SlowVietnamese]

Thank you for the feedback!! It helps me to stay motivated :)

[@marynorquist6033]

Such a terrific video! I understood most of it so that makes me happy. I know that you were having fun with talking about your relationship with your husband. I was thinking I wonder what my husband would have on his list about me and my changes in 22 years of marriage? I'm sure my list would be so long! lol! :) I think you are a very genuine and a lovely person. I am enjoying your Slow Vietnamese videos a lot. Keep making your videos!

[@SlowVietnamese]

Hehe chị, I hope my list could be as long as yours :) My husband was helping me record this video, so I'm sure he was grumpy outside but actually laughing inside. I'm really happy that you like my videos!

[@glgreve]

Greetings Thuy! Nice to meet you! I am a subscriber on your husband's channel and just watched his video about you.. Oh how he loves you! :)... When my wife and I (she is of Japanese heritage) were first married.. We needed to change for each other.. It wasn't always so easy, especially because the young are always so passionate and often speak before thinking, but it wasn't so difficult either... We have been married now for 44 years this month and are still changing for each other... By the way, I hear it is your birthday! Happy Birthday to you! I wish much success to you and to your channel, but especially I wish a long and happy life with your man :)... Be blessed!

[@SlowVietnamese]

Thank you for sharing your story (and a coffee too!). I'm so happy for you two, 44 years together is truly amazing, but changing for each other after all those years is precious. I wish you and your wife health, happiness and always stay strong together.

[@seenonyt2210]

Great video! :) And I find this format (slow pace, 2x subtitles) super helpful 👏👏👏 And I like your humour 😂🙌 All the best to you and your husband 💛

[@SlowVietnamese]

Thank you for the feedback and your encouragement : )

[@seenonyt2210]

@@SlowVietnamese ☺️

[@juliadawson2128]

These videos are really helpful even though I don't understand every word, I can follow along and improve my listening skills. Thank you!

[@nawinpicha]

I love your channel; it helps me to practise basic listening, so I am much more motivated.

[@thisismycoolnickname]

Thật ra thú vị hơn khi chị phàn nàn, trở thành như phim drama hahaha. Cảm ơn chị!

[@jimmckinnon7148]

This video helps me with the rhythm or "nhịp" of the language.

[@Cys62]

Since you asked... i feel im obligated to answer... I think most couples after marriage definitely to a large extend their sweet sweet habits definitely would change, to the stage of maybe caringless. I feel it needs a lot of effort to keep alive, the sweets things previously shared.....

[@SlowVietnamese]

it's very true! I totally agree with you. Many people today give up too easily

[@PeXLaO]

lovely!!! I love it, I met you two once and you're a cute couple. Thank you for speaking slow Vietnamese!

[@SlowVietnamese]

Thank you! It was nice meeting you too! Hope you enjoy the waves today : )

[@seenonyt2210]

😳 aw, so nice! And such a nice thing to remember and say 😍

[@haveanicedayi]

thank you for making these videos!! your videos are seriously underrated

[@SlowVietnamese]

thank you :DD

[@Peters8749]

Hi I'm just found your channel with Eli the bike guy in 'da Nang I will try to learn some Vietnamese forward to see more of your videos.

[@SlowVietnamese]

Thank you!

[@naturalmedicinewriting5208]

I really like all the pictures that help me focus. Really fun!

[@SlowVietnamese]

glad that you liked it!

[@CorinneMinder]

Funny video ! 😂 ( Poor Sergei ! 😢..., such a nice person !!! Won’t you tell us about his qualities ?..🙊)

[@SlowVietnamese]

depends on his attitude ;)

[@noface5255]

lol .. marriage , i'm enjoying learning some Vietnamese with your videos - keep going !!

[@SlowVietnamese]

haha no advice given! purely for entertainment

[@phuthuynhoemi]

video của chị hay quá, em cũng muốn làm video về các nội dung tiếng việt để mọi người luyện nghe tiếng việt như chị mà động lực chưa đủ nhiều, em cũng ở hội an đà nẵng hehe. chúc kênh của chị ngày càng phát triển ^^

[@SlowVietnamese]

cảm ơn em! nếu em thích thì cứ làm thôi, đừng quan tâm là có nhiều người xem hay không ^^ chứ nhiều lúc chị cũng nản đó

[@stephennordlinger4112]

Great job on this video.

[@ckartik77]

Loved it. Very funny. Agree with you on everything about him. LOL😂😂😂

[@SlowVietnamese]

:Đ

[@jimmckinnon7148]

The pictures of the food are so good.

[@SlowVietnamese]

thanks : )

[@catherinecoudurier]

Cam on em nhieu!

[@SlowVietnamese]

cảm ơn chị. : )

[@hakayma]

bạn đã làm video, cảm ơn chồng bạn

[@SlowVietnamese]

Cảm ơn ơn : )

[@VietnamEli]

Really good video! 👍

[@georg-inn-swan]

Ага, вот они тайны "Мадридского двора"😉😆

[@jimmckinnon7148]

You're correct sir, her pronunciation is also very helpful.

[@SlowVietnamese]

thank you! Happy to have your support :)

[@onetime5640]

Thank you for another great Video ! I think you are wonderful ! 🌺 ❤️

[@SlowVietnamese]

thank you! I'm glad that you liked it : )

[@Rocken2023]

“Happy wife, happy life”😂 We have no other choices, bro😂😂😂 To your husband

[@StefanBacon]

I haven't felt this sad in about 6 days :'(

[@SlowVietnamese]

haha just for fun! its not as bad as you think :Đ

[@StefanBacon]

@@SlowVietnamese It also reminded me of my own failures :'(

[@SlowVietnamese]

@@StefanBacon :Đ actually this is for fun. I'm sorry if causing some misunderstanding or bringing back negative memory to you

[@StefanBacon]

@@SlowVietnamese 😂 no worries, thank you for the lesson!

[@tzuyulin8262]

How about the plane ticket? Hahaha, you guys really make me laugh! Miss you

[@SlowVietnamese]

haha Netherland is way too far! We miss you too :D

[@moofmoof3707]

Firstly, thank you so much for the video! I am not sure if this video is truth or just fun, and perhaps I'm too sensitive - but this video comes across as very personal from my western-minded perspective. The problems you outline are very legitimate reasons that people have to go to couples therapy or end up getting separated, etc. If a friend was to tell me these things, I would be very concerned for his/her relationship. I really hope you're just poking fun at your husband and these aren't things you're actually struggling with. Maybe that wasn't your intent, but I figured I should let you know - because I reckon that a lot of people that watch this will feel something similar.

[@SlowVietnamese]

thank you for letting me know your opinion. As I mentioned at the end of the video, this is for entertainment purpose. I can't represent for the whole Vietnamese people, just from my experience with people around me: wives love gossiping about their husbands but they can show off about their kids all day. If I brag about how good my husband is, I don't think my friend would love to listen without feeling tired all the time. Moreover, we - Vietnamese rarely talk about our problems with people we don't know, or public it on social media,.... so if I struggle with my life, I would never make a video to expose it. Although this video is my true story but its purpose is to help people learn Vietnamese basic activities with fun content. Maybe just my perspective, but I think of changes as a natural thing in our life, as long as we love our partners, we can always solve our problems. And my apologies for making you feel uncomfortable!

[@moofmoof3707]

@@SlowVietnamese For sure! I didn't mean anything negative by it and I wasn't trying to impede or anything of the sort - you certainly didn't make me uncomfortable, I just felt compelled to express my feelings about it. Your explanation makes perfect sense and I really appreciate your perspective on change, that's a beautiful way to look at it! Apologies for the misunderstanding and I hope you keep making awesome videos!

[@SlowVietnamese]

@@moofmoof3707 hey no worries! You got the point that other viewers might feel awkward or something, due to different cultures. And I appreciate your honest feedback and you pointed that out for me. Thank you for your support : )

[@emcgough]

So cute but real. I understand this

[@hong3393]

em từ video của chồng chị sang đây nè :v

[@SlowVietnamese]

haha cảm ơn em : )

[@jimmckinnon7148]

video này là tuyệt vời. tôi đã làm chậm lại một chút để giúp tôi phát âm.

[@SlowVietnamese]

cảm ơn Jim!

[@markking3882]

For god's sake please do something to increase the volume of your vids !!!

[@larrylenard4284]

Xin lõi. I hope that your husband will do better.

[@SlowVietnamese]

it was just for fun :Đ

[@sunghwanlee2587]

Hài quá ^___^ Tôi tưởng là kể chuyện này là câu chuyện của tôi, một đan ông Hàn Quốc cũng như chồng của bạn.

[@SlowVietnamese]

haha :DD vợ chồng mình không ăn sáng cùng nhau nhưng luôn luôn ăn trưa và ăn tối cùng nhau : )

[@Peter-bl2hn]

Trước khi kết hôn vợ của mình chưa phàn nàn công cộng về mình trên KZbin! Haha

[@SlowVietnamese]

:))))

[@alci720]

If you had not said it was for entertainment I would have believed that you need to get divorced!

[@SlowVietnamese]

😂 I only mentioned the negativity

[@alci720]

@@SlowVietnamese 😄

[@NATIVE_GRAMMAR_GURU]

So funny guys.... :)

[@SlowVietnamese]

:Đ

[@galan7337]

So sad...and funny. It sounds like every American wife I have ever heard talking about her husband, so apparently, this is normal.

[@SlowVietnamese]

its just for entertaining, dont worry ;)

[@robertjost8308]

Tôi rất buồn chồng của cháu làm cháu cảm thầy buồn.

[@SlowVietnamese]

À không ạ! Cháu không buồn một chút nào đâu :Đ Cháu làm video này cho vui thôi! Ví dụ: chồng cháu không ăn sáng cùng cháu, nhưng luôn luôn ăn trưa và ăn tối cùng cháu ^^ Chú đừng lo ạ! Hic xin lỗi chú vì video này dễ gây hiểu lầm.

[@robertjost8308]

​ @Slow Vietnamese Chúc mừng cháu. Chú thật vui cháu có chồng tốt. Chú nghĩ về nhiều người phụ nữ Việt Nam ai có chồng không tốt vì chồng uống rược và are abusive và có bạn gái.

[@SlowVietnamese]

@@robertjost8308 vâng cháu cảm ơn chú nhiều! Cháu đúng là rất may mắn!

[@FT__Self-Improvement_____]

lol - ROASTED

[@petemcc152]

I'm sorry things are so bad for you

[@SlowVietnamese]

a please don't! It's just our Vietnamese humble character that we don't want to show off about good things we have. Only complain to have fun!