How Have We Changed Each Other??

[@maryperth]

John: "I'm not Gabe Dunn." Spoken like he anticipates a deep, universal disappointment at his performance as the understudy.

[@megancita75]

Pausing the video to immediately request a video where John teaches us all how to cook vegetables so we like them. This would be an invaluable service.

[@ellis7796]

Roast them in the oven with salt and oil (and any seasonings you like, but salt is a requirement). Garlic is also good on almost everything. Add an acid (like lemon juice) when they're done cooking. That's my cheat sheet for tasty veggies at least

[@pandaboy5o]

I love when you can tell a couple enjoy each others company

[@ellaleblanch9703]

When my fiance wakes up I’m going to have this conversation with him what a lovely thing to share with someone how they’ve changed you for the better

[@cookiecutter80]

“The idea that I have to do work to eat, makes me not want to do it” same Allison. 😂

[@JustBetweenUs]

You had an ex where you spoke French for an afternoon? Manic pixie dream John. -g

[@thingslaurasays9995]

John trying to add the Gabe drama and blood hahaha

[@ilikedill1354]

There is tremendous power in letting people know you disagree with them politically but refusing to argue about it or shun them. They want the certainty of having an opponent. If you don't give it to them, then they can't have the satisfaction of knowing people who disagree with them are evil and bad.

[@michellekim2475]

love this take!!

[@petuniablossom3494]

So well said!

[@erinconnor2792]

I really enjoy seeing you two talk about your relationship, the challenges and the joys of being together. You both are a good example for what I hope to find someday! ❤

[@amplifiedattitude]

Oh wow! My midnight binge watching of JBU payed off! A new video from my favorite people

[@geosndrsn]

love you guys talking about your marriage, love the perspective

[@colaty8P]

this was delightful

[@StrawberryLegacy]

Omg Allison when he said you're a Tom Cruise fan and you were like "you can't reveal that!!" I felt that so bad, I love him too but wish I didn't and literally only my best friend knows about it 😂

[@mathi3933]

So I guess we are all your best friends now! ❤

[@boredomsentmehere]

On the writing point, as a long time fan who's read both of Allison's books, I thought " I do I think" was a massive improvement on writing style from Overthinking about you (which I also def enjoyed)

[@cc3808]

Allison you are truly slaying with the new haircut and the button ups!! Hi John! You guys are so cute

[@UnbakedParrot]

John gives Brennan Lee Mulligan vibes in the best way.

[@Yolkgurt]

Dying at 6:40 "He'd want the conflict, he'd want the blood"

[@greenglassgoblin]

5:20 as an ex-evangelical rightwinger, the embarrassment of discovering that people you respect find your beliefs shockingly unethical is a very effect first step to de-radicalization

[@lastraysofsun]

I'm a fan of the B team!

[@marr9999]

wow Alison's hair looks AMAZING fr

[@ElizabethFailure]

i've always loved the way they loved.

[@da009999]

What a lovely couple. Alison used to scream? I didn't realize chain restaurants were so stressful. This guy should be the next governor of California.

[@pedroh.7154]

Love these moments that reaffirm that I'm indeed an Allison. I also LOVE Tom Cruise and that's kind of a guilty pleasure.

[@sundaesorceress]

same and the reasoning being “he’s just such a movie star” EXACTLY

[@cariiinen]

The "I think you should leave" reference I wasn't expecting! ;)

[@cariiinen]

Lovely! Hope Gabe enjoyed his week off

[@KennyGthegirl]

such cute people who are also so clearly in love and wonderful for each other. I love love

[@melissalenz3669]

anyone else spending the entire video admiring how beautiful Allison is

[@fluorescentadolescent2189]

the way each of these was so relatable to me on both sides haha

[@bennettcafarelli7066]

The way you guys look at each other 💘

[@singingtuna4786]

GOALS this was so cute!

[@culturequeens1734]

I thought the Gamache restrictions would enter the negative influence category. Is Allison starting to enjoy it? Also, no dishwasher? it's the one thing I'm jealous of American households for.

[@luciavcs]

hey the ruth is looking extra nice!!!!

[@yadiramayorga5897]

I love you guys pls start your own channel or podcast or something!!!

[@vanessagates7735]

Oh my god when you both did the laughing lean forward at the same time 🥹😆

[@tatetower4542]

John looking as handsome as ever

[@rachellauth931]

My husband has done the same exact thing for me with I Think You Should Leave - we now can't go a single day without quoting it

[@TriforceLiz]

*sighs happily* 🥰🥰🥰 Did you know that I didn't think I wanted a relationship until I saw what you two had? Dream relationship goals, honestly.

[@fluorescentadolescent2189]

I feel the same way about cooking/dishes. The difference between a cooked meal and snacking on meal parts is not big enough to warrant the dishes

[@haselsal]

i am extremely proud of the fact that i influenced my partner into liking "i think you should leave." saying "mhmm!" from fenton's stables and horse ranch is a daily occurrence. it feels like a cornerstone of our relationship.

[@Onemoment1111]

Yayyy!!! Love this!! But also…more spice! More spice!

[@remisica]

How did they meet?

[@KennyGeez]

John is so much better than your ex fiance! He has a great personality! The last guy was a gd dud

[@L0VEisAmixtape]

Hi Allison thanks for answering my question about the I think you should leave quote that was almost on your ring :) that was meeee. Also, if you guys like i think you should leave, i bet you'd like the called The Detroiters, also with Tim Robinson.

[@mrinalinibadrinarayanan2940]

Hey Allison do you like the way vegetables are done in Indian cuisine? Like Vegetable Pulao?

[@sexyscientist]

Or aalu gobi?

[@marieluise6907]

❤❤❤

[@veganbatman]

what is ckd?

[@megancita75]

CPK, California Pizza Kitchen. (And I agree with Alison; it’s a good chain.)

[@KimGhidorah]

11:20 😂

[@getknittywithit]

B team but the B stands for Blakesley

[@ErinMcMillin]

Alison, I LOVE Ray Ramano! His comedic acting in The Big Sick and Somewhere In Queens is so real and grounded. But his dramatic acting in the movie Paddleton? Probably has one of the most intense scenes in cinema history!!! Glad to know you’re a fellow Ramano head 🙃

[@Jeminnow]

Soo, in summary, Allison's changes are: 1) she eats healthier now because John cooks well. 2) she's less reactionary, which saves John from being embarrassed (which he agrees with). 3) likes "I Think you Should Leave Now". 4) says her writing is improving because John said she could have better command of language, like him 🙄 (even though Allison has written several popular books that help people...) So John is helping by confirming Allison's doubts about her writing? 5) no negative changes comes to mind, except perhaps being less reactionary (i.e. standing up for her opinions) John's changes are: 1) Alison has helped him speak up more & push back on things. 2) Allison has made him less pretentious because being with her is fun and not stuffy (at the same time, he compares her to his exes with more "snooty" taste and apparently he misses that sometimes? Also says Allison's French is like how a French dog would say it? Sounds like he has a way to go to become even less pretentious). 3) John watches more rom coms & likes Martin Short, plus he reads more now. 4) Negatives: appeases Allison's OCD a lot. Hmmm, interesting that he considers that a negative, rather than saying something like, 'I've become more compassionate, understanding, and loving'. Sounds like he was sitting on that awhile. I know this is supposed to be a light video and there was a lot of laughter but I also picked up on some condescending vibes from John. I think Allison has a pretty thick skin because I would feel hurt and annoyed by John's comments

[@NoName-rg5sr]

was someone mean to you as a child

[@Jeminnow]

@@NoName-rg5sr Honestly, yes. So I know negging when I see it