How I dealt with my mother's mental health problems - BBC URDU

[@ayeshasaleh7484]

بیشک دلوں کا اطمینان اللہ تعالیٰ کے زکر مٹ ہی ہے

[@chunomuno6133]

Beautiful line

[@anahaqq]

@Ayesha Saleh: اللہ خود افسردہ ہے

[@mushrafchipy586]

ONLY JESUS CHRIST IS THE PRINCE OF PEACE 👑👑 HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH AMEN 🙏🙏💒🕎🔯🇮🇱🇮🇱🙏💕💓 . Christians do not Seek Peace from other gods.

[@moominyousuf7242]

You are a brave daughter. I wish you make name and fame in your profession. Being a doctor I appreciate your job.

[@AnsariAli-ux1fu]

اللہ اکبر ۔ بہت عمدہ کارکردگی ۔ آپ کی کاوش و محنت کو ہم سلام کرتے ہیں ۔ اللہ رب العالمین، امت مسلمہ میں شعور و بیداری فرمائے ۔ امین ثمہ امین ۔جزاک اللہ خیر ۔ انڈیا ۔

[@sadafnaaz8316]

Aap boht achi beti ho or boht brave bhi aap ki ammi ki masly ko aap ny tb smjha jb bry bhi nahi smjh parhy th Allah aap sy razi hon

[@farahsayed9869]

معلوماتی اور مثبت ویڈیو ہے, بہت سے لوگ اس سے فائدہ اٹھا کر اس تکلیف سے بچ جائیں گے جس سے آپ گزریں

[@rafatsiddiqui7962]

I am Mental Health nurse, i really appreciate that you are come on media and explain your problem.

[@aqsajadoon8790]

mn is time se guzar rhe hun... same story, meri ami bilkul aesi hn... dua kryn .. lkn log jo hy wo ni chorty😥

[@mashafisyourdaddy]

Inshallah Theek Hojayen gee Bus app Unka Dihaan Rakhen 👍🙏

[@bestislamicviews8644]

Ap detail se btayn mey help krskta ho Quran se in Sha Allah

[@qurratulainsaqib4816]

Mere Abbu ko thi or mai is time ye sun kr ro rai hun because mujhe logo ka Abbu ko dantna,marna mazak urana sab yad agaya meri Ammi akaily sab sambhalti rai or hum behan bhai bht chohtay thay.... bht hard time dekha ha

[@bestislamicviews8644]

@@qurratulainsaqib4816 mey is ka ilajj Quran se krta ho

[@kehkashankazmi6780]

@@mashafisyourdaddy k

[@an_najm7864]

This literally brought tears to my eyes. I Salut you for your strength and understanding your Ammi. More awareness is needed in our society.

[@nasrinfatima5304]

My sister also having this problem. So I feel your pain. God bless your mom.

[@shamaparveen3597]

Beshak Quran mei shifa hai counselling ke sath Sura Rahman ore RUQYAH bhi ami ka karwaye ln sha Allah Allah Talla shifa de ga ore namaz bhi parhay.

[@RDAR601]

اللہ تعالیٰ آپکی امی کو صحت دے آمین

[@biologylecturesbyriffat]

Thank God finally I found something positive here at BBC.

[@sqitaly6260]

مجھے بہت اچھا لگا اپ نے اپنی بات کی ميری دو بيٹياں پدائيش سے ہی معزور هيں اور ميرے ايک بيٹے کو ايٹزم ہے ميرے لئے ان ميں کوئی کمی نہی کيونکہ ميں انکی ماں ھوں اور ميرے خاوند بھی اپنے بچوں کی ديکھ بھا ل ميں ميرا بھر پور ساتھ ديتے ھين اور مجھے يہ سب بتا تے ہوے کوئ شرمندگی مہسوس نہی جو رہی بہت شکريہ💖💐

[@cutetv5433]

🌷💕🌷

[@ghazalaashraf1516]

Allah bless you and make you strong

[@m.a.am.a.a6067]

Allah apko mzeed himat den or apky lye asaniyan peda hon

[@AsimSiddiqiBC]

May Allah tabariktala will give you courage You are eanning janat Inshallah I can imagine ur thought who will take care in ur absence Don't worry Malik ul mulak is there ,who love with his creation more then seventy time more Plz invest some money for them I hope you will send them in special education centre My pray is for your entire family Regards

[@AsimSiddiqiBC]

You are very brave ,you described in very nice way big problem in good way Inshallah you will get ager e Azeem Our pray is with you

[@munazzaharoon7896]

اللّٰہ پاک آپکی امی کو شفاء کاملہ عطا کرے آمین ۔۔۔۔۔آپ بہادر اور محنتی ہیں ما شاءاللہ ۔۔اللہ تعالیٰ ہمیں بھی اس قابل کرے کہ ہم اپنے والدین کے لیے کچھ کر سکیں۔۔۔۔۔

[@Cricket-Debonair]

My mother was suffering from schizophrenia. She used to do all this. Talking to her self all night. She suffered from insomnia. So doctor decided to give respiriodone to make sure she sleeps well. In addition to that she had liver cirrhosis. My elder took care of her from 2007 till 2014. Yes, our relatives told my father to leave her. But my father stood by my mother because she loved her. When my sister got married, I decided to take of my mother and left my job when he started to get ill due to liver cirrhosis. Wo iss bemaari ki Waja say dur ja chili thee. But I tried my best as a son to take care of her. It takes huge effort and patient of schizophrenic patient especially takleef hoti hai jub wo apki maa hun. In 2016, she passed away due to liver failure. Whenever I remember her and visit her grave, it pains me that she is not alive. I always pray that she get exalted status in the heavens

[@saherbaloch4173]

Shoaib Zaheer I hope your mother rests in eternal peace Shoaib🙏🏽 you are right that it is painful to see a parent or a loved one go through it. You are very strong and I wish you all the best in life.

[@Cricket-Debonair]

@@saherbaloch4173 thanks for sharing your story. I felt I had to tell my story as there is a lot of stigma attached to mental illness.

[@saherbaloch4173]

Shoaib Zaheer There sure is but speaking about it helps : ) wishing you all the best in life

[@malikazharjoiya5333]

A lot of prayers by heart for your mother. No doubt heart and mind become helpless and sadness covers the mind when mother is not with you. My mother left us in 2016 and I'm very sad from then. I see the old women and become very sad to see the picture of my mom in their faces. There was a lovely time when we talked with mom and enjoyed her company. May ALLAH BLESS us our mother in the jannah. Ameen. Thanks Love from Dubai and multan Pakistan

[@Cricket-Debonair]

@@saherbaloch4173 thanks for the prayers and support

[@worshipthecreator9081]

The only way to cure depression is the root of the problem. Otherwise it doesn't end and life is full of sadness & sickness. May Allah swt cure all who are sick... Ameen

[@zunairairfan8584]

Yah topic buhat zarori tha thanks meri knowledge ko increase karnay ka liyay about mental health

[@IsmailKhan-sl9dz]

دل کا اطمنان اللہ کی ذکر می ھوتا ھے

[@AbdulBasit-fg1gr]

I am suffering same disease.. I can understand your pain

[@postlinux]

you are brave...talking on these matters were taboo in history but not now..

[@zahramasood6846]

زندگی میں سکون تبھی ملے گا جب ہم لوگوں کی منفی باتوں پر توجہ نہ دیں

[@rubinalatifpoetry1141]

Yes True

[@farooqie1]

اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کی اور سب لوگوں کی مدد فرمائے آمین ثم آمین

[@anahaqq]

@Ghulam Mustafa: allah guy is unable to help.

[@abidmehmood6442]

Ameen

[@iffatkhan7630]

My mom is also suffering,I can understand your situation I am only to take care of her,earlier I can't understand her illness but we went to doctor now she is better not fully well but now it is easy to handle her surah rehmaan or Quraan duaai dum also help alot

[@naseemahmad1112]

Allah sab ki ammi Ko theek rakhy.ameen

[@bintezarina6592]

Ameen

[@ViralToday18]

Ameen

[@alikhansahab8356]

Ameen

[@anahaqq]

@Naseem Ahmed: allah guy is unable to keep happy all mothers.

[@yasirAslam5273]

اللہ تعالیٰ غیب سے مدد فرمائے آپ کی امی کو صحت کاملہ عطا فرمائے آمین

[@ViralToday18]

Ameen

[@alikhansahab8356]

Ameen

[@saminasalahuddin7461]

Thank you for sharing! Indeed mental health problems should not be stigmatized but need to be talked about.

[@khanjehangir60]

I can relate your story & could feel the pain. As I have a family member also with same situations.

[@aroosakhan5616]

Yes only the person who is going throug that issu will understand .

[@jaweriachauhdry]

Same story se me guzry hun apni ammie k sath but Alhamdulillah abhi wo pehle se bahot behtar hain

[@sadiqlaghariadvocate2172]

Apne kahan se treatment karwaya hy Ammi ka muje bi apni Ammi ky bare me help chahye thi

[@jaweriachauhdry]

@@sadiqlaghariadvocate2172 kuch khas treatment to nai karwaya bas Resperidon naam ki ek medicine leti thi bas enviroment hi badla hai jo log ya cheez se irritate hoti hain koshish kar k ussay dur rakhtay hain...

[@sadiqlaghariadvocate2172]

@@jaweriachauhdry ab apki Ammi ki tabiyat kesi hy is medicine 💊 ky baad.

[@jaweriachauhdry]

@@sadiqlaghariadvocate2172 phir theek rehti hain par neend zayada ati hai...abhi medicine nai leti environment matter karta hai jis waja se mental ilness hui ho un cheezo se bato se duur rakhein

[@jaweriachauhdry]

@@sadiqlaghariadvocate2172 doctor se counciling ya therapy karwayein

[@falakfaiz4183]

I understand mary sath bhi asa howa mary baba m mently health p hensty thay but allhumdullah ab Allah tala n kamyab kardiya

[@rukhsanaibraheem5191]

I have same problem 5 years back now fine alhamdulillah I hv religous friends i share each and everything with them when i stuck in depression They listen me and carefully and say to do dua and sabr And i m also listening a ruqayia daily i m absloutly fine now but when negetive thoughts come in my mind i imediatly listen riqyia and imediately i feel better and i say myself allah sab sanbhal le ga So no worries Aur phir wo sab sanbhal bhi leta he Hamen khahmkhah shaitan waswase daal daal kr pershan kr rha hota he ke ye na ho jae jo log tang kr rhe hote hen wo ye na kr den wo wo na kr den Ruqaia (daam) se shaitan jaan chor deta he aap happy feel krte hen (Strong ruqyah to destroy jinn living in head causing headach and memory loss )link of ruqaia i listen in negitive thoughts worked fast I listen daily

[@huzaifaanjum6599]

Allah apki walda ko seht dey mera 16 saal ka beta mental disorder me hy aur buht kuch face kar rahi hun mujhe apki duaon ki zaroorat hy

[@joofri8279]

Allah Pak us ko sehat Ata karay ....

[@hrhs2268]

Contact dr iqbal afridi

[@aneelasaeed6075]

Allah ap ky bety ko shifa dy. Amin

[@UzmaInam-sm5ii]

I can feel you This is absolutely right My mother remain quite

[@rehanaakhter5202]

You are sach a brave lady. My husband is suffering from dementia,. Me b boht tennis hon.

[@kino3792]

You are a brave person, stay blessed. I think the problem lies in individuals, we do not lack awareness but compassion too. As a mental health professional I can tell you that awareness is not the only factor missing here even amongst professionals.

[@sumaiyanoor6928]

Thank you for sharing! This is the situation I am facing with a close family member but with extremely intense symptoms. She has been diagnosed with Schizophrenia few years back.

[@alirahimbaloch175]

Thank you so much BCC Urdu. I passed my language interpretation test from English to Urdu by listening Sehar Baloch podcasts. It really improved my linguistic skill

[@mahmoodazmi805]

معلوماتی پوسٹ ھے۔ بھت بھت۔ شکریہ

[@irumbatool3091]

Very impressive ,only by dicussing mental health problems we can find the solution .

[@malikazharjoiya5333]

Surely irum it's true. My elder brother had an issue with mental health but not more. He was undertreatmen of Dr Musarat Hussain from jinnah hospital Karachi. But the Dr Musarat is no more in this world now. My brother recovered much more from Dr. But again any time he depresses and he now taking medicines from a Dr in Multan. If you can suggest any other Dr if you know then thanks. He is working on his medical store too but any time he becomes with depression. No body can understand him as a patient.He looks a normal person. Love from Dubai and Multan Pakistan. My WhatsApp [phone].

[@saleembukhari7675]

Very sad but informative video.

[@suraiyajabeenenvironmental2907]

U r right we need to talk and Make things easy for such families

[@sulaimsarfraz5040]

I applaud you for spreading awareness about schizophrenia using your personal story.

[@bushraalmas5397]

O Allah have mercy on mankind

[@awais8944]

GOD will help you and your mother 👍👍

[@bushramajid5963]

Aap boht brave ho my dear sister ❤

[@irfanirfan8867]

God bless you and your family

[@tahiraperveen7950]

U r a strong person may u b blessed by same courage throughout life. Amin

[@samiaaslam3059]

My ex husband also suffering from this disease I tried hard to convince his family that he needs Dr but they said our son is fine u r lying. Even he himself said m not mad just a gin came on me or someone did jado. Its actually a taboo in our society but we need to understand its a disease like other diseases.

[@TabeyKhan]

Sorry to hear your story. I'm studying Community Services in Australia. In this course, I'm learning to understand many things including people behavior when they are disabled, all kinds of disabilities and issues with health problems. Your videos is very helpful for people to understand disabilities and its effects on individuals and on families as well. Hope, i will serve the community very soon after completing my degree. Best wishes for your Mum!

[@ayeshasaleh7484]

یہ زہر اج کل ہمارے قریبی رشتے دیتے ہیں

[@cutetv5433]

🌷💕🌷

[@atiquehajra5838]

Theak kaha

[@sanji546]

Correct

[@farhatsharif3576]

Book Club J

[@SR-if9hz]

So true

[@komailraza3487]

U r so strong may Allah bless u and ur family

[@Blossomatic]

ALLAH Pak sehat wali zindagi ata frmae apki Ammi ko Aur hr Aisy insan ko Ameen suma ameeeen...

[@aroosakhan5616]

Allah se doua hy k Allah pak koi mojza dikhayn r ap ki Ammi theek hojayen ye sirf Pakistani m hee nai sari duniya ka masla hy k mental help wale ko koi help nai milti r ye aik bohut bara issu hy .

[@rebuildchronicales]

You are brave... I salute you

[@hameedawaheed2139]

very informative impressed my own brother suffered and still on medicines i saw how was his family making fun of him it was tourcher for me blessed

[@sankh4850]

How he is now???

[@muhammadtajuddin2989]

I hear you sister.

[@razinaiqbalsharif8461]

My father was a doctor with practice from home, some of the patients who are friends and female visited our home. One of them is the wife and daughter of my father's friend, I was 13 at the time and my friend was a couple of years older, the mother was acute schizophrenic she often was thirsty but couldn't drink the water because she saw insects in water. The daughter coaxed her to drink. My maternal grandmother was a heartless person and told my mother that the mother and daughter are witches. So my mother forbade them not to come to our home. I am 63 now it still hurts me when I remember my friend and her poor mother

[@saherbaloch4173]

Razina Iqbal Sharif thank you for sharing this Razina. I can understand how certain beliefs with regards to mental health can limit our interactions with others . But realising it is a good step in the right direction

[@mariumshafqat3826]

Thank you KZbin for recommending me this

[@mehnazhashmi3438]

Meri beti 18 years ki hay facing chronic depression wi class ki topper hay us ko food phobia hi weight loss bohat hay dua karien dr ko bhi dekhaya hay relegious bhi bohat hay

[@humairazunnun150]

اللہ آپکی والدہ صحت دے امین

[@explorethefun3844]

😞

[@m.aqib0312]

Praying for your mom!

[@Banati-fl3pc]

It is very sad but very informative video. Thank you for uploading. Sab ko ye baat samajani chaahiey ke hamara brain bi jism ka part hai jis tara koi part of body bemaar ho sakta hai brain bi bemaar ho sakta hai jis ko ilaaj ki zaroorat hoti hai. I work for mental health services and i see people and their families suffering day by day so plz help them instead of making fun of them.

[@IsmailKhan-sl9dz]

سبخان اللہ وبخمدہ سبخان اللہ العظیم

[@tahirfarooq1591]

Most relatable video

[@sayyedhassan8675]

A good informative report keep it up, thanks.

[@jawadshah5111]

Very informative and good vedio plz spread this vedio and help that type of patient

[@saimafaisal4430]

Great work ❤️

[@UzmaInam-sm5ii]

I saw my mother since childhood this condition

[@TheBalochAussie]

More Power to You and your Mother. This is brave.

[@alizakhan9690]

Mjy b depression , shezophrania h but now, drama serab help my family to understand me

[@alizakhan9690]

I am fine alhamdulilah

[@sadiqlaghariadvocate2172]

Where you get your treatment ?

[@AbdulBasit-fg1gr]

Send your number I call you some instruction

[@mohsinadarr3665]

You have given an excellent msg to all of us thank you for sharing your story

[@ReflectionofPassion]

You’re saying absolutely right

[@sulma9938]

I have tears in my eyes, because my close family member has mental illness and i can completely relate to you, but the most heart breaking is people around you,who don't have any knowledge about mental illness.when you are alone and no one is there to support you.if you tell someone about mental illness they just laugh at you and make fun of you, only people know about this who are going through this.

[@fashionworld4587]

Q iliac Tu q Nv jnhjlllmlokhg ¶∆UNCIVILq

[@sushiltiwari-oj8jk]

I hope she will get well soon

[@aftabsoomro5527]

I understand ur pain dear,Allah ap ki ami ko sehat dye aamen

[@ghazalan5348]

Most needed topic of the current time.

[@hkgamer6034]

Brave girl.

[@Bellalaila]

I think it's lack of communication between family members. The process of Forgiveness, healing, closure and move on is very crucial in our society. Allah par Eman pukhta aur guman aisa k Allah hi mujzon par qadir hai, dunya tu hamesha gumrah karti hai.

[@dkkitchenkarara8535]

Stay blessed and stay connected

[@majidamd2375]

Very good women

[@raheelbaig2658]

Be hangam Awam bina kisi tarbiyt or munasib Taleem k asi hi society ko prwan charha sakty hn jahan log jahil, be-tarteeb jo kisi b kisam ki ( zehani mushkil) ko samjhny sy Qasir hotay hn.But you did excellent.

[@syedzafarimam7545]

Meri walda me symptoms same ha but Doctot Dymentia kh te he. Khatr nak bemari ha Allah mahfooz rakhe.

[@sadiasiddiqui2413]

Very good video 🌸

[@anieehashmi2167]

Very important topic, very common now adays. Should discuss and spared the contact no of these qualified doctors

[@homegardenandme3983]

is liya humy chahiya hum apni family ko time de or agr kisi ko koi masla ha to elag kiya jay or ehsas kiya jay

[@Aziindianbike]

Nice video

[@hamzaali-ds8vh]

Ji,hum bhi ay c sorat e haal sy guzary hyn.😢

[@relaxingsounds3771]

I am Kashan Ahmed and I want to share my story with you and want to spread it. Please Help to aware people about MAA

[@shakir899jokhio5]

Ya mare sister ka saat be hai

[@jamilasiddique1550]

Mera ur tumhara dard same hy farq sirf ye hy tum ek beti ho m ek maa hon meri beti ka ilaj italy m ho rah hy😥😥😥

[@sundasali260]

Meri behn meri bhtreen dost the ab wo b isi trh ki situation sy guzr rhe hai meri wish hai wo thk ho jy ab ye na mumkin lgta hai lekn Allah k liye tu kuch b na mumkin nhe Allah mdad frmay

[@hrhs2268]

Contact dr iqbal afridi

[@jagubhi9029]

Myre ami k sth b asa hi howa tga ham sab bhn bhaeo ny mil k thk kea bht sth dea apni ami ka

[@gulzamankhan7550]

Gaano se acha Allah ka zikr he

[@muhammadrizwanhammad2577]

Gaane kb chale is video me ya kahan baat hui hai iss baare me?

[@abidaaslam4658]

میں بھی اس میں سے گزر رہی ہوں مجھے بتائیں کہ میں کیا کروں

[@nadeemabbasi4569]

Kash ais society MA log Samaj sakain kudrat kisi ka sath be ya kar sakhti ha

[@sardaryousafzai2014]

Love You beta

[@aavlog313]

واقعی ۔اور ایسی باتیں سن کر تو اپنا آپ بھی مریض محسوس ہوتا ہے

[@Bushra-so0mr0]

Kiya ase log kbhi bhi thik or normal nhi ho sakte. Ap se koe dr ki adress ya link bhi salte hn jis se hm contact kr saken

[@biologylecturesbyriffat]

Allah Rehem frmaen and sb k parents py Rehem frmaen And also on people suffering from mental issues.

[@saurabh_poddar_of_90s]

excellant job !

[@ksm1245]

Nice.

[@fkarim88888]

I also feel like this. I start forgetting things.... Now I am doing alot of spelling mistakes... I am thinking if a group off people are laughing, I think they on me

[@sulma9938]

Hi Saf, you are suffering from mental illness ,in this day and age lots of people suffer from mental health issues at one point in their lives,i think you should seek medical advice.

[@zverh]

You maybe suffering from ADHD. See a psychiatrist or neurologist.