How I knew Brady was “the one” | Our Story :)

[@nombimsweli8643]

As a 19 year old, who has never dated and is in deep want of a relationship right now, I needed this reminder of God's perfect timing. I know he's prepping not only me but the perons I'm to be with. He is a good Father who gives Good gifts when He knows is best tp give them.

[@geovannapinheiro3063]

Girl, I feel you! I am a 19y too, never really dated. (I had a virtual relationship back in 2013/2014 but see, I was really Young hahahaahha but, in reality, face to face, no. And it's hard to see people around me that have a girl/boyfriend, are engaged...

[@ruthpyrah4059]

I'm also 19 and never dated!! Wow, we should be in some kind of group. It's ver difficult because I see a lot of other Christians getting married at 18, 19, 20, 21, but its Gods timing in the end and His decision

[@geovannapinheiro3063]

@@ruthpyrah4059 Count me in for that!!

[@nombimsweli8643]

@@ruthpyrah4059 ahahaah, we really should be😂 and you're noth so right it is difficult. I mean you look at these couples and think "man I want that". It gets hard to hold onto His promises, but we will because we know how faithful He is.

[@ruthpyrah4059]

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[@tythornley7584]

Gods timing is perfect

[@A127-i3x]

Amen❤️

[@godistoogood6362]

Except when your ugly

[@DCinstructions]

@@godistoogood6362 God provides for everyone, even if our wicked eyes see them as "ugly"

[@DCinstructions]

@keemochee idk what your point is, I just said God provides for everyone, even if our eyes see them as ugly, which means it doesn't matter how other ppl think we look like, God has found the perfect spouse for everyone

[@dennisphillips8312]

Congratulations Becca. It's obvious that you are in love. You're overflowing with joy. So glad you waited upon the Lord Jesus.

[@dotsphere5263]

I have been thinking that I have not met a single Godly person. I am literally in tears. I'm around your age. My cousins have been asking me about my relationship status. I have not been very hopeful these days. It's still difficult for me but in all my days God is good.

[@maria-pr2ib]

You are right, God is good! Don’t be discouraged, keep trusting the Lord. Everything will be done in its divine timing, including a relationship. As for loneliness, there is a whole community of believers in the Internet who love you (that’s us 😊!). You’re not alone

[@ntandokazionyeike8600]

I know that if God wants you to be in a relationship NOW you would be.... Trust His plan and his timing! He will never give you something too early or too late, he loves you too much

[@dawnransom385]

Jesus is our soul mate do not look to the flesh to empower you!

[@germboy007]

If only the world and the people have this high standards of morality people would be less stressed, less evil and relationship would mean so much more, more than sex ,attraction and showing off that this thier girl or boy, relationship would be more of true love in its truest form , congrats becca and brad

[@aliasreco]

How I knew? Well I did not know...I just fell in love and tried to win her. Of course we prayed. But romantism might have been more important than prayer. (God is very romantic too!) Of course we both wanted someone that loves Jesus. We married nearly three years later after Bibleschool. Waited with sex until we were married - God gave us grace and strength!) And now I think she is the right one.. .: Still happy after 41 years and our love and our dedication to Jesus is growing. God be praised.

[@aliasreco]

Well... Thanks to my wife too....! I'm not a Saint yet.... But our church is great! And Jesus is wonderful.

[@jessicawestbrook3730]

That's beautiful.

[@rebeccamclaren97]

Beautiful story 💕 This is the way I want to meet my husband, to be talking about the Lord's things and connecting in a deep, spiritual way where it just makes my heart sing out to God for His goodness! Amen to "don't settle/compromise". God is able to do "far exceedingly above all that we ask or think"! For 2 years when I left school I was unemployed (and utterly miserable). I had no idea what I wanted to do or be, but had very high expectations and in neglecting my relationship with the Lord I felt very self willed and sure that I could make my own way, in my own strength. Over those 2 years, the Lord gently broke me down, so that I came to the darkest point in my history where I finally realised my nothingness, and my great need of Him. I had no strength left, and so He became my everything. I was kneeling on the bathroom floor that day after a bad panic attack, tears streaming down my face and I just prayed "Lord give me anything, I will sweep the streets if I have to. Whatever you need for me to do, I'll do it". It took me a long time to get to that point of surrender but I have never felt so transformed as I did after I finally surrendered everything that day. And when I looked up from my place on the floor to the window, there was a cloud in the perfect shape of a love heart, slowly moving across the otherwise cloudless blue sky! That was such a powerful reminder to me of Who God was, and it was like He was in the room with me at that point. The cloud was like His arms just wrapping around me and holding me tight. The same week He sent me to an interview for a position I never imagined I would be able to obtain, and I got the job two days later. I'm now in a career that gives me such joy- it's certainly far more than I ever thought, hoped or prayed for. Jesus knows what we want, what we need, who we need and when. Trusting Him daily and anchoring ourselves in Him is so important. Like you said about the ladder- trusting in ourselves only leads to us falling flat on our faces (as I proved in those two horrible- yet looking back, truly beautiful- years!) So just as the Lord worked out all things for good as to my employment (which seemed so impossible at the start), I'm trusting Him as to a husband. Its seems impossible to me that anyone would want to spend the rest of their life with me, and I'm always compromising in my mind, but our God is good, faithful and true to His word. He knows how to give good gifts to His children! (P.s you're literally glowing 😂)

[@allisonlucas018]

My boyfriend and I love walking and talking as well! We have our best conversations when we're out in God's creation!

[@hiscanvasofgrace3391]

Don't marry the one you can live with, but the one you cannot.live without ☺️

[@MatthewVideoProduction]

But only if its reciprocal

[@jeflarremore7170]

I have been engaged twice and married once. My record isn't too impressive, but I would say try and work on the skills you need for being married. A wedding lasts a day, your marriage should last a lifetime. Work on conflict resolution skills, compromise and expecting to go to bed with each other when you absolutely hate each other. Learn to ask the question, "Do I want to die on this hill," meaning, "Is this worth arguing about?" Learn to say, "I'm sorry, I should not have done that and I won't do it again," and mean it. Travel together for a week with only one pair of clothes and $100 to live off of. No deodorant, no toothbrush, no toothpaste. Trust me, you will have less than $100 to live off of for at least one week in your life. Being uncomfortable is part of life. Learn that Philippians 2:5-8 (NIV) is the secret to a successful marriage.

[@HappiestSadGuy]

Not one mention of how many chairs he can carry at once??

[@Liveloud4Him]

Best comment ever 😂

[@abbyraudales]

Wait a min....

[@shoespeak]

this is soooo funny hahaha

[@bekahleah574]

💀

[@APolitically]

Brady is a lucky guy :-) Just remember, God's purpose isn't our happiness, it's that Jesus Christ be glorified. This also applies to marriage. So I wish you two a blessed rest of your lives together!

[@chanahwatson7282]

I’m so happy for you! I had the same confidence with my fiancé that I’d marry him. I knew in only 4 months of dating 3 years ago and now we’re getting married in 3 weeks on our third year anniversary! He wasn’t everything I wanted in a man but God knew what I needed and he’s so much more than I could’ve ever wanted for myself. So glad I left my love life in God’s hands ❤️

[@lionoffireministries]

I was 5 years of chronic illness! I was Semi Housebound, lost my health, job, finances and my fiance left me. I couldn't even look at electronic screen for 5 minutes, or hold a 10-minute conversation. But God did an amazing work. I now have a Christian Channel where I encourage people and show them what God did in my life and that there is hope for you also. ✝️🔥😊 *Keep believing even when it's hard* 🙏❤️🔥 *All things are possible with God*

[@hopeolivia590]

Wow this is so lovely! praise God that we are not in control 🙌🏽❤️

[@devorahneves]

Your smile 😊 when you talk about Brady is Sooo huge! You just beam from ear to ear. So happy for you Becca! ❤️your love story is kind of similar to mine. I kept letting my guard down and compromising on things that I knew deep down I shouldn’t be, and honestly didn’t want to be. But then I met my super sweet, kind, handsome fiancé 💕💕. His name is David. We are getting married June 12, 2021.

[@FarAwayDistance]

Congrats!!! :) And thank you so so much.

[@shanaeingram541]

Congratulations Becca, You inspire me. I got engaged recently too to a wonderful guy i met in my university cafeteria almost two years ago. I was a sophomore he was a senior. He’s the sweetest thing ever😊 we love doing ministry and I can’t see a life without him in it. I came to the US from Jamaica in 2018 on a track scholarship. never thought my life would take the direction it did but boy is God awesome! He wasn’t exactly what imagined for my life at first but he is who i need and I’m good over here! Lol.😊❤️Our love prevails through the worst and I am so excited 🤗for the journey of our future that God has for us! We have grown and are growing so much. All glory to God. His will and timing is perfect. We want to marry August of next year after I graduate in May. God bless you. Keep sharing ❤️🙏🙂

[@modedaniel5409]

You just put a big big smile on my face... Am glad and reassured that there are still Christians out there that are thinking biblically about everything. Thank you Bec

[@anastasiyarakova8517]

I'm so happy for you! I met someone like this.. But God is also telling me to slow down and focus on him (I tend to make idols out of people) and where he is leading me and I am SO glad I did that at this time! Everything is working out just fine, with the guy and with other things. I kind of feel I am moving at warp speed with growth right now but :) I feel at peace.

[@jasonbryan9056]

Hello how are you doing 😊😊😊😊

[@Jenny-ii3cd]

Take it very slowlu and it's gonna turn out to be very beautiful really

[@fightthegoodfightoffaithmi8676]

Job 25:2 Dominion and fear are with him, he maketh peace in his high places. This is my next favorite verse today fellow believers.

[@aubreyamend2569]

Really crazy how this popped in my suggested, the Lord works in mysterious ways.

[@hiddengem4293]

Amen, this is confirmation for both of us, HALLELUJAH~!

[@stefaniamaria3207]

I also left my old church around 2 months ago because of doctrine so its really nice to see more people doing it as well so I don't feel alone

[@KatDPerez]

Aww this is such a beautiful story! God is so faithful, love that you didn’t compromise and that God brought you a guy that met everything you’ve been praying for! ☺️🙌🏽

[@antonian8058]

I am so so happy for you :) you are so radiant talking about him, super sweet! It really is visible that you're talking about the two people you love most❤ Sometimes it feels like pure magic, talking to someone you know for years and realizing how similar you are and how they also follow Jesus. Like, I totally get you, staying up all night thinking about God's providence and sovereignty. Have a blessed day!

[@jessicasmith1102]

I love how much your excited about the word doctrine. I agree people ignore that very important word and it makes me sad. Your story just told me there is guys out there who love the Lord more then I do. Who get excited about talking about Him. Thanks for sharing, I feel a little less bitter.

[@samz9121]

27 year old Hillsong College student here. Single since 93, dated a control freak in church once (which was bad) for a month. Totally not on the other side watching all his friends get engaged, married, and popping kids... in Australia watching his friends back home in Singapore literally living their best days in a season that still doesn't make sense to us. XD This video couldn't have come at a better time. Thank you for sharing and for the work that you do. :D

[@isabellaangelina6090]

i was just watching your video about “not feeling God” where you were talking about your boyfriend and thought to myself, i wonder when they’re going to get married?! i’m so excited for you guys!

[@Jonny4384]

I lived in Foster Care for years and it is good what that Home is doing! I can testify that G-d held me in hard times, walk with me in the good times, and restored all that the locust had taken! Very thankful!

[@lexie02jones25]

This is so encouraging! It's the first time I'm hearing a love story about how God brought two people together and I'm not mad or angry like before. Instead, I feel inspired, edified, faithful, and still like water since I know God has better for me and I trust in Him

[@lydiarodriguez4126]

Becca, this was the sweetest video, and I found your words at the end so encouraging! The Lord is so faithful, and I'm so happy for you two! God bless y'all in this sweet season of life!

[@Angeloflight7]

Oh my word, the sponsor for your video sounds so amazing. I have never heard of such an amazing initiative before

[@1012345MB]

What a simple but great reminder to hear, “Do not settle”. Thank you for that reminder! 💛

[@laci2889]

God bless your relationship with Brady!

[@paytonferguson9014]

hehe such a cute thumbnail :) I love this so much! I GET THE RED FACE PROBLEM haha. I always think God was making a pun when he made me, "keep me as the apple of your eye; hide me in the shadow of your wings." Psalm 17:8

[@melenalynne]

congratulations on your engagement!

[@charlotteprentice13]

Thanks for sharing this! I really needed it today! 25 & single, and sometimes it feels like it’ll never happen, so thanks again and congratulations to you both! God bless! 💕

[@yugioh041]

I know exactly what you mean.

[@daisousa7913]

Congratulations sis!Your testimony brings me so much faith, hearing your words really encourage me to wait patiently in God! 🙏 Greetings from Brazil

[@gracevictor3865]

Awwww ! Congratulations Becca and thank you for the advice 😍👏 God bless you and Brady, with love all the way from PNG🇵🇬

[@hailey.ruthie]

So sweet, God truly does have a plan! Congratulations!

[@markmoore8399]

As a guy that is concerned that he will never find anyone, I was practially crying watching this video. Congratulations!! I know that my mind acts a lot like yours so I am glad you did find someone that will be a great husband for you. Even though your story finding Brady at another church does not involve ARC, I was thinking about this story Kristin Everett talked about with four families from ARC churches meeting at the same biblically sound church (kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5TZlGOtgN5pfKs, I am intending to link to 1:25:00).

[@aurorap.7578]

I've been struggling in my marriage and seeing this video reinspired me. And reminded me that God brought my husband and I together. Thank you, and please pray for me

[@briannajackson4326]

Wow...feels like yesterday I was watching your video on singleness and then I get a notification that your engaged. Congrats girl!! I honestly loved hearing your testimony. Some be really cheesy of how couples met but yours is so cute! 😊

[@lindagardellini6321]

So happy for you, Becca! You radiate joy. May God bless you and Brady abundantly in love, joy and happiness!

[@jasonbryan9056]

Hello how are you doing 😊😊😊

[@rebeccaly]

This is so so sweet. Thank you for sharing Becca. It’s been really hard for me to trust in God’s timing when it comes to relationships but I’ve been trying to keep my faith in Him regardless. Seeing you talk about Brady is literally so adorable. You are gleaming! I’m so happy you found each other (again)! ❤️

[@ana______6567]

whaaat, I don't know why I clicked on this video, I wanted to hear cool story how you met your 'the one' and it's the beginning of the video and you are talking about this house for the abused kids and it's so BEAUTIFUL. wow

[@hannahryan499]

Congrats! Oh good old Olivet. I went there! Side note: My fiancé and I went there but at different times. It's funny how we met years later. I definitely understand God's timing being perfect and unexpected. Thank you so much for your videos they have helped me more than you know! Keep doing what you're doing!

[@oksanamonroe3272]

Wow you have so much joy overflowing in you in this video! I’m so happy for you both! Thank you for this message. I needed to hear this. A good reminder to trust in God’s timing and to not settle or lower my standards.

[@sarahattia7041]

I love you, Becca!! So happy for u!

[@BrittanyChurch]

What a great story, so encouraging. Proud of you for waiting for His best! 😊❤

[@hopespeaksyt]

Such a beautiful story!💙 Thank you for the reminder to trust in God and surrender to him.

[@nolancarr4250]

Thankyou for this! I made a promise to Jesus not to date for the rest of the year and this was in February of 2021 and im coming up on the end and so many women have come onto my path. The lord is pulling me to just wait and its so difficult but I know it will be worth it

[@chithramariaalexander471]

Thank you so much Becca for sharing this ❤. Like you said "I used to think it's impossible to find someone with the same fervor for Jesus and his Kingdom. Someone who's heart breaks for his people . But it really encouraged me to not settle and to trust Yeshupapa and his time. ☀

[@lkae4]

Find someone who really puts Jesus first, really understands the Gospel and cherishes the Gospel even more knowing that he/she will be hated by the world because of it. This kind of person is very rare indeed. Other issues are not big in the long run.

[@emilygrant7719]

this is my 5th time watching this video! it’s just so happy and reminds me of God’s faithfulness while i wait😃

[@sally-kella]

Yay!!! That’s for the encouragement

[@melissacalderon1515]

That’s such a beautiful story! I’m so happy for you, God is the ultimate matchmaker 😭😭😍😍

[@ZBooneBeats]

Thanks for the video and CONGRATS!

[@_KendraChristine]

LOVE!! God is so good! And your guys’ story is so perfect and beautiful, it makes me so happy!!🥰

[@MauraLaine]

Thanks so much for this! I’m currently in a circumstance where this really helped me to remember to wait for Gods timing. So excited for you!! Go God!!

[@lindavangalder879]

Great video and I liked hearing how you and Brady met. The only thing I wanted to say is you said most people don't care about doctrine in the church and you were really surprised because Brady did just like you do, I want to correct you on that kindly. I believe the vast majority of people do care about doctrine. I know I do and that is what the church teaches. Maybe they don't use the term doctrine, but I can guarantee you that at least 70 percent of people going to church do care about the beliefs taught at the church and want them to be aligned with scripture.

[@AndyPandyO]

I agree! Well said. I loved this video, but that one comment about doctrine made me uncomfortable. It's true that maybe not everyone knows how to define doctrine, and may not be clear on certain doctrinal issues, because they are tricky issues where people vary in their opinions / interpretations of the bible, and even are still working through that for themselves. But I think a lot of people care about sound biblical teaching and the most helpful way to teach the bible and stay true to its intended message.

[@ladybethia5457]

Amen!!! Very encouraging. Thank you, Becca!💖🙏🏻🕊And your story...that sounds like my Lord!!!🤗

[@Kc1996-x4q]

Thank you for talking about God’s timing and how we shouldn’t settle for anything less. It’s so encouraging and it speaks to me directly!

[@celeste1694]

I laughed whenever you said "I am just sweating thinking about it" cause I am the same no joke 🤣😂 God bless you!

[@shoespeak]

for other people going through a time of singleness, its important to point out that this is also a great and holy time in your life, where you have a lot more time to give to the Lord. paul talks a few times about being single and how it is a great opportunity to really love God. it is hard but if you want a relationship with another person more than you want God, then you maybe don't quite have it right.

[@karlidilon5736]

Thank you for sponsoring them. Praying for these kids and hope to look more into it!

[@rebekahjacintags3285]

Hey Becca. :) This is beautiful. Could I ask for your prayers? I’ve been really really really struggling to trust God’s timing and I’ve been struggling with a lot of deep loneliness.

[@CareenasAdventures]

My face turns red a lot too...I get teased good-naturedly at work about it sometimes! Oh well. I guess blushing is kind of cute lol. 🙃

[@BibleAndFriends]

So right... Loving God more than anything should be the number one thing in a man or woman!!! I remember I was at a men's retreat a couple years ago and the one speaker mentioned to all the single guys... "A woman's heart should be so hidden in God that you have to seek Him (God) to find it!" You can use the same for a woman... "A man's heart should be so hidden in God that you have to seek Him (God) to find it!"

[@elizabethgariboldi2338]

This video was so so encouraging for me. Thank you so much for sharing; I need the reminder to trust and wait on God's timing. ❤❤

[@lilatomuyunda2817]

Aw, you're so sweet!! Thank God for this awesomeness. ❤

[@friendofjesus1680]

You're a graduate of Olivet? That's awesome! Olivet is great. I'm currently attending their, working on a masters in ministry. Distance right now, pastoring a church in Michigan atm.

[@-of7mb]

As a 30 yo who has never dated and has always wanted that relationship where we push each other towards God, I know I have to trust Him and His perfect timing but... It's a challenge. And I feel like for those who have been in relationships even if they didn't work, its very different.

[@LaguBudakKuching]

I was smiling so much watching this video! God is so good

[@bibinpbaby2980]

Amazing to listen sister!

[@tabbyw8850]

I would have loved a home like that as a foster kid 😊

[@yuliyalyube]

How exciting!!! Congrats 🎊

[@marilynbusse1767]

Congratulations on your engagement 🙏♥️😃

[@aishakimnakawoya8447]

Oooh glory to God. I am happy for u Becca. May God bless ur relationship.

[@natashah.6138]

This was very encouraging 💛

[@ovrthinker5957]

Kyaaa this is so cuteeee 💕💕 A lovestory written by God😍😍😍

[@sunshineaurorat]

Wow! You guys have a story that could be a movie. Love it. ❤️

[@elizabethsjourney701]

I really enjoyed this video. And also, I You said people from Illinois dont have accents, but I find that funny because you definitely have an accent.

[@mirandahanna1326]

Congrats on the engagement girly. God bless you both. I'm waiting on God for my husband. I've had too many boyfriends and I'm just taking this t iij me to grow in the Lord.

[@tatianar.9907]

It’s so wonderful to hear how God brought you and Brady together and to see you so happy! God works in awesome ways!

[@freedbyfaith487]

Amen!!! Praise Jesus! All Glory to God! Best wishes to you both!!!🎉🙏✝️

[@Abc-ks5wh]

Congratulations Becca❤️my heart is filled with Joy hearing your good blessed news! 🙏🎊

[@hopespeaksyt]

So awesome you had House of Providence as your sponsor for this video! I've never heard of them before, but it sounds like they do amazing things! Praise God for them.

[@theonegrateful-leper]

Your joy radiat so beautifully

[@ntandokazionyeike8600]

"Sorry I don't know if that was important to mention" pshh girl we need the details 😂 Praise God Cute love story ❤️

[@kaylasaunders8740]

Thank you for this encouraging message and testimony on waiting until God's choice in a significant other presents itself. I am thankful for God's redemption from past relationships and your reminder that my micromanaging of a relationship to be "perfect" will only result in disappointment. God is sovereign and His love is always something to count on, even when earthly relationships fail to show you that. Again, thank you. Your platform is an encouragement and I look forward to more videos!

[@CateOtanes]

So happy for you guys. Im excited and will be keeping u both in my prayers. ✨ Also... This is a great sponsorship ❤️

[@itstheleighforme7705]

Hey, Looking forward to your next video!

[@Sophia-sj3hx]

Awwww this story is so cute and truly godly! I LOVE IT! I'm so happy for u! You were beaming with joy when you talk about Brady. It's amazing how the Lord brought you two tgt!

[@berneice8924]

I am so happy and excited for you!!! 😘😘

[@trishakambanei760]

Aww 🥰 smiled through out the clip. This is super cute 🎉 Congratulations 💞

[@paulwilson4738]

As usual a very truthful, heartfelt message, thank you and God's continued blessing through thick nd thin for you both, Becca! Say, if your Brady has some time available for it, would you like to bring him onto a future video? Many, I bet, would be glad to meet him, other than just on Facebook or something!

[@casual720]

Becca! This helped me a lot. Could I ask what the five things were that you were searching in a guy? 😲

[@Andrea-fe6dy]

Congratulations Becca and may God continue to Bless your relationship xx

[@efuakoomson598]

Some angels do have wings Isaiah 6:2 "Above him stood the seraphim. Each had six wings: with two he covered his face, and with two he covered his feet, and with two he flew"

[@Jereton]

This was a great story! All the best to you both.