How I Knew He Was Not My Husband

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[@WonderfulActs]

Like this post if you know he aint ya husband. 🤣 Love you, friends!

[@huldahh]

🤣 Even God knows

[@huldahh]

Your story is just like my story, it's just that I'm experiencing this while I'm older (turning 28 next month)

[@nakiasmith4086]

Heavenly Father, You are great. Your character has never changed. You were the same yesterday and You will be the same tomorrow. I can always count on You. I have not seen Your face, but I have read of Your works throughout history. Make my faith stronger, and help me to believe. Have faith for me when I lack faith. In Jesus' name. Amen.

[@nakiasmith4086]

I'm in a lot of pain right now, would you Pray for me?

[@huldahh]

@@nakiasmith4086 Sure

[@red6hot1913]

I don't know if God has marriage for me. It's been a desire of mine for years. I'm wise enough to know that I can't create my own story but in my prayer time this morning, I thanked him for being a better husband to me then a physical man could ever be. I finally have peace in my singleness. I'm not dating anyone, and definitely not defiling myself with anyone. I'm thankful ♥️

[@skinnyjeenz1]

Proud of you, this takes courage. Continue to ask God to bring a righteous spouse, it’ll happen with faith.

[@red6hot1913]

@@skinnyjeenz1 I'm trying to remain faithful. Keep me in your prayers 🙏🏼

[@arabian_empress]

Have you found your spouse?​@@red6hot1913

[@backtothebasics1598]

I love this testimony! Thank u for sharing sis. I was involved with a ex that came back in my life, but before he came in kept having dreams about him and I'm like okay God, why u keep bringing him in my dreams. So I ignore the dream. Then I got hurt on the job, and had to go to therapy, and it was this guy nurse I was praying in my head God please don't give me him as a nurse because guys always try and flirt with me. So I was trying to avoid it at all cost right. So I end up getting him and guess what. His name is the name of my ex that was coming in my dreams. So I kept praying about it, like God what are u say? Few weeks later, he inbox me on FB and we start talking. Then we start chilling. My feelings got involved, then I started thinking God was u bringing him back because my desire is to be married? Then I heard lord say how can 2 walk except thr agree? Then my mom text me few weeks later saying what God told her about how can 2 walk as well and she had no idea what was going on. It was crazy! As I sat in the presence of holy spirit, praying about this guy. I heard the lords say " smooth operator" its a song from back in the day. God speak to me with songs as well. I said holy spirit I haven't heard that song since my teenage years. So I look up the video and thr God revealed that my ex uses his job to cover up seeing other women and I wasn't coming back in his life for marriage but the lord was directing my steps to my ex mother who was sick with cancer and I sat with his mom for hours and talk to her about Jesus and prayed with her and talk to her about unforgiveness. She passed away, but before she did she talked to each one of her children and ask for their forgiveness on certain issues she was holding on to. Sometime, God will send u back to an ex but not for your need for marriage to be met, but a souls to be saved. Before my ex came back in my life God was telling me I was running out of times I had no idea what it meant but now I do. I had to move quickly concerning my ex' s mother and talk and prayed with her. This is the short version but its a lot more to it. Blessings sis!

[@jasminerosewright]

Wow!!! Powerful!! Thank you Lord! 🙌🏾😍

[@gospelgirl2012]

Thank you for sharing!

[@aspirehigher6368]

This is a powerful testimony that could be in a video itself I think

[@aspirehigher6368]

We don't always know how to consider what role is played in our relationships and the people connected to each of us when romantic love is involved but everyone in our lives is affected by extension of who you get involved with and sometimes the connection itself didn't need to happen but sometimes it did but just didn't need to be for romance so that doesn't mean it didn't need to happen for some other reason that we can share with this person and between them and our mutual loved ones which we need to be open to and listening to God for instead of getting overwhelmed with the thought of potential marriage all the time and the key takeaway is that you did pray and waited to see what purpose God has and that is what helps saves us in times of trouble because only God knows everything and I think we may have all had dreams and experiences that really make us wonder what is going on and why

[@JanninaMartinez429]

Oh man…I feel like this is talking to me to pray for my ex’s mother.

[@priscillacyannimorris]

It’s the “beware of dogs” for me “Beware of dogs, beware of evil workers, beware of the mutilation!” -Philippians 3:2

[@atpoe2273]

!Didn't put this together someone else did! God over woman! “A ring of gold in a swine’s snout, so is a lovely woman who lacks discretion." (Proverbs 11:22) “A foolish woman is clamorous she is simple and know nothing.” (Proverbs 9:13) "Better to dwell in the wilderness than live with a contentious and angry woman.” (Proverbs 21:19) “The wise woman builds her house, but the foolish pull it down with her hands.” (Proverbs 14:1) The overthinking that the majority of women do (like those in this video) is WHY GOD placed men over them, because that overthinking (suffering from perceive knowledge) leads to always jumping to wrong conclusion, indecisiveness, irrationality, non-agreeability, bad decisions, bad ideas, anxiety, negative thinking, misery, despair, and chaos--and the practical and logical nature of a man brings ORDER to a woman's life that would otherwise be chaotic and replete of unnecessary drama and pain (the majority of which originates from her).There is a natural and divine order--which women (because of various forms of leftism) believe they can change and even improve upon, but only leads to misery, destruction, and death (Genesis 3:6). “I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man rather she is to remain quiet. For Adam was formed first than Eve. And Adam was not deceived but the woman was deceived how many came a transgression.” (1 Timothy 2:12-14) The natural divine order is this as outlined in the Judeo-Christian Bible -- That the head of a woman is a man, the head of a man is Jesus, and the head of Jesus is GOD. (1 Corinthians 11:3) Women have their role, as do men as GOD has ordained, to oppose that order is to oppose the will of GOD. (Genesis 3:16-19) The fact is, Leftism (and its ideological subversion) has ruined three generations (Boomers, X’ers, and Millennials), by misleading them into thinking that they can "eat their cake and have it too" or that there was a better way to live than what GOD has outlined for us--which many are discovering is painfully NOT true and learning it too late in life, mainly after their brutal encounter with the wall (aka reality, aka truth, aka GOD--which is why it is also called the GOD SMACK). They will do what they do and deserve what they get (Revelation 22:11) Leftism has come in many incarnations, always rebranding itself, to create confusion, making it difficult to target them, but there's a commonality to the leftist ideology, all of which seek to replace Judeo-Christianity, and by extension GOD. Here are a few examples of the various incarnations of leftism: Paganism, polytheism, tribalism, feudalism, elitism, monarchism, statism, secularism, atheism, racism, socialism, realism, materialism, pluralism, populism, pantheism, panentheism, dualistic theism, stoicism, humanism, Unitarianism, collectivism, nihilism, scientific determinism, egalitarian, nationalism, fascism, communism, Marxism, Maoism, Nazism, Hitlerism, solipsism, globalism, naturalism, relativism, determinism, existentialism, spiritualism, satanism, progressivism, feminism, post-modernism, modernism, wokeism etc... Leftism is an immoral ideology that only creates narcissist, enviousness, vindictiveness, division, poverty, misery, destruction, and death. It destroys the heart, mind, and soul of all those who consumed the leftist poisonous cool aid made from leftism’s rotten fruits plucked from leftism’s Tree of Deceit. (Matthew 7:15-20, 12:33-35; Luke 6:43-45; Romans 2:5-10) Leftism creates narcissist, and a society in which its population consist mostly of narcissist cannot and does not endure. Which is why ALL leftist (aka pagan) societies have fallen, in the same manner that the first human city/civilization that LEFT the RIGHT way of GOD (Genesis 11) “For where envy and self-seeking exist, confusion, and every evil thing are there.” (James 3:16) THIS is why we are warned to stay away from these delusional, selfish, and immoral (damaged) masculine women (leftist cool aid drinkers), because they are NOT only the source of their own pain and misery, but in the process of ruining themselves, they ruin others (turning other women into sluts, and men into betas--simps and savages), including the society that enabled their godless behavior. (Leviticus 19:29 & 21:14; Genesis 3:6; Proverbs 5, 6:20-29, 11:22, 12:4, 14:1, 21:19, 29:3, 30:20, & 31:3; Revelation 2:20-23) "Do not be deceived, Evil company corrupts good habits." (1 Corinthians-15:33) “Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness?” (2 Corinthians 6:14) “Now I urge you, brethren, note those who cause division and offenses, contrary to the doctrine, which you learned, and avoid them.” (Romans 16:17) In conclusion: DO NOT-I say again-DO NOT attempt to have a long-term relationship with and/or save such delusional, immoral, masculine, and selfish women, they have chosen their fate--and they will die alone because they chose themselves instead of others. You can only pray for them because the ONLY one that can save them, from themselves, is Jesus and by following GOD's RIGHT way of being and purpose for them. (Genesis 2:24 & 3:16; 1 Timothy 2:9-15; 1 Peter 3; Proverbs 31:10-31; Colossians 3:19; 1 Corinthians 7:3-6, 7:10-17, & 11:3; Hebrews 13:4) And to all the leftist cool aid drinking immoral women, resign yourselves to the fate that you’ve chosen-you, in your youth, chose to be a 304, and that is what you shall remain. NOT because we imposed that fate upon you-but because THAT was the choice YOU selfishly, arrogantly, and thoughtlessly made, and now must pay for--that short term fun has cost you long term happiness and fulfillment, which is why for thousands of years women were discouraged to becoming 304's because it is a destructive lifestyle for all those who partaken in it. (Galatians 6:7-10) “For the lips of an immoral woman drip honey, and her mouth is smoother than oil; But in the end she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death, her steps lay hold of hell. Lest you ponder her path of life-her ways are unstable; You do not know them.” (Proverbs 5:3-6) “Remove your way far from her, and do NOT go near the door of her house, lest you give your honor to others, and your years to the cruel one;” (Proverbs 5:8-10) “Whoever loves wisdom makes his father rejoice, but a companion of harlots wastes his wealth.” (Proverbs 29:3) “This is the way of an adulterous woman: She eats and wipes her mouth, and says, “I have done no wickedness.” (Proverbs 30:20) “Whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding; he who does so destroys his own soul.” (Proverbs 6:32) "Do not give your strength to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings." (Proverbs 31:3) Joshua 24:15 John 8:32 & 14:6 Psalms 28:7, 34, & 40 Strength and Honor! Ecclesiastes 7:28 1 Timothy 2:9-15 KJV Matthew 19:10-12 Micah 7:5 1 Peter 3:1-7 Proverbs 5,6,7 Proverbs 31:3 1 Corinthians 7:32-35 1 Corinthians 11:3 Ephesians 5:22-24 Revelation 14:4 Leviticus 12:1-8 Leviticus 20:16 Psalm 51:5

[@FunaBlessed12]

“Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.” ‭‭Psalm‬ ‭51:10‬ ‭😞😞

[@RK-ru2in]

Amen!😊 Now may the God of peace make you holy in every way, and may your whole spirit and soul and body be kept blameless until our Lord Jesus Christ comes again. 1 Thessalonians 5:23 God is faithful & He will do it IJN 🙏🏻 ❤

[@FunaBlessed12]

@@RK-ru2in amen 🙏🏽

[@SoulDeepZim]

Amen. 💖💖💖

[@dajewel1982]

Amen

[@DeeQJohnson]

I use to ignore my dreams so much bc ppl always told me it meant nothing. Now I ask for God to send me signs via my dreams and he never fails

[@rcspbeauty]

Girl my husband was in the brother zone. We still laugh at that. But God spoke clearly to both of us.

[@michellelogan9177]

Please pray for my daughter she’s in a situationship with a man who has verbally said “I don’t want to be in a relationship” but she’s still giving him girlfriend time n energy if you know what I mean. This bothers me so much because she’s devaluing herself every time there’s an interaction with him. God showed me in a dream that this man has a hidden agenda and my daughter had no interest in hearing the details of the dream.

[@evelynw2935]

Hi Michelle, praying for your daughter. It can be so hard, especially when she keeps hanging out w him and has ald invested feelings into the situationship. But before she was your daughter, she was first & foremost God's daughter. He cares for her deeply and is watching over her. Continue reminding her of the truth and show her that the Biblical definition of "love" looks nothing like what she has with this guy right now, that God will send her a man who will pursue her with all his heart. Stay strong 💕

[@michellelogan9177]

@@evelynw2935 awww thank you for the beautiful words of confirmation and I’m holding on to your voice and the voice of God.

[@crazyfurbabieslady]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@Stephanie-ku8wl]

Say this aloud, "Wouldn't it be nice if my daughter realized that this man is not for her without her getting her heart broken." As a parent, when you tell them you don't like someone, they will want that person even more.

[@alisha55555]

Wow 🙏🏻

[@BridgetKimani254]

This was so timely...i needed to hear this Let God remove the residue of the men we are entangled with for his purpose to prevail in our lives

[@WonderfulActs]

Amen!

[@_Natalia24]

🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@Faith459]

Amen

[@stephanieawuah]

Why don't we pay attention or believe dreams for what they are?? Like how many ways do we wanna get the message smh. Thanks for this word girl.

[@shenaehayes]

Wow I said the exact words, “the next guy I date is going to be my husband”, and it happened! The power of the tongue is real, watch what you say about your life!

[@aymen222]

The best husbands are usually the ones that come out the friend zones. 😇😇 you did well.

[@Claudia-yc8xk]

This way I needed to hear this. I just ended a 7 year relationship with someone I thought I was going to marry. In the last 2 years of our relationships I would get the strongest gut feelings that something wasn't right and something always felt off but ignored the feeling. With God things come with confirmation, if it is not from God it comes with chaos, confusion, frustration. Fast forward to the beginning of this year I did a fast with my mom to make it known to me if this is the man I was going to marry, I had the most awful dream with a black cat and the feelings of frustration and chaos got stronger and stronger till I eventually ended it. I feel like we all know deep down but we want to go against the will of God.... Please trust him !! The heart break can be prevented then. I pray for everyone in the comment section

[@Miss.Melody83]

I went through some things with guys when I was younger now that I'm almost 40 I can tell who ain't it just by the way he walk lol, a conversation, or even just by the way he present himself. We don't even have to get deeply involved for me to know he's not the one..

[@positivesoul.9490]

😅 Yes sister. I also have that skill.

[@breannapatterson5335]

Sammmmmeee

[@keyonsay101]

Pray I get that skill soon!

[@DNice06]

So, how do you guys know he's not the one, please explain.

[@em77775]

I am commenting here as a woman who has gone through the experience of marrying the man who God was warning her against but didn't quite get it at the time, only to end up enduring such horrific treatment. I thought he was a believer, but he constantly showed me how he was nothing but selfish and treacherous to me the entire marriage. Here we are almost 20 years later and he has broken my spirit over and over again with neglect, emotional abuse and infidelity. I never imagined I would ever go through any of this in my marriage. I loved him so much. Listen to that still, small voice, ladies. Those bad behaviors that crop up and get your attention but want to ignore. I have so many regrets. When you spoke about that demon that was trying to destroy you, that is exactly how I described what happened in my marriage. God is still good and He is greater than all I have endured. He's rebuilding me and I know He will redeem my life.🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@888hereandnow]

Hugggs ❤ You are precious in His eyes & heart .

[@lisha7774]

Bless You! May God give you strength!

[@CK-solutions]

I feel like I've met my spiritual twin. Only my relationship went for 24 years, or half our lives together. Nineteen years of marriage and two kids. Though God told me in the middle of my heartbreak of learning about his leaving, and infidelity, that God has redeemed me and would redeem me again. So I could relate to what you experienced, and Alyssa explained in her prophetic dream. Their demons do not leave them for you, and God knows this. I met a man who was into addictive substances, and he said he gave them up. Countless times I caught him. Countless times I asked him to give it up. To his credit, he eventually did. He became my husband, enthusiastic father, and the Lord did bless us in so many ways. Then something changed in our mid forties. In secret he was searching out his old school friends. Now divorced single dads, and ex girl-friends. One he had a crush on as a teenager, but was unrequited love. She was an alcoholic now. I don't know what possessed him, but the man I initially met - the one addict to substances and seeking lust in all the wrong places, came back. He took up with his alcoholic, unrequited love, and is now a former shadow of the good man I had a family with. The man who was under our marriage covenant, was blessed by God. But there's a whole other story of what God was trying to reveal to me, before the truth came out. I was spiritually under attack, and he was trying to show me. So yes, I agree, if the Lord says it's not worth it, then do not pursue. Wise is the woman who pays attention, and seeks the right covering. ❤

[@MH-gn8sc]

I'm so sorry you went through this. My dad did the same to my mom and it breaks me. Everyday I pray for her happiness. And well...God will do what He will with my dad.

[@jazmine_the_realtor3334]

Thank you!!!! Confirmation... I got proposed to and I know deep down it was because I've detached and I've moved on... It's funny how we are valuable due to convenience. Thank you!

[@latonyajohnson4239]

Please ask God to guide you and please make sure that you listen, because I didn't listen and I didn't obey and now I'm dealing with the repercussions of being disobient. If God tells you to get away, please listen.

[@onlybygrace7741]

Any man that ask you to compromise you godly value. Can never be the man. I love this. It's a lesson to all of us women. Thank you!

[@ihekajiihekaji9363]

Sis. I haven't even finished listening to this testimony, but all I can say is glory be to God. I was in a situation-ship within months of beginning university , which began in 2019 January. Even though I had made my intentions clear that I didn't want to be in a relationship, I still entertained the idea of being a girlfriend, and though nothing went down , just as you said compromise began to happen. And all I remember is I would be weeping every single month, because I never had peace of any sort. He said he was a believer but it was hard to even bring him to church at times , I thought I could change him, I thought I could pray him into being the man of God I knew he could become . But that wasn't for me to do, that was for the Holy Spirit to do. So as I began to pray and fast and truly seek the face of God, I would ask the Lord to reveal these things. The truth of the nature of the relationship that I was planning on entering into. Through dreams. I was being attacked by his mother, or I was always in a dark space in these dreams. I was giving the enemy legal right to attack me and my life. Any addiction I was asking the Lord to break (masturbation) it was becoming harder because I was making verbal covenants of being his wife when I wasn't even his girlfriend. It was hard to let go because he was also my friend . So when I pleaded with the Lord and he finally confirmed I finally listened to his voice, because my sisters they were telling me from months beforehand that this was not it , as was my mother. He told me "this man is not your ordained husband" . Clear as day. And so on the 3rd of December 2020, I called and asked the Lord to make room to have that open conversation, it was nearly Christmas time it was a hard conversation to have. He wept and would tell me "no I'm not having it you're my wife" , but I said I rebuke it , and any spiritual agreement that I've made with you I declare it broken today in Jesus name. And so we went months without speaking, but then our friendship was somewhat still there , but through the year of 2021 I realised that he hadn't let go of the idea of us being together , even though I had told him he needs to seek the face of God . Because I forgot to mention this began with a false prophetic word of him being told that I was his wife, but he never chose to seek confirmation from God because it pleased his flesh , as it did mine. I have now completely cut him off , it had to be done in an extremely abrupt way because he was spreading rumours about me and creating the false narrative that we were together or was going to be. And so now, in the mean time, the man that the Lord has for me, I will gladly wait and no longer choose to lower my standards when I know I'm a child of the most high. I no longer require the bare minimum but instead a praying man , a man that fast, a man that reads his word, a man that LIVES THE WORD. Just as my Lord and saviour has covered me throughout the 22 years of living, the same way i will be covered so that I can truly flourish as the wife that I will be, as the mother that I will be, as the youth mentor that I can be and will be, and a woman of integrity and of the gospel that will evangelise to many nations because I am under the covering of an ordained husband. I'm so blessed to have listened to this at this time And I just knew I had to share my testimony to whoever would read this. Do . Not. Settle. God has something great in store. Seek his face and when God says yes it is yes and Amen, but when God says no flee immediately . I could have saved a year and a half by just being in a posture of true obedience. But I do not regret the lessons that I've learned . Because now I can impart others with my testimony on how to avoid creating covenant with counterfeits . Be blessed in Jesus name!

[@tiffanyfowler7785]

Thank you. You helped me. 🥰

[@PreciousdaughterofChrist]

i love this soo much!! i relate to this, i’m 22 years old aswell and i was going through the same thing, except he was my boyfriend (last year in 2021) and i let my flesh take over and we ended doing sexual sin…even though at the beginning of the relationship i set boundaries and never wanted to stay the night at his house but i did. i put myself in tempting situations with him all the time and our relationship was crumbling because we didn’t have a solid foundation which is Jesus. We were so unequally yoked. i had been going to church all my life while he didn’t go so i thought i could change him…and then i realized that wasn’t my job, that’s God’s. i repented for thinking i could take God’s place. NEVER AGAIN will i ever try to “change” anyone…it was so emotionally exhausting and the enemy had a lead way in my life. Thank you the LORD CHRIST JESUS for The Holy Spirit which He left us with on earth because He showed me in a dream that he wasn’t the one and that led to our break up. i was so sad and dealt with depression. i had to go through deliverance from the soul tie i had with him and the spirit of lust…it’s still a work in process. i still struggle with masturbation but i know that God is delivering and i’m so ready to fast…GOD is really on the move in my life and as i’ve been single i’ve been in the mist of restoring my relationship with God, our Heavenly Father.💗🥰 God bless you sister in Christ. You’re truly awesome!

[@ihekajiihekaji9363]

@@tiffanyfowler7785 I’m so happy to hear that! May God bless and keep you!

[@ihekajiihekaji9363]

@@PreciousdaughterofChrist First off.. freedom is yours in Jesus name! Masturbation is a real vice but just as God delivered me, He will do you also! Wow this is why I love testimonies 🥺❤️ I’m so happy to hear that God has his hand right over your life. May chains continue to be broken as you walk in your healing! God bless you!

[@crownedinroyalty4330]

Powerful testimony thanks for sharing I'm sure it helped a lot of people. Blessings and favour to you 🤗

[@mijahburns94]

Wow I went through something similar and I kept praying over this man when God kept telling me he’s not the one. I was so stubborn 🤦🏾‍♀️ but God was so patient with me and I asked for confirmation one day and the next day God gave me confirmation clear as day! Whew

[@jazzmondjackson195]

Thank you, I needed this! Marriage has been on my heart lately, but residue from past relationships has been getting in the way. Lord cleanse me from all residue of past relationships. May I be made whole and clean by your blood Jesus ❤️

[@hayyyitstay]

Woaaaah, when you said at 11:13 “He gets to pick who our husbands are”…. that hit me. Instant conviction 😅

[@lalalalaaAa123]

This is an amazing testimony!! It inspires me to stay steadfast in my singleness until God brings me the REAL right one!

[@metoyou2576]

Girl that dream was clear clear clear sis! I’m a huge dreamer as well… I was introduced to a guy by a good friend and he seemed great on paper. We started talking and I knew I could really really like him but had a dream that I was in a car with this guy and he was driving and he started driving the car so fast and out of control and I was so scared in the dream. A few days later we got into a disagreement and his temper came all the way out and I immediately cut him off and blocked his #. How did he start emailing me crazy out of control messages and had to block his email too. God truly speaks! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@MrGuitarshred777]

As a man, I’ve encountered the same situation with a woman and a few others too, God is so so good only his will will do for me, I like “ No’s” their just stepping stones for a much BIGGER yes AMEN

[@beautyunderthemask1948]

I really wished I watched this video 4 years ago, I have been stuck in a marriage with kids, with that narcissist jezebel spirit, and I am ready to move I am just praying God makes a way where there is no way because I decree and declare that I will not live in bondage any longer. I keep asking God forgiveness because I was ignorant and had the heart of a man instead of God. I keep asking for forgiveness mercy and grace daily, I plead with thee for you are filled with the Holy Spirit please lift me and my family in prayers. Brothers and sisters be careful of these counterfeit Christian’s that show you they are saved, but they are prepared to to put you in bondage. Share share this video please

[@Thatssokaylaaa]

Before I broke up with my ex I kept receiving dreams that he was cheating on me.. I should’ve listened then because I know for a fact that was God letting me know that he wasn’t the one.

[@adwoagyabaah9227]

Girl, this message is speaking to me as I’m praying over a brother who’s attempting to pursue me. He did not match the “expectations” at all and I’ve been back and forth about it because he doesn’t look like the typical promoted idea of loud, belligerent men of God. He’s more humble, calm and gentle and I’ve been having a hard time accepting that. Open my eyes Lord to see what you have for me😭🤲🏽

[@WonderfulActs]

Girl, give that man a try! (If the LORD leads you)

[@shanx4170]

God does say that he likes a gentle and meek spirit 1 Peter 3:4 . Continue praying about it sis 😊

[@KingYinyeeh]

@@WonderfulActs Lol, something happened to me almost three weeks ago. I used to like this guy and he was like my spiritual leader, he used to help with the word of God and grow immensely in the word. He taught me Faith and how to grow spiritually, I liked him instantly when I met him but he didn't see me that way. Lol after a year and a few months of us being very close friends I told him about how I felt about him and he said we should just be friends. Lol, I was very young, to be honest (19 years old I wasn't ready for a relationship, he was 24 years ). I had to step away from the friendship because it was affecting me, I wanted a relationship and I couldn't see him as just my friend ( lol I was growing) well we stopped talking for three years down the line and all. I put all the energy into building my life and getting a skill, working on myself all round. I can say that I'm a Holy Spirit-filled spec! Lol, I met him last year in December 2021 at a conference and he could not believe his eyes, he was just staring at me for at least 20 sec until I said something, he still looks cute as ever just that he has more money now. We exchanged pleasantries and that was it. A few weeks later he texts me on WhatsApp with my old pictures, lol 😆 and we just joked about it with funny stickers and all. We still didn't keep in touch after that convo because I was intentionally avoiding friendship with him. I didn't want to be friends with him lol & I thought he was with someone else plus I was too busy with work and ministry. Fast forward to two weeks ago I heard he lost his Mom, The same day he lost his mom was the same day I get a notice that I have to move to his city Lagos Nigeria, I was contemplating calling because we weren't friends at all. So I texted and he responded quite nicely. I decided to keep in touch because I knew how much he was hurting. Somehow talking about him to my friends made me realise that I never moved on from him. I still really loved him & his beautiful personality. Lol so I'm at home watching my Pastor and I hear God tell me He is your Husband and he is my will for you, immediately I feel this cool water from my head to my toes and I felt peace following with tears. I could not hold them back, I was so scared that he'll not accept me again. I cried so much happy tears lol, we're talking now but it's not consistent. He's still grieving his mom & all. I don't know what to expect but I trust God completely ❤️ I'm still on the journey of trusting the Lord, I don't know but I'm not pushing any conversation and God keeps assuring me that he's my husband. I'm super pumped to see how this story turns out! Any advice for me? ❤️

[@benicetopeople246]

@Onyinyechi I usually don't leave a comment, but your story was very touching. Would you mind giving us a follow up in the future? I would have one question for you: Why is it that you are avoiding a friendship between the two of you? Wouldn't it be nice to get to know each other on that personal level and increasing the chance of mutual feelings or are you afraid of being friendzoned again? Bare in mind that i never had a relationship so my advice should be taken with a grain of salt. I wish you the best and Gods guidance through all of it.

[@positivesoul.9490]

@@benicetopeople246 i agree with you. They should restart with friendship.

[@vanessabrown2012]

This video is so on point . I have come out of a relationship that really didn't serve God. I lost myself in the relationship and I heard God tell me 'you will waste your time in the relationship ' I'm moving forward and allowing God to bring me my husband.

[@jessicaribeiro7335]

Please pray for me, everyone, anyone. I’m in love with the counterfeit. Although I hope that everything he has learned about God through me has truly transformed his heart and mind…his present lifestyle, vices, and our sin does not align with God’s will. I have attempted to break up with him several times, but we kept falling back. My heart breaks for my disobedience, rebellion, and willful ignorance towards God. He gave me so many signs when I would ask and still does even when I distance myself out of shame, this video is yet another confirmation. He is so GOOD that He keeps chasing and calling out to us, no matter where we go or what we do, we are His chosen. I once dreamt that I was split into two scenarios, in a wedding dress walking down the isle and the other as a soldier (with armor, sword, and all) amidst a battlefield. The dream ended with my death on both sides. Immediately I felt the Holy Spirit convict me of our relationship and that if I were to stay (or get married to him), it would be my death. This man has been moved to tears by worship, the sermons at my church, and in agreement with the word of God whenever we read scripture together, so I want to believe that he could be saved, but despite this, our relationship continues to be ungodly. I’m tired of making up excuses and repent from trying to take control, from sinning against God in disobedience. I’ve already thought about breaking up with him today, and I pray that God gives me the strength to remain steadfast and not look back. I only want Christ now. Wether God has someone for me or not, I want to be rooted in Christ, to be in love with Him and make Him (and His will) my first priority for everything all of the time. Thank you for those that took their time to read this. God bless you women of God, we have the King of Kings pursuing us unconditionally, Who has already made the ultimate sacrifice and paid the price of His life to win our hearts over. ✝️♥️🙏🏼

[@JanninaMartinez429]

I was in the same position as you and one day the Holy Spirit shook me so strong during worship I saw how I WAS trying to be the dudes savior when Jesus is the only one that saves. I told myself if I love him as a soul, if I love my own soul o won’t let him go to hell for an ungodly relationship. I realized What I had for him was lust. And I thought my desire for him was love bc we helped each other academically and professional and sometimes gave each other advice spiritually but we were not in a godly relationship- fornicating We have to save our soul. Allow their soul to be saved and not be a hindrance. And cry out to God to help us bc with our own strength we can’t. Now I’m 2 years single and learning more of God everyday so I can relate to what you’re going thru rn

[@nadas.5643]

Thank you for this! I also would like to remind us to be careful who we listen to. Sometimes God will send is a sign and we know that something is not right. But we call our girlfriends, and our cousins, we talk to Auntie's etc. And they will rationalize your bad feelings away. And you'll think its you just tripping when uts not. It's the Lord saying no this ain't it. This just happened to me. I was dating a guy and God was giving me small signs but I rationalized them away talking to friends instead of following my direction from God. Now I'm back in a healing season. But I see light on the other side. 💖

[@rosemaryassam6401]

This is sooo my story sisss, thank you for sharing!! I am deeply encouraged🥰🙏. Especially the fact that we single christian ladies really have the wrong conception of God's ideal man for us😊😊 and when God's choice comes we find it hard to open up😊

[@bamboobutterfly7566]

I receive this message with heart. I had many a dreams of my now to be ex husband but I didn’t want to see the red flags and they were bleeding in front of me. 3 yrs of my life was enough of verbal and emotional and the audacity of him to be physically abusive. He was really honest though. I made excuses of his behavior. This season of separation is God saving my life. And your message was another confirmation to save my life. Blessings 🙏🏼

[@nxobilemahamba7694]

@bamboo butterfly we are in the same season, I wish I could hug you and be there for you. I cry a lot cz it hurts, divorce hurts so bad although I know it is God's will 😢

[@bamboobutterfly7566]

@@nxobilemahamba7694I receive your virtual hug and kindness 🙏🏼🙏🏼I think as women, the best route is deny as nurturers. But my denial has lead me to thoughts of self that really wasn’t aligned for who God made me to be. Joy continues to come every morning since I left.

[@florencedimakatsomosolodi527]

@@nxobilemahamba7694 did you get any signs? I am still single and I dnt know what to thing anymore

[@thedangerousbeauty]

This is so good sis. God protects His daughter and sends warning. I believe this is still happening and there is so much deception. But we must be clear about who people truly are. God does not lie. Obedience is better than sacrifice.

[@taniam2606]

Sis, yes!! I had dreams about my last ex. Dreams where we weren’t on the same page and more. Finally, Holy Spirit had to yell it to me to break it off “NOW”! And I obeyed. True colors came out when I broke it off. God loves us!

[@saidycedano5775]

This was a beautiful and powerful video... and I know God sent it to me. He needs me to lean on Him more, sit in silence, and directly ask Him who this man He has in my life is. I ask in passing in my mind and I know He is always listening, but I really need to sit and read the Bible and worship and be with Him in silence to know. This was confirmation. Please pray for my strength to do so and for the Holy Spirit to take the lead in my desires through my mind and heart. Thank you!

[@rubyserenity90]

6:25 God has a way of giving his children word of knowledge! Not to be confused with a familiar spirit.. but wow! complete confirmation from the Lord!

[@brittanyezell]

Girl, this so timely 👀 the enemy been throwing fiery darts all week and the verse about the enemy coming to steal, kill, and destroy has been coming to mind as well

[@kaym9904]

I love this! I have the same story and God showed me that although I went through that relationship “clueless” of what God was saying, I knew exactly what God was saying but I just didn’t want to hear it. But girl, you’ll know because it won’t be any peace in your heart and you’ll have more questions than answers. Holy Spirit will never fail you, don’t overthink it!

[@rubyserenity90]

Okay but request for you to have more sit down chats because I love having sisters in Christ that I can relate to and it feels like we are just hanging out! Thanks for this video! I'm listening while doing laundry! :D

[@ldr792]

Wow!!!! I usually don’t even watch videos like this…but your testimony is VERY similar to mine. I also had dreams except this was after we broke up and I’d have dreams that he cheated on me when we were together and living a double life. I was finally obedient and blocked him. , no more open doors to the devil. 17 years of holding space for him in my heart and back and forth (mind you I’m only 29 😵‍💫)DONE!!!Thank you for sharing, especially the removing the residue part. I will begin to pray that prayer. I don’t want any more parts of that mentally, emotionally or spiritually. DONE.

[@karibonner905]

This is incredibly timely. I had to pause the video because there's no way our stories are this similar. I even went back and read my dreams and was blown away at things I recorded and now looking back I see God was speaking to me prophetically. I felt the spirit of God so strongly watching this entire video. I hardly ever comment on videos, but this is everything I needed. Thank you!

[@WonderfulActs]

thank you for commenting!

[@sarahnyakiongora3848]

This is also my story. I cried. Just shows how God cares about all His children.

[@e11ionore79]

I had veeery similar story. I’d been celibate for three years then started to date a guy who knew Bible very well and also told he is born again and etc. We made sin of fornication, and then I started to be attached to him so much. I started to be distant from God but this guy told me sooo good words, so it calmed me down. Then I had very bad health problem connected with sex which was obviously a sign to end up relationships. But I continued without having sex. Only started to be more attached now on emotional level. And I had a dream that he was laughing at me and looking down telling me that all he told was a lie. I still continued relationships and was praying like u😂 And then in some weeks in real life(!) he told me that he was not very sincere from the start and was pretending other person, and didn’t mean those word he told! But now he really likes me and is getting back to who he is. So I gave a chance. Then I got another health problem when I wanted to move abroad to him, and it was like the MOST SPIRITUAL RED FLAG EVER. I ended relationships and don’t regret. Yes, it hurt but Lord has somebody else for me❤️🙏

[@BridgetKimani254]

First one here from kenya.....this channel has brought light to my life and opened me into knowing christ....thanks Alyssa.

[@huldahh]

Yaayy!! From Kenya too🤗🤗

[@gitaueva233]

Yaay 🇰🇪

[@WonderfulActs]

thank you!!!

[@ndukukitenge]

We are many from Kenya!

[@WordsPictures997]

This is literally an answered prayer. My soul needed this. Thank you Alyssa!

[@sharleenbawa657]

The way God speaks in different ways is just amazing… this was a VERY timely video, God is great and God bless you sis ❤️🙏🏾

[@racquelh2978]

Thank you i needed this Next month it will be 1 year of me knowing him I cant be with him he is not who he painted himself to be He rages all the time and rejects my faith And he had “faith tattoos what a fraud makes me sick Thankyou sister 👍amen

[@tamishaarts_]

There’s so much life in your spirit , even when you speak about meeting the right husband.

[@kaycole85]

HEAVENLY FATHER WE THANK YOU FOR YOUR DAUGHTER ALYSSA AND HER OBEDENCE TO YOU, WE THANK YOU FOR THIS ACTIVATING WORD AND WE BELIEVE THE POWER OF HER TESTIMONY, SO JUST AS YOU DID FOR HER DO IT AGAIN GOD FOR ALL YOUR DAUGHTERS WHO WILL WATCH AND CONFESS, HOLY SPIRIT WATCH OVER EVERY COMMENT AND PURIFY US, FORGIVE US, SET US FREE FROM ALL SOUL TIES WE HAVE MADE WITH MEN WHO ARE NOT THE MEN YOU HAVE FOR US. YOU ARE A GOOD LOVING FATHER AND YOU DO KNOW WHAT'S BEST, WE SAY EVEN NOW THAT AS WE LET GO, WE ARE RECEIVING WHAT YOU DO HAVE, IN JESUS NAME AMEN🙏🏾💜

[@sandraotero5951]

AMEN.

[@c.williams3740]

Amen!!!

[@lotsoflovetiff3589]

Amen 🙌🏾

[@janaryanngreene3654]

I had to listen to this on a loop, because it was so GOOD AND TRUE!!! I am sooooo glad you put out such awesome content like this. When you’re entangled in the situation it seems like you can’t let it go nor break free, BUT GOD will make a way of escape that we’ll be able to bare it and set us FREE🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@WonderfulActs]

Amen!!! Yes, I definitely could not do it by myself in my own strength. Jesus came to set us free!

[@radicalhonesty3628]

what arises in me as I watch this video, is just how much emotional pain, I'm in. I'm dying inside. I'm in hell. suicidal hell. despair rapes my soul. I have nothing to live for. I am raped by the past, and I am terrified of the future. I cannot bear this hell anymore.

[@esterf2545]

Sis! 😭 God so used you on this! My current situation. Your videos drop exactly when I need to them. I’ve been following you for years

[@WonderfulActs]

Praise God! And thank you for following :)

[@jasmineacosta4869]

I had never watched any of your videos, but this video popped up for me yesterday - def an answer to prayer after another night wondering what went wrong in a relationship pretty similar to this (multiple dreams, me praying and him texting immediately after). This gave me a lot of peace and I will be taking time to repent and fast as well over the next few days. Thank you so much!

[@kaycole85]

Alyssa!!!! (And yes I'm yelling lol)...I soo feel like this video has a ACTIVATION call on it, so just like you realized during that prayer with your friends that you needed to confess here I go!...I was not in a official relationship with this man but, we talked on and off for a year and nothing ever came of it. I Know it was GOD's doing but I still continue to struggle with the IDEA of him and the Fantasy of him in my mind, So here and Now Lord Jesus I'm asking YOU to REMOVE and Purify the Residue of him COMPLETELY I'm letting him Go Mentally, Spiritually, physically and Emotionally!.... Amen🙌🏾

[@PeaceBeStill24]

The lord told me this in November of last year. This guy and I have been together for 4 years now. I am still leaving him this month because I had to get the funds right all this time. I am excited for this new single life as he was my first everything. I am going on 22 next month and I am excited to say my abusive ex won’t know or have access to her every again.

[@JanninaMartinez429]

When it’s a financial complication trust that the Lord will supply. May God give you strength sis

[@PeaceBeStill24]

@@JanninaMartinez429 Yes! Thank you so much. God bless

[@PeaceBeStill24]

Update! I left shortly after this comment and it had been peaceful ever since. He truly was an evil being, but I gave mercy and left it to the father. I am excited for this new journey!

[@andrearonaldo11]

This was honestly so beautiful to hear!!!

[@sparkwill5337]

Omg I thank you so much for this. I needed this because I am struggling with rejection of someone I know wasn’t right for me. He was someone other than what he portrayed

[@tyrasimone6627]

Wow so timely… I really needed this

[@chanelr142]

Wow so powerful!!! Thank you for sharing! 🤍

[@suutje80]

Wonderful testimony 🙌🏾 ❤

[@___shaishayshae__]

Thank you for sharing this. A lot of us needed it.

[@Nixgato]

This word is a blessing! Thank you!

[@NessaJayp]

Beautiful testimony 🙌🏽

[@bologneseprince]

This popped up in my recommended exactly when i needed this and prayed for clarification! Thanks!!

[@zabrinatheteacher]

Great testimony and upload. I needed to hear this. Thank you 🙏🏼

[@tiavance]

You know for me, I hear a lot of stories from women who seem to "easily" find their God-given person in such a quickness. I've tried to remain patient and dependent on God to bless me with someone, and it just hasn't happened yet. It really makes me think a lot of put things into perspective (negatively), which I know is a trick of the enemy. I just don't understand how it can come so easily and "with ease" sort of speak for others, and it seems I have to plead God and wait so long. I'm still single, and have been continuing this walk and journey with Christ. It's just an observation I've made.

[@mathapelonyembe4702]

Thank you so much for this answered prayer video ❤️❤️❤️

[@taneemonique]

YESSS “Let God write your story” thanks so much for sharing your testimony sis!!! The enemy is currently trying to distract me!!! God told me from day one it was a distraction and I still fell for it … but this video was TIMELY !!!

[@camilliecollins9486]

She read my mail on this one!!! So good!! Thank you. I needed this!!!

[@3angelmessanger48]

Thank you for sharing sister, this is my story.

[@Songbird0303]

I love your testimony, thank you for sharing 🙌🏽

[@raebtfl]

I needed this word. Beautiful testimony of repentance and obedience. Thank you for sharing 💛

[@carolineawada9556]

Thank you for sharing. This is helping many of us who are sadly stuck in this trap.

[@Prsonfi23]

Thank you for sharing 🙏🏽You are an inspiration

[@stilettosnstethoscopes9109]

Thank you for this beautiful message! Wow!

[@vonnaj22]

Wow this is exactly what I needed to hear right now, the Lord wants me to cut this guy off and I really love him but the Lord told me he’s not my husband and I gotta let go. I can’t do the back and forth, it’s so tiring. Lord please give me the words and strength to cut it off.

[@carableu]

Great testimony! ❤️🌺

[@rhondasargeant7488]

I feel like you're speaking about me and TO me!! Such an on time word! Thank you for sharing!

[@writeousrhema]

Awesome! I'm encouraged

[@elliemichel7560]

Super encouraging thank you sis

[@evelynw2935]

This video could not have come at a better time 😭

[@jennifergianakos]

Beautiful testimony! I found your message so timely. You encouraged me.

[@officiallyrontinay]

Glory to God! This was good! Thanks for your obedience. God bless you & your family 🙏🏽❤️

[@lisaross1208]

Thank You For Sharing Sis! After Watching This Video I Can't Ignore The Red Flags Anymore! Be Blessed ❤️ 🙏🏾🙌🏾🕊

[@nitastokes21]

Thank you so much for this testimony!! I needed to hear this. Wish I had friends to pray with me like that. But I know now to do the work and how.

[@AmandaGabriel876]

Amen🙌🏾 Thanks for sharing💕

[@owe1255]

This is so encouraging!!!!

[@amyfernandez-rosario3301]

Love your testimony!

[@DeidreMichelleIngram]

I appreciate you sharing your story ♥️ Thank you!

[@elizabethtantao8950]

Wow, thank you! This hit home a lot. Gb!

[@rocachick860]

God had everything to do with this video being posted. This is exactly what I needed today among other confirmations. Thank you

[@miriamh.ministries4248]

That is so true. I went through the same situation and if I stayed with this person I was with at the time, I would be denying the True Essence of who I am in Christ. The Lord also gave me dreams showing me this person living an open life-style and didn’t believe in being committed to a single person. The truth came out eventually and I RAN for my Life! We serve such an awesome God, who fights for His children to protect us from a life of destruction. Thank you for your beautiful ministry. Keep it up, sista from another motha! Blessings to you always! 🙏🏼 ♥️

[@wookiedude21]

I’m glad I came across this, what a very wonderful experience and outcome for you ❤️

[@mdeserae]

Beautiful story, thank you for sharing 🤍🤍

[@ChikaOkerekeLive]

You are so right! thank you for sharing this story. This was for me!

[@Jocelynjmeza]

Thank you so much, I really needed to hear this 🤍

[@tawanadarshae]

Thanks for being so faithful Alyssa!

[@WonderfulActs]

Thanks for being so supportive, friend!

[@redheadjb]

Wonderful story. Thank you 😊 confirmed & brought light on things for me. “Remove the residue” 🙏🏽

[@maryrosedelator4409]

Wow I am totally blessed especially the end part. You have beautifully presented the Gospel in just a few minutes. Wonderful indeed!

[@MemoirsofaNaturalGirl]

Thank you for sharing . This video is confirmation .

[@sylviajackson8920]

I don’t know how I found you on me feed, but I am so glad I did! Thank you!🙏