how I’m DECENTERING ROMANCE (and how you can too)

[@TheMichiCamacho]

I currently feeling depleted from focusing so much on romantic love & relationships. I thought that by actively looking for it, it would come faster & give me practice as well. But it seems there’s more inner work to be done for me before putting myself out there again and while I do that, its been hard to not crave it & continuously ruminate about it or even daydream which just leaves me with negative feelings. Thank you for the video

[@tifftreads]

I have always become overly focused on the man when I’m involved to the point of distraction. Meanwhile they’re living their best lives as I pour into them. I truly needed this and to recognize this pattern in myself. I am not good with relationships.

[@SPKLifeStyle2.0]

Romance is not only a love of a person, it’s a place and state of mind. Find the person (or place) who allows you to grow and brings peace and stay consistent. … instead of chasing that mew excitement and the new sense of excitement , thrilling rush. It goes for people AND places. The “grass is always greener” … digital nomads tend to be lonely because the approach they bring to relationships mirrors how they approach life.

[@kimberly5928]

SPK!…Really miss your videos!…especially the ones on Mexico!🇲🇽❤️

[@MelxncholyMermxid]

I think I struggle with the concept of decentering romance because it never felt like an option to me. I'm not in my healed actualized self and it feels like I'll be alone until I can heal fully. I struggle maintaining platonic relationships, I come from a long line of complicated familial relationships. It's not so much "it's something I'm not prioritizing" but more of an "I need to cope with the reality that romantic love is not in my near future, and most likely will never be."

[@caylagales3819]

I love this! I've been happily single for years and even though I'm starting to come around to the idea of "putting myself out there" whatever that means 😅 I've been enjoying my hobbies and personal growth too much to care! I wish more people could experience this. Glad you're putting yourself first 💜💜

[@annastayziaa]

to answer your question: my take on romance now is to AVOID IT AT ALL COSTS 😂😂😂😂😭😭 I prioritize my peace 🥰 hehe

[@dayrodriguez9619]

my take on romance just in general is that i will not chase it, but i also won't close myself off to something if it organically comes about. but organically still doesn't mean i will pursue it as i have to feel they're truly a self-actualized individual where we will mutually benefit each other's lives for the better.

[@hiswonderfulcreation]

I needed to hear and see this. It’s a bit of a painful topic but I am feeling inspired by some of what you shared. Thank you

[@hannafromatlanta]

Loved the video! It's always a great day when you post; I feel like I am in a Season of Me, exploring, enjoying, and loving everything about me! It's been so much fun recently and I hope this month can continue to show grace and joy to me (and you, Misako)!

[@elizabethzepeda2122]

You and your fish eye camera! 😂❤❤❤

[@Jacks_archivess]

Omg I’m so happy with the growth that your having and that you continue to have❤

[@ummerkasana]

This is the way to do it. I see myself on a collision course with whatever is destined for me. No need to chase. No need to try. “Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing, there is a field. I’ll meet you there. When the soul lies down in that grass the world is too full to talk about. What you seek, is seeking you.” - Rumi

[@annastayziaa]

YAAAAASSSS MISAKO SO PROUD OF YOUUUUU😭😭😭😭😭😭♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@catlantigua]

all of this!!!!

[@sierrashavon6459]

Love seeing you lean back into your hobbies and things which bring you joy! There’s romance in that too! Also, the funny thing is when we start pouring into ourselves we tend to become more attractive to the people and opportunities we desire in life too!

[@keith6743]

Just keep doing what you are doing... it will come your way you are too beautiful to worrying about this it will happen

[@zibebe]

Yeah, the Spanish classes we took obviously were the right thing to do. Me gusto mucho 😊. What kinda drink was that?

[@JenPinto]

I love this!!! Thank you for sharing

[@kimberly5928]

Loved this video❤️…&Love watching your journey Misako🫶🏼❤️

[@travelwgrace]

I really needed to hear this today ❤️❤️

[@sharons5221]

❤❤❤ I love this

[@MisakoEnvela]

Thank you so much!!

[@dinodinosaur2930]

🤔 I would say, don't go deep for the first 3 dates ... ASK simple questions

[@MisakoEnvela]

yesss this is something i learned this year!

[@dinodinosaur2930]

@@MisakoEnvela When two people go on a date, usually both are acting, you may not see the real person until both can be relaxed in each others company ... So never beat yourself up if a date doesn't go well ... We all know you are a Beautiful person, inside & out 💚

[@howaboutno2023]

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