How I Make Myself Work When I’m Lazy (it’s not discipline)

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its very strange.. how we r the same.. we live 10.000miles away... have very different lives.. but still.. :) its like I know u... why arent there more girls like u? :) or am I just looking at the wrong places? hmm.. maybe... anyways great video again Ruri... U made me get out of bed.. :D and that's a start.. cheers luv..

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Of course I join the community. Discipline and motivation; we deal with this every day!

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[@TylerMiz]

"You don't need Motivation to do something, you just need to take action on it to get Motivation!"

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That's powerful

[@lolcutting8938]

That's the real key.

[@IstyManame]

yea nah my brain does not agree

[@sauravwastaken]

These two things gives so much space ( or relief ) to get things done 1. Never skip 2 days in a row 2. Top 3 task + Focus task

[@MisterMevs]

What’s the difference between a top 3 task and a focus task?

[@sauravwastaken]

@@MisterMevs For ex: If you finish top 3 ( non sense tasks ) that does not mean you had a productive day. You must include a focus task. It is top 3 tasks with a focus task ( included )

[@NoahNCopeland]

review cheatsheet after you've watched: 1. brain dump immediately (with a deadline!) 2. filter your brain dump, pick 10 tasks and prioritize (Eisenhower Matrix) 3. pick focus for the day 4. eliminate 5 of your tasks from earlier 5. reflect, at the end of each day,. check if you did your top 3 tasks or not 6. feedback, write in one sentence what was good/bad

[@jakelindsay522]

You’re AMAZING

[@Lilly-m1d]

Ty, I came back to this video to make notes so this is extremely helpful ❤

[@JohnM...]

I would add something people like Mel Robbins and James Clear (Atomic habits) say: do the most annoying or complex things FIRST.

[@avhakazi3621]

More people need to see this video; it's made me realize why I don't struggle to work but struggle to feel fulfilled. Thank you.

[@CraigoZ21]

Currently working on my master thesis. As soon as I start the flow and motivation comes itself. So for me doing a task is never the problem. Starting is.

[@vtofu26]

oh my god, watching this to find that sparks of starting my thesis too, my friend. as soon as i start its just goes on and on. starting is really a problem :( hope you doing well on your masters!

[@melther_edits]

"You need to move first because motivation is made when action is already been done"

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[@DR-Phantom]

I'm currently working on my master's dissertation. An unusual way i overcome resistance is by reminding myself of the limited time i have in this world. There's a saying along the lines of "You are nothing but a number of days, whenever each day passes then part of you has gone." Another powerful one "Leaving things until later deprives you of the very experiences you need to grow" Constantly reminding myself of this helps put things into perspective and focus on the things that really matter in life. Hope this benefits whoever reads this.

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Well said

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My husband and I were fortunate enough to be able to pay off our mortgage early. We were both still working, and took the payment amount that we had been using to pay off our mortgage faster and we put it straight into investments. We were able to retire early because of almost 7 years of putting away what would have been our mortgage payment as well as maxing out our 401K/403B plans. Thankfully we were taught by both of our parents the value of living within our means. Thank you for your advice. I know it will help people. we are interested in investments that could set me up for retirement , I mean I've heard of people that netted hundreds of thousands during these crash, I listened to someone on a podcast who earned over $650K in less than a year, what's the strategy behind such returns?

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How can one find a verifiable financial planner? I would not mind looking up the professional that helped you. I will be retiring in two years and I might need some management on my much larger portfolio. Don't want to take any chances.

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Deborah Lynn Dilling is the licensed advisor I use.Just research the name. You'd find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment

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She appears to be well-educated and well-read. I ran an online search on her name and came across her website; thank you for sharing.

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You always come with videos when i need it, it is a message from universe, i need to pay attention to it i guess. Thanks a lot, Rurii.

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There is something special about your videos; they make me watch whenever your new ones come out!

[@saantQ]

This wideo got me just in time, I've been strugglin with my thesis, personal and work stuff and was so overwhelmed by everything that I did nothing through the days and fell bad about it, thank you

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[@trevcessna1723]

Good advice, I’m ADD and when overwhelmed by the quality of tasks, I just grab one and get it done regardless of importance. I have accomplished something and now pick a really important task, boom! You are wonderful Ruri!❤️

[@foxy2348]

your inner conflicts and feeling of Ego are probably the cause. So finding motivation is a long process of and a journey inwards. Therapy, meditation, and looking at yourself is the key. Action comes Before Motivation.

[@Vikoboi]

happy to see you ruri! appreciate the content! take care and much love!

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Metinleri kameranızla çevirin You are like a miracle. Whenever I think about some subject or search for something, you share about that subject as if you are reading my mind. I love you Ruri and wish you continued success.

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Ruri out here healing the world 🌍

[@cecile9026]

Thank you Ruri for this new video. Most of the time, I struggled with too many things to do and it get me anxious. But I found working in an other place like a coffee shop help me with that.

[@Vex7eX]

Thank you for teaching me how to get better in life

[@renejmartins]

Ruri, I can’t thank you enough for this video! You made my day! 😃

[@egesoysal]

Trial and error is one of the best methods. Thank you Beril for sharing your experience with us. :) :)

[@mntalaohu]

Thank you so much, i feel you really, seriously. In the same situation right now, dealing with self-doubt, the paralysis, and the procrastination, hope to do the gamify thing 🙏

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You are such a phenomenal person! I am in awe of you ❤

[@crazypingping]

Thanks Ruri! I struggle with this a lot. I'll be sure to try this and see how it goes

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This was so helpful :) Getting reminded about things don't always go well and you just need to focus on the most important things was refreshing. Subscribed! 😚

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I don't care what your content are,What I care is watching you, almost all of your vedeos.Thank you.

[@T_Civ]

Ruri, you seem happier than in the previous vids. It’s good to see that!

[@n.hemavathi3451]

I have struggled with this problem and i watched your video at the right. i have gained some ideas from your. I easily feel demotivated in my work. I had followed tips, but they didn't work for me. Thanks for your help.

[@darthwater999]

Ruri, your videos helped me in the past, but after a while, I went back to being such a screw-up. I'm already sure this one will help me too because you're so good at what you do. I've just watched the intro, and it's exactly me. Now I'll watch the rest. Thank you.

[@polishedandpoisedplanner]

When I am overwhelmed, I lose my motivation and then I feel so far behind and then it turns into a cycle.

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Ruri i appreciate the gems 💎 on your channel I definitely took notes 📒 keep up the good work im proud of you 😎💪 I pray that you are having a good week be safe🙏

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Thank u so much. I'll put it into good use.😊

[@Kyouma.]

It's actually very simple. Do what you enjoy and care about. Then you won't even question whether you do it or not. You just do it

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the most needed video to me , on time , thanks a lot

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This video came to me at a time when I wanted to pressure myself to work Thank you very much

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Helllo hru. It's good to see you again! Thanks alot for making videos for us!!❤

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This channel is the real deal. Thanks!

[@yappermoney]

Mentioned everything I struggle with 😆I will try this method out!

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Let's be honest, Ruri's always relatable. She makes problems much easier 🖤

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Great video Ruri!

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Ruri I've been waiting for this video and I really really love all your recent videos so so much✨😀💕

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This is a brilliant and manageable method. Thank you!

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Thank you Ruri

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Thank you. I wish you the best you are very smart.

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Very useful info thanks Ruri!

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self reflection is the motivation itself ☺

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thank you. i will try this ❤

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Wholesome, relatable and insightful!

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Ruri Ma'am, u r very much fit, I have watched your video for the time I am a student live in India prepare for entrance and i real struggled with managing my time and by watching ur video I think i got the idea its the best thing u said that neither motivation nor discipline can help as discipline cause burn someday. Thank you for making such a helpful video. Plz share with us how u do u reflect back. ❤❤❤

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[@GameGladiatorsTTV]

Motivation just comes and goes , so just stick to consistency , each day , then each week , then each month , it all start with the right mindset , if you dont't get the right mindset , rewire yourself again , start over

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Just when I needed it!

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Looking jacked 🔥💪 Scheduling tasks definitely is key 🗝️

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Hiii ! Dear Ruri , I love you so much ❤️. You give us very useful advices and guidances .Thank you so much , Good Luck , sweetie 🥰

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The shirt with the word unfocused, It is great for expressing the episode. I like all the episodes and I started with ADHD episodes 👏🏻😃 great effort 💛⭐ wonderful results

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Is this the main or secondary channel? What's the other one?

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@@FrostKing104 her second channel is "Ruri therapy" and she started it about 1à days ago. It's unedited content, a little as a diary. It's very good :)

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@@FrostKing104 her secondary channel is "Ruri therapy", it's raw footage, almost like a diary. Very relaxing. Recommend 100%

[@FrostKing104]

@@iamDiegoVgs thanks!

[@mahirozsut]

I have been really bad with motivation and discipline for the last few days. I almost can't enjoy life, I always want to lie down and rest. but I know very well that I have to fix this. these days I feel more and more that it is time to stop this. with your help I know I will overcome this process.

[@TinaBeyondGames]

God Like thumbnails just like always 🔥 Super informative video thanks BIG RURI ❤

[@SirenCityAngel]

Heard somewhere that motivation is a formula.. having said that and going with that, noones ganna move themselves if the work is torture and ends up hurting you mentality physically and spiritually ~

[@differentxminds9907]

Honestly your most helpful video. Thank you!!

[@Shincerely]

I think that your last advice is similar to advices of Ali abdaal. It is very helpful for me. I made my tasks gamified and I am accomplishing more things than before. Thank you Ruri this video too.

[@sadkebab]

A metaphor I started using to define my productivity is a wave you want to surf whose height and duration will depend on many physical, emotional, and environmental factors. Every day is a different ride. You can't surf for more than the wave will allow, and the more you ride, the better your balance will be. And some days you may need to go to a different beach to find a decent wave.

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Thank you so much ❤

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When someone ask me what's the best video on KZbin:

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Great points!

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I really love this videos ❤

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Thanks for this, great and important video. And the impromptu gun show was so cute & impressive! 💪

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This is the video I needed right now.

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Feedback! I like it. Thanks for the video. Really love the motivation

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I attract by your beauty and mesmerize by your voice,presentation and body language

[@dronicx7974]

I agree so much with setting time for life building tasks. You have to learn to not only willingly make the choice to ignore ultra stressful urgent tasks to focus on seemingly selfish tasks like hitting the gym, but to also see that choice as a literal investment in your future and your literal current mental stability. Most people would engage in these tasks feeling that they are wasting their time and that perspective in many cases makes the problem worse. A mindset shift sounds too simple and stupid to work, but it's the extreme opposite. It's very hard to shift your mindset to thinking like this because at first you are just deluding yourself into thinking that doing these tasks will help you. Facts most of the time aren't enough to force this mindset shift. However, eventually after sometime engaging in these activities, you do see the benefits and not the self delusion and at that point, the shift is done because now you'll understand how and why from an anecdotal level you can actually take an urgent task, completely ignore it and willingly engage in selfish activities and not feel stressed about it.

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This is going to change my life!

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Thanks for sharing

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We see your muscles. Well done!

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Thank you dear..it helped me a lot

[@ClairenParkerontheRoad]

This is helpful for my ADHD. Thanks!

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it's a really valuable video, thank you teacher 👍

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There's so much negativity in the comments but this is really useful info, Ruri! I always enjoy your perspective. That community guide sounds awesome!

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Bought XAI89K after watching your video, super excited! 💰

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Excited for xAi's potential gains ahead! 🚀

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Looking forward to xAi's growth!

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Awesome video. I love your content Ruri :)

[@LoLumpa]

I wish you all the happiness and to pursue your dreams, every day is a new day and don’t blame yourself for what you didn’t do, it’s never to late. ☺️

[@officialtimothyphoenix]

The IBNU method, nice. (Important but not urgent). I like breaking that into quadrants and putting the task in each one. I struggle with that same issue of feeling like everything is Important even when they are not Urgent or sometimes even important. One of those ADHD problems for sure. 😊

[@folicosar]

Thanks!

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Thanks for this video I'm gonna write a board exam next year so i needed something like this ! 💜

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Your videos really help me!