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[@ruriohama]

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[@mohammadhsiddeeqh8467]

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[@niemansianpier4668]

Love your videos!!!💎

[@AJ_573]

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[@YoshiLeoMex]

Same to me. And it asks me to pay the delivery freight fee 50 usd via paypal. You may check if your account is jacked….

[@anujkondhalkar9776]

Ma'am, this is exactly my situation. Thank You for the video.

[@alfred8936]

One of the biggest conflicts of ADHD is constantly wanting to try new things but being paralyzed by the overwhelming amount of information you feel like you need to learn about them

[@marzouk6270]

I'm starting to think I might have adhd.

[@yuukikakero995]

@@marzouk6270 same since kind of most of the things in the video feel relatable

[@FredMaverik]

that's called laziness. I have adhd and i don't have that. I've seen several people like you, and some of them not even adhd. Don't confuse the 2.

[@user-Korpan]

@@FredMaverik i agree, when i run into that situation i get excited that theres so much to learn, getting a massive dopamine spike is what people with adhd generally look for, otherwise they feel bored and quit things. they probably also have some issue with anxiety that gets in the way,

[@DoriterEater]

@@FredMaverik Soo the way your brain works dictates how everyone's works?? Not all neurodivergent brains work the same. Why do you WANT people to hate themselves??

[@cheesypizzajokes]

"You are a highly intellectual individual..." alrighty nice seeing you guys, take care

[@hiroklobus87]

You really made may day with this comment. 🤣

[@ae831]

deadass almost clicked off the video cause of that lol, but I did want help so I stayed

[@DANGJOS]

Lol! I was like nope

[@Lazymindflayerwithcofffee]

@@ae831 same bud

[@kype5258]

lol, same feeling :D

[@LOL-cringe]

One thing that kinda sucks is if you are actually starting to build a habit despite your ADHD, if you ever get sick or something and break the habit, it's extremely difficult to get it back again. I really appreciate this video because it gives me a lot of hope that I can take control over my life and work.

[@Breezy_Vibes024]

I hate myself for this.

[@grayjuly]

yo just the other day I was happy I finally fixed my bed time, now I fucked up my body clock again

[@briareus3]

Just learn to breath correctly. Through the nose. See Preston videos. Huge overlap between ADHD and incorrect breathing. So cure your ADHD. Unless you're using it as a crutch to avoid social responsibility, in which case, get bent.

[@stephenqueen6946]

this happened with running. Was doing 10miles a day for over a year. Still struggling after a 6 week break 2 years ago.

[@hydrocosmo]

@@briareus3 ah yes "cure the ADHD" what a brilliant idea that no one's ever thought of that surely works for everyone. genius.

[@Skargar]

Okay, I got: 1. Embrace Fear 2. Change Environments 3. Time based goals 4. Micro commitments 5. Use a timer (Pomodoro method) 6. Compfy Competition with yourself

[@enzoduvernay4540]

I confirm the fact that changing environment can help a lot, since I went to high school (which is far from where I live so I sleep at a dedicated place on week days) I felt some differences in my behaviour and motivation, being with some motivated friends also helps me to do some work properly while smh enjoying these moments because I was able to stay productive

[@mxt4907]

So tempted to ask you to expand because I’m at minute 4 and i already know i have ADD lol

[@ozguneren]

I have added this video to my "Watch Later" list. Hope it works!

[@taylan9708]

Lmao

[@khizzard_069]

Haha. More than 800 in mine LoL (but I don't remove the ones I've seen so yeah they also count)

[@Brosfight_]

My list is full. 5000 Videos is the maximum btw

[@khizzard_069]

@@Brosfight_ oh my-

[@jonathanj8270]

wow mine is like around 2,500 😅😅

[@mystic7851]

Procrastinating was never a real issue for me before until the pandemic , that's when things got really rocky for me.

[@skyward7903]

I was always a prone to procrastination but still did all my work on time and well. Since the pandemic I'm an absolute wreck lmao. I CAN'T seem to do anything at all

[@NastyKill264]

@@skyward7903 sameeee, i think a lot of people have this problem :(

[@jkkwinfics5711]

Sameeeee, I just wanna get myself back on track

[@ames-inthe-grass]

this is me too

[@joemcmanus9]

@@skyward7903 bro same, i used to stay all night studying and recently i just seem to not gaf

[@LOL-cringe]

I keep blaming myself for my lack of focus and procrastination, and my brain always tells me that I'm hiding my procrastination behind the "ADHD" excuse. I don't know if others with ADHD face it or not but it's brutal. Thanks for the video.

[@snehabhapkar7620]

I feel the same !

[@studentmanas5545]

Yeah right it just doesnt seems fair to self diagnose that I have adhd but I don't have courage to consult about it either

[@zoeo.v1121]

I@@studentmanas5545 For real!! And it's like what if i go get checked and it turns out i don't have ADHD, it terrifies me.

[@hydrocosmo]

I think it's a good idea to question the idea of "laziness" altogether. It's often used as a way to hurt people rather than actually encourage productivity. You need to trust in your ability to be enough just the way you are.

[@taminapiwocki3423]

Very much. I've learned that no one can self hate like someone with ADHD. That's because we're keenly aware of what others value regardless of what they say out loud. As hard as it is, though, we have to accept that we are not trash for our "failings". We just need to recognize that the structures we live within are made for neuro-typical folk. It's no reason to sulk. It just means we need to do some creative problem solving and create ways to get the gold via odd routes.

[@dottiEpre]

Who else went straights to the comments while listening lol

[@valex5740]

Tell me you were looking for a resume please. Tell me I'm not the only one.

[@ematise]

I didn't need a resume. Her presence and way of talking are very pleasant. 19 minutes felt like 5 min.😅

[@norfolk2659]

Hahaja,im dying😂

[@_karla._]

FINALLY somebody talking about adhd in the context of self-improvement and procrastination.

[@Anonymous-sn6ey]

Shwetabh Gangwar from India did it years ago

[@Light-ib7fg]

@@Anonymous-sn6ey she's not from south right

[@darkchive]

you won't believe how i procastinate: i watch videos on how to not procastinate. 😭

[@activegrass9435]

This made me realize why i managed to "survive" school life all the way to college. Every task is filled with deadline and it gives me the rush to finish within the last moment. Everything seems well until i got all sorts of repercussion as a growing adult. Currently in phase to start a new career in a different field and trying to learn from scratch is just insanely hard. I kept losing track just because there is no presence of deadline or rewards in front of me. For the record, i dont self diagnose and claim that i have adhd but some of the things you said resonates and help me learn more about myself.

[@NishaT-se9lu]

Dudee this is exactly my story. I finished college in May 2023..didn't had to deal with lot of procrastination and laziness due to deadlines in schools and colleges and fear of bad grades ..now since I'm graduated and I have to look out for a job and there are no deadlines I'm not able to even start. I have tried to study multiple times but somehow remained inconsistent and could never restart it.

[@JlNXED]

This is what is happening to me I’m going to university online and it’s self study for certifications and I lose months of time idk how I’m so tired all the time too I get easily burnt out and keep wondering what’s the point when trying to start something even though I genuinely want to get it done

[@CHNO-cm1rd]

Also, please remember everybody - it doesn't matter if you have ADHD, you can still use the ADHD productivity tips and not bother about the diagnosis. If these tips work for people who chronically can't get stuff done due to their brain chemistry, you absolutely can use it as self help. Also remember that procrastination and memory issues aren't attributed to ADHD only - you can research on PTSD, autism, OCD and some related stuff. If nothing rings a bell - great, and if it does - also great!

[@diediedice]

Thqnk you, I really needed to hear this

[@rsolo9294]

Thank u, have adhd and its been tough trying to learn while all my peers are scoring As, I cannot grasp even simple concepts. I'm won't give up

[@abrahamambriz892]

As someone with Asperger's Syndrome, I tend to procrastinate because I don't like doing things that are monotonous or unrelated to my personal interests.

[@abrahamambriz892]

It can also happen when I feel lonely and want to hangout with a friend.

[@CHNO-cm1rd]

@nano "lazy" is an emotionally charged word. If you take a rational approach, you will find that "laziness" might be perfectionism, bad mental or physical health, fear of failure, low self esteem, burnout, etc. It's basically just putting a negative label on it without deconstructing the reason behind it.

[@bitamoradveisi1577]

Thanks for the video girl. Having ADHD, depression and being a perfectionist all at once has literally ruined my life💀🚶

[@abdullahzafar6779]

I can relate ❤vWhen there is a will , you will figure it out. Keep it slow . We got this 💪

[@percyjackson5017]

"girl" what sort of way to address someone is that

[@josealejandrogarciarojas1115]

same lmao

[@entropy59122]

Am I the only one who is afraid to actually start? Like I always cram on the last day of the exam and I'm scared to actually study cause what if I actually study and I fail? I'm just really scared of that, why? I want to be good but what if I'm dumb?

[@carlossaraiva8213]

​@@percyjackson5017thigh ass much?

[@rawrjoon]

had a big cry rn after finishing this video. it feels as if you perfectly described me in here. i have been struggling my whole life with this, and high school and pandemic kinda threw me at rock bottom. that's when i decided it was enough and asked my parents to see a professional but lol.. being in an asian country, as an asian person who is practically an adult asking your parents for something about mental health isn't easy. they just dismissed everything as laziness and that internet is frying my brain and again for the next year i believed the same before i realised how badly im spiraling and then they had to take me. but even the professional didn't bother. he just said "you are a girl, and an adult that's impossible you are just weak" i was so fucking confused. he didnt even ask me anything much... and my parents were right there overriding everything i said with "she just sleeps and does everything other than work, been lazy since she was a baby". i still blame myself everyday because its becoming impossible to get up and do anything everything feels like it's falling apart. everyone around me tells me to "just get it over with" HOW? and with all of this am i really insane to ask for help and question... maybe they are right, and i am wrong but still i would rather try to help myself then continously blame myself because i truly am tired at this point i dont know how long i can go on

[@fr0ggy513]

im sorry you experienced all that. keep advocating for yourself and dont ever stop trying to get support! its okay to ask for help, sometimes you have to keep looking for the right people (trusted adults, medical professionals) who WILL support you and not invalidate your experiences. you are not lazy, your brain just works differently. i wish you the best!

[@Martin-iz7uh]

I'm so sorry to hear you went through that. For what it's worth, there are so many people like you who have gone through the same thing. You are not alone. Unfortunately most people still dont understand brain differences or mental health. Please remember that your struggle is NOT a failure or a reflection of your moral character. It sounds like you try really hard. Please keep in mind that, unfortunately, many people in healthcare are still not fully educated on ADHD. This is because the research done on ADHD has been so much focused on affluent young white boys, which obviously is a small sample size of humans. This causes even well meaning people to have subconscious bias that they are not even aware of, and causes them to be more likely to dismiss you if you are also not a younger white boy falling into that stereotype. Please look for not only a professional but a specialist who works with adults/females with ADHD. They are more educated and trained, and will give a better assessment that is less likely to be biased. I recommend checking out Psychology Today website. I hope this helps. Please know that it can get better, just dont give up.

[@hannahg7328]

@rawrjoon I felt u in a deeper level. Your comment reflects what I'm going through too. We can still go on strong though :) bear hugs for my internet soulmate 💗💚

[@nimisu8174]

We all are same in this ... trying so hard for help but don't really know what to do ... really wanna get the hell outta this situation but just can't and being termed as lazy 🙃

[@diamond-ge7td]

i feel you!!!! this problem affects my life so much but my parents just accuse me of being lazy and undisciplined but they have no idea!!!! i hope we can find ways to work with our adhd brain!!

[@shadya707]

"Your brain likes new things and it doesn't like monotone strategies" oh my good this describes my whole life of trying to find a routine that works. It feels like a groundhog day for me if I do the same things every day.

[@tellezgerardoruben5202]

Me too, I eventually learn to use that alternative strategies as a way to impress my teachers, in that way I managed myself to be one of the best students in my university.

[@That_Guy5575]

Literally took me 3 weeks to finally watch this. When I finally did, I felt personally attacked lol, but it all makes so much sense.

[@andubverse]

Same here, This video has been sitting in my watch later playlist for the past month, and today I finally watched it.

[@pepito69]

I feel personally attacked that you feel personally attacked

[@_Ginger_Tea_]

If you want to procrastinate less and concentrate better on studying you can study with me here. Instead of watching videos on youtube you can have a video of me studying and keeping you company, so you don't get distracted. I study for 1-3 hours with breaks in between while I keep you company If you're interested, feel free to study with study videos of mine Hopefully it will be useful for you ❤

[@cosmicsoulsofficial]

trying to "comlete" here for two hours ))

[@icaruus1689]

3 months here

[@6thhistory]

The idea of doing the hardest job first is absolutely the OPPOSITE of what works for me. Knowing I have ten other jobs to do on top of what is already really draining me completely demotivates me, but seeing a couple little jobs get finished and seeing the results totally gets me going.

[@Minflixx]

Same! Even if it's the smallest task, knowing I completed something already motivates me to do more

[@commentbot9510]

I think so as well! I have a really hard time getting into the "working mindset" so starting with the hardest one is like setting me up to fail because I will be so demotivated to start.

[@gozerofgozmis4181]

Same

[@ares4435]

Same! Also i find that starting with the easier tasks lets me get into studying and being productive and then i can easily get started with other harder tasks

[@JanSnieg]

Same! Before work, even cleaning up the desk puts me into “I’ve completed something” mood. My problem is not that idk how to be productive. My problem is to start doing work…

[@tylerscompositions]

My jaw is on the floor because of how accurately you just described my life. It’s honestly emotional to learn that other people deal with this. We are so driven and passionate but it’s so difficult to navigate. Thank you so much for this video. Just subscribed and looking forward to learning more!!!

[@cheezyfriez12]

Oh my god, I never realized I could be dealing with adhd. I'm a teenager in an online school, and I am constantly struggling with procrastinating my schoolwork to the point of acruing unexcused absences. I can't even focus most of the time, just because I have the option to do something else. I was doing great in my old public school, and I started faltering when I started online school when the pandemic hit. I used to blame it on not being around people as much and replacing that social interaction with youtube, which is probably still a factor, but this video gave me a whole new perspective on things. Now I just have to bring this up to my parents and hope they don't write it off as an excuse.

[@ematise]

Yes, we ADHD people need someone to watch us. To keep us accountable so the internal stress is increased, as a result we are able to execute the things that we are supposed to do. That's why sometimes having a body double functions when you study or doing homework (body double=having somebody with you when you're doing things. Can even be somebody connected with you in video chat. Try to find somebody to pair with when doing homework. You only have to be aware of their presence, you don't have to talk).

[@gijoe4242]

I have adhd and I get jealous of my friends because they are able to get things done throughout their day but my friends tell me they are jealous of my creativity and how I can learn new things so quickly. ADHD isn’t a bad thing. Growing up, my family and teachers always thought I was lazy because I would always procrastinate and not pay attention to things I’m not interested in. When I got diagnosed with ADHD everything started to make sense and tbh I cried a little bit. My whole life I was hard on myself because I thought I was lazy and would never be successful but I learned to control my brain better and I’m now going to college to create video games. I don’t care how much money I make in the future because I will do something I’m interested in and love my job. If you have ADHD it’s better to chase your dreams because you are more likely to succeed since it’s something your interested in. I loved this video and will come back to it whenever my brain is making me watch KZbin instead of doing my assignments lol.

[@VeraLucille]

I almost cried just reading your comment lol

[@zblurth855]

You mean your ADHD isn’t a bad thing, when you can’t focus on a single thing and a bored of everything after 10h max you go nowhere in life And yes not every ADHD come with the hyper focusing power some can just like... never focus and being bored of thing they really like. and meds are not working.

[@XxViperMortalxX]

Fk... I think i might have it but in my case it honestly is destroying my life... Most things i want/like depends on my discipline and since those things are not stuff that i have a deadline i can just take time, leave for another time again and again... Everything she said is basically true, i do in fact get extra focused when a deadline is present and im just about to cross it... It clicked when she said that because just recently something like that happened and i was just like "wtf how did i do that, i want to do that with other things", like its insane the level of focus and hard work i had and it was something that once i finished i couldnt believe, because i shouldnt be able to do it with the time i had.

[@gijoe4242]

@@XxViperMortalxX yeah I know what you mean. I took a creative writing class in high school and I would wait till the last day before my paper was due and then type like 10 pages. My teacher would always love reading my stories because I would just write about all the random crap that goes on in my mind when I’m zoning out. If it ever gets to a point where you can’t even do the things you enjoy perhaps try medication if you are open to it. I used to take Adderall and it helped me A LOT when it comes to being productive and focusing on my hobbies but it also kinda takes away the crazy imaginary brain that comes with adhd so now I only take it sometimes when I really need it.

[@XxViperMortalxX]

@@gijoe4242 i hate medication, i prefer to treat everything by suplementation if needed, or more natural ways like certain teas or exercises. Yet for adhd i found only DMAE, might have to try some but its quite hard to find it where i live. That shit fucks with ur mind when u dont know u have it... Because literally who is to blame for YOU not doing shit ? Yeah... What frustrates me is that i dont want to take meds, but i also dont want to be like that and it sucks because even tho i want to do something ppl think im lazy, that it isnt hard to do what u gota do, u justa got to do it... When in reallity it is insanely hard to do what u got to do unless u actually HAVE TO DO IT...

[@Asliiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii]

ADHD is something that I thought I might have but I also try to not label myself wrongly.Lately I feel like I am trapped in a position that I have good ideas and eagerness to change my routine and I am keep failing it. At this point I can't confirm this by going a professional but I am also quite fed up to feel like this. So I decided to apply ADHD helpful tips and methods to see if it helps me. Thanks a lot for this content. You did it agaiiin! ❤

[@marquisdehoto1638]

I don't think that I have adhd, but I find that the environment makes it hard to focus. I mean... look at all the notifications... every app wants your attention.

[@aleaaerktyka1052]

and how your doing? does it work for u?

[@tapathune]

Even if you don't have adhd there is absolutely nothing wrong with seeking out adhd resources. gatekeeping adhd without a diagnosis perpetuates exclusion and doesn't aid in any way, you're more than welcome to discuss your symptoms and seek help with or without a diagnosis :) not to mention adhd comes in so many varying severities and flavours. at the end of the day it's just a label

[@Asliiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii]

@@aleaaerktyka1052 last 2 weeks I can say that I am doing a lot better. I wake up earlier, trying to have a morning routine. I also put some effort to understand to reasons why I procrastinate and how I see tasks etc. I decided to disconnect myself from the task. Meaning, tasks should be perform and not always I have to have an emotional links to them. I realized I struggle a lot to do the best job and it prevents me to actually perform the task. I keep reminding myself to take it easy and sometimes tasks being done is more important than doing it perfectly. You can always improve your work later, right? I hope I explained it well for you :)

[@Asliiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii]

@@tapathune Thank you for your support! We've become more of a community in this comment section! I I wish the best for everyone who is seeking for the right tools to improve their lives ☺

[@curiouscreed9309]

I didn't know I literally needed this video. I found so many similarities and I can relate to almost everything you said. I tried asking myself why I procrastinate and I always got disappointed as I was not able to see the pattern or get the answer. Thanks to your video I now know why everything is the way it is and I have an outline about improving my current situation and I am willing to work upon it. You are doing great work. Thanks once again.

[@mybrainhurts3727]

THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!! This was a missing puzzle piece for me!!! I had to watch the video multiple times because I got distracted by my dog, making coffee, and watching a separate video at the same time, but it was well worth it!!!

[@Thesmus]

not diagnosed with adhd yet but i still relate to tons of things here. like the part about momentum. once i am on that part where i am in the zone, i always have the feeling of not wanting to stop cause i know when i go back to it, i'll just get distracted again and get back to not doing it again. also in this state, i get so focused that i never bother about playing music as i usually do and that i can easily dismiss many distractions like yt vids and interesting articles/links. but i believe this state happened to me the most in the middle of the night which makes it hard to not stop cause at that point i am needing sleep.

[@wtfimcrying]

try not to self diagnoise, shit holds u back.

[@Thesmus]

@@wtfimcrying yeah no i am not self diagnosing myself, i will still find a way to seek professional help to diagnose if i do have adhd, but regardless if i do or not, i can say i relate tons to things happening in the video

[@elianenfahne9845]

Same here!

[@DraughMusic]

@@wtfimcrying Why isn't your comment pinned

[@giovannivieira5830]

Omg Same here!! i thought i was having difficulty going back to doing things after stopping because i was being immature, i never made the connection between this and adhd, thank you!!

[@aniher4949]

I have intuitively tried a lot of these methods, but unfortunately, I still struggle horribly. But I'm glad you mentioned having different places to work in. I think that that is a huge part of the problem I have because I'm extremely unhappy with my living situation. I think having the proper environment, one that is capable of stimulating you in a way that is condusive for your creative mode, is very key, and I would recommend that as an initial goal to create for yourself. If you dont have a space that works for you, it adds to the feeling of being overwhelmed, multiplied by X amount.

[@diamond-ge7td]

i highly suspect i have adhd but my parents wont let me get a diagnosis and ive really been struggling to find ways to focus and cope with my schoolwork. thank you for this video. it really helps!!

[@untoldtapes]

Being an ADHD brain guy, i learned a lot from this video however to finish the whole video of 19 minutes, i took almost 2 hours.. I am proud of you and I am getting the momentum to keep moving towards my dreams and one day i will be sharing my journey with all of you and help others through my experiences.

[@raida9516]

well here i am finishing it within 10 mins, 2x speed saves my life

[@SamayGhosh]

I have split screen on I'm playing a game on the other half :/

[@txl420]

ended up scrolling twitter and zoning tf out. I feel you@@SamayGhosh

[@IamAnofficial01]

After reading your comment i have some relief that i am not alone in this world 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@wordly.am.i]

⁠@@raida9516lol I did the same watched it on 1.75 speed 😂otherwise my brain resists waiting her finishing a single phrase

[@HeroFigo]

I am at 7:50 and so far there has not been a thing you got wrong about me. I haven't been diagnosed with ADHD but it's unsettling how accurate you were about my life so far.

[@kouchiee]

omg right??? she really hit the nail on the head,, made me cry how scarily accurate and relatable this was

[@BlackGirlLovesAnime6]

Same it’s the reason why I failed immunology

[@elijahcannon2863]

yep, same. I was not expecting that from this video.

[@kieran8792]

I’m sobbing because it’s so accurate 😭

[@NotOkarin]

@@kouchieeme too..

[@CodeLife_12]

Learned I have ADHD at 31 years old. It explains why I've always felt so much different than others around me. Productivity tips always seemed foreign and weird to me. Great video!

[@vinyboo9699]

i really needed to hear something like this for a while. thank you

[@Key-jf4tm]

Hey. I'm a teenager and I struggle with motivation and work in general. I'm not bad at school or anything, I even have pretty good grades for someone who doesn't know how to study effectively, but always doing things when the deadline is close is in fact very stressful. I made research about what could make me procrastinate so much and that's when I heard about ADHD. I started to recognize myself in it and talked to my mother about it. Where I live, mental health is not something really important to people, most of them don't know about deficits and disorders and think that teenagers these days are making up weird problems and mental illness. This video helped me a lot. I'm planning on being properly diagnosed someday. Maybe I don't have ADHD, but it would definitely help me understand myself much better.

[@LegowarriorYTAdventure1234]

Well done my man, No shame in asking for help. Something I wish I had done around your age. I know your gonna dominate high school if your already asking for help this early in it.

[@PhrosstBite]

Yeah, what LegoWarrior said. Being able to do alright in school, maybe even gifted, while also having ADHD is something I've seen labeled as twice exceptional. Googling that might be a good thing to look into. Trust me when you get to college or your new career outta HS, you're gonna be so glad you caught this early. Fresh diagnosed at 28 and I still mourn what the start of my life could've been, but c'est la Vi. You might be able to avoid some of that. Wishing you all the best, good luck on your journey. You're already off to a better start than I had, and things have turned out alright for me, so you're gonna be fine :)

[@entropy59122]

Dude I always cram on but this time it's really starting to affect my grades like I keep one bad grade after the other I'm so scared I'll fail my semester.

[@KatzeKriegerin]

Hi! I was diagnosed with ADHD at 6 and always excelled in school without studying at all, until I got into college. If it's possible, I would suggest researching for psychotherapists near you that specialize in ADHD and ASD. I'm not sure where you live, but I also live in an area where people treat mental health like it doesn't exist, but there are still resources that can be found to help you. Even if you end up not getting diagnosed, it doesn't hurt to speak to someone who understands the problems you're having and can help you manage them!

[@prosamurai1182]

why this sounds likes me

[@bubblebaath7840]

The best analogy I've ever heard is "put your hand on a hot stove." you physically can but your brain wont let you I have ADHD and im in year 12 at school atm, typically I do my assignments the night before, smash out 5k words and get full marks but I picked a subject that has a major project and just spent 11/12 months procrastinating, now its due in 2 weeks and I've only been sleeping every second day trying to get it done in time and realising that there's a reason we has a full year to do it.. And yet I find myself here watching youtube instead of doing my project lmao I have meds but I'm still not on the right ones for me yet and my psych appointments are too far apart to actually get me on the right medication before I finish school

[@neomawz]

Wait that’s. That’s exactly how it feels omg

[@marslight431]

Dude, I'm doing the same thing

[@trajectory7235]

How'd you go with that project?

[@lancekenjiparce]

Thank you! I'll definitely rewatch this video and check out your other content as well. This video will be a valuable resource for me in managing my ADHD and improving my productivity with projects. I've been struggling to complete simple programming tasks, often getting sidetracked with unrelated activities. I want to avoid feeling overwhelmed, but I can't seem to stop procrastinating and end up juggling multiple tasks right up to their deadlines until I'm exhausted. Your insights are much appreciated, and you've earned a subscriber (even if it may not be crucial).

[@MohammadDawood]

Thank you for putting the effort and highlighting the issue

[@kuwertzel8938]

I don't have ADHD myself, but I have a friend who has it. This video really helps me to understand how their brain works and why they behave differently in certain situations, especially when it comes to studying/productivity. Thank you!

[@Selsmittenxo]

thank you for being a great friend!!

[@asimmoideen5960]

how does it feel?? like seriously, I'm actually curious like you didn't relate to the video in anyways at all, i feel like I've been like this as long as i can remember and it feels normal that its almost impossible to imagine how neurotypical brains would think. To me the closest i can imagine is like being an npc but that seems way to extreme. You're being a great friend btw

[@kuwertzel8938]

@Asim Moideen I do relate to a certain extent to the behaviours mentioned in the video. After all, I initially clicked on the video because I, too, tend to procrastinate a lot. However, comparing myself to my friend I see that they are much more easily distracted, eg. suddenly googling about something completely unrelated or playing a browser game during class instead of focusing on the assigned task or listening to the teacher. The funny thing is that at the end of class, they often got as far with the tasks as I did although they spent way less time actively working, matching the close-to-deadline-behaviour :D I personally tend to stick to what I'm doing more easily once I get started, but getting started is something I struggle with, too, whenever I have the freedom to choose when to do it (eg. learning for an exam as opposed to physically sitting in class). Another behaviour that seems to be exaggerated for ADHD people is the "shiny object syndrome". I have that, too, but I can more easily tell myself to ignore the feeling and stick to what I'm doing instead of following the urge to try out a new thing.

[@asimmoideen5960]

@@kuwertzel8938 i recently have been often catching myself being distracted, and tell myself to go back to work but in the process be distracted again, also when when I'm trying to start to work, everything other little work(not the one I'm trying to focus) start to pop up and subconsciously start work on those.

[@p_serdiuk]

@@asimmoideen5960 Neurotypicals have brain space to think about what they should do next, instead of having their brain select the next activity automatically with no input. That was the biggest difference for me when trying out meds for ADHD. Also time perception, but it's very difficult to describe.

[@faustito4681]

You literally described the last couple of years for me, even though I have no clue on whether I have or not ADHD, because I haven't seen a doctor. Yet, this video not only helps me, it also motivates me to go seek professional help as well.

[@schweppescomcianeto7582]

yo, did you saw a doctor? im in the same situation as you, but i dont really know to talk to my parents about this

[@DarkAsasin16]

@@schweppescomcianeto7582 same, they would probably blame it on the computer tho

[@br4mborkaa]

@@DarkAsasin16 i felt that computer thing so much lol. i'm the top of my school even with procrastination because i just never had to study, so it wasn't a problem :') but school is getting harder and i'm not any smarter and idk how to ask for help. whenever i tried, electronics or me being lazy was blamed by my family because they're the type of people who think that a self-improvement book by some random neurotypical dude written 40 years ago applies to everyone. like how do i bring anything up pls

[@schweppescomcianeto7582]

@@br4mborkaa same bro, ive always done well in school, so i dont think they would take it seriously

[@bg3622]

@@br4mborkaa I was sort of in your position until university. I even scored top 0,2% of students in my country. Got into uni and realized It's not a very interesting subject for me. I'm stubborn and as such I wasted years without graduating. By the end I was borderline paralyzed (and depressed). I couldn't even attend classes and I still don't know why. This video is an eye opener, though, I shall visit the doc. Now I'm soon to graduate (hopefully) from SWE and I love it. ADHD or not, I highly advise you as your big bro to make your choice and never be afraid to take a step back. Don't flock to popular trends* while making your decisions or -if our brains truly work alike- you'll only lose more. Listen to yourself.

[@maryamalkhairy2547]

Your presentation of this timeless advice is wonderful and well paced. Thank you so much and please take care of yourself too 💐

[@J_Shingy53]

Notes to self(adhd; procrastination skills): Captuate Create Complete Compete

[@rijvada]

I've never thought I am an ADHD person, but I find myself always procrastinating like you said. You've helped me understand myself much more. And thank you Ruri, I'll try things to know what works for me.

[@xxzxcuzx.]

But doesn't everyone procrastinate why is this a mental illness now

[@lunosol8914]

​@@xxzxcuzx.ADHD isn't always about procrastinating He just self diagnosed himself He doesn't have it

[@The_Count_Uglukh]

cause you are NOT.... ADHD is a disease that must be diagnosed by a psychologist

[@me61840]

adhd is not a mental illness. Its neurodivergeancy. @@xxzxcuzx.

[@me61840]

@@lunosol8914 Someone has the right to self diagnose espcially since the medical system is built on ballons and sticks

[@EyasD04]

this is the first time ive watched an ADHD related video without feeling like a useless person. you just made me realize what i already knew, but had forgotten from all the bad information surrounding ADHD, and that hit me with a really nice feeling of hope. thanks for making this video :D

[@Sumedha_675]

You should understand that nobody is useless. Everybody is born for a reason, born to make a difference.

[@joshuakohn4408]

I hated it, every second of it. there is i basic problem description about adhd any folder in the world can give you and there are the most generic solutions you can find in any video. The only thing videos like this do for me is reassure me in not normal and that i have a problem aka this video gives me a victim mindset and i think it does for a lot of people. If you think im wrong and your life has improved since watching this video i would love for you to tell my how and why im wrong. Thanks in advance

[@KerryBuchanan]

Boy, do I agree with everything you just said

[@ryanmackenzie6109]

​@@joshuakohn4408​This video made me eat the frog. So like. There you go. It made life better for someone. But more seriously, we are technically victims of the system. We had opportunities in the past to succeed that do not exist anymore, and it is hurting us. It's not a bad thing to acknowledge that the systems in place are bad for you, and to want to change it. I would genuinely love if the bar was lowered for everyone, so everyone can have more time to rest and recharge, not just people with ADHD.

[@joshuakohn4408]

@@ryanmackenzie6109 True but this goes against none of my issue. My issues is that she acts like no one in the world with procrastination issues should go on about their day before watching her video. And what happens when you watch her video? Absolutely nothing but make you aware or remind you of the fact that you don't belong in the world is it right now. Solution time? SILENCEEEEEEEEE Now this girl ain't special in reminding procrastinators why they suck and providing nothing else they all do it. But then they act like they got the juice, the big fat secret while i can say with 100% confidence that when i found out i had ADHD my life went to shit. So therefor all the YOU NEED TO WATCH THIS VIDEO only means i need to get money tru youtube advertisement. When somebody says 'you need to so a psychologist' they don't realize often times they makes things infinitely worse. So yea i do get annoyed when people act like they can solve your problem while in reality they just trying to make some money for themselves. Now i hope you have a wonderful day ryan and may the odds be ever in your favor

[@user-fb1ys2lj9c]

I am so enlightened to hear and watch this topic versus listening to alarming news or topics that do not captivate my curious mind

[@T.Green.]

You're so right. I needed to watch this, thank you so much! Now I will do my best to see a professional and figure out how my brain functions

[@musachi5999]

Exactly describes my attitude to a lot of my Uni projects, I was always told "You can do much better than this, why don't you try?" but I would often feel paralyzed and just put it off until the last minute and then somehow knock work out (not always but sometimes) better than others who spent more time on it. Of course that didn't work out very often and eventually I'd get stuck in the weeds and just give up. Now I'm out of Uni, motivation is a struggle. I know I need to work on personal projects to build a portfolio but I keep putting it off. These are some great ideas to start the ball rolling, hopefully I will actually apply them.

[@person1420]

Same I didn't study the whole semester and then I literally studied the whole syllabus on the day of the exam and passed. But still, I didn't learn anything well. Now the semester is over and I have to study for university exam but I am not studying. It just stresses me out just thinking about it and I end up daydreaming all day.

[@dvxv4016]

​@@person1420 so true, I was frustrated from my bad grades at school so I just stopped caring about that. If I can't change it, then why should I care? School is useless anyway

[@naila0157]

Same

[@MrMeen]

A wise homeless man came up to me once not for money but to tell me "don't be lazy, don't be scared" Do asked him to explain what he meant: "We make our decisions based on love or fear. We are lazy to love people and afraid to do the things we don't enjoy. So his solution is find love in everything you are doing, it makes life easier" ❤

[@theorangeoof926]

I feel like this wholesome comment can be ruined with “well why is the guy homeless then”, but it’s quotes like these that get you through in sticky situations

[@fenrur26]

Yes, thats wise. I always believed that i wouldnt be successful at anything i dont like and i would be succsessful anything i love. So im in search for finding things that i like in every work i wanna do or i must do. Im quite sucessful at it but i lack the dicipline and i suffer from addictions which i'll get rid of.

[@fenrur26]

@@theorangeoof926 i mean experience mostly gained from failures so a man who has seen or lived downfalls is wiser and more capable of going higher if he still has time yet.

[@marcelsilva9919]

This video was really clarifying. I had no idea why I was evading so many important duties until I watched this video. Thank you so much.

[@ThatDoodWagg]

I really appreciated watching. You are very intelligent. Thank you for explaining the way that you do

[@innocentdragon1013]

For the past 3-4 days I've been looking up ADHD and it's symptoms. And found out that I have most of them. Most of your statement were true for me as well. I'm 19, turning 20 in a month. I've been struggling with school, SO MUCH. And it's frustrating to know that all of the struggle could have been avoided if I had just known. Or my parents were more observant of me and my tendencies and took me to a professional. Which they did. But it only lasted a month and in the long run didn't fix anything. I don't know how to tell my parents that I might have ADHD and that I need to see if it's true. Hell... from all those symptoms I have it's pretty much guaranteed. All of those times I've failed because I procrastinated too much, got yelled at, the condescending tone of my parents. The expectations they always put on me. I may have finally found out the cause. I always felt like there was something wrong with me. With how I knew that I had to get things done. But I never do it on time or in advance. I'm mad that this has almost completely ruined my life. I have even trouble talking with people. Sometimes... I don't even feel happy when my own parents hug me. It always scares me. Why was I growing to be like this. There had to be something wrong with me. I want to seek a psychiatrist in my area so that I can deal with the problem and finally to feel free from my metaphorical shackles.

[@shimaaelbana9898]

You're describing my life except I'm turning 23 in a few days. I found out about ADHD because of a tv show and then some KZbinr told his story with this disorder and i was like this man is living my life. It made me deplorable. After that i tried to seek a psychiatrist but it was awfull. Now I'm just trying taking adhd advice to apply and see if it works.

[@walmart8565]

You and me both man

[@ehhwhynot09]

Is it just me or I started getting ADHD symptoms as I got older.I related to almost everything she said in the video.I used to be a top student as a kid.But now my grades slip sometimes.

[@mufid.asshiddiq]

My bro, one key answer. You will always feel terrible inside until you do one thing: acceptance. God gave you this for a reason. Accept it. Refuse to reject. This is greater than what you think it is.

[@ehhwhynot09]

@mufid.asshiddiq yea we all gotta learn and live with it brother.

[@thomasmacdonough288]

I never realized ADHD is so in depth. I always believed as a kid I would just be a normal person who would have a hard time sitting through long movies. Never in a million years did I think I would spend the rest of my life doing gymnastics around my own mind in order to navigate this world.

[@rethinkyourself1]

You just made me cry a storm... It was like you talked thru me abaut me! I'm speechless and shaking...! Finally someone gets ME!

[@shyryTsr2k]

I'm 23 years old currently struggling through high school still... Back before I dropped out my junior year of high school I always blamed and hated myself for not being able to "be like the other kids" because even though I excelled at writing essays/creative stories and anything like that, I simply could not focus in class and fell behind greatly. I was told so often how much potential I have and that I could succeed if I just worked harder but it isn't that I don't want to, in fact I LOVE to learn as much as I can and have so many ideas for my life but I can't for the life of me keep my focus on anything unless its the very last deadline when I get a sense of urgency. It's so hard...

[@cookiesncream_]

this video just described everything i've been experiencing for the past year. afraid of starting, procrastination, planning for hours but not getting anything done; avoiding everything by doing irrelevant tasks such as taking ridiculously long walks; losing focus, fast passing time, knowing i should do it yet i don't, getting motivated from deadlines-- all of it. i'm in the middle of getting kicked out of univ and i honestly think they won't accept my mental health reasons any longer. i want to help myself but i genuinely can't. i cannot afford to consult a psychiatrist, i cannot afford to stop studying, i don't have anyone, have poor family relationships, and it's making me think of how much i'll be struggling and wasting the next few months of my life AGAIN. 08.2023

[@Martin-iz7uh]

My heart goes out to you. I have struggled with school and jobs my whole life so far, despite trying my best. I have been figuring out that I have ADHD and my therapist who specializes in neurodivergency agrees , but haven't been diagnosed yet. If you cant afford a psychiatrist, I recommend something called Open Path which offers sliding scale affordable therapy for people who dont have insurance. It is made specifically with people like you in mind, to remove extra barriers to accessing mental health resources. It's not a company, it is like an organization that tons of therapists can list themselves on if they are willing to offer sliding scale to be more accessible. Please consider checking it out, I know it can be daunting, but you will be able to find help if you reach out for support from people who specifically work with ADHD

[@colorpuffs2535]

Hey cheer up I hope you find the solution for it I'm rooting for you Fighting!!✊

[@suzuyahaise401]

You just described my life omg

[@debhui710]

hey you made that comment 2 months back. so just wondering any improvements? my life is same as you :/

[@Aditya1998pandey]

How in the heck am I finding it 100% relatable????

[@philon3kjavik817]

There I was, procrastinating and staying up later than I should, when all of the sudden this lady pops up in my recommended and describes my behavior to a T. Never really considered ADHD a possibility until now, still hesitant too, and I have no idea if I'll even implement these ideas tomorrow, but at least the gears are turning. Thank you!

[@Meiloorun]

I just did the exact same thing as you and feel the exact same way as you lol, never considered ADHD and still kinda reluctant to consider it but this video is describing me well

[@ironheavenz]

Absolutely great tips, concepts and explanation, thanks! But also, I always took pride in being different to not feel too bad about it, never even imagined what being understood would look like, thanks for that too

[@hartovamaverick5008]

Your explanation is just painfully accurate... Everything down to the tea that has made me question why I can't be more productive and why I put off things I know are important for every distraction that catches my tiniest interest.

[@Jupa]

I've always found it strange (in a good way) how your channel is the only one worth watching for people like me with ADHD. Most productivity channels simply offer nothing that ADHD people can apply. So oftentimes we’re left in the dark during heavy periods This is a really well made video, and I hope that more doctors in the future understand ADHD as well as you do

[@ailismckinney1750]

I am 54 and was diagnosed 5 months ago. Procrastination is a huge struggle for me. There are things I want to do but, it is hard to get started. This is a great video.

[@joshuakohn4408]

How? How has the video helped in any way? In what way has she provided any solutions? I'm going to assume you are a automated bot to leave messages and not a real person. I can belief a real person would benefit from this generic ass video

[@Mr.Helper.]

did they give you any drugs ? if so, does it really help ?

[@ailismckinney1750]

@@Mr.Helper. I am on Adderall and it has made a huge difference for me! I am able to focus at work and don’t have to worry about losing my job.

[@joshuakohn4408]

@@Mr.Helper. It helps for sure but it also kind of kills your personality. Trying to do deep work everyday and take a high dose of quality fish oil is a better way to go in my humble opinion

[@batman9512]

@@joshuakohn4408 I'll pass on the drugs. IMHO, the number of distractions in today's world are major contributing factors leading people to seek "professional" help, when it oftentimes just comes down to good 'ole fashion willpower and techniques. Frankly, it seems like everyone needs to be diagnosed with a syndrome or mental health issue to feel like they belong nowadays. Weird.

[@dominiusmaverick1854]

Thank you. I randomly chanced on this video and it made me feel better. The ADHD has been getting worse and worse mostly because I'm aware about it now more than I have ever been and this made me feel hopeful.

[@Isulduur]

I wanted to say thank you thank you thank you for making this video. Finding this video may have put me on a path to bring back joy into my life. I was never checked for ADHD as a child. I think i was perhaps convinced by others that it was not a legitimate disorder. But now i see it may have been crippling me my entire life.

[@LordJorMagi]

Wow! I mean... WOW!. You literally described how my brain works!. It's an eternal fight with my wife, the "Why do you always do your taxes declarations at last moment?", "Your University tasks" and so on... I just can't focus if it isn't about to expire the time to present those things. Thank you Ruri Ohama!. You probably saved at least one soul (mine) with this video!.

[@fabienne50]

My parents never really understood this so they had a hard time properly supporting me. Thank you for posting this!

[@LemmyWulf]

girl! this is the best adhd video that I've seen You explain it clean and simply It really motivates me to do it better based on my real motivation triggers Thanks

[@sickkittenx]

I wasn't diagnosed as ADHD but I have asperger syndrome. For example, i cannot give my concentration on something that i don't enjoy at all. but if the subject is interesting for me, i would spend my hours without losing my concentration. I even forget to doing my daily necessities like eating, sleeping etc. I have also difficulty in concentrating on something and with that i procrastinate a lot. Now my department is not interesting for me that's why i am constantly procrastinate my reviews and my thesis. life is hard if you don't have neurotypical brain hehe

[@jeb123]

I didn't know that this thing have a name, i probably have it then. But i don't think self diagnosing this is right, i need to go to a doctor.

[@sickkittenx]

@@jeb123 yeah, asperger syndrome is not only about concentration on something. it's a type of autism so you should see a doctor to fully understand your symptoms

[@yulana990]

@@jeb123 Definitely try to go to a psychiatrist if you wanna be checked for being neurodivergent. "Aspergers" (old term, not used anymore) is now called high functioning Autism and is on the Autism Spectrum Disorder. Autism is also something you are BORN with, so if these characteristics only appeared way later in your life, it is unlikely to be ASD, as there will ALWAYS be signs in early childhood that point to potential ASD. Which is why (if possible) is key to go to an psychiatrist who will also ask many questions relating to your childhood to make sure it is accurate. What OP described here is also called "Hyper-Fixation" in psychology and something common for people who are neurodivergent (so ASD and ADHD), and many other disorders, even just people with depression can have it. It just means you can have moments where you hyper-fixate on 1 single thing and forget to do anything else in many cases, very common for people with ASD and ADHD but not necessarily ONLY for those cases. There is also something called "Executive Dysfunction" which is also very common in ASD and ADHD aswell as depression, anxiety, personality disorders and more. It is something that can cause procrastination. They are different though. People who have executive dysfunction actually WANT to do something, like telling themselves whilst laying in bed to ''go do the laundry'', but for some reason they just can not get up and go do it. So instead, they might end up doing NOTHING, cause they keep wanting to go do the laundry, but can't. This can then cause people to procrastinate, which is delay an assignment on purpose, because they feel they wont be able to do it anyway. If you relate to both hyperfixation AND executive dysfunction (again, it IS different from procrastinating, but can co-exist), then I definitely recommending checking with a psychiatrist/psychologist if possible :) ADHD and ASD can also co-exist, just like many psychological issues. And if you cant see a psychiatrist, then you could always check out videos on youtube with symptoms of ASD and ADHD made by people who have it, see if you relate, and then see if any of their tips and tricks help you out. It might not be best to talk about a self diagnosis outloud to everyone, but you could use their videos to find ways to help yourself. And if they work, then they work!

[@jeb123]

@@yulana990 Thank you for this comment, i don't think i have autism, also executive dysfunction too explains me. Sometimes i just sit or lay down and think about the things i need to do all day but do nothing. Because of this my life is really going bad, i failed o lot of things in the past. Not just school. I think i really need to go to a phycologist or a psychiatrist. (Also right now i am trying to study my final exams on the last day, tommorow morning i have one. I'll probably get a really bad grade or fail, because i still can't focus.)

[@lmao1660]

same, except i probably dont have asperger

[@bixierey]

Summary of the video ------------------------------------- 4:20 Problems With Productivity. Neuro Typical Brains Get their tasks done by "Importance", "Consequences", "Rewards" VS ADHD brains struggle with prioritizing so it prioritizes things that are not even a priority. 7:12 Why breaking down things into smaller projects don't work for ADHD brains How ADHD brains are motivated "The four Cs" - Captivate "ADHD brains gets motivated by new stuff even though the task might be difficult" - Create "ADHD brains are keen to new things so it gets motivated by creative things" - Compete "ADHD brains love a competition and the competition motivates the ADHD brains" - Complete " ADHD brains gets really concentrated when there a deadline it really works well with a due date" ADHD brains struggle with starting and not momentum -If you find a way to start something your ADHD brain will keep on continuing the task -Use the four Cs to create the momentum --STRATEGIES-- Disclaimer "None of these are going to work for everyone, and even the ones that work for you, they're not going to work every time. Take these and try them out , and if they work, use it while it works and if doesn't, put it down for a while and try a different method" 1. Embrace the change. 2. Change your environment. 3. Use outcome based goals. 4. Aim for consistency not perfection. 5. Do micro commitments. "Micro commitments leads to Momentum" 6. Use Pomodoro timers. 7. Make it a game cause ADHD brains love to compete "Compete with yourself to do better not others." The most important thing is showing up and constantly trying and aiming for that 1% improvement. _______________________________________________________________________________________________________ Here's a link if you want to check the "DSM-5 Diagnostic Criteria for ADHD" If you really do need help please consult a professional. www.aafp.org/dam/AAFP/documents/patient_care/adhd_toolkit/adhd19-assessment-table1.pdf _______________________________________________________________________________________________________ This actually took a while to make so if you found this helpful leave a like so others can see it too.

[@ruriohama]

wow thank you💕

[@Lavender-kf7jd]

Thank you so much

[@abrahamambriz892]

@@ruriohama What about people with autism and Asperger's like me? Is there a different guide to the problem for us that can help?

[@purple_breto]

@Bixie thank you for this

[@rKhael53]

Thank you, bot you who make the text and you who make the video, it's really helpful.

[@babys8640]

add with depression is so frustrating. i just do nothing, not the things i need to. but on the other hand nothing excites me so i don’t even start new stuff

[@shujaauddin]

Never have I listened to someone for 1 one minute and instantly gained respect for the person, thank you for the tips and for making me feel like I am not alone.

[@ematise]

Yes she is amazing.

[@supernerd1999]

As someone who has ADHD, one of the key reasons I have great academic achievement in secondary school is having friends around me to compete with academically, medication is also a huge factor

[@modisedaeswatiniprincess6944]

Lol I dont have ADHD (maybe I do) But I relate to this, I am a high achiever and have high achieving friends. We do compete but I notice that my friends study well from the beginning of the semester meanwhile I dont. I can study 11 chapters in one night, write a test the next day and I still get very good marks; like around 75 to 80+ percent. I'm not proud, that's why I'm here. What makes it worse is the fact that I'm a law student and I'm terrified of failing yet I leave all these difficult chapters just to "study" under pressure when I have less tha 24 hours.

[@realmissbusy]

@@modisedaeswatiniprincess6944 That's so interesting, I have exactly the same problem.. I wonder whether that's just a sign of a specific form of ADHD or a different problem?

[@padarousou]

Medication is good for short term but a lot of people have problems with it down the line just be careful about that

[@jaijai4710]

same, i was surrounded with goal-achieving classmates too, which made me pump up and feel overwhelmed how i was one of the lowest grading students. God bless y'all!

[@theluckyproject8044]

May I know what medication? Adderall is not for me. Is there another med for ADHD?

[@ian.bravo2]

Thank you Ruru. This has given me the confidence To have an appointment and get properly diagnosed because everything you said hits the nail in the head for me.

[@RA10802]

good luck

[@devikavijaykumar8050]

Same. Thank you

[@joshuakohn4408]

I would not recommend getting diagnosed, especially if you don't want to take medication there is actually no point imo

[@RA10802]

@@joshuakohn4408 I would disagree with you. Adhd is something that can cause a lot of issues in your life. You can get help from a therapist to work through some of the issues you face and if don't wanna take any medication you can talk work it out with your therapist

[@Manx710]

I was diagnosed with ADHD at a very young age and I have difficulty with all the things you mentioned. I appreciate your insight into the ADHD brain and how it differs from the neurotypical brain, I am trying but finding it very difficult finding help for ADHD in my country Canada, but I find your podcast very helpful, I appreciate your efforts and I will be following you. Thank you.

[@erickelly7117]

what's the difficulty in canada? they would just put you on drugs 99% of the time after diagnosis depending on your age.

[@Manx710]

@@erickelly7117 I think that because drugs are a useful tool in addressing problems associated with ADHD that is what they will do, but it is not as useful as understanding how the ADHD brain works. Writing a prescription is easy but it’s expensive to be diagnosed by a psychiatrist and most importantly to work with a doctor about your specific situation. And that last part is not covered by our healthcare and. You can give anyone a hammer and they will hit things with it, but a carpenter will know make best use of it. That’s my analogy of this.

[@erickelly7117]

@@Manx710 psychiatrist are covered by most provinces free as far as i'm aware but you do need a referral. i got one free for anxiety , and my son had one as well which was diagnosed with ADHD. he's on a combination of therapy and drugs is what he's on and they work together with the schools etc.... all for Free and it only took around 6 months from diagnosis to treatment. so no idea why you say it's hard to find help as there are resources available. only problem is time, usually it's months out before you can get an appointment. it's also important to have a family doctor which is unfortunately hard these days.

[@MartinMaxia]

it is fun watching you, you know what you are doing, you didn´t give up, love it

[@altrae1771]

Man it's great that we're all on this self improvement journey together. Soon more people will come out and make great yt videos like this. Can't wait.

[@arthurantonio7824]

I’m a physician and I got quite fast in a very good university. Never failed a test in my life… However, I struggle with getting things done since childhood. I finished one of my research articles one day before the presentation. I studied for a specialty last year 2 months before the test, I did so much in so little time, almost reviewed all medicine, but it obviously wasn’t enough. Always studied when there was no more running away from it, and I always managed somehow. Got diagnosed last year. Still struggling, I was so happy that I was so focused in my studies for the test, but with the deadline gone, it quickly faded away. I feel you, and it is hard. Been trying some of these tips, downloaded again an app called forest to challenge me, but I just wish I could do better

[@LooseNutty]

You're an absolute legend, thank you for this

[@jasminara4459]

You honestly helped me so much Ruri.. I don't know how to honestly thank you. This is the exact video I needed. I wish I could get in a coaching call with you haha. Again, thank you very very very much.

[@funZ00]

The unique way she talks with her own style is just amazing........Her looks too! Thank you very much. Take care.

[@sourgreendolly7685]

I needed to be reminded that I have to switch methods sometimes. It's too easy to forget these things when overwhelmed and then it's like a self-blaming avalanche. Changing might be tiring but forgetting to is exhausting! Thank you💕

[@coreyyandle2142]

I need more understanding people like her in my life

[@taminapiwocki3423]

Thank you! This is something that is finally speaking my language!

[@ScapePlayer]

This is probably the best video I have watched on the topic of both ADHD and Productivity. As Jesse did for you, you have changed my life forever. THANK YOU RURI.

[@spartanmediaworks]

I clicked on this on a whim and it has cleared up so much for me. I will be looking into ADHD. Jesse, but thank you so much for this and thank you for taking the time to share this with other people who may like myself have undiagnosed ADHD. Thank you again so much!

[@dimitriosmparkas8459]

You have done a great job Ruri !

[@jessicasarahjohn8714]

Well spoken! Thanks!Really helpful❤

[@hawafirdausikurniadi9052]

I love Jesse's approach! His content is the first ADHD content that I can relate strongly and now I'm trying to apply some of the advices (the keywords are "trying" and "some" because I can't promise something big to myself 😆😆). Thank you Ruri for this content, very succinct and informative. I really like your view on "I don't know how much I will achieve, I will do it anyway". I think that's my mantra from now on!

[@miguesrt101]

Today I just want to tell and remind everyone, thank you for being alive. Life is hard, and a lot of people die daily for a lot of reason. Be grateful that you get to live another day, take care of yourself and love yourself more than anyone else, because at the end you only have yourself. Thanks Ruri for a new video, your videos keep me motivated to keep trying in life and to become the best version of myself. Thank you for everything and I hope everyone a wonderful day.

[@Endomorph_Lifting]

You have no idea - what a gold-mine it is.. 💯❤️finding this video. I had always knew that my brains works differently from others. I had heard about ADHD in the past, but didn’t know what it is nor give any attention to it. This has affected me a lot in my everyday life. Today, your video opens me to finding how my brains works. Thanks a million 💕

[@fistpunder]

For someone so young, you have some rather good insight and advice. I have been suffering for a short attention all my life. When I get focused, I am told I am very productive. I only wish I had the key to keeping that focus.

[@sashar5646]

"Compete with yourself to do better not others." was the single best takeaway I took from this video.

[@neoshenlong]

I don't know if I have ADHD, I honestly don't know and it doesn't matter but... listening to some of the things in this video actually made me cry because of how I could relate to them.

[@MohammadDawood]

Thank you for this, been struggling with trying different methods to get over my procrastination and now I see why these methods did not work for me

[@erroltheotaku]

Wow this video was literally what I needed! Thank you so much!!! You literally described everything that was happening to me to a T!

[@YoshiLeoMex]

Thanks Midori. As I am also told by Dr. that I am in the higher grey zone of ADHD and ASD, it is sometimes very difficult to do the same things as other person, but I know found to use this syndrome as my “STRONG POINT” ☺️

[@rajeshkumar-mo8tx]

ADHD is a made up disorder. It is a big scam by the pharma companies.

[@yumosh1491]

This has to be one of the most helpful videos I've ever watched, I thank you from the bottom of my heart! I've never checked if I have ADHD or not, but I feature a lot of these traits that you mentioned. Setting goals in a slightly different way is a game changer.

[@champiemoon649]

This video was really helpful, thank you!

[@Lemonly_Ley]

I will forever thank you both

[@Jarrix]

you are on of the only persons i can listen to without getting overwhelmed and i am so grateful for that you are such an inspiration. So happy i stepped upon your videos

[@lydifrsfr7870]

this girl has the capacity to calm my soul, and to make me not to force myself that much❤

[@t_sukii]

tysm, youtube for this suggestion for such a long time I have been questioning myself and blaming myself. finally found out why. tysm buddy you are a life changer.

[@ert537]

Great video! I didn't think about it, but i am already using time based learning in one of my languages. I will definitely try the rest of the tips you shared with us. Thanks!

[@Gdog637]

I really like the point you made about switching your environment up and I feel you're right. I have been going to different libraries recently and I find that it really helps me get stimulated to be engaged in my work. Also, I have a favorite library that I go to often, but when I feel like I need to switch it up, I go to a new one nearby for one day. This makes me appreciate my favorite library more and I get reinvigorated again working there.

[@serenarose482]

I needed this! I’m undiagnosed, but I’ve been considering getting a diagnosis. I’m so grateful for content like this it’s so helpful! ❤