I have utilized the placebos, too. I'm not sure why so many people are against them. I focus primarily on myself and my art and my other manifestations. I wear a ring all the time and my SP who once said he can't even think about a relationship is conforming rapidly. Once we really adopt and assimilate our mental diet (and it took intention and persistance) everything begins to change pretty quickly and you gain momentum. It's working, it's done!
@iamsheilaj2 жыл бұрын
I love placebo
@jenna_baker2 жыл бұрын
i wear a fake engagement ring too for my vision board lol how funny
@sarah-abdulhadi2 жыл бұрын
Update on your journey?
@MrTheomighty1 Жыл бұрын
@@jenna_bakerjust becarful because I did this and bloody forgot to take it off 🙈and she saw it and said we’ve not been broken up long and your already back with your ex !!!!. I went through so much shit with her and I explained myself as to why and she slowly came back around where we got back together. She should know by now I want her and only her but she still is hot and cold. She text me after 4 days of nothing to say Hi and she loves and misses me.
@luckysahar6832 жыл бұрын
10:00 this is a point but on the other hand , there is some other perspective that when u speak about marriage with him it’s better not to suggest it as general as if you are desperate to marry anyone : it’s to suggest it as marriage with him , not with any other one i. e. to show genuine appreciation for him as a desire ( to be with him )not as a need ( to be with whosoever) . This reflects that you really want him as a person & he’s not only a male to fulfill the need of marriage within u, the thing that sometimes scares men or make them question commitment
@summerposkas8312 Жыл бұрын
I say I’m the prize. I’m his goddess, I’m worth everything I desire.
@shuhuitan5652 жыл бұрын
SELF Concept, just like I dont care what the 3D is doing. My SP is going to proposal to me just like how Mary do! You are my model and one of the learning path. Focusing at myself!!!
@tabindaahmad4566 Жыл бұрын
Updates?
@benzatl2 жыл бұрын
Great video! I also do the wearing a ring on my wedding ring finger when I’m at home! A lot of helpful tips!
@MissArtisticSasnuhy2 жыл бұрын
I watched this video while I was on the treadmill and it was just sooooo HIGH VIBE and made me level up! Inalso changed my SPs name to HUBBY
@xoelletea2 жыл бұрын
I honestly hope and manifest you get bigger because I feel like the new manifesting gurus are just so much more direct than the older ones, (Manifest with Jasmine and I think her name is Shelly)... They literally talk in circles in every video to sell their inflated courses. It always talking about "tapping into self love or embodying feminine energy" LOL while the last 3 years all I had to do was self concept affirmations every day... none of these full moon rituals, vibrating at diff frequencies... practicing self love by getting a manicure and putting on make up. I get these can help but all it is being consistent in your affirmations in anyway you think it works. Thanks Mary and thank you Neville Goddard.
@IRobynVictoria2 жыл бұрын
What’s funny is that this is exactly what a balanced feminine “energy” looks like. It’s the mindset! Mary embodies it very well 🙌🏾
@jiapucci53432 жыл бұрын
"Well thats crazy cause I already have a wedding dress" LOL love it
@ManifestwithMary2 жыл бұрын
😎😂
@happygabs1232 жыл бұрын
Loved this!!!!!! And I am so happy for you!!! I have been manifesting marriage for like 2 years now but my SP doesnt know I exist yet lol. I have just been putting it out into the universe that I want to be a wife, I want to be a mother, I want to build a steady partnership with whoever my SP is that can be the foundation for what we build a family on. At one time I kept putting a timeframe on it because I'm 25 now I wanted the kids, house, husband by now but I realized putting a timeframe on it just makes it hard when you dont have it by that time. So I've just been journaling and meditating with crystals and speaking affirmations and reaffirming those things as if I currently have them in my present.
@tercial2 жыл бұрын
You have to act as if. Buy a wedding dress. But a baby crib etc. You can't use logic when manifesting. You have to act as if it's already been done. Even get a wedding photo and put your photo and your SP photo on the faces. Everytime you look at it you'll feel happy that you two are married.
@sarah-abdulhadi2 жыл бұрын
Update?
@Lethisha72 жыл бұрын
Mary, you're a boss🔥🔥🔥. I wear the ring and twirl it around my finger while saying I'm a wife. I also imagine and envision us together as a married couple doing activities together and being that power couple because that's who we are.
@GatlinsMema2 жыл бұрын
I’m looking around KZbin for videos to share with my friend who has been waiting for the proposal. I think you NAILED it! I especially like the way you have backed up your points! And the chess game analogy is perfect. Great job on the video! I’m definitely sharing this one with my friend! ❤️ thank you 🙏
@ManifestwithMary2 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome! :)
@GatlinsMema2 жыл бұрын
@@ManifestwithMary I’m looking around your channel now. Do you have any other videos that might be helpful to someone who has been waiting for a proposal? She did the chess game thing in making herself a priority, he knows she wants marriage and they are in a broken up phase where they are in a stalemate of “ok” like you did when you weren’t doing it right . . . and now she feels stuck. (She hasn’t watched this video yet-I’m just looking around for her today while she’s at work).
@ManifestwithMary2 жыл бұрын
@@GatlinsMema there's lots of videos that could help. What may be really inspiring is the Q&A I have coming out with my SP in 10 days. He answers a lot of questions that may be helpful. ❤️❤️
@GenieHermoso Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@iamsheilaj2 жыл бұрын
I have been planting the seeds for four years lol 😂 I went as far as deliberately planning a wedding photoshoot with SP because we are both models so now I have wedding photos on my wall lol 🤣
@ManifestwithMary2 жыл бұрын
Omg that is genius!
@melodyvugxck5353 ай бұрын
Any update?
@razanalolimat Жыл бұрын
I know people who did an ultimatum and it worked, and I'm not just referring to the Netflix show 😂 , so I think as you said in this video, whatever you say doesn't matter as much as the personal intention, belief and mental diet 💕 God bless you Mary and wishing you more love and success and the family you dreamed of ❤
@ManifestwithMary Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@ManifestwithMary2 жыл бұрын
What did you think of today's video? Which part resonated witn you the most?
@MA-kn3dq2 жыл бұрын
Always love your videos💕 Yes I realise the more I focus on myself the better I feel about getting exactly what I want. Prioritizing myself has been such a game changer for me since I never truly did this before. That people pleaser vibe is what I have revised in myself. Still humble yet with boundaries. Also agree with not giving ultimatums and just clearly stating what you want for yourself..that is a game changer also. P.S. Jacket looks cute with the top! Festive 🤗 from your fellow Mary 😊
@babyface17 Жыл бұрын
My SP and I have been no contact for a few weeks which is the longest we have gone without talking to each other since we reconnected last year! Anyway My wedding Dress should be here tomorrow!! It's Amazing, it's my size and I bought it from a nice lady on Mercari and the price was toooo good to pass up!!
@leannaellie56022 жыл бұрын
I’d love for you to talk about how you think now that he’s your husband - beyond like - I don’t worry about his text or call. What are the small little mundane things that bring you joy or remind you that you’re a loved wife?
@nicola63872 жыл бұрын
Another brilliant video Mary. I also like the idea of placebos as they really help me get into the end state too. Thank you for all that you do ❤
@thecatsfam2 жыл бұрын
So I have this FWB thing with my guy and he clearly told me he wouldn't meet me out i.e. He'll see me only in bedroom and then I clearly told him I wouldn't meet him until he takes me out and starts meeting me out as well. Idk if that comes under giving this ultimatum thing but to me its more about respecting myself because I don't deserve to be treated like this. I have to respect myself and love myself for others to do it. I am firm with this decision and I don't care about what happens between us. Also if I let him treat me this way that's how it'll be always. I know I did the right thing.
@ManifestwithMary2 жыл бұрын
That is most definitely a boundary and not an ultimatum. I HIGHLY encourage setting boundaries with SP so you are definitely on the right track!
@laurastdeleon Жыл бұрын
You deserve so much better than this guy!! What happened afterwards?
@thecatsfam Жыл бұрын
@@laurastdeleon I left his annoying ass. I definitely deserve so much better than his horny ass.
@ayuhafsari Жыл бұрын
I want to prepare my self with many knowledge about marriage and household first, before I got married someday.
@Curvybri2 жыл бұрын
Not me changing my sp name in my phone I never thought of that but that’s a good one.
@ManifestwithMary2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! :)
@IvonaFlakus3 ай бұрын
Did you.. get him? 🥺🙏🏼💕
@Curvybri3 ай бұрын
@@IvonaFlakus that was and old sp I cut that one off. Now I have a new one and we been going strong for over a year.
@iamlove60102 жыл бұрын
Great video! I love the tips you give as well! I relate so much with your story and am in that state right now of really choosing to be the version of me that puts me first! On a more shallow note ..lol...just curious how you dealt with your then sp's b-day when you were separated and in your "choosing you state? I know its a random question but my sp's bday is next week and I'm not really feeling it in terms of giving if that makes sense? 🙍♀
@manokdog2 жыл бұрын
FYI people are now going to buy a wedding dress and a ring. When you come from place of lack you will try anything and if they see it works for you then, out to buy a dress.no-one will admit it. I know when I would listen to KZbinrs and I'm trying that technique but now Im God. I love me and only me
@qitae Жыл бұрын
I went wedding dress shopping
@GR-dl3eq2 жыл бұрын
This video is great. Thank you very much, It's very inspiring!
@IvonaFlakus3 ай бұрын
How did you know ✨when✨ to act on it..? Did you implement the NC? Or full contact all the time..?
@Barbie_222 жыл бұрын
I tried to play games & it backfired 😅😬(ofc before getting into law)but I learned my lesson hard way 😂 girl the dress 😍😍 Love u ❤
@nawaranzara60042 жыл бұрын
DAMMM... just a while agoo, I was asking myself why am I so afraid to say the wrong thing to my sp? Why do I have goosebumps? and here you go mentioning it. I do feel like, self concept is like such a strong and yet such a subtle thing.. sometimes, we dont even realize that we have such a low self-esteem..
@AnYa33122 жыл бұрын
I reallyyy reallyy really want to....have this success same and make video sharing my success storyy...💕💕💕 Grateful to Universe
@ManifestwithMary2 жыл бұрын
💖💖💖
@CocoNut19972 жыл бұрын
Loving the shirt!
@illuminatingandenlightening2 жыл бұрын
You are amazing!! Thank you for sharing this!🥰
@martasmith13332 жыл бұрын
Love your video. Again Great timing. I like the name change in the phone. I am going to implement it. I like has you said you don't want to play a chess game. Live in the end. Happy living marriage. I am going to keep focusing on my healing and recovery, manifesting for the marriage and growing my business to secure financial my family.
@tvpivm2 жыл бұрын
Amazing video as always! Hope you have a great week 🥰
@she-surrendered1234 Жыл бұрын
Hi Mary, would you say you’re 100% satisfied with your decision to manifest a person who once had resistance? If so, why? Do you think it’s better to just manifest a new person who is ready and WANTS commitment…? If not, why? Thanks for sharing your experience and wisdom and for all your transparency! 🙏🏾♥️✨
@Acewilliams225 Жыл бұрын
new subscriber!!
@ManifestwithMary Жыл бұрын
Welcome!!
@EspritArkitekt2 жыл бұрын
@Manifest with Mary i want to marry this guy from work but we've never had a relationship and he stopped texting me (pretty sure it was self-sabotage) since a year ago. in the beginning he once asked why i haven't got married yet & when i was like "if it happens it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't" then he was like "yeh i'm like u i wanna be alone" blah blah blah....so i never imagined ever that i'd ever have competition from a 3rd party...low & behold this march he got engaged, but he still looks at me at work and looks jealous if any male co-workers talk to me. he didn't look happy on his engagement day & i'm guessing he can't be that in love with her if he keeps looking at me & watchign my fb stories. long story short....how do i manifest a proposal from him if we don't talk or see each other outside of work?? i don't know if he has a wedding date set, but i feel like i'm against the clock so i need some fast-acting manifestation
@ingrdoliveira2 жыл бұрын
I have imaginal acts with my sp, usually is the same short scene of us celebrating our wedding, I use to script some other scenes too, but let me ask, is it ok to imagine once in a while a scene where we are in the bed? I believe that since we're married it's a natural thing that happens but I heard I should not so I don't manifest a sex based relationship. What's your opinion? I don't do it often, just when I can't hold myself
@ambermagic22422 жыл бұрын
Your videos are spot on and really easy to apply! ( newly subscribed !) Very validating and encouraging when the 3D is ...3D’ing lol. Proposals otw for all of us 😍 Thank you Maryyy!
@Jeniffer618672 жыл бұрын
Great video like always. 👍🏻❤️
@Antonia68262 жыл бұрын
How did you talk to your sp in 3D to stop the chess game and did you continue dating (dating casual?) your sp .
@ManifestwithMary2 жыл бұрын
I did continue dating him during much (but not all) of the breakup(s). The chess game for me was more energetic than anything...I was constantly trying to counter his behavior with new/different affirmations and it was EXHAUSTING
@iamsheilaj2 жыл бұрын
All of these amazing tops
@ManifestwithMary2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🥰🥰🥰
@StacyReadsCards2 жыл бұрын
I did the wedding ring manifestation and met my now Husband 3 months later. I gotta do it again though because he gets on my nerves. Next marriage manifestation, I'm being more specific lol
@lovecreation60692 жыл бұрын
love from india😌😍 i love your top and i really love you. I really vibe high whenever i watch your videos
@ichwilleinboot39212 жыл бұрын
I really like your story 😅
@samriddhisaxena92962 жыл бұрын
Hi Mary, lovely video, what If I already given an ultimatum earlier? I am in NC right now
@ManifestwithMary2 жыл бұрын
Revise it so you didn't 🥰❤
@konnectory56592 жыл бұрын
Great video Mary❤ I’m not sure how to go with the flow and let the proposal come vs actively taking steps to make it happen. Surrender vs action has my mind confused. Help!
@nikki902 жыл бұрын
The way you cover up curse words 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@ManifestwithMary2 жыл бұрын
Gotta get creative out here 😂😂
@Antonia68262 жыл бұрын
Soooo… you told your sp what you wanted, then you prioritized yourself, you still spoke to your ap at same time( what were the conversations like at that time), did you still date your sp? If so was it without intimacy? How did you get from sp to engagement?
@astrohiddenlife2 жыл бұрын
I love your story times ❤️❤️ can you do a how to manifest a specific job? 😭 I would really appreciate it.
@manokdog2 жыл бұрын
One more story, I was on the phone with my friend and it sounded like she was having sex. I said do you need me to call u back she said no. Come to find out she was getting her hair done and getting burnt 🤣 but in my universe that shit don't happen to me and I wasn't giving betrayal any energy. I create here so why would I even entertain something like that ( ANYMORE)
@yolalola90292 жыл бұрын
I have like a 1000 questions. Do you do coaching?? Also do you recommend trying on wedding dresses, engagement rings? I already changed his name in my phone to Him💜❤💖 and where it says relationship I put partner. I changed the ringtone so when he calls I will know it's him. I affirm everyday about us. After listening to you today I wonder if my self concept isn't good enough and that's why it's taking time to come??
@christianamorris97872 жыл бұрын
Do you have movies or shows you like to watch that help with the mental diet? Like romantic stuff that.
@jessjohnson75512 жыл бұрын
you made sense :)
@mercyhm3louisiana2 жыл бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@ricardoayala21582 жыл бұрын
This video is a little confusing for me. I know I am the priority in my life and I’m happy with my life so should I stop affirmations about my marriage with SP even tho we are in no contact?
@iamsheilaj2 жыл бұрын
I love you Mary! ❤️❤️❤️
@ManifestwithMary2 жыл бұрын
And I you!!!
@DrSharbari2 жыл бұрын
💗💗
@sema15062 жыл бұрын
How do we get a coach from you?
@twinklekulshrestha24372 жыл бұрын
Amal ❤️
@Mb-vv5mv2 жыл бұрын
What if we already gave an ultimatum what do we do
@KZ-np8fz2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. You may have already shared, but could you share some of your self concept affirmations you used, the less numerous specific person affirmations you used. How you affirmed out loud or in your head. Did you do it upon waking up and falling asleep or specific times? Or just as you noticed your inner dialog was wobbling?
@Nash_Aurora2 жыл бұрын
I was literally playing the chess game.
@triciad99472 жыл бұрын
You're gorgeous I love your clothes 👑❤😍
@Christopher0915702 жыл бұрын
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> B I N G O >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> BOOM >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>BAMMM :: You Literally Nailed It !!!! #Congrats
@Antonia68262 жыл бұрын
Did your husband now know that you were dating other guys and him at the same time?
@ManifestwithMary2 жыл бұрын
He had an idea. We didn't really talk about us dating other people as it was happening because it wasn't a conversation I was comfortable with. We had a very honest conversation once we were getting back together, though.
@simonkaslizek94992 жыл бұрын
Can someone give me advice on how to stop comparing? This has been something random that has showed up for me recently. I’ve never had an issue with comparison and I do self concept frequently, but lately I’ve been noticing something. I use bumble BFF to make friends and I notice that sometimes I’m like “I wonder if my SP would/has matched with this person” and I do not enjoy that I do that. Any advice?? I have been doing SC so I’m not sure what else I may be missing??