Very insightful! Becoming more stable and dissolving anxieties and self criticism with new positive thought patterns I think is the most worthwhile thing you can do. It's never linear though, it's a bit of a rollercoaster that slowly levels out over time. I'm not quite there yet, but I'm much stronger, stable and kinder to myself than I used to be and I've found people I meet now take a lot more notice of me in a positive sense (or I'm just seeing it because my filter is more positive now?), and people have been gravitating toward me, even though I'm not doing anything out of character. I just radiate the better parts of myself consistently and exude (generally) sincere positive energy, and also am more present. I think others can sense that, as opposed to someone that is, as you said, trying to get and feeling codependent. Approach relationships with the intention to give, not looking to see what you can get from them like Agnes says. If your attraction is based in things that you can get from them then something is BOUND to trip up your relationship later on. I'm seeing it as the biggest cause of relationships falling apart, that need for consistency of conditional behaviors from another that they can't actually provide because they're human. You can only be in a giving place by cleaning up your own inner world and inner thoughts (by implementing stronger positive thoughts - it's an inclusion based universe so you can't turn off negative thoughts, you just reinforce them by trying), so that you don't feel the need for something outside yourself. By wanting but not needing, you in turn get to enjoy people's company with a lot less of the anxieties of "will they always provide these things I'm dependent on?" Really important to get yourself right first. Relationships with people won't shake you if you're strong and okay on your own to begin with. Of course it's easier said than done. But devote a year or more to it like I have (a formerly anxious, highly codepent partner) and it will take you a very long way in your life and relationships in the future. I know that I'm way more prepared, and relaxed now. And now I'm the one turning people down if they're not right for me, because I'm not so easily attached and am recognizing my self worth by not settling for someone that also doesn't possess the qualities that are good for me. Never would the old me show that composure. He would certainly settle, or take the first person, just to avoid feeling alone or thinking it made him worth less. Was never true at all. Take her words to heart. Don't just hear it, but apply it!
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
David J wow very insightful reading - I really love this - going to pin your comment for others to read and understand as this is a true gem 💎
@davidj54255 жыл бұрын
@@AgnesVivarelli Thanks Agnes!
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
David J you have a great way of explaining and breaking things down 😝
@kalpanadhavale52905 жыл бұрын
I can't believe that I am listening it from your mouth.... 🙈 My manifestation come true after 10 months of listening your story,🤩😘
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
hahahahaha cool. Do you want to email me your story?
@garimagarg32135 жыл бұрын
Who says aging makes you old..You are so beautiful agnes
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
☺️
@alnajdakadi19965 жыл бұрын
Agnes looks 30.😍
@garimagarg32135 жыл бұрын
Universe galaxy Yes true
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
@@alnajdakadi1996 she is 52 hahahahaha
@marlenerockefeller4435 жыл бұрын
I've actually attracted three specific person. One ghost me for some reason and even him with my high vibrations I asked that he would come back around valentines day and lord and behold he not only came on V-day, he came at 11pm the night before...but I asked for him to come around I wasn't specific as to asking come around and talk to me. Anyways, I've been studying the law of attraction for quite some time and I'm so good I get anything I want good or bad. I literally have the magic wand in my hands. It's very easy you guys. I try to teach my girlfriends how to manifest love, money, etc.
@deontyler9604 жыл бұрын
May I ask what successful techniques you used to manifest your desires and when and how many times a day or week do you do the techniques for a certain situation?
@boojaz5 жыл бұрын
Agnes, my ex just left my place after seeing him for the first time since December and 6 weeks no contact. While I wanted there to be romantic times tonight, there wasn't. I truly want to marry this man. And for the first time seeing him, when we went to dinner, there was a wedding next door to the restaurant. It was so out of place. Then he started talking about he wants a wife and kids in the future (this was well after the wedding had left.) When he came back to my place, he stayed until 2am. I offered for him to stay, but he said no. He put limits on me, just like your sp did. After he left, I cried for a good 10 minutes. I went to KZbin to look for a sign, some mentoring, anything. I found this. And while I am more than happy he is back in my life and talking to me, even seeing me, it just made me want this even more. Thank you so much for sharing. And giving me hope.
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
big big hug, try looking at the glass half full instead of half empty, start to be grateful for what he is giving, instead of looking at “he didn’t stay” look at “we had some time together” gratitude brings in more you see
@Salsoci5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing something so personal. It resonated so much with me 🙊. You’re on my gratitude list because you’ve gotten me to love myself everyday. I learned my lesson and I plan to follow this path for the rest of my life ❤️❤️
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
that is wonderful to hear - hugs
@ireneytonly5 жыл бұрын
Omg finally! I was just thinking how i wish you would tell your personal story. Totally manifested this 😍
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
well good manifesting!
@leofeza93255 жыл бұрын
The story of my life. This happened with my ex, I loved her alot but she was too emotionally dependent that after a few years I was completely drained and lost everything and for the first time I learned about energy vampires. It felt like she was living in my shadow, I couldn't understand the phenomena at first but I felt as tho i was breathing for the both of us. The lesson is when you mate with somebody with low self esteem, low confidence they take from your energy to fill their cup. Over the years I taught myself to be confident, to stand up for myself and to not be just the giver but to also learn how to receive and create boundaries and when i felt those boundaries being breached i would stop giving and this created conflict that broke us up. Still recovering from the energy drain.
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
totally understandable - but good insights now
@unnatii7775 жыл бұрын
Listening to you, itself starts generating some sort of self love inside
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
lovely thank you
@unnatii7775 жыл бұрын
Agnes Vivarelli 😘😘
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
I forgot to add I did the skin to skin Meditation too - kzbin.info/www/bejne/h2eUZ4x7rtyWp6c and used Wayne Dyers I AM meditation music to do my imaginal scenes of being together with my Specific Person kzbin.info/www/bejne/d2qZgHxql52mfLs
@AnchelJakhar5 жыл бұрын
Agnes Vivarelli hey agnes. I just wanted to ask what exactly do we whisper in the person’s ear during the meditation. Do I say “ Tell *my name* you lover her” Or Do I simply say “ i love you “ in my SP’s ear. Please please clarify this. What exactly do I have to whisper.
@AgnesVivarelli19665 жыл бұрын
you can whisper anything you want to here - so yes, your example is fine
@TheeParalegalBarrbie5 жыл бұрын
Omg this came on time I’ve watched you for a while and I manifested my SP back talking to me regular and I almost let my feelings about wanting to marry him ruin that I’ve made so much progress and then here these videos came!
@srenierrrrr2 жыл бұрын
how did you do it??
@AnchelJakhar5 жыл бұрын
I think I just needed this. Listening your personal story. Thanks a lot. You are an angel❤️. Love you and bless you. Love from INDIA.
@AgnesVivarelli19665 жыл бұрын
Anchel Jakhar back at you
@cutepuppy7215 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Your story is similar to mine. My SP is mentally and emotionally strong while I am an emotional mess. He broke up with me telling me how we weren’t compatible bc I am too emotional. I am working on self love and feeling secure.
@maggiemay52495 жыл бұрын
Never clicked so fast! Yay ❤️
@AgnesVivarelli19665 жыл бұрын
hahahahaha cute
@absloutelyRasha5 жыл бұрын
Favorite story 🤗🥰😍
@SimranKaur-hi6ge5 жыл бұрын
I want to come and give you a hug and have girly talks with you Agnes and really laugh at how we create such a ruckus and drama 😂😂😂 😂 It is as if you are talking about my bf 💓 ... He is sooooooooo similar to your sp , takes good care about his health , helps everyone around him and says I am very practical just so that doesn't get drained really ! And I being With my cup full got in his heart and he shared his personal space with me 😍❤️ like only me saying this emotional me is just for it coz I love you and only you ❣️ I didn't realize my ball dropping and my darling told it to me like no one else could have , I am sooo thankful for it and he'd call me crazy for thanking him on this 😂😂😂😂 but yeahhh truly ... THANKYOU ❤️❤️❤️ I needed that !! Love to you Agnes ❤️ Looking forward to part 2 😋
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
lovely!!!
@SimranKaur-hi6ge5 жыл бұрын
@@AgnesVivarelli ❤️❤️
@loangounimakingpersonaldev14925 жыл бұрын
Your honesty, transparency and sincerity are admirable. You have done extremely well from where you were "Dramacidal" to super successful in every area of your life. You put in a massive shift, not many would have achieved and carried on as well as you did, you're one strong human being. Namaste 🙏🏾🎊
@ellasimone155 жыл бұрын
Omg I’ve wanted this for so long its my birthday and you did it! Omg love this thank you best birthday present
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
hahahaha good timing! and a BIG happy belly button day
@ellasimone155 жыл бұрын
Agnes Vivarelli Lol let’s talk about good timing & while watching this my SP texted me happy birthday 🥰 what a sweet day
@SimranKaur-hi6ge5 жыл бұрын
@@ellasimone15 happpieee birthday 🤗
@ellasimone155 жыл бұрын
rhythm divine Awh thank you!
@anveshwasnik5415 жыл бұрын
@@ellasimone15 happy birthday dear😊😊😊
@unbijouparminous91685 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this, Agnes! Sometimes, we LOA students tend to think that teachers were experts since day one. Sharing your story with us inspires us and gives us hope! ❤
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
Un Bijou Parmi Nous i will never profess to be a expert, I have been a student for many years - still learning to apply the information just like all of you 😌
@AshleyLebedev5 жыл бұрын
I was literally going to email you this question after my personal meditation but thought no I won’t it’s her personal story and none of my business and just days later, voila 🧡 Go LOA!
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
Ash * I thought no if you are going to listen to a KZbinr or a Coach about “how to attract a specific person” (and not a friend or a boss, I mean a romantic relationship) you need to know if they themselves have actually done it, otherwise how can they tell you how to do something they themselves haven’t done? So it’s natural that you would want to ask any of us that tell you that you can attract a SP if we have done it. That’s why I followed Neville because he had done it 😁
@aimees49905 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. You are an amazing person. Much love ❤❤❤
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
thank you for your kind words
@KeepingUpWithTheKims4 жыл бұрын
Truly appreciate the bravery, courage, and vulnerability shown here as you tell us your story. Thank you 💕
@subhalaxmiswain20995 жыл бұрын
Thank You Agnes...lot to learn from Ur story as I cud easily connect myself with urs but now I am on MY SELF-LOVE mode😊🤗🤗🤗
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
gooooood goooooood
@CurvyCass19824 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this, I know my SP and I will be together but I need to work on myself. Thanks Agnes :)
@bridgitallingham56734 жыл бұрын
Oh so lovely Agnes. Can see so much if myself in this right now x
@FannysLoA5 жыл бұрын
Does he know you used LoA on him? It would be really interesting to hear this from HIS perspective.
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
hahahahaha good question - maybe he does now
@missifvh5 жыл бұрын
Agnes this is wonderful. You are wonderful, and he seems wonderful. So happy for you
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
thank you Iris - lub a dub
@barbarariley34884 жыл бұрын
Man this seems to be a real problem we women have. So emotional and needy at times. I was like that with my last guy and I finally realized.I put a drain on him. We broke up 6,mos ago and I miss him still.
@uranne4 жыл бұрын
Wow, we went through similar phases! I am so happy to find your channel (mentioned in comments in Joseph Alai videos). I will try out what you did. Thank you for sharing! ;)
@thereasa43185 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, Agnes! Looking forward to part 2.
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
hugs
@gigglypuff35895 жыл бұрын
I understand this.. he also manifested you for some reason I guess
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
Blue Pebbles indeed ☺️
@fe47275 жыл бұрын
Looking forward to part2!!! Thank you for sharing your story....
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
part 2 is up now hugs
@Mellie5 жыл бұрын
This is a great story, I'm glad for you but it has little to do with manifesting and more to do with you working through your stuff. Getting yourself together emotionally may or may not inhibit a person's manifestation. It's all about their initial beliefs. If you believe your person will want you just the way you are, needy or not, then that's what you will create. If you don't believe that and you feel you need to work on your stuff before they'd want a relationship with you, then that's what you will create.
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
Mellie no I don’t agree, this is my story and my experience. I went from not knowing this person, becoming friends since we lived in different countries and then desiring a romantic relationship and then created that. So you commenting on MY personal experience with your beliefs isn’t relevant to my story - my story is my experience. Neediness is a repellent energy wether you believe that or not it’s up to you. 2ndly if you believe someone would want to be with you if your needy I think is selfish and taking on your part and not the mindset of a mature person who wants a balanced and peaceful relationship - it’s the mindset of someone who wants a another parent to look after them.
@Mellie5 жыл бұрын
@@AgnesVivarelli Maybe it's because I never really needed another person to look after me although I've had my own issues, we all do and our inner beings have a way of bringing those to the surface so we can release whatever is really making US unhappy. However, if a person believes they are wanted, weather they are in a needy state or not, then that's what that person will create. That was really my point. Some may feel a need to work through that, some may not. Is it cool to be "needy" with someone? Maybe not but it's always our own beliefs that create as you know. I guess that's the beauty of Conscious Creation, we all have different ways to go about it and different things our inner-beings want to clear.
@kumarihettiarachchi64014 жыл бұрын
Thank you so very much Agnes and i can relate the same pattern in me, still i do the same and getting hurt expecting love from outside even i know its within me.thank you so much sharing your stories and its prove of how you develop over the years and its helping to realize what we do wrong..
@caminoabienestar71315 ай бұрын
You look beautiful 💐 thank you for sharing your wonderful testimony.
@AgnesVivarelli4 ай бұрын
You are so welcome 🤗
@abrown8812Ай бұрын
What's the difference between being to dependent on someone/something outside of you and accepting the bare minimum from someone because you're too "afraid or worried" about expressing your needs?
@humprey25 жыл бұрын
Amazing story Agnes! 😉
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
humprey2 thank you
@AgnesVivarelli19665 жыл бұрын
This is my personal story - I am happy for you to ask questions about it 😛
@peachfuzz5615 жыл бұрын
Wow! It is so wonderful for you to share your story, Agnes. It means so much! I don't have a question, but i just wanted to express how inspiring your story has been. Thank you ❤️
@nikkifirst42055 жыл бұрын
My question is, did you always know he was the one for you or did you have time's where you wanted to give up, or did give up (hit the wall..lol)? Thank you Agnes. This is amazing for us.
@AgnesVivarelli19665 жыл бұрын
thanks very much Peach
@AgnesVivarelli19665 жыл бұрын
yes i gave up often, from trying to hard - I think letting go is easy to understand but hard to do
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
Peach Fuzz thanks very much 😁
@humeyrayldz17325 жыл бұрын
You are my hero love you so so much
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
can I be a queen of tarts?
@humeyrayldz17325 жыл бұрын
@@AgnesVivarelli you can be any queen you want lol
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
unicorn tears 🤪
@weslawsonsilverback5 жыл бұрын
Well... I'm glad to know that Dan is the one!! Congratulations!!
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
hahahahaha Dan? He is my nutty twin
@rubyblu215 жыл бұрын
How would that be for a plot twist! 🤣🙃
@cutiepie03305 жыл бұрын
this was dope. thank u so much for sharing ur real experience. so helpful.
@MCAVideos68864 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story and your vulnerability!! That, in and of itself, makes you strong! Now, did I miss it (I went back to a certain part to see if it was there) ... I heard the part where you were initially friends and he was helping you get over your ex- .... when did your relationship become more than friends?
@ruhananeha9674 жыл бұрын
Funny part is that i am looking for a story that seem like me but at last hahhaha 🤣🤣 U are carbon copy of me eventhough i knw about loa i feel hurt i am dependent but wen i cm through ur video i got my strength thank u
@jenniferhudson67865 жыл бұрын
Agnes love ya thank you for sharing this!!!
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
Jennifer Hudson no worries 😉
@SrtaBGoode3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your personal journey xxx
@descindy505 жыл бұрын
Agnas u really wonderful teacher
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
maria cynthia antao thank you dear woman 🦋
@thegeneralrock865474 жыл бұрын
You're a true inspiration Agnes. ❤️ I just want to say thank you 😊
@dilkifernando97284 жыл бұрын
I felt like this is the same story as mine . I scripted saying that I wanna go to London for our honeymoon and you mentioned London 🙈 . Even my boyfriend is checking up on me how I’m doing 🤭 . I realized it .
@aldeefaithdenuyo4513 Жыл бұрын
Hi Agnes, Just find out that my Sp is officially dating another girl. My friend showed me the FB story of my sp. The photo is with another person, the woman that my sp told me he's been dating for a couple of months after our exclusive relationship ended. I am sad, but not devastated. I cried a little but not to a point where I got tantrums. Somehow i am happy for him because after 17 yrs of being single he's able to post someone in his wall, finally he's "inlove", and able to commit to someone. I am frustrated because he didn't choose me. It was not me that made him happy. Just a background, I met my SP in Jan 2021, decided to be in an exclusive relationship in Aug 2021, i fell in love first, but i think he did not because he eventually ended the relationship last May 2022. I have mixed feelings. I'm furious and but happy, what are your thoughts?
@tangledwebs8604 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this! You are awesome, and I'm sure he is too!
@Tam4385 жыл бұрын
This is really helpful, agnes, thank you! ❤
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
pleasure - hope it helps
@aakritisrivastava82595 жыл бұрын
Lovely story. ❤❤
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
thank you
@pkihu9910 Жыл бұрын
My SP and I made plans for Friday - his suggestion 2 days later I said oh let's do this on Friday when we meet. He said he already has plans. I didn't comment but I was hurt. What should I do? I wanted to say "I thought we had plans" I wouldn't be nasty about it I just feel I need to say something
@hl87934 жыл бұрын
Just wanting to say thank you for sharing your experience .
@coricori74282 жыл бұрын
thats my question dsitincting between fulfilling my own needs and doing good for myself and fulfilling my partners desires.
@MyVlogTherapy5 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate hearing this, I can relate! More of these please 🙏🏽 so helpful
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
more of what? anything in particular?
@nicolacrotty3845 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing❤️ 111 comment🥰
@JustinJohnson-sg4sz4 жыл бұрын
Love the honesty!!
@anjalisdreams785 жыл бұрын
Thank you💜💚❤️
@RAWRmikkamac5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
LunaCloud333 😜
@lihiperetz13475 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
pleasure
@sweetlove3324 жыл бұрын
Hi Agnes, thanks for sharing your light with the world. I know this might be a long shot, but is it possible to contact you personally? I'd greatly appreciate it. Thanks!!
@divyapinge84073 жыл бұрын
I am having a particularly difficult time today ignoring the reality. I started manifesting and I came to know he started dating someone new. I fail To understand how I manifested a 3P. I am trying to get this to be a bridge of events but it is very difficult and today I am feeling totally numb.
@NikhilSharma-yp6ps4 жыл бұрын
Mam Thankyou very very much. It helped me a lot. Lots and lots of love to u. Keep guiding us 😍
@riasarkar46534 жыл бұрын
IF YOU GUYS TO HEAR THIS AND GUIDE ME, IT WOULD BE APPRECIATED :) My story is so much like this. I believed that I was all good on my own, and he came out of a long term relationship and we developed something. But I wanted to help him out and I liked him so much that I maybe started oversteppingg his space. Now even though he is kind of over his ex, he does not wants me at all. He is frustrated with me, at times I feel that if I breathe, he'll go 'boom'. He unfollowed me on social media but he texts me on Instagram, usually the text is very much frustrating. I don't know why after getting so much of negativity from this SP I'm still trying to manifest him. I've started manifesting him, I'm working on self love and self worth, but I'm loosing it. But somewhere I still have the hope that I will get him.
@social9555 жыл бұрын
great story... can u share ur video link .. as u mention that u have sign for London ..
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
Here you go: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lYXTmGippNple9k
@melissalobo13 жыл бұрын
Hello ma'am I like this guy for more than 3 years now. We are good friends , his best friend is my best friend's boyfriend. We hang out sometimes and text almost everyday. I have tried to attract him many times but I end up focusing on the negative. I feel as if I'll never have him. Help me please Thank you
@alnajdakadi19965 жыл бұрын
Ahhhh how much l have wanted this .
@jaieeashtekar28042 ай бұрын
Why does this feel like I'm listening to my own story 😭
@yousraadly73414 жыл бұрын
I am looking for how to remove significant person and every persons out of my life kind of clips honestly , this other half person issues isnt excitement bringer to me sorry dear .lovely clips it is cool anyway & fun to hear thank you .☺
@funteeclub97412 жыл бұрын
Wow I'm in this exact situation right now.
@stephenparesa81775 жыл бұрын
How do manifest to cancel a divorce?
@ashak83564 жыл бұрын
What if I don't hv SP. I want to attract new person.
@rizzaaguila56185 жыл бұрын
this is my story....
@music70babbler4 жыл бұрын
There is nothing wrong with you. You dont need to fix yourself, you dont need to heal yourself. You are perfect the way you are. It is your perception of yourself that needs changing, thus because you felt not good enough for this man, you created him not loving you back in the way you wanted, as this is YOU pushed out, this is based on your beliefs that are hidden in your subconscious mind. In order to create the reality that you so desire, you dont work on yourself endlessly, such as self loving as you so desperately think you need to do in order to be loved back by your SP person, as that is only telling the universe that you are not good enough, thus you attract to yourself a man that only mirrors back to you these subconscious beliefs. Instead, all you have to do is imagine that you already are this person that you desire to be which is in parallel universe. Feel into that parallel reality and perhaps this man will become the one that you hope him to be, accepting you as you are, not where you hope to be the woman that he desires, it is not the other way around. Or perhaps, you will wake up and realize that you deserve better? This man does not believe in love like you do, it is quite obvious and it appears that he may even be narcissistic?
@Manu-od8du5 жыл бұрын
If someone isn't attracted by you, how can it be? You can be self confident and the best person in the world but he doesn't love you or find you attractive in any case I think. He can be a good friend or a friend with benefits instead.
@AgnesVivarelli5 жыл бұрын
Manu this is a not something I can answer in short form, it’s a good question and needs a bit of a longer explanation