How I Met My Beautiful Vietnamese GF + Dating in Vietnam

In this video, Trang interviews me about how we met and what the dating is like in Vietnam.
This interview was filmed on Pham Viet Chanh Street in Binh Thanh District, Saigon, Vietnam.
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[@MekongMitch]

My Vietnamese Wife speaks very little English. Short story, I met her in 2018 at a Cafe across the street from my Hotel in Vinh Long. She was alone at that cafe, and I just went over and introduced myself and sat down. We hit it off and, I have learned all my Vietnamese since then by communicating with her. That was a while ago, and now I have a pretty good handle on the language. I have a house in Vinh Long and there are are very , very few English speaking people there, so I have been immersed and forced to learn more...Work Great for me, I love Viet Nam....

[@kimberlybentleyme]

Tyler's channel has always been about his experience in VietNam and his travels. He has been very open in sharing all aspects of his life. His channel is not getting a little weird because he is showing his relationship with Trang. If you have seen his previous vlogs you will note that Tyler has often taken time to interview friends that he has made abroad and he often interviews family when he is home and when they visit him abroad. What I think the main point people should concentrate on is how happy he is and how he and Trang are working to better themselves and better their relationship. What is so compelling about Tyler's channel is that he doesn't follow a how to format to bring in subscribers or views. He is himself, authentic and raw. That is a very hard thing for most people. I am continually in awe of my Son. Good job Tyler and Trang. I love you both.

[@BigTimeBentley]

❤️

[@thompsonnguyen1870]

I like Tyler's channel. It's like a documentary of his life. I don't think there is anything wrong about it.

[@musicful7036]

It's not his channel is getting weird, but it's his girlfriend. I have a feeling she doesn't like his dad. His dad is so friendly and polite but not his gf. She's too arrogant and unfriendly.

[@MikeeH626]

This is a really good video, Tyler. I'm sure alot of your followers, myself included, have wondered how you guys met. It looks like you guys are back together - and I think it's great! She looks like a nice, intelligent, level headed and goal driven person - definitely family material. PLUS, her parents appear to be really nice and easy going. Good to see you back in the city. As always, wishing you continued happiness and well being.

[@BigTimeBentley]

Thank you Mike!

[@kimberlybentleyme]

❤❤Great job Trang! I love that you push yourself out of your comfort zone. I enjoy getting to see more of you and your beautiful smile.

[@luke_stout]

Thanks for the video Tyler and Trang. Probably hard to share such personal stuff but as a follower it’s been really interesting and cool to hear

[@laurale8155]

Thanks so much Tyler & Trang for doing this video, which I asked on your other video how u two met. It was interesting to know how u met. Thanks for sharing. Love u both❤❤❤

[@karenjordan7118]

Another good interview Trang - so interesting, open and sweet. So happy you are back together ❤

[@ac2877]

Communication is really #1, and attraction is #2 as you seem to communicate here. I can sense your girl friend's sense of humore here, making me chuckle a few times. You guys are a great couple.

[@alisonc7506]

Yes Ty. We have been rooting for you both to get back together. You two are so good together, you just 'get' each other and it show. Delighted for you both//🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@ChrissieSM]

At last Tyler! Excellent interview!

[@lanavo80]

Love this vlog. Thanks for sharing how you two met. I always was wondering about that. Trang is definitely a keeper. She’s smart and beautiful. You two look super cute together. Wishing you guys nothing but the best!

[@BigTimeBentley]

thank you!

[@-UnknownX-]

Wish your couple will be in "a home" together soon and happiness! You should open more with her family, they really like you!

[@TheNamDude]

Genuinely enjoyed hearing a little about how you guys met and hit it off. Kinda similar to how my wife and I met 6 years ago except we met on a language exchange site. On a side note behind Tyler is a small cafe that has expensive but very good espresso (Dolphy Cafe) if you’re in the mood for something besides Cà Phê Sữa đá and I found the staff to be quite friendly.

[@hannahpujolsallen5831]

I only watch a couple of clips from this channel. From an outsider perspective, your gf is cute, reserve, intelligent, and also has a fun side to her, but very respectful to the elder.A keeper I say. I wish she would smile a bit more on your video, though. I see her prettiness when she does. I hope this comment gets to you. I wish the best for you both! Greetings from Harrisburg Pennsylvania!😊

[@phuh2430]

Thanks for making this video with a little history about how both of you met! I also watched the other videos where you interviewed her. I am also glad to know your gf is well educated and teaching English. Her English is much better than many, especially has not been outside of VN. One thing bother me quite a bit , “you know” is spoken very often by your gf. I am not sure if it came from the person taught English to her or she adopted this bad habit from watching online KZbin or movies. You should reminder her about this bad habit. :). Cheers!

[@reefsurfing3273]

G'day Tyler and Trang, great interview Trang, thanks Tyler for sharing your experience with dating in Vietnam, Really enjoyed the content of this video very helpful too, you guys rock 👍🇻🇳🇺🇲🇦🇺🙏👍

[@hituanly1]

I don't know about you guys, but I was fascinated by the way the dog crosses the busy street. (at 21:03) We were there a few years back, and it was very challenging trying to cross the street in Vietnam. BTW, I'm glad they are back together and happy.

[@BarefootVlogger]

Love the channel, Tyler. You're a good guy and I enjoyed the vlogs with your dad. He raised a fine young gentleman and I'm impressed with your mastering of the language. Hope to bump into you next time I'm there. Curious to know how you are able to live there. Are you doing visa runs or do you have a temporary residency status. I heard it's hard to get. Thanks brother

[@BigTimeBentley]

Thanks for the kind comment. It's visa runs at the moment. I checked out your vlogs as well and they are really good. Would be fun to make a video together some time if you're interested.

[@tringo999]

Hello. Bent learning Vietnamese from Trang could accelerate significantly because of her fluency in both. No excuse there😊

[@stanlee4765]

Trang's spoken English and accent is way lot better than mine. I am an Aussie Ex-Malaysian who lived in Oz for 30 years! Now happily retired in Hanoi since 2019!

[@hisnameisvu]

Wishing you guys the very best.. thank you for sharing your story with us.. you're amazing brother

[@BigTimeBentley]

Thank you bro

[@phazyblue]

This was a charming video. I hope everything is going well for you mate.

[@BigTimeBentley]

Thanks Paul. It's been a long time. Hope to see you soon

[@Jojosmith342]

thumbs up to the most lovely, compatible couple. Thanks for sharing your personal stories. Congrats. Trang is very pretty, intelligent, thoughtful, caring, compassionate. Love watching you guys together 👍

[@BigTimeBentley]

Thank you so much!

[@TheMightyAgency]

Damn, I was distracted by the DOG crossing a Saigon street at 3:23 ... and that it was edited away.

[@erichayestv]

Great interview, thanks! Does Trang have a KZbin or TikTok channel?

[@BigTimeBentley]

Not yet

[@minhho8719]

U guys r a great couple together. B proud of each other. B a complement to each other as friends. If U guys feel that tying d knot is d next step, do it soon. Do not fear economic hardship. Because love caught @ d proper time will not dissipate or become cold.

[@mattkenney1399]

Really glad it’s sounds like you 2 got things sorted out and continuing with your relationship 🫶🏻🫶🏻🙏🏻

[@BigTimeBentley]

Thank you Matt!

[@hellsente7826]

Yes... some good questions. regarding 22:00 -ish, The language difficulty creates an opportunity to try things differently, to do hard work to build a different way and make something more special... and it presents another barrier and degree of separation from operating closer like true life partners. How willing are people to put in hard work for long-term rewards these days? Is it at all realistic to hope for people to change or grow together? 26:00 “If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.” ― Sun Tzu, The Art of War (but that was the dude who's essential thesis was "all war is deception")

[@MikeB-in1nd]

Trang sounds like she could be from the US great interview!

[@musicaitrend]

Tyler, you're lucky to find a Vietnamese woman in Vietnam who speaks good English. It's unreasonable to expect locals to speak your language. If you prefer Asian women who speak English, many live in the USA and other countries. To live in Vietnam or any foreign country, it's important to learn the local language to fully understand the culture and communicate effectively in relationships. The best comes last and I'm happy for you guys. Cheers!

[@thaido3220]

To have a better experience in VN you should find kids or people who could not go to school because their families could not afford or do not have the means to do so. That’s why you see a lot of kids in the streets selling lottery tickets. They would appreciate if they have 1 hour a day learning English free of charge. I think Trang and yourself could make a good team to reach that end. It will make people very happy.

[@lilyh3641]

Do a collaboration with fat and broke it would make my day 😂

[@ChrissieSM]

What girl/woman would not fall in love with Tyler? He is intelligent, well spoken, witty, and last but not least, so handsome and charming! Sorry, Tyler, if I made you cringe.

[@lilyh3641]

You should collaborate more with other KZbinrs in Vietnam . Really want to see you interact with someone other than your GF she is in every video I kind of stoped watching your content for a while . Liked your video with cris travels.

[@LadislasNaois]

omg I cant believe this here I am getting good vibes from a travel channel I enjoyed and I had to see your face everywhere? i really want to see other comments that are constructive rather than women bringing down other women omg. you should work as a model for HPV awareness ads, cuz both you and the virus surely share the quality of overstaying your fckin welcome.

[@BigFarang]

I'm going to Vietnam next week, is Da Nang a good place to meet girls/friends? Or is it kind of an old person retirement city?

[@lilyh3641]

@@BigFarang lol how would I know . I was born and raised in Canada I’m a viet kieu … meaning overseas Vietnamese 😂😂

[@BigFarang]

@@lilyh3641 Oh my bad! I was assuming you were a local just checking out your picture. Any plans on adventuring over there? You need it if thats your family heritage!

[@Nguy1972]

TnT!💥❤️

[@bearmerica6668]

Trang seems to me lived in the West in the past. How she talks and thinks, I'm probably wrong though. I see how you like her communication skills.

[@thaido3220]

If you are not engaged yet I just want you to remember that marry a Vietnamese woman it’s not only her but also the whole family because they are very attached to each other and not like in the States people seem to be very “selfish and/or independent”. However you don’t speak Vietnamese well enough to understand that when people say No it means Yes and when they say Yes it means Maybe in Vietnamese culture depending on the body language. So don’t be shocked when it happens to you.😅

[@thompsonnguyen1870]

@thaido3220, there are a Lot of great things about American culture and people. They are not selfish like your thoughts.

[@thaido3220]

That’s why I put it between quotes. What I meant was new couples tend to live by themselves and don’t rely too much on their parents. They would like to save money to put a down payment on their dream house or taking a nice honeymoon instead of paying for a big wedding to show off and then carry debt on their shoulders later on.

[@cecetrinh4825]

@@thompsonnguyen1870 Agreed.

[@coconutman5437]

Prior to Harold Baldr in the early days- peace; the first time I ever saw ‘Two fingered Peace’ was From ‘Neil’ in the ‘young ones’ which was a new age comedy show with a bunch of students from England during the ‘80 ‘Ban the bomb’ CND activist era. ✌️

[@coconutman5437]

…..the two fingered symbol in Vietnam was introduced as after the end of American war the reunification settlement plans were predicted to take two years to finalise. Churchills two fingers were for a ‘V’. for Victory in Europe during the Second world war the 1940’s.

[@vincentnnyc]

wait...i thought she is your ex? how is she still your gf?

[@maDARLING]

Not done vid but this is giving me butterflies in the stomach. The sweetness is permeating through my screen.

[@maDARLING]

Okay, done watching. When things are good and calm, remember-- you deserve every bit of it. I love the renewed spark and curiosity the two of you share.

[@BigTimeBentley]

😊

[@anchoimaimai]

16:17 as a foreign Euro-centric male (white dude) is a huge advantage over the vietnamese male. And that applies anywhere, not just in Viet Nam. You are blessed in that manner…😉 19:21 the perspective of a white man (from the US)… it’s a lot different than any other foreigner in Viet Nam 25:56 You should expand this interview to a vietnamese expat guy and girl and a white girl as well as a vietnamese guy as well. That would be an interesting series about dating life in SG

[@tonychang9354]

Your girlfriend is extremely beautiful and brilliant as well

[@TeamEmperor]

I knew it

[@slumplord1187]

Green card secured ✅

[@platinum_ap6836]

Haven't finished the full video, but i thought she was your ex?

[@xdgs567z]

I thought so also…maybe after their recent trip together, they got back together…they did seem happy together and their parents showed their approval 😊

[@VK-tq4il]

Yes, he keeps on saying she is beautiful, smart and perfect in English, he hit the jackpot. But why the break up since she is so awesome? Yes I did watch your SORRY video but nothing was mentioned here, well she did not ask.... !!!! Will be your answer.

[@cecetrinh4825]

My point exactly and same as you, I stopped watching half way through.

[@maDARLING]

Haven't finished video either (thought same as you) but hope their good vibes continue!

[@danctang]

I am very interested in knowing why you chose to live in Vietnam 7 years ago.

[@sontruong2301]

😎👍

[@BigTimeBentley]

Cheers bro

[@AAsoberlife]

Xin Chao - I paused in the first minute! You both like CASINO? You both had to be 5 or less? Major love points from this old guy subscriber lol. Just get married already - Please- :) This Uncle- would be happy. My soulmate was Cambodian - I love Asian food - how I got hooked on the Channel- I'm around your Dads age maybe older 58! Peace and love. Love the channel - love you both- good luck. 9:48 on the east coast USA

[@BigTimeBentley]

Yea I was about 5 when Casino came out. Don’t think I saw it until I was in my late teens

[@coconutman5437]

‘Intellectual Porn’. One could feel the juices flowing in public.

[@thinguyen8190]

well i guess you guys are back together?

[@laurale8155]

I really hope so🙏

[@thetran5000]

I was arranged and forced to meet my girlfriend. I think my parents had a marriage contract for me to marry their friends daughter.

[@thaido3220]

Good luck to you bro. We are living in the 21st century, just remember it.

[@thetran5000]

@@thaido3220 She's pretty. So I'm very happy.

[@user-uz6ph2ur9t]

🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@tonychang9354]

Your sweet girlfriend English even better than mine, despite living in California

[@ThienNguyen-eg4dh]

cute

[@BigTimeBentley]

thank you!

[@thaido3220]

Tyler, were you Amish before coming to VN?😅

[@mahlanie]

Is there any difference besides culture in dating a Vietnamese woman compared to an American woman

[@mythbuster3567]

When you are nice person, there will be no culture barrier !

[@xdgs567z]

I’ve dated a viet girl in Vietnam and she was so materialistic and kept asking me to buy her stuff…eventually she stole money from me and that ended our relationship….she was unemployed at the time….so you’ve gotta be careful of girls whose motivation is money 😅

[@user-zc9zt2vl5s]

Huge difference. Asian women are much more traditional unlike the woke, satanic, commie, toxic, feminist nazis of a western women.

[@mythbuster3567]

@@xdgs567z you got the wrong one and you don’t know how to handle it! Every woman wants sex and you can’t handle it well . Material is just the option when comes to women!

[@cecetrinh4825]

@@xdgs567zI’m happy for you with your decision. I don’t think it was the unemployed part that made your ex did that. I was unemployed and my dad passed away when I met the love of my life. I spent all my savings on not just him but his friends too cuz they were broke and I didn’t mind. Believe it or not that 20 years later we’re still together and couldn’t be happier. I hope you’re happy now and best wishes.

[@musicful7036]

From watching your Vietnamese GF treating your Father in other videos, she was so unfriendly and always look cranky, kinda arrogant and self-centered, there are many other nice and genuine Vietnamese girls out there, i feel you didn't pick the right girl. Anyhow, I really like your dad, he's such a gentleman and very polite, especially how he felt about Vietnam. Your dad is so wonderful, but not your GF. Well, hope you'll find happiness in the future.

[@tonychang9354]

You need to marry and last with her

[@itzbudda]

How u barely get out of a relationship? And get into another one 😭😭😭 nothing that’s forced will ever work out ….. hopefully she gets her paperwork with you so I can find her

[@lopat4826]

Man just take her now lol

[@billc6019]

I'm sure she was a lot more fluent in English than any Vietnamese you knew

[@user-zc9zt2vl5s]

so I assume it's safe to say that you guys are officially back together again?

[@cecetrinh4825]

It’s like your tv remote control, same button for ON and OFF. He failed to mention and he won’t tell you so we all can assume whatever, however we want. 😂

[@cecetrinh4825]

This channel is getting weird or maybe it’s just me. Are you doing this on purpose to get comments or what’s going on because I’m very confused about your relationship?

[@hannahpujolsallen5831]

No I think they're doing this because their audience wants to know how it all started.. I think I saw some other comments from a different video that the viewers were curious

[@xdgs567z]

Relationships can be on and off, he can’t document everything in between….so nothing weird about that

[@MikeeH626]

An odd but a fair question. I think he's trying something new to get away from the usual subject matters. Give the guy a break. It may be easy to start a channel but way harder to sustain it. He's trying to come up with new ways to bring us contents.

[@cecetrinh4825]

@@hannahpujolsallen5831 I’m not confused about the content of this video at all. I’m just confused about what’s going on between them, that’s all.

[@cecetrinh4825]

@@xdgs567z yes I agreed about relationships can be fickle sometimes. Struggling with content materials? I don’t think so cuz he could just be himself and documenting his daily life is more than good enough.