How I overcame being the “floater friend” + Friendship hacks

[@BlessingMoses-x7i]

"Any friend that cut yiu off without communicating to you the reason why was never ment to be your friend!" Period....😂😂cause these days we are making it some sort of flex to cut people (friends) off without giving rrasons why

[@amyodili]

Cutting people off is not a flex, it’s most times a huge sign of lack of emotional intelligence/maturity

[@stephanieeva_]

Love is definitely the ultimate thing in life, that’s literally all you need!!

[@amyodili]

100%

[@Blurouge]

I learned from secondary school that squads don't always work out. E can pain but man gats move. I still talk to almost all of them but never as a whole group. Life happens. But I've met the best people in uni and I've found that having different friends for different parts of your life is so beautiful. Honestly feel you're able to focus your energy more on each friend cause of the dynamic relationships 🥺

[@amyodili]

You’re 100% correct

[@stephanieeva_]

I’m kinda that floater friend so I relate 🫢

[@Blurouge]

Once again, Amy, you're so beautiful!!!😭🫶🏾

[@amyodili]

Thank you so much!!🥹🫂

[@stephanieeva_]

Secondary school was chaotic for no reason 😂😂😂🤣

[@amyodili]

Thank God you were there lol, we have a witness

[@aweosauhunmwangho6751]

Lmfaoo, I remember that boy and his ex vividly, crazy times. 😂😂

[@amyodili]

Oooohhh we have a witness🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@freespiritfootprints1399]

You are so smart

[@amyodili]

Thank you!

[@bellasperfumediaries]

Love your references lol

[@Georgia.A]

Squads teach me lesson aswr🥲amazing perspective

[@alakiridelight2929]

the blocking is so real😭

[@Beebeedi]

This is so educating More grace my dear ❤❤❤❤

[@amyodili]

God bless you🫂❤️

[@sobechiiikamen6394]

First time watching your videos and I love you already, you talk so well and I love how you tried to bring the Bible to explain how God encourages us to have friends.keep up the good work!

[@amyodili]

Thank you so much for this very beautiful comment ❤️ God bless you!

[@Blurouge]

21:17 “you are my everythinggggggg” 😭

[@amyodili]

I should’ve sang that song too😅

[@alakiridelight2929]

thank you Amy ❤

[@ujunwamm]

Real. God help us all.

[@amyodili]

God’s got you! Real friends will come❤️

[@bodhisattva2348]

& this is y my number of friends is lowered to 2. Thats what i got the bandwidth for.

[@JoannaPala]

I’m so happy I’m seeing this video

[@amyodili]

I’m so happy you’re seeing this video😊🫂❤️

[@faithiegold8178]

The number of times you broke into a song in this video ehh 😂😂😂

[@amyodili]

It’s always a sound in my head🤣

[@throughtraceeseyes]

Well damn I’m a floater friend 😂😂

[@amyodili]

It’s the realization for me🤣

[@alakiridelight2929]

what of situations where you have a friend who constantly shows no emotions and hurt you with words,can you cut them off quietly?

[@amyodili]

It’s a sign they don’t care about or validate your feelings, let em go

[@OmobolanleTaiwo-bq1if]

What of a friend you feel very safe with starts changing and all what do I do in that aspect?

[@amyodili]

Changing in what way?

[@OmobolanleTaiwo-bq1if]

@@amyodili like she starts talking about me to the third party and both stop talking to me

[@amyodili]

@@OmobolanleTaiwo-bq1if she’s not your friend anymore babes

[@FathiaRinsolaBenson]

This is really nice 😊

[@amyodili]

Why thank youuu😊❤️

[@esimajebenjamin313]

It’s exhausting to pour into people who only wants to take.

[@amyodili]

It’s worse when you genuinely love them & all they do is take from & drain you

[@esimajebenjamin313]

You spoke a lot of truth. Your perspective and experience is very relatable to what's out there

[@murceyaisien376]

Squads!

[@amyodili]

Run oh😂

[@therealboluwatife]

Avoid squad ohhhhh

[@amyodili]

Them no dey hear word😂

[@SmithKatie-t7v]

Hey can we relate

[@RukkyErifeta]

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