How I SAVED my Broken Marriage

It's so much easier to ruin your marriage than to prevent problems in the first place. It's so much easier to drift towards emotional neglect and not even realize it. It's so much easier to get busy and put our relationship on the backburner rather then be proactive in pursuing and prioritizing intimacy and emotional connection and healthy communication. It's always easier to fall in love, than to stay in love. In this video I talk about what I had to learn the hard way when it came to saving my marriage.
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[@Bri-nc8yp]

I’m not even married I’m not even dating. 💯 single but here I am watching this anyway. Still very informative.

[@JimmyonRelationships]

This is so kind!!

[@vivifleur9528]

😅Same

[@StarlynMunson]

Me too🎉 Maybe we love it because the concepts and this eloquent explanation applies to our platonic deep connection friendships

[@serenasapphire8883]

These videos are extremely helpful even for dating" for relationships with friends, and children, co workers etc, thanks Jimmy for calling us all out on our BS we can all use to be knocked down off our self righteous high horses, and these things are needed, thank you for your compelling work and calling us all to be more humble and more understanding where we can all do better in all of our relationships

[@loreliem665]

I'm here now, wondering what to do. Shared this with my husband. I don't know if he will take any of this advice. I likes listening to all these videos, but, I don't know if he will put the work in our marriage he destroyed with his addictions... 😢 I haven't been treated like a wife should and so now I am not the person I was or wanted to be. I feel like 40 years down the drain!!!!

[@jeanneschlumbohm1138]

After sooo many years in the church, of all marriage advice and teaching, most of it was aimed at women and how they should submit. Very little was ever mentioned about a woman's needs, mostly about a man's needs. Very little was ever directed to men. It was all very toxic. Thank you

[@JimmyonRelationships]

Ya unfortunately so often they skip over those verses about the men loving her as Jesus loved us and sacrificed continually for us

[@beckysmyth2830]

Oh wow, so true. Thank you!

[@melissap2957]

True, even to the point of texts saying women should not be educated, because only the man can make decisions. Yet people still believe in this nonsense.

[@happilydivorced3235]

Church leaders spend most of their time trying to stop wives from leaving than teaching husbands how to be the best to their wives which prevents divorce. They condition women to "cut their husbands some slack."

[@diananoonen2262]

Let's just start in understanding most Protestant churches lean in favor toward the man!

[@Luis-vs6bw]

I wish I had found this earlier, and I could have saved my marriage, and this guy knows what he's talking about. Listen to him.

[@Luis-vs6bw]

If I had listened to my wife, then listen to the videos that she sent, I wouldn't have cheated on her. I wouldn't have destroyed my marriage. I have 3 kids. My youngest is four months, and I destroyed it

[@JimmyonRelationships]

I destroyed mine as well :( it’s possible to rebuild if she’s willing but you need to take initiative and get professional help

[@StrangeSpark]

My ex fiance ruined our relationship for another woman and didn't understand why I wouldn't be a 3rd wheel in their relationship. He didn't think we needed help or to work on anything. He thought I should change my expectations (no cheating, that he wants to do things with me, no lying about who he was seeing and what he's doing with them, that he actually married me) so he could put effort into this other woman and didn't think that was cheating. He didn't get it for a while.

[@jynclr]

I know you're reading the comments, Jimmy. My husband is the closed off one. I kept asking him, "HOW CAN I TALK TO YOU??" And he has not been able to answer. I know. I know why. Today I realized I have not made a safe space within myself for him to open up. I am owning up to that. But, he does still have his own work to do too. I'm just glad that I was able to find where MY problem was - safety for him. We have physical safety, just not emotional safety. Yet.

[@jynclr]

BTW, only point here. When you ask, "Are you able to apologize for all of the ways you've unintentionally hurt them?" Apologies require specifics. To apologize by SPECIFICALLY NAMING THE HARMS COMMITTED, that means that the person who has harmed the other person recognizes their faults and is self aware. They are acknowledging HOW they have harmed someone, regardless of intentions. They are able to ADMIT that regardless of their good will it did not land the way they intended it to land. Most importantly, when you apologize with *specifics,* YOU ARE CALLING YOURSELF OUT, AND AS SUCH ALLOWING THE HARMED PERSON TO HOLD YOU TO ACCOUNTABILITY. Naming specific harms is why apologies work. It means you are ATUNED to the other person.

[@suishereuse]

Love, love, love this! I wish every couple would listen to this before marriage and regularly until it becomes part of them!

[@user-zt2gp5bc1y]

This is a strong one, Jimmy. I appreciate your candor. My husband & I have been in deep struggle for 5+ years. Been married 34 yrs. It's dilbilitating, frustrating, and just plain sad. Your opinions & insight are appreciated by many.

[@phyllisboegeman5168]

Do you realize YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE that is addressing maraige/relationships in this form? THANK YOU SO MUCH, Jimmy, for you! For sharing your God given gift with me. Do you know how special you are????????? Thank you for you!!!!!!!! Phyllis

[@whtdrgn33]

Whoa....I didn't know it was possible to get throat punched, have your toes stepped on and be personally called out all at the same time....wow dude...this is such good stuff

[@JimmyonRelationships]

Oh no!! I don’t want you to feel attacked 😂

[@whtdrgn33]

@JimmyonRelationships hahaha...i totally didnt mean it to come off that way....this is the good kind of 'attack' that makes you self reflect! I have hit the point where when I get my throat punched, etc as opportunities to be better!

[@whtdrgn33]

@@JimmyonRelationships oh wow.....I think I actually missed your sarcasm.....bahahahahaha

[@FaldieChandler]

Hooray for sharing scripture and bringing God into this! Marriage is first and foremost a ministry, as is parenting. May He continue to grant you wisdom and discernment and fill your cup, so you can spill into ours.

[@CordeliaWagner1999]

Why doesn't he prevent child trafficking?

[@FaldieChandler]

Very good question! Why does God allow evil and suffering in the world? Most of the suffering comes from humans who do evil to each other. God wanted to create beings who would have the ability to love Him and each other. Love requires freedom of will. Automatons cannot love. Our freedom allows us to reject God, the source of all good and love also. It’s interesting to note that the ones who reject God or His existence also accuse Him of being responsible for the evil they see in the world. Even more interesting that without God as an objective standard for good and evil, you are left without a basis to affirm that something is objectively good or evil. I would recommend you to look into the work of Dr. William Lane Craig and his ministry Reasonable Faith for more resources to answer this important question. God bless you, dear seeker! And thank you for your question! 😊

[@carms.creative]

@@FaldieChandler I'm no believer of god and I don't believe that he is responsible for anything that's happening in the world. I don't believe in good or evil, it's that black and white thinking that can lead people down one path or the other but it lacks nuance. I don't need any god to bless me for I have earned my blessings and I don't need no god to tell me what is sin for it often condemns human nature, the way we just are and behave in the natural world. I wish for nothing more than for followers of a faith to acknowledge and respect the differences in believes for we will benefit from our differing views and understandings of the world. God or no god, people are just people and while capable of doing terrible things, the opposite is true too and that is what I will always lean towards.

[@FaldieChandler]

Racism is evil, there is absolutely nothing good about it. Rape is evil, there is absolutely nothing good about it. Stealing, murdering, cheating, trafficking children, molestation, the list could go on and on. Are you saying we should not have black and white thinking about these things? Perhaps you have not yet been a victim of evil or seen a loved one be victimized. Although some people may have attenuating circumstances that may push them towards evil actions, objective good and evil still exist. Permissiveness is not love when you are the victim. It is also not loving to allow a person commit evil deeds. In the Christian worldview, there is recognition of good and evil, which allows for true forgiveness and offers a path toward redemption. In yours, stealing from the poor is as valid as helping them.

[@moname56]

I think most believers DO understand differences. Not always sure it works the other way around.😬

[@diannaroeder9661]

Am newly married first time after being single 55yrs!! Thank you so very much for sharing so very helpful 😊

[@HaliClough]

I appreciate your videos. I wish my husband would watch them. Our marriage is dying and it’s for all the reasons you talk about. I am grateful for the work you do and what you share.

[@sonyaluhman4648]

I played it and watched with my husband and he was restless & made a few comments under his breath. And now wondering why bother.

[@hiyalanguages]

Such a beautiful video. Thank you. May the Lord pour his healing touch upon my marriage and our hearts. I hope everyone watching this video finds what they came looking for. God bless you, Jimmy. You have such a special gift for counselling.

[@parentingchallengeaccepted7884]

Thank you for having done the work in your marriage. It’s a good reminder that it can be done. When pointing out that it only takes one to steer the marriage on a better path remember that that only works if the other partner is willing to respond. Because it is true that one person can make the difference but only if the other person is willing to respond and leaving that off leaves those with a spouse that will not try feeling like we weren’t good enough. Keep up the good work. Your videos are awesome and I’m glad to have found them.

[@asinglemissionlivelovemarry]

I have been watching you on IG and just stumbled on this here looking for something else. You are going all the way in and I love it. I also love the skits. The wig is awesome! Thank you for sharing this. I also am single and this is a great way to prevent issues when my time comes! Keep up the good work.

[@janemarlo4978]

Can't get more honest than this!

[@tlingitgirl07]

Thanks for your honesty Jimmy!

[@VanessaSimon26]

A new marriage. That is what we need. My husband did not admit that he had a neglectful attitude. He didn’t want to be intimate and did not pursue me. We are not connected now. We need connection. Emotional blocks. Intimacy blocks. We need help. I still think he is trying to not face how much he has hurt me. I don’t think he realizes the amount of his neglect how it has destroyed our marriage.

[@clintbailey8220]

Thank you Jimmy that has spoken words to me and you are correct on every level. I really need to look into why I am the way I am, and ask her what is needed from me and even though she has told me repeatedly 😞.

[@JimmyonRelationships]

I love this Clint. You know there’s no judgement or condemnation coming from this end I hope!

[@vivifleur9528]

👍💪👏

[@Christinelsa]

👏🏻👏🏻 if my husband simply came to that recognition, he wouldn’t lose the 12 year marriage he doesn’t know he’s letting go of

[@HaliClough]

You are doing amazing work. None of us don’t know what we don’t know. Gods way is better. He will make your marriage so worth the work.

[@babamc4]

This is great! We've a good marriage. I'm incredibly lucky I met my soul mate but we all have areas and issues we need to work on and your videos are great and can be applied to be spouses. My husband can be dismissive in arguments that makes me feel like my feelings aren't valid and I know when my husband complains about something I become automatically defensive. The point may be absolutely valid - I do throw myself into my volunteer work and will prioritise that ahead of our marriage, which is wrong but because I know this I feel guilty and then I get defensive. So I will have to work on this. I deserve to be heard by my husband and my husband deserves to feel that his wife will prioritise him also. Thank you!

[@DBarks38]

You’re humility is remarkable. Thank you so much for sharing your story on the web. God bless you and your family. ❤🙏

[@johanngambolputty4117]

Thank you for bringing up God. A lot of people shrink back when they hear him mentioned, which is a sign that we desperately need to bring God back into our culture. It takes courage to talk about your faith when you’re faced with names and ridicule.

[@pammypampam6920]

THANK YOU, Jimmy!!! I'm going to write down ALL of these questions and work through them personally and hopefully, eventually, with my husband! ❤❤❤ Empathy goals! To truly know him & be truly known! 💖💖💖 Like he knows his guns and his multiple sports teams and the most frequent numbers recently spun on rapid roulette and his many Draft Kings line ups. 😌

[@kristicress3064]

Keep talking. Keep sharing! We’re listening. And.. Thank you for your research and sharing your knowledge! 👍

[@Rudelherz]

My husband loves me so much, it is impossible for me not to love him back and always seek his best, but I have to admit it is not hard, because he treats my like the apple of his eye and my happiness is his top priority. I am still in love after 8 years because of the way he treats me, it is easy to submit and listen to a man like him, even though I used to be very strongheaded and even arrogant, his love humbled me and got my feet on the ground where they belong. We talked for hours and nights, my tears always dried quickly when I realized whatever will happen his selfless love is always there. Everything said here is so true. Hope it will help many, I know those principles are worth everything and until this day we never argued and attacked each other, much less yelled. Ppl think it is not normal, but I wish it would be for everyone ❤ it is heaven on earth, when two ppl put each other's needs first. This is one great video, love the passion and the heart it comes with. Fantastic!❤

[@terrigoestiny2]

You speak so much truth! I’m so glad God used you to help save others. Hopefully, a lot are listening 🙏🏾🙏🏾. God saved me from a partner who didn’t want to put in the work. That wasn’t masculine to him. I didn’t feel emotionally safe with him. Our breaking up has me delving more into my past traumas so that I don’t attract another emotionally immature person again.

[@jeannettemarasco4680]

Way to go, Jimmy. God bless you.

[@samantha3866]

Profound advice. Thanks for your honesty. Such an eye opening message.

[@darianalawrence643]

This is absolutely valuable. Thank you for sharing.

[@simonfletcher1945]

Jimmy as always great words… we are never really taught these skills…. We follow what we know…. Our parents, our friends… Who make them the experts… This path is a long path… Acceptance that we need to grow and change… It takes courage… or prescriptive… to be vulnerable… Two choices …. SIMPLE…. Grow and learn for a happy future… what you put in you get that back…. Or Blame don’t change… have excuses… it’s not me? So be the change… Emotions change like the wind… you might feel your in the dog house ….no hope… Then a few words ,sharing… understanding… The dark clouds move on… The major tip is to be consistent… Words are easy …. Put a plan in place… to be consistent… As actions show love…. So why would you not do this… Love your words Jimmy…. A great reminder to look 👀 n the mirror Simon

[@sharicoburn5475]

Thank you for mentioning the cars and guns and trucks and how they value those but don't value the relationship enough to learn about it

[@gwenhand9764]

Your messages are so clear!! How do you get this message across to your spouse? I hear you. Now, for step two.

[@CeleniLoDolce555]

Wow! God bless you ! You said all this so beautifully, thank you 🙏 ❤️ 🙌

[@swanvegalove]

Thank you for your tremendous strength to be a righteous man and help others stand in their own righteousness. I'm grateful and amazed. God bless your family and mine 🙏

[@lisayun8995]

God bless you brother!

[@JimmyonRelationships]

Thank you so much!!

[@kibkac]

Well said, Jimmy. On all counts!

[@AvElectronics2015]

Thanks my brother for your teachings i have been a problem to my marriage been incontrolling saying hush words to my wife not respecting her.

[@JimmyonRelationships]

I love this accountability. What does she need to heal?

[@moname56]

I’m glad you’re a Christian! I listened to many of your shorts and videos for a good few weeks, before I saw this one. So good to know❤

[@reynol101]

Thank you. I thought everything was perfect, until he started talking about leaving. Now I don’t know where to go from here. He’s says he wants to work on things, but he is still hugely anxious about feeling like staying and working is the wrong choice that he’s going to regret. I’m dying, but ultimately just want him to be happy. I’m praying that the Lord opens our hearts and minds and he is able to find that happiness with me and our babies.

[@kitlitmitt]

I appreciate this video even tho I am single and 32 and never been in a relationship lol

[@OanaVisan]

Mulțumim!

[@kimberly5304]

Thank you!!!!!

[@benabele]

Grateful

[@sharimiddlebrooks5375]

I wish my husband would listen to you and that he would actually value me and be willing to put in the work and would be willing to open up to me and let me know him and how I may be devaluing him or hurting him . He says he shouldn’t have to tell me. Then says he doesn’t want anyone in his head . 😢 I love him but it only goes one direction. 😢 I am continuing to work on myself no matter what transpires. I have value and love in my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, and in loving family members . Thank you for all you do and share with us !!

[@priscilladucharm-ferster2795]

I love how you add scripture ❤

[@ry2yb]

Excellent!

[@marcosperales7349]

Thanks Jimmy.

[@JimmyonRelationships]

Thank you Marcos!

[@Geoffreys-adventures]

I do agree. I'm the solution to help fix my marriage

[@user-kh5qd5ut4q]

thank you🙏

[@ananimity7332]

He just blames me for everything. Even though he hurt me with many lies that backed up other lies he's found a way to make it all my fault.

[@sharicoburn5475]

That is called gas lighting and he is a narcissist. I recommend that you subscribe to Dr Ramani on KZbin for info

[@a.humphries8678]

Oh, i know I'm the problem. My husband does not like the way I respond to his belligerent defensiveness, callousness, abandonment or rejection!

[@bryankelly148]

@jimmyonrelationships What are your suggestions for building an emotional vocabulary? It has been one of my many roadblocks. My ADHD diagnosed in 2020 has been a major roadblock and I have historically engaged in diassociation. ADHD and narcissism have overlapping behaviors which is terrifying. I am an unsafe person to my wife of 15 years and I have been continually guilty of avoiding the necessary areas to build us up and help us thrive. Currently we are trying to navigate what a separation looks like while parenting our two kids. Thanks for your videos, Jimmy. Its been a bumpy 15 years and your videos and Patrick Teahan LSCW's videos have been truly a blessing.

[@nnylasoR]

INVALUABLE. 🧡🧡🧡

[@jessicabowling5645]

Hubs and I fight it out. Just a style of communication

[@TatoRo]

I wish I've heard this and seen this few years ago ... But most probably I'd not listened to those advices and had them dismissed. Only when my marriage was done with, i've realized that I've ruined my marriage with my own hands...

[@sharicoburn5475]

You are one of many millions who do this. People don't realize what they have until it's gone.

[@janemarlo4978]

True grit

[@Rubienne369]

After watching and taking copious notes, and towards the end I realized that you were talking mostly to men nonetheless, I learned a great deal about myself and how we are so much alike by doing the same immature things to one another. I’m ready to get professional help and I am super scared to send this to him because he is having an affair (9year affair). 🙄 Although, I do trust in Jesus and I will send it anyways, hope the best for me. He may not want to do anything about us because he ‘wants’ his affair. Regardless, Thank you and may God Continue to Bless your work.

[@JimmyonRelationships]

Oh no! Grace. He can’t have an affair and have a loving relationship with you. Those don’t work together! He has to choose now

[@melissap2957]

That's a toxic situation, he's a selfish a hole and needs to go.

[@sharicoburn5475]

A 9-year affair and you know about it? Now I understand that some people have no choice but to stay in such an unhealthy marriage but if you have the ability to leave I highly recommend that you do because you are not in a relationship with this man. That is not a marriage.

[@Saintjohnzman]

It’s like this dude knows EXACTLY who I am.

[@debbiepercival2062]

Well done John, you're on the right path ❤

[@Michelle-ft5rs]

So husband had addiction problems then stopped moved on to cheating. Saying he ruined our marriage said i put kids before him .i don't get excited enough of his accomplishments in work. We don't go on dates. Sooo i said ok lets move ( because it was our neighbor) then i thought everything was good we watched TV together did things as family went to coffee shop . Then i seen he was doing it again! So its im not flirting enough im not im not all kinds of things. I said how can you expect me yo just be like well everything is gone nothing is in my head . I was trying yes going out wasn't something we could do much because of kids and money but we did spend time together and it doesn't help he's always searching when we go out . I think he switch one addiction for another . 😢 So i wanted to ask your wife how did she do it howcdid she get pastbthe hurt and trust isdues. Thinking about what youbdid with the other person how did she do it!

[@jennifergalvan9697]

Sounds one-sided.....your husband might be a narcissist.

[@dianaamitrano7748]

This is wonderful advice but when the spouse knows he has his addictions which he won't give up, is an atheist and talks from both sides of his mouth, how could I ever hope he wants to save what is so broken. Tell me I need counseling, but he won't go because he could teach the professional. Kudos to you for wanting to save your marriage and changing things. Wish I could.

[@JimmyonRelationships]

I’m so sorry you’re in this spot :(

[@sewing2251]

Amen. ❤

[@confusedwhynot]

I am my husband's third marriage. We are on the verge of divorce. Act upon the change required to save your marriage.

[@husbandslockerroom4041]

@jimmyonrelationships this is great content and like you my podcast doesn’t replace counseling. Husbands needs to talk to each other listen to Husbands Locker Room Podcast.

[@VanessaSimon26]

How do I get past the hurt and resentment? I have been neglected, I promise I am not exaggerating. So painful.

[@sharicoburn5475]

I was married for 22 years and I put up with all of the disappointment and all of the hurt for a very long time for far too long really mostly because of our children I didn't want him having partial custody of them when I knew he was an alcoholic and could put them in danger. All I can say is I wish you the best and I hope that you can get out and not waste yours of your life.

[@jenniferwhite1516]

How do you put your spouse before yourself without enabling their behavior that is dismissive?

[@sharicoburn5475]

It's very simple both people have to put the other person first and if both people aren't doing it if it is only one person doing it then it simply cannot work.

[@PrincessCW]

😢

[@magy321]

Is it possible for someone to learn how to emotionally connect? Even if they are older?

[@jenniferwhite1516]

What if the hurts are unrealistic due to emotional immaturity? How does one apologize for their hurts that are unrealistic?

[@charliehyland6292]

I'm divorced.

[@DaughterofDiogenes]

I am almost 100% sure I am getting reverse discarded. At this point I've done everything under the sun, changed, grown, begged, therapy, no therapy, just let him be and he acts like he can't stand to be around me and blames it on me, work, or being tired. Thats the exact same thing he's been saying for 10 years. But now he's putting in time making new friends while online gaming. Even our kids have started to ask why he's making new friends when he won't give us any of his time. I know it's because he doesn't want to be here anymore. I can't even get him to watch a short video like this. Yet he swears he loves me and it will all work out!

[@sharicoburn5475]

You need to go to therapy and find one that counsels on narcissistic abuse. And make sure you put the therapy charges on his credit card. And don't stop going until he decides to go to therapy and work on your marriage

[@DaughterofDiogenes]

@@sharicoburn5475 I started therapy and joined a church and I finally got a job last week. My plan is to divorced soon. I’m so close now I can taste it!!!!

[@sherececocco]

Would/Do you ask your children to Self sacrifice for your love?

[@Luis-vs6bw]

I need help 😫 😩

[@husbandslockerroom4041]

@luis-vs6bw i was in Jimmy situation now I have a podcast Husbands Locker Room pray all is well .

[@CC..Jeremiah9_24]

Please stop saying unintentionally, because it’s not always true. A good portion of the time it is intentional.

[@JimmyonRelationships]

That’s so sad

[@happilydivorced3235]

You're spot on. Most of the time, it is intentional. They often punish their partners for being different, for having needs, for communicating them, so they punish.

[@user-jw1bl4hq9j]

I HAVE NEEWS FOR EVERYONE…..BUT SPECIALLY FOR MEN …CONTEMPT, RESENTMENT , REVENGE , SEXUAL CHEATING , JELOSY , BIG EGO …….YOUR WIFE WILL FEEL THE SAME TOO AND NOTHING WILL BE AS IT WAS IN THE BEGINNING ….NEVER …. PEOPLE ARE PEOPLE

[@user-qt7yc8lm7m]

Oof Jimmy. You had me up to the God talk. Dang man.

[@mgg1378]

I felt the same way. But I really enjoy how he explains things, so I just take the religion part out of the explanation and try to find the message hiding in those parts. It has really helped me. 😊

[@Mint-kj9kw]

@@mgg1378 Why??? God is the one who created marriage...don't you think He knows what's best?????

[@lindatannock]

​@Mint-kj9kw only if you believe in that! Not everyone does, and that's OK. Each to their own. If you're not religious the God talk becomes a moot point (and spoils the flow of the video for the non believers)

[@sherececocco]

Self sacrifice 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@PaulinaJ.-ju7fl]

Great first half of the video and quality insights, yet Jesus and church stuff really unnecesary and unwarranted.

[@CordeliaWagner1999]

I am against marriage and I mostly know deeply unhappy couples. I am in a happy relationship so why should we get married, it seems like all goes south as soon you have the official documents signed.

[@capt.shaffer8655]

she isn't talking or listening

[@dailysmile5159]

Hey Jimmy, really love your content… But is this church/jesus/sinner-thing is really necessary?!?

[@husbandslockerroom4041]

@dailysmile5159 it is. When you get married a Bible is used whether at church or justice of the peace. Don’t shut God out. Give it a shot.

[@rikbrown4864]

​Not everyone is an American Christian. Is that a hard concept to grasp? Even if a couple is Christian, marriage may play a cultural role rather than a religious one, depending on the culture. A Bible was not present at my wedding because I am a Muslim. I can understand why some people may find the sudden interjection of American Christianity off putting. Nevertheless Jimmy has some great advice. I am glad his channel has gone viral as it is some of the most easily relatable advice on youtube right now. ​@@husbandslockerroom4041

[@angelikadabrowski2609]

I was expecting serious science based advice, but once it got to Jesus and God I understood that this one is not about psychology or interpersonal relationships but more about christian morals. Hope it helps others ☺️

[@ND-or5so]

I'm never going to save my marriage to a covert narcissist. Do you want victims to save their marriages? I bet not. Ohhh, this is for other people to save their marriages! 😆 lol 😅

[@sherececocco]

Jimmy? You titled this video How I and then says you, you, you. Do you hear the words coming out of your mouth? 🙃

[@deminoelmorrinwilcox9091]

You had me and I really liked this channel until you brought religion into this. Why do people feel the need to bible thump. Why can’t it not be political or religious. Yikes

[@happilydivorced3235]

If you can't take a good advice because he quoted the Bible as a reference, then you have stuff to work on ma'am. I'm not a Christian anymore, but I don't get offended when people give information and quote theBible. If it's a good and relevant verse, why not? Also respecting diversity is a thing. Try it. If you have wounds to heal from Christianity, heal them.

[@abcisneros91]

Perhaps he is a Christian? Maybe his advice isn't for you? It's his channel.

[@kildareire]

Here from TikTok. Algorithm.

[@JimmyonRelationships]

This was nice of you!