HOW I SURVIVED A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP LEADING TO MARRIAGE | Christian Girl Chat

[@empressdede8715]

It is a tough one, long distance, but with the right person its so worth the effort

[@sharonnwosu8901]

Absolutely 🤎🤎

[@lindaumeh9087]

This message is meant for me ma'am. Thank you for allowing God use you to help others like me. Much Love.❤

[@sharonnwosu8901]

Thank you so much for watching 🤎

[@katianegime]

First time coming across your content and tips were very helpful, I genuinely hope this reaches a lot of people who need these tips. May god bless you and your marriage sis🫶🏾🙏🏽

[@sharonnwosu8901]

Thank you so much love! 💕

[@siphevuzani]

This sounds like my story. My long distance partner left all the great women in the US and looked for me in South Africa. And I always ask him why? Why all that effort and those expenses travelling every 3 months to see me in my country while he could easily get someone in his country and enjoy the convenience. And his answer is always “coz I want YOU! I prefer you. You’re worth all the effort and expenses”. I’ve also never had a problem with long distance relationships. Infact I’ve only ever dated guys outside my city and I coped just fine. Even with this one I’m doing ok, I don’t feel any disdain for it. I actually enjoy it🙈 I agree with all the tips! Btw, we “met”, or rather, he found me on KZbin🥰

[@loveaicha]

Thank you for this Sha, please could you do another video explaining more on ways to set these physical boundaries ?

[@sharonnwosu8901]

Hi dear! It’s basically telling them you don’t want to be intimate till after marriage. This could look like not sleeping over at each other’s houses or not on the same bed etc. Avoiding conversations that gets you thinking about things you shouldn’t be thinking of 🤣🤎; coz once you see them after that distance, you’d want to do them. It really differs for each individual as there are things one may struggle with but it’s not an issue for someone else x

[@loveaicha]

@ ugh I laugh in my singleness for asking this question 😄 thanks for taking out time to reply, we look forward to you bringing back the KZbin ministry ❤️.

[@sharonnwosu8901]

@@loveaicha 😂😂😂 stoppp 💛💛💛

[@RichyMeans]

Wow. Good to know your story. And it's sincere and inspiring. Thank you

[@simplyprecious_]

So wholesome to watch 🤭🤭 thanks for sharing ma'am 🩷🩷🩷

[@sharonnwosu8901]

Thank you so much for watching 🤎🤎

[@Damiscorner]

I’m currently in this phase and I can totally relate with everything you’re saying. Thank you❤️

[@sharonnwosu8901]

Thanks for watching 🤎🤎🤎

[@Palesa_Mlambo]

I missed your videos so much❤

[@israeladeranti2493]

Thank you so much for this Sharon! ♥

[@sharonnwosu8901]

Thanks for watching 🤎

[@enumangene6914]

You nailed it, needed the friendly reminder!!!

[@sharonnwosu8901]

Thanks for watching 🤎

[@mishubabyy]

Love this Sharon. You are a testimony

[@sharonnwosu8901]

Thanks for watching dear 🤎🤎🤎

[@nikkismith8447]

Beautiful video❤

[@sharonnwosu8901]

Thanks for watching! 🤎

[@favourose9611]

Thanks for this...im currently in one for 3 months plus abd uts been good. Still praying for clarity from God

[@geoffreydivine2227]

Thanks for sharing ❤ Happy holidays🎉

[@sharonnwosu8901]

🤎🤎🤎🤎

[@iloaniugochi3589]

Thanks so much Sharon❤

[@JosephFatoye]

Wow. God sent, this one.

[@alisonmonday2628]

Thank you Sharon ❤

[@sharonnwosu8901]

🤎🤎🤎🤎

[@annaanopuechi1341]

Hey Sharon, where did you share your story of where you met your husband?🙈

[@ko.k.2112]

Right, we're late to the party 😅

[@faitholuwadunmininu9127]

Thank you for this ma'am. Please can you shed ligh on setting emotional boundaries?

[@Listentomusicist]

great and godly tips!

[@sharonnwosu8901]

Thank you! 🤎

[@Bhumbee]

Thank you Sharon. This was highly needed. Would you advise a woman in a long distance relationship to visit the guy first especially when she hasn't even been introduced virtually to the guy's friends or relatives and vice versa?

[@sharonnwosu8901]

For safety purposes, it might be best for the guy to visit first 🤎

[@Pretty_amaakaah]

I am in a long distance relationship and my partner and i do all these but the only issue we have is arguments. We dont argue often and when we do we misunderstand each other. He is currently running a master's degree in the uk and he is always stressed out. I feel like he doesn't understand me and he feels i don't understand him. He asked for space after our last argument and i am devastated. I feel so guilty for starting it in the first place. I dont want to keep nagging him. I am willing to change. I've asked the Holy Spirit to help me be a better person. Pls what do i do. I feel so helpless right now. He has never been this angry😢

[@leahluvvanderson3131]

Let me say that arguments or disagreements in relationships and particularly in long distance relationships are to be expected. The key is that those disagreements have the potential to bring you two closer if you both are openly communicating together about your feelings and thoughts. It’s important that the both of you are self aware enough to consider the other person perspective and try to understand them better. Secondly, you will need to give him space to allow him to process his own emotions. Now, I will say that taking some space to gather yourself is okay, but he should be putting in effort to assure you that he is committed to the success of the relationship, but he simply just needs to gather his thoughts which is perfectly okay. I will caution you that taking too much space can be a sign of avoidance behavior and that kind of behavior is really not helpful in any relationship but especially long distance relationship. Don’t blame yourself for his behavior because it’s not your fault that he is angry. His anger is misplaced onto you which is not fair to you. When he comes back, I would calmly explain to him why this behavior is not okay and why it hurts you and the relationship. Lastly, it’s important to recognize what part you have to play in any conflict. No one is perfect and if your choose your partner and he choose you, you both are aware of each other imperfections but you still are committed to each other. It’s good to be self aware of not wanting to nag him but it’s okay to tell your partner hi you are feeling. As mentioned before, as uncomfortable as it can be, some disagreements can actually lead you both to understanding each other more. You both need to be willing to change for each other. It cannot just be one person who is invested. The reality is that life never stops. We will always be busy, but we have to learn how to prioritize what is important. If he really values the relationship, he will be open to what’s on your heart and try to make a change. When a man loves you, all he wants from you is to be happy that’s it. Hope this helps.

[@gloriaenwenna1924]

@@leahluvvanderson3131perfectly said I’m glad he asked for space and please I’d advice her to choose herself too

[@Pretty_amaakaah]

@leahluvvanderson3131 thank you so much🙏

[@EmpathImpact-1]

Thisssss 💯

[@sharonnwosu8901]

Thanks for watching!!

[@sportingarenatv7495]

I have a question what can you say about Christian ladies who pretend a lot they are growing in age and not in mind ? thank you for sharing.

[@sharonnwosu8901]

Thanks for watching! So sorry I don’t really understand the question

[@sportingarenatv7495]

@@sharonnwosu8901 Ok thank you

[@onyinyenezianya4194]

I saw that there is 10 hours time difference between Ukraine and LA which is kind of similar to my 7 hours difference

[@oyindamolabellobello4840]

Thank you for sharing mama 🌹.

[@sharonnwosu8901]

Thanks for watching dear 🤎

[@sportingarenatv7495]

True thank you.

[@OladipoAnnoluwatobi]

Thank you so much ma

[@ifeomaanyanwu2470]

Please what marriage devotionals did you use ?

[@sharonnwosu8901]

Hi! They were from the YouVersion Bible app. There are a lot of them so you can choose whichever you prefer 🥰

[@deeluther3108]

Love Your Video Queen Cute thumbnail tho Happy Holidays to You Thanks for the Tips You Looking So Damn Gorgeous Makeup Always Look Good Nice Ass Cheeks Bones Hope You have a Fabulous Weekend Stay Bless N Be safe Always

[@sharonnwosu8901]

Thank you! Have a great weekend!

[@deeluther3108]

@sharonnwosu8901 Anytime Queen Keep Doing Your ThinG Positive Vibes And Bless To You I Will Do

[@jerninzpaul7498]

Please add that long distance isn't for broke people 😩 how will they be flying ✈️ to see each other

[@sharonnwosu8901]

lol I mentioned you have to be ready for the financial commitment 😭

[@ulomaorji9458]

Or buy data to keep up…data is so expensive in Nigeria 😢

[@believersamuel6942]

Beautiful

[@sharonnwosu8901]

Thanks for watching!!

[@onyinyenezianya4194]

Thank you so much for this video How did you guys manage the time difference?

[@sharonnwosu8901]

@@onyinyenezianya4194 he worked mainly night shifts so that helped. But we tried to maximize golden hours

[@onyinyenezianya4194]

Okay thank you so much. I’ll be trying that maximising golden hours. I literally have to do maths and assign specific hours of the day when it’s right for both of us to talk. Thank you ❤️

[@chukwuprecious6732]

Thank you so much Sharon I ran from your IG story to watch this 🥹am in a 3month long distance relationship and asking myself if I could cope… The good thing is we both are good communicators but sometimes when his not disposed or unavailable I get little bothered even though he tells me ahead of his schedule 😢This is my first experience in long distance relationship… Thank you this video was helpful ❤

[@sharonnwosu8901]

I know it may seem harder but I’m glad you are good communicators. Please continue to pray to God as well for peace and clarity. I pray it all goes well! Thank you so much for watching 😘

[@Crystalscruise]

I already broke up with him 🥹

[@kamsirita360]

Thank you so much Sharon🤍. This blessed me.

[@sharonnwosu8901]

Glad it was helpful!

[@Rejoices_Story_Corner]

Thank you Sharon 🥰.

[@sharonnwosu8901]

Thanks for watching! 🤎