How It Feels Loosing A Loved One As An Immigrants In German Village

[@tammyjuice]

Our culture in Jamaica is very similar to Africa. Days of mourning. Music and food galore. I really like the idea of an invitation only funeral. It’s hard to have people who don’t like your family coming to eat and dance and shed tears of joy

[@annnafulag1875]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾Last point got me laughing especially eating 🤣🤣i am glad to learn you are from Jamaica, i keep on asking myself where do you come from 😊. Thanks you for making me laugh so hard 🤣🤣🤝🏾🤝🏾

[@mwendapoleee]

​@@annnafulag1875you know at home they are ppl who survive from those funerals 😅😅😅😅😅😢 the moment somebody just passes on they come and stay until They decide to go and food has to be cooked everyday cause mourning and food go together.😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@roswithacapels7667]

I'm so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences! 🌺

[@annnafulag1875]

❤❤❤Thanks dear

[@marthangosi9802]

I'm so sorry my dear over the passing of your dad. I know the feeling. Because I lost my husband of 45 years of marriage at home and I was in USA. But many friends and country men came to mourn with me. That made my life easier. Mind you not neighbors nor my workmates. So I hear you. Stay strong my dear. Prayers help a lot.

[@annnafulag1875]

Thanks dear 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@swaziM10]

God’s grace is upon you always Anne. Condolences again for your loss ❤

[@annnafulag1875]

Thanks dear, it is well 🙏🏽❤️

[@donnagibson4989]

The contrast is obvious. The African way is a journey that honors and celebrates the lost loved one and allows family and friends to outwardly grieve the loss. Beautiful. May you find comfort in memories of your father. You are not alone. Your peace and power lie within you and with the ever present divine creator. Sending compassion from my heart to yours.💕

[@annnafulag1875]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽Thanks dear

[@KawaMargarita-zw9ic]

Thanks for sharing all this story with us Ann, but it's really unfortunate that at least every one can't get married to her culture,coz i may find it so difficult to lose my loved en yo not allowed to cry, yet it also helps in wound healing, but anyway stay strong sweetie da good lord z their to comfort you,en may dad's soul continue resting with angles.

[@annnafulag1875]

Thanks you for your encouragement 🙏🏽❤️

[@junemaize1248]

Hi Ann I miss you and your babies just on praying for god to give you strength to bear the loss of your father and your father in law I pray that your heart will be heal may god bless you all in Jesus name 🙏

[@annnafulag1875]

Thanks alot dear June, it shall be well i believe 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@KennedyWafula-xj8hh]

Thanks you yaya for sharing

[@annnafulag1875]

Orioo koo

[@nildamarra9044]

Dear Ann I’m so sorry fo your loss of dear father maybe now is in better place 😢hope God give a conform,resibe my deep condolences 💐

[@annnafulag1875]

Thanks you so much dear Nilda, it shall be well 🙏🏽❤️

[@mwendapoleee]

I feel you ,i lost both parents , 2 yrs apart and could not even go for burial.I prayed to God to remove that pain cause it was terrible.Wacha nikwabie some germans are wicked my childrens granny passed on and my kids did not know i only got to know some time later.But God anatuondolea mambo zingine sababu zinakuja na balaa.

[@annnafulag1875]

Eeeh yani oma na wakakimya, hawa watu woooi mmmm, pole Sana dear 😍

[@mwendapoleee]

@@annnafulag1875 its okay, mambo ingine unawachia Mungu.

[@damariskinuthia6274]

Hallo Ann Herzlichen Beileid May God comfort and strength then you and your family during this difficult times Amen 🙏🏾

[@annnafulag1875]

Danke schön 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@queentinadoire6931]

I'm here for you Sis.❤ I love your family. I will be praying for the woman who lost her child. It was difficult when I lost my mom and I was here in the USA. I was living alone in my apartment and I cried all day by myself.

[@carolinewright9123]

I am praying for you Ann stay strong and be blessed 🙌 ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@annnafulag1875]

Thanks dear sis for your support and everything you are simply the best ❤️❤️🙏🏽

[@annnafulag1875]

Thanks dear Carol I really appreciate it alot❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽

[@kawiramucheke]

Hey Ann 👋 True,losing a loved one is the hardest one can ever go through,and for your case, in a foreign land. There 're all sorts of overwhelming emotions that afflict one and it's quite a struggle ! Personally,l find myself in this battle more than 2 years down the lane after losing my father... Take comfort in the fact that God is bigger than your loss and he's in this situation much as you're far away,Ann ❤❣

[@annnafulag1875]

Ameeeeeeen 🙏🏽🙏🏽🫂🫂be comforted too 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@carmeletabell4355]

Thank you very much for sharing. Have a blessed day

[@annnafulag1875]

Have a blessed day too dear ❤️

[@AM-ed4lj]

You are a strong woman yaya, keep on celebrating Papa's life. You are right, we just need to respect each others ways of life, we can't change nothing about it. Keep close to that lady yaya, God might be using you to save someone's life, my prayers to you both, keep strong in the Lord.

[@annnafulag1875]

Thanks dear yaya, yes we are in touch she's not fine at all, i belive she will be fine ❤️🙏🏽

[@AM-ed4lj]

Prayerfully, she will @@annnafulag1875

[@mariajoseph6819]

Pole sana Ann inanigusa sana

[@annnafulag1875]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@sylviamattiss6721]

Keeping you in prayers yaya. I hope God comforts your friend yaya it's hard here.

[@annnafulag1875]

Yaya thank you not easy at all, khuluma saa

[@sylviamattiss6721]

@@annnafulag1875 Khusaba Wele akhuyete mukosi.

[@roseluhanga395]

Hugs my dear.

[@annnafulag1875]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️

[@roselyne.1008]

God's grace is sufficient he will see you through. May you be comforted in him.

[@annnafulag1875]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@RandolphGrandeur]

Ihr Thema beschäftigt auch viele westliche Pfleger, Soziologen, Psychiater usw.: Dirk de Wachter Bekannter belgischer Psychiater: Es scheint auch, dass wir nicht wirklich wissen, was wir mit der Trauer anderer anfangen sollen. „Es sollte nicht zu lange dauern. Es sollte Sie nicht stören. Wir suchen den traurigen Menschen am Anfang, dann wollen wir weitermachen. Ich glaube nicht, dass wir Leiden vermeiden sollten, es ist ein unvermeidlicher Teil des Lebens. Wir müssen die Traurigkeit durchleben, erleben, fühlen. Wir kommen nicht um den Tod als Gesprächsthema herum. Es geht um Verbundenheit, darum, miteinander zu reden und den Mut zu haben, die Frage zu stellen, wie es wirklich läuft. Dann werden Sie merken, dass das sehr verbindende Diskussionsthemen sind, solche schwierigen Themen.“ Dirk de Wachter könnte sich in Afrika inspirieren lassen, das in vielerlei Hinsicht sozial besser funktioniert, aber der Westen verliert sich ein wenig.

[@annnafulag1875]

Vielen Dank für Ihren Beitrag. Ehrlich gesagt muss das Leben auf jeden Fall weitergehen. Übrigens können wir die Kultur anderer Menschen niemals ändern, ganz und gar nicht.

[@RandolphGrandeur]

In South of Europa they are more expressive then in the North op Europa, that counts too, maybe the rainy whether that turns us into our selves. Art helps also...kzbin.info/www/bejne/n5THYpZpe9WheZY@@annnafulag1875

[@CelestineLihavi-rw8kp]

Sorry for her, rest in peace 😢

[@annnafulag1875]

🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@marthangosi9802]

Did you manage to go home for the funeral?

[@annnafulag1875]

No i did not go