How Kids Make You Holy

[@KateLJ1799]

When she looks at him you can see in her face how much she loves him, especially when he's talking about parenthood and their children

[@normacindy7226]

I see that in him, too! :)

[@mattcollins7313]

Yeah their eyes give looks of love to each other. It's a wonderful thing to see in this time.

[@christophewakim3587]

Hey guys pray for me i am from Lebanon and pray for my family 🙏🏼🇱🇧❤️👪 and I pray for you.

[@lohanthony]

Jesus, Mary and Joseph, pray for us 🙏🏽

[@totustuustotalmentetuyo]

Yesssss! Holy Family, pray for us!

[@ForReal4sure]

Praise God for these parents speaking up! And let’s pray for those thumbs down people🙏🏼

[@michaelimbrenda2851]

I can confirm, as a 16 year old, that I made my parents more holy. My dad prays the rosary everyday because I started doing it myself and Gods graces have bestowed upon me like never before on that and he goes to mass every day too. I’m so thankful that I helped my parents out and want to help others too.

[@lvluxdelight]

Love that! Good for you.. must make God very proud 🙏❤

[@elisac.8611]

This is beautiful! Pray that one day soon I am blessed with a handsome, holy husband and family of my own.

[@flyesouisi]

As a single grandfather now, I sometimes have to look after 2 kids. I can relate to this; wish I had more energy though. But there is no more important thing than the task at hand which God gives you.

[@fxjrulpzxi]

Please pray for me to conceive 😢

[@luis_techie]

Praying for you 🙏

[@antoniopittet8919]

Try praying a novena, look one up for conception, anything is possible with God, and remember God loves the persistent prayer!

[@htphong24]

@galaxy_high I'm praying for you

[@brilohr7]

"Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven."

[@simonefera1223]

A priest at my church on the feast of the holy family said “no one has a perfect family, but with Christ everyone can have a holy family.” Really stuck with me!

[@GuadalupeZespol]

Saint John Paul’s dad’s name was also Karol:) and his mom’s name was Emilia. Doctors wanted her to abort the future pope because it was dangerous for her health and her life was in danger, but she decided to give birth to Karol -John Paul II:) The beatification process of his parents is open:) Greetings from Poland!;)

[@lvluxdelight]

Interesting that this topic came up for me: my husband and I want to have children very SOON, but have been scared because we met so young (met at 17) and only know eachother... it's been just the 2 of us for 20 years.. we believed we didn't want children and have the fear of "change", but the Holy Spirit is speaking VERY STRONG to me & has been for a while...... if I may ask anyone reading this: please say a quick prayer to God that we can conceive quickly and have healthy children...Mike & Meghan 🙏 it means the world to me.. thank you and God bless you ❤

[@Coolbricks664]

Praying for you 🙏💗 God's Will be done 👼 Being a mom/parent is the most rewarding & challenging "job" vocation ever & definitely worth everything 🙋‍♂️🦸‍♂️💗 God Bless you ✝️🌟

[@jesseholthaus8357]

Having children is the hardest and the most rewarding thing you will ever do. It’s not for the faint of heart. But, if you can summon the courage, you won’t regret it. My wife and I had our first child in our 40s. We are tired and our married life is no longer our own. But, there’s nothing in our lives before children that is better than this.

[@lvluxdelight]

@@jesseholthaus8357 I really appreciate your response.. I don't know why it's been such a hard decision for us..I guess we're both scared of losing that "in love" feeling and honestly..I have so many fears of my life changing.. I'm Catholic and do want to complete God's will.. this whole decision has been stressing me out terribly.. but I feel your word of "courage" is so great.. sometimes it's hard to envision what's on the other side of that invisible mountain.. your words did inspire me and I am very grateful 🙏

[@lvluxdelight]

@@Coolbricks664 thank you for replying love.. yes, I trust His Will..I would be lying if I said I wasn't scared.. but I guess life definitely involves that "leap of FAITH" sometimes..God bless you as well! 🙏❤

[@RinaRomo]

Your marriage should be open to doing God’s will and if his will is for you and your spouse to have children then your marriage needs to be open to life. Praying for you

[@carolflowergirl5267]

That beautiful moment at mass when your daughter leaned into you, was Christ through her saying “job well done”

[@KarenStClair-cs1gd]

"Hot mess" hahaha It literally feels sooo nice to hear other parents say how it can be a struggle with our little ones at mass sometimes but we are leaving such a legacy of faith with our children that it is definitely sooo worth it!! Thank you so much for sharing!!

[@lindaarias9698]

Thank you for helping old parents and new parents. My children and my grandchildren are my BLESSING OF GOD.

[@gregschuler1596]

All so true! We have six kids, two still at home, one college, one high school. Plus expecting our seventh grandchild in May!! It's rewarding seeing the college age one find time in her crazy schedule to get to Sunday Mass. Rewarding to see our grandkids baptized. Still pretty crazy though. We babysit two to four of our grandkids five days a week. I don't think it ever ends. LOL

[@lvluxdelight]

That is beautiful

[@IONov990]

Children kill your ego because they are incredibly honest and they give us an opportunity to serve.

[@shelbysass3540]

Please do a video on trusting in God while struggling with infertility

[@websurfin9575]

These 2 are missionaries to other families.... presenting Godly counsel for Christians to live by.

[@SolutionsforSimplicity]

This was such a wonderful message that couldn’t be more timely. As someone who used to be able to “do it all,” I’ve struggled greatly with how drastically different my life is since having kids. But it’s all for His glory and you’re so right: raising our kids to reach eternal life is wayyyyyy more important than having anything to “show” for our efforts. Thank you!

[@kt5137]

Words about family I have never heard of before. Thank the words make so much sense thank you!! So brave thank you praying for you all.

[@domenical.2261]

Jackie is the notorious goofy person in the relationship, and Bobby looks all serious but I’m pretty sure he’s a goof ball off camera too 🤣🤣

[@griseldatrevino2298]

You all are amazing! Praying for your continued ministry and love when sharing our Catholic Faith. We are all in it together. Our goal is to get our children to heaven! And our lives are no longer about us! AMAZING! ST. JOHN PAULL II PRAY for this beautiful couple to continue sharing the LOVE OF OUR BELOVED JESUS. I know that they have impacted my walk and we will one day meet in heaven rejoicing with you! AMEN!

[@steevechofe860]

Very important message. May God bless you always!!!

[@dsc4178]

5 children. I find myself less tired after the 4th was born. I guess I learned how to handle the issues, finally.

[@rachelnancoo-charles1683]

Bobby you've certainly encouraged me to keep trying at going to mass with my kids. They are 3 and 5. I feel exactly like you described, exhausted and as though it's not for me but only for them.

[@annamarie3356]

Thank you! I feel like I need this reminder every day!

[@dakabaka4912]

Remember, keep your kids away from the internet. They can go from watching a cartoon to seeing the most depraved content imaginable in less than a minute. I know it from experience, its not a joke. I had unmonitored and unfiltered access to the internet all through my childhood. I think I might be going through therapy for the rest of my life. You're child's innocence could be taken away, instantly. Is it really worth the risk?

[@riyascorner9198]

I've been through that and through Christ he saved me from it... it was hard but Christ always picked me up when I fell and led me away from pornography. I pray you can comfort in our lord :0)

[@helens8977]

You can get software to help filter what your child sees and block inappropriate sites.

[@hummingbirdee9389]

@@helens8977 yes.... Covenant Eyes

[@lvluxdelight]

I couldn't agree more!!! My best friend's oldest daughter is 14 years old that has never been allowed social media.. she has so much innocence.. if I am blessed with a child..I will DEFINITELY take hers and your advice! There is too much evil on the internet..I would protect them from that ❤🙏

[@cassandrarosa4106]

I adore this video story line

[@Cloggindancer]

I’m so glad I’m not the only one who channels High School Musical on a regular basis 😁 Thanks again for the pep talk!

[@ronnialbright1513]

I dont want kids, but I salute people who do.

[@isabelcasillas4856]

🤷‍♀️So true💯🤦‍♀️-patience, kindness n love gets us thru chaos🙏!

[@UnQuerubin]

Wish, all husbands would validate the exhausting work 😊. Thank you!

[@Richie016]

a more self-reliant approach to set goals in one's life ensures being fair to oneself and others while learning more about the truth of God's message.

[@angrypotato_fz]

Pope John Paul II's father's name is easy to remember, because he had the same name as his son, Karol (Charles) :) It's heartwarming to listen to you :) All the best and thank you.

[@77thTrombone]

I misheard the starting blurb. I thought Bobby's "scandiavian" remark was about his _blonde_ wife. Otherwise: When my wife & I married, I was atheist, she was "nominal Muslim." Afterward, she found Jesus, and she brought me back. I have to say that being married in Christ, and raising children with Christ, is the _only way_ to go. It makes everything (including & especially the challenges) more better.

[@gigifontanilla6288]

I cannot have kids ; ( but I am still open to marriage and adoption.

[@christinebutler7630]

If you can't have kids, are you eligible for marriage?

[@tatum6221]

@@christinebutler7630 of course she is

[@tatum6221]

Ask St. Anne to intercede for you in finding a man who is willing to go on the journey of adoption with you!

[@Elijah_Al-Naysaburi]

To me always 17 years-old & under , should under control of parents , I don't trust they should learn freely without any faith.

[@lisbethturbi331]

Hi Jackie and Bobby! Can you please make a video about homeschooling and resources out there for Catholics ? Thank you!🙏🏽🤍 Just a future mom preparing herself

[@vivians3696]

You start homeschooling at birth lol! And you and yr spouse will always teach by example. Around age 2 or 3 start the abcs etc. choose catholic homeschool curriculum.

[@ruthnoelmarie...9061]

#LOL May God give you the Strength. My Momma had thirteen children...two sets of twins to 🥾! 🤣🙏🏻🙌🏻🕊 #AllInThisTogether

[@mumudolce]

I needed this today. Thank you, friends.

[@IngridFelfly]

So beautiful. God bless🙏💜

[@dragosc8326]

John Paul II's parents were Emilia and Karol Wojtyła Snr. surely praying with their son now. For us all...

[@adrianatorres4813]

Jackie singing High School Musical 😂 Keep up the good work

[@anadeanda6421]

Thank you fir sharing! Wish I would had seen this, accepted it and believe it when I was discerning who to marry....4but such is life - all we can do is focus on getting our children, spouse and family to heaven. Maybe our children wise listen and make wise decision. 🙏🙏🙏

[@victoria103]

You both are amazing!! 🤍🙏🏼🙌🏼

[@Lambsown78]

Thanks guys. Beautiful message.

[@normaortega1509]

🤗 thank you, for Remind me what my compromise in life.

[@akosibangbang]

we missed you guyyyyyyssssss!!!!!

[@nala7723]

This video solidifies my belief in not wanting children.

[@shaggykorty8228]

Hey Ascension - is there anyway we could get a whole series on this theme of your kids will make you holy? Maybe one is about the parents of saints and saints who were parents. Another on praying with your kids. When it's okay to fail because they have free will, raising someone who might be/is called to holy orders, etc. Possibly rotating between hosts? I feel like most of us parents struggle with this. Please and thank you.

[@laurenberlin2257]

#AskAscension Thank you for always bringing the light and truth of our Lord in your videos! My question is...how do you know it's a good time to start pursuing a relationship for marriage? Is there a "time" in singleness where you are supposed to know? Thanks!

[@johnclark1371]

I’m no expert, but have been happily married for 38 years. I think finding and sustaining relationships require an open heart that allows us to be vulnerable. I think the timing will take care of itself if you leave yourself open to a committed relationship. Relying on your faith to guide you and not fearing the opening of your heart to a person that you love is key. Don’t force it. God has a plan for you, cooperate in faith, hope and love with that plan.

[@ThanksHermione]

How do you pray when you have small kids to care for?

[@iancavon7125]

There are lots of awful, even abusive parents. Either you are a good person or you are not; making babies doesn't alter that. Kids don't make you "holy" (if you aren't already), they just make you....parents. And let's face it: In some cases they're even the reason, or at least one of the reasons, for the parents' marriage to ultimately fail. I know couples who, although they of course love their children, have become quite unhappy due to the manifold demands of family life. Truth is, not really ALL people are called to parenthood, and many only realize that they're not when it's already too late. This is something we very rarely talk about frankly, especially in Catholic circles.

[@lvluxdelight]

These are my scariest fears..I sometimes feel I really wasn't meant to have kids with my husband..I can tell he doesn't really want it...I don't even think I do, but then I feel that God wants me to 😔 we've been together since we were 17..20 (15 of marriage) years later: we really are still in love and I'm so scared of losing that.. he's my best friend.. this entire decision is so hard to make.. I'm going to speak to a priest about it soon.. I'm now 37.. so I need to make a decision pretty soon. My mom says things similar to you bc she raised 7 kids and they grew up and ignore her.. over her political beliefs.. horrible! I'm the youngest and do everything for her..uhh, I really need prayers .. biggest decision of my life..I do want to stay happy

[@momono6247]

The biggest mistake I made was entrusting myself to a faithless pagan. The promises a man makes while dating are not kept after the wedding day (if they even are before the wedding day).

[@gabriellabaka]

JPII's father: Karol Wojtyła en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karol_Wojty%C5%82a_(senior) :)

[@luis_techie]

❤️

[@angelcruz-zeta9726]

Amen! May i pls know title of the book?

[@douglastranghese7270]

I have two 6 week old twins at home. Help.

[@wesleyleal7550]

St Joseph had it easy. He had the holiest one as his kid

[@teresad7102]

True, but when anything went wrong it was his fault 😉

[@amaiers4861]

Lol I thought the title was how many kids makes you holy 😂

[@laureneonunkwo4519]

How do I ask questions relating to faith formation?

[@acatholiclatina]

Do you mean directly to Jackie & Bobbie, or just in general? You can always refer to your local Catholic parish. They can guide you every step of the way.😉 God bless you Laurene!🕊

[@laureneonunkwo4519]

@@acatholiclatina thank you so much!! I wanted to ask Ascension, but my local Parish actually answered me. Thanks again. God bless you

[@mayragossettandrade2418]

What does your daily prayer schedule look like to include your children?

[@Tybourne1991]

Your words move, resonate with and inspire us. I think the only point worth adding is that heaven is not our final destination- it’s the resurrection! What difference does that make, to the bodily nature of parenting?

[@tomboyraider1015]

how about also giving some praise for those who choose not to have kids. Childfree people (not just nuns and those leading religious lives, I mean ordinary ppl) also know parenthood isn't always easy and are still capable of being holy.

[@fredg5109]

depends why you choose not to have kids. if you choose to devote yourself to God as a single person so you can better serve your neighbour, or to devote yourself to God as a parent so you can better serve your immediate family, fair enough. If you choose never to have children out of wanting to enjoy life for yourself alone or because of family-caused trauma, that's not to be celebrated.

[@stephaniegonzales6032]

Can't finish the video cuz of the little ones .....lol

[@helloworld1272]

Nothing to do with the video, I just need help. Would it be a sin to not go to confession because you play a sport and have a game at the same time confession is?

[@onemore5952]

I’m not an expert in the subject but I would say that in the grand scheme of things, skipping one is not a problem. Just make sure you go to the next confession after the game. 🧸

[@helloworld1272]

@@onemore5952 so bit of an update. I didn’t go the next confession because my parent said no. I know one time I overslept thinking it was Friday instead of Saturday. There was one yesterday at but I wasn’t ready and the person taking us had to cancel. There is one today but I have a game again. I tried to go last Sunday. It would have been rushed and I want many sure I would make it but I didn’t get the chance because one of my family members felt sick. So kinda at a loss because the next time there is confession I won’t have anyone that will want to take me.

[@onemore5952]

@@helloworld1272 hi there! I wouldn’t worry too much about it. God knows you and he is your friend, he will be ready to receive your confession when the time and circumstances allows it.

[@dunamisbacchus]

Not gonna lie, I was nervous it was going to be Mike with his kids. I've heard priest can be married if they are before becoming priest but never seen it in real life.

[@ioakeimmanikas6430]

It is not true, some people want to approve it but marriage is not for the priests, if anyone is married is automatically out of the Catholic Church, see what happened to Martin Lutero, he challenged the Church getting married and that is one of the reasons he is now in hell

[@cristinavetsch3468]

Many excellent points. However, i believe that God is sovereign. I think it is a great burden to put on ourselves if we think that we are responsible for getting our kids to heaven. It is God's job ultimately. Sure, it is wise to marry a Christian, but it is the ideal, not the real situation in many families. Indeed it is a blessing to be brought up in a Christian home, but by no means the only way to have an encounter with Jesus Christ and be saved. Thoughts?

[@onemore5952]

Parents helping their kids to heaven... I guess then all the orphans kids in this world stand very little chance of entering heaven then. 🧸

[@christinebutler7630]

Kids are your punishment for the sin of Eve and the penance for having sex. That's how they make you holy.

[@shuatock8216]

Bruh, what??? Children are a gift :)

[@domore4381]

why do you pray to mary? Why do you pray for the death? Why do you make idols and graven images? Why do you confess sins to pope or priest? Why do you call Pope Holy father? Why do you pay to save the death soul? Why do you ban marrying those who want to do full time missionary? Why do you Baptised infants who doent even know sin or repentance? Why do you say roman catholic church as the supreme authority? An so on and on... give me bible verse