How Kindergarten Affects Children [Attachment Theory Applied]

[@sprouts]

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[@heatwave5628]

My experience was terrible! I was a very sensitive child and this annoyed my caretakers, so I could cry for hours, feeling abandoned in a hostile environment. I even stopped to speak, because I didn't want to communicate with anybody. It took me a year to accept the new environment, the caregivers and the mates, and to stop crying.

[@sprouts]

The sad reality of not too few 🙏

[@omneyaadlan9501]

Am very lucky to be a teacher in a place that applies this separation exactly! We have happy confident children. Lovely and insightful video thank you

[@stephenthompson3309]

My mom got a college degree in teaching and then spent several years as a high school chemistry teacher before she had me, her firstborn. When it came time to start me on school, she knew from her experience that she never wanted to send me to a public school and opted instead to homeschool me, all the way through high school. Neither her nor I have regretted that decision. I graduated summa cum laude with honors on my bachelor's degree in computer science and now have a steady, salaried job with benefits. Never did drugs; never got arrested; accomplished many things during my school years which I'm proud of; made great, lasting friends in Parks & Rec sports and church. I can sympathize with the realities which prevent many from homeschooling though they would want to, and I hope that measures will be taken to remove these barriers in the future. But certainly, if you have that option, I'd strongly advise you to take it. How much is too much to sacrifice for your child and their future?

[@sprouts]

Thanks for sharing. Fantastic insight how one can raise a child.

[@marcodalu5494]

basically you are calling for a mother to leave work and dedicate all of her life to her kids i don't know how much i like such a situation

[@NKDpiano]

@@marcodalu5494 Your child did not ask to be born. It's parents' DUTY and OBLIGATIONS to raise their children and provide them with the best conditions available. If you're not sure you can spend that much time with your kids, then don't have them.

[@marcodalu5494]

@@NKDpiano so in your opinion a woman has to be either a mother or a worker?

[@NKDpiano]

@@marcodalu5494 Why are you making this a sex thing? Either the mother or the father needs to do it, whoever is available. Also I'm not telling anyone to drop everything to care for the child, but at least raising a child is a team effort, and both people need to pitch in.

[@Yogi-sq4oj]

Thank God my caretaker during that time was my neighbour and by the time I went to primary school I had enough frnds who would go to school with me. But a lot of classmates used to cry whole day fall sick frequently because they got beaten by their parents to go to school

[@EmpowermentPsychology]

I found this story incredibly insightful and inspiring! As a therapist, I’ve seen how early childhood experiences shape our adult lives, and this German model’s emphasis on attachment and security in education aligns perfectly with what I’ve observed. The idea of easing children into the school environment with a familiar caregiver is a compassionate approach that respects their emotional needs. This channel has motivated me to start my own channel to share more about how attachment theory and other psychological principles can be applied to education and parenting. I want to continue the conversation and help educate others about these vital topics. I’m curious, how do you think this approach could be adapted to other educational or caregiving settings? What was your experience like when you started school, and how do you think it impacted you later in life? I’d love to hear your thoughts and stories! Let’s get a discussion going in the comments!

[@sprouts]

Thanks and great to hear that we inspired you to start your own channel. Makes us proud!

[@goldenhoneybee8128]

Seven to thirty-six months is NOT a child. It is a baby and then a toddlee. If possible, they should.not be warehoused in any center or school. They should be mothered or fathered, if at all.possible. We are getting babies to bond with government employees (public school teachers) instead of their families.

[@CharlotteG754]

Where are all pro-lifers 😅 In US there is no such programs in place to support families and wellbeing of new born children. I agree that mothers should stay with their children at least until they are 4 years old before giving them to daycare. Child absolutely needs mother and their brain is developing at this time the most - any trauma - studies show eve ln brief ones - have permanent negative effect on children.

[@emirlerdtm6774]

Pro-lifers only care about abortion unfourtanately. @@CharlotteG754

[@tomasprochazka6198]

@@CharlotteG754 In my EU country, we do. You get 1/2 of minimal wage. And people wonder why the birth rate goes down, meanwhile housing prices goes up.

[@oyewaleafolabi9637]

Interesting concept but can a model be developed for a less developed country...

[@TheGuggo]

In 2021, our son went, like all the kids in his class, through the same induction program as the one described in this video. All the kids were isolated for most of their first 2 years due to several lockdowns and social distancing. During the 9 months of the school year my son has been sick for almost half of the time and he passed his ailments to us. I think that there might be the case of the kid’s immune system getting weaker due to the stress of being left alone in a foreign environment. But definitely the parents should be mostly immune from those sicknesses. In our case there is a correlation between exposure to infections and previous isolation.

[@MaliRasko]

I thought this is how all kindergardens function. I dont remember how long the intro was … but I was there hanging out with the kiddo when we were starting with the kindergarden thing

[@Hour-girl122]

Sadly it's not allowed everywhere. A child got attached to me in a setting and I was moved to another room which I'm pretty sure traumatized the child.

[@TCSGaming-qj2sw]

I would argue the same for elementary school in general.

[@sprouts]

Right

[@immortallegend648]

Maybe we should come to the realization that dropping your kids off with a government vetted stranger isn't natura, and should be avoided.

[@BeFreeForInfinity]

Yup. This 💯💯💯

[@ViolenVaymire]

100%. Two parents working is an abuse on children that should be illegal. Someone must be the homemaker, MUST be there for their children at all times. It should not be considered exhausting to care for your children! Capitalism has infected everyones mind. Its all about you now, and consuming as much as possible. Children are why we exist at all, it should be the most important thing to us all. If women want to work that is fine, But we must accept men as the new homemakers if thats the case. Men tho, are unfortunately(on average) terrible home makers. They are too fullof pride, ego and many other traits that stop them from being effective home makers. We need to teach both men and women that is is a necessary job someone MUST do. It not only is the best option for your children, But also takes ALOT of stress of both of you.

[@immortallegend648]

@@ViolenVaymire I'm finding men being more prepared to care for children than women at this time. I think the problem is more materialism than capitalism.

[@ViolenVaymire]

​@@immortallegend648 I specifically state capitalisim instead of materialism as Most people these days cant afoord to be materlistic, yet all the same they are slaves to consumption. There is alot of junk food media out there rn. Anything tiktok related, most things social media related, and most things on youtube even. You can now cunsume for free and still be a slave to the exploition of capistlism. This has a very poor effect on ones overall character. But yes, Men are often better then they used to be.

[@immortallegend648]

@@ViolenVaymire not being able to buy things are a new phenomenon, and what ultimately feeds capitalism. Our form of capitalism has become cancerous for sure, but it was permitted by materialism.

[@issyf9589]

The decline in illness could be from the retention from exposure due rather than comfort levels, you would never know.

[@nothingthere3959]

I'm an adult and I get sick after dealing with a huge stress, and studies that show how stress weakens the immune system exist too. I don't have a reason to think that small children are any different - they are also humans, not some aliens from another planet, and if they get basically abandoned by parents in some weird place where they don't know anyone and they are too small to understand the logic behind such behaviour of their parents then it looks like a huge stress for them. I remember I felt like my parents don't want me and they might leave me forever in that kindergarten when I started to attend one. I had been constantly getting sick for a few years, my parents didn't know what to do with me like being that. Then due to circumstances they changed kindergarten and teachers in the new kindergarten actually put in efforts to help me to adjust in there. And a wonder had happened - I stopped getting sick all the time. Psyche is part of a human being, it makes sense to take care of it too, and also to take it into account when things happen.

[@ireneb3433]

I'd love to know how breached (insecure) attachments might result in over-attachment to 'stuff' (aka 'hoarding disorder' which, since 2013, has been recognised in the DSM5 as a mental health condition).

[@Sarafimm2]

This is very interesting. What about when children transition to higher grades or change schools due to the family moving to a new school district or new town? Have there been any studies on that? I know some "military brats" do well when arriving at a new school, while others have great difficulties. I experienced some trauma moving between schools in the same town between fourth grade and fifth grade. And again when we moved to a new town during seventh grade. When I entered highschool in ninth grade, it was a totally new environment with a ton more teens and difficulties I had with previous classmates in seventh and eighth grade seemed to disappear quickly.

[@sprouts]

Excellent question. We aren’t aware of any research, but there sure must be an effect.

[@youtubecommentator6023]

I think each kid is different and blossoms only in the right environment or with the right people. I used to be the shyiest kid you've ever met. I wouldn't talk to strangers and I sat alone at lunch almost all of my sophomore year in high school due to not having any friends because we moved. I finally found a group of really good friends and Holy crap, I soared. I'm more outgoing, I can even approach a crowd of people and start talking to them when something like that would've absolutely terrified me before. Each kid is going to have different needs and I think it's up to the parents to make sure they're aware of them. Not doing so is probably what leads kids to hurting themselves or isolating themselves.

[@na-talemay9741]

If parents are ok with minds than kids are not in unsureness and healthy to leave for own experiences..If these are trustfull ongoing

[@scopemindsolutions]

Good... keep doing... thanks.

[@farshidmilan5375]

Being alone and learn to deal with it is necessary and should be confronted as early as possible. This model cannot be successful because the child is presented with a caregiver one after another and doesn't get the point that he should learn to survive on his own.

[@nothingthere3959]

What ae you talking about? Toddlers aren't designed by nature to survive on their own at that age. Human beings learn to survive on their own later than that in life, during completely different developmental stage.

[@maplebunny3089]

I wonder if that why other countries like japan and German schools do this

[@best_blink_]

uhhhhh......school will start in one month😢😢😢

[@vaclav222]

School is really useful and fun the only problem is the sheer amount of information givin at one time hence cut ur day of playing by a huge margin if you are a slow learner so they filter the smart from the not so smart, the system is shit but i am 38 year old and i do self study math i reached calculus now from self study on my own pace becuse if i were in school its a race and you cant catch your breath you either pass or fail no time to digest and learn

[@best_blink_]

​@@vaclav222idk man, but I hate it

[@best_blink_]

Uhhh anyways

[@lio9330]

3:36

[@NoemilaLoggiaGRF]

Did anyone notice that the calendar has 35 days 1:26. Sorry just saying. Congrats on your book Sprouts.

[@MaybeIWillPutANameOneDay]

Are you stupid? Calendars follow that layout once days in a month R over, they start the next week.. check a digital calendar

[@joshuasbecreative8444]

I went to a special needs School because I was born sick and sampled I have a disability called cerebral palsy me I can't walk or stand at all but I'm sorry because indicate but I went to his Special Needs school you know I didn't have a problem you know I did feel afraid the first time but after a while that was my experience anyway and by the way my disability is called cerebral palsy means I can't walk but mine is called faster through policy more specifically if you want to know anyway awesome video by the way I enjoyed it

[@sprouts]

Thanks for sharing

[@marcodalu5494]

in my personal experience breastfeeding plays a major role in 0-3 years kids health my wife breastfeeded both my sons and they time to time were sick my nephews both weren't breastfeeded and both of them have been sick much more i think this health issue here is stronger than the psycological one by even though i'm not neglecting it at all

[@TheAllSeeingEye2468]

Idk about this

[@asthadas2005]

Honestly I don't think my parents are willing to waste this much time for me 😂

[@best_blink_]

I think we should have distance education system, u can study any time u want to and in ur own pace, it really matters... What do you guys think???

[@tobiasvincent839]

fuck schooling

[@TheTruthIsNowHateSpeech]

Kindergarten is childabuse.

[@BeFreeForInfinity]

Who even came up with this dumb school idea anyways?

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It turns out that literacy is a good thing. Contrast the society you live in to any that doesn't promote schooling, especially the schooling of girls.

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