How Marketing Yourself Attracts Love | Kimmy Seltzer | TEDxApex

Marketing yourself can attract the love you want. Kimmy Seltzer of kimmyseltzer.com is a Confidence Therapist, Authentic Dating Strategist, and Image Expert. With vast knowledge and experience as a therapist, certified style coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, she has helped people find lasting love and connection, attract success and build valuable relationships using her unique “confidence makeover” process. Using an outside-in approach, Kimmy implements targeted style, emotional and social intelligence in people’s lives using her signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient,” working on body language, first impressions, image/wardrobe, and flirting and how it impacts attraction. Kimmy is also a regular contributor to the Huffington Post with appearances in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Redbook, Reader’s Digest and Fox News Magazine, among a myriad of other publications and news media.You can also listen to her on her popular podcast, The Charisma Quotient. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

[@AlexCattoni]

Amazing Kim!!!!! You’re a great speaker! Love this so much.

[@KimmySeltzer]

AWWWWW thank you so much Alex! That means a ton coming from a rock star like you! 💕❣

[@CoachDeb]

The Lady In Red ❤ … with charisma 😊🎉 Love how you “flipped the script” on a popular belief about “what’s on the inside” … because like you’re explained, if nobody sees you… LOVE 💕 may pass you by. Here’s to the 3C formula you shared! ((Runs out to buy a red dress 💃🏻 for FlightClub)) heehee Boom Chucka Lucka 💃🏻

[@KimmySeltzer]

Aw CoachDeb thank you so much! I so appreciate your feedback and loved that you got the message 😄. I hope everyone who sees this has a Red Dress Moment in their life❤💞

[@TimBratton]

The Charisma Quotient is a very helpful model. Excellent TED Talk!

[@KimmySeltzer]

Wow Tim thank you and so glad that you enjoyed it and took in the Charisma Quotient! I so appreciate you! 💗

[@Draakie100]

There is something only a few people really understand....and it sounds very egocentric....but you can only be the best person you can be by focussing your energy 100% on being happy with yourself. Because only when you are happy (at peace) with yourself you can be the best person to the world around you. But then you also realise that to be at peace with yourself is when you live in a peaceful environment. So by creating a better world you create a better you (jmho). I wish everybody a peaceful life 🙏

[@FreeSpirit47]

I agree. Maybe it's just me, I seem to attract more of what I want when my house is clean. It could be that I feel more at peace, more secure, happier, knowing my house is clean, even when I'm not home very much. The feeling of going home to a clean, organized, beautiful space is one of the best feelings in life. To me, it is, anyway.

[@Draakie100]

@@FreeSpirit47 Hello new friend...if you are cleaning with a massive smile on your face you are doing nothing wrong. 😃

[@DepkeWellness]

Thank you Kim...I now see myself differently. Such a powerful message!

[@KimmySeltzer]

Wow thanks Depke Wellness! So glad this inspired a different perspective of yourself!♥

[@wendywagner9852]

Her story drew me right in. What a great ambassador for putting our best self forward! Great great talk!

[@KimmySeltzer]

Aw thank you Wendy! I hope to inspire everyone to put their best self forward!💓

[@danarichie9813]

Kimmy's message about loving yourself from the outside in is empowering for men and women everywhere, and they way she delivers that message is both inspiring and captivating. I enjoyed hearing Kim open up about her own experiences as a single woman and a trained therapist, and how she draws upon these experiences to help transform people all over the world to find both self love and romantic love. What a needed and aspirational message. Bravo to you Kimmy, keep up the incredible work!

[@KimmySeltzer]

Thank you so much Dana! That means a ton and so glad you got the message. Thanks for spreading the love ❤

[@glenledwell1404]

Amazing, What a great take on confidence

[@KimmySeltzer]

Glen!! Thank you so much and so humbled by your compliment. I appreciate you!! ❤

[@robyncrane9095]

Super insightful and engaging!

[@KimmySeltzer]

AWWW Robyn thank you so much! That feedback means the world! ❣

[@lscd9300]

True confidence begins on the inside but should be visible/shared with others in the way one presents themselves. Enjoyed hearing your story of personal growth/self awareness and how your helping others!

[@patriciabonarigo889]

Great job. Really pulls people in by using herself as an example. Dynamic speaker. She is so full of life, so easy to listen to, and so right in what she is saying.

[@KimmySeltzer]

Patricia thank you sooooo much❣Your feedback means the world and so appreciated!!!

[@621ProductionsNC]

Great message Kimmy!

[@KimmySeltzer]

Thank you so much and thank YOU for doing such a bang up job with filming and making me look good 😀

[@snr1979]

Such a great concept! I never thought about love and dating this way. 👍🏾

[@KimmySeltzer]

Sonia thank you so much and I'm so happy this inspired a different perspective! I so appreciate you! 💕

[@ronaldreich7907]

Love this video!

[@KimmySeltzer]

Thank you Ronald! That is so nice of you and thanks for watching! ❤

[@relentlessapprentice]

Great job, Kimmy! Congratulations on this amazing achievement! 😊

[@KimmySeltzer]

Lucas!!! Thank you so much that means a ton!!!❣

[@chaddurfee660]

This is amazing!!!

[@KimmySeltzer]

Thank you Chad!!