How Men Behave When They Realize They Don't HAve Power Over You

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[@MichelleJacks144]

Yep

[@JoeKing-lv5rf]

Buy nothing from this absolute joke of a "man". Save yourselves.

[@barbymadison878]

Whether a man "sees your true worth" or not really shouldn't matter. We fall into the same trap of women prioritizing men's thoughts over our own beliefs. Who cares how they feel? How do WE feel about the woman in the mirror?

[@BrendaBaBoom]

🎯🎯🎯

[@DiamondsRexpensive]

Point

[@mmxw2294]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@blessedblessed5018]

Girl.. I wasn't try to cry today but here you go

[@veronicafior2714]

We don’t marry ourselves

[@jessicat2304]

Dude told me he isnt interested anymore. Cool I fell back. Calm. Week later he blowing my phone, texting me. This BISH man started fuming and going crazy. Asking how i'm doing. It's the ego, control and audacity some of these men have. They want you to cry beg and plead to give them a boost, even when they don't want you. When you agree with them and fall back, they dont like that cuz it doesn't stroke their ego. They're toxic. RUN.

[@veebliss1266]

He just admitted it’s rare to find a good guy who won’t take advantage of you , then we have men crying on social media all day saying women are the predator , gold diggers 😂😂😂 users …OKKK make it make sense ?! They are all projecting their bad traits on us 🤷‍♀️

[@nikkilong7377]

Girl they are confused. Men fail to realize they have caused a lot of their issues themselves but want to justify it by blaming women. This whole "we're not allowed to be emotional" I don't know one woman that has ever said I hate a man that cries. Men are extremely emotional and won't acknowledge that it is okay because we are humans. There are still men out there that have a logical sense. It is up to us women to take the responsibility of leaving toxic alone. The only way the men will change their ways is when women teach them how we want to be treated by not accepting unexcusable behavior. I personally feel since men are the leaders they need to take the accountability and reevaluate how they approach women. But like this man said "show strength". They will treat women the way we allow them to.

[@a.healthbeauty9173]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@sweetladyvee3102]

Right smh

[@marymotherofgod4861]

Absolutely it’s slim pickings these days I’m over it they r usually cheap controlling too many baby mamas etc or VIOLENT it’s much harder for woman to date than men 😮

[@mmxw2294]

Based on my life alone they are the ones

[@Itsalllove1111]

The crazy thing is I used to be dumb and submissive, then I got smart and men definitely respect me more. But I don’t even want a relationship or a man now. I only think of men when I have an itch to scratch or a bill to pay😂. I know this sounds harsh but I will never go back to the person I used to be. I am much more in control of my life now.

[@jaybae7315]

You looking into the window of my life. It took me a long time to realize that men say they want good women but they don’t. They look at good women as weak. And then they start to abuse those women. In summary, NO MORE NICE GIRL!

[@Nicksgf09]

Amen!!!

[@Pandagirl33]

There are good worthy men out there. Your feminine energy and self respect will always be their kryptonite

[@leeche87]

Tell me how to achieve this ,i can't get over craving love 😨

[@adaofcharles1217]

Stay wicked 👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸s.

[@Jenjenn1111]

You are so on point….my last relationship ended because he only wanted control and power. The minute I started standing up, asking questions, demanding mutual respect…he lost all interest. Good riddance!

[@veebliss1266]

Narcissist

[@donnaatienza8001]

Yes the same thing happened to me and I learned my lesson well.

[@angiebabe8351]

Yes 🤦🏼‍♀️ same happened to me

[@fizzo971]

Same here

[@SS-in1ts]

Same….it’s such a turn off.

[@miamobeachgoddess]

“I love the power that I have over you more than love I have for you” 😮‍💨 Deep.

[@belovedsage7731]

I needed this when I was 18❤️

[@miamobeachgoddess]

@@belovedsage7731 right !!! Sheesh , we’ll you live and learn.

[@terranesha5784]

Submissive brings out the predator in men who has low self esteem.. it allows them to build it with you. It happened with me glad I divorced it.

[@mariami9773]

that’s very true… sad but true

[@MadeMan376]

you was with a narc thats why

[@Godsfavoritefairy]

@@MadeMan376how?

[@yingliwang3028]

Very true.

[@kara_xo]

the monster in incel men who are all over the manosphere who claim they want traditional women to submit to them but they aren’t traditional men would be a great video too!

[@Sublimebutterflyy]

Yes there is this trend of men wanting a submissive woman and they in the same breath want to feed the narrative that men can’t be with just one woman! So basically, THEY ARE NOT traditional family men but wanting a traditional woman to exploit! It’s very predatory! I respect a non traditional man interested in non traditional relationships with others of the same mindset MORE!

[@soulspirationgoddess]

Half of the men on the internet with podcasts would say that we weren’t raised to be submissive bc of modern feminism. And that we need to submit. But I’ve always noticed that some men don’t fully understand themselves.. they think they want complete and full submission and it works for a good ego stroking but once they get it.. just like you said they find it’s not respectable.

[@gabrielar9611]

They’ve never been in any real relationship. They are in fantasy land, watch red pill content, and dream about Instagram models. Real relationships are balanced, not one sided dictatorships. At least, in the U.S.

[@lunaloynaz-lopez2318]

@@gabrielar9611 exactly

[@firandcurly84]

Yes I've noticed this as well.

[@MyAkachi]

I grew up in a super sexist anti-woman church that had a lot of restrictive rules for women and preached submission everyday. They were so strict on imposing those rules on the church women, and were mad at them and even punished them when they didn't follow the preachings. But these same men also didn't respect those women, and always respected women outside the church more (i.e. women who lived life on their own terms and prioritzed themselves and their enjoyment).

[@kara_xo]

yes! they will hurt you and go into a narcissistic rage if they feel like don’t have power over you.. that’s when things turn very dangerous

[@SK-no2pp]

There are 2 key forces in any potent relationship. One is CONNECTION. And it's as powerful as it can be confusing. Why? Because a connection can be electric. It can make you feel understood. It can make you want to do crazy things for someone. It can make you FEEL as though you've known each other forever. It can even make you *think* the person owes you something or you owe them something. But what's key to note is that having a CONNECTION with someone does not mean you have the second key ingredient for a lasting bond: an actual RELATIONSHIP with them. While a CONNECTION can feel like a magical life thunderbolt of understanding, depth, being seen and more, it's the actual RELATIONSHIP - two people consistently investing in one another, a willingness to give time, resources or energy that carries a CONNECTION forward. I've been told the common career advice that it's not about "who you know" but rather "who knows you." I used to think that was interesting as a piece of career advice. But now I realize, it's about neither. What life is really about is who INVESTS in you. CONNECTION can absolutely change your life. But a RELATIONSHIP, the container in which a connection grows and expands - be it a friendship, a romantic partnership, a professional relationship …. any ship that 2 people truly invest in that has the power to create lasting, ongoing change in a way that CONNECTION just can't. Don't ever mistake a CONNECTION for a l RELATIONSHIP. Invest in who invests in you

[@thetranspersonalalchemist]

Amazing advice 10/10

[@kamed.]

Baddest comment, in the comment section!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@cuhweensojuicy7886]

Yooo never saw it from this point of view and it's very enlightening to hear . Thank you for this wise wisdom

[@DivineQueen75]

Love this… on point ❤

[@quathetruth8314]

This is GOLDEN

[@jgsofly87]

I needed to hear this! My ex left me because I would stand up for myself and speak my mind.

[@starrjohnson1327]

Good for you. He did you a favor. He saw your strength. Stay strong sis!

[@lindylane19]

Submission under Condition. I Love it. I'm a 65 yo woman I have had my share of a$$hole's believe me. Thankfully my mama taught me self respect. And I taught my daughter and she's teaching her daughters. Love is wonderful but if respect is not involved I don't want it. And it goes both ways!! Thank you for your insightful words. Your never too old to learn

[@gemaynedorisjeanhoward7325]

Exactly 💯 and I enjoy Alex's channel his information applies to all ages.

[@ohdear2275]

Amen. Here I am at age 61. I wish I'd had good teachers about relationships when I was younger. Glad we have it now.

[@donnaatienza8001]

Yes your so right.

[@donnaatienza8001]

Your right.

[@OlderWomenRock]

Hi , I thought I was the only over 60 Woman who watched Alex . Appreciate his straight talk

[@mint_soup9743]

I've tested men to see how they treated me when I gave them power. I'd rather find out sooner than later. I don't recommend it, it can really mess you up. But I dont want to find out what they're like when I'm dealing with a debilitating injury or stuck tending children while my husbands out playing pool or something while I really dont have options cause I gave up my career for the kids or something and he abuses it.

[@lf3554]

That is actually a thing for the folks more into a wedding instead of a marriage. I had a lady complaining to me her husband couldn't russle up something to feed the kids while she was out on a business errand and kept blowing up her phone smh

[@juneelle370]

Yes… I’d love to have a partner where power wasn’t abused. I always try to use my power for good not bad. Why can’t they? All of culture and entertainment teaches them not to :( when love is fully available in them! All my pets-horses, goats, cats, dogs, birds… the males are just as loving and wonderful as the girls!!! Humans are totally affected by culture. :(

[@RJK1647]

I did that a year ago and discovered a narcissist monster. One bullet dodged.

[@flordelis9649]

I'm the same much easier to weed out the chaff from the wheat.

[@arankagionetti2098]

Every man is a player on till they don't find the one who can not play with!

[@MONEYAINTATHANG100]

str@ightalk & Company

[@punitsalian1587]

Monster comes out when they sense that they have power over you. That's absolutely correct.

[@sanyam8840]

Man will always choose one that he has power over than one he has real feelings for

[@sanyam8840]

...and that's why I enjoy my solitude. flex on em

[@kgreen4853]

I have been in and out of relationships my whole life. I'm 50 years old and I've always been afraid to show my vulnerability to men. They know I care, but on the other hand I pretend I don't need them. When they don't fight for my love, I leave them and I don't beg them to come back.... At the end, they're sad and miserable and so am I. I refused to beg a man to be with me. I've never had a man to fight for me.

[@mo2heaven704]

😢

[@tarabrown740]

You are not alone ❤

[@DivaDivine88]

Girll.. THIS 🥺😮‍💨😔💯👌🏾

[@tricebx718]

I have never had a man fight for me or choose me first

[@MRLX54]

I can relate I stopped dating at 32 my peace and my health is my priority now.

[@shenshoon8333]

"I love the power I have over you more than the love i have for you" your on point

[@donnaatienza8001]

Yes I feel this is so true.

[@j.ronnygibson]

Ouch

[@ONLYLOVEIZATION]

People who really love you don’t come around often.

[@ONLYLOVEIZATION]

@@DeshaunTellez dunno. What do you think?

[@leedlbagginshield8492]

only your children and perhaps parents love you for who you are

[@obsidianlane2101]

A double minded person in this case, a double minded man is UNSTABLE in all his ways. Save yourself and refuse to coexist with toxic behavior and energy. Walk away closure and . Exhale ahhhhhhhhhhh!!’

[@sophabreel]

I’ve had 2 guys say the exact same sentence to me after I responded to their disrespect by doing what I do well, knocking that ego down really quick. They thought I was a fool but they soon realised I’m not one to play games with. By the time I’m ready to attack their ego through a careful choice of words they end up hurt and bruised expressing ‘I don’t like how I feel right now’. Too bad so sad😄

[@pantsenfuego9986]

If harming others brings you a measure of joy, enjoy your cats.

[@pantsenfuego9986]

@Jade Ri ok. but even cats know when you’re a crappy person.

[@pantsenfuego9986]

@Jade Ri now you’re lashing out to strangers online.. who hurt you hunnii?

[@pantsenfuego9986]

@Jade Ri lol defensive much? seems to have struck a nerve

[@firelily77]

@@pantsenfuego9986 THAT was LASHING out??? 😂😂😂😂 you clearly have no idea when someone mad 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@mizzcrazygal]

lol my man falsely accused me of cheating, we talked and then in the end he dumped me. i just accepted it, not one tear shed. and he said he was surprised i didnt cry. lol. i didnt cry cus i know im not wrong

[@swiitdoll]

Life goes on

[@enchantingnaturals866]

He cheated 😕 not j its an xcuse go bounce

[@januarybaby]

He got the pointer, it's serious guys.

[@brandihunt2099]

Great video Alex!! The power of walking away...ending the relationship and if they come back having set standards and standing on them this time helps! Take back your power and gain respect!

[@ClowneryAtItsFinest]

THIS! ❤

[@brandihunt2099]

@@ClowneryAtItsFinest his tactics work ive used several that's why i keep coming back for more..

[@eveheart2876]

💯

[@donnaatienza8001]

Oh my God yes indeed so true!

[@pantsenfuego9986]

constantly holding the threat of walking away is not necessarily healthy can become extremely toxic and unless you want to end up alone, should only be used as a last resort. Learning how to communicate effectively and when to compromise is how you can keep a relationship healthy and in tact.

[@theadviser123]

"Everything is as it should be." This is part of my morning prayer and has been for a good decade or so. I also say it through the day. It is a mantra.

[@Scorpio12348]

Good mantra

[@therealpancakegirl777]

2:45 “i love the power that i have over you more than the love that i may have for you” 💥

[@portialay1]

"Submission under condition" Respect is🔑

[@Alimck333]

Honestly the best talk, I left after feeling disrespected and realising my worth

[@liztowers2058]

I moved my mom in with me shes 85, and I take care of her. I used to take her forgranted...in my teens. It's called maturity. Men are the same. if they're boys they will take you forgranted, real grown ass men appreciate you even when you make just toast for dinner. Lol

[@GoddessExotica]

God bless you. I also have my 90 year old mother living with me. It's a privilege.

[@blessedtomeetyou1676]

so many men that we aren't even dating try to break women even though i understand your message I just feel men are not worth trying to satisfy and are better off avoiding... trying to be around most men is just sacrificing your happiness because it is to much work to just be treated well no one needs to prove themselves to anyone if someone is kind to you and cares for you regardless of your belief system that should atlease gain them respect because they clearly arent out here trying to kill you steal from you or fuck up your reputation men do not understand or give that same respect to women and until men can clean up their own community by holding each other accountable instead of high fiving each other for hurting women for not being interested in confrontation (yes confrontational is what your talking about you want someone to clap back when someone women were raised submissive and talking shit is not their love language) furthermore, men we are not even dating threaten us with robbery, abuse of our reputations and even violence..... in short women are fucking tired of being told to be strong but not too strong and were told how to be traumatized men do not care about the disease they are spreading on thie world women take care of children our trauma i s being passed down to the next generation and you cant even respect us for this position in society..... the reality is alot of men do not want to respect women and it has nothing to do with us

[@jacquelinejones4230]

I can say as an older woman it's easy to fall into the old habits relationship-wise. So you have to be mindful of how we interact.

[@mildacha8050]

Hey, that's a really good topic. Thank you. By the way... I've experienced this. Some men accepted my goodbyes reasonably, yet some people ended up blocked... Got bored of those power games, it's same and same again. Real love and/or friendship comes with respect and consideration... And many people simply aren't capable or compatible to connect in that way. It's easier to let go, when you open your eyes and see, that they didn't add value to your life. Or you didn't add to theirs, because you value different things. Then you can easily move on, and focus on what's actually good for you... When you respect what's good for you, you'll find better environments and better relationships. Peace, ya'll. :)

[@casstay4499]

I’ve always wanted to find a man who was more interested in conquering the world with me as an equal rather than conquering me a as a conquest. And the beat the goes on…..🎉

[@juneelle370]

Amen… exactly what I want too… a loving partnership with fun and play and purpose

[@marycadiz4104]

Self Respect & Boundary

[@vcgomeez]

The key to life 🎉

[@sallycollins8044]

You've articulated the points that you're almost always trying to convey very well. The idea that someone has power over you is kind of disgusting when you think about it. And yet, we let people have our power all the time. Very well said.

[@greatfortunecookiewisdom2258]

Worst thing i feel is when they gaslight you... so frustrating ... like a twillight zone where you walk around about to lose your mind knowing something is off but only you can see it.

[@MeliChappell]

“Look around and find what is lacking”… that was heavy and I felt the true meaning of living in the moment.

[@nivanisadhai2476]

He tried to kill me, physically mentally spiritually and emotionally as well as psychologically

[@Tnc874]

Father Alex looking like a student at Hogwarts ⚡️🧙🏽‍♂️🧑🏽‍🏫

[@erihess2936]

Not at all. I like this look very much. Japanese maybe. The background too

[@Tnc874]

​@erihess2936 well, this was my opinion. And he does look like a student at hogwarts with that stick (wand) in his hand waving it around like he casting spells

[@kamed.]

Submission under CONDITION! You nailed it Alex!👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@ImCheesedOut]

I think that men think I’m too “strong” and disdain me and want to compete with me / hurt me before I go out without them

[@ClowneryAtItsFinest]

It’s not your fault he isn’t man enough. That’s his bag to hold, NOT yours. He needs to man up.

[@geenaxmeow]

Same here girl

[@donnaatienza8001]

They must be insecure indeed.

[@coffeerevival7812]

Yeah, insecure like to peg others down to their level. Misery loves company.

[@Jenjenn1111]

Same here… they’re just immature and childish.

[@akashamedia671]

Preach on father Alex!!🙌🙌🙌I went through that with my parents and made me vulnerable to narcissistic abuse and I finally feel strong enough to break the cycle after many years of suffering and self realization and healing low self esteem and codependency. And thanks to the reminder for demanding respect.

[@akeisha07]

It's so sad that people will try to blame you for moving a certain way when they are the ones that don't have pure intentions, just to turn around and use it against you by saying you were too nice or as men say "submissive". "I don't want you because you didn't put me in my place or did everything I said do" I hear you but there are fine lines as well. Two people who come together genuinely aren't looking at things the way you looked at her. If someone is looking at it the way you are it's because they aren't genuine, so anything she does will be looked at as if you are getting over on her. lmbooo Maybe you just need therapy and to grow tf up.

[@KarmaCame]

He's is telling the truth as to how most men look at it.Thats why most are in that same raggedy boat and women who have self respect don't deal with them bc like you said they say they want something then they don't. F*ck um and f*ck all that lol...

[@celestinebennett212]

Spot on well said , I have dated one of those ..he tried for me to be submissive, what he did not know am my own woman..and I love myself so much that when we used to see each other I made it clear..if you want to date me ..let's respect each others wishes..I guess he become so desperate until one day he said "Babe you have no respect for a man" and I laughed at this at some point he just did not get it

[@juneelle370]

Crazy - men are taught respect is you looking up at them while they look down on you when REAL respect is mutual and filled with good, caring character!

[@sampsonlittle7368]

You’re telling us women all this. We know already. We are living it. We have you guys numbers.

[@raymi9436]

Dalexis ❤ Thank you for stating that Some relationships will not work because he loves the power over you then what he has for you Some women unfortunately see that behavior as love. Great reminder how you should be carful how you make an exit. Some women go wrong telling a violent/toxic man she’s leaving. Great video!

[@ITSCHANELSWAY]

This really hit home… 😢 thank you for this. I’m moving on from my ex who did this and now I see why. I need to regain my power back

[@helenpiciacchi2075]

I’m from NY so This channel resonates on that level of familiarity…. Other than that it resonates on a spiritual and material level as well because its asreal as it gets. I’ve been binge watching for a week I love your deep understanding of the dance of human relationships w the no filter approach on teaching it. I am now a diehard fan ❤ of this channel!

[@kimberly_cristina]

Out of all of the videos I’ve seen of yours, this is it, this is gold. Submission under condition- take that phrase to the bank.

[@nivanisadhai2476]

If I am going to give my all, it’s to God and myself.

[@kc5818]

amen !

[@inesajroud7891]

I raised with a narcistic father, now I'm a rebellion girl ! ( I watch all your videos and I like what you give) 😍❤

[@aloramorar1064]

Your videos are getting so good! Especially the awareness! I literally did what you said and it was liberating! Thanks Alex!!!

[@domeatown]

I do like this new wave of men admitting they suck. Its helpful for everyone.

[@maxinecyria.3979]

Used to love ur videos then saw a bs comment saying ur narcissistic stopped watching for a while, came back and realized ur amazing! U speak on so many levels of truth such valuable knowledge ur spitting out

[@Juliana-nn2yp]

Anything ppl don’t agree with these days… they will call narcissistic.. but the thing is.. narcissists hide their true colours always, you just never know who a narcissist truly is.. everyone thinks he’s so awesome & great but he really isn’t… but ppl like this guy who say what they want without being afraid of any backlash.. no matter how brutal & horrible it sounds..are really just being honest. Narcissists aren’t capable of true honesty.

[@Angelsfight]

I really enjoyed this video, i just got out of (literally had to escape) and i really appreciate your male perspective and the breakdown , it really fully aligns with everything i went through . I am and can be a submissive woman, more so in the bedroom but he tried to be that way in all realms and i didn’t want it , and to me standing up for yourself is such a simple thing to respect and admire and he took it as me being masculine , yet i have a 12 year old son who I’m teaching how to stand up for himself which is important as a middle schooler. So the alignment was all off and i had to get away , he didn’t honor my emotions , nor respect my business of woman empowerment, was way to powerful for me , i felt myself being sucked dry instead of being honored. Thank you for this breakdown , it really clarified some of what i went through and how i can avoid it in the future Blessings to you 🙏🏽❤️‍🔥

[@Nellz.28]

This is the realest relationship videos I have ever seen…🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@biziquniversity]

Hey, Alex. I’ve enjoyed how much Development and Growth you’ve achieved and the emotional maturity you have displayed over the years. You’re a true blessing to so many, and I’d be honored to tag team with you some time in the near future. San “The Godmutha” Edwards

[@ellyxirdesu]

when he waved the baton/cane while saying 'you better damn well respect me', man that screamed my energy when i told the situationship ghoster that came back 1 year later to fuc all the way off 🤣

[@rudegallala6057]

Thank you! I really needed this. Exactly how I feel! I don’t need someone but having someone is nice❤

[@eveheart2876]

Since she cut off a toxic relationship. You were a rebound 😂 secondly she did wanted more but the way you acted. She slow down on her feelings

[@talenalewis1823]

What you are saying is so deep, but most people will treat you the way you allow them too.

[@lungeloduma2779]

I play both the villain and victim simultaneously

[@StoneColdFox17]

Relatable

[@erihess2936]

Such a genius episode. Thank you Master Alex. Everything is perfect

[@charismabu9218]

Service was good this morning, with Father Alex!

[@rakcityequine2.0]

Ladies, When I'm not sure how to read someone (male or female) I give them all my insecurities and "infinity stones". I dump all my vulnerability out and sit down and wait to see what the reaction is by the party in question. Usually I'm insulted, taken advantage of and mocked....which is perfectly Okay. Why? Because with little to no effort I understand and know exactly where I stand with the people I was questioning. I get my answers without having to ask the questions. People who are honest and real bond with you when you let yourself be vulnerable around them. I met my best friend figuring out my boss hates me😊.

[@lightofall]

People who are about power are not able to love

[@astridthepastrid]

I liked what the meditation showed me: everything is as it should be:) also your message about power blew my mind. Maybe you could do a video about the difference between loving someone and just being a principled, good person. You said if a guy really loves you he would never abuse that power, but on the other hand I often get the feeling from you that it's just inevitable human nature, and I should always have boundaries up because if I don't, people will use me.

[@mitz1919]

Ur teaching I believe is getting better . The last few videos have been so informative. I love listening to u . ❤ love the phrase submission under condition

[@princess4k371]

I agree! He’s becoming better and better

[@angelrenee9596]

You are evolving in a very good way Alex. This video is priceless.

[@nanapaperplans1621]

U said a whole word.. i literally changed my marriage by stop being an idea that i wasn’t willing to keep up I WAS MISERABLE… When I set boundaries and established expectations for his part in child rearing, chores, etc. It literally became a happier healthier relationship for BOTH of us.. now i made this shift early on and my husband is a genuinely a good man BUT he to was following what he saw as well we were both over here looking stupid following miserable marriages we saw in are childhood🤷🏾‍♀️

[@jaky411]

I think women want someone to guide them on things they are not sure of themselves to feel safe instead of someone having complete power of them b/c I know for a fact that it will make a woman feel suffocated over time and lose themselves and abuse becoming more blurred for them.

[@Amethyst93xo]

This came up at the right time. Thank you.

[@gabriellaluzpm]

I became strong after my last relationship. I will never let that happen ever again

[@margaretramirez7974]

@ 6:55 he REALLY meant that shit 😂 I been watching your channel for about 2 years and this is the first time I have ever seen your eyes get this open lmaoo

[@sparrowc4459]

Gotta say… this just may be the best clip you’ve made. All truth and wisdom. Thank you for the reminder.

[@donnaatienza8001]

Forgot to say I don't enjoy submitting to ANY man!

[@bluesnapdragons139]

Perfectly said, "Be in the moment...being in lack, usually refers to the future..."

[@NefertitiHeru]

submission is woman's state of mind which she allows her subconscious to manifest mission. it doesn't mean being submissive to man, instead it means working on a mission subconsciously.

[@QuantumMomma]

I’m so happy you have more followers now! Thank you for helping me go decipher my Situationships. Please make a video about men who post other women on their social media, but not you.

[@goesknows]

You should do a guided mini meditation on mindfulness! Sooo many nuggets of wisdom in this video though, people really need to hear this ish. I think this might be ur best one yet.. 👌

[@goesknows]

Doh! Spoke too soon lol, guess I should've listened all the way through... Where you talk about your meditation courses 🤦🏻‍♀️🤐🤣

[@cynthiafreeman2995]

This is sad. The humans today are empty

[@chrissyo9669]

Did you guys hear this guy? What his saying is gold. Remember this 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@LuanaKoch]

Probably only woman are watching this… LOL

[@OlderWomenRock]

I would like to watch other videos about power struggles . I believe whoever cares the least holds most of the power . I sensed a power play within all of my relationships mostly it seemed unintentional . I have played my part as I wanted more of the power for self protection . I’d freak out a bit when I realised I lost the most power and try to regain it or switch it around if I didn’t have it

[@margaretramirez7974]

I have a couple of ideas that I’m interested from your perspective. Lately I been doing research on multiple factors of femininity/masculinity in male and female. As I get older (just turned 25) I’m educating myself on these important topics to be able to identify myself and the men I decide to date. After some self reflection I’ve come to the conclusion that I attract feminine men, a part of me doesn’t understand why. I want a masculine man but I’m aware I’m deeply rooted in my masculinity than my feminine. This turned me off because I desire a real man, I want to become more feminine in my relationship and attract a masculine man but I have so many questions. -traits of a feminine/ masculine man/ female? -why do masculine women attract feminine men? -signs I’m dating a masculine/ feminine man -can both sexes be masculine and achieve a healthy relationship? I hope you read this message and it sparks your mind to future content. Gracias papi Alex

[@siouxsielover88]

I know one of these answers... hurt feminine expresses masculinely and hurt masculine expresses femininely.

[@ArtemisDeer444]

Imagine a battery with positive and negative. Masculine is positive and feminine is negative. If they're both the same they repel each other... The polarity has to be there for romantic attraction. So no, two masculines in a relationship will not work. It's not about gender either, it's about energy. Masculine energy is doing, feminine energy is being. If you're the one chasing the relationship or moving it forward/planning, then you're in the masculine. This will kill attraction for a masculine energy man.

[@Pizza89888]

That’s crazy! Thinking💭 that because she had a bad relationship in her past you were better. That’s ridiculous to say. You were the worst, because knowing her past you didn’t care her struggles and hurt her more and you didn’t apologize. Horrible!

[@Wakeupsheeple607]

😮💯

[@ElizabethSeiden-cq5kj]

I’ve noticed that when you get out to meet your fans that you go to Europe, but you skip Texas or Minnesota to meet up for drinks.

[@jelizabethpetrie6656]

Excellent talk. Always self-respect first and foremost. I may want you. But I can live without you, is how you should feel about yourself and your desired. Or else the balance won’t be there. So glad you’re expanding your meditation class…from the first one you put out there Forever Ago was excellent! Keep going!🎉❤

[@Maybe-cg2tn]

Those that need that control over a women result in violence. Not doing that. That is not Love. Men that try to bring that to me will suffer. Not having it.

[@HowIGODHere]

Hi.. you said, "if a man really loves you, he won't take advantage of you". 🙄 I think if he doesn't have self respect and integrity, he will still take advantage.

[@RuffRyda777]

I’ve been following Alex for yearsss, this is by far one of his best videos

[@BossLdie84]

Me 🙋🏽‍♀️ he was talking about me. This message is so aligned with me right now

[@sheabutterpink5184]

ugh...you beautifully simplify such complex human psychology. I love it

[@jennifert2002]

Omg you finally helped me understand what mindfullness is in its essence with explaining nothing is missing in the moment.

[@iados]

Loved the fulfillment of the moment part Alex, I was overthinking about the future in that moment and it made me stop and relax my mind

[@iados]

Also, love you’re recording with natural light, it made me happy somehow

[@GodiZreal]

Nah, I don't think romantic relationship with men is needed. True there is strength in numbers, that's why I build a team. Plus it's safer to stay single. Being alone has never killed anyone.

[@annamillan2903]

It's not that we have been conditioned. A woman in love wants to please the man she loves, it's different of being needy. She wants to enjoy passionately that love and she wants to feel feminine near the masculine. Men just don't understand and they take women for granted. The thing is a woman can't love a man too much...The more disdain she gives the more he will love her.

[@nishant7780]

A balanced man or woman will just leave you if they percieve a level of toxicity.

[@Sublimebutterflyy]

Damn right! Submission under CONDITIONS that’s my new warning label. Date at your own RISK !

[@Rebecca-vt7rp]

mann you wise af! never a truer word spoken :') your videos make me realise so much sh*t that i'm trying to not face in life but i'm glad you tell it how it is

[@roseberry9874]

I’m from far far away …you’ve no idea but you’re the friend I never had ❤