The Power of Absence - He Will Regret Taking You For Granted

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[@East_African_american]

Ladies, you have to be able to walk away no matter what! Love yourself and KNOW that you will be presented with more

[@nicolataylor536]

Like the saying: to whom much is given..much is required..

[@velesialuciferiakorp9613]

Love you Alex, keep going and keep up the good work!

[@SR77736]

​@@nicolataylor536this!!!!

[@jenniferlorence1950]

LOVE YOUR WORDS OF WISDOM. THANK YOU.

[@PrinxessAriel]

My bf is starting to not respect me, he doesn’t respond for hours or a day more frequently now, and I can admit I’ve been submissive and apologetic for things they aren’t even my fault. Those days are over now! I’m not taking disrespect any more Update: I completely shifted the power balance and now he questions why I don’t text back immediately and waits hand and foot for me. Ofc I don’t abuse it! He’s learned to appreciate me more, write me letters and note to show it and he wine & dines me more often. Just about anything I want now, I get.

[@mohittiwarii20]

Proud of you ma'am. ♥️

[@Stephanie_bitches89]

Hope you stay firm

[@Ji_jee]

🤙🏽

[@Digital-creator0198]

You guys deserve not respect

[@ree6082]

Just broke up with my bf last week coz of alot of thing inluding disrespect

[@theamazingindoeuropeancult2162]

The key is to stop being attracted to shit treatment. The moment he mistreats you, you should be genuinely turned off. It is hard when you wired differently, but it is possible to train this emotional muscle

[@sarahthapisces7920]

See I was thinking about going to therapy to get a trained mindset that wouldn’t allow me to settle !

[@jenbodhi1133]

Definitely

[@KTD888]

I'm on that

[@MarilynFinland]

I naturally want to distance myself from situations where I am being taken for granted. That's where my power lies. I don't put up with bullshit because I have so much I want to give. Know this ladies: men always come back. I literally had this dude text me after two years. They always come back. So, rest in your power. Focus on YOU. Cultivate your personality and create a vibe of warmth. Make sure you take care of yourself and you look good because that will boost your confidence when you will feel good. They'll crawl back eventually and you might find you aren't even interested anymore.

[@gala2103]

So true, sister. My first bf from hight school still reaches out every few years and ask if maybe I changed my mind 😂😂

[@amiwhite5514]

Love this.

[@unicorn73212]

True but usually when this happens you have to be careful they will glue themselves to one woman like she has all the answers to his problems. You become more like his care giver than you do a girlfriend.

[@pascalinelokota2146]

❤

[@vivid5203]

Exactly

[@CrochetTutorialsGirl]

Say “I love you, but I release you with love”. The world is abundant with love and I will not lack by releasing what is not mine. If it’s mine, it will come back and if it doesn’t, thank you for the lessons 🧘🏽‍♀️

[@narcssuckass]

I love this!

[@jenniferlorence1950]

WOW, I Absolutely LOVE YOUR WORDS OF WISDOM. Thank YOU!!!

[@qosaghcalnan1045]

Ditto@@jenniferlorence1950

[@The_huntress111]

I do this ❤

[@tjtanner9311]

I love this! Similar how I feel about my ex right now. "I love you but I'm going to have to love you from a distance ."

[@kayecee2871]

When I walked, he couldn't care less. That's a sign right there.

[@danilaroche1156]

Dang!

[@louisacollins8355]

You dodged a bullet

[@rjavth]

5:00 this is EXACTLY what he told me. he'll purposely not reply for many many hours because he knew that i am always there when he needs me. girls, don't settle for less! don't be with someone who takes you for granted.

[@The_huntress111]

I was told the same thing, wish I would have steeped out sooner

[@kimberlymay9497]

This is where I’m at right now. I stopped calling, texting, cooking, and sex. If he texts my texts are very short. I don’t text back as fast either. It is very hard but I know I deserve happiness and if he can’t give it oh well as the days go by it gets easier.

[@amarachiogbonnaya9917]

You are so gorgeous,your smile can light up a room ps I am straight just from a woman to another woman.

[@leslietiwari8625]

Stop texting altogether

[@kimberlymay9497]

@@amarachiogbonnaya9917 so sweet, thank you I get that a lot ❤️👍

[@amarachiogbonnaya9917]

@@kimberlymay9497 you are welcome ❤️

[@ginadiodati1965]

You really need to stop ALL communication 🙄 because even though your response is quick, he's still got you and you are still feeding his ego

[@123charleneful]

“I’m closing the channel” favourite saying😂

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

oh it's a saying huh ok lol

[@123charleneful]

@@MindfulAttraction2.0 flippin hell, you get back to me nearly a year later😩 Thanks tho💋

[@alyshadani9800]

Ladies plz be confident & believe in urself ! The strategy will work. If he doesn’t show u he really likes u who cares. Literallyyy so many other ppl out there ! Move on!

[@begee5847]

When you get to the point that you loved the person & no longer give a dam if they come back or not, think I’m not in love anymore and I’m not upset about it either. I’ve suprised myself I guess he finally pushed the limit too far. ❤🙏🏾

[@naeneco]

This !

[@abenadickson1660]

Indifference 🫶🏾

[@Kitathegang]

Just block them and move on

[@jeandoe4887]

I did 😊

[@natalienava5896]

Thank you! I shared my needs & when they showed me they couldn't meet them I was short & sweet & blocked. Im.not getting into a text argument like a highschooler

[@Kitathegang]

@@natalienava5896 period

[@juanitagonzalez8333]

Is exactly what I did,& I'm not looking back!

[@marcelacasas2187]

To you who's BF does not respond to you for days, he is seeing other women behind your back. I know from experience. Walk away because he does not deserve you.

[@Lindaworld1983]

Ladies you have to mirror men how they treat you is how you treat them ..

[@dawnh8254]

The problem is that the person even tries you to begin with. If you truly admire and respect someone you wouldn’t dare be stupid.

[@Dam-rd9kw]

Great advice, this is actually what my instinct has been telling me to do after waiting 8hrs for a text back. Its been a hard week of no contact, but onward and upward.

[@getitdone0010]

How is it going

[@mikey2848]

Don’t give up, no your worth. You definitely don’t want to be stuck in the same cycle with one person..

[@jenbodhi1133]

I’m on week 2, it’s getting easier everyday

[@DivinelyBellzTarot]

Im currently doing this right now!!! And baby this is the real power i dont even watch his stories completely ignored

[@Niababy23]

I’m doing this. I have been in no contact for 4 months and best decision ever. I meditate everyday and the level of unbothereness 😮‍💨. He will come back 😂

[@Ycg744]

He will, they always do 😂 Mine comes back every 2 months

[@nathalie8497]

@@Ycg744 you have nothing to do ?

[@Yosonyah]

Same it’s almost 4 months n I’m sure he’ll come back

[@kittycandyllc]

They always comeback !

[@NikNakatNight]

But when he does I won’t be the same person

[@sumithasuseelan123]

It's something I've been saying for decades now actually. If you act like a doormat , you'll get walked on. I've seen it happen so many times.

[@marjorienalunkuma6025]

I did this and am glad I did and my prayer is that they never come back honestly and it's good when you walk away from them for yourself not because you want them to come back

[@SK-le4lj]

Exactly. If you're doing it for them you've lost

[@diz533]

Facts girl. Facts!!

[@XinaCoquina]

Love the part where you said, I don’t like where this is going. I’m gonna take a break. BOOM feel my absence! 🙃

[@annabarone8727]

He knows I will always be here... that's why he does this.

[@danilaroche1156]

Then don't be there.

[@NatashaEllis-tf8vd]

​@@danilaroche1156 That Part Right There In That Correct Order 💯✌️

[@danilaroche1156]

​Yes. Always being there nearly got me killed. The devil is real & he's not playing.

[@jenniferlorence1950]

HE SAID: "It's important that You did that!" Correct. "They get a taste of POWER" "and they get Drunk with POWER"

[@eprophil]

For me pulling away is blocking you and done with you. Especially if there is disrespect I am not pulling away I am walking.

[@Selfmagnet]

Very true I’m guilty of letting ish slide but I pulled away for good now for 3 weeks 🎉

[@Jovalela3]

Same never again!!

[@alayna9207]

I am a very loyal person. To everyone not only my romantic partners. This video has made me realize how I come across as submissive and how I give up my power which has put me in the position to be used in the past. Not saying that how they treated me was right but I let it happen. Definitely changing my mindset with relationships.

[@mariesolal]

I don't think men in general care anymore. It doesn't matter how pretty/ nice/ faithful u are.

[@The4s]

Bingo!

[@HealthyNatureRules]

No sweetie, the men you attract. Sadly

[@nikokaliko9527]

Oh I took that step alright. Met someone else who actually appreciates me. If he wants to come back he has a hell of a competition.

[@Jusleen0403]

1 month and he has came back. No contact and I’m all set.

[@amnbvcxz8650]

That explains why whenever i got really attached to a person (i mean any close connections, nonromantic too) and loved them, they always started disrespecting me or just distanced themselves. It’s like i always have to love them way less or hide my true disposition for them to be a good person. Is there a solution to this other than ending up alone and shutting out people who get close?

[@auralionasol2205]

u gotta train urself to love less you cant be a doormat

[@SK-le4lj]

You can love but always enforce boundaries - as soon as they are crossed, consider ending the relationship

[@AskCoachDenise11]

Work on self love. When you truly love yourself and all the parts of yourself(even flaws) you eventually won’t tolerate anyone who can’t love you properly. It’s really about energy~like attracts like. If we love ourselves properly we’ll attract someone to love us properly. If we don’t, we’ll attract someone who mirrors what we think we deserve on a subconscious level.

[@user-mz9ob6hq9z]

The secret is to love yourself more, then the other person will have no choice but to love you or leave you…

[@CalineBRUNO]

« I don’t smoke weed, I used too…a week ago » 😂

[@njambikamau2366]

This took me out 😂. I even thought I heard it wrong. 💀

[@carlys_lit]

You’re right! Most ppl won’t do this. I was one of those people, and after hitting rock bottom I finally started doing all the things you mentioned. I am proud to say it works! Especially building confidence through hobbies and building emotional strength through meditation.

[@ilovetosingx3]

He will regret taking me for granted God . 😇🙏♥️🦋💯

[@Cvill502]

It doesn’t have to be trauma. Ppl can be innocent, pure and kind . So there will always be a stage of being oblivious and not knowing what to do , she feels violated but bc she’s innocent , she doesn’t know at first how to react . Til she learn how to put consequences and she learns from there.

[@KagoM]

Everyday people are proving the theories of the Sprinkle Sprinkle lady

[@aizac.1979]

This is the best exact advice I needed 😊 thank you! Men love to use power to control a woman's emotions. You opened my eyes today.

[@jenniferlorence1950]

SO TRUE; "IF there are NO CONSEQUENCES"

[@debraglows]

The problem with me is one i want to make you feel my absence. Theres no turning back 😅😅😅

[@estherb.6433]

That’s how I am too. Once I decide to leave, I leave. There’s absolutely no coming back. When I’m done, I’m done.

[@natashabrandani645]

Me too! If they don't appreciate me the first time around then I don't feel like they ever will so after that I am done!

[@steph6109]

I guess there's two types of people. There are plenty of good politicians, managers etc. Not everyone needs consequences to treat others well. I think it may be an empathy gap. The consequence of seeing the other persons pain is enough and some people need the consequence to be their own pain.

[@amnbvcxz8650]

Words of wisdom. I thought about it a lot too. When someone i care about a lot is vulnerable about being hurt I feel their pain, want to undo it and not repeat the mistake again. Unless they hurt me consciously without regret.

[@rileysmiley9585]

Thank you…l remember when l changed my life by listening to you years ago. Please believe me.🍀🍀✅

[@classydyme113086]

12 day NC! While I may have overstepped some boundaries I ended up getting rejected w/no explanation after 6 months. I was ignored after apologizing and it being one sided trying to repair it. So I’m feeling much better and signed up to start courses in fall for my Ph.D. Tbh if they don’t reach out in the next week or two I don’t even want to talk about it! Just leave me alone

[@deannah-6020]

What happened

[@deannah-6020]

Same situation

[@cheetahcat3940]

"closing the channel" I love the threats 😂

[@ImmortalGirl]

This channel is saving women 🙌

[@jenniferlorence1950]

"Character Flaw on me" MEN KNOW MEN. That's Why is GOOD to listen to Men.

[@jordanlennox5435]

There are many who are aware and use it as a weapon; they are called Narcissists.

[@sarahholleran6230]

Omg, u just made me realize my childhood trauma…6:38 mins in 😮. Been wondering what it is because I have an anxious attachment style and parents were always together my whole life, they fought a lot, but I was loved, and never abandoned..but u def made Me Realize that about myself. My mom is very submissive, never stands up for her self and had the most verbally abusive relationship..gives everyone way too many passes. She is very loving and kind however ❤.

[@JazminGama-bj2mb]

I am beyond impressed with your wisdom. I have watched countless videos on these type of topics and I am always left feeling the same. I hadn’t even finished this video and I began to feel enlightened. I’m glad I found your channel by chance on the web.

[@izzyforever4760]

How do u grow tired of someone? LOVING someone never gets old. Giving each other space going to work is space going around friends that's normal space but when your mate wants to go around single friends who influence you in a bad way thats not healthy there is certain things prople do to give each other space not where its gonna turn into trust issues. People need to have similar mates who wanna spend time like you do. If you have a mate who is opposite from you they come up with excuse make u look insecure or clingy lol so it makes u look bad when u wanna be around someone all the time there's nothing wrong with that. What kind of guy wouldn't want a female who wants to spend time with them all the time especially if they love you. Everyone needs space but never should be tired of you sounds like excuse honestly. Everyone deserves space in a relationship as long as that space they take is healthy not where it's going to turn it into mistake or temptation trust issues comes into place after that so I belive its very important to know your mate and respect their space not growing tired of you. 😢 I am already 37 years old I been through so much and very blessed I learned so much of what's healthy and what's not healthy. I cant control any man or grow boy . The best love you can give is honestly yourself its guaranteed ❤ and the lord

[@nicolemartin-pz1wl]

I just came across this and I are talking about me. Thanks for posting this

[@oyinemaria1940]

Thank you Father Alex, as always

[@socalfriend6985]

Blocked him and moving along with my best life! 🧬❤️💎🌴 What's meant for me will come to me! Namaste

[@trishc.652]

Thank you. This is exactly what I needed to hear right now

[@missphina718]

I just came across your channel what a timely message indeed

[@karlam.8206]

Needed to hear this. I love how thoughtfully and thoroughly you delve into this. Hoping it works for me..

[@elizabethbenatar4574]

Thank you for explaining simply and with kindness.

[@antonioloureiro1143]

Thank you for sharing your knowled

[@user-lt8iv6mq8c]

I love how you so honest about yourself. And you share about your experience..not everybody does that. I really respect that. Thank you so much for making this video. You are very inspirational

[@semonegroce2610]

I'm so stressed out an over it I'm taking This brake i deserve it. Thank you so much for this video hi very much appreciate it God bless 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@queenjee8570]

I love your content!

[@junewade6859]

Love your content !

[@user-yk9sk7pg6v]

this was good - thanks

[@nuturingsoul9550]

She carried you. Love your mother ❤

[@wendyharper2474]

Everytime I listen to you Alex you really make me ponder and really reflect and realize where I need to develope better skills at. 5hank you so very much for this video.

[@___Sh3rlyn]

I love you ❤️ I enjoyed watching your videos 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼 you are an amazing and inspiring human being ❤❤❤ thanks for sharing and all you do for us!

[@bellabadaxz]

Funny this guy I liked for years at work I was the same way I was always there so I step back and now I realize I need to take accountability because he didn’t ask me out because I was too available but since I been stepping back he’s been doing more 😅

[@sukyp1950]

Thank you so much for this. I really need to listen to this. I need to do this 😘

[@adavis118737]

You're so smart! Thanks for sharing!!

[@marilynharper5854]

Love this video ❤ people will take you for granted when you feel like your giving more emotional than getting back it's time to step back the power of absence is strong you schould never beg someone to spend time with you appreciated the things you don love schould come naturally be willing to walk away

[@michellefiery739]

You’ve always been mature for your age. But you’re really on another level. Keep up the great work: helping humanity. 🌴✨🎵🌅

[@anioganesyan8034]

Ok i stumbled on this page and im obsessed

[@danilaroche1156]

He's quite remarkable.

[@lolelyn1]

Sooo true, made the same experiences!

[@CaliforniaGirl1]

No 🐈 until marriage. Make that foo wait forever.

[@CaliforniaGirl1]

@kenyagirly I’m not single. Goodbye!

[@danilaroche1156]

​@kenyagirlyMarriage is a covenant from God. It really depends on WHO you marry. I know many happily married couples but they are Christ followers.

[@the_professional007]

This is gold 😊 father alex is the best 😊

[@user-jo5me8gs2d]

I'm doing it !!

[@bellachopdekar]

Thank you!! You have no idea how helpful this is. Watching from Kenya.

[@sharonsang1213]

Kenyans tuko kila Mahali😂but oh well , silence is always gold! Trust me .

[@natividadramirez4696]

Your always so helpful

[@jonathanvermillion7263]

So helpful I so needed this so much. I’m crushed and it was my fault she broke up with me I couldn’t trust her and it pushed her away I have to be more healthy I hope she comes back

[@ajchiappetta8795]

This guy is spot fuckin on bro!! I was just seeing this dude who dumped me “ bc our energy wasn’t a match” and I said fine dude, fuck off, I swear not three weeks later, this dude is texting me, asking for “ another chance” and if we could “ start over”…. It’s really mind fucks someone who thinks they are right all the time and that does no wrong. F that. I let a bitch know, you acting stupid! Kick rocks!

[@TransactionalAccountant]

Currently working on this strategy. On week 2

[@Firefly-ht9fp]

This guy gives really good advice. I am going to follow it from now on to the "T"

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

🍵🫖

[@omgcarsonnn]

It really sucks that some people start to take you for granted because I've never done this in a relationship. I'm not saying that makes me better than anybody who does take their partner for granted, but I genuinely don't understand why you have to basically lose someone to understand what you have. I never have understood that but I 100,000% agree with absence speaks volumes, better than words ever could.

[@Wavybabydoraemi]

Wow this was so good

[@tjtanner9311]

This video popping up in my suggestions is right on time! My ex just recently tried to contact me after a whole year and a half. I have no plans of responding, he did me dirty.

[@brelove2237]

I’m so excited for this course. I was just praying for God to Angie me how to have emotional stability. Then boom! 😮 I hate being powerless over my life.

[@deborahocampo852]

Always brilliant

[@Jayshree_bhattacharya_80]

I am in love with Father 😅❤alex' s content .

[@jenbodhi1133]

This such a good channel

[@Googleuser-jv8fi]

Ok but he comes back better behaved and then eventually we end up in the same cycle .

[@kidecree444]

Did he just threaten to close the channel. Lol facts. You have to be assertive an hold a stance. Got it

[@MsRN2B2011]

Amazing video 🔥🔥🔥🔥 I an doing it, and I'm hoping to meet someone better in the process

[@nuturingsoul9550]

You must love your mother. 😢🎉❤

[@venuspsychicmasseuse]

What a fine line cuz I can be cool, independent, sassy naturally. They don't like me being keen or strong. Wtf 🤪I'm just being me. Why are they SO FUCKIN FRAGILE but they can dish it out like no tomorrow 😕

[@harmony4422]

Wow, what did coffee ever do to you?! You're right! I practice this all the time cause I'm not afraid to lose men. Vast majority of the time, they come back.

[@user-yh9vd9yz9u]

This is off topic and corny but I appreciate you being alive in my lifetime 😂 very entertaining & educational

[@Layla-hg4ux]

It's not like we don't wanna do it but it takes a lot of emotional strength! Especially if you've anxious attachment style personality. I need to do this as my guy started taking me for granted and being controlled after I reached out to my ex. He refused to listen to what I wanted to say and invalidated my feelings. I gotta watch this again and again during each process. This is good one!

[@nesbitt686]

Eejud😅f😊

[@Stephanie_bitches89]

Watch all of his videos

[@Layla-hg4ux]

​@@Stephanie_bitches89 he responded "Okay ....when ever you want to move on and stop over doing things let me know because I'm not going through that period" What do you think he meant? Ie his intention

[@jazmingomez2011]

Doesn't sound like you are missing out on a Great Guy. Only on someone who does not want to understand or listen to you

[@sajathebunny2687]

It's your fault ... Why would you reach out to your ex while being in a relationship with someone.. da hell ?

[@jelizabethpetrie6656]

Another good way of saying it is…Too Much of a Good Thing is Too Much❤

[@nicdunn9834]

He came back a few times but never changed so it’s very much over

[@hothaze1493]

I haven't smoked for a week too....👍 Cheers Alex! Great video!

[@danilaroche1156]

I have a great deal of joy, peace & transcendence in Christ Jesus. For REAL.

[@mistressindistress32]

Nice chat 💬 😊