How Moving to Canada Alone Impacted My Marriage | Long Distance Relationship & Therapy

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Winifred Kal

Күн бұрын

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@winifredkal 3 ай бұрын

You are not Alone🤍✨ Visit betterhelp.com/winifred and enjoy a special discount on your first month of therapy🤍

@nene7343 3 ай бұрын

You're doing really well Winnie. I understand how big this sacrifice you've made is and I'm proud of you for taking that leap to chase your dream. I pray that at the end of the day you will achieve your goals and even surpass your expectations. May God Bless you and perfect all that concerns you and your family.

@winifredkal 3 ай бұрын

Amen! Thank you so much for your kind words🤍🙏🏾

@aqueen232 3 ай бұрын

This is my exact experience. God will be with us

@winifredkal 3 ай бұрын

Amen! It is well🤍

@AkubudeIfeoma 3 ай бұрын

I will say IT IS VERY TOUGH. I am currently in a long distance but we are both in Nigeria nd it is tough. Weldone and the Lord will keep your family safe

@winifredkal 3 ай бұрын

Amen!!! It is well🤍

@omotosomagret3366 3 ай бұрын

Thank you winifred🙏 This is so timely for me.. I miss my darling husband n my 3-year old so much too😕 I pray it all worth it eventually though…🙏🙏🙏 for the challenges I can totally relate and I hope we pull through 🙏 Love and Light sis💙

@winifredkal 3 ай бұрын

Awwn love and light Sis🤗🤍

@yetundeolubodun8346 2 ай бұрын

Winnie, you will make it. You will graduate on schedule. You will get your dream job quickly. You will bring your family over. You will get your Canadian PR and your Canadian citizenship in record time. God will reinvigorate your marriage. Your husband and your son love you. You will enjoy many happy years with your husband and son. You will have more children with your husband if you so desire. There are many ways to be a good mother. What you’re doing is one of them. You are your family’s ambassador. You will succeed. Weeping may endure for the night, but surely joy comes in the morning! No condition is permanent. Your dreams will come true and everything you are fighting for, will become your reality. Your joy will be full. Your harvest will be bountiful. You are an overcomer. In Jesus name. Amen🙏🏾

@winifredkal 2 ай бұрын

Amen!!!!! Thank you so much!!!

@Ik_Dean Ай бұрын

Weldone Wini.... This is the first time I have watched your video at full length and damn I feel inspired and I really proud of you. I haven't been a here since our NYSC Education CDS years😁 Love the growth. Kudos to you👍

@Cellycera 3 ай бұрын

May God give you strength to pull through ❤

@winifredkal 3 ай бұрын

Amen thank you 🙏🏾 ❤

@priscaamakah8073 3 ай бұрын

Wini, this just gave me hope, I left my husband last year as well to Canada it’s been a year and 5months i totally relate to your struggle and I pray God makes us reunite soon. It’s not been easy for any of us, atimes I just cry myself to sleep, the loneliness it’s not even funny 😢

@winifredkal 3 ай бұрын

Awwn stay strong! Sending you lots of hugs and kisses Mama🤗🤍

@Eatwithjakwa 3 ай бұрын

It’s well with you Winifred ❤ its not easy living without your family, but God will continue to give you and your husband the strength.

@winifredkal 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!

@mrsranciz 3 ай бұрын

You are strong! Gods grace is sufficient for you. I didn’t think you’ll be able to survive this long without your little boss baby😍 It’ll all be worth it in the end ❤️

@winifredkal 2 ай бұрын

Amen! Thank you Mama🤍

@Aadjoa_Pee 3 ай бұрын

I started watching your videos from Ghana till we got here, mama just listening to the tone of your voice made me teary, I always tell my husband God should give you strength and can't wait for the video where you tell us they are here........ Am a mum of two, when my husband came in Dec I told you know understand what Winny goes through..... I didn't watch your video about your struggles with depression I don't have the heart to watch.......... tight warm hugs and kisses Maama😘😘😘😘😘😘 God be with you huni, this tooo shall pass 😢😘😉

@winifredkal 3 ай бұрын

It is well. Thank you Mama🤗🤍

@Aadjoa_Pee 3 ай бұрын

@@winifredkal Always welcome Mama hang in there grace will see you through...... a question dear I watched one of your video, where you talked about spoiledchild the liquid collagen.......will you still recommend because I want to get one after watching your vlog I got interested 😄😉

@0tismadaline 3 ай бұрын

It’s definitely not easy and thanks sharing ❤

@winifredkal 2 ай бұрын

🤗💖🤍

@doreenonekalit9888 3 ай бұрын

We have admired you.We miss our cohost

@winifredkal 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Mama🤍 I miss him too🥹

@Vivianemenike 3 ай бұрын

We are in the same boat 😢😢😢, my mental health is miserable and I feel terrible as well😢

@winifredkal 2 ай бұрын

Awwn please take care of your mental health Mama and do the things that make you happy. Love you🤍

@Vivianemenike 2 ай бұрын

@@winifredkal love you too❤️

@kelechiikwuegbu9547 3 ай бұрын

I am in the same boat with you its not easy😢

@winifredkal 3 ай бұрын

The Lord is our strength 😢

@samuelkem 3 ай бұрын

Don't lose what you have chasing after a dream that when you achieve it it might be found to be fool's gold. When you take a vow before God your family becomes your priority, not your dreams. Be blessed

@winifredkal 3 ай бұрын

Thank you

@homeandaway2811 2 ай бұрын

We are all different, some will be forced to move away for a while, such is LIFE,, all you have to do is pray for them and not discourage them with your words.

@samuelkem 2 ай бұрын

@@homeandaway2811 no one is discouraging anyone. I have been following her since the beginning and know how important her family is. Once you start a family you have to know where your priorities lay. You can have both family and dreams but if it is necessary to pick one you pick your family. You tell me to not discourage her makes you sound like someone who would throw away your family to chase after a dream. All the people I know who have done this in the end regret it. Be blessed

@yetundeolubodun8346 2 ай бұрын

@@samuelkemare you God? Are you her husband? Are all the people you know, all the people in the world? The answer to my 3 questions, is NO! Look at how you’re talking so authoritatively and judgmentally over someone else’s life just because you have followed her on social media? She will not be the first neither will she be the last to go on this journey. I also happen to know of couples who were separated due to immigration, one couple for even 10 years, in the era of no mobile phone and they made it. Love will always be tested before it becomes trusted. With GOD, ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE. With the right support, she can and she will make it. If you cannot wish her well, keep your negativity and lack of empathy to yourself. Your opinion does not count anyway, so shove it where the sun does not shine.

@samuelkem 2 ай бұрын

@@yetundeolubodun8346 do you even listen to what you say. Compare my words to yours and honestly ask yourself who is being judgemental. She had no problem with what I said are she would said so. I believe she had no problem because it was linning up with what she was thinking. I was not disrespectful or judgemental, can you say the same? Your words reveal the depth of your heart. Be blessed

@siphiwenkosi4280 3 ай бұрын

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@winifredkal 3 ай бұрын

🤗

@krisemsrelationshipacademy8849 3 ай бұрын

Why dont you makr him join you through the spousal open work permit?

@winifredkal 3 ай бұрын

I am trying🤍

@ifeyinwaosigwe4364 2 ай бұрын

I can not leave my hubby and my child to go study abroad oooo, if it’s not possible for all of us to move together, omo make that abroad offer wait ooo…

@homeandaway2811 2 ай бұрын

That's you and we are all different, our lives/situations can be same or different but some will always have to take RISKS, all you have to do is pray for them and not discourage them with your words.

@ifeyinwaosigwe4364 2 ай бұрын

@@homeandaway2811 she is already there, so how am I discouraging her, she is an adult, so she and her hubby has made that decision, I am talking about my own self..

@JoeBIgLotto 3 ай бұрын

He is proud of you Canada 🇨🇦 didn’t freeze you up 😂🎉🎉❤❤ l have a good idea make a Barbie doll of yourself and send it to him 😊❤❤

@winifredkal 3 ай бұрын

😂 thank you

@amarachilovina8074 3 ай бұрын

I am😊....but Thank God for grace, its well with you sis, i really understand you so well... but if i may ask sis , why haven't they been able to join you ?

@winifredkal 3 ай бұрын

Help me ask IRCC o😫

@amarachilovina8074 3 ай бұрын

Hmmmmm same too, it's like we would hold protest o, honestly, because IRCC are indirectly tearing and separating families yet they claim they uphold family values. So many delayed visas.

@dollyosadolor1489 3 ай бұрын

But how long are you going to live apart from you family mustly your husband? I remember when you get married and have a child and also doing well in Nigeria. your marriage is very young when you left them. My advice to you is to work towards get back together to your family befor is too late. not all men can have the patience to wilt that long. Canada is not everything, your Marriage, family is very important. I which you well.

@homeandaway2811 2 ай бұрын

This is a GROWN UP woman, God fearing, you think she just woke up and made the decision to go for studies and leave her husband behind? Let alone her child ? Her own flesh and blood? Seriously? You guys should think before commenting.