HOW MOVING TO INDIA CHANGED ME AS A PERSON | For NRIs Moving To India | Nupur Dave

[@karthitamilmusic7959]

So true !!! It feels refreshing to hear your experience…we moved in 2019 after 13 years in US..Life is so colorful and I really can’t put my feelings in words!!! It’s like when I wake up everyday I think yay I am back to my india and I don’t have to go back to US !!! I am sure it might sound weird to some but there would be few who can relate to how it feels !!! And my boys are so happy !!! My husband is back now too and he is having fun as well !!!

[@NupurDave]

Glad to hear your experience:)

[@nirjakadu5414]

I can feel what u mean dear. I wish for that myself 😇

[@prashantb8281]

You came in tough times, of Corona.

[@jaypalreddy2637]

One Life is not enough to explore India

[@NupurDave]

Totally agree!

[@anuragmahajan8037]

I just recently move to US 6 months back & now life feels like a prison here.Thinking to go back now Also People say US is beautiful & it is true but I am from Himachal & trust me no place in US can beat the beauty of Himalayas

[@NupurDave]

Hang in there. It gets better.

[@roxymax8917]

🇺🇸 is just like a brand. They promote it always stuff like living American dream and bs. They segregated the world in between first world happy and third world sh*thole unhappy countries. 🇺🇸 is nothing but a bubble empire and now it's collapsing

[@pvasir]

"Now life feels like a prison here" It is like a prison because your doings. You have to adjust to USA and not USA adjusting to you. I lived and worked in USA for 42 years and now happily retired in Thailand. I am from India originally. Improve on your social skills dude and things will get better.

[@chanchalsharma7390]

I moved back 4 months back and feel the same. :(

[@prashantb8281]

Bhai aa gaye kya himachal

[@abhib724]

Hi Nupur, I moved back to India from Canada after 5.5 years even though I had a PR. I enjoyed my initial years there but always knew the clock was ticking for me. I will be happy to share my experience and how I resettled here if you think it can help with your consulting.

[@NupurDave]

Yea please! Would love to hear about your story.I have Created a form where users can submit their story. Let me know! docs.google.com/forms/d/1GAFOwte4hiuRVHQxoq9t30WxaxIlIFW-yLz9D8UDw2Y/prefill

[@hemantaneja8467]

Mujhe 2 mahine huye h ... Or m soch soch pagal ho rha hu Ki ab yha rehna padega ...... Aggee ki life Kb tak 🙈

[@abhib724]

@@hemantaneja8467 if you need to talk about it, let me know. I can understand what you are going through.

[@hemantaneja8467]

@@abhib724 anejahemant p ing me

[@abhib724]

@@hemantaneja8467 just to be clear, this ID works on which social network?

[@londondisc]

One of the problems i have when hollidaying in India is the lack of footpaths I want to go for a walk but i have to walk on the road with dangerous traffic behind me. Where there are some footpaths they are badly broken or cars are parked on the footpaths. I find India is the comfort and joys at home however going out poses big problems

[@majeshirkaku1543]

Just did my m9ve back and after trying to go back several time have decised ro give india a chance

[@salonifotariya6573]

Hi Nupur U have covered everything even i m in same boat I m going back to India after 7 years You can make a video part 2 that when child is around 4 years take the decision to go back coz once their age is above 5years it becomes difficult coz school in india have hindi and marathi or other language as subject

[@greenearth4611]

I am here in US for 25 years now and still don’t feel I belong. Miss my motherland a lot, though o visit every year, sometimes twice a year. Now my kids are in college and highschool and they are all American. I still hope to retire in India

[@richataluja7331]

I slept 8 hours in USA also. But whatever you said all is true.

[@madhavpr]

I moved back to India right after I finished masters. I was depressed and unemployed for some time. I was told by a few idiots to lie on my resume in order to get a job in a software company. My ethics mattered more to me and I quit the USA for good. Fast forward 7+ years, I'm glad I came back.

[@akshitareddy1522]

Hey, i will be finishing my masters in dec and I am returning back to India in Jan. Hope I will also be glad returning back!

[@prashantb8281]

What are you doing now

[@rohanutep81]

@@akshitareddy1522telugu moving back😂😂😂

[@gauravchauhan285]

thank you for making this video,as most of N.R.i used to hipe about their life in foreign,i do not know why? In india you are here in your own people,own culture,language....... there is a lot to do if anyone has the desire go do without any idiotic excuses

[@gauravchauhan285]

desire to do

[@sainikhil6185]

If I had done my pgdm program in Canada and worked for 6-7 years will that pgdm is enough to get me a job or else I have to do masters again.

[@PrashantTayshetye]

Coming home is coming home. I complain but and got my citizenship but still moved back.

[@hemantaneja8467]

Meri 2 mahine m hi bs ho gyi 🙈

[@prashantb8281]

Why did you leave after citizenship?

[@preetkamal8714]

You have people to do the chores for you like car washer, cleaning lady,painter, gardener etc etc

[@kanikahasija3537]

So what is your point. Should Indians quit the domestic help? If they can afford it they will, no body wants you judgement and opinion in that. They are not slave labor they get paid for it and it decreases some level of unemployment. Rich Americans also have domestic help.

[@jennifershakira409]

Hi Nupur, enjoyed watching your videos. I'm your new subscriber. I live in Australia now. I left India 22 years ago, I lived in Newzealand & Australia for about 22 years now. My kids are born & raised in Newzealand. Several times I wanted to return back to India but I couldn't return because my kids can't speak Hindi or Kannada . Now my kids are studying in universities here. I definitely want to return to India when I retire. My major concern is about the weather because India is too hot & my body is now used to cold weather. How did you find the transition from US to India ,was it easier? My kids are Newzealand citizens and since they can't speak Indian languages, they think that it will be much harder for them if they move back to India . Can you please give more insight? Can you please share your thoughts on moving back to India a better decision? Or at some point did you regret? I love India, I want to live rest of my life in India. Any suggestions from your perspective will be greatly appreciated 👍👍 Many thanks 👍🙏😊

[@NupurDave]

Thanks for your heartning story . loving india in theory and in actually are different things, so i suggest try it out for a year. Your kids reaction to india is totally dependent on their personality so cant say how that will go. Weather is a challege but in bangalore the weather is fair all year round, you'll like it :) If you need a personalised help reach out to me on my website and we can talk.

[@SUJAMUK]

As your children are born in Newzealand, India will be a foreign country to them and they have all their friends in Newzealand. You have to live in a country where you feel as your home. You may come to India for few months but it won't be sensible for you to come-back permanently leaving your children behind.

[@peroxisome1]

Hi Nupur, new subscriber here. Do you have any tips for someone who has never lived in India, and wants to move there (with family who have visited but never lived there) when they are 40+? Is it absurd?

[@NupurDave]

Difficult but not impossible. Quite a few have moved. You need someone to help you adjust. Reach out to me at Nupur Dave.in and we can chat about it.

[@Californiadesi]

Yes !

[@nirjakadu5414]

Hey nupur, thanks for lovely video, I am in same boat. Have been planning in my head since the day I came to UK that I don’t want to live here forever. Nonetheless i am still here after 12 years! Now my kids r std 1 and 6th do u think it’s too late to move? I am planning to move to Pune as well.

[@NupurDave]

Never too late :)

[@prashantb8281]

No you can still move. You can easily get adjusted within a year with kids.

[@kdk41182]

Did you move to India? I am in the UK and planning to move with kids the same age as yours.

[@ankushatrangi]

I m so confused to leave india or not can u please help me out with this ?

[@AwittyPotatoee0506]

You can leave India not thinking about settling in a foreign country. Immigrants have it really hard. I moved to US as a dependent and my mom is the H1B holder for our family. Though it seems pretyy cool and polished, once you come here, the reality hits you. I've dreamed about a lot of things but got restricted in many aspects. When I was in India I got to roam around the city and do everything with a lot of people around me. I feel so empty here. I'm going to a good school, got a comfortable home with all kinds of luxuries but it's so hard without people. I miss my friends of 10 years, my family and FOOD😭 I'm a vegetarian so it's heck of a problem to find any food here😭😭. I miss India sm! I guess I'll back after I'm done with my graduation.

[@chanchalsharma7390]

If you are confused, means you are not convinced with the opportunity to move, and if not, please don't move. India has better life just not money, but Life yes.

[@saterdraj6768]

I think it is funny that you need to adjust in a country where you have been born and brought up. I don't get it.

[@marcelusaurelius2012]

I always wonder why many indians who went abroad for different reasons fuss so much about coming back home to roots and family, and go through so much troubles to justify that move.. i mean its ridiculous you spent your whole life, most likely until the end of college in india; so life is not exactly too bad here at home.. at the end of the day a foreign country is a foreign country; that country owes nothing to you and you go there seeking opportunities. they also dont issue visas to one and all, so its also not exactly charity . tomorrow when situation gets dire immigrants and foreigners will be the first to face the backlash...so many europeans, africans and south americans move back to their respective home countries after a few/many years abroad in some western country after taking a pay cut and loss of luxuries whenthey feel homesick. i dont see them justify their choice on youtube. home is afterall home, and if one is indian at heart india is a great country no matter what many perennial pessimist losers here say..it gives all possibilities to grow personally and professionally if one is original in thinking and social minded..problem with indians is most of us have a herd mindset and many are not capable of introspective thinking. as since indian minds overall are not very mature and introspective, they tend to repeat other peoples negative opinions like a parrot ,, life can be great anywhere tbh in any democratic country if we put our mind into it and think as per your own individual situation.

[@madhurakattigehallimath3108]

Exactly.. people born and brought up in India, move other countries for job or opportunity, and after few years living there, to come back home they feel like as if they have to go to some unknown planet.. it's too ridiculous..

[@fars1d3s]

If you have a certain level of social status, a certain level of expectations in life, chances are you won't be happy in the US because you won't get the recognition, the privilege you feel you deserve, regardless of the country you're from.

[@jbookvoxx]

NRI is a very ambiguous term and spreads delusion too. You should explain the categories of NRIs such as what time of period NRI has lived abroad and where ? For example abroad can be Sri Lanka, Middle East, African nations as well where they draw different experiences from their surroundings and regimes are not different to our own in India where as NRI could be living there for few years but then there are NRIs (especially OCI card holders) who have not only lived in west for more than a decade (or even decades) but are used to a liberal governance and open press. What I have seen that most of your cases are based on IT professionals who have been there on a short stint and could have maximum of 5-7 years at the most but when I talk about these guys then you must know that for an Indian it takes at least 10 years abroad (if in west) where things starts to set in and internal change takes place - these people would be a different case then the guys who go there only to survive who live by cutting corners, looking for freebies, drink water from Tap to save on mineral water bottle or eat from Delis.

[@pareshdave8800]

good mam....

[@Tubemith]

Why NRIs are moving back to India.... There are many NRIs have made the video... If not USA then can you migrate to any other foreign country in UK or Australia and Newzealand

[@pareshdave8800]

that country same culture same weather...not new...ok

[@ksherasumith]

India is India no country can match India in weather, culture and freedom

[@mayankindian3750]

@@ksherasumith india developing very fast

[@advaita6523]

जब आ ही गये हो तो हिंदी में बनाओ So u can reach to mass hindi audience.

[@Lolhahahaqwrry]

India has so many languages other than Hindi

[@muzic12freakzz]

Hindi is not even our official language, noone should feel pressured to learn a language that isn't native to them

[@AnnaLia120]

@@muzic12freakzz He or she is talking about reaching mass by speaking in Hindi. Yes we don't have one language and that's why we can't be United for sure. It's like you are in UK and don't know how to speak in English.

[@muzic12freakzz]

@@AnnaLia120 English is the official language in the UK. Can't compare apples and oranges. Also, if a foreigner from UK posted a video in their native language I doubt we'd be asking them to post in English.

[@mysticankit]

are you still single & Dating ? :)

[@rohanutep81]

😂😂😂

[@mgupta3525]

are you married?

[@PrashantTayshetye]

Are you kidding me? She is giving such useful information.

[@NavedHasan12345]

With the kind of life she is leading I doubt she's still married. These kind of experimental women can hardly hold down a stable relationship

[@mgupta3525]

@@NavedHasan12345 true

[@rohanutep81]

😂😂😂😂 are you looking for green card?

[@RamenDas-dl9yw]

Plese speeks some of hindi and tel about you