How much do you want it? [real talk]

[@Itsmepicku]

Hi I'm a 17 y girl from India. I wasted 1 year in social media. I was badly addicted to social media. But after watching your videos my life has completely changed. I deleted my insta 20 days ago and now I'm way more productive than my past days. So I really want to thank you. I'm getting better day by day and I hope I can achieve my goals. Thanks again💗.

[@paradox7830]

reply to this comment when youre 25

[@pet-triflyofficialchannel6528]

@@paradox7830 why...

[@kostubhchawdha5088]

India Mai Kaha Rehte ho??

[@nikhilchhabra5271]

same thing happened to me ! But after cutting myself off I felt really lonely. Being a 17 year old boy I only have one person to whom I can call a friend. But he is in different section .Other boys in my class just want to seem cool so i dont really get along with them. But ig thats part of the journey 😊. I'll keep grinding

[@FinanceWithNick]

​@@nikhilchhabra5271you got that buddy ! Trust the process

[@squash9189]

One of my favorite saying is “Touch your own sky, and let me touch mine”

[@xechammad4539]

that perfectly fucking describes it

[@edgyalienpoh1538]

bars bro

[@aha6n]

one of mine is let me touch you

[@RathuLalo]

idk why that just sounds so inappropriate

[@Danchored]

Just found out my family isn’t helping me with college, life is going down from here. Good grades and shit only get you so far. Realized I only need money.

[@Hankal31doscope]

Damn bro that's rough, i hope life will get better for you

[@motherofdragons1862]

Why not?

[@EntitieCraft]

Because they don't have enough money to provide ​for college @@motherofdragons1862

[@keepyoursins]

Maybe you should reframe it from "help you"? What if they can't afford it, but still support you, that would still be helping you, but I obviously don't know your situation.

[@Ham-.-sandwich]

damn bro i hope shit gets better fro u my sister had the same problem fucking genius student but no one other than my mom would fund it and my mom doesn't earn that much so she arranged so many student loans and got different people to help for loans and stuff so believe in ursefl and try to maybe look into discover or some other student loan stuff but if yk some relatives that rlly believe in u reach out to them my sis did this and the worst they said was no but a lotta ppl agreed to help and some of my relatives were open to giving student loans nd now shes at berkley studying with like 2 jobs paying her own rent and groceries and stuff so it all works out if u need anymore tips I gotchu

[@patrick-ramzy]

bro just casually changed my life forever

[@haunted7937]

a great way to not let this method ruin your mental health is to have the mindset of you're already valuable and having high standards for yourself makes sure you treat yourself with respect.

[@The-Buffy]

Just be happy with where you're at right now. That doesn't mean that you don't find it unacceptable, unacceptable just means "Oh, I don't like this, this is not enough: I want more." Be happy and grateful with being broke but keep a voice in your head telling you that this is unacceptable, that you want to be more. "I'm happy, even though my grades are way below my standard, but I still want to be at the top of the school." (or something similar) An actionable and practical step to applying this is gratitude journaling, where you name things and people you are grateful for. Some indirect ways to prevent your mental health from being obliterated is doing stuff like: exercise, sunlight exposure, meditation, healthy sleep schedule, healthy diet, etc. These things may not solve your problem but they do make it easier to do so. Ruff puts it perfectly in his _Most Common Habit Amongst Addicts_ video: "Nature will not cure your addiction but you can't cure your addiction without nature." -- Ruff.

[@jmn_editss]

Just finished watching the video! His "Mwah" makes my day fr. Thanks for his awesome video man

[@Aerique_X_]

Am glad I got ur channel recommended in yt yesterday...ur way of talking and explaining things is really something ...after watching ur videos i felt like THIS IS THE TYPE OF CONTENT I NEED ON MY FEED and subbed u

[@ItsMeRuff]

i appreciate that dawg

[@yilangroenenboom1117]

I think the best baseline you can set for yourself is simply to improve. This will bring your focus to what naturally dissatisfies you and there will always be something but it doesn't have to be huge to the point where you don't feel good enough and your mental health suffers.

[@amandinepinault855]

This is exactly what I needed to hear. I've been procrastinating way to much lately and giving up on things for no reasons and now with what you said in the video I'm like : damn I just accept to be so low when I can give myself so much more things to do

[@Zakkaipuresarcasm]

I would tell myself "it's ok I have time I'm young", but then would use that as an excuse for everything and its become unhealthy so now I'm going to tell myself "because I'm young I must start now" great video

[@malectric_]

Regarding what you said about mental health and self-worth, if you are actively pushing to better yourself by raising your own bar, then you should find you self-worth in your character, in striving to do better, not just in how things are right now. Anyone can use this method as long as they have the right mindset. Also imagine Ruff working at McDonald's loooool Love your channel bro 💜

[@zodiacnights712]

if you find it hard to see it from a third person pov: just imagine your future self. you being at your full potential and having everything you wanted. visualize yourself in 5/10/15 yrs being the best you and continue you working towards THAT PERSON. you can hit one stone (for eg.getting fit/better grades) per yr and still be much better than who u are rn. simply put, "work towards achieving YOUR best self"

[@REFRACTION.devn404]

Ruff you really changed my life Thanks for the direction ❤

[@emmasun3698]

Writing everything unacceptable in my life right now is going to take quite a while…. But thanks for the great advice

[@Sharkies08]

My father was born and had his secondary education in the village but because he was so done with the living conditions of the village he wanted to get out. That was his motivation. He had his higher educations in the city and he competed in the civil service exams and succeeded in most of them and now he is living a good life in a metropolitan city.He is my inspiration and i really admire him ❤

[@divyam.arya864]

happy for ur dad, but ur dad was deprived - he changed his life with more motivation. now YOU, you are not deprived, are you? how do u think are u getting 'actionably' (actually) inspired from him?

[@Sharkies08]

@@divyam.arya864 well I am not as deprived as my father was but I still belong to the middle class society of India which is very fine yet i keep higher standards than anyone around me and strive to meet my own expectations. And about inspiration- my father is truly the most admirable person I have in my life. I have learned patience, humility and confidence from my dad. He has taught me to be the better judge myself. I may have better resources but I am nowhere close to my father as a person.

[@divyam.arya864]

@@Sharkies08 glad to know that and we share that middle class and Indian trait haha All the best brother! I resonated with you becuz I learnt myself from being calm in every situation, controlling his anger and emotions yk. And my father hasn't completed any serious education due to poor family situations back then but I'm happy to be privileged enough and I'm grateful to watch this video and writing here. I'm prepping for NEET and more than studying it's discipline and other good qualities that brings me before the most of competition. I've been on self improvement since the starting of 2023 or smth. Nice to meet u brother ✨

[@zappisgood8794]

I first found you when you where just below 100K subs, basically a year ago, and I have successfully implemented everything that you have taught after recovering from my depression. Arigatou!

[@paradox7830]

1 like = 1 push up

[@AdityaSingh-mx6fb]

Take action bro

[@mcflurrina]

I love ur videos , the title really made me want to watch, didn’t regret a single second of this.

[@NebulaJohnny]

Yo Ruff, just gotta drop some love your way, man. Your vids have been a real game-changer for me, and I can't thank you enough. Keep doing your thing, bro, you're making a bigger impact than you might even realize!

[@Abcdxyyy]

Letsss goooooooo ruff postedddd

[@lucias3109]

Bro changed my life perspective

[@ashmita7430]

The reason I subscribed to your channel was because of the "real talk". You better continue making these type of videos.

[@pericheri]

While watching his videos, I always experience this moment of epiphany. The things he talks about and the way he explains them is so perfect, it makes me wanna cry.

[@mfgrock786]

Ruff you are my inspiration don't you ever dare to stop... and I will remember you when I feel lost.❤

[@DevendraTiwari-o6n]

Oooo the ruff with his dim golden light 🕯️ is backkkkk✋🏻

[@QWERTYUIOPASDFGH221]

13:10 In my opinion, you do have the charm to make these real talk videos work. They help with my attention span and make me feel as if I'm actually conversing with someone. Not asking you to milk content, but if you do have more insightful things you can talk about from your experience it would be greatly appreciated

[@krishiv1292]

I’ve been watching you since your second video. You’ve helped me turn my life over. Hamza and other KZbinrs are too old and too straightforward without a plan, if you get what I mean. I’m 14 and you are relatable and thats so much help and inspirational. You helped me become consistent and I have been following a consistent and sustainable routine for over 6 months and it’s been life changing. Thank you ruff 😍 Muahh

[@er1ka709]

Ruff always me how much I want to improve, that alone gives me motivation

[@Someone_01s]

Very interesting topic. I realized a while ago that people get amazed by things that in my opinion should be common sense. But thats their perspective of knowledge and success, each person has their own. But setting the bar higher can be a great way to actually go higher (hope that makes sense lol).

[@BasicallyCleve]

can't join da skool rn but a few years from now i'll be able to make money by myself and improve my english a bit so i can just fucking join that fire shit even tho the price goes extremely high.

[@ItsMeRuff]

yeah no prob, i've seen ur channel, honestly in a couple months you should be making money from youtube if u continue on the current trajectory. practically everyone in Ruff Club has their own channel so you'd fit in when you join. it's rly fun to have a bunch of small youtubers come together and just help each other. all the best for ur youtube cleve

[@BasicallyCleve]

@@ItsMeRuff dayum, thanks a lot ruff. all the best for yours too, u inspired me a lot fr

[@pewpew-c3h]

I rlly like this style of longer videos. Thank you!

[@entartung]

weekly self improvement food from ruff

[@jnishaera]

This guy's more consistent than my ass will ever be. 🍄 You deserve a chocolate 🍫

[@MotivatedPotatoKnish]

I've been watching since 100 subs, and your channel just gets better and better 🙏 Your videos have really helped me become more motivated and focused. thank you.

[@MartinFonson]

Honestly, I get stressed so much at work and that has pushed me to chasing my goal on KZbin and I'm grateful that I got this job or else I'm not sure I would have chase my dreams.

[@frostty2023]

If u r reading this I love u ruff... Thanks for everything.. I wanna be like you

[@jmn_editss]

I was looking forward for your video

[@bloxxdude]

Ruff posted 🥳💪💪💪 love ya king ruff

[@thelmaotiono3999]

I like these your real talk videos if that's how they're going to be and secondly i want to thank you for changing my perspective. I'm someone who used to thirst for more, I was never satisfied with my life, I wanted to be great, I wanted to thrive and everytime i saw my coursemates thriving more than me, it would kill me. Some People would tell me I'm destroying myself and i should let it go and some would say that I need to go harder because. I never knew what side was right so i did both, i would have expectations but if I don't reach them I'd be fine because the fear of failing was gone but the more i do something the more i have this urge to be way better and I'm scared that it will destroy my mental health like last time. I want to thrive and I want to be a billionaire, I want to be successful and i want to live a productive life and change more and more to the best of my abilities, I can't fight this urge I have in me and honestly you only ignited it more. But now i know that me being bad at something compared to someone who is better isn't something to hang myself over but i should take that as a challenge to thrive more, thank you so much! Ruff knows his stuff!

[@ShellyNooby]

Please make a video about getting back on self improvement if you feel like your not progressing! I'm falling off hard times man!

[@djtj212]

Damn that’s crazy. I watched your videos before 100k and I stopped watching because I got comfortable with my life going into university. Now the I’ve fallen below my minimum baseline, I searched up your channel and got this video. It’s time to take action!

[@isimpforlucas6206]

I would bark for this man 🛐 (jokes aside honestly appreciate you sm

[@mchanc]

Nice Loving the Dark ambience(still sunlight gang tho we need dat sun, get some sunlight bro)

[@Channingwinsgold]

I’m literally void of energy at the end of everyday because of the work I put in just because I want to be where you are ruff but it seems the harder I work the less views I get

[@Jul_studies_0_0]

THANKS RUFF. It was umm a nice one... saving it

[@hey.withrizz.]

This video was exactly what I needed the most right now. Thank you so much, Ruff💯 (i don't do comments but here i am)

[@yush4673]

The real talk videos are great man keep it up.

[@howpunny3570]

damn. ive watched a couple of your vids and ngl all of them were useful. thanks for making these, its very encouraging.

[@DorkViews]

i love ruffs kisses.

[@gloomy_r4in]

love your videos ❤❤honestly very motivating especially when i get into ruts. thanks bro

[@emptycupp]

Bro's timing is next level dude

[@My_Honest_Reaction_1]

Love your content ruff Do you think self-improvement is for life or It is a phase of growing up and becoming better?

[@ItsMeRuff]

to me it's a lifelong thing because either way what else are you gonna do? when i ask myself that qn i'm like 'yeah id rather just improve, im happiest when im improving so either way ill just continue whether im successful or not'

[@moonlight33527]

wow i never really thought about pursuing a job other than fast food restraunts during high school

[@holymoly1785]

make more of these...def brings back the old vibe

[@c0dertang]

goddammit this always hits so hard for no reason

[@AndrewMakymchuk]

This vids help so much more than normal ones

[@ItsMeStarsky]

This is a video I should watch every morning

[@kunzo_o]

Everyone should need their own Ruff

[@mebakyabum4032]

❤real talk is needed..yes we love it ruff ✨😌💗💐

[@Userrnameee1234]

"I need money to feed my cat" 😂👏🏻

[@DODO_is_straight]

I ve been waiting for another post!

[@Chromesible]

bro has 226k subs atm, i followed him when he had around 90k subs, i must say good job bro

[@toshii77]

ruff u so attractive wtff

[@ItsMeRuff]

uh

[@whitetree1729]

@@ItsMeRuff hi can I talk to you about school?I am going sp

[@My_Honest_Reaction_1]

@@whitetree1729 get his course and you answer all of your questions

[@TechnoUniverse06]

Can you plzzzzzz post more videos, you're the only reason I am slowly improving. I've ur old videos like 5-10 times but they can help upto a point. 😃 Thank you

[@unnatibhatia4042]

I just want to say it out loud. Your videos are so good for me. Because I find that your ideas sync with me. I am doing quite well in my life . And it's all manageable enough. I just like watching you videos ruff because it's rare to find out my observation and ways of life to see in other places or in another person. Your videos assures me that I'm on right track. And I like listening to you words. Because of matching ages and humour.You just kind of feels like you clap for me without even trying. You're so simple and that just satisfies me that i am not alone. It's just you put an end to my worries. thank you. 🌻🎺🎀🪄

[@hoineetan]

i love ur real talks

[@mauryaanurag6622]

Ur content are always nice keep making like these

[@lattecatte]

Love your vids

[@ItsYaazhii]

Hey, I've never thought about acceptable baselines this way. This would surely help accelerate progress, but only when you know what to do, and have been doing it for a while. A person new to smth they want to do, is probably going to struggle a LOT if thay start expecting a lot from themselves as soon as the begin the new task. So be careful and set higher expectations only after skme times youve spent doing the task. I see youve recorded this during the dark and not the evening/morning sunshine lol it gives serious-plotting-smth vibes but still good 😅 and keep doing these real talk videos man, they help!! 👊 Are you going to talk about the skool community??

[@JyotiKumari-xb7sh]

still can't believe the magic you trick here ...

[@studyroof1569]

Hii ruff , I want some advice redgarding fear , whenever I try to do some new thing or even study , I am guilty of not doing it earlier and just drop it there. It sucks , I want to get out of this trap and be a better person.

[@harukio7265]

First ,yes my life sucks ,will comment again after completing the vid

[@Iunaaa-_-]

Did you complete it yet?

[@harukio7265]

No I got busy half way through

[@rajkumar-b9d5r]

I can be productive but the problem is College and there habit of giving us practical date 2 or 3 days ago Everything was going fine but suddenly my college decided to take our practical which is only for 10 marks but i have to study 60 pages in 3 days ughhhhhhh its just a waste

[@n0x-h1e]

W RUFF POST

[@5uy0g]

Ruffs ruff :) basically ruff, guys be yourself but have a mindset of someone you wanted to be ;)

[@lucifermorning9383]

Best advice I have heard😊🎉

[@gokcekara798]

love you

[@ItsMeSammmmmmmm]

real talks tuff 🗣️🗣️🗣️

[@v1diu]

Dude, you still haven’t monetized? Not sure if this is by choice (I know the guidelines are different in Singapore), but just know I’d DEFINITELY watch the ads. It’s been crazy to see your progress btw, insanely good job

[@ShawnThings]

Love u ruff ❤

[@Sophia-wb3ct]

Thank you for making this video!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! could you talk about how to study for exams next time, I really need itttt🤲

[@spikyrock2805]

So just basically change your "normal"

[@goddamn-3702]

RUFF POSTED SKSKKWKWKSKS

[@crystalizedghost1575]

Reminds me of Isayama saying Eren exploded because he realized his life is boring

[@piratejayesh8422]

Greed equals justice

[@minlrgo]

I've seen the push up comentay, and i thought : I want to do push up too ! that's unfair ! So yeah : ➡1 like = 3 push up ⬅

[@ketiviv]

ruff i love you so much

[@dramaticviky]

“How bad do you want it?” I don’t. How do I get rid of it.

[@focusonyourself24-7]

Thanks ruff again ❤

[@0zi_zi0]

the underratted ones are the best😭

[@BasicallyCleve]

ik you told us your editors used davinci resolve to edit. but last week YOU did the editing - when you do it by yourself, what app did you use?

[@ItsMeRuff]

i used capcut for the vlog cuz davinci was bugging out on me and every time i clicked 'text' it just crashed so i said fuck davinci and used capcut

[@BasicallyCleve]

@@ItsMeRuff aight thank you for dat, love the last vlog man

[@aroundtheworld3972]

The problem is that my life is too good.

[@RumiCakraborty]

My problem is that my life is so bad that it just kills my motivation and energy.

[@Rookieunsolicitedopinion]

Needing money to feed our cats is real, they be expensive...

[@keerthanc5368]

Love u ruff

[@ihavejiminslostjams2069]

Bro is the real Sigma.

[@denizdasea]

I agree with this, it helped me a lot.

[@legendsarenagaming]

Content needed fomo ,minimalism,how to study-part 2, and one vid on standing out from the normal peeps and the teenage mind trying to fit in.

[@constantine_second8024]

5:10 “ger smaller” just wanna point out this small mistake

[@Wuerusjkwoj]

Hello I'm 15 and I don't know how to quit my phone addiction can u please help I'm ready to take actions I just need a plan

[@sandu-4]

throw your phone out of the window🙌

[@yupmeij]

Since "how to stop scrolling (no bs)" 👌