How My Friend’s Father Groomed Me - Jen Doyle’s Story

Jen Doyle will discuss her unfortunate experience in today's Unfiltered Stories episode. Jen began to be groomed when she was just 12 years old by a 38-year-old pastor who also happened to be her friend's father. Listen to her story and what unfolded!
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[@WelshRabbit-rw2gz]

I was also abused by my friends father, from the age of 8, until 13. Both my parents worked, so arrangements had been made for me to go there each day after school for a few hours until my mum finished work. I'm a mother and grandmother in my 50s now, and despite everything that man did to me, the only bit I still struggle with is when I eventually found the courage to tell my mum at age 10, she refused to believe me, and even threatened to have me put in a children's home if i said things like that again. Her refusal or denial in believing me, resulting in the abuse escalating and continuing for another 3 years, until we thankfully moved away due to my dad's job. On the plus side, it made me hyper vigilant and open talking with my own children, and now grandchildren, to ensure it never happened again 💜

[@ThirtyThree-sq2ie]

I'm sorry you went through that, and I believe you.

[@nancyritland9116]

i believe you...............noone believed me either........my abuser says that i am mentally ill and delusional........and so everyone believes him and disrespects me

[@nate2759]

It makes me so angry when parents or close relatives do not believe the victim, it makes it that much more painful. I’m so sorry what you went through.

[@Tanya49655]

I believe you and I’m so sorry that happened if it makes you feel any better the same thing happened to my sister at literally the same age but thankfully my grandmother who once brought her as an infant to the hospital from a level 7 coma this man put her in because my mom refused to called the police and he’s doing a life sentence but my mom never forgave her and was jealous of a 10 YEAR OLD! and made sure she got the worst beatings from that point on until she turned 13 and was big enough and snapped during a beating and beat the ever living hell out of my mom with the hangers she loved to use so she was sent to fostercare we all were but at different times and states woman couldn’t even keep custody of one out of seven children but somehow thinks she’s a good mom despite her first born committing suicide and her second doing a life sentence for being a pedophile 3rd is a prostitute and the rest drug addicts but she didn’t fail apparently ik that backstabbing Will never heal and you’ll never get the love that you desperately need but that just means you need to ask a different question to which your life can be the answer to you may not see it but Karma will come just not in the form you want or can see you win by living your life happily somethings she could never do and when you realize that you become so much more content with it I’m a stranger but know I love you❤️ and I believe you and if you ever want to talk I’m an understanding ear

[@starlingswallow]

I am so sorry that happened to you....and I'm so sorry your mom betrayed you. I am also so glad that you moved and that you are educating your children and grandkids ❤

[@lesliem9696]

When I was 12 years old my friend's father groomed me too. I would hang out there after school and he would hang around us. He was the cool dad, the kind of dad everyone loved to be around. Little did I know that he was around all the time because he was trying to get close to me. I would hang out with my friend and he would just stare at me across the room longingly. One day he passed me a note telling me that he liked me. I remember as a middle school kid, I wasn't very pretty like the other girls and I didn't get a lot of attention at school so I enjoyed the attention I got from him. After a lot of grooming, he raped me repeatedly for a year. I never thought of it as rape because I didn't say no, and I never told anyone because I always felt like I was equally at fault. It wasn't until I turned 26 that I finally realized it wasn't my fault, that this man took my innocence from me without my consent- because I wasn't old enough to consent. And I always wanted to wait until marriage, but he took that from me. The man I married - my husband and I actually did wait until marriage. But I wish he could've been my first, and not my friends evil father from when I was 12. Thanks for sharing your story, it gave me the courage to share mine here.

[@dianaselnekovicova948]

Your husband is your first ❤ I know what you mean he took advantage over you but You gave your love and body to your husband you never give anything to that evil person. You are brave and strong person that you were able to believe someone even after such terrible experience.All shame is on him not on you. I am sending my love to you and wish you well in life❤❤❤

[@lesliem9696]

@@dianaselnekovicova948 thanks so much ❤️

[@jazzsinger49]

So how do you even trust men at all? I don't know if I could ever after that.

[@lesliem9696]

@@jazzsinger49 I had a really great father. My dad is and always has been the kind of man who keeps his word and he is loving. He is someone in my life I have always been able to lean on and count on. So despite the man who hurt me, I had another man in my life (my dad) who showed me that there are men out there who can be trusted. And my now husband shows me the same. Good men exist too, and Ive just been lucky enough to have two in my life.

[@danielrockmyer949]

Yeah. You put it out repeatedly for a year!

[@feliciaperezauthor]

I was molested by my stepfather for 7 years. The things he did were horrific. The damage he caused will be lifelong. Recovery isn’t easy but necessary. My voice was never heard but it is being heard now. One person at a time. I’m strong enough now and want to share my story to continue bringing awareness. Please choose to fight against molestation/ sex abuse WITH ME!, My fight is just getting started. This fight (for me) is no longer about my abuse, it’s about the society that failed me and my determination to bring awareness. Stop Sexual Abuse

[@rebecateixeira4702]

Jesus Love you

[@jadegreen1554]

A big part of the fight is people not getting the fact that these perpetrators came with a plan to target a victim and a victim who is manipulated did not CONSENT.

[@keymaster430]

What I wish a lot of teenage girls would understand, is that it is NOT ok to have an adult male as a friend. No matter how innocent the man makes it seem. There is no reason for a grown man and a teenage girl to be or act as 'friends'. And if a grown man is acting as a friend and tells them that they are friends, that is a huge red flag. The only relationship between them and a grown man should either be immediately family (father figure or uncle) or a friend's father and that's it. They should never be alone together for any reason. That's just the way it is.

[@GalacticTradingPost]

The fat ones are vulnerable and easy.

[@marramambertamarramamberta9107]

What about a grown adult male being friends with a teenage boy? There have been cases too.

[@keymaster430]

@@marramambertamarramamberta9107 yes, same situation

[@CJG-bk4bk]

You’re 100% right.

[@ensabahnur3104]

And he got hired at a church...after all of that...smh

[@nate2759]

He probably told them a sob story.

[@sherry2891]

🤯 That's awful that he got hired at another church!! Protect your children!

[@Tanya49655]

@@nate2759every single one of them say it was just a statutory situation where the girl was like 15 and he was 18 crazy how every predator has the same story lol and EVERYONE BELEIEVES IT instead of looking up a very readily available background check

[@jailamink6489]

He was white ,they always fly under the radar

[@marceloescovar8087]

He must have wanted to change his life for the good. We don’t know that. I’m not justifying what he did was right. But god forgives EVERYONE and you must repent with all of your heart.

[@ashleymarie2021]

It IS sick how they make victims feel like they're in trouble... So scary and sad

[@seijin4426]

Because they are in trouble, and they know the outcome of this. You can't just let the perpetrator go loose without justice and retribution!

[@enuphsayd9746]

Instinct is your guardian angel speaking to you. Listen to it to save your life.

[@dannyboi4027]

nice white girls, contact me, a nice white guy

[@Shaaalien]

How can you bring up guardian angels while she is telling a story about a religious leader harming her? Read the room…

[@enuphsayd9746]

@@Shaaalien ok...your gut instinct or that inkling... I don't care what one calls it. Listen to that energy force. #haveagoodday

[@Mrscarricom]

​@@Shaaalien because we're old enough to know church goer doesn't mean saint , just like parent doesn't always mean protectors.

[@jadegreen1554]

@@Shaaaliengrow up. Not all pastors are rapists, and not all rapists are pastors.

[@shawn576]

This lady is a great story teller. Enthusiastic, serious but laughing, describing event then emotion. Truly a remarkable skill.

[@charlescossel7948]

Yes! Bringing it out from the darkness into the light!!!

[@CJG-bk4bk]

So scary for our daughters. Thank you for educating us on all the variants involved with these monsters.

[@Misty-gc6bq]

She did an excellent job telling her story. I'm sure it will help anyone in a similar situation. I love her hair ❤️

[@jaimechavez5249]

She literally fell into it her self don’t feel bad for her at all

[@Mrscarricom]

​@@jaimechavez5249 you don't have to feel for her, just like when you don't give pity, you wouldn't receive any

[@bonkey8644]

It takes a real idiot or a relative of that jerk tho say a 13 yr old fell for it........ As a adult ( and a church member) he was responsible for his ADULT actions.

[@nate2759]

@@jaimechavez5249She was a child who trusted an adult who was in a position of power. It’s evil to blame the victim and not the perpetrator.

[@map3384]

Do girls sleep around at that age? Yes. I knew a few on my block as a kid. Even my three female cousins were at her age. My youngest cousin even told me in front of her husband that she was hot for this mid to late 20 to roofer dude. She said she was on an ego trip to bed him. I said how old were you? She says 13. Then her husband says as a joke that’s why the call them roofer. Because they nail ya. I didn’t think it was funny at all.

[@grumpyoldlady_rants]

A friend’s father molested me when I was not quite 11. I never told anyone - I just stopped going to her apartment.

[@KeptDaughter]

You are seen and heard. Thank you for sharing your voice. I'm sorry. Healing grace to you

[@rmw9130]

I'm so sorry. Tell someone now. Share your story to someone you trust. Even if there's no criminal prosecution or anything like that it will help!!

[@grumpyoldlady_rants]

@@rmw9130 - I did as an adult - including a therapist. My brother had remained friends with the man’s son, JR. About 30-35 years later, my mom called and told me JR’s father died. I said “Good riddance to that SOB” and told her what happened.

[@seijin4426]

And you didn't tell your parents about it?!!

[@grumpyoldlady_rants]

@@seijin4426 - Bo. I think I was afraid I would get in trouble. My brother remained lifelong friends with the man’s son. When the man died, my brother calmed my No and mentioned it yo her. When she told me I sss as I’d “Good riddance to that son-of-a-b*tch” then told her what he’d done.

[@darrylmacleod5667]

Thank you. What a brave soul.

[@cwalker688]

I’m so sorry this happened, you are extremely strong. May you have peace, love and joy in your life

[@jaimechavez5249]

Don’t feel sorry for her it’s no body fault but hers

[@sapphire_starlight]

​@@jaimechavez5249 You're a horrible person. If anything ever happened to you, don't be surprised if no one cares.

[@nate2759]

@@jaimechavez5249You seriously have problems, I wouldn’t be surprised if you are the man who molested her.

[@Charles-pz6ux]

The small solace being, that with every victim coming forward, people are given the strength to speak out so that others might be saved. We have to believe our children when they're asking for help. ❤❤❤

[@Romanceguru]

The thing that got me, was he couldn’t even be bothered with a condom, just expected you to have an abortion to suit his sick needs. I can’t believe he’s out and still not taking accountability. That shows me he probably won’t stop. You are such a beautiful and amazing soul. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@Rexorazor]

What happened to "Pro-Life" jig?

[@Emily_Burgess89]

@@Rexorazorwell, she did say he told her that the rules of the Bible didn’t apply to them for whatever manipulative reasons.

[@EdmundSampson-pd7vi]

He's a demon, lurks in the shadows , false prophet, he didn't believe a thing he was preaching

[@SofiUk0319]

I'm vry impressed w how empathetic you are to your abuser and his fam. I am also extremely grateful you came to understand that it was abuse and your parents did the right thing for you!!!

[@rsanka5870]

You look great after all. You are an inspiration to all others.

[@oljayoj6902]

It would of been amazing if she went to the church and told them no it wasn’t a 17 year old it was me as a 12 year old

[@ashleymarie2021]

I hoped that might happen to... It isn't right he can just lie. Pretty sure everyone on a registry will claim someone lied about their age or what her predator said. Sick and I've never seen or heard these people change.. it's literally their sexual orientation being into children. Not acting on it is very different but probably not as common tbh.

[@tedmccarron]

"Would've."

[@reade4322]

The way you spoke about your abusers family truly shows how beautiful your heart is. I just wanna blue skidoo my ass through the screen and give you a hug. You just seem like the most genuine , kind hearted person, when you have every right not to be from the awful experiences you endured. My heart goes out to you. Thank you for your vulnerability & willingness to share your story, so others who have gone through something similar know they’re not alone. ❤️

[@dominiquegio4046]

Wow- in recounting the story, you sound so strong. I can't imagine how hard you've worked to get here. Thank you for sharing.

[@rubyray777]

Thank you for sharing your story!

[@thestonedsailor6072]

It's amazing you could still keep a smile on your face after that young lady. God bless and stay strong 💪 🙏

[@marypounders659]

Thank you for sharing your story. Your an amazing woman.

[@tinaviju580]

Thank you for sharing your story and educating parents and kids.

[@chrishemsworth5625]

Thank you for sharing. How can any guy stoop so low? No one should have to go through that. You aren't at fault. HE WAS AT FAULT.

[@doloresparra4604]

Thank you!!! Your kind words echo in my heart. Sending ❤

[@asherdash12]

Thank you so much for your bravery in sharing your story.

[@h.s.l6875]

Thank you Jen for telling your story, your light shines through.

[@Bailemos888]

they always have a great personality..............BEWARE....no adult should be alone with any kid...BEWARE of adults that are in positions to work with kids.

[@cindyreinhart9552]

No no Jen!!! Thank you for sharing! I told my mom and she told me to walk right, to walk like the other children! I was physically in pain and she heaped on mental pain. Jen, I am in my 60's and I still carry that luggage for life. I am so proud of your healthy attitude and I know that you will inspire some victims to speak up! The book of Daniel prophesied that knowledge will be increased........oh precious girl if we had the internet back then.... Jen, I have never been to church but I do read His book. May our Father in Heaven bless you and yours.

[@skyeblu1722]

Why the heck would you bring some Bible book and quote into your comment?? Its very interesting how many of these abuse cases are amongst the Christian cults. “ oh, he was a good Christian, a church goer”, is what we constantly hear in these abuse cases! What the H does an old male dominated, misogynistic ancient book have to do with this young ladies story? Also why do you believe “god” is a male? Considering 85% of all violent crime on earth is committed by men!

[@ivelisseperez9670]

Thank you for sharing your story! Live loved will be my new motto❤

[@christinemerritt974]

Thank you Jen❤❤❤ You are helping other people.

[@emilyhunter8569]

What a beautiful soul, she is. ❤️

[@marcia3898]

Thank you for sharing your story

[@byingtonbyington3798]

Thanks for sharing!!!! Hugs

[@jennyharrison5270]

Thank you for sharing your story Jen!

[@taliaward8789]

Thank you for sharing your story, Jen. ❤️

[@dannyboi4027]

nice white girls, contact me, a nice white guy

[@MelodySaleh]

you are so brave. What a hero❤

[@johnallen2297]

You are an amazing young lady, you have told your story so well, everybody is so proud of you 🙏🦋

[@ElizabethRodriguez-hw4od]

Thank you for sharing

[@lindaelster7278]

God bless you! You amazingly have a beautiful spirit after all you went thru.

[@_.Sparky._]

Ugh what an absolute monster. You are so brave to share this and bring it out into the light.

[@user-vt9jd4tc5h]

Bless your heart & soul

[@patrickbennett9120]

Yes... I am sorry for what happened to you... this is so common... it is not right and no child should have to go through this... hopefully you can move on with your life knowing it is not your fault.

[@elanasharich8538]

Thankyou for sharing your story. The advice you give , Jen, is excellent. As a survivor, I appreciate your generosity. Best wishes for your brilliant future.

[@dannyboi4027]

nice white girls, contact me, a nice white guy

[@teresamercurio1568]

I am so sorry this happened to you. God bless you.

[@RonnieLeeBeauford]

jen doyle is an amazing speaker. this was a great video. and she’s so beautiful

[@bernadettecrawford3656]

Your so lovely sorry that evil monster hurt you your so brave sharing God bless you .

[@kristenthomas8555]

Thank you.

[@millerarant3629]

You seem like a very nice person. Im sorry you had to go through this.

[@catherinerasmussen1966]

Thank you

[@speaklife7119]

Thank you for sharing your story so that others know what to lookout for from predators.

[@folkthat3720]

Wow... just wow

[@mymai5859]

Thank you for bringing light to how these predators operate - & the signs to look out for. Sorry you were so vulnerable but it is heartening to know how you have grown stronger. Much love, light & energy to you.

[@user-qu7rj4is2h]

Thank you 🙏 Same

[@GrandPitoVic]

Thank you for sharing your story. I hope some young girls some where get help from this.

[@porkpie859]

Jen you are loved x

[@M_MTsc]

But god….. I’m really sorry for your experience. Thank you for sharing. I’m sure you are helping a lot of people out there.

[@janesmith9024]

Well done. His congregation should be told the age, not believe his life. The age difference is very material. Even a 17 year old when she is in your church and you are married is not okay but this was someone much younger, much worse.

[@user-em2qp3gc1o]

God bless you on what you do always from Jeff

[@sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722]

I'm sorry...i can't understand that but I can say that you're strong, really strong, please never give up!

[@fredross3089]

Jen, you are very brave to tell this story. I found it extremely interesting. I can appreciate what you are saying about your feelings of being a "bad" person and having depression. I e of my good friends in high school was truly beautifu l and I was desperately in love with her, but she never seemed to notice. She had boyfriends who were in their late twenties, and said she preferred older guys. I did end up taking her to the senior prom because her finance was out of country. I moved on and married a wonderful girl, and we just marked our 49th anniversafy. That girl has divorced twice and finally stuck with number 3. It took me years to realize that she had been s#+&@Lou abused by her father! I have not included all the details and clues as it would take too long. One of the main clues was she never returned to her high school home, even when her brother died. I hope she finally got some counseling as I believe husband #2 was a shrink. After I finally figured out what was going on, I felt so stupid for not seeing all of the obvious clues during my high school years.

[@TiffLane]

You're not stupid. How were you to know? You were just a kid yourself

[@prisillaspace]

I❤U! Thank you!

[@margaretgarana911]

You’re amazing

[@AnaLugo-su7ep]

I am glad you told your story that way you can help other girls in the same situation I'm happy that you all right and that you're living a good life❤ your story is going to help other girls I know it will because God's going to help you with them amen love you too.....

[@SHAYBABY726]

“LIVE LOVED”❤❤❤

[@Jeymez]

you are a true survivor, i know some people nitpick about women not coming out earlier, but i don't think there's a rule in how or when someone like yourself decides to make it known. because there not you, however one thing we all can relate to is, when certain go on in our lives that we know somewhere in the back of our mind we don't like the situation we're in, a part of us wants to say something, but the other side says we should keep to us. now truthfully, as hard as it might be to tell someone, getting that burden off your chest is the best thing for you in the long run. we know even if we tried to keep it to ourselves, we'll never truly move on from it, which can affect our relationships with people, our parents. even friends you might say something hurtful once in awhile you didn't mean. so im sure for you, finally coming out when you did, that must've been a huge burden lifted off of you. for the record iam a believer in God, but he would not approve of someone that looks like how a man of God would dress groom a young girl. but no matter what place were in, even in a church there's no guarantee for a child's safety, most of the time you can get pastors or priest who would never do that, but i think it hurts worse when a pastor is usually someone you can trust crosses that line, but were all human beings at the end of the day regardless of a person's beliefs or background. being too nice can come across as someone with bad intentions, an adult can usually find that to be a little off, but when we're young we don't understand how warning signs work, because it's our parents responsibility usually to make sure that there kids are safe. but even adults can overlook things they don't mean, how did your parents react when they found out.

[@Aloysius10]

True but it is especially extraordinary when someone who was abused as a minor comes out, as she was just a child. Only jerks expect bravery from children.

[@user-sz6uy3ie3g]

5-10 years is way too light for statutory rape. Ridiculous. 😡

[@silviavillegas759]

😱😱😱😱😱 i didn't think the story would go like this omg. Poor girl

[@georgetacarmen8824]

It is amazing how strong these people are.

[@seijin4426]

Not strong, hurt. May the lord relieve them of their pain.

[@robertbarcone5260]

Jenn, i am so sorry that happtin to you

[@carolkraus2422]

Wow love that lived love.

[@Aly0313]

When I was a kid my parents had their adult male friend over regularly and he would call me his girlfriend often jokingly in front of my parents. And I was visibly bothered about it one day and he continued to tease and my parents told him “ok that’s enough she obviously doesn’t like that” and he never came over again after that. I was like 10. Another one of their friends was a business owner in tech they made later on when I was about 15. He tried to repair my iPod screen and it turned black and he offered to buy me a new one if I traded him my old one and I was like “um no that’s fine I’ll just get my own. “ and he said “why not would I see nudes?” Then he laughed. He ended up buying me a new iPod anyway and I never gave him my old iPod. He was insisting I give it even though i already said no, he thought I would feel bad and give him my old iPod for the new one. Nope. Such a creep.

[@TiffLane]

Ewww how gross. Freaking creeps. Sorry you went through that

[@annetteivey]

Thank you ... I've had trouble accepting that things was not my fault .. I was a child .....it was not my fault ...to bad he is dead I'd like to face him... He was a assistant pastor... My dad was in prison ..

[@feliciaperezauthor]

I was molested by my stepfather for 7 years. The things he did were horrific. The damage he caused will be lifelong. Recovery isn’t easy but necessary. My voice was never heard but it is being heard now. One person at a time. I’m strong enough now and want to share my story to continue bringing awareness. Please choose to fight against molestation/ sex abuse WITH ME!, My fight is just getting started. This fight (for me) is no longer about my abuse, it’s about the society that failed me and my determination to bring awareness. Stop Sexual Abuse

[@Luis-ov8eq]

What a sick individual. He needs to be in jail forever.

[@MelLo-ri8hb]

This is the prime example of evil people using religion to justify their heinous acts.

[@blackholeentry3489]

I faced the opposite situation. Back in the late 50's, the local church minister drove a 47 Pontiac, which he used to drive around the local area, ten miles or so from the church, picking up 'kids' to take them to chruch for an evening of 'youth fellowship.' This vehicle was desinged for a maximum of six people, but often carried nine or even ten. This was also long before seatbelts became a standard part of the vehicle. I was one of the older guys, always sat in the back (often the only guy) and seems the gals often fought for the priviledge of who was going to sit on MY lap. And, believe me it was because they wanted to and NOT because they didn't. Our best and most remembered fellowship was often before church services. Of course, after services, then he'd have to return everyone back again to their respective homes. Fond memories of church.

[@chriscates3352]

my baby mother was born from a 13 year old mom in 1976, the father was 38 too, he had to marry her to be legal all these years

[@sharondaoliver8520]

I would not let no 38 year old man marry my 13 year old daughter. He would be in jail for taking advantage of a minor. Marriage will be only saving him from going to jail.

[@bethanyjuelthediaryofadaughter]

This sounds exactly like the story of my now ex. He blamed his victim and I bought in to it. Learned the hard way he is absolutely a predator.

[@beverlyjohnson5503]

I'm soo sorry you went through all this abuse and grief and pain 💔 please don't blame yourself for his nasty behavior he been a two leg dog please don't fault yourself for something you had no control of shame shame 😢 😔 😞 💔😢😔😞🙃

[@diannegooding8733]

Oljay. I have a different story but I am still very, very, sorry for you and everybody else whatever happened to them!

[@violetaramos1926]

Wow I want to share my story but I’m a little embarrassed about it still but I know it will do good for anybody or any youngsters let me in through any of this or age I’m sorry that happened to you but thank you for sharing your story it was it was amazing and you’re helping me to try to tell my story

[@jennimontalvan]

Never feel embarrassed. It was never your fault. It may help others and also give you some emotional relief.

[@steelstreet3765]

The sad thing the predator goes on to the next young person as we age.

[@mmcdonald1000]

It's sad that there are devils in the church😫I'm glad she got thru this trauma and she can move forward. Stay strong

[@TouchingYourBooty]

You people are devils. Stay away from children!

[@normaamador4027]

You do the right thing by reporting him love your story and was one that was molested by my stepfather and raped. BY HEALY CAME THROUGH God. Continue sharing your story for children and women can be set free.

[@nicholewhite4067]

Sorry that happened to you

[@randallmorning4006]

Im so sorry you had goe thru this When i was kid i dont remember this until my mom told me yr ago When i was young my older sis kidnap by sick man but luckily he released her and he was charged Parents need tell children sometimes ppl arent who they are If anyone do bad tell parents It is truly sad how guy take advantage on children

[@conservativemovement]

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[@jasonsandifer3250]

NO Adult...No Matter What their Profession... NO matter what title they hold... NO Matter What economic Status,... NO Matter What their Culture... NO Matter what race, Creed, or Color... NO ADULT wheather, they are a Adult Caretaker of children, teacher, parents, aunts, uncles, or anyone else, should have any sexual attraction to children, this is very disturbing to me, Very Strange, Odd, Demented, Sick, Weird, and Outrageous to me. *THERE IS NOTHING about a child, male, or female is attractive sexually, Nothing *Children are children as should be treated as such. *They are NOT mature *They have NO COMPREHENSION of Sex. They have NO COMPREHENSION of Romance *Sex and intimacy is in nature biologically is designed for Adults, NOT CHILDREN. I Cannot Comprehend any Adult thinking of a child a such a inappropriate manner. *This is a previous response I wrote to an article on Child Marriage; I don't understand why anyone would attempt to marry a child, this is unthinkable, children are not capable of Romantic Relationships, they cannot process adult Relationship lifestyles. *They are children and function as children, they are being placed, and forced in adult Relationship situations, and they cannot process nor understand it until they are Adults. *Nothing about a child is capable of handling a Romantic Relationships, Physical Relationships, Mentality handling Adult Relationships, and Lifestyles and financial matters. *A Child cannot understand the Deeper Matters of the Hearts, or Deep involved Love connections etc. *So, it baffles me to think any man would be interested in a relationship with a child. *Why not choose an Adult Woman who is matured in Mind, Body, and Spirit, intelligence...? *I could NEVER be attracted to s child. *(I have NEVER, NEVER BEEN attracted to a child nor teenager male or female) *Children need to be focused on getting their early childhood education, and growing up around other children and playing with other children. *I cannot fathom why a man would be interested in a Child as a Bride,( or any intimate sexual manner whatsoever) Sexual attraction towards a child is Madness, and Unnatural, and Demented thinking *A Child could NEVER appreciate Romance, Poems, Dinning, or a Dinner date etc. Really! marry a child...this makes No sense to me! (I have NEVER, NEVER IN MY LIFE BEEN attracted to a child nor teenager male or female) This is beyond my comprehension.... Author, Advocate, Activist for Humanity, Jason Sandifer, Michigan, 11/10/2018, 8/26/2021, 7/10/2022, 10/25/2022 11/16/2022, 11/26/2022 11/30/2022, 12/03/2022 12/11/2022, 2/28/2023

[@eric.1948]

Grow up. Wake up. Power corrupts all and education is a scam unless its a trade.

[@jadegreen1554]

They’re not attracted to the child for romance, they use that to lure the victim and the victims get younger and younger. They are only interested in sexually abusing the child. Not Romance. They abuse the child, not love them.

[@fatoufrancescambow5876]

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[@georgina4874]

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[@ashleymarie2021]

I wonder if anyone else was being groomed or even his kids or other family...

[@vanikavirgo1184]

I’d say it’s a strong possibility. Especially if he had any step kids or nieces.

[@EuphoricConcepts]

All my love to you and his daughter and wife. It’s really hard to open up about being a VICTIM . 😢

[@tshaolin971]

She’s not a victim as the bad documentary wanted her to feel that’s a weak and negative state of mind to identify with, she doesn’t live in the past and choose love and forgiveness over hatred.

[@vojo1461]

@@tshaolin971”Going off the victim and the parents who had to navigate through this…” -Jen She literally referred to herself as the victim 🤣 Your definition of concepts is not the same as everyone else’s. There’s no need to correct others because their definition is not the same as yours.

[@jadegreen1554]

@@tshaolin971you’re in some denial. That’s you’re status with dealing with your issues. For real healing she needed to accept that she is a victim-survivor. Try it on.

[@chocolateman4U2]

Sad, real saddddd!

[@johnellis3309]

Everybody has a story like this. I guess the old teach the Young.

[@cellanddanielle]

And Still allowed to breathe air....

[@ericbritton8146]

As the man (Gen 1:26-28) KJV, a husband (Gen 2:21-25) and a father (Gen 3:16), the minister of God (Rom 13), teacher (Eph 4) and one of the survivors who was bullied in school, I am so sorry this happened to you. Every time I see and/or hear anything like this, I see my wife or my daughters. If I could have protected you from being groomed by "it", I would have, but I can not be everywhere all at once. (1 John 4)

[@tshaolin971]

When we think about it, the documentary was not helpful it had the worst negative impact on her mental health as it was more traumatizing than the actual events, fortunately she didn’t hold on thoses false feelings, beware of what you watch. She’s a beautiful mind.

[@davidday8417]

A supposed man of god with horns sticking out of his head !! He preyed on you because he wanted to control you and knew that he would be able to get away with it !! I’m glad you were able to get your life some what back together !! May God walk beside you the rest of your life and know not all men are like this monster !! Continue on a path of love and goodness as people will now rally around you !!

[@romecottrell6444]

This video talks about child abuse like nothing else , this is a good video for everyone should be watching to avoid being a victim. Tell your folks if you are a victim of child sexual abuse by a stranger or an adult that you know 😢.