HOW MY MOM FELT ABOUT ME MARRYING A BLACK GIRL

For the first time in a long time, we have a Simas’ mom joining us as a guest on our videos! Today, the conversation will be in a q&a format but mostly about how my mom felt about me marrying a black woman from Jamaica. At the time, this would be more or less how my mom feels about my girlfriend, who happens to be a black girl.
Avri is the one asking the questions, so you won’t see much of her but Simas’ mom aka good gyal Esma is handling all the questions. We started with Lithuania, where Simas’ family came from, then moved on to life in Trenton, NJ, the first place where Simas’ family lived in since moving to the US.
Eventually, we moved into more personal questions: Simas’ interracial dating history, why he chose a black wife, how many girls he’s dated and so much more. We also learn how Simas’ family in Lithuania and Sweden thought about our marriage too. There aren’t too many Lithuanian-Jamaican couples out there.
Interracial marriage is not very common in Lithuania because there are not many foreigners living in Lithuania, especially from outside of Europe. Seeing people that are black or darker complexion is still fairly unusual in some parts of Lithuania. However, with the economy and freedom rising extremely rapidly, more and more people from all over the world are moving to the Baltics (Lithuania, Latvia and Estonia). Things are rapidly changing and the population is becoming more and more diverse.
Some people also asked questions about Simas family: is he an only child? Why is he an only child? Why did you come to live in the US? What was the situation like in Lithuania then vs now? So many questions, so little time! Maybe we will have to make a part 2 of this video. This is a part of our international interracial family vlog! It's family-friendly and educational about our life abroad in the US.
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A little bit about us: We are Avri & Simas. We live in New York City! 🗽🏙 Much of what you see is based on our lives here along with influences from our home countries 🌎🌍
👩🏾 Avri is an aspiring scientist originally from Jamaica 🇯🇲
🧔🏼 Simas is a top-notch financial crime investigator from Lithuania 🇱🇹
Together, we are seeking to bring a smile to your face and brighten up your day 🌞
Our mission is to spread love and positivity. We embrace our cultural differences and learn from each other every day! We come from polar-opposite worlds, but we love life together 🤴🏼👸🏾 We are an interracial couple and an international family and we love to learn more about each other’s cultures, always!
As we are growing together, we also want to learn from our watchers! We realize the world is such a diverse place and our goal is to not only bring our side of the story, but hear yours too! Please don’t be shy to interact with us and tell us what you think 🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏼‍♂️

[@AvriSimas]

Thank you to our wonderful Patreons for supporting us: Joseph Reardon csnsekkle Natasha Francia Khiana Burrell If you want to support us on Patreon, you can find our website here: www.patreon.com/avrisimas

[@cynthiajonas7848]

Beautiful picture

[@merlineduffus7279]

Lovely family

[@j.oreardon9426]

Please support this wonderful couple for any amount you can afford! They bring us joy and entertainment, so this is how we can show our love and support! My best wishes to the whole LitJam family

[@kiriforever1]

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[@msshygirl1015]

Thanks for the shout out. Love your channel. You never disappoint me with uploading weekly.😊👍🏽

[@ivylind.5072]

Our children have to marry and date who they love we are not the ones who is going to live their lives . As long as they are happy then i am happy .

[@ggunnz8621]

I loved the honest answers that your mom gave. She was a bit camera shy but that understandable and she looks just like Simas, May you continue to grow strong in love and respect for each other,

[@williamjohnson3301]

I love everything about jam people I hope I will have one of them In my life as a wife

[@charjhean2011]

Honesty is what I got from his MoMA. As long as my child is happy I am good. I also like Simas answer in regards to liking and appreciating her as his partner by the similarities that they shared. Stay in Loveand be Blessed 💞

[@prophetesstabithaferguson2418]

Yes simas looks very much like his mother

[@catherinewilliams815]

Avri and Simas you guys are great. Keep loving each other. God bless.

[@donnasummers8]

THEY DO LOOK ALIKE...BEAUTIFUL FAMILY

[@compka93]

Simas you look just like your mom. Plus you have such a sweet mom.

[@lindarettejeffrey8885]

May the blessings of the lord be with you guys

[@Melody-ne7iq]

They sure looks alike lol

[@breadbutter4221]

I like how Simas said he felt he could relate to Avri because they have somewhat similar backgrounds, they both are immigrants, have hard working parents trying to do their best, studying and both having a drive to achieve the American dream. I've never really thought of that before.

[@dollfaceddiaries]

Sima's and his mom look like brother & sister . His mom is very open , honest and down to earth .

[@lovenature4241]

God bless this mon

[@rocheldobson8165]

Beautiful Couple ❤️ Simmons Once U Go Black U Never Go Back 🤩

[@redsteddi]

LoL that's one from my youth 😅

[@elizabethwalters9521]

Avril is very intelligent smart beautiful inside out .

[@barringtonwatson7534]

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[@TheDelaveaus]

When i met my mother inlaw for the firat time i didnt speak any frech at all i spend a few weeks with her and when it was times to leave we huged and cried the connection was unbelievable without language....love knows no boundaries, love you both.

[@esternwairimu4959]

Love have no boundaries ,and love don't know colour ,😘 love it's love ❤️

[@reneed9607]

@@esternwairimu4959 I taught my best friends mother to drive she is Korean and spoke no English she passed her test 😊

[@nelliecurrie5625]

Great mother/son relationship! You can see how much your Mom loves you Simas by how she allowed you to make your own decisions. Avri is a wonderful young woman

[@glenmcdaniel]

You do look like your mom. Kudos to her though for being open-minded and progressive in her thinking. She is from a racially-monolithic country, so the presumption might be that she is not open to racially (or even ethnically) diverse relationships. So great that she is. Awesome family. You should do the same sort of interview with your mom, Avri.

[@tamaraanderson6793]

I really appreciate the honesty. Love has no boundaries. Can simas mom get any cuter.

[@mauricehenry7393]

As long as my son live with a woman and happy it's OK but it as to be a (woman)💙💙🙏

[@margiecocks934]

"as soon as everyone saw you they didn't want to let you go." That's huge, Avri once you have a place in the matriarch's heart nothing or no one can take your blessings. You are loved. And you also got your soul mate Simas

[@paulamckenzie2356]

Avri is a very bubbly girl anyone would like her.

[@j.oreardon9426]

I LOVED this video! Please,express my sincere gratitude to Simas' mother for taking the time to speak with us. I am older and faced a much different response to the young lady I first dated. It changed my relationship with my family and the course of my life. God bless both of your parents for being so open and loving that all they cared about was their child being happy with a good person. I write this with tears, but I enjoyed every second. My best wishes to you two forever

[@olivebrown1758]

Iamsohappyfor_ouguys

[@peggytaylor9179]

Olive Brown p

[@dianaoracha7608]

We only one race that's the human race ............as long as you are happy who cares

[@fluffypuppy0]

awwww

[@violetroyal980]

WOW, Keep the FAITH

[@TheMckinsons]

Wah gwan Simas mom. Thank you for being honest x Thank you guys for covering this... it's great to have open discussions like this

[@melonymanns9901]

Simus looks like his Beautiful Mother. She could honestly pass as his older sister. I Love ❤️ all your videos!!!

[@merlineduffus7279]

Bless up 🤗🤗💯everyone, u both make a wonderful couple

[@TheDelaveaus]

Avri is lovable snd warm its easy to like her, and yall this shes gorgeous on camera meeting her in person us twice as good the camera does no justice and her smile is everything, love me some avri.❤❤❤❤

[@sandrareid9033]

Hey guys you are absolutely gorgeous I am a Jamaican too who is also married to a Italian American and we di have a great relationship so I wish you both all the best in all your endeavours that you pursue have a great day and I do look forward to seeing more of your videos.

[@Sthmohtwenty]

U r bless....

[@badniss336]

Love has no color........Am I the only one looking at Avri in the mirror? Or, Y'all did not see her, and is just listening to her voice?

[@violetroyal980]

Lol, I didn't notice, until I read your comment. WOW

[@tonirae930]

I did smlz

[@sharonabraham3676]

You both have beautiful Mothers. Love them both. Blessings to everyone

[@amandajones39]

I was a secret viewer but I'm coming out... love you guys.

[@SimoneandPat]

Twins!! You’re mom is such a sweetheart God bless her!

[@dawnlittle9266]

Trenton "UGH" that's not the place to visit first time in US

[@Letsgogetlosts]

That’s so true

[@edithmartin8233]

Simas really looks like his mom

[@shanicegordon1935]

New sub here....you guys are so real an relatable... I'm literally watching all your videos one after the other.... thanks for sharing your journey◉‿◉

[@simplynancy374]

Simas had black girlfriends before Avri?😲😲😲I'm shocked!(clutching my pearls)I guess the saying 'once you go black you never go back'is really true🤣🤣🤣 I love you guys.

[@redsteddi]

Omy Fab Nan I haven't heard that saying in years... LoL

[@esternwairimu4959]

Don't be shock 😄 love it's love their is another white men who dated black girls all time ,and he married a black woman ,now they have 3 kids , And they own their utube channel with millions of subscribers , and millions of views

[@simplynancy374]

I know.I just thought Avri was his first black gf.

[@schlonmartin8336]

Simus, your mom is so sweet and honest with the questions Avris is asking her. 😊

[@monicahansle2266]

That was ackward ....🤔🤭😃, Simas mom: what’s wrong with him enough 🤣🤣🤣.. mom is a beautiful person, she loves you for who you are, not what you looks like.. love has no color 👏

[@winsomepowell5072]

Simas mom: respect your children who they choose ❤

[@lisafrance6019]

I really enjoy this ur mom is so loving

[@LituanaCorazonmexicano0508]

When you have a boy, it’s like a cat LOOOOOOL🤣🤣🤣

[@AvriSimas]

🤣🤣🤣

[@patriciabailey708]

She look like your sister fo real

[@Dmudahy]

Aka Kuliegirl. Great Q&A Love his mom. I met my husband at 19 also and we are still together 40 years later 🙏🏽❤️❤️🙏🏽😍

[@martharinebiseko1457]

Wow

[@Dmudahy]

@@martharinebiseko1457 Thank you 😊

[@brynneholt1990]

What a ridiculous assumption that most people hadn’t heard of Lithuania before watching this channel. They’ve won like 3 bronze medals in basketball in the Olympics. We’ve heard of Lithuania. *eye roll*

[@nancynyandega8141]

'You've heard of Lithuania' do not include all of us! Eye roll!

[@ruthh.9069]

I've heard about Lithuania before

[@JustShannaBE]

They say love is blind... I'm of the belief it means that love doesn't see colour, race etc. Not the physical surface stuff.

[@marvinb832]

How did Avri's mum feel about Avri marrying a white boy?!

[@kimbronicelooking839]

Most times black guys mum always get more happy when their son or children get marryin to white ,we all no that

[@tb8363]

I bet the next video will tell us :) I hope so anyway.

[@esternwairimu4959]

@@kimbronicelooking839 not all their are also black families who hate interracial marriages

[@GodYourHighnessYourMajesty]

Great question! People act like marrying white is some form of come up🤦🏽 raCoon energy💯smmfh

[@vickiematias3922]

@@kimbronicelooking839 I have 5 sons and I gave a damn who they dated and married,as long as they have respect for each other

[@jacquelinegrayden4706]

You have the best mother in law ever, I just love her vibes. She raised Simas right.

[@almack1968]

She could pass for his sister and he do looks like his mom

[@ChozenbytheAlmighty]

Simas and his mom look a lot alike wow

[@maryflowers4731]

Guys what great video, Sima your mother is very lovely person!!!

[@breadbutter4221]

Simas is the Male version of his mother. I like her honesty. I also like this video

[@SunFlower-yz2qk]

Simas’ mom was open-minded and honest with her answers. I laughed at how Avri pressed hard on Simas about the other girls it was too funny. Love you guys.

[@foxydlao264]

Nice in law.... I love your mom Simas. She is so cool...

[@merlineduffus7279]

Troublesome Simas with his mom 🤗🤗taking off her glasses 🤗♥️

[@BasedZillenial]

I got so excited when I saw that Simas is from Lithuania! I visited in 2017 and was supposed to go last month but the trip was cancelled because of covid. 😔 What a beautiful country! 🇱🇹 And what a beautiful couple. 💛

[@povilas007]

Nice to hear that!

[@francesiadams7723]

I love you both , I like both of your accents I missed Georgia she can sure nuff cook and has a funny sense of humor. I like Simas parents also

[@AltheaHewitt]

Hey guys. I always be checking in when I can and always love your content.

[@laurenthompson569]

So cute, to beautiful hearts joined as one. Mom look like she is very sweet as well, be blessed

[@tracyannbrown364]

First time commenting...but watch you guys all the time just love how you guys flex nuff love 🏝

[@mariamasipa4197]

Simas mom is very honest I love her thanks momy

[@samrichman1145]

Bigup family 👪 Simon an ariv 👍🏿thks guys stay strong 🙏🏿

[@ChozenbytheAlmighty]

U really need to get their names correct. It is Avri and Simas

[@samrichman1145]

@@ChozenbytheAlmighty awho you??, you don't make Mistake 😳, you chat too much 🤨

[@okosobi44]

You two are a lovely couple, Colour doesn't matter and both Mothers are awesome. 😍 😍 😍 😍 ♥ ♥

[@winsomepowell5072]

Special bond between son and mom

[@a.r1832]

Bloody Hell! Mi think sey dem come from Seaford Town in a Westmorland. Lithuania? That's cool. We remember them from the former Soviet Union back in the eighties in Jamaica.

[@peasikumoja6746]

Wishing y’all a great life! Health and Wealth!

[@JoieJuice18ChosenOne]

Hi Avri & Simas ~ I Have A Friend Sully She Is From #Lithuania Lives Here In #Bermuda My Island & Married To A My Other Friend Who Is French We Call Him Called Gigi ~ Their Beautiful People ~ First Time I Hear Of #Lithuania Was From Her.~ Simas And His Mom Are Twins ..

[@valeriebernard7116]

I applaud both of you tremendously. Love is color blind. No one I responsible for the actions of one’s heart.

[@carolsimmons398]

Yes he looks like his mom

[@lottripple3]

Happy Sunday to you all.

[@stephaniegreene539]

Simas mom looks like him, I really enjoyed the video. both moms are cute. 🇬🇾🤗🌹

[@christinepalmer7093]

Why do you keep calling the Lord's name in vein? Please avoid using His name lightly.

[@breezluize3282]

They will speak as they please. Only God can judge them. If you don't like it, stop watching their videos. You've got some nerve telling adults in their own home how to speak. I'm sure there's plenty about you that the Lord would be in disapproval of.

[@sharonrobinson8409]

Simas your mom is beautiful.

[@jackyjohn5592]

I enjoyed it love is beautiful

[@joanneroyal1275]

Yes for sure you really do look like your mom

[@kiriforever1]

You guys have great individual energy & together you are the ‘bomb’. Yes, Mom & son look very much alike, no doubt about who the Momma is. Moms is a good ‘egg’ to participate in your blogging. I enjoyed the sweetness & honesty that all three of you shared with us. Simas is blessed with great loving parents. Simas & Avir are both really smart young people, with a good head on their shoulders. You are & will be blessed with a long married life.

[@barbararichards8403]

Hi family. Love you guys you keep it real. He looks like this mom.

[@bridgettekolarick9710]

Yes simas looks like his mom a lot.

[@joslynlancaster9842]

I really enjoyed this video.I don’t post often, but I have been watching your videos from the beginning👍

[@shaneekearicketts5637]

My Sunday matinee... 💕

[@amilliontubes123]

He dated Asians, Blacks, oh my lol 😂 and yes he looks like his mom

[@tyrecebrown1020]

Hey

[@meta9727]

Sima's face us burning! Lol

[@jimmywhitely6648]

Trenton NJ is the pits.

[@valeriewright3681]

Big ❤️to Simas mom !!❤️

[@bombay3201]

Just subbed to your channel you guys are beautiful congrats and continue to happy

[@charmaine278]

Good afternoon litjammassive!😊

[@yvonnegrant6481]

Big up to Sima's mom when she said it her son life she respect him for loving a black Jamaican girl all the

[@lychonhamilton1901]

Definitely look like his mom.

[@elizabethwalters9521]

Well said simas

[@veronicalake1572]

Yes they definitely look like twins god bless you all I like his mom they are very humble people bless up

[@moniquelindsay-johnson6908]

Simas, you're mom is really sweet and seems to be a cool mom. I pray God continues to strengthen and bless your family.

[@tyrecebrown1020]

First

[@ShantellTT]

Such a beautiful couple...Your mom is such a welcoming mom💕...I just found this channel and I am inlove already I had to click the bell..Nuff love from JA🇯🇲

[@alene6579]

This was a good video, getting to know his mother and her feelings about your relationship. Beautiful!🥰

[@juliantang3662]

I am Jamaica Chinese.but I live in NY now.I love Jamaica and like your videos.I hope to be your friend.

[@judithharrison6181]

Simas you do look like your mom. I am glad you just want your son to be happy. That is a blessing, since the World has so many racial issues. Stay safe and happy and healthy.🙏🏽👌

[@stephaniebilly2502]

Twinssss!!!

[@christalstar9674]

YOUR VIDEOS BRING SOME SORT OF SOOTHING FEETHING I CANT EXPLAIN..... ITS VERY KNOWLEDEABLE AND CALM

[@hotarugracequeen7349]

The love, respect, and ease of communication among you three are simply fantastic. Keep setting a great foundation; Jamaican sistah here. so proud of you and your focus.

[@justpriescilam3452]

For me a as women i ddnt ignore people black or white skin i treat them same.Im a Filipina my skin i have is asian skin.I respect people who are good to me...Thanks for sharing this video guys.

[@gilcoco2410]

I use to live in Trenton. Move to Ewing. Princeton. Lawrenceville. Hamilton.

[@pwellington767]

I love viewing what you share with us. Remove skin colour from the equation and we are really the same.Keep spreading love and understanding. And Avri, how are your medical studies getting on? Please press on: I think you will be great.

[@RukiaBlackBlazer]

It's a testament too the goodness of Simas family that you Sis, never knew that they were shocked by his final pick of a mate. Awwww good people, they care about his happiness than making you feel any kind of way/unwelcome in their family... Tops...👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿✌🏾🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗