When I show non-reaction its means I don't give a damn anymore!
@jaydeal40792 ай бұрын
Me too. But now I watch father alex so even if I care SO much, I don’t react 😂
@nancybash1814Ай бұрын
And I could never revert!!!!
@MindTheBusinessThatPaysYouАй бұрын
So true 💯
@Laloudia29 күн бұрын
Always have one foot out the door
@JaneenStokes107 күн бұрын
Exactly 👀👌
@lady75712 ай бұрын
Yea the sprinkle sprinkle lady kinda says something similar about not being emotional because that’s the actual silent power I like this approach
@bhavna123Ай бұрын
Be unfazed ladies!!✨️
@karmicsoul44442 ай бұрын
If a man sends a text and you stay silent when you are a communicator, they automatically think you are pissed off with them & they stay well away because they are too scared to face you.
@loislane79582 ай бұрын
Exactly, when a woman doesn't reply a text, the men will not follow up because men fear rejection. What silly games humans (especially men) play! What humans SHOULD DO IS STOP THIS VAGUE COMMUNICATION!! The man just should say: girl I like you but I dont want you to text me too often. And the woman should say: don't manipulate me and don't hide from me: just tell me when you want to see me in advance. If it's only once a month then the woman can decide from the get go whether she wants to pursue this relation with these silly evasive men...😂❤
@jaydeal40792 ай бұрын
If they care about you, they will ask what’s wrong.
@Lazy-bliss2 ай бұрын
Block
@PatriciaPeeters-g4gАй бұрын
@@jaydeal4079Or you just tell em 😉
@angel33333333Ай бұрын
So do we react or not
@madinaibrahim5402 ай бұрын
I am a professional(expert) emotionally grounded non-reactivist. I think I’m ADDICTED TO PEACE. I dont have any space in my mind to accomodate troubles. I really don’t care about how anything turns out. I can even walk away from myself if I don’t give me peace😂😂
@BlueSky11.112 ай бұрын
Same here. The only thing I could never walk away from is my pets. Everything else is disposable if it doesn't give me peace. 🕊️
@annekayiwa6375Ай бұрын
😂
@bm5_5_5Ай бұрын
I’m exactly the same
@debbiemeko472Ай бұрын
Right😂
@ToughlovenochaserАй бұрын
😂😂😂 this some funny shit I like it
@muniraalqamar2 ай бұрын
Father Alex is getting more and more specific 😌❤
@marbelladeras58962 ай бұрын
Honestly I love it 😻 so inspiring
@SailajaMandada-x1e26 күн бұрын
Love it
@jaydeal40792 ай бұрын
Just wanted to come back and tell you that this worked. Thank you
@trueone26572 ай бұрын
I like the subtitles.
@BerkyjpgАй бұрын
I needed this advice; the timing is crazyyyyy
@chrissythecrafter39722 ай бұрын
OMG! It works!! 🎉something just happened and I applied this 5 minutes later!
@rv13772 ай бұрын
How did it go?
@chrissythecrafter39722 ай бұрын
@ I think I was distracted and discomfort passed? I’m not sure how to describe it but it works. So thanks Alex ! See Melissa! He knows what he’s talking bout! 🤣
@jent6476Ай бұрын
Lol Melissa
@simplymarilyn52952 ай бұрын
Golden Nugget right here....Thank-you, Father Alex🌟
@vanessa_mestiza2 ай бұрын
I personally like the subtitles in addition to the spoken word. I have trouble concentrating and some people have different ways of absorbing material.
@Mrmkndr2 ай бұрын
You have thé possibility to add them in almost every video in the options
@mamacitaa1049Ай бұрын
I don’t even know how to say it but every single thing you said is 10000% RIGHT!!!
@jewelrichardson63422 ай бұрын
It’s too late if I am nonresponsive
@The4s2 ай бұрын
😂 Sadly it was that one relationship that turned me non reactive to everything. I guess I am in constant it’s too late mode.
@tiffanycampbell2043Ай бұрын
This is gold 💛
@blueberrypanda9312 ай бұрын
one of your best videos! great content + i like the subtitles and the fact that you recorded standing up, feels more engaging to the audience
@shirleympatiАй бұрын
Just learn detachment.
@kittyoluwa2383Ай бұрын
Be detached, unfazed and be MINDFUL !!!!
@SimonePahl8 күн бұрын
The concentration part-I started making my own music and got hella focused on that and fulfilled…adhd meds have helped too not gon lie: saved my life from rumination-which is back full circle to your point. I’m much more concerned rn about my view counts and succeeding enough to make a living in my passion that any legit opportunity to do so will distract me from personal problems. One day I went to the studio cuz I booked it, no idea what to rap about bc a dude made me sad n distracted me so I started rapping about that…it’s called “Questions” on my other channel (Simone Pahl - Topic). Anyways…I been listening to your channel for a couple years and I have to keep re-listening for the reiteration bc ppl naturally forget if they don’t keep up with the learning. Thanks Toxic Father Alex 😂😊 and bring back your stick too! LOL
@vickygonzalez88762 ай бұрын
Thanks for posting Papasito
@alexandracardos94962 ай бұрын
The perfect timing!
@esesmu42632 ай бұрын
U r so funny! Ve been following you for years!! Your evolution is amazing❤❤❤
@katrina104511 күн бұрын
Ignoring is when you’ve checked out. Non reaction is emotional mastery of being unbothered yet still invested. Don’t get it twisted people
@Rahela19948 күн бұрын
Smart man. Well done
@chupah932 ай бұрын
What a Beautiful video Alex. Thank you
@avicii1442 ай бұрын
It's so hard for me to do this because I've grown up and lived in a toxic environment, and while I do want to leave, I can't until I succeed in my career and become financially independent. They'll put it as bad behaviour as if I'm being too impolite and disrespectful.
@Mrs.WhiteLadyАй бұрын
That was awesome and your closing remarks are spot on!! Thank You!!!
@mattanderson6672Ай бұрын
Brilliant discussion Excellent Analysis Thank you Sir
@tiffanycampbell2043Ай бұрын
This is so good 😊
@claudiavital89432 ай бұрын
Great ,great knowledge you have. Thank you to share it.
@queenjordiisgems2 ай бұрын
Love you father Alex! Frfr out here doing the lawd’s work!!
@solytasi57772 ай бұрын
I’m not agreeing in distracting yourself in order to control your thoughts . Actually when mediating (which is done alone ) helps to calm the mind and the muscle ) . But if it works for you then good for you but the core issue is learning how to observe your thoughts and choosing positivité thinking instead of the worse case scenario .
@vanessa_mestiza2 ай бұрын
I think he means when a narcissist attempts to “throw you off balance,” in the many ways they do, ie: making a woman uncomfortable by talking about completely inappropriate topics, we must remain calm. For example, go to your happy place; and how is that achieved? Through vehicles such as meditation! Meditation, which I agree with you, and if practiced regularly, can increase one’s ability with calming oneself down and not get riled up or “reacting” in a negative situation with a narcissist.
@SistahJay27Ай бұрын
I appreciate you frfr I’m sending prayers your way. I’ve learned a lot from you. Dang! I wonder if a have some form of narcissism. I have empathy tho I can’t do ppl wrong. Karma is real. I’m usually so detached. 🤦🏽♀️
@Karabas19842 ай бұрын
Mj Harris has also very good advices: use your feminine energy (and all what you want). about silence 22:00 min
@EZ-mp9knАй бұрын
So good! ❤
@cookiemonkeyyy2 ай бұрын
0:23 JUMPSCARE !!
@mayapankiv711Ай бұрын
I miss your old videos .
@jelizabethpetrie66562 ай бұрын
It’s too bad. Ya meet a guy you like. But because you don’t play games. but they do, cause they sense you like ‘em. Then you get sick of the games so you go non-reactive. Only by then it’s cause you give a damn for the gamer.
@masg25Ай бұрын
Can you please do a video about Long Distance relationships please?? I think we girls need some advice
@LiaVargas-p8rАй бұрын
To add to this… there’s a huge difference between the woman who does like you and is like this and the woman who doesn’t like you and shows she doesn’t care.
@JuicyyPuff2 ай бұрын
I bet I’m the only girl from the Bronx 😭🤣 so this video is so meant for me cause I do go Bronx mode 🤣🤣🤣
@Theebrowngal2 ай бұрын
🙋🏾♀️ me too lol
@desireemoss5132Ай бұрын
Me too lol
@kittyoluwa2383Ай бұрын
Love you father alex❤
@selmab56722 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@Gisellexo11 күн бұрын
Smart man
@carmentorres-d9g2 ай бұрын
A splendid video. I didn't like very much the one about the karsaaarsshiannnas, however it's spelled I don't care.
@Happiness4ever-y3d2 ай бұрын
What music is it in the end? So beautiful...
@MindfulAttraction2.02 ай бұрын
Dragon Ball gt theme instrumental
@Marley4everableАй бұрын
This works with toxic friends too.
@bujitea8522Ай бұрын
Love the mask!!
@Americas_Angel2 ай бұрын
You seem really happy and upbeat today❤ I'm glad
@mayperez1420Ай бұрын
How do you address disrespect and sarcasm without reacting?
@biancas9917Ай бұрын
Ty 💯🫶🏽
@rebecca_muniz2 ай бұрын
Does this apply too when a man calls you bad names?
@babydande2 ай бұрын
Please have some respect for yourself and leave if a man keeps calling you names. You’re no buffoon to be laughed at and degraded as he pleases, and he’s no king either. Hope you find someone that that is confident enough in themselves to not feel the need to put others down for their own entertainment.
@jent6476Ай бұрын
@babydande Maybe she can use Alex's strategy to get her mind to that point
@brittneyharvey29172 ай бұрын
What are some good meditations for going through a break to or spiritual shift?
@sianoikimariАй бұрын
Vipassana
@MalayaC-tn2rlАй бұрын
so Bree's mother from desperate housewives was right
@achiengdejiАй бұрын
What did she say? Lol
@triston931214 күн бұрын
5:23 5:26
@jes4792Ай бұрын
NOT THE MASK 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@kdps369Ай бұрын
Isn’t it obvious when you’re mirroring them?
@RubGoddess2 ай бұрын
I focus on my legs and arms when I get triggered
@AnotherShyFlower2 ай бұрын
Good idea
@DarkCentaur242 ай бұрын
thanx
@empressfayer2 ай бұрын
Bronx mode is crazy to say 😂😂 go all Cardi B
@rebecca_muniz2 ай бұрын
You mean to literally just like look at your hands when somebody tries to make you mad by saying mean things to you like I could just look at my hand and stare at it ?
@Basedbeauty32 ай бұрын
Dont be a Melissa, Dont be a Melissa
@pinoniksАй бұрын
I don't know, it's of course important to have people around, but it can be too much. There should be period of deep introspection, otherwise I can lose my self in other people as it happened to me. Now I'm more careful what people to spend time with, othere people can be very bad influence, I didn't understand for long time.
@aubergine-y2c2 ай бұрын
hmm you don't need those subtitles. you speak quite clear and those subs are distracting. if someone need subtitles it is always possible to turn it on by one click.
@MindfulAttraction2.02 ай бұрын
I'm sorry but I don't speak clear. Sometimes stutter and eat my words
@aubergine-y2c2 ай бұрын
@MindfulAttraction2.0 comparing to most of the people whose content you comment on reaction videos you speak clear. Also, you've made a huge progress comparing to your older videos, back then I agree it was an issue.
@MindfulAttraction2.02 ай бұрын
Ok I'll think about it @@aubergine-y2c
@ydoineedahandle4202 ай бұрын
@@MindfulAttraction2.0 they're useful for those with hearing issues and for those who are neurodivergent... speaking of which would you be able to make a video on those who are neurodivergent and dating?
@MindfulAttraction2.02 ай бұрын
Facts. That's actually why I have It ppl who have hearing issues . So it stays lol
@triston931214 күн бұрын
8:23
@LeonorSilva-fm6hf2 ай бұрын
Yeah I’m Petty. 😂
@RJK16472 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 me too !
@softlife452 ай бұрын
nah u just wasting your time. your biological clock is ticking while he's sucking the life out of your energy
@LeonorSilva-fm6hf2 ай бұрын
@@softlife45 huh?
@LeonorSilva-fm6hf2 ай бұрын
@@RJK1647 😂💯
@yahushahamashiachiswarlikeАй бұрын
not the mask 🎭 😂
@akworld1334Ай бұрын
sad
@AdrasteaRed2 ай бұрын
Hi father Alex. I wanted to hear your voice 1 on 1 when you are not in front of the camera... but you raised the prices a bit too much...
@Kassiex5Ай бұрын
12:21
@Konykome2 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@Sohamgaming0007Ай бұрын
as
@hivojo2 ай бұрын
PLEASE REMOVE SUBTITLES. TOO DISTRACTING
@debprasadnaskar8027Ай бұрын
w
@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes2 ай бұрын
🎭🎭
@lucky_i.iАй бұрын
Please remove the music. I'd prefer focusing on your word
@involuntarilycelebrate2 ай бұрын
Your stuff is good but, drop the father Alex stuff. You're not a father, it's creepy, you're too young, it's just weird. Just call yourself Alex or some other combination but saying father is just off putting to me.
@queenlii43342 ай бұрын
Not that deep
@Nectarine3332 ай бұрын
Ma’am he is joking around. Cool your jets
@thokozilemtholo84102 ай бұрын
Chill babes, daddy's dropping gems here
@emilylambert81062 ай бұрын
It's a persona he embodies, not weird at all in the context of this channel.
@softlife452 ай бұрын
how many times you gonna keep coming here with you fake profiles? you got fake pics because you arent attractive.
@ladyyacee2 ай бұрын
Father Alex, I thought I saw you in NYC today, I almost died