How Shifting My Beliefs Helped Me: Story Time

[@julialee690]

My SO and I finally made up and talked after months of NC! She even admitted she missed me I was so happy until I find myself getting triggered again like an old pattern. The difference now is I catch myself when Im about to chase her. I swore I wont repeat the same unhealthy dynamic! I will keep implementing your teaching and never give up I do care about her deeply and I def deserve to be with someone I want

[@khushboobatra5900]

Love that for you!❤

[@julialee690]

@@khushboobatra5900 💖

[@mirvetekalludra2740]

Did you Just listen to one Tape

[@browniebun]

Good for you! Feel proud of yourself for the progress you’ve made. I’ve finally blocked my SO after he begged me not to. And I feel so peaceful. Yes, I do think of him often but I also remember the shitty way I felt around him. So yeah, do your thing. Respect yourself. Love yourself. Come through for yourself. 🎉🎉🎉

[@KrissyFizzle]

I love when coaches share personal stories and show they've actually been through the stuff they're teaching and so they understand ❤

[@gridblocks]

Yes

[@claresage]

It really helps

[@britneywilliams2340]

I use to go to job interviews sooooo nervous never got the job. As I grew I started to go in the interview basically taking the job, telling my boss in my head that they hiring me today. Now I get my way and even at work my boss always give me the project I want to work on without me asking him. The other day I started feeling bad before checking the amount on my check because I knew I missed a couple days then I checked myself like it’s going to be ok and I received the highest check I ever made in my work history.

[@AlMoSiCe210]

Thanks for sharing your story, Dylan. Funnily enough, I found your content during the worst of my rough patch that I'm practically out of. In it, I started realizing my core beliefs were HORRIBLE and needed a SERIOUS renovation. Listening to your content is literally changing my life and I already see myself in the very near future sending you a victory DM about my career & love life. I've seen it. I feel the shifts. My time is coming. My time is here. Talk soon, King.

[@alwaysright2589]

Are you still feeling better?

[@basicbase749]

I had a very similar story, my mother remained very sick for years, I freaked out as a child, became too stressed and kept all the pain and fear inside, whilst fearing being left alone without support. It created insecurities and fear and too much self responsibility to do everything on my own since childhood. I always felt I shouldn’t ask for more, i always thought I deserved less, I am not worthy of love and happiness

[@basicbase749]

@@sparklesparkle4851 yes, absolutely!

[@taurean6201]

Yes!!! Sperm donor abused and abandoned me by the age of 3. Another man came in and abused my mom and died in a car accident when I was 6 My mom shipped me off after he died but not my siblings. Sooo many beliefs to be fixed, I'm really happy to have ran into this advice.

[@nomg563]

This gave me chills...Damn. Here I am thinking I am an anomaly and feeling misunderstood but listening to this not only brought me to tears because I feel recognized, but it has given me so much impetus to continue persisting in changing my beliefs and working through the times where I do fall into the old story. Thank you very much Dylan.

[@Priya0099]

Thank you so much Dylan! I'm So grateful to you 💫 and also to my best friend for suggesting your channel. Thanks again. Hope you find all the happiness in the world. Wishing for a neverending beautiful life filled with self growth and happiness for you 💫💐 Lots of happy & positive vibes to one of the most beautiful soul and Our mindset coach Dylan James 🙌

[@astrarealm]

Thank you so much for opening up and sharing your story, personally, watching this really helped. I look up to you and you inspire me more than anyone in my life. Thank you!

[@mindsetwithmarian8600]

For me being with a new person I notice old behaviors trying to creep up on me.. every now and then.. so I am stabilizing with eft and fast eft. I am glad I see it and can change it. Also I always sleep with my own belief tracks at night. And during day sometimes listen to your tracks. It helps a lot. My life has changed so much in every way. 🤩

[@magzlomeli6110]

You're fighting for your new life!! YESSS! So stop being luke warm, sometimey, lazy and do the inner thought work! 🤗🙌🏽🙏🏽

[@ChantalLisette7]

Thank you so much for sharing this with us. I had a lot of programming from my parents’ relationship that I had to shift out of. I had to be aware of this negative programming and decide that I wasn’t going to hold that pattern in my mind. Now I’m able to shift into the most confident, self-assured, self aware, self possessed version of myself. I know now that all I have to do is deeply love myself more and more each day, and all my wants will find me. Thanks again for sharing your personal journey with us. 💗💗💗

[@sedie94]

A small story time for you as well because your videos have really resonated with me and my experience! Last year I went through a divorce with someone who loves me so much but I had gotten to a point in life where I realized I always ended up having the same issue in the end of every relationship, no matter how supportive or not my partner was (I was also a serial monogamous). So through therapy I learned I have codependent habits and struggle with self compassion (not to be confused with self esteem). I'd been reading books suggested by my therapist but also researching on my own, which is how I came across your videos. After watching THIS one I see so many similarities in how our lives unfolded and it really helped connect the dots. Thank you so much for sharing your story 🥺

[@nenabishop4482]

Dylan thank you for sharing, I can relate with your childhood experienced.

[@AikiraBeats]

Literally word for word as a fellow military child , everything you mentioned is exactly what I’m trying to undo. I didn’t realize how negative my beliefs were until I started paying attention to all of my relationships. This really opened my eyes thank you.

[@jessie0078]

Seriously?… you are a gem 💎! Thank you for such loving, honest and encouraging words! 🙏

[@evolutionofabutterfly8544]

This is 100% 💡 relatable! Thanks for being transparent because it helps to see through the layers of complexity of where our beliefs could come from! Real world examples make it so much easier to understand. You’re a gem, Dylan!

[@ninamarqus7640]

You’re the best! You’ve changed me in ways I thought were impossible, I’ve come so far with my self love, confidence and belief. Even my life is taking a turn for the better all because of your teachings. You taught me how to be able to truly get to know myself and change those unwanted beliefs in order to change my life and it’s still a work in progress but I’ve come so far from the girl who used to cry, be depressed, super anxious and losing ton of weight looking unhealthy. I’m SO HAPPY WHERE I AM NOW AND IM EXCITED TO MANIFEST MKRE SUCCESS

[@tnt01]

Thank you for taking my "story time' suggestion.

[@juliagrabowy]

Thank you Dylan! I didn’t have the same situation as you growing up but I had a similar one, and I have the same beliefs as you did. Makes me feel more confident that I can get rid of those negative feelings!!

[@邱思晨]

Thank you Dylan for sharing your story! My past story was so alike yours and now I am on the stage of changing my self-belief and self-concept. You are the first person I will tell when I finally get my dreaming love relationship and career. Thanks again! You are such a angel!

[@deepti9127]

Thanks for sharing this its good to know you have worked through it. I hope to continue to get better

[@ebonyyyyyyyyyy]

I relate to so many of things you said, it makes sense why I am drawn to your channel. I developed many of the same negative/avoidant opinions of myself and others when I was a kid because of my home life. As an adult I always knew I had change my perception, but I wasn't sure where to start or how to stay consistent with my self-work. I'm so glad you're explaining in so much depth how we can shift our beliefs about ourselves and others. Love your channel Dylan!!💖

[@phynekat]

Thank you so much for your open honest dialog. You are truly a blessing to us all.🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@itismeanttobe]

thank you for being vulnerable with us Coach! it really helps me open my heart too i had similar beliefs as you and im glad im moving outta that its been a very changing 2 months

[@everythingsgonnabeokay5908]

I have two scenarios that was playing :1 somebody likes me i like him back i see his insecurities i run or i don’t feel interested suddenly 2: somebody likes me i like him back everything is going great i feel that i’m not interested anymore from nowhere i run also with the conviction that i don’t love him and then after days opps i start to miss him and have strong feelings about him (That what happened with my sp recently)

[@pan-alice]

THANK YOU Dylan! You are an example of real overcoming. Thanks for being so explanatory on how self-concept works. Blessings.

[@biggbakari]

I love you. Your videos saved me the last few months of 2022. Happy for 2023.

[@alexandramartins1962]

What an important sharing, Dylan! You have no idea how deep this is. It's really a blessing you shared your personal experience with us in such sincere way. Blessed be, cute. Have you ever been told about how special you are? A big hug from Portugal 😄.

[@samhathaway3323]

After years of manifesting, now i get it. Through this live! Light bulb moments.

[@drewisours]

Thank you for sharing your personal story with us Dylan ❤️

[@yasminmurabi7802]

Thank you DYLAN! This was so good. I was shaking my head yes the whole time. Thank you for sharing a bit about yourself and being open. ♥️✨💫

[@gabriellepitts3707]

This is why I lovvvvvve you! You illuminate my subconscious because you feel like a safe space to explore it. I also had a Father in the Military who worked 3 jobs to pay bills because my Mom stayed home with me. This led me to seeking mens attention from a young age and also we moved a lot so I too kept very few friends because I thought, “What’s the point?” And you’ve just helped me realize that this is why I still have so few friends and feel lonely even thought I am no longer with my parents and have lived in the same metro area for 10 years. I don’t consistently text the friends that I do have and I treat friendships as a convenience. WOW! Do you have a tape for something like this?

[@thecurioussoul1111]

You explained this so perfectly!

[@jackiek4159]

Loved hearing your story and where you've come from Dylan! You are such an inspiration and thank you for being there for us and reminding us of our value and worth! Sending you lot's of love Daddy D! xxx

[@HisAudacity]

What a birthday gift!

[@angelagracehere]

So sweet to get to hear more about your life. Thank you for sharing!!!

[@Sonni156]

I am so grateful to have found this channel! Dylan does explain so well and also he is giving proper advice which is easy to apply. Now I am not only able to understand, but even more important I know the steps I have to go. The whole thing with first creating a new self-concept makes so much sense. Even after the first night of listening the affirmations there was a change. For me it feels sooo good, because you actually can do something where you see a change. I was doing affirmations before, but it felt like hard work to get to a point where a could believe them. Now it seems so easy. I see my world changing. I see differently and also people around me seem to change. I am really gaining me confidence back. I am sure it is only a matter of time that all my manfifestions come to me. It feels like I am the drive and I am not on autopilot anymore. Thank you!

[@Glamorr22]

Another brilliantly constructed break down of how & why & what to do to change these beliefs. Thank you for also sharing your story. It’s great to get an insight & how these beliefs showed up and that they can be changed. Thank you I’m gaining so much clarity & awareness from your content. Seriously life changing. So so thankful ❤️

[@justinwhillier310]

Thank you thank you thank you for sharing this brings clarity of some things I have to work on

[@Pretti_Papix]

You have helped me tremendously and although i still need work, you're videos definitely help me so much! Thank you!!

[@vanessaclaire999]

Dylan....damn. just damn. You changed my life. I can not express the gratitude I have for you and what you do. Thank you.

[@sasukelovesme234]

Thank you for opening up daddy Dylan. I can definitely relate! 💕💪🏼

[@moonlight0665]

I have been thru similar stuff with people not being consistent in my life. Thank You so much DJ for this video. I feel you.

[@allisoncrystal8584]

Dylan thanks for sharing.. you are a very unique person!! I come across yur channel a couple of days ago. So amazing. 😍 I love ❤️ how you explain so many things and how you break it all down. Wow n wow. I went on a rampage listening 🎶 to so many of yur videos. YOUR AMAZING 👏 ✨️ ❤️ 💖 😍 . Today I drove past the house 🏠 I want. I said thank you universe n drove away.. doesn't matter how it comes,it is done..

[@ayeshakhatoon1427]

Thank you Dylan for sharing your story, you always inspire, and guide us, you're a HERO, Daddy😇🤗

[@EMVelez-qb1zu]

I have so many shitty beliefs about myself that were put into my head by other people. Sometimes it seems so overwhelming to try and change this.

[@Rose-lq7uo]

This video explained my entire problem 🤯 thank you soooo much for breaking this down for us!! The entire time i was listening thinking, omg yup! And also just speechlessly nodding because you described me from the core!!! I am so excited to create the change ❤🎉 What nightly affirmation tape would i use to fix these beliefs?

[@zepolgg]

thanks for sharing your story. I’ve been watching your videos for almost a year now and you’ve helped me tremendously. it’s brave to share this and i can understand the inconsistency in love.

[@dimaawad7725]

This video is gold! Thank you so much Dylan!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@aishaanis6600]

Beautiful, thank you so much for sharing I realised deeply today why love wasn’t a consistent thing in my life but I’m promising that won’t be the situation anymore and I am going to be married to my sp for sure, I intend and I’m committing to it. 💕💕

[@latormentaperfecta29]

Thank you so much for all you do....it is so appreciated and because of your teaching, I am growing, maturing and feeling better and better each day.

[@seraphimspeaks4658]

Thank you so much, Dylan! You are so amazing!🤗🤗🤗

[@kanikagupta213]

THANK YOU DARLING DYLAN 🌹

[@Alwina578]

Thank you so much Dylan ❤️ you have caused such a big change in me and I can't thank you enough🍀

[@Locdluuv]

Wow I def needed a reminder that my constant story is recreating unfavorable things ! Time to detach

[@lulunanita]

Thank you so much for your videos! You changed my life, and I’m sure many others life’s as well!!🙏🏼❤️❤️

[@uxnne4492]

Thank you so much for sharing Dylan. It really helps to resonate

[@joeywalker9505]

Thank youuu dylan, really appreciate you opening up so much about your life to help us ❤️

[@lil8615]

Thank U Dylan as always you are the best ,,,yes I am fighting for my new self to be solid & consistent.. Much love & Many Blessings :)

[@jennybowen8656]

I really appreciate you making this video.

[@jennymorgan6493]

Hi. I’ve watched your content for months. I am a little embarrassed at my age and to see so many people on here so much younger than I getting it right. I will be 49 years old Monday. I really appreciate your content with this story because I have so many many limiting beliefs and never know what to start with to heal. My parents divorced when I was very young, grew up in a absusive household, had childhood trauma from a family member as well as another grown man. I went to 12 different elementary schools out of state before we stayed in one state from 12 -17, at 17 my father died of cancer at 39 and I loved him so very much and craved his attention and my mothers, they divorced when I was 7 and he lived out of state so I didn’t see him much. I had always tried to prove my worth to everyone by people pleasing craving love and affection everywhere I went telling people my story unknowingly hoping they would just understand. I put up a very big defensive mode and became very angry and victim mindset. Was married for 23 years which was also very abusive and finally left because I didn’t want my daughter to grow up that way. None of this I knew what I was doing. Just the same patterns revolving in my life. My mom passed young just 3 years ago and she was my rock and 6 months later I was diagnosed with a blood cancer and my ex who I love very very much broke up with me. We’ve had a cycling relationship of 7 years. I always just wanted acceptance and someone just to want me back and love me for me. The moral of this is, I hope I can get this right as I believe with all of the traumas debilitating anxiety and intense loneliness I believe that’s why I have the cancer truly. I know that may sound odd to some but I truly believe the trauma causes diseases vs anything else. I desire love and compassion as I believe I have a lot to offer someone and hoping for my ex back. I truly thought he is the one. I still have a lot of life and love to offer and I see that I sabatoged my relationships out of fear. If you by chance happen to see any of this I now it’s Long, if you could give me a suggestion on where to start. I have been in counseling and medications and it just has not helped much to be honest. So I feel this is belief system is the whole package. And my last hope. I’m tired of losing people I love because of where I’m stuck at. Thank you in advance and for everything you have taught me. You are a true gift!!

[@thetaurean4932]

Hey...just wanna say its very courageous of you to share your story here...please dont even think of the age when you are getting to know this all...you have no idea how many went on without even knowing this till the end of their life so you are actually doing better than many ur age...internet has blessed the new generation with availability of information which wasn't there in ur time...u have been a great person...despite the circumstances you had strong love for both your mom and dad, you weren't one of those parent hating kids so thats cool...also you cared a lot for ur daughter and left ur marriage so that she can have a good experience... What a nice thing...all u gotta do now is give all that love to urself.. Dont expect people to understand you...may be sit down with just yourself and tell how much u love urself.. U r depleted may be by giving out so much love... U deserve a lot of thay urself.. N cancer...u can heal it with your string will power...have strong faith....U are God..U are a gem....remember that...

[@jennymorgan6493]

@@thetaurean4932 you’re too kind to say that. I appreciate your feedback! I believe all things can be fixed and cured I just have to keep chizziling away at it and hope it just all clicks sooner or later

[@jennymorgan6493]

@@thetaurean4932 I thought I sent a reply. I guess it didn’t go through. But thank you so very much for your kind words that means a lot to me!! I’ll get thru it all I have yhe will power for sure!! I am very blessed in a lot of ways in my life but some things I desire have been a little harder to come by! I hope you and everyone else get everything we all deserve and are worthy of. Thank you again for your kind words and support ❤️😊

[@tnt01]

You are still very young, especially nowadays. Change your belief about age :)

[@akshe4748]

Can I ask what blood can see you have? Definitely focus on deep breathing (wim hof), gently clearing trauma from your body (tapping, chakra cleansing) and EFT, etc. Nourish yourself with healthy foods. Talk to your subconscious mind and tell it that you know it’s creating distraction in your body so that you don’t have to face emotional pain, but that you are okay to handle the emotions and to stop creating cancer and heal your body. Be very firm in your thoughts and speak them to your your subconscious out loud. Write it down, too. Read “healing back pain” by Dr John Sarno and instead of “back pain” substitute the word cancer when you read the book. It’s short, inexpensive. Read it many times through. Even if none of this works, you will know you tried. Forgive yourself as well, because life can be hard and you’ve done the best you can. Forget the guy for a long while - you need to focus on you - you can’t do that if thoughts of him are preoccupying you. Your body is telling you it’s time to focus on you. ❤️

[@candichiu7850]

Thank you for sharing your personal story. Lots of love!! :)

[@catsmeow1984]

Joined your channel just about a year ago @ 14k subs. Thank you!

[@georgehopes939]

Thank you for sharing this♥️

[@llgrazes]

Whenever I see my Dylan has put up a video. I am watching..I love you sweetheart

[@brooke9188]

Thank you for sharing this.

[@holistiqua2687]

Omg! You are 70k followers already!🤩😍

[@littlewillowlinda]

I've been working on this for so long. I’m aware of my beliefs and it’s been 3+ years. I’ve been seeing external change maybe in the past month. I cannot understand why it’s not integrating. Subconscious stuff, meditating, affirmation, hypnosis, trauma work, posture, etc. everything and I mean everything is gone from my life. I don’t know what more I can do…

[@vanessasmith6925]

Have you tried EFT?

[@aaroneliyahu]

Thanx for the video!

[@dimcbride8969]

18.30 address the beliefs in my life 21.20 practical steps

[@ValerieAbena]

Thank you for sharing x

[@suz8175]

Love this 🙏🏼

[@ivexoxo]

Been waiting for this❤️

[@nonhlanhlashelembe7908]

Thanks for sharing ❤️

[@Soanywayyys]

This helped sooo much!

[@jamarisilva222]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@cre8trixG]

wow that was amazing dylan !

[@nmc4120]

Has anyone started repeating the affirmations in their dreams while listening to his tracks at night?

[@kanzaki1111]

222 likes when I started watching this 🤗☺️

[@lauraduque2172]

Dylan, remember the story you told about a SP who threw rocks at your window and that was the moment you knew you were done? hahaha ok, my question, do you think that even then circumstances could have changed for him if he had applied all that you teach? even if you were already determined to end things. Obviously, I would never throw rocks, but I feel like my person got fed up with me looking for him to work things out. And although I know that the circumstances do not matter, I am afraid that it is an irrevocable case (like yours with the story of the rocks) Please, enlighten me! And BTW, I love you and you are a huge inspiration in my life. All the love in the world 😘💗💗. You are changing my perspective and my life.

[@chantalvanas5815]

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[@tnt01]

Great question.

[@lauraduque2172]

@@tnt01 thanks! I think it would be really helpful to know his perspective on the other side, because he's been there and he said "no more".

[@jasmineb7209]

I think they could have changed. I’ve had people I’ve felt done with and changed my mind on, especially when they took back their energy and stopped chasing me.

[@lauraduque2172]

@@jasmineb7209 that's amazing! Did that happen with an ex or love interest?

[@jeanetteg73]

Omg I’m so terrible at interviews

[@MeLissa-qz5nr]

TY❤️

[@aleishaali5477]

Could u do a video with client success stories if its not too much.. Thnks..

[@shreyamukherjee2261]

So if I'm having a fear regarding anything/ anyone....should I accept that I feel this way right now nd then change my perception/ meaning behind it like nooo it is not gonna stop me from getting my desire ?? Or should I just stop focussing on it? Any suggestion?

[@Channelinterrupted]

Do you have a course on self concept turnaround? It's my area that holds me back. My old programming pops up when I think I'm doing well and ruins it. I need a better way to improve this within me.

[@IsabelleEsling777]

Dylan, I am still having weird dreams from time to time, after months and months of using limitless manifestor. Will they eventually go away?

[@coricori7428]

but how did you change the beliefs i mean which work did you do specially?

[@truthheals5723]

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[@user-pf8iq6sw2u]

how do you deal w medical ocd/intrusive thoughts that have plagued your mind for MONTHS but you always say its not true/doesnt manifest/not my reality ??

[@astridwpaiva]

💕💕💕

[@charlenejohanna535]

Exactly

[@Tatianarain]

My SP's mom left him at a young age. Of course I'm assuming he has healed but I wonder if he has these same abandonment issues as you. With pushing romantic interests away etc.

[@EMVelez-qb1zu]

Very likely

[@adelastvanova8690]

👍

[@Marcelaroaavila59]

Dylan I just wanted to thank you, because thanks to this kind of videos and affirmations at night, yesterday just click and I always said myself I’ll comment when I manifest my SP back, but I manifest someone even better and even though I was struggling to maintain my manifestation I just know now that I gonna be with him, I just know and after months dealing with doubting I just realized that I was making myself small, I had always been a confident person but after one guy cheat on me, I lose all my confidence but yesterday everything finally click and now I’m this bad bitch again, I always used to say I always get what I want and it just happen but after many years giving the power of that guy to take away my confidence I forgot who I was, but consistency is key, I sleep with the affirmations, I woke up and meditate and do morning affirmations. Finally I can say I’m back. Thanks for this, because you always see other influencers talk about let go, and detachment but you are the only want that actually teach to don’t give up. That actually tell us we can get what we want. I was tired to give up and always accept the minimum. We always can do better and I always get what I want. Thanks again. Love you and send you the best energy.

[@gabriellepitts3707]

Dylan changed my life! His confidence tape gave me the confidence to start my own Subconscious Reprogramming channel with the intention to give people the life of their dreams! TheRoadMostHigh.

[@jannahgarcia_]

❤️❤️❤️

[@jannahgarcia_]

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