I was a people- pleasing child, then an adult who tried to be a the perfect employee and partner. I went no contact with a covert narcissistic mother, had CBT, have apparently lost my brothers, who are flying monkeys and left an overt narcissistic fiancé. I am trying to be enough, believe in myself and take care of myself, the way I wished others had.
@NFTeve3 жыл бұрын
Me too babe, I brought up the abuse of my nephew and been excluded from my family 8 years ago. 🎄 Life is full (well almost) Of people who can behave in a logical kind manner
@andreagonyeaurodriguez48313 жыл бұрын
THIS IS AWESOME!!!! I LOVE THIS!!! Caroline- you were speaking directly to me. I think you were speaking as me - that is EXACTLY how I felt/feel as a woman in my relationships due to my lack of a relationship w/my mother. I never feel like I matter enough to anyone and I constantly choose people that i need to prove that to. My mother made me feel that way my entire life and just recently I have stopped pining after a relationship with her. I am now 48 years old. I have had a host of psychological issues to deal with because of my addiction to NARC relationships due to my upbringing. I loved this video. Thank you.
@helenmarie10823 жыл бұрын
I went no contact with my vulnerable narcissistic mother. My brothers, her flying monkeys, have rejected me. I have recently left an overt fiancé. I spent my life being a people-pleaser. I have had CBT and am realising, I am enough, I am trying to be my own best friend. Not going to lie though, when I was feeling down the other day and my teenage son randomly said, “You’re a legend!”, my heart melted.
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@djw8504 Жыл бұрын
You are telling my story. As far back as I can remember, I felt like my mom was the only one that truly loved me. I didn’t even wanna go to school because that meant I had to leave my momma with my daddy that was a firefighter so sometimes he was home during the day so I stayed a nervous wreck my whole childhood, and she was my world. I’m 53 this May, and my sweet mom passed away last January. I feel so alone going thru PTSD without her to talk to. She was a perfect loving momma, and didn’t deserve to be mistreated by my daddy for 27yrs. She did leave him after the last one of 3 moved out. She was able to be free. I never knew abt what she was going thru and I wish I had known so I cldve helped her thru it. Thank you for saving myself and so many others. 🙏❤️
@littleiodine94802 жыл бұрын
I totally get what you are saying. I have been working on this for two yrs now. However, I cannot walk around numb to other people's garbage behavior and tell self, I must feel hurt because of my childhood etc. Many times in the PRESENT, those feelings are our warning signs to get away from the PRESENT toxicity.
@teresakibler61712 жыл бұрын
💯 % on point Thank you for sharing your knowledge. You help me every single day
@janetbederman39242 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this, my whole life I felt I don’t matter.
@victoriapritchard85062 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate thank you
@southernbellerising3 жыл бұрын
Oh man. This resonates SO SO MUCH. Almost identical situation for me, except for me, it was my grandma who really made me feel like I mattered. Yes to all these feelings!!! Thank you for sharing this kind of content. So many of us need it.
@darjaklemencic2668 Жыл бұрын
OMG Caroline, I can relate SO MUCH 🥺
@nsg16543 жыл бұрын
Yes this is really amazing, i feel this totally, what can i do about this
@NFTeve3 жыл бұрын
I’m trying not to cry.
@goaunep3 жыл бұрын
Love the English accent seems to help
@CityBohoGirl3 жыл бұрын
Of course, what if you’re narcissistic abusive ex husband comes back after you’ve suffered his punitive hell for leaving but you finally left - and you decide ugh ok, one last time… for my family to have one last chance blah blah. And you suddenly begin to die a slow, desperate, disassoxiative desth mere months into said go around and leave. Again. Only to be told, “Ha! You just left the ONLY person in the entire world who ACTUALLY cares about you AT ALL! Because you are sooo independent and…” you fill in the blank. It’s quite shocking to hear. I mean, you know how preposterous it is abs they are - yet they’re so sick, they’re deep deeeep ID woulda are so severe and they are completely unaware of them. Completely blind. Go right back to gaslighting, projecting their sin, lying and rewriting your narrative all whole then accusing you of doing the same to them. On and on. Is your head spinning yet? But - the brain fog, insanely severe exhaustion, dread, all of it. Inability to grasp words, etc. your now extreme me physical illnesses of autoimmune bases. And then you’re told that. You were right all along. It’s chilling, really. ;/
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