How TikTok Is Making Women Narcissistic

This video is a commentary on the Cheesecake Factory lady.
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Main Video Links (KZbin Only):
Cheesecake Factory Lady Original Video: • She refused the Cheese...
Alicia's Follow Up Video: • Woman who refused the ...
Interview with Kevin Wesley: • Date refuses the CHEES...
Pre-interview Livestream with Jay: • Live interview with th...
Red Pill Dating "Gems" from Kevin Wesley: • Cheesecake Factory Sag...
Misc Video Links (KZbin Only):
FreshandFit Saying Why Men Are Allowed To Cheat: • The Discount Female An...
Shera Talking Saying Do Whatever You Can To Get Money: • Tiktok's Gold Digger C...
Donovan Sharpe's Wedding + Q&A: • Video
Shera's Pickmiesha Skit (It's Members Only): • Pickmiesha Has Somethi...
We're Alphas! We're Leaders: • These ALPHAS are comin...
Shera Responds to Cheesecake Factory Lady Question (use transcripts plus ctrl+:f) • Stop Cooking and Clean...
Second Shera Cheesecake Factory Lady Response: • He Can't Afford You an...
Oyshter Lady: • Video
$35k Wedding Ring Guy: • Why He Spent 35K On An...
Dr. K Red Flags Video: • Why Chasing Red Flags ...

[@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT]

So I did some research initially when I started writing the video to check if the Cheesecake Factory lady video was fake and could not find anything. People were accusing it of being fake but didn't really have any strong evidence. The strongest claim being that the video was uploaded on a channel that posts other skit content and the creator of that TikTok channel looks a lot like Alicia. So I thought those people saying it was fake were just mistaken because they thought Alicia was the same girl as the person who uploaded the video to TikTok. I merely thought it was someone stealing it and reuploading it as that happens a lot on social media. Though I did find it weird that it took Jay an obscenely long time to drive out of the parking lot at the end of the video. However, as soon as I released the video a bunch of you said it wasn't real, so I checked again and found that the Cheesecake Factory lady video is indeed fake. Here is a video outlining multiple takes of the skit. kzbin.info/www/bejne/aGS1hoSups9lm8U My bad. I try to keep mistakes like this to a minimum. However, despite the first clip video being a fake, that still does not diminish the viral gold digger trends that are present on TikTok as well as the "high-value" "alpha male" dusty channels that are rampant on KZbin. Fortunately the fake video was accurate enough to bring up real issues so I ask that people suspend their disbelief a bit for the sake of the content. At the very least it allows me to expose the many degenerates that were in this video. But honestly, it is surprising how realistic this video was and no wonder it fooled so many people. Also, please stop sending me stuff from Soft White Underbelly. That channel fakes content. The last time I got duped was from that channel and people keep requesting it.

[@jsphn2008]

Now that I think about it, this clip tricked basically everyone.

[@daleford8621]

​@@jsphn2008it's because these toxic, entitled, conceted women are damn near everywhere. It's more of a reenactment of a common encounter than a completely false story.

[@user-me7iw6ft8z]

To be fair a man has to work much harder and for longer than a woman to look good

[@mrpierre3355]

Nah, respect. It is something that is becoming prevalent in our society. The commentary is still valuable.

[@mynameisurl1073]

I’m a little surprised to hear that about soft white underbelly. Can you provide examples of things that were faked?

[@hughmungus3074]

there is nothing wrong with the cheesecake factory

[@baddestmfborneastofthemiss3379]

The chicken parm is a little dry.

[@SleeeeepyBear]

@@baddestmfborneastofthemiss3379depends where ur from if food quality isn’t regulated then it’ll be terrible

[@stopmotionstuff650]

It’s a skit. It’s not real

[@lenelewiley1933]

I agree and 100 likes for you

[@erueka6]

Other than cheesecake yeah nothing wrong with a factory

[@oscarbarreto6348]

A guy calling himself alpha, is the equivalent of a female calling herself a queen or godess.

[@Nylon_riot]

Yup. There is so such thing in nature. It is very cringe. They ttry to justify predatory behavior with a very ill-educated view of sociology. They are the male equivalent of astrology.

[@prathyushareddy9404]

Or calling the Titanic unsinkable.

[@user-us1vx3yy5j]

And sometimes it might be true. I have a Master's degree, am I uneducated if I call myself educated? This line of thinking never made sense to me. Help me understand.

[@CaramujoDaLeste]

@@user-us1vx3yy5j no. "alpha", "queen", "goddess" and similar are just stupid terms people use for themselves to make them feel better and stroke their massive egos, educated is a simple, factual thing and has no connection to those.

[@BelaFox-vt5xu]

@@user-us1vx3yy5j Keeping fake degrees (for instance, on gender or race studies) out of conversation, you are trying to compare a fact with subjective self-description. If I am really educated, I have a degree as an evidence. If I call myself a queen or alpha, my evidence is my own words, and, perhaps, words of couple of people in the Internet, who don't have any evidence, neither.

[@rosestar1324]

1. The cheesecake factor is delicious and nothing wrong with having a date there. 2. She is right. If a girl looks like that, you take her to McDonald's or Burger King. She doesn't deserve cheesecake factory.

[@FransceneJK98]

They got great food and they’re hella expensive too. And the decor is really nice. Idk why she’s tripping. Also, I’d prefer coffee on a first date to see if we can even stand being around each other long enough 😂

[@OnderHassan]

😂😂

[@GenericMedusa99]

i think op was being too harsh on jake though

[@picklenator9633]

Bro the wings sssssssslap hard

[@IzzyLikesTrains]

I love cheescake :D

[@user-ns8pw6os5e]

I think she missed out on a quality relationship by being so self-centered. Everything from his politeness to strong communication, ability to compromise, also looks like he has his life together.. that’s not easy to find all in one package.

[@whattheflimflam]

Thank God, Jay doesn't deserve that toxicity.

[@malwads1836]

Narcissistic people just care about the present...They don't 💭 about the long-term consequences🤢🙄.

[@mrsweetpotato4354]

I don't think that she is capable of being part of a healthy relationship. She needs a lot of therapy

[@TSPH1992]

A woman who expects to be treated like royalty is not worth your time

[@wolfetteplays8894]

Agreed. Haven't you ever heard the phrase "The Queen is the servant to the people."@@officiallytrustissues5411

[@shentsaceve5642]

Well, royalty shouldn't even be treated like royalty just because they are some "ancient bloodline of blah blah blah." But you have to think on this when they say they're all queens: Practically all queens throughout history & up until today were/are either murderers, promiscuous, greedy, back-stabbing, lying, blood-bathing, blood-drinking, cannibal, selfish, oppressive, and/or inbred cousin-fooking psychopaths. So, women are queens - just not the way that they *think* they are.

[@genghiskhan5701]

"Marries her off to the Mongol Khan to secure a peace deal"

[@blankblank1949]

Do they understand how it feels to be female royalties? Shackled by tradition and will be shipped away for marriage to someone you dont even know

[@yoshi314]

if you treat her like a queen, she'll treat you like a peasant.

[@Mr0PT1C]

Brothers, if she makes you wait on a date, just leave. She’s already starting out with not respecting your time; which means she doesn’t respect you.

[@PhillyCh3zSt3ak]

I'd say without due reason. For example, bad traffic does happen. Yes, both parties should prepare and leave accordingly to get to whatever the venue is early, but sometimes idiots happen, and a 5-car pileup turns a 10-minute commute into a parking lot hellhole that lasts multiple hours because you can't exit. If it happens repeatedly and regularly, then peace out.

[@daveeyes]

Call her and tell her you're trapped in a car wreck snarled and you'll be late. Good excuse, really.

[@Ash_Wen-li]

​@@PhillyCh3zSt3akI mean that's what communication is for

[@WyattOShea]

Sure but then you just send a text or call the date and communicate with them instead of just hoping they can telepathically know what's happening.@@PhillyCh3zSt3ak

[@WyattOShea]

This^@@Ash_Wen-li

[@ghostofrecon1]

Im a 40 year old man who makes 6 figures. Cheesecake Factory is, while not fine dining, it’s a decent restaurant. It’s well lit and non-threatening. If you’re looking for a place to get to know someone and have above average food. I am simply not interested in a woman who requires a 5 star restaurant for a first date. As an example my girlfriend and my first date was at a Korean fusion bistro. The bill came out to about 75 with tip. It was an amazing date because the date is way more about the company than the food

[@Nylon_riot]

I come from a family of "HVM". Watching these people all speculate like Taylor Swift fans about her love life, is very entertaining. Best date I ever went on was coffee and strolling through a historic town, that ended with a 3 hour chat.

[@FransceneJK98]

Yea and it’s not even a cheap restaurant. I’d prefer coffee on a first date just to see if we can even be around each other long enough 😂 Cheesecake Factory is like a 3rd or 4th date for me

[@Vic2point0]

Humility and kindness automatically boost a woman's value, like, 5 points (out of 10). The lack of either? Don't bother.

[@Bergsen_Bun-sense]

I just cannot believe someone would film themselves in front of a date. This is insanity

[@LordHollow]

She's totally unaware of what she is.

[@lashlarue59]

If you were a TikTok junkie and pretty much your whole life is about saying how beautiful you are every 3 minutes to 1000's of strangers; that is exactly what you would do.

[@nikitaw1982]

she's nuts. that was so odd. Shes marketing to the next guy. she's like producer of her own tv show or something

[@supermodestmouse]

Agreed. I wouldn't be ok with someone trying to stream or film or be on their phone the whole time we're trying to get to know each other. Be present or don't be there.

[@lashlarue59]

@@nikitaw1982 I don't think she's marketing to the next guy. I think she was trying to impress that group of women on TikTok that she is a member of. Remember during the interview she said her and her friends don't roll with The Cheesecake Factory and she would never live it down if she went there because her group are all beautiful and were worth more than that.

[@hinduismwithpremananddasbhagat]

The fact she's on her phone filming this first date is an immediate red flag. We have literally gone from "never look at your phone to a date" to "film your date and criticize it in real time"

[@gabe5816]

It’s even worse that it’s before the date even began

[@BoleDaPole]

Look at her date, dude is still trying to win her over as she's filming instead of telling her to get out the car.

[@elaineweaver12]

As a black woman with plenty of curls on my head, I released a DEEP guffaw at the curl and timeliness correlation, cause it’s TRUUEEE!! 😂😂😂

[@elsugga3736]

Same I was like not the curl chart

[@Andrew-hk8qi]

You guys are late because you are on CPT. If shit takes longer then start earlier.

[@glokiid]

She got $12 worth of jewelry on $10 worth of hair and makeup but she wanna go to $100+ restaurants 😭

[@alansteel]

Jay does have some balls. He approached a woman twice his size.

[@ALE199-ita]

or maybe he's just into BBW

[@antbanks415]

I would have ended the date and I would have made her get out and let her walk

[@Marsch928]

I'm into women who are taller than me.

[@lemonke5341]

@thezoldics7648what are you on about indians are short as shi your talking about the top0.0001% of indians

[@satyam168]

​​@thezoldics7648 let it be .... this people would never understand problems of Indian society All they know is to hate

[@khatdubell]

"he could have sat there and held the reservation until she arrived" How about "NO". While i'll admit there are valid reasons for people to be late to something, and you can and should make exceptions for that, women showing up late to dates is not something you should tolerate.

[@chengliu872]

Not to mention that some restaurants will not seat you until everyone has arrived.

[@4ElementGirl]

100%

[@RobertMorgan]

He could have held the reservation and she could have found her own ride there, and on arrival he's finishing his meal because he waited an hour. And record and share it lol. She can't keep up with him, she loses out. Do better. Better luck for her next time lulz.

[@donaldoehl7690]

Being chronically late is a manipulation tactic.

[@beatnik6806]

Exactly! They have made their hair and their make-up for their whole life so they very well know how long it takes. Just a stupid take from this guy saying "girls are going to be late especially black girls because their hair takes a long time" god damn, then they know to start earlier 🤦‍♂️

[@tau566]

This woman is huge she isn't turning down food from anywhere.

[@neorecormon1769]

death by snu snu

[@Grinnade15]

Her pronouns are Fe/Fi/Fo/Fum

[@OneManBandNapier]

Me and my GF met in the Philippines. Our first date was at Jollibee. We had so much fun. 12 years and 3 kids later, we are still having fun. Decent lives begin with associating with decent people.

[@Avije-oz7su]

Amen to your happiness

[@flowerthencrranger3854]

And may your lives continue happy, wish for the best.

[@mz2535]

How did you convince her to move out with you to the US? How long did it take to find a woman in the Phillipines?

[@SadCats666]

Are you one of those weird american dudes who can only find love by going to basically a 3rd world country where the women really don’t even have that broad a choice of men & don’t know any better? You may as well have said you ordered a mail order bride who didn’t have a choice in the matter.

[@SadCats666]

@@mz2535lmfao wtf you sound really sketch with that comment dude. Like you’re looking for cattle or something

[@365ral]

I'm a woman, and I think arrogance makes people ugly, no matter what they look like. Humility is a good look for anybody.

[@A_YouTube_Commenter]

And it's under rated. When you are humble and courageous, you are invincible. Not humble and meek or arrogant and outrageous. True yin and yang.

[@supremelordoftheuniverse5449]

Well you are wrong. I became arrogant on purpose to get girls and it works wonders. There is something in you that makes you attracted to bad behavior, and although I don’t condone it, I’m willing to learn and adapt.

[@valentinlageot4101]

agreed

[@CBman11037]

​@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449bro you ain' attract no girls. You attracted lice! Those girls gonna do nothing but ruin your life

[@johncap6495]

Being broody and mysterious works. You don’t got be arrogant or condescending. And truth is when you go all in most woman break you. It doesn’t mean guys should be mean but never let them know how you really feel because most women really want that. They very few attractive traditional women usually are with their first and if a guy not with his then that’s gonna be hard find a real woman of value. It’s sad cause social media created all this.

[@nootnoot6404]

"Who would take a lady that looks like that to Cheesecake Factory". She's right, she looks like someone who's had plenty enough of cheesecakes in her life

[@rizkiramadhan9266]

Take her to the gym

[@dwightrenfield2241]

Take her back to the nearest rancher who’s missing one of his cattle.

[@TranslatedAssumption]

Burger King is too good for this broad...

[@rizkiramadhan9266]

@@dwightrenfield2241 this had me flying 😂

[@randalthor2859]

Yeah, looks like a McDonald's first date.

[@hdw237]

I just wanted to say thank you. You are the ONLY male advocate style channel I've found that has EVER mentioned that a man is required to be a traditional provider if he is to demand traditional wife duties from his wife. I work a full time and part time job, have 3 kids with my husband (my only ones), go to the gym on way home from work, and did the housework and cooking. It took a near divorce before my husband started helping by starting dinner (seeing as he gets home an hour before me and does NOT pick up the kids). He's also started doing some laundry on his day off. He works 4 days a week, air work 5, and I usually spend the whole of my weekends doing housework. I just really appreciate you mentioning that.❤❤❤❤❤

[@NickMachado]

Literally every red piller ever has said men have to be traditional if they want a traditional women and vice versa. Its usually the women that want a traditional man while being a modern women with a "career" as a sex worker. Non traditional men don't seek out traditional women. You are either gaslighting or very uninformed on the red pill ideology.

[@hdw237]

@NickMachado I've listened to quite a few, and I can honestly say they don't often (if ever) mention that a man can not expect a woman to be able to assume full traditional roles unless the man assumes full traditional. They talk a big game but they don't point out that if you are unable to be the full provider of the household you have to assume some of the domestic labor. I'm trying to think of last time I heard a red pill commentator state that for every hour his wife must work outside the home an equivalent of domestic must be assumed by him or at least shared....I honestly can't remember. Do feel free to let me know the commentator and the name or date of episode. I don't need a time stamp, I'll listen to the full video.

[@maryolivia930]

@@NickMachadolet me guess, you’re single 😂 never gonna find a girl if you act like an incel ❤

[@ObservationofLimits]

So how often do you help fix the house, the cars, mow the lawn, shovel the snow, clean the gutters, fix the toilet, unclog the drain, etc?

[@hdw237]

@ObservationofLimits how often does he cook every meal, change every diaper, get kids ready and take to school/ daycare before going to work, give up his weekend doing housework???? Because I do that 7 days a week every week AND work the same amount of hours outside the house as him. How about he do that 7 days a week EVERY week, and on the occasion the drain gets clogged or a tire gets flat I will do that. I've got NO PROBLEM exchanging 24/7 work for tge occasion one off if we are BOTH doing 40 hour work weeks. Sit down! You have NO ARGUMENT HERE!

[@rickmerritt8273]

I find it hard to believe she’d really pass on cheesecake.

[@Grinnade15]

I find it hard to believe that she would pass on food.

[@shazzadhasan3970]

if women says "i am beautiful" to establish that she is beautiful then she is not beautiful and she knows it

[@kylespevak6781]

😂 facts

[@etiennedevignolles7538]

The Cheesecake Factory one is waaayyy overweight, post-wall, extremely plain (and that is being kind), but most of all just obnoxious.

[@Codduct]

Bingo…humble souls are usually the most stunning

[@Sweetbunniez]

Yeah it’s like she had to convince everyone

[@bannedmann4469]

Any man who says he is the king, is no true king. Same thing with alpha, these things are for other people to attribute to you.

[@gawain1268]

She seems like she acts all high class but probably orders Iced Coffee from McDonald's

[@kylespevak6781]

When it's HER money lol

[@possummagic3571]

Those frappes are good shit

[@thedigitaldummy3098]

Better than Starbucks.

[@jeffjones7108]

“If you don’t regard what you have as enough, you will never be happy even if you rule the entire world.” - Seneca

[@evan12697]

hellcat american bahavior

[@Astarte45]

My first date was at a hardware store so I could pick up supplies for my volunteer work. He knew the hardware store inside out, so he helped me find the good stuff, and I paid for my own stuff, then we had lunch at Subway. It was a great time

[@SansINess53]

cool.

[@Grinnade15]

Good for you!

[@DylanJo123]

The dream

[@tjippo8197]

Wtf is wrong with a Botanical Garden now? You meet the most charming and lovely women if they agree to go to these places. Sometimes Think Before You Sleep has the same expectations as these crazy chicks and is still thinking about value and money 😂 It's about love my dude.

[@vikingboyt]

The fact that Jay tried to convince her to go in with him at all after she started filming him makes me worried about his self esteem

[@shentsaceve5642]

I was hoping he got the idea to do the walk-out right there in the car before he even went in with that she-beast.

[@hollowkid97]

Or it's fake. Her acting is at least passable,not his though.

[@vane909090]

Man's down bad.

[@jwg9338]

@@hollowkid97 Actually sad state when my first reaction to these cringe videos is always "this is probably fake".

[@stickedice1979]

​@@jwg9338it actually is fake btw. It is a satire piece.

[@Not.a.bird.Person]

Cheesecakes are not the biggest issue here. Anyone who whips out their phone to try to shame you for fame on social media and tries to film you on a first date is insane and narcissistic to an extent that is irrecoverable and not worth putting any effort in. I personally would not even drop her off at home, I would've told her to get out of my car the minute she tries to use me like this. In all fairness though, I would never have been on a date with her in the first place, everything about her screams red flags even without her speaking a single word.

[@user-2Hteyasizyc]

Her looks alone make me feel lonely.

Even if the guy was rude, she was still in the wrong for filming him without his consent and putting it on the internet.

[@blc5223]

I would have driven her to a nicer restaurant, pulled up in front, got out, walked around to her door, opened it, helped her out of the car, closed the door, walked back to my door, got in the car and drove away.

[@robinthrush9672]

@@blc5223 That's a lot safer than the OP's mostly good idea.

[@nikitaw1982]

she doesn't take her eyes off it. She's nuts. Shes so used to being lied to just long enough to get used in a hotel room i'm guessing

[@anthonyfuqboi8211]

She looked like she was about to cry when he called the date off 😂 so satisfying. Instant regret.

[@sjappiyah4071]

As a black dude , 12:03 had me dying , but that’s 100% right . I have twists and when I go on a date I give myself extra time to style it so I won’t run late .

[@tell-me-a-story-]

I bet your hair looks super cool. Always think twists rock.

[@sjappiyah4071]

@@tell-me-a-story- Thanks bro , my crush a few years ago was white she would always play with my twist cause she thought it was cool too lol 😂

[@BatmansCake]

lol as a black woman he had me dying 😂 definitely not racist. I felt seen

[@isaidwhatisaid484]

@@BatmansCakeright I’m like dang he pulled up the hair type chart and everything 😭

[@chilaeyaezell2171]

Yes, I (a black woman with locs) absolutely burst out laughing and nodding in agreement. And then he pulled out the hair density chart and correlated it to prep time...😂👏🏾

[@rutessian]

Tiktok isn't turning women into sociopaths, it's just telling them it's okay to be one awakening the asshole within.

[@orangenews2136]

😂😂😂

[@shentsaceve5642]

Yes. Exactly. "The gods made women so beautiful on the outside because they are so hideous on the inside."

[@almalone3282]

I think this is a good thing. It's a wonderful red flag to good men out there. And when their old and lonely the only person they can blame is themselves.

[@juaquintiscareno]

@@almalone3282had me in the first have

[@astolfo2305]

@@shentsaceve5642 are you see women without makeup mostly them are ugly lol rarely you see woman is beautiful without make up

[@AylienYu]

I honestly understand why men give up on women like this. The women aren't looking for a partner they're looking for a sugar daddy

[@antbanks415]

They are looking for help

[@brandon-qc1ul]

Facts

[@Sinsteel]

I think increasingly they're being convinced or convincing themselves that a good relationship IS being a sugar baby.

[@b.o.3815]

finally they leave them alone

[@Willie_Wahzoo]

@@antbanks415 No. I know you're trying to say "they need help," but no, they're definitely not looking for help. It they sought help, they'd find it.

[@michelleg1898]

I told my husband that jewelry wouldn’t hold me back from responding to a proposal. I told him my favorite ring pop flavor was green apple and he went around buying bags to find that one specifically and proposed to me on the beach. Afterwards he set aside a little money and we went to our local jeweler where she knocked the price down from $1000 to 700 for my engagement ring (because we knew each other) and my wedding band was a slim little stacker for $100. He so badly wanted to get me the nicest biggest rocks in that store but it didn’t interest me and his food lion paychecks would’ve gone to paying it off for months 😂 I have the utmost respect for my husband and the work he has put in to build a stable financial life for our little family. Girls are being too petty on first dates alone, get cheeseburgers together, split a milkshake and explore your hometowns or something.

[@TheAnalyticalObservers]

The black community completely agrees with you

[@cgpxae2119]

A “dusty” isn’t a guy that cheats. It’s typically used to refer to a broke man or a man that a women think is broke.

[@CornbreadOracle]

Yep, I’ve heard it used like “bum” for men and women.

[@D3xterJettster]

Dusty > Roasty

[@BatmanBeyondBelief]

TBYS is outside his element on this one. Lots of misses

[@katherine6326]

It's a man who sits around the house collecting dust. Basically, he contributes nothing while the woman pays for everything and does all the house work.

[@basharalbutseggs8056]

@@D3xterJettsterlet’s not use these terms for either gender. Not productive and very immature.

[@nomoturtle1788]

"The cheesecake factory lady" That's probably the worst thing she could never think of hearing herself be known as.

[@leone41ll]

She is no "lady"

[@SIPEROTH]

karma is a b*^ch. 😄

[@donchoq]

She looks like she eats all her meals at the Cheesecake Factory. Off of the dessert menu!

[@joachimpanam3449]

As ab Indian I can indeed say it is a cultural thing. We drag people into our homes. If you stop by just to drop something off, then you will end up in their house being served snacks and chai/coffee.

[@yohjinonoki]

yess i like how tbys actually talks about cultural nuances like 4d hair and indian etiquettes

[@swannyson8609]

That oyster girl is hilarious, she's like "ooo he talkin to heself but imma bored so we gone eats!" then she's acting better when she gets dashed 😂 props to the gentleman for leaving a tip before leaving, the waitstaff probably helped him leave discreetly

[@shenmoney]

Cheesecake Factory for a first date is pretty fxckin' worthwhile. Her big ass thought she was jumping in that guy's account, overplayed her huge hand, and got exposed. She started a narrative we weren't aware that we needed to address, because this new level of absurdity had just popped up with the ultra-entitled "beautiful woman" who refused to eat at the Cheesecake Factory.

[@daveeyes]

Cheesecake Factory should sue her for defamation. Whups, she's black, so they can't.

[@channell11]

It's a solid choice because it's got an expansive menu-there's bound to be something for even a picky eater to be happy with.

[@alix6xgorg839]

"That looks like this" She's right. She should be taken to the local homeless shelter.

[@rizkiramadhan9266]

Homeless shelter? Nah mate, junkyard

[@etiennedevignolles7538]

@@rizkiramadhan9266 Exactly. Don't insult the homeless.

[@Sekir80]

You people here are savages! I love it! :D

[@CloudWalkBeta]

Exactly. She matches the phrase "Beggars shouldn't be choosers". She is a tramp by every metric men call women tramps by.

[@PaulTC777]

old + saggy + chubby

[@ericchill864]

She gets a McDonald's happy meal, no toy though.

[@Tasoq]

The guy asking that woman what she did to "deserve" that $35k ring was just ridiculous. WTF kind of question is that?

[@AllBlackAirpods]

That woman was definitely single for a long time due to “knowing her worth”

[@etiennedevignolles7538]

We all know her worth. But I don't waste the loose change in my pocket.

[@Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer]

"Know my worth" "I'm healing" "Manifesting" "Looking for experiences" All red flag words to look out for.

[@AllBlackAirpods]

@@Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer aka “I have to justify to myself why it is nobody is making time for me…it’s because I’m not making time for them”

[@eldredge_ape]

I reject the line about expecting to be late if she’s meticulous and caring about her appearance. If she knows it’s going to take a long time for her to get ready, I expect her to start the process early enough to be ready on time.

[@LynetteTheMadScientist]

She got off work late. But yeah she should’ve texted him to tell him she got off late and it would take her an hour to fix herself up

[@blinkybill2198]

​@@LynetteTheMadScientistagreed and this would have given him notice that he would need to shift the reservation or choose a different restaurant. I bet she told him she would be ready in 10 minutes over and over again for an hour.

[@GibDozer1]

The only fault that's his is waiting an hour. 10 minutes max then be about your business. Of course she's going to Amp up the disrespect after he let her treat him like that... People giving him kudos for putting his foot down. Shesh it took him forever to grow a spine imo. I couldn't believe he said he'd go on a second date...smdh...NO!

[@Mashamazzi]

@@GibDozer1felt like he was forced to lmao

[@RAP-SKULLION]

It doesn't take women nearly as long as they claim to get ready, especially for an event important to them. I've seen my girl go from 0-100 in sixty seconds because she doesn't want to miss out.

[@Ipo_Ooped_Maself]

If a woman is an hour late for a date, she is clearly not respecting the man's time. You don't ever wait that long for a first date to show up. It's fifteen minutes maximum twenty if you're super interested and then you're out of there. FIRST DATES ARE COFFEE OR WALKS ONLY. She's not entitled to your money guys

[@emilyheikkila4302]

My man's value is not in his money, it's in how down he is for me. If I'm upset he comforts me, if I'm struggling with something he helps me work it out, he only wants to be with me, he values what I do for him. That's worth much more than money.

[@arrowgantonegreen839]

You don't take a girl that big to Cheesecake Factory. You take her to a buffet; she's a Golden Corral girl.

[@TaddiestMason]

You lock the doors and tell her there must be some mistake and drive away without ever letting her in your car in the first place. No thanks, humungousaur.

[@AshleySpeaks4U]

Oh that is SO LOW of you- haha! 😂😂😂

[@ivanlogo4901]

You need to take her to a place that's on her level. It's called McDonald's.

[@ivanlogo4901]

You need to take her to a place that's on her level. It's called McDonald's.

[@thefrog4990]

@@ivanlogo4901No a woman like this should be taken to Burger King or Arby’s

[@Mrs.CGraves]

Courting is serious dating with intent of marriage . A first date IS NOT COURTING. If women are going to talk to each other like this, at least understand the terms. These women are awful.

[@RobertMorgan]

My process is this, If I'm attracted to her, in my mind we're already married and happily ever after...it's on HER to tarnish that idea. Oh, she said that...ok marriage is off the table then....aw fuck, she did THAT, sigh, it's over. Oh well, at least we're having a good time NOW wait, did she just insult the server? Let's hit the bathroom and drop a $50 with the server to use the backdoor exit... Women have 100,000% of all the power, which shows just how useless power is, because it's hurting them far more than not.

[@chrism4008]

​@@RobertMorganthat much mental gymnastics sounds *exhausting* and unhealthy

[@carolinesa91]

Well, I think any date should be with marriage in mind. You go on dates to find a partner for life, not to just have fun with a person.

[@cavalieroutdoors6036]

A first date is the very foundation of courting. You cannot 'court' without a first date.

[@jacksyoutubechannel4045]

All courting relationships have a first date -- it's the _purpose_ behind the dates that makes it courting. Though I agree that the Cheesecake Factory video uses the word incorrectly.

[@happymedicalstudent7772]

i literally took my gilfriend out to the cheesecake factory for our first date and we had a nice time trying cheesecake :)

[@jegr3398]

The Cheesecake factory woman is not even talking to her date, she's talking to her phone and filming the argument, her primary intention is to make a video for tiktok clout. Disgusting behavior.

[@Shady]

social media in general has really been showing unwell people that there are other unwell people out there and making them feel like they have a sense of community, making them embrace the issues they have instead of seeking health,

[@Shady]

help*

[@sianais]

Yeah, it's not just TikTok. Things started getting really batsht with Instagram, but the foundations for the crazy that's reached full peak now was already being pushed with TV. But scripted television at least had the fiction tag attached, until reality tv kicked off and now all these people using social media like this act like they're the stars of their own reality shows, but they forget it's actually their life they're ruining for views and attention.

[@kevinleewilliams5119]

If you look at all the people complaining about dating, they arent like the pick of the litter, like obviously these men and women need to improve or just accept that they arent the best option, but they decide to just do neither and form communities online like redpillers, feminst, etc, they are all low tier options sexually, 1000 years ago they wouldnt have had children either or if they did, it was purely out of survival. Dont need that in a 1st world country.

[@Carolina_Berean704]

This 🎯

[@Mrs.CGraves]

Same thing happened with Pedophiles with the Internet. It’s literally the same thing. They think their awful behavior is Normal. It’s not and Men don’t deserve to be treated like this.

[@MattLouw]

I regularly agree almost completely with Think Before You Sleep, but saying you should expect someone to be late because of their hair type is nonsensical, no matter who you are, it's disrespectful to be late, and setting enough time aside to get ready is a simple way to make sure you're on time. If I was an hour late for a first date, I would be beyond apologetic and frankly surprised if the person chose to wait for me for that long without knowing me.

[@raven-chan2071]

Yeah I hated that

[@ph318]

He's a simp

[@ninjustumaster5101]

That's what happens when you date brittany venti

[@tobiasengel8385]

No bro... Women okay? Women .. if you want to fuck, get with the program; they take an hour in the shower, 3 hours for makeup and trying outfits and getting ready, and they love comfort. They will always be late

[@iamlightboo]

he did mention that the guy set the date time to 530pm, which didn't give her a lot of time after work to get ready. even a lower maintenance type would have difficulty timing that

[@DarkSithBarbie]

You aren't ugly because of how you look. Ugly is an attitude. Being selfish, narcissitic, and ungrateful is what makes you ugly. While your weight does have an impact on your overall suitability as a partner, most people do not care. It's far more important to be kind, caring, and even have a good bit of humility. As far as your weight, if you are living a real healthy lifestyle, your weight is almost a non-factor.

[@goldknox9629]

Cheesecake factory was his way of fulfilling his dinner obligation. After she was an hour late and mafe him wait outside he decided not to date her. She could have redeemed herself, but after being rude he decided not to even go through with his dinner obligation

[@Sultan_Kenzo]

I don't think that only women are turning into sociopaths, but actually a whole western society because of tik tok and other social media

[@AspireGMD]

Women are mostly affected by this tiktok/twitter disease, although the disease is starting to spread slowly to men who are horny. I'm not sure what vaccine we can create with a disease this deadly. This is a critical emergency

[@POV18]

I agree. I couldn't stand it anymore and deleted all my social media. It's annoying tbh

[@ReigningWomban]

@@unwnmeagreed.

[@JohnTezlaNFS]

I agree to an extent.

[@drshin9893]

If you think this is only western society you’re not very smart

[@fyoutube9410]

They were already sociopaths. This just exposes it.

[@user-2Hteyasizyc]

Should be top comment. They've never been different. Even the ones i meet that claim no social media are absolutely unhinged.

[@GoofyManMF]

Kids are cruel. Tik-Tok is turning people into kids.

[@PaisleyMarie80]

Bingo

[@palantiri6590]

@@GoofyManMFKids are cruel, Jack.

[@mr.moonthegoon4178]

"Men dont really have good imaginations" meanwhile, the majority of invention:

[@fionna_cool_girl]

There's nothing wrong with Cheesecake Factory, Botanical Gardens or Museums. Especially if there's a fun event or limited time artist being represented.

[@maxdokdok8712]

The fact she is recording the whole thing is the biggest red flag to me.

[@jcgamer1650]

More like an instant deal breaker. The moment she would've whipped out TikTok, I would've been gone. But then again, if I had to wait a very long time, I'd also be gone.

[@deborahbreeden4394]

Why go to the restaurant? She looks like she's ready for Motel 6

[@TSPH1992]

😂

[@cympimpin20]

Or the corner outside motel 6

[@enusama_9384]

I'm gonna be honest. No matter how "high value" my date is, we're just gonna go somewhere with a pleasant atmosphere and have a coffee or whatever. Because the first date essentially is just something where you meet the person and get to know them. That's it. I honestly hate this whole culture that has evolved around dating. It's just a meet up with a person you have only yet been superficially attracted to. I'm not gonna sit there and "do my research" and find some posh ass restaurant for a woman I do not know and might not even like. Only someone I already know and love gets that kind of treatment. This is just my perspective though. It might have something to do with me being European because I only see this exaggerated dating culture in America, might be wrong though.

[@arbhall7572]

Its making them narcissistic. Its revealing their true narcissism.

[@StayAtHomeMeme]

Whether it’s a skit or not, there are women out there acting like that. They’re choosing social media attention over actual possible human relationships. It’s more advantageous to shame a man/baby daddy/boyfriend/husband/etc for clout than to actually talk to them and work out an issue.

[@kingkohli4952]

Also missandry and man hating is so normalized and celebrated is the issue, now reverse the roles if men were saying these stuff and have these standards for women?

[@user-2Hteyasizyc]

@@kingkohli4952 Dont worry shes not here to agree with you, shes here as a typical chameleon for thumbs up. No woman is "different"

[@user-if4ke6en9r]

@@user-2Hteyasizycuh, yeah, there are women who are different. Have you never heard of the tradwife lifestyle?

[@chrism4008]

​@@user-if4ke6en9rthats a social media trend. That fact alone precludes them from *ever* being considered traditional. Its a poorly acted out skit for internet clout and its incredible that so many dudes are actually falling for it. Traditional women do exist, very rarely so, and you will literally never find one via social media because traditional people arent on social media. They live in the real world

[@user-if4ke6en9r]

@@chrism4008 there are plenty of women who aren’t 100% “traditional” meaning they live like the Amish, but they do homeschool and have the traditional family roles between mother and father, husband and wife. Just because you don’t believe in it, doesn’t mean it’s not true. How can you say someone is pretending to be traditional for “internet clout”, when they get hated on the most by the masses of the internet for being “internally misogynistic, regressive” etc? Sure, there are some who do it for attention, but the majority is truly trying to showcase a different life and culture than is being pushed upon everybody.

[@who.is_tauri7325]

People are becoming very disrespectful just to pop off on social media and its disgusting.

[@ydad8946]

Social media introduced a rare space in which the natural consequences of saying such things in person are not typically present and learning not to say these things does not usually happen.

[@BlaqueDNA]

Agree!

[@pastaloath9261]

This video was wonderful. It is so nice when someone speaks on both points, mentions wrongs and rights for ALL parties involved and has a good construction for each point made. So much better than the last video

[@dannymorgan2654]

Entitled "women" like this make me SO happy that I am not in the dating pool. I found a fantastic woman over 11 years ago and could not be happier. Christian, chorister, motivated, caring, sophisticated, disciplined and loving. Also she has no qualms about eating a chain restaurant haha

[@JamesRDavenport]

Number 1: I am NEVER taking a woman I've just met to a 5-star restaurant. Even at gunpoint. Hell, I don't even want to spend that kind of money on myself. Number 2: I don't use ticktock for anything. Number 3: I probably wouldn't go there on a first date, but I love museums and cultural significant places. Eventually I need to know she's edumacated. I don't want to date "fun" club girlies who need to be constantly stimulated by alcohol and adrenaline rush in order to enjoy themselves.

[@professionalpookie]

No one cares

[@hannahbunny2773]

Bro who asked 💀

[@professionalpookie]

@@EjayQuing l ick my a ss

[@jairesemccoy9779]

​@@hannahbunny2773I did.

[@randalthor2859]

​@@hannahbunny2773who asked you? What a stupid thing to ask 😂

[@clmk28]

Can you imagine being lectured on the first date? That screams deal breaker

[@tell-me-a-story-]

It's not even just being lectured. She recorded him in order to embarrase him.

[@yaoona9158]

@@tell-me-a-story-yep. but she only managed to embarrass herself instead, lol.

[@jacobm92]

Yeah. At that point she can stand on the sidewalk in front of the cheesecake facTURRRRRy while she waits for an uber

[@harorider96]

Especially by an obese woman

[@dannyshacklebolt2461]

Dude instantly get out of my car. Getting lectured, on a first date, in your car is CRAZZZZZZY

[@Neuro537]

i recently got the opportunity to have a conversation with one of the ""rizzler""s and he told me the secret of getting so many women in a short amount of time was to just make them feel like a queen. "everybody has a narcissistic side and you just need to tickle it a bit to get them attached to you." was what he said. this is perhaps the primary reason why so many relationships just waver and fail.

[@orenarye2215]

My guy you are the G. I like your high understanding of psychology your videos are always relevent and are actually educating to watch.

[@NineM_YorHa]

Social media has negative effects to both genders but I think to women massively more. The rate of depression has risen sharply around young women. "Modern" women also have now almost impossible standards thanks to social media and the belive mister-perfect-millionaire is just around the corner.

[@defeqel6537]

interestingly, depression in women has been rising steadily for decades, it's about on-par of that in men now IIRC

[@jairesemccoy9779]

Women's fault. Working and money doesn't make you happy.

[@Gaizaz]

Fr they wanna be men SO BAD. @@jairesemccoy9779

[@fordshojoe8080]

Eh idk it's also emasculating men. Look at how many people cone out as teans now. But I will say that women and young girls are the majority it seems to be trans and then detransition. They can't be Tom girls anymore because of it. It's fucking ridiculous what we are letting social media do to kids and now people are fighting for kids to be put on puberty blockers and even have surgeries.

[@rebd00mer93]

Every female under the age of 26 that ive met/talked to are ALL on anxiety meds and meds for depression. They really don't need these meds but because they live online on tiktok and Instagram, thats why they have so many psychological issues. Girls from my generation don't have this issue. 😂😂

[@jerrybarker1961]

You ever noticed that men don't want high maintenance women . We just want a average woman who cares for us back . But no man wants to put up with all the drama

[@PaisleyMarie80]

Really? That's interesting that you say that, cuz what I see are a bunch of women with fake nails, fake lashes, fake body parts with men. I don't know if this is a regional, racial, or social economic thing.

[@Soundsofthewood]

I blame Hollywood on this. What the women fail to notice though is that the husband is usually cheating or dosen't even care about her in the TV shows or movies.

[@ruthhorowitz7625]

What I see is men only wanting high maintenance women full of drama. But men always claim to want the opposite of what they actually want, so your comment makes sense.

[@Hearth123]

My husband was 19 when we met, I was 18. He had no money. Our first date was a beautiful disaster. He had to pick up his little cousins early so they were with us. We tried to go to a movie and it was sold out so he tried to take us to an arcade and they closed early that day for cleaning. Eventually we ended up eating breakfast for dinner at Perkins because that was the cheapest thing on the menu 😂❤️ he was so embarrassed, but I loved it. We laughed our way through the whole thing. We lived in the oil field in a camper on an oil rig plot for 2 years while he apprenticed to get some blue collar skills. I adore my husband, he is my best friend. We've been together almost a decade now with three children and he has provided very well for us. Now we saved enough for him to get a much less stressful job. I now get to stay home and homeschool our kids. He didn't take me to some fancy place, but he had the hardest work ethic and strongest convictions. He made a way for us. He is the absolute love of my life, forever. ❤️

[@jerrybarker1961]

@@Hearth123 God bless and may y'all love happy and flourish through life .

[@MHGFTW]

Even if it was fake... Why defend her being late? "Her hair is difficult, he set the date too close to her work, etc.". What kind of BS is that? A tome doesn't get picked by one person. It's agreed by both parties. The one that's late should have considered how long she'd need to finish work/get ready. He's not the one that has to estimate that for her. If she's an hour late, that's on her. If he says "5pm", she can go: "That's pretty close to when I get off work, what about 6?".

[@irishcountrygirl78]

Found you by accident, you are a breath of fresh air!!

[@salazar556]

As a woman, I would love to be taken to the cheesecake factory. 😂 She's acting like it's McDonalds.

[@jairesemccoy9779]

Ong

[@justjakki]

Exactly!

[@thatguy9088]

She must have been in the mood for 48 oysters and crab cakes.

[@RobertMorgan]

As a man I'd literally get hyped if a woman asked me out to McDonalds. Bonus points if I'm actually attracted to her, but not a dealbreaker, we can be adapted. Why don't women approach me anymore? Where are all the good, strong women?

[@donaldoehl7690]

Look up their menu online, not exactly a dive. The ribeye is nearly $40.

[@StripesZB]

Not to oversimplify, but I think that a big factor of these issues is that "cheap validation" from "social media" has caused people to stop valuing "humility" as a virtue.

[@chosenlyric]

They’re always telling someone else to “ be humble.”

[@goazer2]

I think the issue is more feminism.

[@mioszskrzypek7794]

I would like to thank you for your videos. They are what I needed right now in my life to get back on the grind and make my life the life I want it to be. Cheers mate.

[@rubeng7139]

I love how karma works directly against her making her look ridiculous and making her an example bc she decided to record and post.

[@cananary]

that lady should feel lucky he didn’t take her to mcdonald’s

[@ElinWinblad]

I had a date take me to McDonald’s and a park. It was a great date.

[@owarida6241]

My First date was literally just a picnic in the park. It wasn't my idea it was her and at the end we both had a good time.

[@JonJaeden]

... and the drive-thru, at that.

[@RobertMorgan]

women like this are why my dating profile says "Looking for that "I don't care where we go or what we do, as long as it's with YOU" person. Ac actual FRIEND, you know. I've gone to restaurants I wasn't all that enthused about, but it was with friends I liked that I enjoyed spending time with, so why not and make the best of it? When you don't WANT THINGS from people, you're fine just BEING with them, no matter what's going on. I can't imagine anyone I was relationshipped with not being like that.

[@nahkaboltsi6315]

that guy was so above her league and she still acted entitled

[@lancemeibos5588]

"That's why I'm willing to compromise" The Cheesecake Factory IS the compromise, gurl and you already rejected it.

[@FransceneJK98]

Yea and it’s not even a cheap restaurant. I’d prefer coffee on a first date just to see if we can even be around each other long enough 😂 Cheesecake Factory is like a 3rd or 4th date for me

[@byrondavis9454]

9:58 deflect logic noise🤣

[@iNotAnHacker]

Cheesecake is the perfect first date, it’s basically business casual in restaurant form.

[@glennpassmore8441]

What I don't like is how these platforms have made these so-called women their own stars in their movie, and now they believe it. We all know where it ends. 😽.

[@victorledezma6652]

The idea of “high value” is death to sanity in dating. People don’t know how to evaluate themselves. These Tiktok influencers are not helping the overinflation of the ego.

[@cuddlecrimexd386]

I absolutely enjoy your response to these ridiculous individuals. Seriously thank you!

[@yanniatx]

i’ve always preferred coffee dates, cute speakeasy bars, hookah bar, edm shows, arcades, picnic by the lake or river/go swimming, come over and i’ll show you my cooking skills. my boyfriend and i had our first date at an edm show, we also met at one. i genuinely do not expect guys to take me for fancy dates especially for our first date. if they want to? cool. i’m not really a fan of fancy restaurants bc im picky…ill probably just say “uhhh can we go get drinks and food truck after instead” 💀

[@bumponalog5001]

It's not that complicated. If she likes you, she will be on time, treat you well, and put in effort. That's it. I've never once had to tell my wife to care more.

[@SIPEROTH]

Exactly! If she was really into this guy she would eat at the cheesecake factory and shut it. The reason she was being like that is because she wasn't really attracted to the guy anyway and she was just trying to get a nice free meal out of him at an expensive place which is why she wouldn't accept cheesecake factory and when he put an end to the whole thing she was still trying to get some compromise in the hopes of getting something out of him. Sorry lady, pay for your own food now.

[@TrancEII2010]

He was doomed as soon as she saw his weak ass waited a full hour for her. 20 mins and I'm out

[@misstoujoursplus]

Exactly ! And when you really are attracted to someone, you do not care about the restaurant, you are just happy to be with the one you're findind so special !

[@jondoe406]

​​@@TrancEII2010nailed it! When she came out an hour later, and he was still there, she knew she had a pushover. Thats why she was so shocked when he pulled the plug later.

[@TrancEII2010]

@jondoe406 For real. Anyone who doesn't value their own time won't have anyone else value it either. A girl that doesn't respect you will exploit you...I hope he learned his lesson

[@strikingsarcophagus]

I love how she's like the most average looking woman on the planet and she acts like she's some type of goddess who needs to go to some fancy French restaurant where it's $300 for a block of butter. She'd be lucky for someone to take her to Chili's.

[@DeezNuts-gl6nx]

Average?? Lmfao you’re being very generous

[@kiryls1207]

​@@DeezNuts-gl6nxin america she's kinda average

[@VTCharley13]

She’s a 1 out of 10 and that’s being generous

[@mzeke1100]

​@@kiryls1207 her attitude is what makes her average, if she had been respectful and courteous on the first date then she would have definitely been deserving of wining and dining.

[@kiryls1207]

@@mzeke1100 Imagine just how low the bar is tho, if being and behaving like a normal human being is a way to put yourself above average

[@civildiscourse7626]

A dusty is just a broke lazy guy, a mooch. Where did you get your definition from ?😂

[@iomis2001]

Every first date should be a coffee date. I don't care how old you are or how rich you are.

[@FransceneJK98]

Exactly. I may not even wanna be around you after 10 mins 😂

[@bjrock1235]

More like it should be a free date

[@TheWatchernator]

You're not going to have a fun evening with her. You're not going to have a fun night with her. You're not going to have a fun 2-month fling with her. You're not going to have a fun life with her. There's absolutely zero reason to spend any energy on women like this.

[@dustinnagy6011]

Underrated comment. More peace being alone

[@handsomeX]

🎯💯

[@MrBuns-yi2hk]

Thw only energy I would spend is the energy it takes to take her back home.

[@whenimmanicimgodly4228]

Fr they couldn't even make it to the date before it was a mess.

[@whenimmanicimgodly4228]

​@@MrBuns-yi2hkfuck that she got gas money?

[@user-ke4hq8rs9w]

It's doesn't turn them into sociopaths, it just exposes them

[@RexWu]

I''d probably take her to a 7-11 and leave her there...

[@HsushiKing]

She's not even close to what she thinks she is.

[@thesteviemcnasty]

Jay chose the Cheesecake factory because it had significant meaning to him. He's just too nice for this dating game.

[@BlaqueDNA]

Awww ikr ❤

[@jabronisauce6833]

He’s nice yes but he knows to say no and move on lol

[@kylespevak6781]

Funniest thing about gold diggers is that "fancy" food and nice cars really don't do anything. Food is food, and cars have to obey speed limits. A house, sure, but rarely do you hear that from money hungry people

[@justhecuke]

It's because those things are a waste of money, and show a proclivity to spend. A house, when done properly earns money, and shows responsible, sensible behavior. It's not the lifestyle that a gold digger wants. They want to be the waste of money.

[@Enigma_Vids]

They’re not interested in practicality they are interested in showcasing an image of themselves (egotistical).

[@xandraislova]

Well they would like the most flashiest thing they can show to the most amount of people. Hence why women chose bags, jewelry, shoes, and plastic surgery when gold digging.

[@brianyang5075]

I work in luxury brand furniture. The quality is just like ikea stuff that last longer but somehow a table worth $10,000 dollars.

[@username113]

Fr, it would be understandable if they actually were into cars but they literally just see them as a status symbol.

[@donaldbell2554]

i am a competitive powr lifter and am fat and ugly. i have a beautiful wife. i believe you treat others how you want to be treated. youll have awesome people in your life if you just do that and if they treat you like crap get them out of your life. its crazy how people are so awful now.

[@linksow5331]

Never treat like a queen a woman who won't treat you like a king.

[@kylespevak6781]

People think tearing their partner down makes them look better but ironically it makes them look worse for being with them

[@CloudSephiroth]

Hive mind is a real thing. Not sure why it happens. But maybe people should take a break from social media. I think if folks got off facebook, Instagram, etc. then people wouldn’t run into these issues.

[@Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer]

You're not dating her. You're dating "the sistahood"

[@johngalt1967]

I dont think its making them narcissistic, I think it's EXPOSING their narcissism!