How to ACTUALLY Get a Girlfriend in 2024 (Full Guide)

[@TheSingleGuy]

Would you guys want me publish the full lectures I do that last over 1.5 hours long? Or is this a good length for a video?

[@billusher2265]

Owen Cook said while less people watch longer lectures more people invest in training or products from it, so I say post full lectures, or even better video of coaching.

[@Noobtuber251]

Full length!

[@Samuel-vw2wy]

please do full lectures on getting a ons or fwb

[@anandchaudhary2540]

Absolutely, I love full length videos.

[@lucaselio-21]

I approve the uploading of lectures!! I support both formats of video!!!

[@Leitis_Fella]

Asked a girl out today! She had a BF, but she took it well, as did I. And she respected me for having the courage to ask, and enjoyed the playful banter I teased her with! The fact that I developed my self-confidence and rizz to the level I needed to have the courage tto ask in the first place made me feel amazing. I was on a personal "Sigma/Lambda" grindset for years developing my education and career, but after I got a career I wanted, I realized just how lonely I was. I'm 28 and have been single my whole life. Now I've got the ability to change that thanks to dudes like you and Denmo.

[@bearbeitungwo-xw6gs]

Why you talking like a 17 year old dude with all those weird terms like rizz and sigma.

[@Leitis_Fella]

@bearbeitungwo-xw6gs Way to miss the forest for the trees my dude. Pedantry is the antithesis of fun P.S. FU

[@serbu4169]

@@bearbeitungwo-xw6gsbecause it’s funny? On skibidi I bet you don’t even goon in ohio. Get a load of this beta who can’t even mew

[@blue64427]

We missed your content bro

[@Champ1988]

I agree with this formula. I've always seen it play out for me in this fashion, and sometime before or right about the 3 month mark is when they bring up titles in my experience. The only thing I might add for guys to consider, is extending that time out before making things official. In this generation, 1 year is the new 3 years. And many relationships don't even make it to 6 months. So, it might be prudent to spend more time vetting a woman before giving her that title. Things to look for: Does she have male friends? How does she present her image online? Does she consistently follow your lead? Does she consistently make it to planned dates (especially in the first 3 months)? You might have your own lists. But these are the boundaries that start off small and blow up by the end of the relationship when they become full-blown signs that she's on the way out. Great video, Lloyd.

[@mrwazo]

Hey, how many group events before you ask her to meet one on one? Also do you make a move on the first date, or do you think that's too quick?

[@Tgogators]

@@mrwazo there’s no number to it. Once you feel the attraction is there and mutual, ask her out. Make what move on the first date??

[@Tgogators]

Interesting theory. I find numbers to be a bit subjective on what the guys goals really are. Personally, I can see a few months as attraction builds, but once me & her have our first exclusive date, 6 weeks max to feel if we want to become monogamous or not. Once we’re in, I’m all in, any longer is just treading water. One thing I swear never fails, pay attention to how she treats those around her in her domestic life (parents, siblings, etc) that’s likely how she’s going to treat you.

[@orlandoigno482]

Part two should be: how to keep a girlfriend

[@pizzicatos.7996]

Same for meeting new friends in my opinion. Solid advice.

[@TheSingleGuy]

There are definitely some slight differences. You want to be more tactical about it and need to make the approach. But there is a reason its called a girlFRIEND.

[@GPL2000]

I used your advice to join an activity. My activity of choice was Pilates. I'm often the only guy in these classes. And the only other 2 guys I've ever seen were there with their wives. I've been experimenting with times of day. And I have had very positive interactions with the women. I'm very fit, and one of the instructors even half-jokingly told me I should sign up for their instructor's workshop. I noticed that the women who were most forward were older or already married. And while the feedback shows me that I'm attractive; I know that for the ones I want, I might have to go to them directly. I only go twice a week, so my consistency is off because I go at different times. And I have been playing the long game like you suggest. I speak to every woman there, and I haven't singled anyone out as I'm still assessing who the available ones are. What is the best way for me to go direct once I single out my target? With this being a mostly woman environment, word will get around FAST. And I don't want to be that guy who's known for getting at all the women. So please help.

[@TheSingleGuy]

I would become an instructor. Guarantee you that will increase your selection and the younger ones will start going for you.

[@GPL2000]

@@TheSingleGuy that instructor started following my by the way. I dm'ed her about the process, and I might just do that! I'm doing what you said!! I've dated front desk gym workers before as a customer. But it might look different with me being an instructor. Especially since I stand out AND I'd be working for the place. So can you tell me what actually approaching would look like in that role? I'd obviously not be amanager which is better for doing stuff like hitting on patrons. But how would you go about it if you were me? Like make plan events at the studio? I'm going to make a plan, I just need your help!!

[@connor43057]

Solid advice. I play a lot of badminton at a community centre. I know the game, so I'm always helping beginners who ask for advice. I'm far from the best player, but I love the game and talk to everyone. Met some fun athletic girls on the court! Goes to show that being intermediate+ at an activity can really set you apart.

[@michaeljeacock]

I meet most of my girls at Karaoke.

[@VNBSlash]

That's my hobby unfortunately.... It's at a bar and I know that's not the best place to meet women for a long term relationship.

[@ItzDobbs]

Well the years almost over never got a girlfriend this year but I did get lots of massive headaches trying. It’s the effort that counts at least.

[@Under510]

Solid tips right here! Taking notes📝

[@Livstilcoachen]

Thanks man really structured and informative guide with a variety of steps

[@ronniealan1511]

The best videos man! I really appreciate it. The time the length the info thank you.

[@ronniealan1511]

Lloyd that was one of the best videos, Loved it!

[@1matim]

thanks, good video

[@Merlin481]

I has girlfriend :)

[@fsfs2778]

Step 1. dont be ugly

[@keifer7813]

Dang

[@smoowee5686]

Bro its not that hard to watch a tutorial to improve ur looks

[@Doom.Bastic]

Because nobody is truly ugly :)😊

[@MentalDeviant]

Step one don't be weak

[@skyhawk00787]

Typical red pill/black pill bullshit. Women care *much* more about a man's confidence; his physical appearance, wealth, and status are all secondary.

[@thorpe1178]

Hey Lloyd can you do a video about why some dudes get away with being needy & simping. College buddy of mine is very needy with his girl, like he has to know everything, where is she every 2 to 3 hours, she has to constantly give him an update about where she is & what she does, yet she's about to marry him next winter, it blows my mind seriously. They've been together for 5 years now. Keep in mind this is not in USA but in Asia if that makes any difference at all lol! Also keep in mind don't put wealth into consideration here coz she came from a very rich family & probably 20x richer than him.

[@TheSingleGuy]

Without knowing any other details I’d say it’s probably looks. The dynamic also changes in a relationship. Over bearing guys can keep their partner for a long time by preventing other potential suitors from having a chance.

[@DavidTramacchi]

awesome content mate

[@mrwazo]

How many events consistenly before you ask her out on a date, without being too eager?

[@bearbeitungwo-xw6gs]

Lloyd can you make a short bideo clip, if when a woman has no real hobbies is a good sign or bad sign? Would be a good Short clip

[@Tgogators]

Put simply: get your community. That’s a good method of getting “status.” It’s not has hard as many men think. Like concerts? Get into basic promoting. Like biking? Join a group, work to organizing meet ups. Start attending and get involved in a church (more liberal minded ones). Strive to get to the top of what you have interest in. Keyword is “interest” it probably wouldn’t be to your best interest to join an art class “just to get pussy” and keep in mind activities that have diversity to it; as in you probably won’t find a lot of women at classic car shows.

[@mustang13990]

💯 percent right, but how would you know these women we meeting in person don’t have and use dating apps?

[@WolfGangRagna]

I started doing taekwondo but not sure if i really like anyone in my class but i exercise at home trying to get a job i did have a job but lost it but it is really lonely being single

[@13sprintuser]

Great video, totally agree with all the recommendations. Big mistake I've made in the past is asking the girl to be my gf (this shows lower value). I now feel that SHE should ask ME (girls love to chase).

[@Bentoto97]

Is going to malls one of the best ideas to approach women and girls? Because my parents are applying clubs for me and we are waiting ever since 2018 where I graduated high school until now and we are still waiting and applying a club for me yet from time to time we go to malls and I am hoping when I am walking around in malls, I can have what I want from women and girls eventually by approaching them in the malls regardless whether I get accepted or rejected.

[@bearbeitungwo-xw6gs]

Bro Cold approaching women and girls in Malls is something you should have done since you are 16. Of course it's a good place for cold approach because you can jump right next to another one 😂

[@Bentoto97]

@@bearbeitungwo-xw6gs I wonder what TheSingleGuy have to say about approaching women and girls at malls.

[@bearbeitungwo-xw6gs]

@@Bentoto97 He has videos about it. It also doesn't matter if it malls, supermarket or beach. The point is not to be creepy. He likes the idea of cold approach.

[@Bentoto97]

@@bearbeitungwo-xw6gs Do you agree that approaching women and girls creepy without meaning it to be creepy is better than not approaching women or girls at all which is gonna lead to regrets?

[@Bentoto97]

@@bearbeitungwo-xw6gs Did you read what I commented About clubs?

[@gocardinals8887]

I’ve joined several groups and clubs and everything I join is a sausage fest.

[@doriangray4278]

I know it is hell on earth

[@billjohnsonbtc]

nice eye. Brow's

[@OkataAdrian]

I wish I have a girl like you girlfriend 😢 not handsome but pure heart ❤

[@jakepincus9342]

TheSingleGuy: How to get a girlfriend in 2024 Me: Sometimes I feel like I don't have a partner Sometimes I feel like my only friend Is the city I live in, the city of angels Lonely as I am, together we cry I drive on her streets 'cause she's my companion I walk through her hills 'cause she knows who I am She sees my good deeds and she kisses me windy Well, I never worry, now that is a lie

[@AustinB-jr9nw]

Im a gamer so this is harder for me

[@ChaosArthur5822]

Me too,sadly

[@ProfWho-ut5he]

Not working for me. I'm in a chess club. Not a single woman there. I'm going to AI and blockchain entrepreneur Meetups. Not a single woman there. I love darts and joined a darts group. Not a single woman there. I started a philosophy Meetup group. Not a single woman showing up. I'm going often to meet with Parcours sports enthusiasts. Never ever a woman showed up. Things men love to do are usually devoid of any females. 🤷‍♂️

[@TheSingleGuy]

Part of what I do to work with guys is to get them to places where women actually are. Go to my free Skool group where I have a full list of places to go

[@ProfWho-ut5he]

@@TheSingleGuy I get that, thanks; will have a look at it. However, the problem is that the places where women are, those are usually not interesting for men. For example, I would never go to dance classes. I just don't like it. Note : Where to find the Skool Group?

[@gocardinals8887]

@@TheSingleGuywhat is a Skool group?

[@cityboychad]

I will translate what he said: be fake. Pretend to be interested in things that girls are interested in.

[@allen5323]

Funny, money and interesting. That’s all a requirement.

[@dogslikejam]

welp

[@amnestylost]

You mean a girlfriend who doesn't try to use you to keep from being lonely for a temporary period before she goes to chase other men again? Like, a REAL girlfriend who doesn't have baggage or issues with men?!

[@TheSingleGuy]

Yep, if you meet her this way, you’ll know all the stuff even before you start dating

[@varsa507]

Outcome independance is a big thing. Before the pendemic, I absolutely had 0 anxiety with talking to women. I always figured they would fall in love with me anyway since I'm the best man around. They were indeed lining up to date me. I feel like it's harder to keep up as you get older and you actually want to build a family

[@linussaurian4000]

So you got a Color full Hair Girlfriend.. lol

[@nealmccoy5727]

This video is for young guys. Guys over 35 are either dating multiple women or going overseas and getting with hotties there. I cannot fathom why the hell anyone would want a girlfriend in the west in 2024.

[@Defiance.]

Yeah, run away from western woman as fast as you can and never look back.

[@AnthonyArgyros]

You’re correct 👍👍👍

[@ALAXUKNUTRITIOUSLTD]

1st step. Saves ur cash. Delete tinder. Dating app use woman confidence and 99% man. Constant call woman beautiful stufff. 😆 🤣

[@pete6498]

How do I get a boyfriend

[@leotravel85]

Step 1: don't be ugly or short

[@onedangerousmanreacts]

I mean I know short dudes with hot girls, not sure how they met them though.

[@leotravel85]

@@onedangerousmanreacts there are exceptions of course, but generally they have it harder than anyone else

[@sroydetroy6404]

I liked the fact that this video is 2 month old and barley 500 likings because everyone knows it's much better staying single in 2024.

[@nightx3635]

How to get a girlfriend in 2024 Grab a pillow Grab a Blanket Lay on bed Keep dreaming...

[@AnthonyArgyros]

Better off being the nonchalant “guy friend” or backup QB. You get the girl once in a while without the responsibilities or drama. They all have “guy friends” lurking around. We all know this, though

[@michaelmich00]

1 dont be ugly 2 have a house and car 3 have money it doesnt matter how good u can talk, basic stuff i mentioned isnt basic anymore due lots of poor ppl and dumb choices, women wat that money to bring up their kids, your rizz aint bringing a family

[@gocardinals8887]

I have all 3 you mentioned and it’s not that simple.

[@skyhawk00787]

Okay, buddy, you seriously need to start abandoning that red pill/black pill trash. Women put a much higher priority on *confidence* in men. A man's physical attractiveness, wealth, and status are all afterthoughts by comparison. NONE of the things you mentioned will peak a woman's attraction. Attraction has nothing to do with conscience preferences, it's instinctive. Confidence will make a woman wet, not your money. STOP SPREADING THIS FUCKING TOXICITY AROUND!!

[@stl901]

Very smart advices brother. You look good too good day