I am 20 and i’ve never had a girlfriend

[@jh-3839]

Nobody dies a virgin. Life fucks us all

[@Nicole-o9n1j]

You are fr one of the most handsome guys I’ve ever seen. You’re so PSL… I am seriously jealous of every girl you’ve had interest in.

[@casey-zd5mj]

I'm a 30 y/o in the same spot, doesn't change until you make it change. I tried to focus on hobbies and shit throughout mid 20s and all a sudden I was 27 and still never had a gf. you gotta actively search and approach, that random run into a chick type shit never happened for me.

[@llamasixzero]

@@casey-zd5mj rooting for you man 🙏

[@biker0777]

facts, but how ? Online Dating is basically bullshit and speaking to a random girl at the street doesn't work either

[@thebostonministry8099]

IF U HAVE TO APPROACH A WOMAN ITS A WRAP! WOMEN APPROACH THE DUDES THEY REALLY WANT. IF U ARENT IN THE NHL, NBA, MLB, NFL, OR SOME SOCIAL MEDIA INFLUENCER WITH A LOT OF CLOUT DONT BOTHER APPROACHING THEM

[@llamasixzero]

@ yea i talked about that in my other video essentially

[@thebostonministry8099]

@@llamasixzero ITS GOING TO GET WORSE THERE IS THE 80/20 RULE IN FULL AFFECT BUT I THINK ITS REALLY 90/20 WHERE 90 PERCENT OF THE WOMEN ARE CHASING AFTER THE TOP 20 PERCENT OF MEN AND THERE IS A STUDY WHERE WOMEN HAVE CLAIMED AVERAGE MEN ARE UGLY I FEEL SORRY FOR U HAVING TO GO THROUGH THIS PAIN

[@supremek3103]

I subbed I resonate with you heavy bruh

[@llamasixzero]

@@supremek3103 i appreciate it bro 🤙 more to come

[@lopyrax2884]

bro you are handsome, im honestly surprised, life is so cruel nowadays

[@llamasixzero]

@@lopyrax2884 i appreciate that, even if i really am good looking i can agree that it’s cruel asf.

[@lopyrax2884]

​@llamasixzero i feel you bro, i dont know since im straight but you seem like a handsome guy to me that girls would be all over. However in my country its pretty normal, im 17 and most my friends that are 15-16-17 dont have a girlfriend or didnt have one at all too. If you really want to know why it is like it is probably blackpill will answer you if you search it well

[@llamasixzero]

@ i’ve read up on the blackpill stuff and there is definitely some truth to it. also whether or not being single at any age is a problem depends on the situation, and in mine it is an issue.

[@JPort561]

this is exactly how I picture a 20yos perspective to be lol.. I was there 10 years ago

[@llamasixzero]

@@JPort561 i’d love to know what it was like dating in the early 2010s 😭

[@JPort561]

@ it wasn't what you imagine it to be bro lol the best thing you can do is save every penny and invest for the long term and hold your investments. Everyday(including today, as I write this comment) I kick myself because I was an idiot. I bearly wanted to work because I felt enslaved to the 9 to 5 so I figured dj/producer/rapper was the way to go, wasted hella money and time doing it when all I had to do was simple.. go to work at the restaurant (which i viewed as a low level job) clean tables eventually moved up to barback save every dollar while living at home, then invest the money and hold while continuing to do the same thing over and over and potentially invest in bitcoin.. but instead I smoked weed hung up with losers and was lazy as could be and depressed. So sad to look back on when heinsight is 2020 now.. dont make the same mistake bro

[@llamasixzero]

@@JPort561 sheesh missing out on bitcoin sucks, but yeah i will never drink/smoke and im going to try to make some money on the bull run this year and heavily focusing on making some money per investments. If a girl comes along than that’s great but i gotta chase the bag.

[@supremek3103]

bruh I missed on teen love too, and I do have plenty of options rn im not gonna lie man with attractive girls but there's somethin bout teen love that I want and I know I'll never get.

[@llamasixzero]

@@supremek3103 same same, trying to keep the dream alive

[@dh6hb7ub94]

I had my first girlfriend at 21 and it was just 3 months. Then I met my current girlfriend, the second at 22 and we've been tohether for more than a year now. I even started college at 23. Never too late. Just don't care of the average.

[@bimmyfrizzo3988]

I gave up on girls since 2003. I see em as nothing but self centered narcissists. I prefer to be alone all the time. I just don't wanna see anybody after work.

[@llamasixzero]

@@bimmyfrizzo3988 you are stronger than me man, for some reason i still have think ill find her..

[@bimmyfrizzo3988]

​@@llamasixzero You don't need em. Trust me, They'll ruin your life.

[@llamasixzero]

@ most likely but i gotta continue the bloodline bro

[@elijahwoodard714]

Proof that looks pretty much don't matter for men.

[@llamasixzero]

@@elijahwoodard714 i don’t know what matters than 😭

[@elijahwoodard714]

@llamasixzero I know man. I'm in the same boat kinda. I'm 6'3" lean with a sharp jawline, older women have called me handsome but that's it lol. I've only ever been in situationships with not that attractive women. Society really tries to pigeonhold you into being something you're not. Nobody likes kindness, everyone loves toxic behavior. You're doing good for yourself and you're very attractive, I promise you that it's not you it's society.

[@llamasixzero]

@@elijahwoodard714 appreciate it bro 🙏

[@velha2999]

the worst part is that ur actually handsome unlike me (21yo) and i also never had a girlfriend LOL

[@llamasixzero]

@@velha2999 i’m alright.. lol, i seen a lot of couples tho where i am taller and objectively better looking than the boyfriend and it has become apparent that looks really aren’t everything but they definitely help so maybe i just need to step my game up

[@itsalexanderhere]

You make your own luck don’t forget that.

[@izaiahmartinez]

This video was weirdly honest and you're easily an 8/10

[@gelatoruntz4200]

a girl i was talking to who was ur age was the final nail in the coffin for me by the end of the year im done

[@llamasixzero]

@@gelatoruntz4200 i tell myself there’s always next year but i don’t want to go through another year tbh lol

[@gelatoruntz4200]

@ honestly man it’s like u wanna be in that situation but at the same time u don’t

[@llamasixzero]

@ real.

[@TwistedLullabies]

This is normal now

[@llamasixzero]

@@TwistedLullabies for a lot of good men, yes unfortunately we are going to waste

[@TwistedLullabies]

I got some advice though. Expecting a girl that's 16+ to be a virgin is like expecting to win the lottery twice. And you have to use dating apps or social media, as it's how most people meet now, along with it being the most safe and efficient way to approach women. Do you think you think you're randomly going to bump into one while you're out and about like it's some Disney movie?

[@mksk4395]

best chances you have to meet a girl is social circle, school, university and work environment. In my youth, I was very depressed so I didn't capitalize on that. And when I was 17 I switched occupation into a field with almost just men (computer science). So I gotta play into the dating circus and have to register into dating apps sooner or later. If you are an adult like me, with no options in your field of work, the best places comes down to you as an individual, but I'd say hobby clubs, conventions and dating apps are your best options. But dating apps are extremely superficial so you need very good appearance to be succesfull there

[@llamasixzero]

@@TwistedLullabies So real. i am getting concerned that it’s never going to happen, and very sad what has happened to our young women.

[@llamasixzero]

⁠@@mksk4395i haven’t had a real interaction with a girl since i was in high school, i also hate dating apps so im completely lost and confused as to why i never got mine like seemingly everyone else.

[@thebostonministry8099]

ITS OVER BRO THEIR STANDARDS ARE TOO HIGH AND THEY HAVE TOO MANY OPTIONS ON ONLY FANS AND SIMPS IN THEIR DM’S

[@thegorgeousboy5671]

I'm 31 and never had a girlfriend

[@llamasixzero]

@@thegorgeousboy5671 hang in there bro 🤞

[@Ghoul-Mask]

You're a pretty boy, you'll do fine

[@llamasixzero]

@@Ghoul-Mask i mean.. so far so (not) good

[@Skate-Steve]

Same as you but 44

[@llamasixzero]

@@Skate-Steve i’m almost half way to 44 🥲

[@BrianAlex-df3tk]

I’m happy I never had a girlfriend 😅 I just used to be by myself and made over 100k nah I’m good doing me 😂

[@SLRTD]

same bro

[@the2kking307]

Bruh, you're fine. You still got time to change that

[@llamasixzero]

@@the2kking307 sure i have all of the time in the world but it is so hard to find a good match. It’s now or never.

[@the2kking307]

@llamasixzero I understand how you feel about not having a girlfriend. Like me I'm like 26 and I never had a girlfriend but one date in my life. I'm going to work on it though

[@ProfessorMeeks]

Its over

[@mksk4395]

our saint has spoken xD

[@Ghoul-Mask]

Joever

[@endalex3893]

"Never get up , anything is possible with looks " ~Legacy of Meeks~

[@Man-Of-Sorrows-2056]

Not for the guy in the video, he should have no issues logically anyways.

[@BEACHDUDE71]

53 unemployed virgin living with my parents, you still have time

[@llamasixzero]

@@BEACHDUDE71 honestly time does not matter, i could have all the time in the world and it might just never happen. unlikely but very possible.

[@BEACHDUDE71]

@@llamasixzero Money would help

[@maddiecmears]

You are attractive so don't think its your looks. Coming from a girl let me tell you: show interest. Girls fall in love with guys who make them feel safe, secure, like they can giggle and relax and just be a little girl again with. It sounds strange but its true, its common that girls won't like you at first but then they will. Again its not your looks, you are above average aesthetically (IMO). You are only 21 years old, 21 YEARS OLD. I am 20 myself almost 21. I also dont drink or go out, i only go to work, and i am in the process of building myself and you can too. Sure you can find people at the bars, but what are their deep down intentions you know? There are women out there who will start to like you. Find what you like in girls, where would those types of girls be? You are humble, but i don't think you are seeing your full potential. The best thing is the slow burn, see who she is as a person, without the expectation that she will date you. Again ive had one 2 month relationship in my life so i cannot really talk but i will say, you will be #1 for someone. Build yourself. Girls are sooo attracted to men who build themselves. And no you didnt "miss your chance". Anyways ill continue writing but i mean this in the nicest way, get TF out of this victim mindset, the version of you who has a girl that loves you equally is there, but you must shift your mindset and energy first.

[@Judah92]

😂😂😂 we’re not listening to any more of y’all’s lies because y’all say one thing but it’s not the same in reality is the complete opposite the women are all chasing the Chads guys with the six pack muscular guys jawline etc 😂😂

[@maddiecmears]

The women chasing those men are not looking for emotional stability as a first priority then. I’d choose an average guy that’s emotionally stable over a 6 pack muscular guy that has no emotional regulation, IMO!

[@Judah92]

@ that’s what women Do in they prime years they chase after the men the ideal man he dumps them Then she wants the average guy lol not tripping but I been on both sides so I know a woman wants snd needs

[@ret2libc0x90]

You ain't missing anything bro trust me on that. sex is overhyped

[@mksk4395]

it really is. Love isn't overhyped imo, but to get real love, there needs to be actual attraction. Something that is very hard to influence. But living alone is definitely a safer bet as the only person you have to rely on and depend on is yourself

[@llamasixzero]

i’m waiting until marriage to have sex, at least that’s the plan. i’m missing out on falling in love and finding somebody lol

[@Yoshsterpalooza]

Good luck finding a virgin in 2024 lmao, also the whole randomly meeting someone like Disney is cope you have to actively look and approach. Using apps, insta dms and hobbies/clubs is the 2024 meta. Warm approaching at work or school is the next best thing but this isn’t gen x or millenial world anymore.

[@mmkw5621]

The apps really suck

[@Yoshsterpalooza]

@@mmkw5621 they do, but unfortunately people are socially autistic thanks to social media and covid, so cold approaching is kind of an L these days.

[@drebelx5061]

make money and travel the world bro

[@supremek3103]

i f w you bruh

[@aemi1629]

nah u look good enough tbh, whats your height? Mb thats the reason, otherwise mb ur just non nt

[@llamasixzero]

6’0 ☠️ am i cooked??

[@massimogonzalez9470]

Nah we are cooked ​@@llamasixzero

[@llamasixzero]

@@massimogonzalez9470 for real 🗿

[@kzmatr]

@@llamasixzero literally you're in the 20% height-wise as a man in the US so if you think that it is a deciding factor then you better look internally or whether your expectations are realistic

[@llamasixzero]

i’ve never met a girl that isn’t shallow but i’ll gladly have one prove me wrong, and if anything i’m more valuable internally than i am with my looks imo