How to *ACTUALLY* make high value female friends as an adult | tips // advice + more

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Jaz Turner

Jaz Turner

Күн бұрын

This is what it REALLY means to cultivate high value femeale friendships in your life. Apply some of the tips I talk about in the video to not only BE a high value woman yourself, know what TO and NOT TO look out for in making friends, and how to ACTUALLY make a high value female friend! Hope you enjoy xx.
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@SandraVWithTheKey
@SandraVWithTheKey 11 ай бұрын
I had a friend that would constantly trauma dump on me. So much so that I would avoid her phone calls. When I finally decided to communicate to her what the problem was, she didn’t receive it well.
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
Sister i have gone through this EXACT situation!!!! It’s sad and heartbreaking but I guess we weren’t meant to have them in our life rn ❤️
@myspontaneouslife297
@myspontaneouslife297 11 ай бұрын
I started asking my girls what are we about to talk about, and is it something I can help you with. I have started suggesting therapist and prayer. It does way you down, but at the same token, I love helping people figure out the solution to the issue and how everything doesn't need to be shared
@beingcalandra
@beingcalandra 11 ай бұрын
It’s crazy because when this situation came up in my life I felt Terrible about letting the friend go but my mental well-being NEEDED IT ❤
@leeannalundy3260
@leeannalundy3260 10 ай бұрын
I’m at this space right now and I go back n forth. N we had this conversation but she definitely not receptive but me avoiding is no better.
@w3n33dam1racl3
@w3n33dam1racl3 10 ай бұрын
​@@leeannalundy3260Why do you think she's not receptive to what you are saying?
@AyishaAni23
@AyishaAni23 11 ай бұрын
I feel so isolated at times. I never had a solid girl group. I keep to myself because I see people’s true colors now. I’m definitely going to start implementing your tips! Thank you for sharing!
@CCC9437
@CCC9437 11 ай бұрын
I’ve been in a girl group twice and everytime there were side friends and it turned into an us vs them. Hella drama … Smdh I hate it
@enjolique367
@enjolique367 10 ай бұрын
I am actually suspicious of large girl groups. I'm not 100% sure that is a real thing ever
@rowena6249
@rowena6249 10 ай бұрын
Agree with you wholeheartedly. But, these days, it's mostly freeing not to have just anyone in my space. It's said often that you are lucky if you have that one solid friendship. That's what I am intentionally aiming for moving forward. All the best to you.
@katarzynakrol-dusza5875
@katarzynakrol-dusza5875 9 ай бұрын
Girl I’ll be your friend! 🎀
@thejenniferfanning
@thejenniferfanning 11 ай бұрын
I have a so-called “best friend” who only remembers I exist when she has news for me. She rarely reaches out to check-in. When I check-in with her, it takes her weeks to reply. Also, when she meets new people, it’s as if I don’t exist. I won’t hear from her for months, and then I’ll receive a message starting with “OH MY GOD JENN…” Girl, I have a toddler now, I’m too exhausted chasing him around, I ain’t got time for this! 😂 She has definitely been demoted from best friend, she doesn’t know how to be one.
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
Yes sis I completely understand! Completely okay to demote people instead of cutting them off!!
@LinusLarrabee
@LinusLarrabee 11 ай бұрын
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@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
Omg this is the best compliment ever!! Thank you so much!💗
@toriwayne7983
@toriwayne7983 11 ай бұрын
Correct! It’s ok to not make a bestie every time and I’m learning this!
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
Yesss sis took me a long time to learn that but it’s so important !!!
@lovelyricos
@lovelyricos 11 ай бұрын
I find it very hard to make female friends, easier with men. For me to be friends with a woman, we really have to have a lot in common and think alike. I find many women not liking me, I think I intimidate them, I have this boss chic aura and then the jealousy and competition enters (something I don’t need). Once I notice that it’s deuces !
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing sister, I COMPLETELY understand!!!!
@kinkin6143
@kinkin6143 10 ай бұрын
Same I totally agree
@Maremare680
@Maremare680 10 ай бұрын
Same here!
@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439
@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 10 ай бұрын
Just curious, do you naturally gravitate to women you are better than? Women are also 'boss chics indeed' not just in optics may not be intimidated because they too are trying to find like minded people.
@Peace-pn1yp
@Peace-pn1yp 10 ай бұрын
Intimidate?? I understand that jealous women exist, but to say many women don't like you to the point its easier to be friends with men is a bit intense. Have you ever stopped to examine yourself before pointing fingers at other women?? Also, do you gravitate more towards women you may deem "lesser" than you or "not on your level"?? I don't mean this in a harsh way, I'm just curious since many women are "boss chic" and many aren't trying to intimidate or be intimidated as they are also trying to find like-minded women.
@flawlesshoney
@flawlesshoney 10 ай бұрын
True! My friend of 25 years started acting funny and stopped talking to me after I got married last year. I still cry and she’s right - it IS devastating
@lilyo.9802
@lilyo.9802 10 ай бұрын
Mine stopped talking to me after I had a baby. It hurt me for a long time, literally broke my heart, but I have made better friends now, & I’m happy God brought them into my life! It does get better! & seriously, if you can’t be happy for me, you’re not really my friend. I might have thought you were, but you really weren’t.
@lenoreoak3541
@lenoreoak3541 10 ай бұрын
Yes - I have experienced this also, it is hard.
@peacefaith560
@peacefaith560 10 ай бұрын
same here....we went to HS together, known of each other for 27 yrs, she even lied about the reason she couldnt be my maid of honor...years later she married a ex con crack head ...
@itsYourChance
@itsYourChance 10 ай бұрын
Aw ❤️ i understand that too. I met the person I've been waiting for my whole life, and the person that was supposed to be my best friend suddenly turn jealous too. I thought they didn't have a jealous bone in their body. It is the strangest and most hurtful thing.. The season changed and sometimes it happens like that
@magdalenelawson
@magdalenelawson 10 ай бұрын
I know it hurts but trust me you are so better off, you don't need that energy as a Married woman
@Therealwithrahwa
@Therealwithrahwa 10 ай бұрын
Cutting some friends off and creating room for new ones has been one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.
@tanasiawilliams6072
@tanasiawilliams6072 11 ай бұрын
Life has definitely been different for me after having a kid but I’m more focused on self development and self care so this video came at the perfect time
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
That's okay sister!! Entering a new era of YOU!!! I'm so glad I could be apart of that journey💗
@Cookiedesigns254
@Cookiedesigns254 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. Insecure women don’t make good friends! I can’t wait to make friends with women who love themselves and KNOW they’re all that like me!
@nothankyou2850
@nothankyou2850 8 ай бұрын
My closest friends were great until I started becoming more successful. Taught me I do not want anyone in my life that is in an unhealthy competition with me. Being inspired is way different from being envious and fake. And I’ve learned that mental health is important for everyone. So important things I put on my list is are TRUST, an equally yoked friendship. Someone who will show up for me genuinely not just to be in my business , have leverage over me or have the satisfaction of seeing me down. I also want people who will make an effort to have healthy communication and loyalty. I don’t want to be the therapist friend who is the only one trying to solve issues in the group unless the group is going to do the same in return. I don’t do anything to receive anything in return. However it’s truly exhausting being the one doing all the pouring into others and no one is pouring into you.
@Zara_Luna
@Zara_Luna 5 ай бұрын
Nothankyou2850 Beautifully said ❤ equally yoked friendship
@bmotlow
@bmotlow 11 ай бұрын
I really needed this. I have a friend who is so unhappy with her life that every conversation is her angry and complaining. I don’t mind listen but it’s constant venting with no efforts to find a solution. It’s so draining.
@kindredkey
@kindredkey 10 ай бұрын
detach girl! sounds one-sided
@micheleriley8985
@micheleriley8985 11 ай бұрын
Sis you are speaking my language, so many friends I let go of because of it being a one sided relationship, which became Uber draining. I now have a friend who I met online via me doing business and we have become such great friends although we live in different states. We are ambitious women and we support each other via encouraging words when we are dealing with romantic relationships, family members or our business ventures. I made it a point to become the person I want to attract, I don't wait for someone to speak positive affirmations to me I speak them over myself each morning after I thank God for waking me up. Loving this video❤ 🔥🔥🔥Subscribed!
@mariagarza1269
@mariagarza1269 10 ай бұрын
Hi Valie does not mean expensive. It does not mean wearing expensive clothing or accessories. It means having self respect, being loyal to those close to you, and those commited to improving themselves as human beings, not just materially.
@maryburton9308
@maryburton9308 11 ай бұрын
So true. You are who you hang around.
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
EXACTLY!!
@Jaylove777
@Jaylove777 11 ай бұрын
This is great stuff. It’s how my bff and I met. She didn’t just exchange numbers, but sent a message at the end of the day, saying it was good meeting. Next day, she was already asking to meet the following weekend at a specific time. After that, she asked to meet again, basically she meant business 😂 I got the point, and also put in the work after, but if she hadn’t followed up initially, I don’t think we would be where we are now a few years later. I think for many, the problem isn’t meeting ppl, it’s cultivating it, and building intimacy. They meet ppl, but maybe both aren’t ready for a close friendship, or they aren’t sure how to be vulnerable and put in the work needed. Honestly, it’s best to do it with someone like you, similar interests, similar lifestyle, even income. I say the latter because if one person wants to go out to a steakhouse, and your budget is McD, it can cause issues. One person may want to travel, but if you don’t have travel budget, can affect it all. Even similar music interests, will allow you guys go to same concerts.
@Lmk790
@Lmk790 8 ай бұрын
Very heavy on the similar income. I learnt the hard way.
@MindofRena
@MindofRena 10 ай бұрын
I love the energy that is radiating through my screen right now. It's hard to find Women who are truly honest with themselves about their own faults and where they fall short in their relationships. I have been doing a lot of self reflection and reflecting on the relationships I have and I came to the conclusion that neither aspect is exuding the energy that I desire. I'm so happy this video popped up on my feed because I truly needed to see it. Also I'm literally a therapist so I'm the default therapist friend and it can be so draining but I'm setting my boundaries day by day.
@findingher
@findingher 11 ай бұрын
I love how beautifully you explained this! I'm definitely the low maintenance friend, and I cannot wrap my entire life around someone 24/7. I'm here whenever they need, and I will also be there to listen and check in, visit, etc. I think I used to feel bad for 1. not understanding that this was just the kind of friend I am and that it's OK 2. giving my all to a higher maintenance friend because of the shame/guilt put onto me. In return it really drained me of my energy and I had to find a way to create boundaries for those kinds of friends.
@blisslove3758
@blisslove3758 10 ай бұрын
Woow how were you able to create boundaries? I’m definitely the low maintenance friend and unable to be in contact 24/7 as welll.
@Krystalonthemove
@Krystalonthemove 10 ай бұрын
Jasmine, I’m old enough to be your Mother but i follow you for inspiration b/c I’ve considered starting a similar channel for women over 40. I also love caring for my skin but not so much as an influencer but more on a health side. You are so different from other beauty influencers AND other members of your sorority. You are transparent and there is something so genuine about you that I just don’t see in some of the others. You spoil yourself but you’re not bragging, if that makes sense. You actually encourage others in a way that’s just not fake and I love it. I really do. You inspire this ole Mama. I follow you on TT as well. Keep up the good work!
@alexismays6013
@alexismays6013 10 ай бұрын
I’ve been working on myself and thinking a lot about attracting a new circle of good, high quality friends! I’ve lost some pretty close relationships but they were not all good, which is why I don’t have them anymore but seeing this video is confirmation that I’m on the right track!
@jazzminevans6551
@jazzminevans6551 11 ай бұрын
Love this Jaz💗. Something I definitely had to learn was to be unapologetic about showing up as my best self and knowing my worth. I’ve had a lot of experiences where I’d find someone I thought is my friend is lowkey constantly comparing themselves to me…and in an effort to make them feel more comfortable I made myself smaller and brushed off shady comments. The more I really learned my self worth the less I could even tolerate being handled a certain way in both romantic relationships & friendships.
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
THANK YOU JAZZ!!💗💗 People are so weird nowadays when its never that deep, unfortunately we need to lose friends and get back to ourselves to start brining in GOOD friendships into our life. Its a process/journey but it'll be better in the long run for you!💗
@jackienicole2041
@jackienicole2041 8 ай бұрын
I’m definitely working on not making the conversation about me . I’m aware of it. I realized i didn’t want the person to feel alone & i too have been through that before . definitely something i am actively working on
@ttmoore8750
@ttmoore8750 11 ай бұрын
I'm doing all of these things, I just need to do a list of qualities I want in my friends and start planning activities to do with others. Thanks for the wholesome discussion, no stone was left unturned.
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
Yesss sis!! All in good time, im glad I could help💗
@jasmineberei
@jasmineberei 11 ай бұрын
Love this video! I used to be the therapist friend & now I’ve learned to set boundaries. I especially agree with getting around people who hold the same values and standards!
@theresabennett915
@theresabennett915 10 ай бұрын
As an older woman my true friends are the ones I grew up with. New people that come in to my life are just associates. True loyalty is my friend's that been in my life from elementary school. I do not trust easily. I appreciate your tips. Blessings!🙏
@bsjackson06
@bsjackson06 6 ай бұрын
Mine as well. However I think that’s why I’m finding it hard to admit that my longest friends are the most low vibrational. They are loyal and we’ve been friends since kids, but that’s why I’m finding it hard to demote them because I’m also loyal. Longevity is not always the best thing.
@NaijaDelta_
@NaijaDelta_ 11 ай бұрын
Im alone now but Im not lonely. Loved the video. 💕💕 Cant wait to meet my tribe. 😊
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
Yes, sister!! You have a great perspective! Alone, but not lonely! That’s from the biggest transformation happens for us!💗
@PreeShakti
@PreeShakti 11 ай бұрын
Wow this whole video is gold! The way you articulated your points deeply resonated & put into words what I’ve been trying to process about my friendships for a long time. Thanks for sharing your insights ✨
@kamrynamon
@kamrynamon 11 ай бұрын
Hi Jaz! Again you hit the nail on the head, losing a friend is such a traumatic experience. Everybody can not come with you in certain periods in your life and that is totally okay! Keep going, loving this content!
@tmc1373
@tmc1373 10 ай бұрын
You're the mentor I've needed for so long. You absolutely have no idea how grateful I am to have stumbled across your channel. THIS WAS EXCELLENT ADIVCE AND EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR!! THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH!
@user-wn2es2ie8g
@user-wn2es2ie8g 10 ай бұрын
This video came into my feed at the perfect time. I really needed this confirmation. You have a new subscriber and Im happy to be apart of this community as it grows. 🌸 Thank you.
@majaduhovic3880
@majaduhovic3880 10 ай бұрын
What I NEEDED today🙌🏽Thank you, I am in love with your videos and your energy! You go girl❤️‍🔥
@Itsbellelove
@Itsbellelove 11 ай бұрын
Girl you are so me! The amount of times I screamed EXACTLYYY is ridiculous lol . Thank you for this 💕
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
yessss sis!!! I got you!
@Closingswithchan
@Closingswithchan 11 ай бұрын
I’m so ecstatic that you did this video, I’ve been thinking about this topic so much and his was so helpful ! Thank Jaz ❤
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
THANK YOU!! I'm so glad you found it helpful!!💗💗
@coachsandra0002
@coachsandra0002 10 ай бұрын
I love how you break it down to its simplest form… Their descriptions are right on.❤
@carmellabrown7204
@carmellabrown7204 10 ай бұрын
I love that she started with the idea of working on YOU!! Knowing yourself and showing up as a good version of you. Manifesting is such a positive great tool!
@jasmynelliott
@jasmynelliott 11 ай бұрын
Brilliantly done. I’m currently undergoing the pruning process with my friend group and it has been surprisingly simple to the point that I’m barely emotionally affected by their departure. Now comes the time to refill those empty slots with like-minded women looking to elevate.
@kaykay834
@kaykay834 10 ай бұрын
Thanks, good content! I recently ended two (20 year friendships) with two different people because of what you mentioned in this video. And yes, it has been lonely at times. However, what's important is that everyone is NOT meant to go on every journey with you, so know when to let them off the ride.
@ridingthewavesz
@ridingthewavesz 10 ай бұрын
Your channel is everything I’ve been looking for. Thank you for your content ❤
@ashlynxmas
@ashlynxmas 10 ай бұрын
Was running out of ppl to watch for motivation purposes and this grabbed my attention. New subscriber!
@lucky3s850
@lucky3s850 10 ай бұрын
This video is so A1 especially for times we are in now. I’m definitely using every said in this video as affirmations because this is what I want to see in my reality. Thank you so much Goddess for shedding light on this. So many want everything you said in this video but don’t know the words and every word you dropped speaks volumes. Once again Thank you Goddess ❤😊
@AnnaJPosh
@AnnaJPosh 10 ай бұрын
This is so me, perfectly explained dear! Great advice all throughout this video! I agree 💯 want friends on your level, self assured but humbled at the same time and in alignment with your morals and values. Keep in mind associates and friends are different. I seek friends want those with a high and positive vibration with a beautiful energy and when were not we give ourselves grace and encourage each other.
@lurearomatic
@lurearomatic 2 ай бұрын
Hey JAZ! Ive been watching your videos since last week and you have truly become a virtual mentor to me. I remember a time when I was the friend who realized that I was trauma dumping on all of my friends in the past. And when I would realize, I would go incognito because I would feel bad that I had told them so much pain instead of considering how they truly felt. I am in a period in my life that I am healing daily and I am beginning to isolate to truly glow back up from everything I went through from friendships, past relationships, etc. I eventually want to put myself back out there when I want to make friends again. I am going to be 29 in 2 weeks and I really have reignited myself on my healing journey. You ever feel like you hit a hurdle or a bump in the road to then actually stop and have time to reflect on how you've REALLY been towards others? This is currently me rn :) Thank you so much and I LOVE your videos. Please continue to spread your likemindness and informing. It's really helping us! ♥️
@CrystalSoto1998
@CrystalSoto1998 8 ай бұрын
I found you recently , I’ve been in Atlanta for 6 years, and had the worse experience with friends. I’ve spent months working in myself because all this time I thought I was the problem. Thanks to your videos and other woman that inspire me , I realized I am NOT the problem. Thank you for this , you’re amazing 💓
@roxyannwalters5324
@roxyannwalters5324 10 ай бұрын
I truly love this. I was talking to myself about needing to find new friends of value. I’ve let so many people go. Because of a lot of situations you talked about. Love the energy and for the advice. Definitely would be using.
@taylorhenry6313
@taylorhenry6313 11 ай бұрын
I love your content Jaz! Please continue creating inspiring content like this.
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
This means the world sis, thank you so much!! I love it here, I'm going to keep going 💗
@ayab0607
@ayab0607 11 ай бұрын
Felt like this was a podcast, love the content thank you ❤
@AmbarDuclos
@AmbarDuclos 11 ай бұрын
AMO DEMASIADO TU CONTENIDO ACTUAL. MUCHAS GRACIASSS ✨👑🥰
@user-vn8id4bk8h
@user-vn8id4bk8h 4 ай бұрын
12:48pm I know this video was made 6 months ago but I feel it’s very necessary for me to comment… I commend you Jaz! You are a very positive, motivational and inspiring woman! I thank God for coming in contact with your channel. I have learned so much from watching your videos and I appreciate the time and energy you pour into your videos. I thank you for your transparency and your honesty! There have been many things I have already known about myself; however I just needed to hear it aloud to admit it to myself. And I also love the fact that you have reminded me of who I once was and where I went wrong in my life that has caused me to become who I don’t want to be. Thanks to you I have really noticed sooooo much about myself and people that I have been around- just by listening to you. Sometimes we as females need to hear certain things from another perspective to pinpoint hidden issues and decipher how to handle situations. Thank you so much!!! Thank God for you! I appreciate you and I pray your channel continues to grow and expand gracefully!!! God bless you hun!!!!
@kia8371
@kia8371 11 ай бұрын
Hope one day I can have women like you in my circle.
@TheYummymummy888
@TheYummymummy888 11 ай бұрын
Thank you darling. Words of wisdom were given here and I have most certainly noted them down. Time to make healthier relationship choices in general. ❤
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
Thank YOU for watching sister!!!!💗💗
@justme50644
@justme50644 8 ай бұрын
I Love Love Love this! And I loved the step-by-step tips on how to meet & start high-value friendships! 👏🏽🔥❤️
@natashamason-walker2913
@natashamason-walker2913 10 ай бұрын
💜 Love everything about this! It’s exactly what I needed at this time of my life! New subscriber!
@brittcierra
@brittcierra 10 ай бұрын
This was so good Jaz!
@sharonkgomo4009
@sharonkgomo4009 10 ай бұрын
This video just helped me soo much. This has been on my mind for sometime so the qualities you have mentioned really give me an amazing go-ahead on my journaling prompt regarding this issue.❤ Thank you for this
@LiliaBlack
@LiliaBlack 11 ай бұрын
So so helpful! Thank you for making this video I have been struggling to make friends as an adult ( I literally have two and one of them is my sister lol) so I will use all these tips to put myself out there.
@enyonamedoh9082
@enyonamedoh9082 10 ай бұрын
Loved all of this! Thank you for making this video!
@theshaesthetic
@theshaesthetic 11 ай бұрын
We would definitely get along lol because I’m definitely a low maintenance friend but also valuable and caring.
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
Yesssss someone gets it!!!
@Petitemuslimah215
@Petitemuslimah215 10 ай бұрын
Hi I’m new to your channel. I must say that enjoyed it, so much positive vibes, elegance and truth❤❤❤
@thename6236
@thename6236 11 ай бұрын
You look absolutely stunning!! Very classy
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!!💗
@noiretalk
@noiretalk 20 күн бұрын
Excellent video! I took notes to keep me on track when it comes to manifesting my own tribe and the type of people I'm trying to attract. I've been doing a lot of self-development and self-awareness work.
@Turnermedia222
@Turnermedia222 11 ай бұрын
This was wonderful enjoyed your perspective ❤
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!💗💗💗💗
@972eleven
@972eleven 10 ай бұрын
I genuinely loved all of this video! TY❤
@therealfeminine3219
@therealfeminine3219 11 ай бұрын
Period! I love this girl new sub such queen energy ❤
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
OMG hi!! Thank you so much sis! Welcome 💗
@kindredkey
@kindredkey 10 ай бұрын
This has me looking at my friendships and it's interesting how some things pan out. I especially like the advice on having different friends for different things. We're diverse and unique and therefore it makes sense that we will have many types of friends. I also like the idea of "dating" your friends. I actually do this with one of the friends we call our outings dates! Also good to note that every person you initially connect with might not pan out and that's okay too. Also to note that "high-value" is what we interpret as high value NOT what someone on social media says is high-value. I think high-value are people you vibe with.
@kailynailene
@kailynailene 11 ай бұрын
The best I’ve seen on this topic
@yoleneouayoro5510
@yoleneouayoro5510 7 ай бұрын
We are so similar lol I feel you on being a low maintenance friend I can’t talk everyday and also I hate a “friend” who only talks about themselves ! This was a really good video I will be manifesting better friends!
@mpauli12
@mpauli12 10 ай бұрын
Just went through a friendship breakup. I got tired of the disrespect and the constant need to diminish myself and my day to day accomplishments to appease her. I wish her well but I feel way more at peace and just free to accomplish my goals more than ever now. A bestie that I do still have is so beautiful and badass. We’re actually working on a business together. We’re both in the medical field and have worked our butts off to get where we are now. We motivate each other to want more and want better for ourselves.
@mpauli12
@mpauli12 10 ай бұрын
@@1bluegreen2 I have a healthy support system and God for that so I’m good.
@HotGACPA
@HotGACPA 10 ай бұрын
Great tips. As an accomplishment woman with a full life I really didn’t think of making new friends for years. Now in my 40s I value and work on maintaining friendships more.
@It_was_all_a_dream
@It_was_all_a_dream 10 ай бұрын
Great video Jaz! Thank you ❤
@courtneysimon154
@courtneysimon154 11 ай бұрын
Yes girl you hit this right on!
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
Thank you friend!!!💗
@vuyolwethucocoa2136
@vuyolwethucocoa2136 10 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed this! ❤
@AmaraAnigbo
@AmaraAnigbo 11 ай бұрын
You look amazing and this video quality out of this world! Love this Jaz
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
Omg thank you so so much sister!!💗💗
@anekadiamond
@anekadiamond 11 ай бұрын
chileeeeee i had to cut off a few friend that used me like a free therapist but never invited me out fror anything like girl no talk to your friends that you go out with and if you knew how many friends only spoke to me to. gossip and trauma dum i had to cut off it was so annoying. mad that a goal that i wouldnt gossip or be a counsulor for them and they just faded away and im fine with it.
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing sister!!! I went through something similar! Its frustrating, but you're not alone!!
@VONALEXANDRIA
@VONALEXANDRIA 10 ай бұрын
This was so very very helpful. I have wanted to find new high-value female friends in my life. This has provided me a good running start. As a fashion designer and female who has accomplished much in my life it sometimes is difficult to find friends. This is good.
@styledbychristine8946
@styledbychristine8946 11 ай бұрын
Jaz you look gorgeous gal, Thank you 🙏🏾 i believe when you work on yourself first you attract high value friends.
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
So true! And thank you so much sister!💗
@marshacreary2442
@marshacreary2442 11 ай бұрын
You bring up pertinent information regarding friend groups. Regarding the trauma dumping, you might want to inquire about the relationship dynamics that incite that response as well as having that person research attachment styles. Is that person experiencing a healthy friendship dynamic? Is that person able to discuss that dynamic freely and make adjustments? How is conflict handled in that friendship? Has there been room for resolution and necessary adjustments? If not, why?
@teiganmichelle9983
@teiganmichelle9983 10 ай бұрын
I am going to implement everything with your advice. I need my Sister Circle. I am a new subscriber. Thank You!
@BeautyByLadyV
@BeautyByLadyV 11 ай бұрын
This was such a great video… so insightful!
@preshthegem
@preshthegem 9 ай бұрын
I had a friend who I did so much for. Like I went above and beyond yet when I went thru the darkest period in my life she was nonexistent. Barely checked in. Then tried to one up and say she was going thru her own shit to notice mine rather than take accountability for her actions. I had to cut ties because not only did she ghost, she didn’t even try to actively make amends after I told her how I felt and and I realised I was the one keeping the relationship alive lol
@7mariposas775
@7mariposas775 10 ай бұрын
Skin and makeup flawless. Said my piece now I’ll continue watching
@Kash_Budgetz
@Kash_Budgetz 3 ай бұрын
Yesssssssss Jaz I am a High Valued Women friendships PERIOD
@stormiechantell
@stormiechantell 9 ай бұрын
FELT THIS VIDEO sending to all my friends whew!
@Amal-sb8wy
@Amal-sb8wy 4 ай бұрын
This was such a good video ❤
@barika7777
@barika7777 9 ай бұрын
Your hair is so perfect ❤
@crestarose
@crestarose 10 ай бұрын
2 minutes in and loving this already
@christineboutin4971
@christineboutin4971 10 ай бұрын
Thank you. This is solid advice. I am low-maintenance and prefer to have friends that are the same way. I am shy and trying to slowly come out of that. I am in my 30s and realizing that making friends is difficult. I find it helpful taking the lead and being more direct with people for them to follow-up as well.
@shenimills9242
@shenimills9242 11 ай бұрын
This is SO good! Thank you for sharing 💕
@shenimills9242
@shenimills9242 11 ай бұрын
“You have to be picky with who is in your life, because you deserve the absolute best” 🫶🏾
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
Yay!!!! I’m so glad you liked it sis 💗
@staceystunningtv
@staceystunningtv 10 ай бұрын
Loved this video, very informative and youre so beautiful Jazz🎉 keep up the great work ❤
@Theevonniemarie
@Theevonniemarie 11 ай бұрын
This video was so helpful and encouraging! New subbie hey gir!!❤❤
@thirdeyeopen2606
@thirdeyeopen2606 10 ай бұрын
This is good commentary. Knowing how to pick your friends. Particularly high value women friends.
@inyenyenzi
@inyenyenzi 10 ай бұрын
You need to be two things for your friends, that they need to be for you - kindness and an abundance mindset. When life gets tough, you'll be grateful for having unfailingly kind and encouraging people. Ask anyone that's hit rock bottom.
@nickitheglamteacher
@nickitheglamteacher 10 ай бұрын
Your so right. I needed this video ❤
@stellaanyanwu7960
@stellaanyanwu7960 10 ай бұрын
Jaz! So glad I found you. I relate so much with everything you’ve said here!! I also love your lippie… please share deets. Thank you 🌺
@naturallynaz369
@naturallynaz369 10 ай бұрын
This video was very helpful. I resonated with so many things you’ve said. Great ideas! Thank you! 🙌🏽👑🥰🥰🙌🏽
@thaipeoples7597
@thaipeoples7597 9 ай бұрын
Jaz this was Great!
@chrysmak1495
@chrysmak1495 10 ай бұрын
This video was so helpful!
@itsYourChance
@itsYourChance 10 ай бұрын
This literally showed up in my news feed as a suggestion when I've come to a time where I just raised all my children, so definitely huge season change and I did not really make a lot of friends but I had different connections that always look to me for support. I feel I have served my time of giving to those connections that I felt led to support emotionally. It also helped me to use my gifts which are kind of like counseling then also intuitive gifts which prepared me for the field that I work in now weren't I'm now a top ranking advisor. Now I just want to get paid to help people lol And I can be paid to be an ear because I did it for free for decades but now it's time for fun because my children are gone and all I have is time for myself. It's funny cuz I'm advising people all day and helping people all day and I even tell women how some men that they're trying to go after are not the ones for them because they are low value men or men that won't even value them right. So I just love your video and most definitely on time in my life right now. This title literally hits the nail on the head for where I'm at and what I need now.. there is no better prayer that is so specific than to say I need high value friends😂❤🙏. Sorry so long, I use my microphone lol This is truly what time it is in my life
@shaysamovementsub6706
@shaysamovementsub6706 10 ай бұрын
❤ love love love when she talked about having defensive women friends and most of the time they are the ones that make everything about them and their issues.
@Roxynagayi
@Roxynagayi 10 ай бұрын
I needed this, thank you
@MeganLWhitee
@MeganLWhitee 11 ай бұрын
This video was perfect!!
@jazturner16
@jazturner16 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much beautiful!!💗
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