How To Approach A Woman In A Coffee Shop (Say These Lines!)

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[@AnthonyManzio]

I've never owned a cell phone thank god. Dating is dead smartphones, stupid dating apps all hookups no more LTR has destroyed dating globally no looks or smiles anymore all on their cell phones 24/7 plus now they all stupid tattoos 80% are all low value women. Today women have replaced men with big dogs and to have sex with it, so gross. I'm 55, introverted, never married, no kids, got all my shit together 5.10 170lbs, don't smoke, drink or do drugs. We have turned into robots no one talks face to face anymore. I've given up nothing but trash out there. Our parents had it better.

[@robertpaul212]

I tried this and went really well. It surprised me how easily the conversation flowed after I worked through my initial nerves. Met someone I never would have been able to meet otherwise.

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[@shazzthedon]

@@alimahammadu7306 how?

[@leplane_]

In Germany, Norway etc. Women will approach a man they like, or give him strong indication that he should approach. For American men who have never had this happen to them, it's unreal. I never understood the weird games you must play in America.

[@il_cavallo_nero5649]

Because American women are stuck up

[@jacekciesiokiewicz7582]

Good stuff

[@RapidBlindfolds]

Hey hayley, are you considering making more videos of how to pick up women as a woman? I'm a lesbian and I watch your advice videos for het-coded men and women, but mostly men, finding that the advice is often quite gender neutral and universal. It really interests me how you construct men's dating advice, as being bisexual there are two angles that I suppose you can craft it from: 'what would turn me on if a man was approaching me?' and 'how have I successfully picked up women myself in the past?' I guess its a bit of a mystery to me how much of your dating advice comes from your interactions with men and women, and so I would love to see more content exploring how you can pick women up from a female perspective.

[@-_Nuke_-]

What you do, is that you go with a friend, spot some nice girls at the coffee shop. Try to see if a girl is looking at you, and if she is give her a little nod, or a little wink, or at least keep the eye contact for enough time so that she notices. See if she starts touching her hair playfully or if she gets annoyed. If anything you should be able to pick up those signals that she is interested VS that she's annoyed. Now, if she is interested or at least - if she isn't annoyed this is what you do: 1) Step one - the approach: You go up to the girls, and you say to them "Hey guys whats up?" They will tell you "hi!" Here you can say something generic, for example you can say something about the weather, or about the good time that you are all having, or remark on how good the coffee is or the chocolate that you are having and that they should try it... Something very positive and general about the place and the mood that you are in. 2) Step two - the intel Very quickly you should try to find out where the girls are from. Each girl that tells you where she's from, you shake her hand and you ask what her name is. Key point here - *REMEMBER THE NAME* That's why finding small groups works better for you, because its just less information to remember... Now that you know their names and they know yours - you need to somehow get the intel of which girl is more likely to be single. You can achieve that by asking them generaly where they live, and what the rents are there, how can they cope with such high prices and ... do they live alone or not. You want to target the girl that looks at you the most, answers your questions the most, shows signs of interest the most, and even better if you think that she might be single. 3) Step 3 - the steal Now you need to tell the girls that you want to ask for a favor. Whichever girl responds (appart from your target) speak to her directly and either in her ear or out loud - ask for her to give permission to you to "steal" her friend for a little moment. If everything goes well, you should get their approval - REMEMBER - *DONT BEG* and NEVER say "SORRY" EVER. 4) Step 4 - the walk Now that you got the approval its time to get the target's approval too. But you need to become instantly physical with her - take her hand, ask or force her to walk her our for a brief moment so that you can talk. Here to can even speak to her in the ear and tell her that you want to tell her a secret, etc... So, take her by the hand and walk her out of the cafeteria to some quiet point that you can start talking to her. 5) Step 5 the 1 to 1 Now that you are 1 to 1, you need to seduce her. And that is a whole other discussion, but basically you need to act like a salesman, marketing videos can help you a lot here. Piercing eye contact, Alpha male vibes, swinging between acting like a bad boy and a nice guy so that she is always thrown off, becoming physical, becoming sexual, NEVER begging, NEVER buying your way to anywhere. You want to become a challenge to her and genuinely build a connection. If that happens - take her number, insta, facebook whatever you want... And return back to your buddy.

[@billyblim1213]

I am handsome and mean well, but I am weird and can't talk like a normal person. Every time I approach a woman in public I make a big awkward mess of it and have to avoid that place for a couple months.

[@il_cavallo_nero5649]

I like how you are Creepy alert by 99.98% of women 💀💀💀

[@philu3]

I like how you're multitasking?

[@DanTuber]

yeah sounds stupid. Women giving pickup advice lol.

[@philu3]

@@DanTuber Like, where does the conversation flows to after she answers "thanks" Oh well....carry on ma'am.

[@Ghostrider-ul7xn]

@@philu3 Exactly. The toughest aspect of every conversation is how to find the appropriate topics to keep the flow of the conversation going. At some point its bound to come across as we are interviewing them with a barrage of questions.

[@4Kandlez]

@@philu3 If her saying thanks stops you dead you really need to up your game. Ask her a question about what she's working on to see if she wants to interact with you and take it from there

[@BiMiHi]

Hey, can i meet you real quick? (Tells them you are only going to be chatting them up for a couple minutes) will always be best opener, period.

[@athab8256]

"Old fashioned paperback?!" Ouch. Hayley, that really cuts to the bone...

[@athab8256]

I mean, it's all I've got!

[@jaylionel2711]

Excuse my language, but I shit myself when I approached someone at a café

[@imAlexthe]

just say her hair is nice where she get it done.

[@pereiramwgd]

Hayley, you looks like Liv Tyler actress.

[@alimahammadu7306]

Hey there, how are you doing, I know how it feels to get heartbroken

[@alimahammadu7306]

If you need hlp, to get back your ex I know of someone who can help you, fix your broken relationship reunite with your soulmate including saving your marriage from divorce

[@alimahammadu7306]

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[@user-qq8uf2rn9p]

Just a warning, but I almost got banned from a coffee shop for approaching women.

[@kutaykagan1028]

Just a pozitive critisizm: I'm sorry to say this but u don't ask a fish how to catch a fish and I mostly disagree with those tips.

[@DanTuber]

These indirect methods don't work.

[@Ghostrider-ul7xn]

Exactly. I wonder if she has tried these methods herself or coached any guys with these openers to see if it works. I suspect it's easy for women to get male attention with these indirect opening lines. The reverse is not true, I frequent Starbucks coffee shops and I observe people around me, it doesn't work for most guys besides they simply exchanged a few lines. That's as far as it goes. It doesn't go beyond that into any date or anything

[@DanTuber]

@@Ghostrider-ul7xn Don't ask a fish how to catch a fish.

[@4Kandlez]

@@Ghostrider-ul7xn Instead of watching other people have you tried talking to someone yourself, it's really not a big deal

[@Ghostrider-ul7xn]

@@4Kandlez How does it make any difference if I'm talking to them, when its the same result with almost everyone? I started observing them bc I wanted to see whether this approach would work in those places, and it often never does, especially if the guy isn't conventionally attractive looking. Why should I deliberately embarrass myself and waste my time ?

[@alimahammadu7306]

Hey there, how are you doing, I know how it feels to get heartbroken

[@falcn12]

Don't use "I like the way you're breathing...." It doesn't work well. 😂

[@kenm4882]

Terrible advice. Do women respond to any of this? Just don't approach women in places they obviously go to get picked up. Meet people the usual way. This is stranger danger/stalker situation all over it.