Very good advice on all fronts. Thank you. I live in a low populated city in Portugal with mostly older people living here or teenagers. Almost no attractive women. When i see one, i just go and approach her because of the scarcity which plays in my favour. I have to cover downtown to have at least 4/6 interactions per day. It´s hard but possible. I also go twice a week to the nearest city which is one hour away from here and densely populated where i manage to go for around 10 interactions. I´ve made some of the mistakes you mentioned. Now calibrating...If you come to Portugal, come on over to at least say hi :)
@Cakelove5554 ай бұрын
approaching is too scary :( also it would ruin my cool and mysterious aura (the ladies all desperately want me but are probably just too intimidated by my pressence, right guys?)
@David-xc8tx4 ай бұрын
I can relate to that 😂 The mysterious guy card is the only card I can play 😅
@joseneves710420 күн бұрын
You can remain misterious when talking to a girl but first you need to say hi to her.
@felixkemp21227 күн бұрын
Because it's so scary it's one the best feelings when you do it . Figure out a way how to do it , get a friend to help you and push you do it
@shanecorr16946 ай бұрын
Hi i know it says honest inprovment but what do u make of my situation im decent looking and tall i only slept with 1 person at 21 im almost 27 and never had a girlfriend feel like i was so much waisted time i was also smoked alot of weed especially when covid came about
@HonestImprovementYT6 ай бұрын
dude this is more common than you would expect. but 26/27 is a great age to turn it around. you're likely just a few adjustments away from getting the relationships you want. Few tips I'd avoid relying on dating apps (they aren't interested in finding you a match) Ask yourself what you could bring to the table in relationships {and double down to develop your strengths} Reconnect yourself to the community around you [go out with friends, find social clubs ect, isolation ruins men] I'd love to hear more of your story, so if you're interested in more specific advice check out the link below. www.honestimprovement.co.uk/
@00Seven10003 ай бұрын
I found this interesting and at the end of the day just common sense. I'd like to know whether you think there's a rough age limit to approacng women in the day time. I would guess that if you're 25-35 it's fine. 45 -55 year old men doing this could be seen differently maybe?
@HonestImprovementYT3 ай бұрын
I don't believe in any age limit to approaching. fundamentally it's about trying to build a connection and I don't see any reason why they'd be a upper limit to that. your job is to be brave enough to show who you are to the world and see who's interested, face the inevitable rejection and find those few were you just seem to click
@giovanninicolis77227 ай бұрын
What about approaching girls with headphones?
@BIGAPEGANGLEADER7 ай бұрын
don't
@CalebWedgwood7 ай бұрын
I did that, got a date. She'll tell you if she's not interested.
@HonestImprovementYT7 ай бұрын
it's fine i've done it before, whether she's open to speaking to you or not wont be determined by if she was previously listening to music