HOW TO ATTRACT ANYONE | THE HALO EFFECT

[@blackhawkX02]

I hope you read this. People just write negative comments, but maybe it is necessary so someone comes to clear things up. This advice is very good, it doesn't mean you are a shallow or fake person, you are simply using "tools" to your advantage, just like a person using a microwave, he uses it to make the job easier and faster, you can see it that way and get the desired results, or you can see it as something negative, saying that the microwave is for lazy ass people with no cooking skills. Looking good is just the top of the iceberg, its intention is to make you Look attractive and interesting at the first sight. The clothes, accessories, make up, etc. are those tools to improve things of ourselves. When you look good, you feel good, when you feel good, your self esteem and confidence go up and therefore people notice you AND stay even more, besides the outfit that already makes you look interesting. The thing here, is that many people with low self esteem don't even know they have low self esteem, and they can be quite stubborn and have a lot of pride sometimes to admit it, sometimes it's not our fault, it just happens due to our experiences and bad situations and people don't know how to deal with it or don't receive the same help someone else did, it can happen to anyone. It doesn't mean you are poor bastards, it just means that something went wrong, maybe a lot of bad things happened, or maybe nothing happened, sometimes that's the problem too, NOTHING happens, which leads to a lack of meaning. Good or bad self esteem, you Can use these tips, but once you look interesting, you gotta find the way to mantain by your side the people you attract, that's on you, and personality types as well, some factors we can control and others we can't. Self esteem, I said that looking good is a way to boost it, it's true BUT how you keep it that way? It's up to you, sometimes the people you get around you will help you with that, I wouldn't rely on that though, I'd suggest you find more ways. Don't just stay where you are, waiting for a "hero", an attractive, confident, cool, nice, and happy special someone, become one yourself.

[@FarFromAverage]

Blackhawkx02, you NAILED IT buddy! ;)

[@blackhawkX02]

Thank you :)

[@carlosvalenzuela1991]

BlackhawkX02 Yeah I had to learn this on my own and wish I knew it sooner but im ok with how things ended up.

[@exreality]

Agreed, however this video made me think of Adrian Kubish, a fictional character from Ian Banks' book 'Transition'

[@infowazz]

just don't be like me kids

[@joshbike]

I'LL SAVE YOU ALL 8 MINUTES People judge books by their covers. so make yourself more attractive by having a nice haircut, nice clothes and hide your imperfections and people will automatically think you are a nicer, more successful person due to the halo effect.

[@jesvs666.]

josh bike so i have to cut my hair and try to shave of my beard that i dont have?

[@joshbike]

literally telling you in short what the video is saying, not inventing my own advice.. fool

[@joshbike]

if you dont understand then watch the video again..

[@manal9514]

mexican rick beards are hot

[@jesvs666.]

Mana S thanks 😘 im trying to let it grow out

[@veziop]

MAN: why did you give that murderer a 2 week prison sentence? JUDGE: I mean did you see that jaw line?! Damn yo

[@andrewsmith74]

Good-looking defendants are more likely to be acquitted. Most people associate good looks with good character.

[@CM-dx6xu]

MAN : you shouldn't imprison him at all !!

[@miamislice3280]

Most of us refer to thoughts like yours as projecting...

[@jgonzalez892]

veziop O. J Simpson

[@andrewsmith74]

That's one of the reasons that there's so many ugly bastards in prison - judges give them longer sentences.

[@Skywarr405]

1. Be presentable 2. Establish connection through point of similarity.

[@cryptidofthemarshes1680]

Skywarr405 😄❤ Best advice

[@cryptidofthemarshes1680]

Alexænder You must be fun at parties.

[@remingtomi8212]

Alexænder No wonder you don't go to parties, you don't attract any friends to invite you.

[@igniii3348]

no

[@airycole7137]

What the FUCK can you honestly say is wrong with what this person said? Besides weirdo.... Really, are you smart enough to come up with something more precise or are you the traditional American DUMBASS that can only come up with things like "Weirdo", "Stupid", "Dadadadadada I'm a dumbass!!!"??? Really, who the fuck are you and why the fuck do you matter to anyone? NOBODY gives a fuck about an apathetic smartass that has no other skills or talents in life.

[@mrmooch2163]

how to attract ppl. step 1: be more attractive. That's all. bye

[@Putra.319]

Mr Mooch damn

[@baybora95]

how to attract ppl. step 1: Dont be ugly.

[@kakyoin9355]

@@baybora95 *be attractive*

[@KitaFr]

Video starts at 3:44

[@rebekas.7513]

Dawny Thank you!

[@isaac4951]

Dawny thx

[@obsydian_jay]

Dawny Thank you so much!

[@jorgebarrientos4593]

Tysm

[@Gaz_42069]

The real mvp

[@donati880]

Great video , i'd like to suggest that you make your videos a little shorter so you can get straight to the point faster or make them long but put more inside those minutes

[@trashboat7948]

right, my ugly self was just sitting and waiting for him to stop talking about how much better attractive people's lives are...

[@maribelalmeida1921]

here's several tips for get a date take your time go out by yourself - dont just stay in all the time thinking about this (I read about these and more from Shawthing dating advice website )

[@Job-nf8kw]

donati880 Long video's get more money. That's why video's like this are so long. If you want shorter, funny and helpfull video's? Watch Based Zeus!

[@stephenburden2084]

Geen_naam This one looks more helpful. Cover up your bad looks with sun glasses

[@fuadhassan6066]

we share the same feeling then

[@joshreyes3624]

so let me get this straight, you don't have to be attractive, just be as attractive as you can, and hopefully a quality girl will maybe think you're attractive... got it. 🤔

[@ergoaia.nolifeprod.2830]

Josh Reyes maybe

[@pygmalioninvenus6057]

That's what I got from this too. Completely pointless video specifically made to rake in KZbin dollars.

Josh Reyes you completely missed the point. Becoming a better version of yourself incorporates many things. Becoming more visually attractive has benefits. Firstly it improves your well-being, your confidence and this is projected toward interactions with other people male and female. If you don't have a handsome face then work on other areas to make up for this. You seem to have a limited self belief. Work on your body, your dress sense, improve on skincare and soon your overall confidence will win thru. This is not hard and just requires the right mind set and motivation to make changes happen. If this seems too much work well then there is no hope for you. If you believe you are the problem then you are also the solution. It's up to you the make change.

[@jacobmartin8332]

Yep. Makes since.

[@jacobmartin8332]

Kinda.

[@FireOfJagz]

I'm a simple man, I see Emma Watson so I click on the video

[@FireOfJagz]

***** Don't get me wrong, she is a nice person. I wouldn't have watched this video if, for example, Ariana Grande was on the thumbnail, she looks cute but she's a bitch

[@natashak.3117]

Fire of Jagz why? what has she done that you call her so? (I am neutral, I neither love or hate her)

[@hzqzick5046]

Fire of Jagz oh man...I feel like u r 9gagger

[@BrennahAdrianna]

Fire of Jagz lol right

[@schrodingerscat3912]

the secret to attracting people is simple guys. look hot as fuck.

[@merubindono]

How to attract anyone: 1. Be good looking 2. Don't be ugly

[@notannpc2099]

Tofu Kingpin well shit

[@biacna8220]

not really

[@van-os5hs]

that rules me out

[@suja605]

Even if you look average, but have an extraordinarily attractive personality, you are immediately attracted by others. But if you are ugly, even if you have a good personality, attraction is not possible. I am just being honest and practical.

[@lastinglife4357]

@@suja605 that is not true.

[@angusheays2412]

So basically to be attractive you just have to be attractive.

[@colton8331]

Angus Heays Yep

[@teddy3455]

all this video did was make me feel worse about being ugly

[@kingofthecoolstuff1564]

Right!! Lol like wtf is that first part about..

[@infowazz]

well its the truth really. humans are assholes and we like better looking people much easier. my last workplace was a petri dish of randomness. most of the sales guys were good looking and thought they were the shit. but they really had no personalities once you test them. it was just superficial and very trendy. the creative design department where i was, was more quirky and interesting. by the time i quit, my friends already moved on and got replaced by Marvel comic kids. i mean 4 younger people all decorating their cubicles with Marvel stuff? kinda weird. different generations i suppose. but they were all the same, like vanilla. but yeah i saw first hand how looks play a role. its worse than ever now. look how people looked in the 60s, they didn't give a crap about anything!!!!! that is how it should be. but we got trained like monkeys to be superfiicial narcissists and we are much less interesting these days. it depends where u live i suppose.

[@gnosticviking9626]

magpie The only person who said you're ugly, is you. You judge yourself based on skewed, false standards that unenlightened masses push onto everyone else. The only person who can define you is you. What someone elses imperfect view of what is "ugly" is means nothing. And when did physical appearance actually have anything to do with what really matters which is your qualities, attributes and virtues? You are not your body, you are not your past, your future, your regrets or emotions, your thoughts or beliefs. You HAVE a body, you Have a past and future, you Have regrets and emotions, you HAVE thoughts and beliefs. The real You is perfect, limitless, incorruptible and all possibilities are within your grasp. You are the maker or breaker of all that you perceive. You are quiet literally whatever you think you are. Change your mind. Change your thoughts. Your reality will follow suit.

[@gnosticviking9626]

Melody Brun But that doesn't matter if you decide to not let it matter. If you decide to let that matter, it will. Let people put people on a pedestal. It Doesn't matter. Let people define what is ugly using flawed standards based on what they "think" is supposed to be beautiful. It doesn't matter. You can live your life believing that you should be someone else's version of physical appearance, or live your life transcending such meaningless bullshit and empowering yourself with self confidence and personal achievement. The choice is yours. No one is putting a gun to anyone's head and forcing anyone to "face" anything.

[@andrewmartinez8076]

If that made you feel bad then you should really understand that the only one who can make you unhappy in this situation is you. If you don't like who you are then improve. This video didn't make you unhappy, you made yourself unhappy.

[@rsparkman123]

Lmao low key roasted Bradley Martyn

[@happythinkingishealthy4358]

Asena Colak Punch them right in the balls and spit them right in the face.

[@thegatdamuh4185]

i was about to comment that lmfao

[@lesliefanloverxoxo442]

Dick twice a day And chill plus Reptilian Hunter

[@sinnombre5466]

LMAO, now that's finesse

[@inappropriatecontent2589]

As if he can convince people that he hasn't been on the sauce for years lmao

[@nicogonzales7944]

Alright so all I got to do is wear a mask

[@WILLYLYNCH.]

Nico Gonzales mask, zip ties, sharpie, duck tape and a secluded area. The sharpie is so you can draw a smile across the duct tape on her mouth so it feels like she's enjoying it.

[@Wow-dn5xr]

WILLY LYNCH I can confirm that this works.

[@alexislex7915]

Nico Gonzales that a good joke .......sad fish

[@LuisGarcia-yg1pf]

Nico Gonzales great advice..maybe I'll try that..

[@progengu4747]

I’ve been doing that for years!

[@moisescorral8297]

Short summary: Make yourself look better and hide all your ugliness.

[@moisescorral8297]

Also be fake and someone the other person wants you to be.

[@ashwoke]

Moises Corral gotta make sacrifices if you want to be successful

[@AnitaDevi-eq1ok]

I would rather find a guy who would love me despite my imperfections. If I don't find anyone like that then I don't think there is anything wrong with staying single forever. I was not born to look for a boyfriend. I have a purpose in life. I can live happily on my own.

[@maxandersson1379]

Anita Devi Well fair enough but this video is about the Halo effect and how to use it

[@ememmasorong9657]

Very intriguing and brave of you

[@Full0utkingg]

good

[@manchestercity112]

no you can't we all need someone. Someone out there has the same imperfections as you like me

[@totalanonymous8180]

Everyone deserves to be the best version of themself, anyone who disagrees lacks the discipline to achieve such status, and only lives in their current form wishing that others would lower their expectations. Hard work shows.

[@t.kahraba763]

a golden tip for the so called "ugly people" is to work out and dress well then you will automatically feel attractive

[@crubs83]

"Feeling attractive" doesn't make you attractive. Trust me.

[@melsy94]

Feeling attractive can give you more confidence, and chicks dig confidence. So technically yes, you're making yourself more attractive by feeling attractive, just not in the visual sense of the word. I can say from experience, as someone whose feelings about another person changed dramatically after that person gained more confidence, it's a damn sexy quality.

[@crubs83]

Confidence is nothing more than a drop in the bucket compared to looks. I'm speaking from my own experience. When I was a young teen, I was full of confidence. I believed I was so much more handsome, kindhearted, talented, intelligent, and ambitious than my peers. I told myself that my fears were ridiculous and decided to go at socializing with my chin high and my chest puffed out because if anyone should be able to, it was me. I got hit with a reality check, hard. Girls had always hated me up until that point, and after I lodged my head up my a**, it only created more opportunities for them to hurt me. It didn't matter how I changed my look, my behavior, or my perception of myself, girls treated me exactly the same. Before you ask, no I wasn't just aiming for the barbies and cheerleaders; all girls treated me the same. They all led me on and called me hurtful names, bullied me and dehumanized me. A universal constant was that they were constantly dissing on my physical appearance, though rarely specifying what they thought was so ugly about me. My weight is healthy and I'm well groomed, but it doesn't matter. The appearance of my face is so repulsive, that no girl wants anything to do with me. I desperately tried for years trying to get "friend-zoned". The thought of being "just friends" with a beautiful girl sounded absolutely amazing to me, but I was so ugly I couldn't even accomplish that. I couldn't even get a girl to sit down with me and have a discussion. Heck, I once sat down next to a girl on the bus, didn't looker at her, didn't talk to her, and tried my darnedest to avoid all physical contact to any degree. The next day I found out she accused me of touching her inappropriately. If girls cared about anything other than looks, I would have had a girlfriend a long time ago. I've only recently come to believe that there are some girls out there who are willing to treat me with basic human decency. I have small bit of hope. Ultimately, I just need to go up to every pretty face I see and ask 'em out, and I might get a yes after around 1000 girls.

[@gracelewis6071]

crubs83 confidence and having your head up your ass are not the same thing. :P Seriously though, I think what you are referring to as "confidence" in your early teen years would most likely be "bravado" or something like it. That's true of almost all teenagers - including the girls who have given you so much trouble. One of the most helpful realizations I've had is that emotions transmit, and that's what people base their interactions off - no matter what the exterior looks like. Confidence includes being nervous as hell, and being able to say "I'm nervous as fuck right now" because you're OWNING it. You're not pointing out your nervousness in a "oh please have pity on me" kinda way, but in a "oh man, life is a trip huh, isn't it great?!" kinda way. Because you know they can relate, you're taking charge of the interaction, and you're choosing to do something positive with it. Unfortunately with the situation on the bus, your insistence on trying to shut her out as much as possible is probably exactly what made her feel violated - sitting next to someone who FEELS like they're doing something wrong (which is what happens when you are trying not to do something "wrong" - something that will get you into trouble) is not a pleasant experience. Human beings are very simple - we assume that of someone feels shame there must be a reason for it. I'm going to recommend two things - one, check out Eliott Hulse here on KZbin. Two, "the language of emotions" is a freaking GREAT book, and I honestly think almost everyone would benefit from reading it. Good luck man! High school is rough. It gets better, I promise. You might have to learn some new ways of relating to yourself and others, but it is totally worth it. And there are others that won't judge you too - find your tribe!

[@t.kahraba763]

i have a friend whos super fucking ugly but he works out really hard and hes super confident because of that and he gets more chicks than most guys i know and i know rich handsome talls guys that never get girls because theyr insecure little bitches, work on boosting your confidence and see how the power of attracting almost anything is literally in your hands, CONFIDENCE IS SEXY

[@MythologywithMike]

"Be good looking! It'll make more people attracted to you." Real scientific breakthrough there! Did you hear that water is wet or that cocaine is bad for you? Truly amazing stuff we're learning these days!

[@kaylawhite5639]

Hide my true self -got it

[@romanszefler7479]

yeah we haw far you will go first you need to attach yourself before others

[@aya-vt4jm]

M

[@Strawberrysunset23]

😂

[@keyemku6399]

Not a problem, been putting on a fake self for my whole life

[@KingKroy]

Kayla white lol

[@LexicalNoScope]

I'm dead the scientist drawn looks dead ass exactly like my psychology professor 😂😂

[@magnushardt7433]

How to attract people to watch your video? Put Emma Watson's picture as a thumbnail.

[@benedictsamuel7254]

Magnus Hardt lmaooo

[@isaac4951]

Magnus Hardt lmfao

[@8rvr4]

Halo effect much?

[@TheAsylumchild]

Some hard advice for guys who think a woman is out of their league, keep this one statement in mind. No matter how attractive she is, no matter how much you want her, someone, somewhere, is sick of her shit. Keep this in mind and if you get rejected, you can shrug it off. If it works out and she is attracted back, awesome. It's a win/win.

[@JoaoPaulo-jd1tg]

are u a woman?

[@pbjrunr4468]

TheAsylumchild I thought you were gonna say she's probably just wearing makeup 😂 I've seen so many beautiful women KZbinrs... and then they do makeup tutorials. I'm not saying they are ugly, but the difference is just 😱

[@MrFrancheezy]

THANK YOU

[@shawol373]

And the same can be said for attractive men. And the same can be said for unattractive men. In fact, the same can be said for nearly every person on this entire planet. One random person being 'sick of her shit' doesn't make her a worse person or more unattractive.

[@TheAsylumchild]

Andrea, I'm just going to sit back and smile and point to your comment so everyone who reads this comment section can see exactly what I'm talking about. Thanks for this.

[@JasYum]

You attracted me to this video by using Emma Watson in the thumbnail.... damnit.

[@lilythenindroid7669]

Tweester same here! (Emma Watson rules)

[@MisterSludge]

That's totally cheating

[@Boiiiiwhatttt]

Omg there’s No prettier girl on earth.

[@orionheim2295]

Is this glitch patched yet?

[@cxden3803]

Orion Heim lol

[@fast_and_efficient]

lmaoo dude u made my day hahahah

[@illegin9951]

i think its the new update bruv.

[@iheadbuttwindows]

No but in the next update, aka the wifi ban update, I think it will dampen it a bit

[@caincawkwell8092]

Net neutrality update

[@adog6126]

For all y'all that are saying you are ugly, it's ok, just make sure to wear well put together outfits, have good hygiene, stay healthy, and maybe wear a little makeup. It may make you feel more confident, and people will notice your confidence

[@roach9799]

ASDDog, so ur telling me, a guy, to steal some of my moms makeup and put it on? OK

[@youssefbaaziz3673]

ADog lmao it didnt work

[@ΒαλιαΒ-θ2γ]

Most people I know usually associate attractivness with dumbness and narcissism rather than cleverness and success.However, Ive noticed that guys are way more patient and obedient when their girlfriend is pretty.When it comes to sex they wait until theyre ready,they never truly fight back when they argue in fear of losing them and when sexy mean girls are selfish and treat them like shit they fall in love with them even harder.Not only that,after they break their hearts they still love them.If an average or bad looking girl did all those the boy would break up with her in a week.Like,why?Ive seen this happen so many times and it drives mad.Is it worth it to have a hot girlfriend if she makes your life hell?At least it will teach them not to be so shallow next time...

[@blackeuropean4700]

No it won't teach them anything because we are biologically wired to love beauty. Beauty is an expression of high quality genes. Those guys you've noticed were heartbroken because they wanted to have children with these women to better the outcome of their genetic offspring. Beautiful people *are* better than ugly people, and that pill is hard for a lot of people to swallow.

[@BigGeekEmpire]

All this video is doing is making me realize I'm ugly as fuck.

[@XLRBoss]

LOL, congrats.

[@darrylbrumfield7659]

XLRGraso lmfao!

[@oscarortiz6808]

BigGeekEmpire same here lol 😂

[@xnabr7603]

BigGeekEmpire "all the pretty people died."

[@amgrs1329]

Stop turning people into chocolate and eating them up then

[@andrewa.mcnamee8530]

From a British science documentary, my understanding of the Halo Effect is this: you meet someone for the first time and don't find them particularly attractive.But if you spend a lot of time in their company, and you find them to be a good, likeable person, then over time they also start to seem more attractive THAN YOU FIRST THOUGHT.So as long as you behave well toward people, over time those who see you do this consistently will start to find you more attractive than THEY FIRST DID.NOTE: It doesn't necessary mean they'll start to see you as Adonis or Venus, just more attractive than they originally did. So that may not be a huge improvement, but it WILL be something!There is however a REVERSE HALO EFFECT: you may start off appearing attractive to someone, but if they regularly see you behave like a creep, pretty soon you won't look so good in the looks department either!So being a nice guy is worth the effort, although it's best it it's genuine on your part.Only give of yourself what you can authentically manage, or else you'll overstretch yourself, get tired of it, and risk getting crabby with people.

[@lisaemerson5958]

Absolutely correct and you should be the one making a video my friend

[@maddichavous4315]

It is usually true that similar interests can spark a friendship, but I find it important to note that you don't have to have something in common with someone immediately to initiate a friendship. The first conversation I ever had with my best friend of four years was about how I thought that she would be a terrible spy, and she disagreed and thought that she would make the best spy ever and we argued for an hour. We still have arguments on that to this day.

[@preetiduggal7865]

How many attractive people are watching this ?

[@LuisGarcia-yg1pf]

preeti duggal YOU'RE RIGHT!!! WELL THANKS FOR THE TIP I'M GO GET PLASTIC SURGERY.. THANKS HELPFUL INFORMATION..SO FAR

[@MisterSludge]

I'm fairly attractive. I have trust issues tho.

[@gracedo2603]

Me

[@zaniah8270]

Me lol

[@sebastianmeier2965]

Look so damn fine make a bihh look average

[@hanniamedinaalcazar5823]

I'm confused, so, I don't have to be attractive?, I just have to look good??

[@alexislex7915]

Hannia Medina Alcázar oml

[@evertonblake7360]

😂

[@shadizzle77]

EXAC.......tly.

[@abbasbannur3605]

Just i have to say u is who asked with u are u looking good 😂

[@alisabajenova]

Ugh I wish I was actually pretty.. because according to you there's nothing I could do about it

[@FarFromAverage]

Well, I hope you got something of value from the video!

[@airborne486]

PSY Prankster Gangster play up your strengths down play your weakness, and figure out how to be mentally attractive ie the 5 Cs Confidence, Conviction, Clarity, Courage, and Certainty. It's free to choose, the choices consequences are what you have to pay, be a winner the payout is better.

[@infowazz]

loololl that is actually true. girls have it much easier than guys do to anatomy.

[@ItsMeRhaine]

I'm working on my weight loss so that's definitely something to hopefully up my looks

[@spp6849]

The Broccolini Industry Veganism and exercise isnt a good mix. To loose weight, yes but to gain muscle mass, no but veganism itself is a easy way to slowly loose weight without exercise. Something is better than nothing.

[@YoloMerra]

"Damn I feel bad for tho unattractive ppl" Me "damn I feel bad for myself"

[@abbasbannur3605]

Owwww

[@freshstart1948]

Because remember most of the billionaire or highly successfull people married to a average looking people with a good nature. Process You like the person. Study him very well his choices, preference and all. Prepare a plan and make your self and body appearance according to the person preferences. Do a mouth publicity through his friends about your self ( examples you are good at things that the person likes or need for his work). don't approach him try that person approaches you. Don't do silly or egostic things. Become mature,cute, kind, understanding, how to behave and etc.💓

[@raidtbe5689]

The REAL secret is Be rich.

[@kamalaagidi9183]

How to attract people: *BE A MATERIALISTIC SHALLOW TYPE OF INDIVIDUAL*

[@chriskim9470]

Kamal Aagidi Gladly

[@noodle6852]

Sad how true this is.

[@misterchief5378]

That is how you attract people, but not keep them.

[@annapaulineogrady9184]

Kamal Aagidi woe you ARE on to something! what garbage. I know it

[@innovateandinvest]

Kamal Aagidi spot on

[@sigmazeta8]

Just here for Emma Watson

[@emiliew5553]

Actually, when I see an overly attractive person at my school, I literally think that they're a) Trying too hard b) Snotty and rude c) Vain d) Too perfect for their own good. We must burn them. That means you, *name censored for overly perfect persons privacy*

[@zaniah8270]

Ur just a insecure hater :)

[@im1who84u]

This girl I was dating, it’s always all about her and her day, her feelings, her problems, everyone else is a looser…… Had some average sex and then finally had enough of her behavior and showed her the door, in a polite way. Really didn’t miss her, she on the other hand thought I was in love with her or attached to her emotionally. Fraid not. A few weeks go by and she calls to “break up with me”! Well….. okay….. if it makes you feel better, I’ll go along with this. She gives me a laundry list of all the things that are wrong with me, why she’s breaking up with me, and I patiently listen. Finally, she has exhausted the list and went silent. I think she was waiting for me to come back with… “oh yea? Well you’re a…… But I didn’t. I thanked her for pointing out those areas where I need to improve, told her I’ll work on it for the next time, and kindly ended the call. A few months go by and she calls again! I am surprised by this call. She is very friendly on this call and wants to know if we could go out to a comedy club together. Of course she expect me to drive, pick her up, pay for her meal, drinks, and entry fee into the comedy club. Like a schmuck I agree but make it a double date with a past girlfriend of mine who is a decent human being and her new boyfriend, as I didn’t know what she was up to. We are at the comedy club and she either gets drunk or is acting drunk. Now remember, I am paying for her night out. Starts getting loud and is coming on to the comedians during their performance and also after their performance where they are at tables set up outside the club trying to sell their CD’s, T-Shirts, and so on. I asked my friends to walk a good distance away from the tables with me so that it was obvious to her I wasn’t watching her performance. She comes out of the crowd and finds me talking with my friends and tells me that she hopes I wasn’t offended or mad at her for “gushing” all over the comedians at the table. I told very calmly that I wasn’t aware of what she was doing at the tables, but I hope that she was having a good time, and if she wanted to stay and talk more to the comedians, she was welcome to do so, but would need to find another way home because the rest of us are getting ready to go right now. She came with us. Unfortunately for me, we did not car pool with my friends, so I was left to listen to her telling me all about how cute she thought the comedians were, and apologizing to me for “gushing” all over them and asking me if I thought she was gushing too much. I told her I really hadn’t noticed and turned the music in the car up on the loud side so that she had to talk loud to be heard. I said very little and just would nod or say uh huh at all the right times. She told me she had a good time. I responded by saying that I was glad I was able to show her a good time. She quickly responded back that she wasn’t referring to me and didn’t mean me, she was referring to the club and the comedians. I responded back by saying, well then okay, I am glad that I was able to take you to a place where you were able to enjoy yourself. Finally got her home and backed the car into the driveway. She opened the door, got out and stood in the driveway, and then continued to lean over and talk to me more about how attractive she thought the comedians were and she kept over using the word “gushing”. I just kept nodding and saying uh huh at all the right times. Finally,……. She stopped talking and closed the door. I didn’t pull away fast, but as soon as the door closed, the car was rolling. That was the last I heard or seen her and it’s been several years now… over fifteen. On one other occasion before this last date when I was still seeing her. A small group of us were going out to an event that had a start time and a finish time. I went to her place with a friend of mine to pick her up and it was very clear to her what time I would be there to pick her up and what time we needed to be at the event. Her room-mates let me in and we sat down in the kitchen and talked. I asked where was Nancy? I thought she was still in her bedroom getting ready. They said she wasn’t home yet from a costume party she was attending. We were already cutting it close and I was about to leave without her at this point. She comes in the door at this point still wearing her costume and announces that not only does she need to change out of the costume, but she is also going to take a shower. We all looked at each other as she walked away from us, down the hallway, and into her bedroom. She kept talking/yelling at us from the bedroom as she was getting ready to go into the shower. As soon as she got in the shower, I stood up and calmly announced we were leaving. Her room-mates just looked at me and smiled, my friend didn’t understand what I was doing and why was I not waiting for Nancy. I explained it in the car on the way. Wish I could have been there to see her face when she came out of the shower.

[@to33x]

Amazing video. Some may want to skip to the conclusion, but I feel it is also important to know the background and reasoning behind the final advice. From a first-principles' approach, every second of this video is invaluable.

[@DavisCota]

“Don’t be ugly” I might have a problem with that

[@pilk91]

The bias is to do with the golden ratio. It has nothing to do with culture. The closer to the golden ratio, the better the genetics.

[@airplayrule]

explain more or link a vid

[@panzervalkyrie9299]

FAIL = Nothing is more repellant than seeing someone trying to emulate your beliefs , values and ideas in disingenuous attempt to get you to like them. DO NOT BE FAKE! BE yourself nothing is more attractive, if they don't like it ITS THEIR LOSS!

[@jmorel42]

Panzer Totenkopf fuck you being yourself never works

[@panzervalkyrie9299]

Satisfied Pepe what do you know frog? You get kissed by a prince?

[@KingBabaJames]

+Satisfied Pepe exactly never works m most people in the world all fake af.

[@darklordsauron3415]

Panzer Totenkopf being yourself never works unless being your self is the good looking popular kid

[@panzervalkyrie9299]

Potato the key is learn to value yourself then others will ..don't try to be someone you are not. Wish I knew that 20 years ago when in my teens

[@paultardspambot]

um... so the key to attracting people is.... make yourself more physically attractive.

[@chukamaca]

You're right about the protagonist in a movie always being attractive and ending up being successful... I watched RANGO right after this and realized u spoke the truth.

[@alchemistthunder]

This is the best channel about psychology ever!

[@kingcanable]

I think the halo effect also has to do with progressing the species better looks usually mean better genetics

[@blackeuropean4700]

100% correct. Your genes are your destiny.

[@DarthMadV]

but people are generally attracted to people of their same level of attractiveness. Good looks don't translate to good genes, so that doesn't matter that's just a false belief, looks don't actually matter at all. You can be good looking but have a history of cancer and stroke that run in your family. Usain Bolt has good genes but to me is rather ugly.. even though he has it made in life. People just want to have good looking kids because they think it will make their life better/easier and that just isn't true, look at Donald Trump. Even attractive people can think their ugly and have conditions such as body dysmorphic disorder. People are simply brainwashed especially in youth. Truly healthy relationships that try live up to 'till death do us part' are more likely to establish much later in life when wrinkles have formed. Relationships established in youth are most likely to crumble much more frequently especially when you form communion over shallow and influenced subconscious beliefs(such as Romanticism) in your 20's you barely know yourself, you're building a foundation to your personality. Establishing a relationship when you are 40+ years old is more likely to be influent of the craving of psychological unity, not a craving of shallow physical, romanticised idea that is influenced by the Halo Effect, even though one will still have a basic subconscious check-list of what they find attractive in a potential partner, it's much less shallow.

[@Roxie2752]

so basically just be better looking and hide your flaws? lol

[@FarFromAverage]

It's so simple that it couldn't possibly work, right? ;)

[@XLRBoss]

I feel like that's short-term, it won't last very long.

[@xylf2502]

1% are people who want to see if this guys clickbaiting. 99% of people are dudes who have low self esteem that are looking how to get a gf quickly. Am I right? or am I right?

[@succulentchinesemeal4518]

I was just kinda following the suggested videos

[@ddynamite3835]

Xylf just going video to video the last video was about how to become a gray man

[@MisterSludge]

I'm here for the comments

[@theterrobear2716]

Ghandi is that you?

[@crazybastardpubg7813]

Xylf yes..... sadly

[@rkaudio40]

something i've found is that white teeth, good eyebrows, a golden tan, and wearing clean expensive looking clothing really boosts you up. i know those sound pretty obvious and superficial but it's true. wearing colors that not only match but also compliment your face and hair are also very important. i tan outside a lot and use self tanner during the winter months so i always maintain a golden tan even though i'm actually pretty pale. i have medium brown hair with natural blonde highlights and hints of red in it. i also have brown eyes. i've found that i look best wearing black, blue, and white. i've also found that a great way to make up for having some bad features is to have one or two really nice features. i'm not all that attractive but if try to keep my skin a nice golden color and fairly clear it can distract from other things like nose shape or other things. really nice eyebrows really distract people from the rest of your face. Super white glowing teeth are absolutely amazing at distracting from flaws and blemishes

[@michiganmitchell5883]

C'mon guys just because you watch a how to video doesn't mean you'll just be a boss at it right away. This guy is giving a lot of pointers and lots of things that might not be considered right away. But he's right. All n all just be yourself. Obviously, right

[@itzmass9740]

michigan mitchell dont matter, if you ain't attractive in any way, its GAME OVER

[@rustyboone1434]

could easily be because attractiveness can be indicative of advantageous qualities/genes.

[@davidharford3873]

How to attract anyone......Make yourself more attractive. Well duh.

[@FreeSpirit47]

Beauty can also be a curse for some girls.

[@orriorsteinsson5874]

Interesting. Can you explain?

[@XLRBoss]

No

[@orriorsteinsson5874]

Yourtube User can you explain how in these 1% it is a curse

[@orriorsteinsson5874]

thank you

[@kovu718]

Brenda B maybe. But it's not more of a curse than being ugly so SIT THE FUCK DOWN.

[@loveyou-uj1cc]

You deserve a million subscribers, I salute you for not giving up on this Bad-ass Channel. I didn't expect that you are posting videos since 2016. You and Improvement Pill are my favorite KZbinr, I'm still hoping that both of you will make a collaboration video. I've compared your previous videos with the videos that you have today and I can say that you've improved FAR FROM AVERAGE...

[@lucreziia100]

He is speaking the utter truth. It is always an advantage in life to be good looking, no matter what other skills and knowledge you have!

[@sasakiumiquema9608]

This shit is actually good. Man marketing knowledge *intensely takes notes*

[@MartaMazure-Silina]

There's this guy I have crush on for three years now. I guess I went a bit berzerk to attract Him, as a birthday present on His 18th birthday, I gave Him two tickets to blink-182 in London, mine and His favourite band. I guess He got scared or His parents didn't let Him go outside the country so I found myself crying pathetically and not leaving my bed for two days. I still really like Him though. Do we really have too much in common to be together? I'm really shy usually and so is He. I really had to get over myself so much to even afford this (there went my whole summer's salary). Geez, I wish He could just love me back.:/ I've had a lot of boyfriends but I guess I never really fell in love till I met Him.

[@sashisiriwardana3147]

Marta Mazure-Siliņa good luck 🍀👍

[@MartaMazure-Silina]

Sashi Siriwardana we're probably not gonna work out, but thanks.🐺

[@brri948]

Three years is a lot and you still have time though, but over here for me it has been around 6 years and yet nothing.

[@MartaMazure-Silina]

Max S. I'm probably gonna end up like that too.😔

[@dudersification]

Marta Mazure-Siliņa damn sorry to hear that... The worst feeling in the world is the feeling of inadequacy measured up in comparison to the one you have fallen for. If you are too shy to say what you feel in person write it down or text him

[@adriancoolbro8632]

Hey man I am new to your Channel!!! I just wanted to say that you have very good tips... thank you (:

[@FarFromAverage]

Glad you enjoyed it, Adrian!

[@lydiab2572]

Wow, that's a nice start to summer I just died I'm so ugly😭 this is what I watch at 2:00 am. Thanks guys !!!

[@Curien247]

I was looking up Halo lore when I found myself here, instant sub and instant like.

[@fetuff0]

this should be called "how manipulate people"

[@sarahbeauvais8573]

fetuff0 Everyone's brain does this you are just learning how to use it in your favor. It will happen on subconscious level wether you act on this information or not. I don't think it bad to understand how people work. I wouldn't really call it manipulation. As long as you are not lying to someone the "manipulation" is really really low level and you aren't garuntteed results.

[@romanszefler7479]

+Sarah Beauvais Hey you can full some of the people all of the time but you can't full all of the people all of the time Mind tricks they are mind tricks you have to full yourself that you that kind of person you fouling others to believe if you can't then you just only some of the time that person

[@OmarKillzHackz]

Is this one of the porn hub intros?

[@awfhaiuhiafiadhdifhadidai6197]

Cutsom just phase into their DMs

[@forsakenchannel7816]

DEAD

[@skyhinano9380]

talk to much.get to the point fast

[@purpessenceentertainment9759]

Like this video says, everyone has imperfections. This video is talking physical appearance. But there is also spiritual, mental, and emotional imperfections. It is extremely easy to overlook these because it is not something we can see. Granted a good physical appearance gives you a handicap up to a certain point. But if you are not growing out of your comfort zone, you'll never get to the next level. All too often I see short tempers when people don't get their way. That is the number one sign I look for in a person. It's an external test I wait for. I don't cause the incident. I let life happen and see how they handle a situation. If I see greed, temper, putting others down, then that person is not a person I want in my circle. I only look for people that grow (be it an acquaintance, friend, partner, or romantic relationship). The only way to improve your self esteem is to go outside your comfort zone, which in turn will grow your comfort zone. By grinding this out, self esteem will improve as a side effect. Also you MUST heal your past. That little kid you used to be still lives inside you. He/she needs love. If you don't love him/her, she'll never heal. Continually work on all of these and it doesn't matter what you do, your life is going to kick so much ass, and people are going to want to feel as good as you, so they will always want to be around you.

[@RaigekiFitness]

Ein bisschen Freundschaft ist mir mehr wert als die Bewunderung der ganzen Welt. 👍 Geiles Video wieder.

[@Lamborafa]

This man has the key to the legendary sauce of sauces. If someone ever gets the keys to this sauce( which is basically watching his videos) and masters how to use the sauce (which is practicing this belief) metaphorically you will better ingredients than chef Ramsey. And to have better sauce than chef Ramsey is almost impossible, this mans nut probably taste like truffle fries. The one who masters this will become god.

[@oogaoof]

This makes me feel like shit

[@alexislex7915]

Sam Fries stfu u beautiful dont listen to ppl girls dont have the same tast

[@alexislex7915]

Sam Fries be confident be a player numb your feelings to girls

[@farwahehee8087]

hqhahaha

[@salatgamer4966]

That moment when you realize you'r fucked....

[@drexelking8792]

You definitely inspire to come up higher. There's an integrity in your presentations.

[@expertbyexperienceshared9903]

This video presents the concept as though it's innate when it's not it's conditioning..same as definitions of beauty are constructed and conditioned...put different looking babies in a room to play and they approach each other out of instinct and curiousity..it's only as we are taught through experiences and adults to place value on looks and to fear difference that this changes...I am more impressed by those of us who are not afraid to be our authentic selves 100% of the time instead of hiding perceived imperfections...genuine people will not even notice your flaws or if they do they won't be used to judge you...lasting confidence comes from not allowing others opinions of you to define who you are the earlier this notion is learned and applied the better. Looks fade... strength of character and how you impact others are eternal if you want something permanent dont focus on temporary solutions.☺️

[@panzervalkyrie9299]

Whole video summed up in 2 words = "JUST LIE "

[@omershoukat4217]

Panzer Totenkopf ,right xD but it is necessary.

[@ajur28]

Panzer Totenkopf you cant only speak the truth you know

[@imaries6854]

Panzer Totenkopf Lmao man that is exactly what I thought first gotta get my bicep peaks going before I try this

[@choysum9030]

In other words the Halo effect is just a fancy term for common sense. If I see a box of Lucky Charms then I am going to assume that there are Lucky Charms inside. No shit right?

[@logic7654]

Man Susan Boyle must of found the biggest loop hole around this

[@springlocale7135]

I don't need an attraction...All I need is charisma in my personality...

[@drexelking8792]

Good video. Dang guy you are really intelligent. Even when your vids seem similar you've the ability to convey new insight.

[@DE51B0Y]

Hiding imperfections? Is that being honest?

[@Ligmamonkey]

honesty isn't important.

[@tomatotom984]

Eik Rasmussen isn't honesty important to gain trust of that certain someone?

[@IceBlueThug]

DE51B0Y When girls wear makeup. That is not being honest . So play the same game.

[@rryphill4408]

DE51B0Y ...Get the hottest girl like WOW##!!!...6months later after finding out all her flaws and seeing her out of those tight pants many times...Then looking at the NEXT HOT CHICK...NEXT.

[@rryphill4408]

GainedSalmon 3 ...Because boys are raised and condition as men to BE PLAYED BY FEMALES...As Men to be the CAPTAIN SAVE AHHH with his Cape Flapping In The Wind The Foolish Hero...In the Movie Superman,look at how Superman went way out and beyond over Lois Lane,how he had two life styles dealing with Lois Lane....Men today been way behind when dealing with Women manipulation and tricks.

[@bethereorbesquare3416]

most attractive people have many fake friends😭

[@SubsChallenge-nb4yl]

true

[@backnforth8401]

PiesAnd Jam unttrative people have no friends

[@TheUnicorn-ci7jk]

Who is thinking of their crush right now?

[@kalaendhil-stevenot6938]

To everyone out there saying to hide your ugliest self your wrong he is saying to find what you call beautiful so once you see it then you will realize it so that no you for the video even though I new it this gave me another daily confidence boost

[@dabangtanboi1144]

Hi! I really apreciate you charing this with us ^__^ It all seems logical and it will probably work. Much love from Sweden!

[@eugeniamikulan3328]

your videos are too directed to male viewers. there are almost no channels that talk about confident body lenguaje for women and stuff like that. it would be amazing if you did those sort of videos from time to time

[@Tletna]

I'm a man and even I was thinking that as I watched this video. Body language is important and I wonder if he did make another version of this video for women.

[@XLRBoss]

This guy probably believe attraction is everything. But body language, voice tone, eye contact plays a huge role.

[@BliTzeDGames]

thats probably because he is a guy, unlikely he knows things from the pov of a woman

[@Not_Ciel]

Because women don't need the help, men do.

[@eugeniamikulan3328]

Wondertwig i'm a woman and I need it too. you think girls don't have anxiety problems too?

[@ashton3404]

Guys: I just want a cute girl, don't mind if she has acne or glasses. Girls: He has to be above 6 foot, chiseled jaw, bright blue eyes, ripped abs and muscles, perfect hair, perfect teeth and breath, over 8 inches, strong legs, no glasses, no acne, stubble, no beard, always wearing a suit, good fashion sense and must smell good...

[@empressqi1722]

AmbitionZ Get out with this bullshit. I'm 5.7, thin with a pretty face and thet guy I have a crush on is 5,6 at best, isnt even considered attarctive by anyone but me and wears the same clothes all the time. It's about that something that catches your heart

[@sshsbm10120]

you forgot being rich, man. And being an obnoxious douchebag you beats women. That really gets the attractive radars going for women

[@ashton3404]

Typhoon Whirl Well then you're obviously not the type of girl I'm talking about, I'm talking about shallow bitches.

[@evabokmane322]

I have a boy who has glasses,6 inches, grey green eyes, not tredy but black casual cloths, soft but not too long hair,a lil six pack with strong arms, acne but i still love him so much :)

[@empressqi1722]

Eva Bokmane I feel you sister:)

[@IAmMoto25]

I don't assume jackshit when it comes to girls. I've met hot nice girls and hot mean girls. I've also met average nice girls and average mean girls.

[@XLRBoss]

Wow

[@user-nr8ff6rd2d]

People don't even know how beautiful they are. They compare themselves to someone else that they may be attracted to or jealous of which make them not like what they see of themselves. There is always at least one quality/trait that is beautiful to someone else that they never noticed before. :)

[@airplayrule]

get rejected by 100% of the women you approach no matter how u act then we see how u feel when youre middle aged and dying alone. if u have 1 trait, say u share interests with a girl, even if real (or pretend like this video suggests) that dont mean she will romantically love u like this video suggests...or even be your friend. lol like if an ugly faced, balding, borderline midget Janitor from Pakistan lookin like Dany Devito's ugly Pakistan cousin, approaches a prime Paris Hilton or any all American hot girl, if he wears nice clothes (which is subjective) and combs his hair (which is impossible if he bald) and tries to talk to her about what she likes (which may require mind reading) and he agrees with her, she will magically be physically attracted to him and get PHYSICAL. lol! she would probably see him, and figure he's 1 of those ugly losers tryin to dress/act nice to compensate. your looks and the Halo effect are HEAVILY based on NATURAL looks, which are objectively judged mostly, even by the sub conscience. Subjective personality will at most get you friendzone, assuming she likes your personality, or even gives you the time of day to talk in the 1st place. And even if u ignore or spin that somehow into saying this video's advice works: hot girls have insane options in person and now it's worse with social media/dating apps. they already get tons of guys with high LMS (looks/money/status) who dress nice and have things in common. the notion that a Brad Pitt lookin businessmen with her same race/interests will get rejected for the above mentioned ugly, poor immigrant looking guy with her same interests is an ignorant cope.

[@a-aron3847]

Using this I was able to make someone hate me. They thought I was their friend, and I hated them, so thanks!

[@ogaustin1372]

Guess what there are women who actually find all different types of men attractive and appreciate them for who and what they are. Yes it helps when you pay attention to a woman and the things she likes. If you pretend to be into those things when you're not she's going to find out eventually. I would say possibly making yourself look nice and paying attention to what people like or just general over all humanity rules. People are little bit more complex than what this video indicates and there's a lot of everything in the world. Better advice would be get to know yourself like yourself and then take yourself out and bounce it off other people. People who don't respect you for being you aren't worth being in your world anyway.

[@airplayrule]

nice made up wishful thinking. i guess all those studies are wrong and youre right. and women dont reject guys who are shorter, insanley skinnier/poorer etc. than they are. & i guess 97.7% of white women don't really marry white men and the last census was wrong. oh wait, that leaves 2.3% of them open to different races. maybe all those objective traits women want are subjective because it's not 100%. lol. if you get rejected your whole life, you will die alone. your coping talking points dont really help. lol like if an ugly faced, balding, borderline midget Janitor from Pakistan lookin like Dany Devito's ugly Pakistan cousin, approaches a prime Paris Hilton or any all American hot girl, if he wears nice clothes (which is subjective) and combs his hair (which is impossible if he bald) and tries to talk to her about what she likes (which may require mind reading) and he agrees with her, as long as it's genuine, she will magically be physically attracted to him and get PHYSICAL. lol! she would probably see him, and figure he's 1 of those ugly losers tryin to dress/act nice to compensate. your looks and the Halo effect are HEAVILY based on NATURAL looks, which are objectively judged mostly, even by the sub conscience. Subjective personality will at most get you friendzone, assuming she likes your personality, or even gives you the time of day to talk in the 1st place. And even if u ignore or spin that somehow into saying this video's OR your advice works: hot girls have insane options in person and now it's worse with social media/dating apps. they already get tons of guys with high LMS (looks/money/status) who dress nice and have things in common. the notion that a Brad Pitt lookin businessmen with her same race/interests will get rejected for the above mentioned ugly, poor immigrant looking guy with her same interests is an ignorant cope.

[@malemyensenbam7978]

ok so basically to attract someone you need to be ... GOOD LOOKING??! wow good advice Sherlock ! i had no idea 😑😑

[@albumin1643]

well, we can't see you yet attracted to your channel because of the content... :) have a nice day...

[@FarFromAverage]

Haha that's a good thing, Dream Hawker!

[@mrsir6990]

FarFromAverage Don't listen to them keep doing your vids and great content 👍

[@MissRikkiKat]

FarFromAverage Your voice made me wonder what you look like. Girl stuff... Is there a psychological explanation to this?

[@jacobbullard5682]

Keep up the good work! It is obvious that you spend a lot of time energy in these videos. Also, your videos help many people who are searching for answers in life, Arn’t we all!

[@Lennakanci999]

Thats how u build a rapport, which is base of trust) thats just first step of building any kind of relationship. In case to attract a boy/girl, by doing all these, you’ll make them trust and approve you in subconscious level. And having nice-look is likely, but not so important. You’ll anyways stock in friendzone without emotions)

[@mollymerriman3073]

Well damn I'm doomed

[@mollymerriman3073]

Jeff Sol because it's basically saying you need to be attractive 😂

[@honchoeric]

You're fine asf molly come on now...

[@th0uxan]

anything for the likes am I right

[@Lbc3hunna]

Molly Merriman u r fine asf

[@therehi4295]

Happiness isn't about ego Molly. Don't let ego be your enemy. Just be a true honest person that is attractive, not looks or money.

[@RomyBmusic]

How bout just be yourself?

[@MatthewMaranell]

MyRomyZone ...just be yourself is a lie that's been sold to average people. That's why it's important to be "far from average" (see what I did there;)

[@XLRBoss]

It's not a lie, being yourself 100% brings a lot of attraction. Even I was attracted to some, not-so attracted, women solely based on their overwhelming confidence.

[@AstralPandaBoi]

If I see a stupidly good looking girl that has put a lot of effort onto herself and how she looks. My first thoughts are not at all that she is Intelligent or wealthy. my first thoughts are that she is extremely shallow and doesn't have more substance other than her looks. That is just what I assume if a girl dresses up in some showing off with stupidly expensive looking clothing and other "gear" (that also gives off a vibe that she manages her money poorly) way and has clearly spent like 2 h doing makeup and trimming and what not.

[@gingerellacookiecookieguts273]

Astral Panda yeah some are probably like that but some are actually nice and just want to look attractive for you

[@digit4lflow476]

This is true... When I first started getting paid I spent all my money on a studio and never got new clothes. Then I started freshening up and out of nowhere I started noticing attention. I don't look the "flyest" in school, but I think showing I care a lot about my appearance gives off an attractive vibe... Lmk if anyone else experienced this?...

[@JMVExplained]

I have always hated this part of people. I decided to remove such people coming near by being normal and not adjusting to attract others but to look nice for myself (wear a bit of make-up). Sometimes it can't be helped, especially in school settings when other people would know how far up your are in academics. Due to this halo effect, I had one girl assume I was in a nice normal family, eating very well and taking care of myself. The truth is my dad is ill who can't work so minimum income, my mum looks after him where there is no time to spend on the kids and there was a lot of depression hanging around at the time so didn't eat well or maintain myself. Despite all the bad events with people, it makes great stories and would be thought provoking.

[@coolgirlraquel]

CHANGE WHO U ARE! CHANGE WHO U ARE!

[@sophiasmith8179]

How many dogs can I get with this?

[@johnnyblaime]

And I thought it was all about good looking shoes..Wow so im soled out..hehehehe

[@stella9283]

johnny blaime i

[@heavycurrent7462]

well can't blaime you

[@regalteratorn7115]

Back when I was in High School, I accidently used this theory and I made a girl I'd never even talked to before fall head over heels for me.