How to avoid a SITUATIONSHIP

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@dn6457 2 ай бұрын

1. You must become *very* intentional about your relationships 2. End and avoid any penpal situation 3. Dont invest emotionally or financially at the very beginning. Let them show you they’re worth investing in

@siratuzrashaik6206 6 ай бұрын

I love you bro, everything you have to say is truth bomb and exactly what gets women emotionally stuck and frustrated by the way their life has wasted.

@justme9352 6 ай бұрын

You are the master!! What you are doing for women is priceless!!! Every woman needs this.

@pynkladyjai 6 ай бұрын

Tomisin is on point. When you meet Mr. Right Now and you just want to have fun that's cool but when he becomes Mr. Not Anymore you have to be willing to walk away and not try to change him into Mr. Right. You have to go elsewhere and go find Mr. Right For You.

@Flower-v8w 6 ай бұрын

Yep, the same scumbags everywhere. No more delulu, and no more pen pals, thank you. 😊😊

@jessicahitchens6926 3 ай бұрын

Scumbags is an apt word. That's what I call them.

@angieh190 6 ай бұрын

Thanks T you just won so many browny points with me you will 4-ever be da man. I just ended a potential pen pal just now. I did exactly what you said i asked questions dudnt say much about me and observed his actions and came with s conclusion that this dude was a soon to be pen pal and thats NOT what i am looking for!

@psat21 6 ай бұрын

I’ve been in a pen pal situation 3 x with the same guy 😅😅😅 I ended it officially last week after 2 months of the same bullshit limbo state. It’s very low quality and now it’s completely put me off to being on the phone. Anyone that wants to stay on the phone all the time and not want to put the effort into meeting up in person is a huge red flag

@justmo2023 5 ай бұрын

Great video. Prayers and blessings to whoever reads this. I don't know what to do. After dealing with a narc a few months ago I'm totally shook. My anxiety was triggered when I had finally discovered my secure attachment style. Long story short I'm so scared to even smile and make eye contact with a man that shows interest

@oyungerelchuluunbaatar2756 3 ай бұрын

Just heal yourself even tho u cant stop being with him. One day u will be healed and wont care abt such ppl

@justmo2023 3 ай бұрын

@@oyungerelchuluunbaatar2756 update. The narc moved on around May I found someone in late July and I scared him away. I'm doing no contact to maybe win his affections back but yes I do need to heal

@khemaloving4031 2 ай бұрын

Fundamentally, only two things are needed to keep a relationship together and make it last: (1) you need to like someone enough to enjoy spending time around them when you’re not having sex and (2) you need to love someone enough to be ok with the parts of them you dislike… So, this basically means that liking them is more important than loving them.

@janeukraine 6 ай бұрын

So excited for today's live on pen pals!

@RobenAllen 3 ай бұрын

Very simple !

@jessicahitchens6926 3 ай бұрын

I find it irritating as fuck! I don't even like the validation, I can get it from myself. It's all word salad, time wasting and energy harvesting. Those men feed off you and want validation..

@Jillian15 6 ай бұрын

Holy crap, it Sucks!!! I hate it when YOU'RE RIGHT ✅️😒

@Rockyroadds 6 ай бұрын

So true… happened to me.. now I’m a players club memeber ! Haha. I was a pen pal.. and the whole fraud to get into my pants!

@LasBlackUnicrn 2 ай бұрын

Ms language app: he’s not into you 😅 he just wants to use the app for what it’s meant for 1:10:14 yo what tf be going on in the discord?! These ladies. 😵‍💫

@Anna_915 2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂.. just now I know that he just my " pen pal" 😂

@alchemicalsoul 5 ай бұрын

Learn the art of non attachment. Enjoy every moment. Life is paradoxically long and short. Find love within amd share it.

@melissalopata1141 3 ай бұрын

You can find Old school men in their 50s and 60s that get invested in women and date woman at a time and don’t turn into text buddies.

@smuccilicious 6 ай бұрын

🔥🔥🔥

@ashkash6849 6 ай бұрын

1:12:30 took me out bc I knew exactly where tht was going😂

@traceyniles8474 6 ай бұрын

Damnit I missed the live

@Tnc874 6 ай бұрын

Its ok. Its Monday thru Friday at 4pm so he will be back tomorrow

@dn6457 2 ай бұрын

54:10

@coolcat3452 5 ай бұрын

A lot of women put themselves in a grave danger & sleep with someone they barely know; it’s dangerous & reckless!!…at least date someone for 6 months enough to know who they are!!!!!…jeez!!!

@Roseberrylove 6 ай бұрын

Shortened version plss

@toneyfox6328 6 ай бұрын

No shirt versions, do the work n listen

@CherieChrist 6 ай бұрын

No, the long ones are good. He should decide the length. I hear the long ones at Gym, in car, during cooking or cleaning … you will find a way too :-)