Why IGNORING men makes you IRRESITIBLE

Relationship Advice & Dating Advice. Relationship Advice for women so you can understand love in the modern dating world. This is dating advice for women who are struggling to understand how a man thinks and what he wants from a woman in their relationships. I will also break down how to create desire in a relationship with a man so that he can chase after you and you can have the relationship you want! How to become an attractive person that attracts other high-quality potential romantic partners into your life. It's so important to understand that attraction doesn't just consist of your physical traits but there are also plenty of mental, spiritual, and energetic traits that also play a role in someone's attraction to you. How to position yourself in the right way in the modern dating world so you can have access to as many men as you want and build the relationship of your dreams. Not only do we discuss outward techniques and strategies but we also talk about many mindset changes that must take place for you to see real changes in your dating life. We discuss things like manifestation, the law of attraction, affirmations, and the law of assumptions as just a few of the many tools in your toolbox that will help you have the love life that you desire! There are also so many aspects to improving yourself and taking accountability that also play a role in getting the love you feel you deserve. We don't only focus on how to be better for men but we also learn how to be better for you. The better your life is, the more whole you are, the more confidence you will have, and the more attractive you will be to everyone around you. I will use my experiences in the dating world to help give you relationship advice and dating tips to get the type of love you seek!
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[@yudollia]

Agree with everything. Men require manipulation and ego hits to feel attraction. Listen to him yall .

[@marvimalik304]

Manipulation and ego hits for attraction??

[@yudollia]

@@marvimalik304 yep. The process is never simple because men typically learn and grow to want things (everything: women, things, etc) through PAIN, through CHALLENGE

[@KM-du1dk]

I can confirm this works. A guy became addicted to me because I ignored him and only replied to messages where he asked to meet me ❤

[@dilek8327]

so you could ignore him for days sometimes?

[@philippagrimoire5968]

It creates a chemical in them called Vassopressin.

[@aylaa4774]

I did this by accident, because of my attachment style Im very oblivious and in my own world when it comes to romantic interests. It was only recently I catched on to the fact that a man was obsessed with getting my attention and affection. But I havent changed I still ignore. Sometimes Im even mean because idc. But I think … He likes it. Cos in his head it’s like atleast I got her attention. Lol.

[@naaengmann2117]

omggg you are soo sooo soo underrated!!

[@user-gu2pb7km8f]

🎉don't chase. chasing is beneath u. dignity over everything! keep ur legs closed until marriage or at least engagement 💍 ring on ur finger ✋️, date set, venue deposit, invitations out & his family knows u. It helps weed out the losers, users & abusers much faster. ur always the prize. Never be his consolation prize. bloc/delete that grownboy.

[@AdrianAdrianTV]

I agree. Wait until you get the commitment level you want, because they will even give you a ring💍 just to have pineapples with you and still don't marry you. 🙄 Because, they can absolutely be that diabolical. 👹👈👀

[@user-gu2pb7km8f]

@@AdrianAdrianTV BINGO! sad 😔 but true: many grownboys are pure psycho/ evil 😈. they think, pump, dump, break her heart & on 2 the next 😢 is normal!!!

[@adaora5545]

@@AdrianAdrianTVif they’re willing to do all that just for s3x is it worth it ultimately? I mean, is he with you for you or your body parts & labor?

[@AdrianAdrianTV]

@adaora5545 I don't why men do what they do or how they think. 🤷😂 I guess you and me both should ask Tomisin... Good question tho💯✌️🥰

[@yiddena]

Amen!

[@Wooptyfregendoo]

I could be wrong, but I feel like this may work best during the getting to know/dating phase.

[@reesepooh00]

i did this in my 2 year relationship and it worked! i ignored him for 3 weeks and then i got the results i wanted . it works

[@Wooptyfregendoo]

@@reesepooh00Okaaaay! Congratulations sis🎉

[@ButterCookie1984]

​@@reesepooh00So it was a game...

[@ntokotoPM]

I think this can work on traumatized people. If I like a person and they do this, I bail and lose interest

[@ButterCookie1984]

I see what you mean. You're saying that it can't work on you because you are healthy, and healthy people do not sacrifice for validation from others. You know what? That's VERY deep and I will be thinking on that. Because you are right. It takes a person who isn't healed from trauma or has low self worth to work hard to seek approval, man or woman. So this 'game' is a method to detect a traumatized person, technically so that we can be chased. Damn...

[@BabyGirl-iw9xf]

Ignoring a man who pays your bills is not for the weak

[@TheArtOfLove]

Which is why you should always have money saved up.

[@Kellyub1]

Fr gotta have a back up plan😭

[@Iamsimplyfree]

😂

[@user-ue5mi8cz6m]

Lmao no fr!

[@coolcaleb7145]

@@TheArtOfLove

[@BabyGirl-iw9xf]

Make a video on no contact please!

[@tanisharichardson4049]

Lmao "i don't know why I said Janet Jackson!😅😅" ummm dont come for Janet now! 😂😂

[@msgs6850]

Exactly , wtf is he talking about !

[@itmebby]

The girl with the mom and the boyfriend and wanting to move an hour away .. if you see this and so hope you do.. it sounds like your mom could be a narcissist. The scenarios and the way you respond seems very much like narcissistic dynamics. I wanted to let you know I understand when you react and say outlandish things. A lot of people when they don’t know they are hearing a story of narcissistic dynamic will accidentally take the side of the abuser and shame the victim because they only see the reactive side. I just wanted to point out I hear you! I don’t want you to feel alone ❤️

[@MEEMEETHATCAT]

For some reasonm I be trying to watch something else. But soon i see this man face. I click. So that should tell all your something. Listen. Class time. I already subscribe.

[@MEEMEETHATCAT]

Thanks Meoww

[@The_Woof_Pack]

What if he is already insecure to the point he never goes up to women without them initiating first. How does this work with his insecurities?

[@mariaaaa1128]

Then he is not manly enough

[@Whoislala16]

He has videos on how to flirt but if that doesn't work just move on. It's not your job to help him.

[@The_Woof_Pack]

@@mariaaaa1128 maybe for you

[@The_Woof_Pack]

@@Whoislala16 I’d like to give it a shot first

[@maryanaking4743]

If that’s what you want to do and be masculine that’s on u if you want to be masculine than a man

[@kmalashenko]

I feel i already addicted of your lectures)))😅

[@user-pk4ee9od2i]

You def give nigerian uncle vibes, thank you! this is such great information, going to start applying this. im infamous for having penpals -_______-

[@THEDANILUCKSSHOW]

U ARE THE TRUTH

[@OlderWomenRock]

This is excellent advise The thing is my ex tried to get more access to Me When I finally gave it and became attached He flipped it He triggered my anxiety which lowered my self esteem He left twice . We don’t have contact . I’d love to have the chance to flip it back Right now His Ego would be on a high . I gave far too much validation Mind You I was being normal , I felt deeper feelings so obviously wanted to spend time with Him and show affection Still He decided He didn’t want the relationship

[@floxy1170]

How come?

[@CambriaFaith]

Loveeeee thisss🔥🔥🔥💖

[@19katsandcounting]

Sorry to the young lady with the dysfunctional parents. Please seek therapy for children of dysfunctional families / narcissistic parents / codependency so you can reparent yourself and mature in the way that will lead to success.

[@OlderWomenRock]

lol if I played along like you did here , a guy would think I was taking the piss ( joking at his expense )

[@WilliamCo-oy7ge]

LMAO we love when Tomison make fun 3:35 😅

[@enlightenednay]

You should fix where it doesn't let us see the chat replay after you went live 😩

[@pre_dplug709]

No

[@tatianawaters8703]

Can we talk about those guys that u don’t like in the beginning that are obessed with you until he gets you ?😤 lames

[@THEDANILUCKSSHOW]

Ughhhhh 😢

[@ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven]

Just seperate your heart from your mind.

[@SouthernSweetTee]

Okay, but how does this work in long distance? Of course, because you're so far apart you rely heavily on the phone and any means possible.

[@marvimalik304]

@@SouthernSweetTee my question exactly

[@isis8834]

the same way, especially if you don’t have the next dates planned to see each other…from experience in 6 months if that man ain’t trying to get you in the same city just forget about and date locally

[@SouthernSweetTee]

@isis8834 we'd already discussed the plan for relocation multiple times. And my relocation was partly dependent on the commitment. No commitment, no relocation.

[@viailien9105]

HELP: with the ignoring, is that meant as not opening his messages OR leaving him on read and not messaging back?

[@crypto2276]

❤

[@tf8187]

Please clip the videos or add chapters. Would be greatly appreciated.

[@jocelynescobar2683]

Do you have any tips on what kind of pictures to have on my social media? Like profile pic etc? :)

[@OlderWomenRock]

Ive not seen Tomisin answering comments which is unusual as its a small channel I’ve seen much bigger KZbinrs answer at least some questions As for profile photos not too sexy . Smiling is attractive

[@soccermommyNPC]

@@OlderWomenRockhe answers all the questions in the players club discord and sometimes in the live chat

[@Amylynnklh900]

I blocked him, I can look bothered. He’s married

[@philippagrimoire5968]

This is all understandable however…since men are all about the conquest…when he eventually ‘wins’ you and is given access the game is over. He’s got you. That’s the end game for men. Once they have us they revert to not being interested. Lose interest after a while then start looking for the new conquest 😂 Are we meant to sustain these manipulations for the entire relationship just so they stay and make an effort? That’s exhausting 😂

[@SueGoku]

25:34

[@aquastone5870]

#2

[@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes]

🌎🌎🥰🥰

[@angeliquexoxo4502]

What does 'sub' mean?

[@SouthernSweetTee]

Subscribe

[@angeliquexoxo4502]

@SouthernSweetTee soo when he mentioned 'subbing ' men,, he's referring to subscribing them? 🤔

[@annaguerra3040]

It means subliminal, like sub tweeting

[@llgrazes]

Ok some one give inside, met nice guy . He planned wonderful date, we talked for a week. Wonderful conversation one last night I missed her call and text this morning. I woke up to this text!!! you’re just my other ass you’re all alone lol good luck on your search😮😮😮 what the hell’s!!! say that I will totally ignore don’t wanna be bothered. Insight please😮

[@ButterCookie1984]

Is it a guy or a girl? Your post is confusing.

[@marvimalik304]

So how do we turn this around if we have been chasing 🫣?

[@Redd91ful]

not really. he’d probably temporarily seek you for an ego boost, but he/she will never really value you

[@jupiter1428]

ignore tf out of them girl. it works too good

[@liafienne4393]

By changing the person you chased 😂

[@marvimalik304]

@@liafienne4393 🤦🏻‍♀️….

[@marvimalik304]

@@Redd91ful that’s pretty unfair. It’s changing ourselves that’s the answer I feel