How to be confident (if you're an anxious mess).

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Kelly Stamps

Kelly Stamps

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@AwomKenneth
@AwomKenneth 3 жыл бұрын
Confidence is not "They will like me." Confidence is "I'll be fine if they don't."
@SaraPerez-kr2zq
@SaraPerez-kr2zq 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@ajohonly3721
@ajohonly3721 3 жыл бұрын
This comment 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾.
@meplosch3595
@meplosch3595 3 жыл бұрын
More like they will like me but I'll still be fine if they don't lol
@jalabi99
@jalabi99 3 жыл бұрын
That is a whole WORD right there
@abeltesfaye_
@abeltesfaye_ 3 жыл бұрын
Confidence is "I don't think about them at all"
@moonchildkath91
@moonchildkath91 3 жыл бұрын
"Nobody is thinking about you, so get over it." is seriously one of the most freeing and important lessons in life
@quasar4472
@quasar4472 3 жыл бұрын
this is how I gained confidence going to the gym after hearing a line similar - it really helps with a lot of things!
@LaurenLaass
@LaurenLaass 3 жыл бұрын
I think this way about social media and people who try soooo hard to take good pictures. NO ONE CARES. Everyone is too invested in what other people think.
@paydaywithstacirae
@paydaywithstacirae 3 жыл бұрын
Yep. I tell people this all the time. It amazes me some of the things people worry about...
@alext3480
@alext3480 3 жыл бұрын
ppl in hs were thinking about me
@justmonihere
@justmonihere 3 жыл бұрын
@@alext3480 This deserves more likes.
@MelitaRichardson
@MelitaRichardson 3 жыл бұрын
“If you continue to act like second place, people will treat you just like that”. -Kelly Stamps, PHD
@MayWonder
@MayWonder 3 жыл бұрын
This was my fave too!
@JulianSteve
@JulianSteve 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly👏🏾🔥‼️
@grahamcrackerjay
@grahamcrackerjay 3 жыл бұрын
💯
@helenatube
@helenatube 3 жыл бұрын
Underrated gem of wisdom right here!
@oodlesofartdoodles
@oodlesofartdoodles 3 жыл бұрын
THIS!
@BrittanyVenti
@BrittanyVenti 3 жыл бұрын
Me watching intro: ....go on.
@bodybalancer
@bodybalancer 3 жыл бұрын
Lol right? ‘I feel personally attacked’ 😂
@fullmetaltheorist
@fullmetaltheorist 3 жыл бұрын
You're here
@alternativeatom6337
@alternativeatom6337 3 жыл бұрын
Is...is that really you
@SaraPerez-kr2zq
@SaraPerez-kr2zq 3 жыл бұрын
Sameeee 😂😂😂
@itstatilol4392
@itstatilol4392 3 жыл бұрын
Hahahah
@KellyStamps
@KellyStamps 3 жыл бұрын
I hope you find a good therapist and you two will stick together like my struggle bangs and eyelash extensions.
@ninam.9495
@ninam.9495 3 жыл бұрын
the true power couple
@GillianMulholland
@GillianMulholland 3 жыл бұрын
hahaha
@thecreolegriot5151
@thecreolegriot5151 3 жыл бұрын
Lol hair still laid tho 😍✨
@floridagirltalk
@floridagirltalk 3 жыл бұрын
LoL I freakin LOVE YOU!!!!
@SistahPunkStudios
@SistahPunkStudios 3 жыл бұрын
lmfao jesus i kept wondering what is going on here lmfao
@Sara_taylork
@Sara_taylork 3 жыл бұрын
No one: Kelly’s bangs when she blinks: 💃🏻🕺🏽💃🏻🕺🏽💃🏻🕺🏽💃🏻🕺🏽
@TimoteoDeBaum
@TimoteoDeBaum 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😭😭 but also 😍😍
@wildmattzz
@wildmattzz 3 жыл бұрын
👌
@FashionbyNyla
@FashionbyNyla 3 жыл бұрын
IM YELLINGGGGG
@gaonetlou8576
@gaonetlou8576 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@reesemonique
@reesemonique 3 жыл бұрын
sammmeeee 💥
@DolceVents
@DolceVents 3 жыл бұрын
TIP: Watch what you say about yourself TO yourself-- Instead of saying “ I suck at math”, you can say “I’m working on getting better in math” . Or instead of saying “ugh I have anger issues”, you can try saying “ I’m getting better at managing my temper”... You’re not lying, you’re just speaking towards your goals. Simple swaps like that make you feel better about yourself overall. Great job Stamps!
@GayTiktok
@GayTiktok 3 жыл бұрын
What if I’m bad at math but I’m not working on getting better at it?
@DolceVents
@DolceVents 3 жыл бұрын
@@GayTiktok then you highlight a subject you like better... “I’m more of an English person” the point is, you don’t have to say anything negative about yourself in the process
@mstwelvedeadlycyns
@mstwelvedeadlycyns 3 жыл бұрын
Very true words. Never mind the haters!
@istanthings8504
@istanthings8504 3 жыл бұрын
"Everyone has a season, and it's just not your season." Kelly dropping all these BOPS.
@iamBlackGambit
@iamBlackGambit 3 жыл бұрын
No everyone has a season..yours will come when its time.
@TaitsTake
@TaitsTake 3 жыл бұрын
It’s true that we think people are paying way more attention to us than they actually are. Especially in NYC. People got shit to do.
@sophiayuna
@sophiayuna 3 жыл бұрын
AGREED
@Ray-pp5qb
@Ray-pp5qb 3 жыл бұрын
I'm in NYC and feel like I have maximum privacy in public and otherwise. Literally, no one gives af about you here. I love it.
@SOULarLioness
@SOULarLioness 3 жыл бұрын
I think this is because...I pay such close attention to EVERYBODY and EVERYTHING...so I assume everyone does that too
@a1eyaaaaaaaaa
@a1eyaaaaaaaaa 3 жыл бұрын
this is so true!! NYC represent
@reinasanchez1718
@reinasanchez1718 3 жыл бұрын
But you are watched in NYC 😂😂
@AppleTrack
@AppleTrack 3 жыл бұрын
The algorithm really just hit me with this at 8am
@Vee_K96
@Vee_K96 3 жыл бұрын
It's 8.43 in my country now
@adeolareid1536
@adeolareid1536 3 жыл бұрын
@Wiktoria Kalkait's 2:30 in my country
@Mieleous
@Mieleous 3 жыл бұрын
Wow it would have been 6pm for me - so crazy how people have different time zones are!
@JulianSteve
@JulianSteve 3 жыл бұрын
It’s 2:39PM at my side of the U.S. 🙌🏾‼️
@endalemase2045
@endalemase2045 3 жыл бұрын
You are wander full
@HIXHAM
@HIXHAM 3 жыл бұрын
Confidence is when you believe in yourself and your abilities arrogance is when you think you are better than others and act accordingly
@ajohonly3721
@ajohonly3721 3 жыл бұрын
Correct
@msdeedaartist6385
@msdeedaartist6385 3 жыл бұрын
You only arrogant when folks don't understand you or want to see you losing like they are!!!
@BusDriverLife
@BusDriverLife 3 жыл бұрын
💯
@annarose2439
@annarose2439 3 жыл бұрын
Why are you everywhere?.lol
@blaquephyrekendra1779
@blaquephyrekendra1779 3 жыл бұрын
There is a ven diagram where these overlap
@novadieu7820
@novadieu7820 3 жыл бұрын
"quiet confidence" is a motto, phrase i live by. finally someone has spoken up about it! i think it is the most effective personality statement you could make about yourself, without overdoing it (particularly if you're an introvert)~
@MooreJessicaPlease
@MooreJessicaPlease 3 жыл бұрын
“You is smart, you is kind, you is important”
@suzanne6562
@suzanne6562 3 жыл бұрын
YES!
@itsyellama3595
@itsyellama3595 3 жыл бұрын
That is one of the greatest quotes ever
@MooreJessicaPlease
@MooreJessicaPlease 3 жыл бұрын
@@itsyellama3595 yes! It is!
@mewmew6158
@mewmew6158 3 жыл бұрын
😭😩that quote breaks my heart every time
@7barsofchocolate
@7barsofchocolate 3 жыл бұрын
wait where’s this quote from??
@natasha03.
@natasha03. 3 жыл бұрын
I take comfort in the fact that literally no one is perfect and we're all working on ourselves constantly.
@MelitaRichardson
@MelitaRichardson 3 жыл бұрын
I like how she picks sponsors that are appropriate for her audience. This is a necessary post!
@KellyStamps
@KellyStamps 3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you liked this one! I fired my managers and I'm doing less ads, but the ads I do pick actually relate to this channel theme. I've had a good experience with Better Help so far. I had to change therapists bc the first guy seemed like he had somewhere better to be lmao. My new lady is great. Edit: Well I did three total this month, but now I don't have to do any more for a long time.
@LetThereBeLight1111
@LetThereBeLight1111 3 жыл бұрын
@@KellyStamps I love that you actually use their services, and you’re not just selling it to us because you can 🥰🥰
@ninjabreadgirl
@ninjabreadgirl 3 жыл бұрын
@@KellyStamps daaaamn you fired your managers! Good for you Kelly!!! You are so strong
@itsbriiiyahhh
@itsbriiiyahhh 3 жыл бұрын
Not “dusty-needy syndrome” 🤣🤣 that is so true tho. Nobody is thinking of you so you really have to stop being a victim. Say your morning affirmations everyone and be confident and know that you really are a 10 and you do look good. Work on your self care self love this year. “I am confident” “I am beautiful” “I am happy” ❤️
@IshaSharma11
@IshaSharma11 3 жыл бұрын
❤❤
@babygirlaleeza6421
@babygirlaleeza6421 3 жыл бұрын
Watching this with my 2 year old. Kelly: "Are you insecure?" Him: "noooo" LMFAO
@ChiFamadico
@ChiFamadico 3 жыл бұрын
He really had to flex on us like that 😂
@KellyStamps
@KellyStamps 3 жыл бұрын
HAHA
@ajohonly3721
@ajohonly3721 3 жыл бұрын
Good boy high five 👋 baby
@Brainhoneywalker
@Brainhoneywalker 3 жыл бұрын
From the mouth of babes ...🤣💝
@Ntjitube
@Ntjitube 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@laurynsnook9211
@laurynsnook9211 3 жыл бұрын
So true, the self deprecating humor is just getting uncomfortable at this point. It's almost like they are fishing for someone to say "no you're not, you're beautiful", but it just comes off cringey.
@helenatube
@helenatube 3 жыл бұрын
it's like a humble brag, like "oh hey i'm not only beautiful but i'm gonna go on about how i'm not"
@leaderoftaehyungnation9766
@leaderoftaehyungnation9766 3 жыл бұрын
i wouldn’t say fishing for compliments but it just makes everyone around them feel weird and uncomfortable too.. n then the people around feel the need to over-compliment them to make up for it 😭
@lmaoaims
@lmaoaims 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly 🥺
@deborroni
@deborroni 3 жыл бұрын
It's not humor if you actually believe it tho 😓😓. I seriously wish I was joking when I say that I'm an idiot 🤧
@floorwitch5376
@floorwitch5376 3 жыл бұрын
It can be a good way to cope. I wouldn't knock it.
@TotallyLearning
@TotallyLearning 3 жыл бұрын
No one called me a solide five before and still made me smile :3
@brittanyallenpizano6149
@brittanyallenpizano6149 3 жыл бұрын
Perfection as always, professora Stamps.
@sagejunkie7089
@sagejunkie7089 3 жыл бұрын
Ha see I didn’t even consider it may be out of 10 lol
@07rumsfelt46
@07rumsfelt46 3 жыл бұрын
Kelly: “You are a solid 5” Me: “Out of 10?”
@janedoll3237
@janedoll3237 3 жыл бұрын
Statistically probably lol
@skittlesngummies
@skittlesngummies 3 жыл бұрын
No out of 5. That's the new scale
@LEI-b7m
@LEI-b7m 3 жыл бұрын
@@skittlesngummies Yes!
@meiguang9240
@meiguang9240 3 жыл бұрын
@@skittlesngummies yes gonna use that scale often now
@addisonridermusic
@addisonridermusic 3 жыл бұрын
That's how I took it, but honestly ... I kinda liked it that way?? I'd rather have someone close to me bluntly tell me I'm a five (with kindness and good intent of course) so that I could be aware of what I actually have and learn to make the most of it, rather than always feel dysmorphic and confused, pretending I'm an eight or nine when I'm actually not and no one has the guts to tell me. There's a beauty in accepting yourself as you are and making the most of what you do have. And in the end, the confidence fills in the gap of those missing higher numbers. Better a five than a zero!
@hannahevans8702
@hannahevans8702 3 жыл бұрын
my motto for myself this year is “no one cares” and it is changing my life tbh! I’m so free!
@user-ez2ez3dd4g
@user-ez2ez3dd4g 3 жыл бұрын
I hope to reach this mindset someday soon*sigh
@XGuessX5
@XGuessX5 3 жыл бұрын
Same. I used to care so much about what my followers and friends think of my pictures posted on instagram. I was craving for likes. So now fuxk Everybody I'm gonna live for myself
@samairamalik3404
@samairamalik3404 3 жыл бұрын
@@XGuessX5 OMG LOVE THAT FOR UU how do u do that tho! i want to start a channel, post on Instagram but I'm just too scared that others will make fun of me
@ChrissyZayas
@ChrissyZayas 3 жыл бұрын
“If you continue to act like 2nd place, people will treat you just like that.” Stampede University is the best! I always learn something.
@PortraitofAsha
@PortraitofAsha 3 жыл бұрын
Was skinny my whole life...finally came into my own and started truly loving my body and dressing in a way that flattered my shape, I even updated my wardrobe to suit...then God was like 'bish you thought!'...and gave me 20+ pounds extra...now I gotta learn to dress and appreciate my new body. Issa lifelong challenge
@KellyStamps
@KellyStamps 3 жыл бұрын
very important comment!
@maiamaiapapaya
@maiamaiapapaya 3 жыл бұрын
"You are blessing people by getting out of bed, putting in effort, and showing up somewhere"
@EashanKotha
@EashanKotha 3 жыл бұрын
Dusty-Needy symptom is a real thing btw, trust me, I’m a neurobiologist. It took me a whole to shift the neural patterns in my brain to be more confident and avoid DUSTY NEEDY syndrome. Edit: Going to make a video looking at the Neuroscience of confidence on my channel. Thanks for the inspo
@EashanKotha
@EashanKotha 3 жыл бұрын
Oh, and for anyone reading this let me remind you about what Kanye West and Kim Kardashian said when they were asked to rate their attractiveness on a scale of 1 to 10. Both said 10 without hesitation and people laughed but that’s the kind of energy we need more of (not in the narcissistic way tho)
@EashanKotha
@EashanKotha 3 жыл бұрын
@wolf masque That’s fair, lol My overall point is more along the lines of “confidence partially stems from identity.” If you identify as a confident person, it becomes easier to act like one. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@helenatube
@helenatube 3 жыл бұрын
When you're successful and don't need to take shit from anyone, you can get away with calling yourself a 10. Ordinary people have to be more careful because of how others will perceive them, and how that will affect them. This is why I avoid comparison with celebrities. They're being gauged differently.
@EashanKotha
@EashanKotha 3 жыл бұрын
@@helenatube My counter is that people will perceive you however they want. It doesn’t matter if you’re a celebrity or not lol. Celebs get much more public scrutiny. A 10 is always subjective, so I don’t think ordinary people exist-just people who believe themselves to be.
@EashanKotha
@EashanKotha 3 жыл бұрын
@wolf masque ?
@kozykasmr
@kozykasmr 3 жыл бұрын
The “They can’t FAKE it and then they will never MAKE it!” had me cryingggggg😂😂😂
@nappykite1957
@nappykite1957 3 жыл бұрын
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@jjxmahal
@jjxmahal 3 жыл бұрын
It's like her bangs and eyelash extensions have a mind of their own, like she grew a pair of wings on her face. I love it.
@Mrsyannaa
@Mrsyannaa 3 жыл бұрын
Uhhhh
@BlackfoxCritterGlitter
@BlackfoxCritterGlitter 3 жыл бұрын
Quarantine/the lockdown did wonders for my self-esteem. I discovered that once removed from the influence of the a-holes that were around me, my confidence grew. I guess social seclusion is my jam. Or I just needed to learn how to be unbothered by others.
@Machelle3200
@Machelle3200 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly..Like the saying goes.."Before you diagnose yourself with depression, make sure you aren't infact surrounded by assholes." Life is so much better with out the assholes..Aka Narcs..And Quarantine was a Blessing for good hearted people..It was a chance to finally escape the demons.
@BlackfoxCritterGlitter
@BlackfoxCritterGlitter 3 жыл бұрын
Senait Ashenafi Well said!
@SophiaCapote
@SophiaCapote 3 жыл бұрын
Truth. Everyone has problems, life is just trading one set of problems for another set of problems. No one has it perfect.
@ArtCreamProject
@ArtCreamProject 3 жыл бұрын
"You are blessing people by getting out of bed putting an effort and showing up somewhere" 🙌
@shivangsethi4130
@shivangsethi4130 3 жыл бұрын
I think what I don’t like about “fake it till you make it” is the whole idea of “faking it”. I just didn’t like the idea of faking anything or feel like I’m lying or hiding lack of competence - it feels gross/entitled to me. What worked for me was actually just accepting that I’m not “there” yet but I’m working on it and doing what I have to do to get there so just put in the work - and recognize that EVERYBODY STARTS SOMEWHERE. I became confident in being an amateur rather than feeling under-confident that I wasn’t an expert yet.
@spookyho94
@spookyho94 3 жыл бұрын
I respect this.
@shivangsethi4130
@shivangsethi4130 3 жыл бұрын
@@spookyho94 thanks :)
@jaimelovemac88
@jaimelovemac88 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 40 years old and I've spent my entire life hating myself. Absolutely loathing my own existence. Up until about 2 years ago. When I decided shit needed to change. I'm a work in progress and it takes constant daily sometimes HOURLY work on myself. Reminding myself that I'm good. And that I'm enough and that I deserve kindness and love. Don't wait as long as I have. Take Kelly's advice and start NOW. Because it's necessary. It's vital. I promise things will get better. Thanks Kelly. You are a beautiful soul. 💜💙💚💛❤🖤😘⏳✌
@gracesimplified3860
@gracesimplified3860 3 жыл бұрын
“As a rule a man’s a fool. When it’s hot he wants it cool. When it’s cool he wants it hot. Always wanting what is not”
@ShawnaNoDrama
@ShawnaNoDrama 3 жыл бұрын
Love this
@sarahb5465
@sarahb5465 3 жыл бұрын
One thing that really helped me with my confidence is the fact that I forget every thing embarrassing the people around me have done(unless it's someone really close to me,and even then they would have to remind me), but I always end up remembering my embarrassing moments. And that's the thing, you're not the center of the world, and literally NO ONE CARES! And that's why now I rarely consider anything I do cringy or awkward because then you're just bullying yourself for nothing! And I swear owning up to everything you do good or bad is the best way to earn people's respect .I could talk more about this but this comment would be waaaay too long. But trust me, I've come a long way from someone who could barely talk to new people to now being able to have a full on conversation with an audience of 600+ people.
@Je.rone_
@Je.rone_ 3 жыл бұрын
Confidence comes from prepared for anything what life may throw at you financially Emotionally Intellectually Physically
@BellaMecia
@BellaMecia 3 жыл бұрын
Your bangs are giving me life, so beautiful😍
@NoktakkVT
@NoktakkVT 3 жыл бұрын
"Watch the ads, because I like money" Truer words have never been spoken
@d.s_alan
@d.s_alan 3 жыл бұрын
"If you continue to act like second place, people will treat you as such". Word for 2021. Thanks Kelly Stamps
@HIXHAM
@HIXHAM 3 жыл бұрын
When you have confidence, you can have a lot of fun. And when you have fun, you can do amazing things 💫❤️
@steamdecknation7908
@steamdecknation7908 3 жыл бұрын
I like you. Thanks for the great comments
@cayce3921
@cayce3921 3 жыл бұрын
“Your palms are open bc you’re about to grab that money”🤣 yes girl
@HIXHAM
@HIXHAM 3 жыл бұрын
“Always be yourself and have faith in yourself. Do not go out and look for a successful personality and try to duplicate it.” - Bruce Lee
@SharongudaRN-BsN
@SharongudaRN-BsN 3 жыл бұрын
Woow
@flybynjght2324
@flybynjght2324 3 жыл бұрын
“If you continue to act like 2nd place, people will treat you just like that” damn I really needed to hear that
@maijennasis
@maijennasis 3 жыл бұрын
“If you continue to act like second place, people will treat you just like that” come on Reverend Stamps!!👏🏾
@imani0nline
@imani0nline 3 жыл бұрын
Confidence is employing yourself as your own ✨full time hype man ✨
@SumitraMashette
@SumitraMashette 3 жыл бұрын
"Honey, you are blessing these viewers with your presence. Have some confidence" Wow! Thank you👍 “All you need in this life is ignorance and confidence, and then success is sure"
@annastayziaa
@annastayziaa 3 жыл бұрын
I love this♥️ I really like the part where you say if you act like second place people will treat you like it. 🌹 I know there are people like this and it’s a good reminder.
@ninam.9495
@ninam.9495 3 жыл бұрын
Always here for Kelly’s advice videos✨✨✨
@dejajetartison
@dejajetartison 3 жыл бұрын
"If you continue to act like second place, people will treat you just like that" PREACH PROFESSOR STAMPS!!!!
@okellie
@okellie 3 жыл бұрын
you’re an oracle professor stamps i am trynna hype myself up to make a phone call 😭
@victoria-sn8hl
@victoria-sn8hl 3 жыл бұрын
haha same also i love your videos keep going :)
@KellyStamps
@KellyStamps 3 жыл бұрын
HULLO ELLIE
@RobbyForShort
@RobbyForShort 3 жыл бұрын
Kelly’s lashes are so long, they morphed with her struggle bangs!
@teebstarot
@teebstarot 3 жыл бұрын
I personally think it’s a great union 😂 the confidence of the struggle bang and “I ain’t going nowhere” attitude of the lashes really balance each other out
@Kougaon
@Kougaon 3 жыл бұрын
"You are a solid five" KELLY WHY
@KellyStamps
@KellyStamps 3 жыл бұрын
South Park episode reference HAHA
@SharongudaRN-BsN
@SharongudaRN-BsN 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@brandonllaoo
@brandonllaoo 3 жыл бұрын
OUT OF 5!
@RG-pk5it
@RG-pk5it 3 жыл бұрын
skrrrrrrrrrrrrr
@tomfoolery342
@tomfoolery342 3 жыл бұрын
I'm in love with the way you speak. It's the epitome of efficiency, only moving your lips as much as possible. You only separate your teeth only when necessary, no wasted movement.
@UniceLiu
@UniceLiu 3 жыл бұрын
no better teacher for this than ms professor stamps herself.
@TheNinjapancake14
@TheNinjapancake14 3 жыл бұрын
Someone give her a Silver Apple Award
@Mieleous
@Mieleous 3 жыл бұрын
But she didn’t listen, she stormed out. Literally how I deal with every problem in life
@KellyStamps
@KellyStamps 3 жыл бұрын
You and Gwen need to STAY FOR MY WHOLE SESSION NEXT TIME. YOU KNOW WE HAVE A STRICT NO REFUND POLICY AT THE PSYCHIATRIC OFFICES OF STAMP AND STAMP.
@Mieleous
@Mieleous 3 жыл бұрын
We're always the best kind of customers because we come back for double sessions 😅😂 (Side note, replying with the upmost confidence with my reply to kelly flipping stamps 😅)
@nappykite1957
@nappykite1957 3 жыл бұрын
Shali ballun ; yes Im all into your last question.
@BrunaClaas
@BrunaClaas 3 жыл бұрын
Way to go talking about a sensitive topic in a fun and lighthearted way ❤️
@serinaelizabeth4126
@serinaelizabeth4126 3 жыл бұрын
I like you’re way of BEING. You just don’t give a hootin’ nanny what ppl think, PERIODT. A main ingredient of life.
@Plantje1999
@Plantje1999 3 жыл бұрын
''You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, smarter than you think and loved more than you'll ever know''. -A.A Milne (from Winnie the Pooh)
@eveningbliss8499
@eveningbliss8499 3 жыл бұрын
"If you continue to act 2nd place, people will treat you just like that" a message from the gods. Thanks!
@brittiniroye6732
@brittiniroye6732 3 жыл бұрын
"If you continue to act like second place, people will treat you just like that." I felt that. Thank you.
@JulianSteve
@JulianSteve 3 жыл бұрын
@8:30 mark you are right. I mean, everything you said is great advice, but @8:30 got me. Confidence is key, especially on KZbin. If you doubt yourself in majority of your videos, people will see it and may get turn off by your vibe. Thank you for the BetterHelp plug and video Kelly😎🔌
@KoganeKeith
@KoganeKeith 3 жыл бұрын
Girl Ive just decided to start up my channel again and this has literally been one of the biggest reasons why I kept on holding myself back for so long, thank you so much queen 🔥
@KoganeKeith
@KoganeKeith 3 жыл бұрын
@@imafidonrebeccaisi675 bless you angel 🥺
@irakibernice7833
@irakibernice7833 3 жыл бұрын
You don't know how many little girls you inspire all over the world...Kelly Stamps you're a straight G and don't forget it.
@JamesVSCinema
@JamesVSCinema 3 жыл бұрын
Haven’t been this early in a minute! Times have changed, and I’m still loving your videos. 🙏🏽
@lizr.g6925
@lizr.g6925 3 жыл бұрын
YOU KNOW WHAT I LOVE BEST ABOUT BEING ALONE.. IS GOING SHOPPING 🛍 ANYWHERE I JUST LOVE IT !!!
@BlakeL623
@BlakeL623 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, the title really spoke to me. I am seated and ready to be enlightened.
@user-ey6fo9kn1j
@user-ey6fo9kn1j 3 жыл бұрын
kelly stamps has cured all my insecurities and self hate...WATCHING THIS VIDEO SOLVE ALL OF THE WORLD PROBLEMS...super kelllyyyy
@aurelietutu
@aurelietutu 3 жыл бұрын
"stop playing victim cause you're real cute inside and out" - dr. stamps 2021 SAY IT LOUDER!!! but forreal i love your confidence it makes me feel confident too :')
@ariannabasha9316
@ariannabasha9316 Жыл бұрын
Look at this KZbin community on this channel, it’s on fire with positivity and love 🎉
@irises3724
@irises3724 3 жыл бұрын
Lord knows we needed this. Love from a new subscriber❤️❤️❤️
@TheFilmLocker
@TheFilmLocker 3 жыл бұрын
Some people may think ‘success’ is the pinnacle. But it means nothing if you aren’t at peace. Nice to see you doing positive work with yourself Kelly. 😊🙏🏾
@evaistheway
@evaistheway 3 жыл бұрын
“You are blessing people with your presence” - Dr. Kelly Stamps
@CitizenEdge
@CitizenEdge 3 жыл бұрын
Kelly Stamps has improved my self confidence and therefore I have found the meaning of LIFE!!!
@positiveartist3989
@positiveartist3989 3 жыл бұрын
That intro though 😭😭 I love you so much ♡︎♡︎
@mooominpapa
@mooominpapa 3 жыл бұрын
LOVING THE MANY UPLOADS!!!! You make this grandma's day better when everything outside is closed.
@biafelix2100
@biafelix2100 3 жыл бұрын
A 10-minute video of Dr. Stamps is worth a whole semester of Harvard. And we have this class for FREE
@zendiya1895
@zendiya1895 3 жыл бұрын
The lighting and clean set up at the beginning was so refreshing!!!!! Thanks for the mental health plug 🔌
@aiaaalkubaisy9331
@aiaaalkubaisy9331 3 жыл бұрын
My day is always made better with a lil bit of Kelly Stamps 💕
@agoj925
@agoj925 3 жыл бұрын
I swear Kelly is always on time with her classes. The constant struggle of making a whole ass scenario in my mind of what people think of me. Listen , people really don't care
@espressomartiniprincess
@espressomartiniprincess 3 жыл бұрын
Gotta immediately click when Kelly posts its a law
@RossyDourado
@RossyDourado 3 жыл бұрын
Ikrrr.... Same.. I clicked so quickly
@RossyDourado
@RossyDourado 3 жыл бұрын
Even when I have My Physics Exams tomorrow 🤣🤣🤣
@TheNinjapancake14
@TheNinjapancake14 3 жыл бұрын
@@RossyDourado good luck on your exam tomorrow! 💕
@RossyDourado
@RossyDourado 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheNinjapancake14 aww. Thankkk youu soo mucchhh.. You two have an amazing day ahead, beautiful😘😍..
@digitaldrea
@digitaldrea 3 жыл бұрын
I clicked so quickly and I’m on the toilet... lmao
@breathinontotorosbelly
@breathinontotorosbelly 3 жыл бұрын
i am working on my catastrophing anxiety and every day i feel more safe about it. it‘s gone more and more every day. so grateful to be able to work on my mental health!
@curtiscentury5363
@curtiscentury5363 3 жыл бұрын
“Nobody is thinking about you” FACTS lmao I just made a vid about confidence love your vids
@ajl2232
@ajl2232 3 жыл бұрын
Tell that to those who experience racism.
@gabrianabrown16
@gabrianabrown16 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of myself for watching a four minute ad , i only watch the ads for like four other youtubers, i love you Professor. Stamps GET DAT MONEYYYYY.
@LifeEllen
@LifeEllen 3 жыл бұрын
Me: I don't like the way I look Kelly: You're a solid 5! Me: Shut up everyone I'm a solid 5!
@Foxarocious
@Foxarocious 3 жыл бұрын
The tips here are on point! Like... uncomfortably so! But you eventually gotta get uncomfortable to get what you need, want and DESERVE as a human. I put myself in second place all during my teen and young adulthood and a highly emotional situation happened with disloyal people I thought were friends and family members where they took my trust for granted. I mostly disappeared from public life for about 3 years to work on my emotional health and my creative skills and somewhere in that development, I realized I was THE SHIT because I could change my personal reality on my own terms whenever I wanted for the most part. I just had to stop worrying about other people's perception of me. Becoming cognizant of your true potential is one of the most powerful first steps you can take! Second step is to act...SO DO DAT
@noelwoodford9505
@noelwoodford9505 3 жыл бұрын
Kelly Stamps replacing the need for daily horoscope advice
@MalluStyleMultiMedia
@MalluStyleMultiMedia 3 жыл бұрын
I didn’t watch it to get help ..just loves your acting and openness.. you put all the emotions together in a blender and make it an excellent video, as always ..
@MelitaRichardson
@MelitaRichardson 3 жыл бұрын
I love how the Plaque is her clipboard.
@ashmosphere
@ashmosphere 3 жыл бұрын
a couple years ago, i realized that lack of self confidence held me back from accomplishing things because i’d always stop and listen to my self doubt. then i got mad bc it was taking up too much of my time and i got impatient and realized confidence and independence would actually help me move on in life!!
@portiajohnson1576
@portiajohnson1576 3 жыл бұрын
POSTING TWICE IN A WEEK?!?! QUEEN 👑
@Chanblos
@Chanblos 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! I hate it when people apologize for their appearance/existing. You don’t have to apologize for being a person ♥️♥️
@voltaireavendanoiii4946
@voltaireavendanoiii4946 3 жыл бұрын
"If you continue to act like second place, people will treat you just like that." I'm getting this tattooed on my chest. Thanks, Professor Stamps!
@ericmanuel3789
@ericmanuel3789 3 жыл бұрын
A second video in the same week! Gee thanks for calling me out early in the video I haven't even had my coffee yet. Anyways after reading a bunch of books early on this year there's one quote that really resonated with me, "If you put a small value upon yourself, rest assure the world will not raise your price." You're a person of high value, honnnneey, you're a Chanel or Hermes whatever your mantra is.
@averypearl
@averypearl 3 жыл бұрын
petition for kelly to become an actual therapist 😌😌 i love this sm AHAHAH i love how the mood is all jokes but this is actually so helpful - avery pearl films :))
@charnaecreates4436
@charnaecreates4436 3 жыл бұрын
Because of Kelly I started to get my life together and made a channel of my journey to creating a better life.
@xanderkerber
@xanderkerber 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve learned more from this KZbin channel than my combined 12 years of public American education (don’t know if that’s saying much but still)
@dagogouranta5583
@dagogouranta5583 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve had DNS for 7 years now , thankfully I found this channel , now my recovery process is close to completion. Thanks Dr.Stamps !
@missshae6145
@missshae6145 3 жыл бұрын
I need a T-shirt that says “I’m a solid five”
@justmonihere
@justmonihere 3 жыл бұрын
This deserves more likes.
@TheJungleHaven
@TheJungleHaven 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my GOOOOODNESS you are such a genius. I just love everything you put out. Your sense of humour kills me, but never takes away from the message 🙏😂💚
@chiomareginald_
@chiomareginald_ 3 жыл бұрын
“If you continue to act like second place, people will treat you like that “ Kelly stamps 2021
@EpicKate
@EpicKate 3 жыл бұрын
When you said that thing about blessing people with my presence, I got tears in my eyes. I wasn't expecting that. Thank you for this thoughtful and heartfelt video.
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