THIS VIDEO WILL MAKE YOU CONFIDENT

[@mitaganguly3948]

Watched my 85 year old mom exhibit quiet confidence in everything good/bad that she's had to go thru over the years. Concluded that in the worst/best of times she steadfastly showed up for herself...wether it was losing a child or getting a high promotion at work. She made her bed every morning and tied her braid every night no matter what. She ate her sprouts and walked her mile no matter what. She showed herself in a zillion little ways everyday that she mattered. She lives alone, everybody having died or moved away...still makes her bed and ties her braid....and grows her own sprouts and gloats over them when I call every morning. Confident in the quiet self respect her creation deserves...not even trying...just being.

[@msalexxa2012]

❤

[@tiatriplethreat16]

that was beautifully spoken 💕

[@jasminet3419]

This is a beautiful example, thanks for sharing!

[@michaelharris871]

she should heal her very very deep wounds shes not even aware of!its going to be very very difficult!shes lost!just repeating what she read in books! Fake! shes too self centered to know anything about life

[@knowsygirl]

This is so beautiful! I wonder whether she feels loneliness.

[@ayand.3174]

I’m a Somali woman, born in Saudi Arabia to a devout Muslim family, who in 1990 ended seeking political asylum in the EU after the Somali civil war at the age of 13, with my mother and two younger sisters. Our dad left us when I was 5 y/o and since then, all I recall is being the man of the house. I went to the best European colleges to study international conflict resolution, and eventually went to a prestigious US postgraduate institution with a full ride scholarship to complete a Masters Degree in International Affairs. I hold multiple degrees, speak 7 languages, been a foreign Service officer for many years, but had a very rough marital life because I had no understanding of all these attachment styles, feminine/masculine energy and the importance of growing my emotional intelligence, in addition to my spiritual, intelectual and physical intelligence as a wholesome being. I’m grateful for your videos. Keep up the good work. ❤

[@IvonaFlakus]

What an inspiring story! You are ah-mazing! Keep thriving! Keep going! Thank you for sharing your story with us! 💖

[@Moonstonee212]

#1 12:26 consistent growth abt a goal 3:40 confidence come from #2 self acceptance #3 6:20 reliable and committed to yourself. Stop breaking promises to yourself #4 vulnerability 7:58 you don't have the best at everything.

[@Fonch117]

Calm. In control. Experienced. Detached. And fearless. The key to truly being fearless is being at peace with everything... even your own death. Especially your own death. The death of yourself and even the closest one you love. You need to know deep down inside that no matter how hard it gets you will be able to endure any pain and loss and push forward straight through... to the end. That is what it means to have TRUE STRENGTH. And there is no true confidence without true strength. That is all.

[@skyedavidson3280]

Absolutely killing it with this content, Margarita.

[@Kingholloween]

🍸

[@user-mn9qp8iu7h]

Concur. Sage advice from someone so young. But then. Out of the mouths of babes 🥰

[@ghostwriter1415]

skye, what kind of language is, "killing it"?

[@ghostwriter1415]

sounds Amenglish?

[@thunderpooch]

​@@ghostwriter1415 Kate Winslet

[@pacattack6772]

your authenticity is just YES. you’re not selling anything, pushing ideas, not overthinking/editing content, it speaks for itself. your matter of fact succinct way of expressing ideas is just so impactful..im so glad i came across your content! it’s so grounding. hoping you see this comment because i have a request 🫶 a video or segment on the upcoming podcast about what you wish you knew in your twenties? you may even be still late twenties or at least look it lol but you give grown ass woman energy like i have never seen it before and I am just wondering what life was like in your early twenties! and advice for that time! ❤

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

That’s a great idea

[@alyfink]

Love this idea!

[@sister2mysoul]

Love this idea!!! ❤

[@s.f8283]

Wheres her podcast?

[@puneetyadav9112]

@@Margarita.Nazarenko wowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

[@Professionalbsdetector]

Moved to the United States from Turkey when I was 6. Didn’t know the language and was a shy little girl. Raised in an extremely judgmental household, I was always self conscious about everything I said or did. Now I’m 21 years old. I am still growing and learning to accept myself no matter who I am. This video helped me so much because I feel less alone as others have very similar experiences and there are people out there just like me who are good hearted and perfectly made with amazing character. Since I’ve moved from place to place my whole life I hope that one day I find my people who I will be real friends with.

[@medine3473]

I feel you girl, Im Turkish too and I wish i lived in US we could've been friends

[@artemvsoloviev]

This is exactly what I needed ! After 20 years of being with my spouse, 18 years marriage, two kids together, divorce to only find out that she was already gone behind my back even before the divorce, completely destroyed me and my confidence. Definitely working harder than ever to build myself back up.

[@xariix4593]

you can do this!

[@artemvsoloviev]

@@xariix4593 🙏… some days are hard, specially when I find out news about her and how everything has been going down… makes me sick… now I understand why they say “out of sight out of mind”… and I kept on digging, but at least I now know about her and the type of person she really is, now I know who I lived with for 20 years… and liar, cheater and untrustworthy person woman.

[@fredrikdippel3664]

aha..sounds like me. Except I have three kids.. 😁

[@belleccino]

The part where she admits that it’s ok to admit “I don’t know” when you’re in a room or a space and it being confidence to admit that, and when she said “you’re not always going to be the smartest in the room” I experienced that yesterday. I’m in this “group of friends” … and we were talking about animal behavior, and I admitted I didn’t know something about wild cats (I have a cat so we were comparing domestic to the big wild cats) And then this person got annoyed towards the end of the conversation almost saying “ugh you’re so annoying to converse with” or almost wanted to say “you’re stupid” but then when I started talking about leeches and maggots and how they are used for medicinal stuff, he immediately interrupted me and wanted to be the one to say the information.. Then someone else joined and started talking about the pyramids and the conspiracies related to them, the same person who got annoyed with me kept trying to show off that he knows this and that and he got something wrong and the person who opened up the pyramid subject corrected him and somewhere in the conversation, the person who interrupted me said “that’s why I don’t always look this up cuz I already know” and the person who opened the pyramid subject said “I’m open to learning something from anyone” And in my mind I was like “bam! That is a person of growth, not this person who made me feel dumb for not knowing something and then immediately interrupts me for wanting to share information about leeches and maggots” I then went to sleep thinking “it’s fine, if this person or anyone wants to think I’m dumb, fine, I can’t control that, but I know a person who is a “know it all” doesn’t know shit”😂

[@lauraa.5816]

I can’t express enough how appreciative I am for your content. I’m a woman that experienced a childhood of rejection from my parents. One is a narcissist and the other an enabler. It’s tremendously difficult to overcome and reparent yourself as an adult. Thank u always.

[@groovymelancholic07]

same same, i can't wait till i move out

[@jakdee4732]

Hi Beauty❤

[@Karla-mu6hn]

Have you gone into therapy for childhood trauma?

[@jakdee4732]

@@Karla-mu6hn hi Karla

[@viphan9884]

Hi Margarita, going through a period of self-growth, showing up for myself, and not putting up with someone not showing up for me or making me feel like I constantly have to prove myself for their love. I’m so grateful to come across your channel and really admire your message and strength! Thank you!

[@hollandgem2]

Absolutely!

[@jakdee4732]

Hi❤

[@hollandgem2]

I love that show up for yourself. I’ve come to realize over the last year that I showed up for everybody else but I abandoned myself in the process for so many years. Not again not today not tomorrow. New plan. Lots of growth. I love love your energy. Thank you so much for what you share.

[@tinkataylor]

I love how you communicate, it’s so clear. This is a list of perfection. Thank you. ❤ It’s funny, I’ve had that exact same thought about my face - if I hate my face then I hate all the lovely ancestors who brought me to where I am today in this incredible life. I can’t do that. My face is my heritage, and even if it’s not perfect, it’s the only face like this, and it represents an entire lineage of people. All of this was just incredible. Thank you so much.

[@brittnibailey]

you have such a natural talent for this. I feel so soothed and motivated. Happy to see someone living their purpose.

[@Haybcde]

Agreed!

[@ofe2780]

Love how she VIEWS life, brilliantly genius yet beautifully humble 🌷☕

[@dance4mysoul699]

My friends name is Elizabeth I got chills when you said that.

[@shallenlenhart6734]

Thank you, I really needed this. Currently in a situation with a long time friend about making plans about moving. In the past she bailed on me after months of planning to move somewhere so it put me a pretty sticky situation finding somewhere last minute. This time, because we’ve been friends I have a soft spot for her, but at the same time I never stood up for myself in the past with solid boundaries. I’m going to call her tomorrow saying we can be roomies but you can’t back out last minute and I need to be able to rely on you. I think I have an abandonment wound, so I’m afraid to state boundaries in fear of losing people. I now realize that I should be able to have healthy boundaries and if certain people can’t stick around because of that, then they’re just not meant to be in my life.

[@lilliwestmoreland1057]

Hi margarita, I think this is the best video I have ever watched in my life. I smiled, I cried. I saw the truth and raw reality of life anew. I regained a sense of confidence. Thank you.

[@gopikaa.s6617]

I love this! Please do make a video on how to dress up confidently! And in different scenarios? Like for a casual meet up with mum, or just meeting your boyfriend that you see everyday or for a brunch with your closest friends or a mums and babies play date! Would love to know your thoughts and principles when it comes to dressing confident! Overall loved this ❤

[@nicoleb9047]

Margarita, I love how you said: how you react when someone ghosts you is what will set the standard of your confidence in your own head. The standard of confidence or our worth, that is set in our own head, is what we have to live with every day and is what will make or break us. I have been affected in the past too much by external circumstances, or trying to prevent certain circumstances from happening causing a lack of confidence and anxiety. Now it is clear that what happens outside of me is not my confidence. How I react to it is. Thank you very much, this brought me much peace ❤️

[@jakdee4732]

Hi Nicole❤

[@shihyeong]

Every sentence meant so much to me, it reminded me accept and be proud of myself for how much I evolved. Thank you so much for this I really needed to hear this, been on a rough days recently.

[@fashionandluxury101]

❤❤❤❤

[@gracekelly9464]

Thank you for sitting down with me and telling me

[@jakdee4732]

Hi Grace❤

[@Gabielle_Mua]

Thank you for this information and feeling the power of self- being. I have been suffering from trauma of narssisitic parents, and in conlusion i atracted friends and relationships in the same term, cause it was all i have known. Im finally realising the power i have, and refusing to continue letting in this type of behaviour into my life. The way you inform is instruction on how to get started in a very subtle way which is not confusing. I am here for it, and again thank you. ❤

[@krishnadebyadav5733]

Excellent, The reality is that through they are confident the act of being an external student keeps these men and women humble. ❤

[@kingdommatsetlo1819]

Stop breaking promises to yourself. I like that

[@shaniceluquisha3812]

Listening to your content has changed my view on relationships and is helping me heal my anxious attachment

[@probie2460]

Subscribed! Very happy to have found you. Getting over narcissist abuse and your videos are really helping. Thank you.

[@MarkyV83]

Your life is gonna level up now you're free of that situation. Nice one

[@arlet101]

I'm so happy I stumbled on your channel. I love these type of videos. I struggle a lot with motivation and chasing after my goals. It's like I'm in a constant battle between the person who wants to stay in her comfort zone/do nothing and the person within that wants the best for me and take action. I feel like just hearing you gave me a confidence boost.

[@fashionandluxury101]

❤❤me too

[@handelnuremberg8757]

You're so freaking gorgeous, warm and intelligent, Margarita 💜

[@sheilasheila2709]

At 66 with my youthfulness far behind, I need my confidence high daily. Enjoy your content.

[@empressgeorgena311]

Perfect message for today that can be applied everyday for optimal success! I am blessed to hear this, thanks sis! 💖💯

[@siren_abby2827]

I can't thank you enough for this video. It came to me at the exact moment that I needed it. Thank you

[@lindseyhyde4000]

I just came across your channel, and I haven't stopped watching your videos! I just want you to know you are really helping me through a trying time in my relationship. Forever grateful I found you and thank you for your content!

[@jakdee4732]

Hi❤

[@AfterLiveAnalysis]

I just wanted to let you know that I have been thinking these thoughts that you are so freely able to put into words for years. And now that I am hearing my own thoughts thrown back at me in an affirmative way I am able to take action on them. Thank you for showing me how to understand and take action. That is a debt I will never be able to repay.

[@AuraAlora]

I literally thumbs up your videos before I even watch 👏💎

[@raydragerns3657]

As The Man John Maclean says: you are bespoke, exclusive, limited edition-you are the only one of you, ever. Treat yourself accordingly

[@stufftongerdrewww]

I love this content. I love the details that you talk about self-confidence. It clarifies the terms and helps me understand more about it and know what to do to really be confident without forcing my own nature.

[@GeorginaJve-mi2lj]

My favourite video of yours so far ❤

[@NoName32747]

Spot on. We are all incredible. Fact.

[@bradleyspinks7922]

For me I was a nervous wreck in big groups of people so I took a public speaking course. Was scary doing it but one of the best things I ever done. Remember confidence is built on taking action. Wanna get comfortable with talking to people? Then I challenge you to just go to a big public area and just ask for directions.

[@honorehabigaelle]

You so right on this! Long story short! I've been crushing on a guy and we started talking nicely and stuff and suddenly he's being distant. But I knew that was probably this has to do sth with me then I stepped back and realize this is because I still have an attachment anxiety and he probably pick on that energy. I was on KZbin and your videos popped up like the universe was guiding me towards and yeah! I'm going through this inner work journey and changing my self concept. Thank you so much🔥 I love your videos,you go straight to the point and yes Thank you again❤

[@kenyathescientist]

you & wizardliz are my saving graces

[@carinascherer1706]

please do more of this how to FEEL secure/confident/unshakable. i try to turn this around for me right now and check in with myself consistently before doing or saying anything and not fall back into giving myself up for other people and people pleasing. i resonate a lot with what and how you're saying it. so pls more 😊

[@ketsial5669]

You are such a light I love you 🤍

[@paolabeltran3311]

you are one of the most articulate person Ive heard, your advice is on point always! and u deliver it in such a direct way! ty so much pls do make a video about advice on how to dress up better (im clueless in this area), would love to hear your advice on that

[@sophiaeloisea]

I just listened to your first podcast episode. So amazing, I can’t wait to listen every week!! I’m so thankful for your content. What you talked about in your podcast was exactly what I needed to hear. I have been really struggling with allowing my boyfriend to provide for me in our relationship. I’ve been heavily in my masculine in all my past relationships and I’m learning to heal my anxious attachment and be in my feminine energy in this relationship. Your advice is so helpful to me. I loved what you said about how it can be discouraging to your partner when you’re never satisfied. That’s something I really am trying to work on. Thank you for sharing this amazing content!

[@obakeng_k]

This is deep and angled so beautifully. Your understanding of confidence is grounded in the things that ring true throughout time.

[@VickyLashenko]

We have such a similar journey - moving to a new country around the same age, not knowing their language. That grows you like CRAZY. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom! You quickly became my favorite you tuber 🥺🙏🏼❤️ Thank you so much, Margaritachka! ❤️🙏🏼

[@jakdee4732]

Hi Vicky❤

[@1969kbl]

Going through it all! I love your style. I too found myself in another far away country at age seven and was silent and took me two years to speak the language. Thank you for all the pep talks.♥️ You’re like this amazing beautiful big sister.😆

[@amberv4223]

Me too

[@Bodysense369]

What a beautiful video my lady… I do feel very lucky or else I wouldn’t have found your videos, appreciate you🙏❤️🤗

[@melbronsgeest2118]

Thank you so much for your content. Please, write a book! I would 1000% read it.

[@NN-qn5ve]

In 15 years on social media, you are the best. Miracle. Thank you so much. ❤️

[@Morrocanprincess]

I literally hit that button so fast anytime Margarita and thewizardliz upload. My two POWERFUL & INSPIRING women!!! 👏

[@bahiya94]

I'm inlove with this woman ! Wow thank you !

[@وفاء0411]

You are so amazing Margarita ❤ Thanks for your words

[@annikaspahr9705]

Thank You! What a great motivator you are! I hope you make more videos like this. My ancestors were Viking, so I am super glad I'm here!

[@ritumahimkar8825]

This one has helped me so much. Need more videos on confidence! Please make more.

[@karakol86]

Recently ended a relationship with my partner. I poured my heart out and even things didnt go my way, I was my true self and i showed up for myself and I conducted myself with class and compassion. Emotional confidence is the beginning.

[@Beloved970]

Your vibe is so cool. So wish I had a friend like you IRL. That “why’re you so aggressive” killed me 😂

[@aei2090]

I want to be like you. You're so calm and confident when you talk. Some peace is radiating from you.

[@marianaj8]

I’ve found this channel randomly and I’m so glad that this happen. I have been watching all the videos related to confidence and stuff like that, and I just looove how assertive you are with the videos, with the content. You are assertive, authentic, kind and empathetic. Thank you, Margarita. Thank you.

[@donolivia7501]

New subscriber iv been binging your videos since I found your page this morning 😂 but seriously your content is so good! Thanks for sharing all this stuff

[@julescaplette863]

Just discovered you :) it if refreshing to listen to your raw truth!! Your words are very accurate and come from experience! 🤗 Keep it up! Looking forward to keep hearing for your strong and motivating speech! ✌🏽

[@earthdog7449]

Thanks I needed to hear this for sooo long I’ve been down on myself every since my ex cheated on me depression insecurity down right critical of myself blaming myself for everything!

[@thegardener3650]

I’d like to learn more abt the “flow” you keep talking about. You’re awesome!

[@shoppingenthusiast]

you are so relatable and honest and refreshing! ♥️Appreciate your wisdom and guidance 🙏🏽much gratitude

[@frankdesignbuild]

What an awesome video margarita special describing the importance of self-growth and chasing around dreams and contributions along with self-acceptance and believing our own promises and boundaries. Thanks for sharing all these wisdom and I'm enjoying your videos.😊

[@holistic477]

Oh I love you ...Thank-you so much ...just started my healing journey n ur helping a lot.

[@RealTalk-mq2ug]

My best friend, whom I loved so deeply, with all my heart and with all my soul... He recently betrayed and abandoned me... The grief is unbearable. However, I have learned this: 1. The woman who has the power to walk away, gives her soul, the space to heal... 2. She allows the man to have clarity regarding her value... 3. She is able to ponder the error/s of her ways... 4. She learns her own strength and power and femininity and divinity and magic... 5. She re-calibrates her soul, and moves back to the Creator's default... 6. She gives God the necessary space to bless her...

[@christinemerritt974]

You are a very inspiring person. I love your strength❤

[@joojemca]

I like her voice tone and the way she speaks :) very charming and reliable

[@pfromtheblock2411]

Girl, you are amazing! Thank you so much❤️❤️❤️ This is so so helpful. I am grateful to have stumbled on your page 🙏

[@user-os8th7fg6i]

Yes keeping promises to myself has been the best thing for my confidence love it

[@heatherbroadmante4445]

I want to hug you! Your title is SO NOT clickbait. I indeed have a different outlook on life and myself after this video. Thank you 🥰💓

[@Pegggyo]

Yes, yes, yes! Please do dressing with confidence- part of the whole package. Can’t wait til the next podcast btw

[@georgefrazer2231]

You need to be constantly improving yourself. Once you achieve one small thing, you will go on to achieve another small thing and so these little things build up. We are who we are. We have a heritage behind us and also in front of us. Things may not happen now but maybe your timing is wrong. We all have one life here but we all have untapped potential. Find good role models and seek to emulate their achievements. You need to be confident in who you are. Remember that you are special. Yes you will have setbacks and learn from others. Be grateful for all your friends and help them grow also. We may not be the best but we achieved today was more than yesterday. Do not 'sell yourself short'. Know your own worth. We all go trials and tribulations but we will overcome them all. The man who never made a mistake never made anything. Be grateful for everything and everyone that you meet, be it in person or on line. Keep yourself humble and grounded in reality and maximise your strengths.

[@sash7804]

I love how you communicate concepts in detail enough and be our hype person talking to us in a mature way. Would be interested in a video about looking confident.

[@oambitiousone7100]

I set a boundary of wanting counseling, but he was completely opposed to it. I said this is what I need to do, and he blocked me. I’ve been punishing myself for setting that boundary because it led to the break up. But now I see, I was honoring myself instead of letting him control me.

[@StormySoftness]

Please make a video on how to look confident, as well! 💕

[@abbieroseprem]

Absolutely loving this type of content from you, thank you!

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

Glad you enjoy it!

[@ghazikutbi3206]

You know Margarita, in response of the statements around 08:00 when somebody gives me a label I know I don't deserve, or a degree I did not acquire, I always remind my self: "I say my name, the same name you see next to this line" and I add: is only an ordinary person, and I keep repeating until feeling I've go my heartbeat back.

[@noname2day394]

I started writing a novel recently and what you speak in your videos is a lot like creating a character only that we can create our own. That is so interesting

[@caitlinbryant3157]

Thank you!!! Please do a video on how to appear confident!!!

[@teresarenee1183]

It is so clear that you are channeling and using your gifts with such ease to bless us all.

[@marleyen]

First time I see someone speaking on this "confident not confident state" when going to school without knowing the language. It's somehow comforting to hear that it wasn't my individual issue.

[@paige5894]

Yessssss please make a video on how to look confident. I’m so interested in what you have to say about that.

[@mariust4550]

Hey! Shout out from Lithuanian living in Peterborough, Cambridgeshire!😀

[@lalliejones1727]

Such a great perspective and this is additive ...not stuff you've heard a million times. Love keeping promises to yourself and really acting like you are your most important friend or client

[@AngelikaHighIn7]

You said you didn’t have a father went to another country didn’t speak English and you were separated from your family. Me too all the same . My first language is Polish moved to the US no family never had a father even in Poland. I feel you. I like your video about detachment the most. Hello from Chicago

[@deedee5635]

Completely in love with your channel. Thank you for speaking your thoughts

[@k.daniel4184]

Thank you, Margarita. This was an awesome video and I especially loved the part about showing up for yourself ❤.

[@farahcardenas2328]

I've always thought your nose has gone through surgery or some kind of filler, it looks so perfect! I absolutely love it.

[@ceamean]

9:30 YES. Please make a video on how to "look" confident too. ✍️

[@chilalachifwepa4213]

I'll need to rewatch this multiple times for it to set in.

[@dianadischer3923]

I love your videos. You are so intelligent, funny, and a great educator to empower women. Thank you for all your help and guidance.

[@ceceb9082]

Learning how to show up for myself ❤Sigh❤

[@akbar8477]

When the Universe is working with you the Universe turns my click that saw an attractive woman talking about confidence into confirmation of things that I am discovering in my journey. I do am annual "rebirth" fast in March my birth month and set goals of what I want to work on. In April I ask myself did I accomplish what I set as goals and what did I learn and I write it down. You are right when you say that you have to be able to look back and see where you were and where you are now or what are you doing. The word that stuck with me was "grace." I did not know why until later when I remembered a scripture about an apostle that was struggling with something and it was called a "thorn in his flesh" to keep him humble. I think as with me that when you are working on being humble and killing the ego you are about to step into a place of alignment that you may have never experience before. Being confident is good but what is your purpose in this life that your confidence is driving you towards.

[@annabloms763]

Beautiful well said thankyou 🌺💜🌸

[@sarahs5340]

Nothing is more attractive than a confident and kind personality. If you’re a little bit entertaining it’s a plus too.

[@Brendan3627]

I agree with Skye. Margarita you are killing it!