I'm 48. If you're in your 20s or 30s, watch this.

[@alpham]

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[@vn8272]

Brother thank you for this video it's like you were talking to me mid video to the end good to know I'm not alone in this world .

[@veekugurung8059]

😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@Zhaero]

Remember y'all, stay / get healthy now or your body will suffer later on. You'll thank yourself.

[@banshan1562]

1 . Life is not fair 2. Comfort zone will kill u 3.looks fade , character doesn't 4. Just bcuz something is pretty doesn't mean they're a good person 5. People don't change 6. You are not too young to do anything ( stop using age as an excuse) 7. It's ok to be disliked 8. Stop treating your health like it's not gonna fail u 9 .Stop blaming ppl 10 . Stop changing your past . Focus on the present n future 11. Therapy 13. Don't compare yourself to others. 14. Cherish the ppl who love you n don't squander your time 15. Help other 16. Don't live somebody's life 17. Hardwork beats talent 18. Learn about money ( how to make money ?) 19. Focus on you . 20 . Don't be afraid of failure.

[@Scott-Inc]

Solid advice Alpha! I’m 44 now, & my only regret is not having enough humility to truly listen to the advice of older men in my 20s. It would’ve saved me so much pain and frustration!

[@jimmymhoney44]

Man, this hit me hard. I am in my late 20s, and it's wild how everything you are saying makes sense now. I wish someone told me this earlier, but hey, better late than never! Recently I have been exploring books on Mindbloomery (read all of them), and honestly, it's all connecting. Mental clarity and being confident really change the life. I also appreciate you sharing your perspective 🙌

[@kiranicharles0112]

thanks

[@CaptainCanuck6]

The algorithm brought me back to your channel after many years. Glad you're still out there spreading good. Men need that more than ever nowadays. Thanks man.

[@tobiasdye7007]

Damn, alpha. This is good. New generation of adults need more of this.

[@Bing-s5x]

Agree

[@FilmicGames]

The best thing I've done for me (at 30, to now 36) is change my behaviour. Think high-status, act humble. Almost every action I take I question if it affects my self-respect. If you don't respect yourself, you cannot expect others to respect you.

[@givenmabussi]

I'm 21 and I've been watching Alpha M. since I was a teenager and he's taught me a lot my dad never did. Thank you Alpha M.

[@Vivethegunner]

Alpha M, u have been my mentor since 10 years now and there isn't a day u have failed to inspire me man, i thought i should let u know for the effort u have been maintaining for a decade now U r amazing man, hats off to u since u r inspiring so many people for free of cost !!

[@wakeup117]

I am a physiotherapist and the part about helping other people making you happy is 1000% a real thing. It makes me feel like what I do matters and that’s the best feeling in my opinion. Btw I found my therapy in running, and now I am set to run my first marathon this year.

[@geno5169]

I started running in my 40’s I ran 5k 10 k! Then I ran a couple of half marathons! Then I got bad case of arthritis in my hip! Then I took Cialis! I started getting really blurry then I lost my optic nerve!

[@danielchurchill7063]

I'd say I'll do my best, but i feel like thats not enough. So instead, I say, I'm starting now.

[@larskamenec]

A lot of this is well said and presented. I also did not find who I was until I was around my 40th birthday. I will turn 50 this year and my outlook and enjoyment in life is worlds different. Find who you are. Do not blend in just to blend in - but just as importantly - do not be oppositional just to be different. Everyone is unique in their own way, and everyone is boring in their own way - all at the same time. Find yourself and find your people. Shed the people and activities who lead you astray - including family. You will be better off for it. Own who you are and love who you love and life is so much easier - do not force it. And the one in here I still struggle to learn, but it is crucial - don't be afraid to fail. Protect yourself as to not go completely off the rails, but managed risks are worth taking. The lessons learned in defeat can be just as valuable as the gains made when you succeed.

[@venuswealth6]

I am close to 40. My suggestions - 1. Don’t get into debt. Save and invest to reach financial independence. 2. Give highest preference to your partner. He/She can make your life extraordinarily beautiful or can make it extremely miserable. Form a circle and don’t let anyone influence you both. Dream together and form great life. Marry after 32 age. Don’t hurry up. We mature at 32. 3. If you have dreams, start chasing them early as you come out of college. Don’t wait for right time. It will never come and life just flies by. 4. Read books for self development and finance. Extremely important.

[@nathanmaccay7533]

I may not watch you videos as often anymore, but having them when I was 16-18 was invaluable. Kept me from making a lot of mistakes. So thank you. I still buy your products too

[@David-t5j3y]

I study a few other alphas but this guy us by far the best for me . Thanks alpha for helping other men who need it . I hope one day to help others as well

[@XTR02]

I know Aaron is rich but the real reason many of us do not seek therapy is because we cannot afford it.

[@TheYellowSnoman]

We're not soft. Such it up, fix it, and move forward

[@XTR02]

@ What are you talking about? I never claimed that anybody’s soft. I don’t know what “such it up” means lmao.

[@TheYellowSnoman]

@XTR02 therapy keeps people in a constant state of sadness and victimhood. People don't graduate from therapy. At the end of the day we all been through things in life. You just gotta pick yourself up and keep moving. That's the best therapy, not crying to a fake doctor.

[@XTR02]

@ I didn’t ask.

[@damon3459]

I'm 21 right now and I needed to hear this

[@m8kerjones]

Do it all now! I’m 32 I might as well be coming back from the future to tell you

[@michalkurosa6841]

Good for you. From 20 to 30 is time for this.

[@angelschdz]

Not too many young man’s like your self , sadly Good job 👍🏼

[@JAT-vl1ii]

Same here brother

[@WatchMrVT]

Aaron always coming in clutch when it’s needed the most. It’s funny you’re not always fully aware of how you impact people. Just hope you keep listening to what ever it is leads you to speak. Thank you.

[@billpetsinis2065]

Great info Alpha, you’re 1000 percent bang on!

[@watchers23]

Stay this way Alpha. Your info is solid. Keep on track.

[@ThatStukaGuy]

I'm about to be 20 this year. A lot of things will change, and I started doing a lot of major changes even now. Love your content man!

[@JasonBradleyMrToonsman]

Amen, spot on. We'll said. That's coming from a 55 yr old Gen Xer that had to figure himself out and it took many years, trials and failures

[@contehalimamy4872]

You are 100% right. I will take this advice. Thank you so much for this video. May God bless you

[@CohnmanTheBudbarian]

47 here, my biggest advice, learn about money, don't just earn and save, literally get on line and learn everything you can about the horrible stuff, it will change your life when you understand what it is and how to use it, then you wont work for money, money will work for you. GLMF

[@infamousjack3524]

How though, where does one start? I'm 26 and a vet. Now that I'm out of the military I feel like I'm starting everything over but i can actually think now. I want to get to that position where money works for me

[@bleedblue420as]

Don’t be fearful of failure, fear of regret.

[@renmeister6869]

This is real talk and i needed to hear this

[@phillipn.8320]

Great, Holy Grail type information. I have a 20 year old that I am trying like crazy to get this exact type of information to stick in their mind, and it’s almost devastating watching her dismiss it time and time again, but I will not quit trying because it’s that vital and valuable.

[@thomaskeys2994]

U just uploaded this a minute ago and God put it on my feed for a reason 👏🏽💪🏽🔥

[@olaworetaofeek]

Thank you for sharing this. I really need to hear this at this time

[@thebustertheory]

alpha m. you always pop up at the right time. Thank you for your videos. I started watching your videos when I was 18, 28 now. You play a big role in filling a void for young men without fathers and for men in general that just need a little guidance in life. Hope you are doing well! much love.

[@mycrease8936]

Took me to 42 to hear those things from a woman, it's like a gift from up above. I was always a ppl pleaser, one of my mistakes which I try working on. Always listen to yourself and enjoy life.

[@iamJOHNVER]

Thank you so much for this Alpha M, I'm still on my 20's and currently on the road of self discovery and purpose while my friends and people around me feels like they already know how to navigate life and success. Hoping I can finally see my life waiting for me. 💪🏼😁

[@RUDAMENTRY]

I like the smooth transition to your sponsor lol

[@GiveThanksAndPraise]

Wow, 100% all good stuff. In regards to helping others whenever one can. This has been life changing and rewarding. The universe or whatever you want to call it will absolutely take care of you, if you take the time to care about others. Kind of hand in hand with belief in a higher power and respect for that power.

[@nvspadilla]

This is real. I was a screw up till about 28 years old. I still screw up but in my 20s I was in trouble with the law due to alcohol multiple times. And it was because of my low self esteem trying to impress the wrong people. When you learn to say no things will change drastically and rapidly

[@luizzocenteno]

Thanks you for everything!

[@dchampion79]

Daaang Alpha this is such a needed message today, I love your mens fashion vids BUT THIS. This IS my favorite video YET, I BELIEVE you find greater fulfillment when you know youve made a difference in someone else’s life. Keep doing you bro and sharing your experiences with people!!!

[@Bing-s5x]

love this type of video

[@legaspiaudio9830]

You are a bad ass thank you for all this great advice!

[@hermosotino]

👏......excellent advice!!!

[@cavedinhead_]

Love this guys videos!

[@Bing-s5x]

me too

[@nomo4u886]

I’m thankful i learned early in my 20’s

[@escapeplandad]

Great stuff Aaron!!! I’m so thankful we have great mentors like yourself to help others with health and wealth related subjects 🙏

[@jtc9098]

Love this video. Everything you said is the truth!

[@patrickk2111]

This is a good list for younger people, but I also think it's beneficial for us older folks too. You're never to young to start, but also you're never too old to start either, it's all up to you. Solid list Alpha!

[@maneeshahooja]

Well said. Keep inspiring.

[@sayandas8007]

Very valuable video

[@lemaitreduciel]

Thank you alpha you are amazing

[@ToddsBookTube91]

I agree with everythings you said in this video Alpha M! Your mental health and well being are based of your goals and your visions and what you want out of your life. Pick something to do with your life you're passionate about I choose Poetry! I go to open mic nights and poetry groups! I'm working on writing screenplays! I'm living my dream! I'm surrounding myself with positive friends who want me to follow my vision. I've been watching your channel for quite sometime! Thanks for all your fashion tips!

[@AGamingGuitarist]

Thanks Aaron, just what I needed to hear right now to keep me going. 👊

[@social3ngin33rin]

Ty sponsor for making this happen. Ty Alpha for making another good inspirational video :)

[@Ste8888]

Great advice Alpha.Thanks

[@abedokbaldet6418]

not comparing yourself to others is very difficult, especially today, but to be free from it is probably the best thing that can happen to a person.

[@baron7755]

I'm in my 40s, so now what?

[@djmagic704]

I'm 48. Should I throw in the towel on my goals and just admit i failed? Or keep reaching?

[@Bing-s5x]

Not bro keep reaching I believe in you it's never too late.

[@MrSuperj1one]

I please myself, alright

[@ifran77]

I’m exhausted, just listening to this whole thing

[@curtisclark1292]

Great video alpha!

[@satyakideshpande1936]

C’mon guys! This guy’s content is top notch !

[@hakiem9443]

@alpham the fact that I saw you at starbucks yesterday then your videos pop up…..woah

[@Shady_Zone]

Thanks man you help me a lot I don't have anyone to give me advice like this💪

[@manuelhn50]

Great video ❤❤❤❤❤

[@ChewiestBacca]

Thank you Alpha, for everything

[@dolfan4926]

I’m a gay 46 year old Cuban American South Floridian woman who loves to listen to your advice! Your awesome. U gotta have your own late night tv show. That’s the best time ppl listen!!!!!

[@duoali]

Thanks Alpha 🙏🏿

[@ferencnagy4866]

IT'S AMAZING CONTENT!!! ❤❤❤

[@xdrazormon454]

2:32 that’s true jealous scumbags are mostly like that or some people are just pure evil. I would also dislike them back especially if they were only taking advantage of me

[@robertarmstrong6015]

Excellent vid.

[@tychapman7536]

Thought he looked 50 plus

[@ivanbecerril4227]

I already failed, but that's how ik I'm gonna succeed, I'm still persistent with my goals and dreams, I'm taking hits and still moving forward, I'm never giving up

[@CeibaMukaro]

I needed this !

[@EmanueleMele]

The number one on entire KZbin platform

[@42crispy]

@alpham thank you for the advise and you’re right about just about everything just one is I’ve seen people do change ( as long as people put the work to change )

[@JohnCaparco-c6u]

I’m 44 and I literally got start over. I got learn how walk again from bad choices and exs. It’s funny yet people think I’m in my late 20s and early 30s and other then the walking part I’m perfectly healthy. It’s hard and I just beat a street drug habit fentanyl. Not through rehab. But through spiritual intervention and now I’m so lost. I really don’t know what the future holds and I don’t understand why I’m here. This video I needed watch this years ago. As corny as it sounds I’m scared and only month back in life I’m rushing things. I’m literally close dating a beautiful woman that’s a stripper. I already know what everyone is gonna say. Please don’t bash me or call a silo or any that. People that say that normally never even had one girl let alone a girlfriend. If I wasn’t restricted I wouldn’t be this dumb. But right now until I healed and get my body back I’m gonna probably stay this way.

[@danielanderson2331]

I’ve learned quickly best to have a small lil circle of friends than a crowd of shallow jerks

[@GeraltOfRivia99]

Ash yes trying to look cool and good-looking... I went through a huge phase of that. It got me zero woman and zero likes😎

[@carloscardoso7042]

One of the best vídeos thank you

[@GreenskinHolland]

Some solid advice. Would be great to tell this to teenagers. Most of them won't listen though which is a shame.

[@Filthy_Larry]

Which is fine. Who cares about them anyways.

[@firelordzack6001]

Earliest I’ve been to one of his video drops

[@carlosarambulo7420]

Be sure to stop and learn from each failure, mistake, bad luck. Constantly failing doesn’t correct itself. You need to correct it.

[@hermes6296]

I guess your advice is good not only for those in their 20s or 30s but older as well..

[@Bing-s5x]

agree

[@vinniemartinez6125]

You got yourself your woman now congratulations. Now just have yourself a couple kids and kids will definitely get a whole lot better for you. Ever since I had my two kids. They made life so much more better and lots of fun. Think about that Alpha. 😁

[@Filthy_Larry]

Why the kids? Not everyone likes or even wants kids.

[@ceoofsony5924]

Im almost out of my twenties and im miserable, my ex gf left me 3 months ago, I hate my job and im struggling just to pay bills, i eat like crap and drink almost daily, even my room is a mess. I have no friends, and I dont have a lot of hope for the future.

[@benjames863]

Min 2:30, We ought to obey God rather than man Acts 5:29

[@Proverbs1267]

Amen

[@Nicvitto]

Realist video ever!

[@geno5169]

I was in great shape in my 20’s’ even 30’s ! Then I gained a lot of weight! I was over 200! I started walking in my 40’s then I tried running ! I was way on my running! Running in all kinds of races! I lost my fat. ! Then i needed hip surgery from a bad case of arthritis! I have a metal hip! I’ll be 57 in June! I’m trying lift weights again with push-ups! I eat low carb! Very little far

[@samyalater2346]

I would love to know your advice..... I am 34 been in a major city for 10 years and have zero friends.... I have tried different things, but can't seem to connect and make friends.

[@johnedwards80]

Also a strong relationship with god is a plus as well

[@jonathanleon6615]

At least you dated!! I have had 🐈 in 9 years!! Why so serious Alpha!?

[@keltecdan]

I was being self destructive as well in my early 20’s. Hanging with the wrong crowd. Getting escorts because I’m short and unattractive. No direction in life.

[@thekey777]

Need this

[@ferpego89]

I am 44 and my recommendation is: be careful with things like alcohol, cigarettes and any drug, don't you think that you can't get hooked. Stay clean and learn to be happy without any substance.

[@atomicasounds]

Great video! Wise words indeed! =)

[@miladfathi9453]

I'm 29 and i feel like shit. Thank you for inspiring

[@frankguetta9529]

You missed 50’s. I’m 55 and finally got my ship together. Better late than never.

[@BLoman25]

Someone pissed off Papa Alpha. That's why we got a brick wall video. Love ya, Alpha. Hitting 40 in about two months. As Tobey Maquire's Spider-Man said, "Just, trying to be better."

[@darkneji190]

im28 and I needed this but my fear will still not allow me to take action

[@RajDeelish]

Very few people get their sh!t together in their 20s. Don't put pressure on yourself to make magic happen in your work life, romance, etc. Go at your own speed.

[@bryanstarlord7422]

This guy telling us things everyone knows, you can’t give people advice like this, they have to learn it on their own, people have tried since always, if someone told your younger self this, you would have said “whatever dude” But I get it, gotta get that better help money, not hating, I get it