How to be Good with Girls (Grow Your Masculinity with Girls) - The Fearless Man

[@TheFearlessMan]

What’s the quickest way to improve your dating? Simple you need to discover a few things (1) what is it that you are doing that’s pushing women away (2) how do you self reject (3) how do women experience you? You’ll be surprised how such simple things make such a difference once you see that it’s not about attraction women, but rather what’s preventing your natural ability to attract the feminine? That’s exactly what we teach at Fearless live events - click below to learn more New York City - www.thefearlessman.com/live-nyc-yt Bucharest Romania - www.thefearlessman.com/live-buch-yt

[@islcetinkaya874]

This shit changed my life compeletly. Specially with the girls. Thank you!

[@TheFearlessMan]

Awesome to hear that! Congrats and thanks for sharing

[@xcortez5144]

This is great bc alot of men like myself didnt grow up around strong role models and I've been suffering the consequences of the nice guy syndrome.

[@jeffs2518]

This is fantastic advice. I’ve made it a personal mission in each interaction to stay in my body. It’s life-changing. I’ve never felt so calm. My body may be releasing tons of anxiety, but just feeling it releases us from letting it control us. Two big notes on feeling the body that have worked. 1) unlock your knees. We tend to brace our knees and tense up 2) release your belly and breathe into it. Thanks so much for this content. I’m on a journey of reowning my masculinity. Guys like you, Elliot Hulse and others have been like a light in a dark place. Rock on man!

[@raymondcastillo7594]

This guy showed me the one thing I was looking for

[@inhouseadmin9192]

This guy has game on the molecular level

[@theawkwardcharismatic]

I've been in the dating game for 7 years and this is literally the best video I've ever seen. Went through the rough days of cold approaching

[@ericwimer4067]

Curious how long the rough days lasted with cold approach?

[@theawkwardcharismatic]

@@ericwimer4067 It honestly just depends on how you learn things. I used to follow everything to a tee. I would religiously follow RSD or simple pickup, but I never understood the messages behind what they were trying to teach. I would try to emulate their techniques, hoping any one of them would work. How I really got better was figuring out why I wanted to approach women in the first place. I wanted to get a girlfriend after being single for so long. I had great friends, but I was lonely in not having an intimate relationship. When I understood my “why,” my game got infinitely better. It was hilarious actually. I was cold approaching for 3 years, and I would constantly get rejected or flaked. But the truth is, I didn’t know my “why” at the time. I had no idea why I would approach women. I would think it was because I wanted to hook up with them. Or maybe I wanted to show off to my PUA wingmen that I got a hot lay. But finally after 3 years, I realized it was because I just wanted intimacy. I started being more honest during my approaches. And because of that, all those flakes and rejections turned into dates and multiple hookups. It’s been 2 years since I posted this comment and I am at a different point in my life. I stopped cold approaching since then because I am in a happy relationship with my girlfriend. But I still comeback to the fearless man’s content because a lot of his tips are applicable even in a relationship. Doesn’t matter if you’ve been in a relationship for 5, 10, or 15+ years- the game never ends. TLDR: Everything depends on how you learn and implement things. Figure out your why and the results will come.

[@svtk5104]

@@theawkwardcharismatic thanks for the hint :)

[@guayunai]

Just wanted to give you my gratitude my dude, today I went out by myself to a bar for the first time and totally connected with the most gorgeous woman tonight. Coincidentally I started feeling all the power in the world but thanks to my gut, I was able to stay grounded and calm and cool for the majority of the night 🤘🏽

[@TheFearlessMan]

Love it!!! Congrats, keep up the consistent work on yourself, and thanks for sharing.

[@dustybear0606]

Brian you are an inspiration my man. Your content is unbelievable. You have taken the concepts from my favourite book The Way of The Superior Man and expanded on it tenfold. The world needs more men like you. Thank my friend, thank you

[@TheFearlessMan]

Thank you! That's very kind and a great compliment! Hope to meet you at an event!

[@oscarserrabravo8263]

I recently discovered you website... and to be honest, your stuff is by far the best I have ever found on internet... Thank you for your lessons of life!

[@hassanmaqsood8450]

Didnt ever imagine I would do this. But this by far beats a lot of content that RSD puts out. It is amazing how this is straight to the point and still puts accountability in my hands. Looking forward to your workshops :)

[@TheFearlessMan]

Thanks - glad the content is helpful. I look forward to meeting you!

[@zacharyzw]

I know exactly what you’re talking about in this video from feeling the pressure rising up into your head and not feeling grounded. I’ve been walking around in and out of a state of anxiety and or fear or feeling or losing your masculine energy. So I’m sensing this but I don’t exactly know why it’s happening or understand what is happening to me. So listening to your video is enlightening. Almost like a revelation. I have set out to work on this and improve these things beings that I am a father of three boys and I don’t want them to struggle blindly with these challenges. Struggle and resistance is good, But a perpetual toxic cycle repeating itself if you have no understanding of why things are happening or just are not aware of these things and you fall victim to it is not good. I have now subscribed to your channel and turned on the notification bell and will be studying your videos from here on out. I’ll continue to research the work that you’re doing, Maybe if you’re in town doing an event I’ll make sure to be present. Thank you very much! Also I am experiencing daily the play with those pockets of tension and shy away from them, very seldomly embracing them and seeing the results like all you have to do is be open to it. And I’ve experience more than not shying away from that tension and or panicking when encountered with this tension and I end up feeling a high level of anxiety and feeling awkward. I have experienced both sides of having masculine energy and not having masculine energy and the older I get and the different levels of interactions socially you encounter, it’s harder to mask the internal imbalances that were never addressed. So I am forced to now look within to assess and troubleshoot and understand what is causing these states and how to reverse engineer this to where I can for fill my capacity as an individual and as a man. More importantly to set a good example for my son’s! Thanks Zack

[@starsthedog]

Great one this one. It's funny, I've been starting to do this instinctively as well, but you just confirmed it in a major way. So thank you for this video bro!

[@vigosace7078]

Spot On... Progession, Failure, Repetition and Muscle Memory will be the procedure of Mastering your masculine cold approach towards the opposite sex and the reward will be "Confidence," being Displayed!

[@martinclavijo2714]

In the very begining I started to watch your vídeos to improve my English skills,but now you are helping me to change my reality conception. Thank you very much.Grettings from Spain

[@vick9740]

This helped me to see many things very clearly. Man your videos are connecting and I could relate to everything you say. Thanks for these awesome advises. I am happy to have found your channel.

[@TheFearlessMan]

Great to hear! Hope to meet you at an event

[@jagannathpaudel1875]

Only the confident really live. Its my mantra now. Your videos are one of the best in youtube.

[@JMV005]

I absolutely hear your cadence and intonation. Alot of times it consciously slowing down and not just blowing through human interactions. It's sad because people would rather stare at their phones than to speak to another human

[@erandahettiarachchige7354]

Now this is a great video, it’s a bit long but totally worth it!!

[@hamishfullerton7309]

Very relevant, for all human interaction, but not many people are aware of it, some guys who have it naturally, don't know how to teach it like Brian, because it's natural and they are not aware of how they use it, in interactions, , he highlights need to be aware of this. A pumped attitude and technic changes, can produce hit and miss results, but this will give you a long-term understanding of the best ways to change states and manage your emotions in pressure situations, such as meeting women, I ve only just felt this from more eye contact, pressure situations and learning to enjoy it rather than trying to run or pretend it's all right, by numbing my self to emotion that comes up, if only, I'd been aware of this in my 20s

[@TheFearlessMan]

Glad it's helped so much! Keep working on it

[@ahmadhashimi9771]

Hamish Fullerton man your explanation about this also helped me know alot of things about my past life. Because I have questioned lots of things why did they happen to me, but after reading your comment I became aware of it and it made me happy now thank you sir I appreciate it.

[@AsheetBull]

I really like your material dude. This has helped me more than any of the other channels. I have been focusing on expanding the energy in my core and really digging in and feeling it and it made a huge difference already... I breathe easier, get out of the reactive FF state. Good stuff. Thank you.

[@carlostorres8771]

deep breathing has connected me to myself

[@TheFearlessMan]

Awesome!

[@carlostorres8771]

i see the same in you

[@carlostorres8771]

Thanks friend.

[@vadikberserk1373]

@@TheFearlessMan so basically when i start to feel that emotional pump i need to switch focus from this pump to my lower body(hips stomach, belly) and surrender to feeling in this areas so i can be more calm day by day, because i do not give so much attention on how i feel about speaking to someone but rather on how i feel inside in lower body? I hope i get it right even with my current english level.

[@josephjatta5225]

Excellent. Sincere stuff is hard to find on youtube these days

[@TheFearlessMan]

Thanks!

[@Truth-Virtue-LVX]

Profoundly valuable work Brian, especially in conjunction with Mantak Chia's energy healing.

[@TheFearlessMan]

Thanks! Love to hear that!

[@edreyes5381]

Brian, I have been looking at different peoples videos regarding all the same subjects and I can definitely say yours are the most helpful and understandable.I also want to tell you that I looked at earlier videos of yours and I think they are much better now with the White backgroud, the fearles logo, your look, content, and everything about them. You are a great role model and are definitely helping a lot of guys out there who don't or didn't have anyone to guide them in their journey as a man.

[@vincentd333]

Hey Brian,awesome video !! the two areas I'm concerned with the most right now, is getting into my body and overcoming a wounded heart from emasculination. Please share more on these topics if possible!

[@TheFearlessMan]

What are your questions? I've found I work well and flow well off actual questions.

[@vincentd333]

how I can heal the pain of a wounded heart, which keeps me blocked from allowing myself to connect with women on a heart level and going deeper into my own body?

[@TheFearlessMan]

When you originally said emasculation, were/are you talking about a breakup or something else?

[@vincentd333]

Alana Pratt and you did a video where she talked about a wounded heart from emasculination not allowing men to access their masculinity and body power. this really spoke to me in Slot of ways

[@CelticKiran]

Awesome sauce. Thanks so much. I'm suddenly aware I have a pair of legs as I write on this keyboard -lol

[@Trevktaves]

Ciarán Ryan hahahahaha I feel you brother. Gotta connect to our bodies.

[@faouilalouiA1]

Brilliant Advice.it's like,getting in touch with our true selves & forgetting the fake persona we sometimes impose in trying hard imitating someone else!

[@Provoostos]

Hey! Nice video, i really get what you're saying. Ive been trying to develop this ability to ground myself. Ive just been wondering lately, I got a new job and its really hard to ground all the tension im getting from it. Would it be better to quit my job or just stick it out untill I get more capable with it?

[@redjohn4886]

Hey, i just wanna say you are totaly right. I guess i can feel confidence with talking women, if we only talk about neutral stuff but going further is hard for me. Also i dont know places were to find womans to train this. Im living in a small city. If i would start talking each day to a Woman im sure i would be finished with all in one month...

[@anitabhetwal3404]

Thank you for the amazing videos man .After watching this i realised that i was always trying to state pump.

[@TheFearlessMan]

Glad it helped!

[@joshklinger1]

This is one of your most helpful vids Brian, thank you, very grateful to have seen this.

[@danehawkins1875]

Needed to hear this. Very insightful

[@TheFearlessMan]

Glad it resonated

[@Mario19851506]

Thank you bro for your video! I fell in love with you even though I am fucking straight! Your system works like a charm, I use it with men and women. It has been an eye- opening experience for me how tension and masculinity are vital for a man!

[@TheFearlessMan]

haha thank you. Glad it's so helpful!

[@Josh-fp2qn]

I know what a random woman would say if I came up and said ‘wow, you’re gorgeous and I had to talk to you.’ She would say, ‘um, thanks.’

[@ronnishbahadoor657]

There is something I need to share with you guys from my personal experience, when I used to consume THC ( smoking Marijuana) and Alcohol 2 years ago, It seemed I was more capable to grow my masculinity and also to make women attracted to me. I was more even able to psychologically connect with them and to make relationship easier with them. Once I completely changed my life, staying sober for almost 1 year and half until now, It feels really hard to communicate with them and to even share my feelings with them than I used to do before. I feel no longer a bad ass. I still wonder myself does it have to do with the THC effects that usually changes your personality or does it have to do with your self confidence ?

[@TheFearlessMan]

Both, but ultimately it's about your confidence without any substances affecting that. A lot of guys experience this when they stop using alcohol as a crutch-I don't allow guys to have even a drop when we take them out to be social-sometimes that's tough on them, but they're building real confidence that way that doesn't require any crutches.

[@ronnishbahadoor657]

Thanks for your greater advice, I am doing my best for it !

[@NaNa-yn1nh]

Great video Brain. A lot of good content/advice for a beginner like me. Much appreciated

[@TheFearlessMan]

Glad it's helping!

[@sethogburn393]

Loved this. Very helpful. Keep up the great work!

[@MrOzzietheanti]

Love how you give tips that you can put to work gradduatly instead of just saying some random things!

[@Dsc1965Capricornsnake]

Great videos thank you. I go to the department stores and pick out clothes while I’m holding them I walk up to women and say what do you think the blue shirt red shirt and I’ll go get shoes and ask her opinion and what type of shoes I should get I love it it’s help me a lot

[@TheFearlessMan]

That's a good start man. We have clients do simple exercises - like ask people the time or directions - to get them started opening up to people. The next step you can try is asking a silly question like "what's your favorite color?" That has slightly more tension. - Andrew, TFM Team

[@augabachoo]

One of the many things you consistently preach is consistency. My current schedule makes it very difficult to make it out as consistent as I should. Specifically work, working out and writing ends up filling in most of my week. Is there any advice for helping with these time crunch's?

[@MyRocker24]

This was a great video... especially the 90 day progress plan! Thank you

[@lashleybutcher736]

Brian. This video is awesome bro. keep up the good work.

[@TheFearlessMan]

Thanks!

[@mutah128]

Great job out there,fearless..

[@rajarshiborah8390]

That's amazing dude, can you provide More action plans to take consistently

[@djchaznyc7709]

Oh man this is heat! I will go and try this out

[@LaVelleWhite]

You have a good platform keep doing what you doing

[@razdrasiir8422]

Hey Fearless! I fist found your channel 4 days ago. I saw 6 of your videos (One of which I am commenting on) . On the fist day I decided to manifest the teachings and make them a part of myself. The third day, while at work ( I currently work as a waiter) I entertained a table with 8 girls dining and they demanded that I came to them with the bill and sat down with them. I talked to them for half an hour and 3 of them wanted my Face book. And today, Forth day. I had a couple wanting me to join their table with sexual tension and then a girl (witch I were not interested in) were hitting on me for 2 hours straight... your material is powerful. Thank you so much! Could you make a video on “How to reject a girl/ woman in a kind/ the best way”? No ill intent, but she was ON and pretty intense. I could feel her energy and stare while working and was not interested what so ever. Epic content my Friend.

[@elftower907]

another very valuable video. thank you for what you are doing.

[@joshuabahirvani2488]

Great session. The progressive method makes sense for introverts and also for extroverts where we don't go over the top but do what is comfortable and slowly push those boundaries set by our minds. Thanks for the video looking forward to more exercises

[@pratik6342]

Awesome stuff!

[@andrewmartin1984]

wow so true, excellent video

[@andreasmarx4427]

Great video , great content and i like the way you talk to me as the listener. Thanks

[@robertleonard4903]

Cool! I could feel the difference when you were talking. Very cool!

[@TheFearlessMan]

Glad to hear that!

[@AndreiKazz]

Yup, that's the trigger I needed

[@emmanuelabreu13]

Hey Brian. I didnt see your lower body when you was doing movements to feel your lower body. Is there a video displaying how someone legs look doing those movements. I can't find it on the web. Let me know

[@yohoJK]

My problem is always trying to jump right to it with confidence that I think I have and then I instantly get nervous after the first interaction then just tend to run away.

[@mrvolcada5355]

A simple exercise that may help. Pick an item that the lady is wearing, say how nice it is and ask her where she got it. Most women are flattered that you noticed.

[@alexgaleski1827]

I must do this, even though i hate it. Thank you

[@alexanderworkchannel]

great info - Thanks

[@michael_viteritti]

Great video! I like your videos about masculinity, tension& emotions

[@TheFearlessMan]

Glad you're enjoying! Hope to meet you at an event! www.thefearlessman.com/events

[@theholdingcompany]

The Mountain hones our Spirit snowboarding in the new ninja ballerina snowboard style. come out this winter to develop to keystone. We have Riverside Lodge hostel ya! We ride everyday Our practice and our prayer we also use the word Progression.

[@whererthewmdsrogers4124]

Great video and very true! Well done!

[@TheFearlessMan]

Thanks!

[@Robrawlings]

Hey Brian, I loved this video. I found that when I talk to women my arms and hands are all over the place, what's the go with that?

[@TheFearlessMan]

Nervous/uncomfortable ticks, basically. Our subconscious triggers us to do a lot of weird things sometimes.

[@ef28525]

I notice this is myself, where i state pump out of fear of state crashing. I can have loads of fun and make people around me have a great time but i underlaying there are unresolved emotions, where when i walk up to a girl im still not 100% and they and i know it. I know pumping everyone up is great but so far its been coming from the wrong place and so i am sure this can help me

[@Matheus-nb5ec]

excellent ! thank you for your wisdom!

[@dawitbiruk5548]

man you cahnge my life bigets part tnx

[@flyjerks1]

I like the message you sent in this particular video. I try to stay consistent in all areas of my life that’s like the main ingredient taking little steps a day makes a huge difference. My only struggle is being grounded and making the first move I’m just so used to keeping to myself my only question would be how do I stay completely independent in my values and life decisions without letting toxic people affect my decisions?

[@TheFearlessMan]

Not sure what your question is. KZbin doesn't let me see replies to comments very easily, so why don't you tell me more about your question at TheFearlessMan.com/askbrian and I'll try to answer it in a future video.

[@DragonNo1]

Beautiful! Thank you.

[@dephneenroll4896]

Brian thank you so much

[@richardj.magoma7804]

Thank you the great resources.

[@TheFearlessMan]

You're welcome!

[@praktycznewskazowki6733]

thanks man you are legend!

[@TheFearlessMan]

Thanks for the comment!

[@climberlander2601]

nice videos tht makes me a lot of sense, thanks

[@louisking1548]

Is It confident for a man to stand open but leaning to one side like he open legs but he's has a lean in the hips kinda like a shift? Idk how to describe it but hopefully you get what I mean is this seen as confident?

[@jaguarent6352]

Good vid man

[@marcboden29]

Thank you I like your approach

[@aamirmajeed2040]

Watching this after i fucked up big time. I don’t know what to do now

[@aaronneil780]

Who’s the yoga guy you name dropped? Thanks!

[@Magnificii3]

This is just impossible to me. I stay too much in my head and fear has taken control over myself. Fear to do everything even stepping into a gym, talking about my problems with family or friends. Obviously no girlfriends ever in my life i’m the shy guy. In my head i constantly think about changing but i can’t put it into action going back to the same old security blanket over my head

[@TheFearlessMan]

There's no way around taking action, but using a tension journal can help make it more manageable: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fZW9aH6EaNZoaJI

[@timjones2610]

A tension journal won't help. All that'll do is remind you of your failures. Unfortunately, I too, had to accept the fact that some of us were just meant to not have women see any worth in us.

[@ahmadhashimi9771]

I love your videos because they are completely about all parts of life .I live in Germany I can't have access to all your stuff, but please help me know how to get the most of your stuff from here. Please help me Brian. Thank you

[@TheFearlessMan]

I have a seminar coming up in Bucharest: event.thefearlessman.com Other than that, just use these videos and the blog posts on the website and work on one thing at a time consistently

[@shivamiltiwari9541]

I m amazing at pickup up but worst at maintaining attraction ....

[@TheFearlessMan]

Thanks for your comment Shivamil. Pickup and connection are two different things. At Fearless, we coach men to have a vibrant relationship with women and femininity in general so connection happens naturally without work. This comes from letting go of goals and agendas with women. Can you relate to beautiful women without wanting sex or validation? - Andrew, The Fearless Man

[@hiztoryhim1864]

Dope!

[@Chillos100]

1 word: GREATTT!!!!

[@emptyendeavor2762]

Being ISTP-A helps

[@1RPJacob]

Sounds good, but I would like to see it how it actually works in action. Cheers:)

[@BAlvn-yr6ej]

good job

[@_Trakman]

I want to come see you in 2019. Can I talk with you to see if we can work out a plan? I didn’t feel really heard or understood talking to your sales team..

[@TheFearlessMan]

Hi Trakman, I just do not have time to handle sales individually. We have a pricing structure and payment plan structure (for intensives only) that they must stick to. When you’re ready and it’s a big enough priority for you, you’ll make it happen just like I did when I didn’t have much money. I’m not completely sure who you spoke with, but if you really didn’t jive with them, you can usually reach my business partner Dave at [e-mail] - He’s unlikely to be any more flexible than the structure he’s set for the entire team, though.

[@practicebeing]

Solid

[@jeanyboyy4801]

I will improve, thank you

[@ordinary3004]

did you improve?

[@awptsuk]

Can you talk about older guys say 40 talking to younger hotter attractive women from 20 to 35 without losing confidence and getting them attracted to you?

[@daytonhershey9560]

It's all about becoming

[@thealphamale415]

Do I have to change my style or how I dress ?? Everything I do is good women just look at me awkwardly.

[@faisalm109]

What if we don't have time to practice daily, but barely on weekends? Will we have a chance to develop these core skills?

[@TheFearlessMan]

Where there's a will, there's a way. You'll make time for it when it's important enough to you

[@faisalm109]

Alright, for how long will the practice go? Daily for six months for example? Because I don't think it's possible to do this everyday for the rest of our lives, and by the way, good job in analyzing to viewers all of this, strength comes from within

[@icew0lf98]

What did you mean by forcing sexuality at someone? I maybe have a problem with this, being sexually attracted to girls who aren't too interesting to me, but don't get turned on as much by the girls that actually interest me. So maybe that is causing me problems when I try to approach them.

[@TheFearlessMan]

"forcing sexuality at someone"? I don't remember that - I made this video a while ago. Give me more context and submit it to TheFearlessMan.com/askbrian - KZbin doesn't notify me about replies after the original comment

[@kadircelik7269]

You have no idea how many people you inspire

[@camronbrian7436]

hey what do you do when you find your self not having much to talk about a lot

[@TheFearlessMan]

You need to get out of your head and into feeling your body and the emotions of the people you’re talking to. www.thefearlessman.com/the-most-overlooked-skill-to-attract-women-be-a-great-connected-listener/

[@abhipawar8422]

Feel the entire body or legs?

[@thebasquerascal4979]

What do I do with girls that have boyfriends?

[@TheFearlessMan]

There is always a range of situations that get labeled "boyfriend." The way to do it is let her decide what she wants to do. If you are interested in her, be persistent until you get a clear no. She might "have a boyfriend" and then 5 minutes later want to go out with you. - Andrew, TFM Team

[@marcboden29]

Do you run a workshop?

[@TheFearlessMan]

Yes. You can apply here & someone will be in touch: www.thefearlessman.com/the-experience-apply-now/

[@Earthtime3978]

Genuine but too much focus on "bars and nightclubs." in these videos. There are better places away from alcohol which many times destroys authenticity .

[@PF-gi9vv]

Not for me, I spend most my time with men, only time i get the chance to meet good looking girls is when i go out with friends to pubs and clubs.

[@davidd972]

I’m just tryna smash as much pussy as possible.

[@Earthtime3978]

P F That’s because you’re young and can only see it one way. People are full of shit when they drink booze ,that’s the bottom line. As a young guy you can probably live with that but it depends on your personality .