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@Denmosocial6 ай бұрын
This might offend you at first, but by the end of the video, you will be like wow this guy is spot on haha
@exsosus50026 ай бұрын
It's so true, that sex from women controls men so much. at about 20:00 minutes. This one girl I know from Sweden, she had an interview at a really classy hotel, the manager went ahead and said 'Sorry you can't have this job, I have another girl who is going to take the job you would have received.' So she _______ his ________ you know what. He said, "OK you've got your job!" Hired.
@AR72716 ай бұрын
@@exsosus5002market manipulation 😂
@PanPan420696 ай бұрын
That seems a little egotistical but great video nothing less!
@lyricz42245 ай бұрын
This was mindblowing brotha Jack. It's amazing the way you can express your deepest thoughts in a video.
@Hewhoisstoned4205 ай бұрын
Can we get an honest opinion on open relationships? Your ability to see both sides of the story is awesome and I’d love to hear your take on more taboo situations
@JaredClark-g7p6 ай бұрын
I don’t believe men are in decline. I believe they are living in a new environment with old mindsets. It’s like they spent their whole life studying for a math test and show up and it’s actually a geography exam. Your channel is one of the only channels that are course correcting without the toxic misogyny that is the source of most of these guy’s problems. I salute your efforts. God bless you.
@Wicknarr69095 ай бұрын
Decline in value would be relative. Since value is defined by the person receiving the value. Something can stay the same and the environment makes it lose value.
@fallen5465 ай бұрын
I think you're right that men are still socially adapting to the new dynamic, but I don't think it's misogyny that's the problem. I actually blame Disney and romantic comedies. The narrative that you can just be yourself and a wonderful woman will fall in love with you is complete nonsense. Men thinking they will be loved simply by existing as they are is not how the world actually works for us.
@trinsit3 ай бұрын
@@fallen546 Name one movie where the guy had to just be themselves and no other effort was required?
@Dehota6 ай бұрын
“No you wouldn’t, you’d be dead”
@Denmosocial5 ай бұрын
unfortunate truth about most of us tbh too impulsive
@MiloSatori6 ай бұрын
“Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times.” - Someone who contributed.
@R3RS20246 ай бұрын
Life goes full circle :)
@Laissez-faire4026 ай бұрын
Such a useless quote that people simply toss out.
@MiloSatori6 ай бұрын
@@Laissez-faire402 What about “Some people talk too much and say too little”.
@Twisthiphop6 ай бұрын
@@MiloSatori I love that quote
@douchebagpatrol72376 ай бұрын
@@Laissez-faire402 good times = deluded/low quality women = mgtow (weak men) weak/lazy/useless men = hard times
@mishan31686 ай бұрын
"man win trough action . Not arguments ." Thats just beautiful .
@Denmosocial6 ай бұрын
yup, robert greene 48 laws of power
@theblerd18895 ай бұрын
Men win through*
@palmitexx5 ай бұрын
i wrote down when he said that
@josesalgado70826 ай бұрын
Probably the best video out there on modern dating/sexual dynamics. Just the raw truth. Please keep doing these types of long format videos Denmo.
@Denmosocial6 ай бұрын
glad it makes sense. will do
@Mohamedamin886.m4 ай бұрын
@@Denmosocialis 2010-2012 gen alpha or gen z
@adamd91665 ай бұрын
I suppose it's a blessing in disguise. High value men are more high value since so many men are just ducking out
@prizethought5 ай бұрын
This video summed up the entire past decade of the manosphere. Hope every Gen z boy, pre teen, teenage, and young adult man finds this if they’re struggling with their love life.
@norseman-ns5tq5 ай бұрын
Im 33 and got pretty lucky finding the right girl at a early age. I have been married for 10 years now and have 2 healthy kids. Based on the quality of younger women i see now, it's getting harder and harder to defend the idea of long-term relationships with these women that have slept with 20+ guys. I dont care what anyone says, but women mentally change depending on the type of guys and how many guys they've been with. Tic Tok and social media in general have really damaged a large part of Gen z, and it's sad to see happen. One thing i can recommend to guys in their early 20s is to avoid debt and build a good physique. Part of that stays with you forever if you lay the foundation when young. My v shape back is still there even though i had to stop working out for almost 3 years because of a car accident. Even though im married, i still get more attention from young women that i did even in my early 20s. Life in your 30s is a cheat code if you dont screw up in your 20s.
@Undeadsweater5 ай бұрын
I think social media may have warped your perception of what most young women are like. It is still pretty uncommon for a woman in her 20s to have slept with that many men. Obviously it happens, and I think our cultural shift towards sex work being normalized is bad, but it is not at all difficult to find women who don’t think that way and haven’t slept with a lot of people. If anything, it’s harder to find men who aren’t brainwashed by porn culture.
@norseman-ns5tq4 ай бұрын
@Undeadsweater maybe my perception is warped but you gotta understand I was the last age group of guys that didn't have to see if a girl had an only fans or massive instagram account. Hot women still had to go outside their homes to find guys so the game has 100% shifted now
@danteeightsix90696 ай бұрын
I've done all these things and worked on myself all throughout my 20s and 30s. I am greatly needed, but no one seems to want me, that I deserve. I'm surrounded by people of low value, so I'm still opting out of society. I will always be hopeful and do what I can contribute, but I'm tired of people that have been in relationships all their lives telling me, a nearly 40 year old to be patient.
@-whackd6 ай бұрын
Maybe youre not as high value as you think you are.
@youtubebannedmymainchannel3 ай бұрын
I am genuinely curious about your situation so that I can navigate my own life better. So I have a few questions if you don't mind: -Where do you live? -Are you a multimillionaire? -Are you in great physical shape? -How are your conversational skills (humour, storytelling, body language reading, active listening)? -How many different cities have you visited in the last 5 years? -What are your hobbies? -How many books have read in the last 5 years, and how many of those books have you summerized?
@danteeightsix90693 ай бұрын
@@youtubebannedmymainchannel I live in a small town close to other larger cities. I am not a multimillionaire, but these past few years I have focused on becoming finanacially stable and have significantly increased my net worth. I will be a millionaire by the time I retire. I am a Veteran so I am in fairly decent shape. A few medical conditions, but I stay active and drink a lot of water. Based on reactions of others, I seem to come off as a person with great communication skills including the ones mentioned. I have travelled across the northern hemisphere during my military career and have been to at least half the country (US). My main hobbies are related to cars, finances, and entertainment related to both. I always bring a book with me to read when on break at work. I am always trying to learn and only read non-fiction books. This year alone, I am on my 4th book. Quantum Physics, Astronomy, The Art of War, curently on Minerals and Gemstones, and next will be about the Periodic Table of Elements.
@unbiasedbios006 ай бұрын
I am 23, getting my shit together, and I'm on hour 5 of my animation journey. ( At least I think it's hour 5)
@MarekStefanski-ws7ul5 ай бұрын
Hey man Friendly reminder to keep going ;)
@Jhizzle4735 ай бұрын
Can you share your work on insta if so I’ll follow
@imadebouaoun81606 ай бұрын
All You Sad Is The Ultimate Truth, As Man We Have To Stend Up And Work On Ourselves And Level Up In Life
@Denmosocial6 ай бұрын
facts
@romainjojo282016 күн бұрын
As a 37 years old male who past throught a lot of crisis in my life, i really rely on your fresh point of view ! Until my 30, I was a lazy complaining male with a lot of anger toward society, women, this stupid life in general. 3 times in emergency at the hospital for anxiety crisis that lead my to complitely chéange my life. Fast foward years after, I'm a wealthy ironworker who's contribute to the society and helpsn the people around me. Men in the 20's need to understand that this society of weak male only gonna lead them to misery. Life is great, get involve into it and others things will come naturally !
@BeloveDorFrienDАй бұрын
Just doing my part and commenting for the algo. Good shit bro!
@clubberdan75246 ай бұрын
you said leave a comment if it clicked. i stumbled across you, hormozi about a year ago and my life been on the upward trajectory since then. its been a 2 step foward 1 step back process the whole time tho. the inner bum in me vs my external consciousness (mozi,denmo)
@Denmosocial6 ай бұрын
glad to hear that bro
@pushkarkhadase98096 ай бұрын
Hi denmo I keep grinding every day and my normal job timings are 12 hr a day as a software Engineer. But it's you who motivated me enough to even after my job to contribute to society. Really appreciate you brother.❤
@ramiroofaragon93236 ай бұрын
Denmo hit the nail on the head with these harsh truths. ... Thank *YOU*, good sir. ✌
@Undeadsweater5 ай бұрын
Making money and having skills is not something men struggle with now or historically, so doing that now isn’t really what will increase most men’s value. The lack of money is due to the economic situation currently, and is affecting both men and women. The history you describe is correct, but you miss key details that I find more revealing about the specific areas in which men are lacking in today. When men worked, and women were not able or allowed to, women’s only jobs were domestic and family duties. Men only had to work to provide money for the most part. Now, women both CAN and MUST work, but they still do unpaid domestic work. Men have jobs, but have not adapted to the fact that women do as well. So now, working women don’t gain much from a partner that ONLY works a job. In fact, they end up having to do more domestic labor, as the man creates more work for her at home, but doesn’t contribute in this area. Now that the roles are more equal, doing domestic labor and having good communication/emotional skills is necessary for men to add value to a woman’s life, but men are not taught these skills and do not know, want, or believe they should need, to learn them. If you treat a woman like she is a normal person (an equal), and display good interpersonal skills, you will find a relationship. You will (probably) be able to keep a relationship if you contribute equally, communicate well, and remain empathetic and reasonable with your partner.
@thinkforyourselfyall5 ай бұрын
Yesssssssss, this is all that needs to be said. This is what women are looking for. How is this knowledge so rare????
@Undeadsweater5 ай бұрын
@@thinkforyourselfyall It’s rare because many men (especially influencers) don’t look for or listen to women’s opinions about what women want, LOL. They also don’t empathize well with women. They also only look at stats in a way that confirms their own biases.
@litpath36332 ай бұрын
What we really need is to lower the financial burden on families (aka lower taxes, stop printing money, etc), to try to get back to someone staying at home instead of both parents working. This was a disaster of a change, now the kids are being raised by strangers at the public schools and babysitters. They aren't even your kids anymore, someone else spends more time with them and it is pretty much the state... The government loves this new arrangement, they get double the taxes and they can program the minds of all the children 100 times more efficiently...
@MerleBeaire-bd7kh6 ай бұрын
Thank you denmo I've been working on my anxiety that's my biggest issue but you've been a big help thank you
@Denmosocial5 ай бұрын
keep going bro you got this
@rockyblumble13 күн бұрын
I love your no bullshit energy and quality advice
@brandonhonaker54936 ай бұрын
This video and a lot of your content clicked with me awhile ago , needed it to get back on track . Thank you !
@Denmosocial5 ай бұрын
my man glad to hear
@abhijeet87186 ай бұрын
Wow that's the best explanation to this topic i have came across you not only covered the REAL problem with everything but gave the solution to Back then men didn't had any dopamine stimulation like we have so they resprted to being the best at what they do and eventually they would end up with women and fet that dopamine kick which all chase but now we are bombarded with dopamine so we don't have a good reason to approach women So if you cut those dopamine stimulation and work hard on yourself then you will be able to approach women and get the REAL dopamine kick Bro that some amazing insight ❤🎉
@legitsu_6 ай бұрын
bro dropping bangers
@Denmosocial6 ай бұрын
every day
@kairausch14625 ай бұрын
I cant thank you enough! Great explanation!
@Denmosocial5 ай бұрын
glad to hear bro cheers
@hydraV1-c7d6 ай бұрын
hmm , so .... While I agree with what you are saying ,this is VERY simplistic . "I gotta level up " you fail to realise though that currency debasement has been rising exponentially since the early 2000s . So your example of make money provide value , you fail to neglect the intervention of the state, in the UK today your bills and rent and tax is about 70% of your money housing is out of reach rental the same way. There are 50 year olds renting and house sharing bro . These people aint loosers nor did they not try hard ....they are simply in a position of financial hardship caused deliberately . The state is actively punishing men at every level ... We should never be lazy or sit and do nothing , but the birth rates are dropping , why? is it just women? no.... is it just men ? no ....We have to go to work to pay in the UK for illegals to come into the country they will be given jobs over the indigenous at 80% payrate ... which will surpress the gdp per capita .... which means living standards fall further ... families cannot grow in this enviroment my man . The ONLY way this ends is 1people work out why all this happened 2 stopping it .
@AR72716 ай бұрын
Lazy weak men created this problem. I have been trying to form a local militia for a few months now and it's been difficult because people are so afraid of the government. These people are literally stealing our money and we're doing nothing to stop it. But people are afraid of the thieves it makes no sense to me from a logical standpoint. The only sense that makes is it is easier to go along to get along then to confront thieves head on and make history.
@milanpospisil80244 ай бұрын
I knew several people earning a lots of money, but they have no women. While I know men with low money that has plenty of women (and no kids because they cant afford to start family)... Problem is that you need to build both value to attract women (thus doing some sports, become interesting) and at the same time you need to be very good at your work to afford family. Those things may be mutually exclusive, because being in the work from the morning to evening will decrease your value in dating, while having a lots of free time and doing something interesting will increase your value...
@mishan31686 ай бұрын
What separate you from most of similar self improvement guys - you tak A LOT about what guys actually NEED TO HEAR . Not about they want to .
@rodrigohenrique57826 ай бұрын
Bro, why would i even care about having kids and passing genes? the world is fucked, why would i put another soul in this world to suffer just for my ego?
@-whackd6 ай бұрын
Most people aren't depressed losers like you are. Some people like life, but you wouldn't understand.
@miniaturejayhawk87025 ай бұрын
Ironically with that logic you will just be a dead end for your family tree because of your ego. Of course you will probably react with how you dont owe anything to anyone however that would only contradict your original statement. Please stop acting like you are some altruist and just say that you dont like having kids arounds. The world is not coming to an end and you are really helping nobody by having less people around to solve the existing problems.
@rodrigohenrique57825 ай бұрын
@@miniaturejayhawk8702 Bro, who cares about their family tree, In 3 generations nobody will know your name even in your own family. i dont know the name of my great great grandfather And 99% chances that the men in your family are not some super important human, just normal people. There are a lot of normal people in the world so why would you even care about bloodline like your are some king, duke of England that the kingdom needs a sucessor Second of all, chances are my kids would not be some Enstein or someone like that to solve a big humanity problem. There are plenty of people in the workspace to substitute one another
@d.dr.v424 ай бұрын
@@rodrigohenrique5782things are different now with the internet, you can register a video talking about your life and conserve it for future generations. If someone cares about you enough your video could be seen by people from 1000s years in the future.
@litpath36332 ай бұрын
because every generation suffers. to struggle against suffering and succeed is what we are here to do. we have a choice to be bitter or take action. those who take action will end up a) reproducing and b) fixing what needs fixing when you have a house, things are always breaking down and falling apart, if someone in that house is not patching the leaks, replacing the trim, fixing the door knobs, etc the house will crumble very quickly. we have dropped the ball on the house of society, and it is crumbling unless each of us starts fixing stuff.
@BrutalOrc5 ай бұрын
I don't feel like I owe society shit.
@miniaturejayhawk87025 ай бұрын
What about the water you drink, the air you breathe and the food you eat? All of them are afdected by the laws of the society thatyou live in. Also taxes.
@bennoreuter43935 ай бұрын
@@miniaturejayhawk8702 Brutal raises a valid point. Given that all of that has already been extorted from you using taxes and laws, with the little power you have left, you say "I was robbed enough, I won't rob myself of the only joys I have left as well just to make some lazy cunt happy. Serving society rubs me the very wrong way, serving the society that gives me misinformation about where it's better, spreads lies about other countries to keep you in, and to change you just need a little bit of encouragement which nobody gives you. That guy in the video all he wants is to sell his courses, so he creates a lack in you, he probably doesnt even have a girl or serves society in any way.
@litpath36332 ай бұрын
It's a pretty incredible amount of work and a lot of people that produces one slice of bread.
@MAR2TV6 ай бұрын
Holly shhiet, things are making click rn, great video as always, thnk u Denmo 🧐
@Denmosocial6 ай бұрын
gotchu bro
@EbayvideosR5 ай бұрын
I’m a low value man and dated a high value woman. I felt bullied and insecure because she kept comparing me to her ex’s and other men. This was the first time I dating a woman at the age of 41. I never realised how weak I was as a man otherwise I wouldn’t have done anything. I have zero friends and extremely lonely, so I’d probably be better off dead as I offer no value. I ended the relationship out of love because I was too negative and insecure. Broke my own heart and it took 10 months to heal. A man must always be in par with a woman or smarter. If the woman is smarter than it’s virtually game over
@Undeadsweater5 ай бұрын
I’m sorry that she hurt you by comparing you to exes. That is not fair to you, and I think that it’s generally toxic for someone to do that to their partner. Ideally two partners should be roughly equal in intelligence, but the idea that only the man should be smarter is ridiculous. You would rather date a dumber, less interesting woman, just because you’re insecure? Instead of dealing with your insecurity, you’ve decided to date worse women so that you can always feel like you’re better than them. This is not a healthy way to deal with it, and pretty sad and pathetic. Maybe you can rethink your approach, and improve yourself rather than seeking dumber partners.
@EbayvideosR5 ай бұрын
@@Undeadsweater I feel it was more of an experiment on her part because I was 41 who never had a gf or been on a date before. We were great as friends and made each other laugh all the time, but my lack of experience and confidence messed everything up. On a positive note, she taught me about heartbreak, grieving and being played. Although it’s bad, I’m more the wiser and decided to retire from dating/finding someone. If you feel your not good enough for any woman, best to avoid because a better man can take your place. It’s taken 10 months to heal my broken heart. Some may take quicker to heal but breaking a heart isn’t a nice feeling and that’s why I had to retire. Men should be in par or smarter than the women. If women are smarter than their partners, they are going to make them feel insecure and that will lead women to keep their options open/cheat. Men will always feel inferior when women are significantly smarter than them. I’m not after anyone and retired after my recent experience.
@musikamusika173628 күн бұрын
Your woman was trash. Comparing your lover to others, is a trashy move, and when you do it loudly in front of them, you're abusive. Abusive people are the lowest of the low. I don't know how kind you were towards her, but she was 100% trash for abusing you dude.
@selfcaresally5 ай бұрын
the whole “value” discussion always omits the secret that there are “levels” of value that can’t be detected just by looking at a person. And also the best long-term partnerships increase the “value” of both partners and their family, if they make one. I’ve initially overlooked men as partners who, as I got to know them over time and interaction, demonstrated qualities (like personal integrity, quiet wittiness, relational attunement, supportiveness of kids, etc) that were far more valuable and sexier to me than being the best -looking or highest-income or whatever. I’m married to a man who dismissed me initially as a partner (and I him) but as we got to know each other over a year of being sort of coworkers, we discovered really amazing qualities in each other. I made more than him when we got married and now he out-earns me, and we support each other’s growth and development and our kids’ too instead of competing with each other.
@bineam1166 ай бұрын
i f**king get it now, thank you
@Denmosocial5 ай бұрын
gotchu homie
@noearciniegas94262 ай бұрын
You are a great speaker. I love coming to this classes about life. I really enjoy listening to you speak and to everything you have to say.
@zakhendo50616 ай бұрын
Dude you've come so far, you're making over 80k a month now just from this channel. Huge props to you bro, definitely motivates me a lot and shows the power of the internet and certain business models
@jonp.10846 ай бұрын
Excellent tough love approach sir.
@Denmosocial5 ай бұрын
gotchu brother trying to help
@TravisCotter6 ай бұрын
Bumbs are Dumb Bumbs are Dumb. I hold my breath all the time waiting for something really big to happen. Thank you Denmo. Mr. X
@marvin24846 ай бұрын
It hurts waking up everyday knowing that your problem won’t be solved too soon.
@Denmosocial6 ай бұрын
so keep going anyways brother
@sfrealestatedealmaker60014 ай бұрын
I like your channel man, you’re the most intellectual pick up/red pill dude on KZbin
@danielvillagomezrazo12256 ай бұрын
I'm just starting a well pay job as a Technician but I'm new, I have a lot to learn and improve, every day all expect that I perform good, life is hard
@LiGHTProductions5 ай бұрын
You are on a good path. Keep going!
@Sh0ckmaster4 ай бұрын
Reminds me of an expression I remember hearing at school: Oppression is the mother of ingenuity.
@jonp.10846 ай бұрын
For all you younger guys that feel like by the time you get to where you want to be (because it can be a lengthy process for some, myself included), just know that at the finish line you can still date young and beautiful women well in to your 40s and 50s. I’m 43 and it’s almost creepy how many sub 20 women make it apparent they are very interested in me. That’s a bit young for me but the offer seems to always be on the table. You have plenty of time if you decide to commit to becoming the best version of yourself that you can. Just commit to it and know it’s not a straight line. There is not a ton of competition because of the weakness of modern men.
@-whackd6 ай бұрын
What are the ages of the last women you hooked up with?
@jonp.10846 ай бұрын
@@-whackd 24 and 27
@Cpt_Quack6 ай бұрын
Man, fuckin love you Denmo, always on point with ur mentality. Good video bro.
@Denmosocial5 ай бұрын
username checks out cheers bro
@zevac6 ай бұрын
I think this channel is the only thing that's given me ego death besides shrooms back in 2018. Glad I'm subbed
@Denmosocial6 ай бұрын
did not expect that but glad it helped
@demven045 ай бұрын
Such an incredibly episode, very interesting thoughts. I’m literally impressed. Thanks for chewing this for us and putting in our mouths.
@tamayohutton89654 ай бұрын
There are several flaws in the argument: 1. Democracy: there are more women than men and they have and continue to vote for more socialist system that reduce meritocracy by taxing the more productive and these taxes go overwhelmingly to women. 2. Social Pressures: Women despite having more rights than men still overwhelmingly make less than men on average because there are mating pressures on men to do so because women are hypergamus. But they still complain and put social pressures on schools, businesses to give more opportunities to women even though women don't want to do these jobs or degrees, or are just not as good, hence the development of DEI and quotas etc. These are massive problems. We need men's labour and creative power to move society forward because women overwhelmingly haven't created the same amount of value to society in this way, and by moving in this direction they aren't creating the value which only they can which is through making children. We are seeing this play out through massive drops in birth rates as well as a decline in economic productivity. This is way more than just dating, this is the survival of the human species. We need meritocracy so women who are capable and want to do traditionally masculine things should be able to. But when all women are being pushed to waste their most fertile years through propaganda and government invention, while simultaneously demonizing and alienating young men traditionally the biggest source of productivity and innovation (destruction too) we are literally destroying the future.
@sir.confident5 ай бұрын
I have two dates lined up this week. You're right, I was an incel at one point.
@Denmosocial5 ай бұрын
proud of you brother. huge progress. amazing
@sir.confident5 ай бұрын
@@Denmosocial Fast forward......when we got home, let's just say.......that was the best penile message I have ever had. 😁🍑🍆
@DavidW-ux2gc6 ай бұрын
Dating coaches often use Jabba the Hutt as an example of a guy to emulate as he's physically unattractive but is still surrounded by multiple vvomen.
@Denmosocial6 ай бұрын
lmao thats funny
@lordgrim3555 ай бұрын
As a 28 year old man I agree with most of what’s being said I think men who leave these women alone and grind and make money. Like you said contribute to society still regardless. Making life about getting women is pathetic. You should be wanting to make your life better period. That should be the only focus.
@erenjaeger69286 ай бұрын
Thank you bro I get ur points
@bboynewsboy9916 ай бұрын
I just got through telling a man this last Friday
@milanpospisil80244 ай бұрын
Leveling playing field by forbidding dating apps and onlyfans is not really communism, but it was also common in capitalism in 19th century. Its just thing about moral rules of relationships. In 19th century, capitalism was in its highest, but still, women were forbid to do sex outside of marriage and there was moral punishment from society. There were also arranged marriages. This has nothing to do with communism. I was born in communism, sex outside of marriage was common and no arranged marriages.
@laddrusso52436 ай бұрын
"You'd be dead" 🤣🤣
@catalinpausan21355 ай бұрын
It is, you really made me to open my eyes. Thanks
@Basilbabyeats2 ай бұрын
Okay. Hear me out. I think it’s so interesting that throughout time instead of questioning the systems that men have created (like capitalism, industrialization, money, and war) men are not questioning these systems in the 21st century. Yes, contributing to society is important (earning a living, paying taxes, not being an asshole) but I think if men could be open to having other goals outside of pussy/sex/women/high-level contributions to society I think we all could benefit. Modern men aren’t weak. Men just need to have more fun with their lives. Make money, sure. Pay your rent, of course. Move out of your parent's place when you’re ready! But have fun! Take up a hobby. Be silly. Go dancing in a club! Men don’t have to be so focused on overproduction! Especially not for women. Women want joyful partners that feel open to enjoying these new opportunities women have in the 2000s. Life doesn’t need to be this panicked or complicated. Just have fun with us guys. That’s all we want 🤣
@moussaahmed46755 ай бұрын
I’m still young but I’m tryna make the most out of my time while still having fun
@Denmosocial5 ай бұрын
great mindset
@OceanicEstate6 ай бұрын
Western clothing collapsed upon it's own merit.
@trinsit3 ай бұрын
Looking at the world through the lens of comparison can be problematic. Value is subjective and thinking yours are high causes you to look down on others and EVERYONE is doing this to each other. You are an insignificant speck in this existence and the universe will not notice nor care when you're gone. And everyone holding back does make a difference because a big cause is that no women has to care if they lose a relationship. Some other yahoo is always willing to sleep with them, even if they're in a relationship. No one cares until the get consequences. And even then, you ALL will make excuses as to why you're right rather than be humble and learn from it.
@oklife21835 ай бұрын
Thanks bro🎉
@shadow_09295 ай бұрын
“You choose to be stupid” Damn, you're right
@Denmosocial5 ай бұрын
not meant to offend, just educate. hope it helps
@shadow_09295 ай бұрын
@@Denmosocial Your videos are definitely helpful. I just thought the way you said that was on point and quite funny at the same time
@jvaga5 ай бұрын
Cold approached 34 women in college the past 3 months, got 5 Instagrams but no relationships. It makes 0 fucking sense, I’m average looking but not ugly and I have a sense of humor. This shit is insane
@theblerd18895 ай бұрын
Focus on you bro make that money and go to the gym 5 days a week
@hyperstorm76365 ай бұрын
I cold approached 5k to get 1 relationship
@bh-rf9dd3 ай бұрын
I recommend going for warm approach over cold approach. You can do this by developing a good group of friends where you hangout doing wholesome stuff like sports which other girls might also like to join. You can also invite girls to hangout in low pressure scenarios which will help just build a network of girls that can simply be friends. Eventually you might meet a girl in that network worth dating. It will also set the relationship for success from the beginning because of the social network which connects you.
@Yuri-nc9vl6 ай бұрын
What I can say AI gf business will gonna be huge and I want a pie from it 😅 Being succesfull & rich is much better
@robertfullone90326 ай бұрын
Morals, ethics, and values...
@Pile556 ай бұрын
The best is to get higher rate women then mens value go up. But politicans want more men to lower mens value , to force men to work hard.
@tatertots50066 ай бұрын
You Should Write a Book!
@TravisCotter6 ай бұрын
Denmo I am really catching on to what your saying. For me I am a dumbass I'll keep pushing a door when it says pull but I need a woman and blatant stupidity is not attractive. I need you to give me a One sentence answer to me as what I should do. Mr. X
@skkadoot95335 ай бұрын
i have to disagree with the point that people won't lower their level. Women might have more choice when it comes to dating, but they still need it, there are still a lot of frustrated women out there complaining they can't find a worthy man, and that's the thing, sure they can aim at the very top of men, but the math simply won't work because there would be such an over abundance of women targetting the top that it's just impossible for the majority of them to succeed, this creates frustrated people, and frustrated people change culture. We are only looking at this through the lens of dating and sex, but when it comes to actual life long relationships men do have a lot of power, we can delay raising a family for way longer than they can, a men in their 30's aren't desperate to have children, but a woman would be. Eventually the realization comes that if you only aim for the top men, you aren't going to have children, or at least are going to be raising them alone. Both men and women still have their heads in the past, and i expect both of us to change our mentality as time goes foward, i see this power inversion like two springs oscilating and losing energ with every swing, i don't think women have as much power today as men had before, and that furthers my point that we are going to be doing a few cycles of power swing losing energy with each turn until things stabilize close to the center. Edit: i 100% agree people should rise their level, that's just straight up good for you regardless of women, but my point is that a society can only work if the average guy can get the average woman, and i don't think the average guy is a basement dweller who puts no effort, but if women tend to pursue people with higher value than them and their own value is now equal to guys, then the average women will be pursuing the top men, and that's the problem. We can't reverse to a society where the average women has less value than men, and that means the only solution is for people to lower their standards, not to people below them, but for people with the same value as them
@skkadoot95335 ай бұрын
also, while biological desires are strong, they are still influenced by culture, if the situation keeps getting worse for men we are probably going to have boys being taught that pursuing sex isn't worth it, and this doesn't mean happier men, but it does mean women will also start loosing access to sex, both sides will get progressively less satisfied
@SHIVAM-o2c4i5 ай бұрын
Thanks 🪄
@Discoverchris3 ай бұрын
Denmo women been fucking shit up since the fucking beginning of time In the garden of Eden
@elitepuncher4 ай бұрын
Hey Denmo, appreciate the video. I currently am 24 years old and I’ve been working for a security tech company for about 3 years now making a decent living. I work 44-50 hours a week depending on overtime hours and things of that nature. I cold approach but not as much as I should be because I look for ‘ choosing’ signals, is this the wrong mindset to have? Just confused on what to do because there is a lot of advice out there that just contradicts eachother
@ZXNTV6 ай бұрын
Unsubbed, from my point of view the only path forward is technologies like AGi and humanoid robots. You're right we can't go backwards but changing yourself for the "good of society" or women isn't going to convince men who've been scarred, especially if you just call them cockroaches who will be forgotten. (We all will at some point) Make no mistake when it comes to dating it's a competition so it makes sense to be aggressive, just don't hate people who decide to opt out, no one owes anyone anything.
@gougouga6 ай бұрын
what the fuck
@theblerd18895 ай бұрын
Self report
@jessieloise21525 ай бұрын
"Just dont be a bum bro" as if a lot of us are successful w everything except women... Stable job, fit, not a douchebag, the results of my labor? Nothing, but maybe if I take steroids and make 6 figures that will fix my problems...
@TehGoldd5 ай бұрын
Was it 50/50 back then because divorce rates were 50%?
@neilwaterson24875 ай бұрын
Thank.
@litpath36332 ай бұрын
I think I get more stressed while playing games lol
@PhilosophyMadeInteresting4 ай бұрын
Shoutout denmo
@TravisCotter6 ай бұрын
Denmo, I am the chimp or less than a chimp. Mr. X
@AlekNovy4 ай бұрын
Here's the part that your "solution" MISSES. It's not mathematically possible for guys as a group to reach the new ASK. The issue is not that that women merely ask for more than they used to. That's not the issue! Women have always gradually increased the ask with each generation, which is what drives human evolution. THAT PART IS FINE, but you're MISSING something... The RELATIVE ask has increased. This instinct in women had always been calibrated via looking at the bottom 50% of men and asking them to level up and get over that 50% threshold. This meant that most guys could become worthy if they just put in the work. The issue is that today that SAME instinct in women has been mis-calibrated (due to algorithm brain) where women confuse the top 50% of their social feed for "what worthy looks like", not realizing it's the top 1% of the actual population. The ask today is "stop being in the bottom 99%" Even if ALL MEN LEVELED UP, NOTHING WOULD CHANGE, because we'd just have a new 1%. It's not MATHEMATICALLY possible that men simply become dateable by becoming a 1%er. By its very NATURE the goal is unreachable no matter how much work men put in, because as they level up, the goalpost just moves (due to the fact it's always calibrated to the new 1% via what women see on their feeds).
@panagioti63716 ай бұрын
This mf spittin
@LeaderfasteR5 ай бұрын
very helpful
@insidetrip1013 ай бұрын
This isn't the point of your video, but it is a point that irks me. Do people Romanticize the past? Absolutely. The mindset that ancient people had would have horrified us in so many ways with the depths of their intensity. The past were full of literal people who had no other option but to live out their values with intensity--otherwise, as you say there would be ostracization i.e. death. However, I am perhaps more annoyed by demonizing the past. Just because there were lots of rapes and murders, weren't because of anarchy. In most all states there were plenty of serious laws--and perhaps even more threatening--moral imperatives, that kept men from acting in the ways you described. Now, in many of those cultures (the middle ages not being one for their devotion to Christianity), would have believed they did nothing wrong if they could get away with it. But I would say there are plenty of people like that today, they're just either in jail, at the pinnacle of power or likely not in the west. Don't get me wrong, people got away with bad shit long before. But the real truth is we have an abundance of food, which causes very few wars, which causes not so much state sanctioned violence--and here's where we start to get political. In lots of the world where there is real war torn countries--we make the past look like heaven...... Like you said, we have many of the same problems in the past as we do today, we just have technology help us with them. But that doesn't mean that I think that its cut and dry that technology has aided humanity. I think the lack of suffering has really weakened the western moral fabric more than we would like to admit, and its not easy to phrase that without coming off as some sort of fascist. I'm not saying that we should try to "go back in time," but I am saying that I question the modern believe that prosperity actually solves all the problems. Bad education? throw money at it. Bad Health care? Throw money . . . throw money . . . throw money . . . as if that's the all powerful force in the world. Wealth is a great force, but I really do not think it is the end all be all, and though the rich and powerful threw around their power the best they could, when they could . . . the overwhelmingly poor majority did not. "The strong do what they can, and the weak suffer what the must." I don't see that being anything but a universal human truth--that even exists today.
@initiatorhater06886 ай бұрын
It shouldn't be a surprise... women don't need to know or learn any particular skills or behaviors in order to have men want to date them, just be attractive and available... But men have to demonstrate value right from the beginning in many ways - so we as men have to end up having to working on ourselves a lot more than women do just to get dates and be able to attract the other sex. Whenever people say that women have to know or learn skills or learn certain behaviors in order to attract men, have men want to date them, i get very annoyed, it just makes me laugh and cringe.
@donkeyparadise92766 ай бұрын
Is lust a vice or a virtue?
@eduardogonzalezguerra5 ай бұрын
a sin.
@luqmanahmed31915 ай бұрын
i don't man i am 24 right now i am going to be a doctor next year yet i have a porn and masturbation problem and ever time i talk to a girl and i get to a good start i just can't continue i feel stuck and act weird and then the relationship goes down the f"ucking graph chart it just needs consistency and time and effort and i can't seem to give it what it takes i just feel i bit lonely and i have become kind of complainer i complain about everything when i take steps to change bro it lasts a few weeks and i am back to the same place, in the long run, i think it is just spelling out disaster i think i need help like serious mental help i am becoming more of a patient than a doctor but i just have a hope that things will turn around and i can be this confident block that is contributing positively to himself and the society
@Lordani665 ай бұрын
Yes it was better that way, because it was the only way the society prospered. That's just the way nature made us. Anything else is causing the current downfall.
@Demonvii74 ай бұрын
Women will benefit most here, alot of men will get fit and get better paying jobs and then provide even more attractive options for women to cherrypick 😂
@cardeajackson76445 ай бұрын
You never talk about how guys are suppose to get a boyfriend like why is the advice only catering to straight people.
@theblerd18895 ай бұрын
I think you guys got it on lock tbh
@TravisCotter6 ай бұрын
Hey Denmo like wow man I don't want a woman in my life, I'd much rather play Madden Football. Xman
@zhenlixhd74912 ай бұрын
Damn I get it now
@Tyler-AlАй бұрын
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@yuno78256 ай бұрын
yo Jack, I was with some friends not too long ago and there was a girl that I didnt know who she was or where she came from. We were 4 guys just talking and having random conversations and I noticed she wasnt engaging nor speaking with the group, so I tried to have a convo with her. I got her attention and asked her what her name was, if she was friends with a guy in the group and if she was studing or working. All I got were 1 word responses for each question, so I just quit. Should I have done anything different? Its not like I was attracted to her or anything I was just trying to have a chat.
@AR72716 ай бұрын
Nope
@palmitexx5 ай бұрын
it makes sense
@alex53903 ай бұрын
Hey dude I think it's time to learn the difference between "your" and "you're"... Makes you lose a LOT of credibility.
@tamtenchalan64256 ай бұрын
What should I do when girl is stalking me?
@theblerd18895 ай бұрын
Ignore her
@house40474 ай бұрын
Our Population Levels are Extremely Low; it makes Sense though, as Morality is Essential for a Healthy Society.
@Nightwalker11056 ай бұрын
Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times. - Dunno where I heard it
@Laissez-faire4026 ай бұрын
People need to stop parroting this useless phrase.
@Tyler-AlАй бұрын
25
@albirruakbar4 ай бұрын
is okay if poor guy approach woman?
@Xviann5 ай бұрын
I actually think human females will lose value as AI robots become super realistic