The Science of Emotions & Relationships

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Andrew Huberman

Andrew Huberman

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In this episode, I discuss the biology of emotions and moods in the context of relationships. I focus on the science of how early infant-caregiver attachment, combined with adolescence and puberty shapes our adult patterns of attachment. I explain the three universal aspects of emotions, the reality of right-brain versus left-brain personalities, and how the roots of adult attachment are also grounded in specific aspects of puberty. I review what factors determine when puberty starts and ends, and the role of oxytocin and other chemicals in controlling how we perceive and remember others. As always, I refer to various practical tools including new tools for understanding and predicting our emotions before they occur, and neurochemicals that shape human connection.
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Timestamps
00:00:00 Introduction
00:05:10 Announcing New Cost-Free Resources: Captions, NSDR Link
00:07:40 Emotions: Subjective Yet Tractable
00:10:53 To Understand Your Emotions: Look At Infancy & Puberty
00:15:21 Your First Feeling Was Anxiety
00:17:36 What Are “Healthy Emotions”?
00:19:03 Digital Tool For Predicting Your Emotions: Mood Meter App
00:21:08 The Architecture Of A Feeling: (At Least) 3 Key Questions To Ask Yourself
00:24:00 You Are An Infant: Bonds & Predictions
00:27:57 Attachment Style Hinges On How You Handle Disappointment
00:32:40 “Glue Points” Of Emotional Bonds: Gaze, Voice, Affect, Touch, (& Written)
00:36:34 “Emotional Health”: Awareness of the Interoceptive-Exteroceptive Dynamic
00:37:50 An Exercise: Controlling Interoceptive-Exteroceptive Bias
00:42:19 Getting Out Of Your Head: The Attentional Aperture
00:46:59 Puberty: Biology & Emotions On Deliberate Overdrive
00:47:58 Bodyfat & Puberty: The Leptin Connection
00:50:34 Pheromones: Mates, Timing Puberty, Spontaneous Miscarriage
00:54:37 Kisspeptin: Robust Trigger Of Puberty & Performance Enhancing Agent
00:58:26 Neuroplasticity Of Emotions: Becoming Specialists & Testing Emotional Bonds
01:00:25 Testing Driving Brain Circuits For Emotion: Dispersal
01:07:48 Science-Based Recommendations for Adolescents and Teens: The Autonomy Buffet
01:11:05 “Right-Brain Versus Left-Brain People”: Facts Versus Lies
01:14:18 Left Brain = Language, Right Brain = Spatial Awareness
01:16:15 How To Recognize “Right Brain Activity” In Speech: Prosody
01:18:32 Oxytocin: The Molecule of Synchronizing States
01:20:09 Mirror Neurons: Are Not For “Empathy”, Maybe For Predicting Behavior
01:23:00 Promoting Trust & Monogamy
01:27:00 Ways To Increase Oxytocin
01:28:34 Vasopressin: Aphrodisiac, Non-Monogamy and Anti-Bed-Wetting Qualities
01:30:43 Bonding Bodies, Not Just Minds: Vagus Nerve, Depression Relief Via the Body
01:35:18 A Powerful Tool For Enhancing Range & Depth of Emotional Experience
01:30:43 MDMA and Other Psychedelic Compounds: Building A Framework
01:38:54 Roundup, Various Forms of Support
Please note that The Huberman Lab Podcast is distinct from Dr. Huberman's teaching and research roles at Stanford University School of Medicine. The information provided in this show is not medical advice, nor should it be taken or applied as a replacement for medical advice. The Huberman Lab Podcast, its employees, guests and affiliates assume no liability for the application of the information discussed.
Title Card Photo Credit: Mike Blabac www.blabacphoto.com

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@sagu1lar
@sagu1lar 3 жыл бұрын
Videos like this are the true purpose of the Internet: High value knowledge available for everyone for the sole purpose of truly improving our lives and humanity as a whole. Thank you a thousand times for creating such informative and healing content for us all.
@hubermanlab
@hubermanlab 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Santiago. I thank you for the kind words of feedback and for your interest in science, your support of science education and science-based tools. Best wishes, Andrew
@fawntwo-spirit4579
@fawntwo-spirit4579 3 жыл бұрын
@@hubermanlab Where are the captions Andrew? Every other video has them written clearly.
@kasha5839
@kasha5839 3 жыл бұрын
We are literally blessed beyond measure.
@ayadc9896
@ayadc9896 2 жыл бұрын
@@kasha5839 ¹11,
@mariav.267
@mariav.267 2 жыл бұрын
@@hubermanlab Dr. Huberman how do you know the person's name? Is not on the post!
@axemanace
@axemanace 3 жыл бұрын
"Welcome to the Huberman Lab Podcast, where we discuss science and science based tools for everyday life." has become the highlight of my Mondays!!
@raetvnetwork
@raetvnetwork 3 жыл бұрын
LITERALLY!!!
@jamesthomas9340
@jamesthomas9340 3 жыл бұрын
Bigg facts
@susanna3196
@susanna3196 3 жыл бұрын
"and as always, thank you for your interest in science"
@Taminator38
@Taminator38 3 жыл бұрын
It has a Pavlov style conditioning effect on me, as if listening to this sentence in his voice triggers my nervous system to start focusing and learning
@not_elm0
@not_elm0 3 жыл бұрын
I love the intro. It's catchy.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 3 жыл бұрын
*Topic request: The science of attraction. But also the neurology of losing attraction.* Thank you!
@aey8737
@aey8737 3 жыл бұрын
For both sexes, and not only romantic, but friendships, family relationships etc.
@superfun7380
@superfun7380 3 жыл бұрын
Need this!
@BoostYourBiology
@BoostYourBiology 3 жыл бұрын
Dopamine D2 receptor down-regulation, + Oxytocin reduction + 5-HT1A post synaptic receptor desensitisation + Increased Prolactin + Down-regulation of M4R receptor.
@davidballado8351
@davidballado8351 3 жыл бұрын
Yeeeeeeeeeees!!
@Bostonceltics1369
@Bostonceltics1369 3 жыл бұрын
Sensible request. Why do i suspect oxytocin is going to show up there too.
@Goudney
@Goudney Жыл бұрын
As someone who can't afford therapy or really any kind of medical care, I wanted to thank you for giving people all of this information for free.
@francesbeth2077
@francesbeth2077 10 ай бұрын
Yes, even with insurance finding the therapist who is knowledgeable on this topic, is a great help.
@Kirkeuglen
@Kirkeuglen 3 жыл бұрын
What a time to be alive to be able to listen to such high quality content about the cutting edge of neurobiology/neuroscience
@kelseychow5415
@kelseychow5415 2 жыл бұрын
And for free, the comment section is also so supportive. Knowing that we are all on the path of learning is so comforting.
@isuckatgaming7225
@isuckatgaming7225 3 жыл бұрын
This podcast is a gold mine.. the knowledge that you share is unbelievable.. I'm just an uneducated idiot from a third world country, i don't understand every technical words that you say.. but I do enjoy very much all the information that I get out of it. To have a person with your education sharing it to the word for free is just a pure gift, so thank you.
@alfonsonicolasbacusmo3820
@alfonsonicolasbacusmo3820 3 жыл бұрын
Same here bro, from SEA however dont undermine yourself. Education is free nowadays.
@8maxthemax8
@8maxthemax8 3 жыл бұрын
@@alfonsonicolasbacusmo3820 But with the amount of misinformation that pollutes that market, it still requires a lot of work to reach good sources.
@bhaavji3495
@bhaavji3495 3 жыл бұрын
This podcast makes me regret choosing technology as career option. neuroscience is so fancy...
@elizabethhouser822
@elizabethhouser822 3 жыл бұрын
The true mark of an educated person is the ability and desire to learn then to use the knowledge. I don’t think you’re uneducated.
@almasalazar8318
@almasalazar8318 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so humble. I, too, recognize my ignorance and am so grateful to Dr. Huberman. Totally relate! (BTW, I'm an educator, but this field is excitingly new to me! 😊)
@imm0rtalitypassi0n
@imm0rtalitypassi0n 3 жыл бұрын
I've gotten at least seven different friends from all walks interested in your lectures since the podcast began, and all of them have gained something from it. (Myself included.) Such powerful work, Doc. You're a good egg.
@hubermanlab
@hubermanlab 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you ever so much for the feedback and support. That is very gratifying to hear. Best wishes, Andrew
@imm0rtalitypassi0n
@imm0rtalitypassi0n 3 жыл бұрын
@@hubermanlab you couldn't be more welcome. 😉
@12thDecember
@12thDecember 2 жыл бұрын
You're lucky, not only in that you have more than seven friends, but that you have seven friends who are interested in neuroscience. There is absolutely no one in my life, not now or ever, who has expressed the least interest in what I consider to be an incredibly fascinating subject, even to a layperson such as myself.
@parentleadcoaching
@parentleadcoaching 2 жыл бұрын
@@12thDecember - you have friends here :)!
@brianfrederick9219
@brianfrederick9219 2 жыл бұрын
@@12thDecember Initially I spent my free time sharing info and most people ignored me, so I stopped talking (teaching) and started listening (learning) and saved alot of time and energy for future friendships. I only know 3 people who care unfortunately. I do think the regulars could create a social media group or network. Huberman is saving my life one video at a time, so crazy that this info is free! Thank you Huberman!
@memastarful
@memastarful 3 жыл бұрын
Experiencing The Dr. HUBERMAN EFFECT= Happiness on Mondays
@dianazamarron2370
@dianazamarron2370 3 жыл бұрын
Lol exactly! I enjoy Mondays more now 😅
@codyvandervoort4079
@codyvandervoort4079 3 жыл бұрын
Lol same my favourite day of the week now
@katherinemarconi2799
@katherinemarconi2799 3 жыл бұрын
Yep! Always looking forward to mondays now.
@nikkifonvergne3516
@nikkifonvergne3516 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@___olympia6233
@___olympia6233 3 жыл бұрын
Haha aww same here
@braaap56
@braaap56 3 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU SIR! I have intense social anxiety around extended family gatherings and love the interdiction to this topic. A podcast strictly focused on “SOCIAL ANXIETY” would be awesome 👏🏼 🙏🏼
@Shadow77999
@Shadow77999 2 жыл бұрын
Upvoted for recognition
@polarcandie
@polarcandie Жыл бұрын
up
@AikiraBeats
@AikiraBeats Жыл бұрын
It really would I know that there are some events that just make me feel overwhelmed sometimes. I would like to know the reasoning behind those feelings.
@nickshadowNL
@nickshadowNL Жыл бұрын
'' :bbb:, I am not b bv x I @@AikiraBeats
@Maximum_Dev
@Maximum_Dev 3 жыл бұрын
At this rate Dr Huberman will have a 100 million dollar deal from Spotify by the fall.
@redbeard3946
@redbeard3946 3 жыл бұрын
Dear god I hope not. I don't want him removing this from KZbin.
@Maximum_Dev
@Maximum_Dev 3 жыл бұрын
I’m sure he won’t, I was just saying this is better than joe rogan’s podcast IMO.
@galaxyalexanderh5737
@galaxyalexanderh5737 3 жыл бұрын
😬please no. He deserves the money but I do not want that lame app.
@barbarawilson777
@barbarawilson777 3 жыл бұрын
@@redbeard3946 He keeps it on both Spotify and KZbin. He also does Instagram! Many platforms to reach many people! Love it!
@8maxthemax8
@8maxthemax8 3 жыл бұрын
@@Maximum_Dev We'll have a month dedicated to DMT.
@yaduwithjadu
@yaduwithjadu Жыл бұрын
Hi Doc I am a medical scribe. I have been listening to your podcast for a long time. Now, while working with physician's I happen to notice your name a lot. Physician's have been recommending your podcast for dealing with anxiety and panic attacks. Your most prominent one is dopamine pathways. Proud moment for your Sir. You are changing the world. Keep it up Sir
@ezaudafi
@ezaudafi 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe this material is free. Thank you, Andrew Huberman!!
@NstyFantasy
@NstyFantasy 3 жыл бұрын
I recognize my attachment to this podcast.
@jubitubimaja
@jubitubimaja 3 жыл бұрын
Haha, me too!
@donnahowarth1545
@donnahowarth1545 2 жыл бұрын
Me three!
@TheMorninGlory23
@TheMorninGlory23 3 жыл бұрын
My Mondays are always brightened when this pops up :)
@caw7007
@caw7007 3 жыл бұрын
Doc, this should information be on every level of education curriculum. That would make the world a better place. Lack of understanding of emotions has a lot to do with the anger and hate all around. It’s exhausting. 💖
@justingirard7476
@justingirard7476 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like exteroception! I am applying knowledge haha
@winbalingit8502
@winbalingit8502 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!😎👍🏽✌🏽
@andromachitziamou2135
@andromachitziamou2135 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with you.. hope New Zealand adopt this soon ( Mention this country because up to now is the country that makes the most futuristic movements towards well-being. But any other country , please do so as soon as possible).
@elizabethhouser822
@elizabethhouser822 3 жыл бұрын
I agree but this would be a threat to the government schools practice of indoctrination rather than real education. The greatest danger to the educational status quo would be the giving students the ability to think critically and have personal agency.
@joydot7620
@joydot7620 2 жыл бұрын
Yes. Child development too.
@prayaanshmehta3200
@prayaanshmehta3200 Жыл бұрын
7:42 intro to emotions perception 8:15 still tractable 9:05 10:53 where to look for groundwork- infancy 14:00 anxiety- first feeling 15:21 17:31 "healthy" emotions 19:03 (tool) mood meter - predict feeling not enough language 20:55 (i) "what is your level of autonomic arousal?" 21:22 (ii) "valence?" 22:00 (iii) "interocepting? exterocepting?" 22:28 24:00 emotions are for bonds and predictions infact starting to exterocept 24:10 starting to predict 24:28 tool 2 27:40 28:00 what kind of baby were you?
@paulbarber7336
@paulbarber7336 3 жыл бұрын
I never thought I would ever find neuroscience so interesting or be smart enough to understand it. These podcasts and tools have literally changed my life...the only way I can repay you is to share them with people, Thankyou Dr Huberman...my mesolimbic pathway goes crazy every Monday🤪 Keep em coming!
@amyk.budzinski6303
@amyk.budzinski6303 3 жыл бұрын
Oddly enough, every topic comes out at the same time I need information about that particular topic.... this is amazing!
@ArthurDavidConner
@ArthurDavidConner 6 ай бұрын
Emotions fall on three different ranges. (Possibly more) - Good / bad (aka Valence) - Interoceptive to exteroceptive - Alert to calm Emotions serve a purpose, but they are best understood by how they were received when looking at your infancy and adolescence. (Were you taken care of properly as a baby and as a teenager, physically and emotionally?) This also ties back to Attachment Styles Theory. Emotional bonds are made through gaze (eye contact), physical touch, voice, and affect (more on this!!) In social situations, it is far better to be exteroceptive. An interoceptive exercise (a lot like meditation): focus all of your attention inward. Points of gravity, heartbeat, breathing, etc. An exteroceptive exercise is a lot like practicing mindfulness. Focus all of your attention on a small object. (Pencil, water bottle, etc.) Puberty is happening earlier because of higher body fat (and thus leptin levels.) It has been found that injecting leptin into pre-adolescants will start puberty. Whether or not pheromones exist in humans is very controversial, but in Dr Huberman's viewpoint, it may exist. There is a tendency in humans and other species that from the start to the end of puberty, they will start to drift away from caregivers and spend more time with friends. Parents should not fear; this is a natural biological change for teenagers to want to spend less (but not no) time with them. There are differences in right brain and left brain, but the stereotype that right is emotional and left is rational is wrong. There is no evidence for this. Oxytocin promotes bonding, loyalty, etc. Vitamin D and melatonin can increase oxytocin. Vasopressin suppresses urination, increases memory, and creates feelings of love. Vasopressin can relate to whether or not humans participate in monogamy or non-monogomy. The vagus nerve is a nerve that connects the brain to the heart, gut, immune system, etc. There is a myth that stimulating the vagus nerve will calm you. Stimulation of the vagus nerve releases dopamine and increases alertness. It is a stimulant of alertness, the opposite of the myth. This is a lot of content, equivalent to 2 or 3 college lectures.
@saimon3862
@saimon3862 3 жыл бұрын
This man deserves a nobel peace prize🙏🖤🖤
@BuddhishMusic
@BuddhishMusic 3 жыл бұрын
What was your favorite part of this podcast?!
@ananthrao7802
@ananthrao7802 3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@elizabethhouser822
@elizabethhouser822 3 жыл бұрын
I agree he’s young yet but I see one in the future. He is truly a rare individual leaving the academic ivory tower with the ability and inclination to bring this wisdom to the layman. I have learned so much from him and am seeing significant improvements in my life.
@pyronation8764
@pyronation8764 Жыл бұрын
Catre'
@lisaskye296
@lisaskye296 3 жыл бұрын
I have been using the “mood meter” over 5 years. It’s great to granulate an emotion. The new book “permission to feel” is a good reference too.
@hubermanlab
@hubermanlab 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I will check out the book! Best, Andrew
@luanswine7336
@luanswine7336 3 жыл бұрын
When I used the link provided I receive a message that the app is unavailable. Any suggestions?
@inevitablemma1435
@inevitablemma1435 3 жыл бұрын
@@hubermanlab hi Andrew can you talk about split personalities and how they suddenly have different mannerisms? And ofcoarse can I switch my personality or self hypnosis for higher performance?
@fawntwo-spirit4579
@fawntwo-spirit4579 3 жыл бұрын
@@hubermanlab Captions? All your videos have excellent captions except this one Andrew.
@helenachase78
@helenachase78 2 жыл бұрын
Ptsd from surviving to thriving by Pete Walker is a great resourse for learning to learn about emotional flashbacks
@mitchbellmusic
@mitchbellmusic 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the podcast Dr. Huberman. I first heard you on Rich Roll last summer and have since tracked down everywhere I can hear you speak. Haven't missed an episode of your show since its inception. The tools you've taught me have been greatly beneficial, and have given me the confidence to launch my career as a self-employed artist (making music under the moniker Blue Sails). Thanks again Dr. Huberman!
@selgoops
@selgoops 3 жыл бұрын
I just got out of a relationship where my significant other was really closed off and I was very much the opposite. I was hoping and praying Huberman would make a relationship episode for the past few days! I cant wait to watch this, and once again, thank you for pretty much changing my life! I look at my emotional responses so differently, and I cannot tell you enough how much that means to me, to have the tools and techniques to gauge and better myself. Thank you Huberman Lab!
@MrBUGS713
@MrBUGS713 Жыл бұрын
Or personality disorder
@s.v.3173
@s.v.3173 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr. Huberman for all of the life changing information that you share. Listening to your Podcasts I liken to taking a condensed college class on an Amazingly broad spectrum of topics. Your podcasts have improved my quality of life by helping to understand issues in depth and equally important is that you provide plans of action to help us as individuals have more control over helping improve our own health without treating symptoms with pharmaceuticals as a first resort. Thank you, thank you!
@niloofarordou2461
@niloofarordou2461 3 жыл бұрын
When you get too absorbed into the podcast and all 4 boiling eggs suddenly explode in the kitchen cause the water was all gone long ago...😖 thank you for the mesmerising work🙏🏻 *Cries in the pain of cleaning the walls and ceiling, and “walking on the eggshells”* 🥴
@hubermanlab
@hubermanlab 3 жыл бұрын
My apologies for the kitchen incident! That said, thank you for your comment and your interest in science!
@niloofarordou2461
@niloofarordou2461 3 жыл бұрын
@@hubermanlab I’m happy you couldn’t see it!😅Quite a scene...
@barbarafairbanks4578
@barbarafairbanks4578 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! quite the dopamine meltdown😫
@niloofarordou2461
@niloofarordou2461 3 жыл бұрын
And Acetylcholine meltdown! Cause a lot of choline got wasted! 🥚
@pyronation8764
@pyronation8764 Жыл бұрын
Means it 'Apart (Far Away) from (Screename)
@Ian.lifts.
@Ian.lifts. 3 жыл бұрын
I look forward to this every Monday. Thank you.
@MiriamIllions
@MiriamIllions 3 жыл бұрын
What I’ve learned today: our emotions are always optimizing for our survival which is very empowering because: 1. Gives me a sense of trust that I’m always optimizing for my greatest good- especially when experiencing difficult emotions! 2. Helps me see that certain emotions have simply been running on autopilot because of conditioning, but now knowing their purpose, I can more easily remove judgement and seek to understand WHY these emotions surface and what I really need in those moments rather than being swept away by the emotion. Really puts you in the driver’s seat. Thank you Dr. Huberman! ❤️ I’m a weekly listener, reconstructing my life view week over week with the knowledge you share.
@barbarafairbanks4578
@barbarafairbanks4578 3 жыл бұрын
@Miriam illions - there IS quite a self-limiting downside to our brain's proclivity for 'survival'. Survival is a minimum state, not max., which is THRIVE. Big difference btw. surviving and thriving. This is why change is so hard. That protective part of our brain that wants merely to keep us alive, constantly resists changing things up, for the better, i.e., 'thriving'.
@MiriamIllions
@MiriamIllions 3 жыл бұрын
@@barbarafairbanks4578 that’s a really good point! For me, knowing that the brain is optimizing for survival removes self-judgement and that’s why I find it empowering. It’s easier to thrive when you have high self esteem and positive self regard, than when you’re constantly beating yourself up. I am wondering now - is it possible for the brain to learn to optimize for thriving rather than surviving?
@barbarafairbanks4578
@barbarafairbanks4578 3 жыл бұрын
Miriam illions - for me, the brain's wanting only for our survival causes great angst, because I am trying so hard to effect change (for the better) in my life and I feel like the survival part of my brain is constantly fighting me on this. I know it is this way for our survival...has to do with our physiology's homeostasis system (which is a term that, IMO, can easily be subbed for 'status quo'). Homeostasis keeps our bodily functions in balance and we'd be dead without it, as far as the way our ANS functions. But, for instance, have you ever experienced trying to make big changes in your habits, for instance to improve your lifestyle, and you end up feeling SO uncomfortable with these changes, to the point they just feel so WRONG - like your body & brain are just begging you to slide back into your old habits. And then if you do manage to effectuate these changes - the pendulum you just swung in the direction of effective change, begins to swing back again. And once your vigilance on maintaining these changes relaxes, you can find yourself right back in the same position, only sometimes the pendulum has swung so far back in the other direction, we are worse off than before. Case in point, people losing weight by sheer will power, then relaxing their willpower because they've been 'successful'- and as a result gain all the weight back, plus more. So now, after all that effort, they weigh more than they did before they began their campaign to lose weight. This, I believe, can (at least partly) be blamed on homeostasis and our brain's wilfulness to 'survive' - but whether we survive 'optimally', or merely survive by 'scraping by'... this part of our brain 'doesn't care' - as long as we are 'alive' - that appears to be the objective....and making changes, especially significant ones, can be viewed by the brain as 'risk-taking' behavior. Not that I believe the brain is actually sitting there evaluating everything we do as 'risk', 'non-risk'...I'm sure this distinction is primarily biologically assessed, via neurotransmitters and their receptors in the body that would effectuate this result - 'keep the status quo.' Disturb the status quo, and we could get ourselves killed. I don't know about 'teaching our brains' to thrive, rather than just survive - not that simply, anyway. Real, lasting change has to take place internally, (our belief system), i.e., not with willpower alone, but thru the process of changing our mindset - our beliefs about ourselves. Willpower does need to be exerted to a certain extent, but will power is not the whole picture or the lone tool we need. Internal change, i.e., changing our beliefs about ourselves CAN be done, but it takes alot of hard work, wilfull intent, diligence, and vigilance, to effectuate. I intellectually 'know' this, but thinking & knowing is only philosophy in the absence of acting upon it. Action is behavior. Doing it is an entirely different animal from knowing it. We need both, and it is SO easy to be fooled into thinking we are 'taking action' if we remain stuck in the thinking/philosophical stage.
@MiriamIllions
@MiriamIllions 3 жыл бұрын
@@barbarafairbanks4578 I think you nailed it when you said that the belief system has to change in order for us to change our behaviors permanently for the better. Yes, I have experienced the pendulum swing, but then I learned about how our beliefs drive our thoughts which drive our feelings, which drive our actions. So I began to focus more on the beliefs, because action that goes against a core belief is not sustainable. The pendulum will swing back, to borrow your description. For example, I began studying psychology last year at the age of 36. It’s something I wanted to do for the past 15 years, but was never able to get myself to do it. Instead of pushing against that, I went inward, did all the soul searching, facing my past, etc - and then I was ready. It took years, but I’m here now, doing it. It wasn’t as simple as changing a belief, it was years of inner work, but my approach to change is to be gentle, loving, and when experiencing strong resistance, going inward to examine why rather than pushing harder. The Wisdom of Anxiety by Sheryl Paul is a great book for more about the going inward practice.
@scottreeves6743
@scottreeves6743 Жыл бұрын
It's hilarious when he says " if you're asleep, you're probably not comprehending what I'm saying " I love all these. It's amazing information articulated and communicated so well! Thank you for all the time you put into this !
@jaymiegill9506
@jaymiegill9506 3 жыл бұрын
Topic request: Executive Dysfunction! Please Dr Huberman, cause so many of us are trying to overcome this. It can be incredibly debilitating and understanding how to overcome the challenges to succeed with a different brain, especially for us adults who found out later in life we have it (whether it’s cause of a TBI, PTSD, ADHD, Austism, Dyslexia etc) cause our brains need more work. 😭🙏🏽
@elizabethhouser822
@elizabethhouser822 3 жыл бұрын
I have been diagnosed with PTSD this has helped me so much more than therapy and drugs. I took myself off 9 prescription drugs in the fall of 2016 it was the hardest thing I’ve ever been through but the best thing.
@lisaderwent
@lisaderwent Жыл бұрын
@@elizabethhouser822 that's excellent. With knowledge we can find ways to treat ourselves. Well done you.
@LisaCCurvello
@LisaCCurvello 3 жыл бұрын
I give his videos a Like even before listening to them...
@davidyeoman6013
@davidyeoman6013 3 жыл бұрын
Me too! Glad I’m not the only one. You just know though, every one has been gold!
@ellenkass9410
@ellenkass9410 3 жыл бұрын
So do I. I know I need the information . 🏜👩‍🦳💜🌺
@YOLANDAQUINONES
@YOLANDAQUINONES 3 жыл бұрын
Likewise!!!!🤓
@mabelmabel140
@mabelmabel140 3 жыл бұрын
Likewise😁👍from Amsterdam
@margrettaylor2228
@margrettaylor2228 3 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@zakimtshali8105
@zakimtshali8105 3 жыл бұрын
I have learnt so much from this podcast. This is part of my self-care routine every Monday. I’m so grateful, thank you Dr Huberman
@LilianLlanosCoaching
@LilianLlanosCoaching 3 жыл бұрын
Mondays have a new meaning because of your podcasts. I look forward to it. Thank you for enlightening us, Dr. Huberman!
@beautyinbutteamerica1776
@beautyinbutteamerica1776 3 жыл бұрын
Dear Andrew Huberman, Thank you for sharing such valuable content with the world. A wise man once said "The most precious gift one can give is their time and attention." Thank you!
@tonibojones
@tonibojones 3 жыл бұрын
Finally, RELATIONSHIPS and science together! Thank you ❤️
@Ell_TERRA333
@Ell_TERRA333 2 жыл бұрын
Keep doing what u doing man. Big love and respect. Also big love to everyone reading this 💚
@missa7393
@missa7393 Жыл бұрын
I listened twice. Dr Huberman is precious. Just the right amount of information to keep my interest. I am methodically going through his podcasts. It is not the knowledge I need. It is the knowledge I enjoy
@Michael-Macaulay
@Michael-Macaulay 3 жыл бұрын
This is what academia should have been doing all along. God bless Andrew
@andromachitziamou2135
@andromachitziamou2135 3 жыл бұрын
Yes , knowledge to the people that is easy to adopt And apply it in every aspect of life .
@davidwm
@davidwm 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@clickpwn
@clickpwn 3 жыл бұрын
I feel so happy when new episode appears on my recommended page. I always write down what I learned in a note and I search and buy almost all the supplements mentioned in the podcast. You are doing such an amazing work and I'm so eager to learn
@DanielKimita
@DanielKimita 2 жыл бұрын
When one has a passion for what they do, work feels like play. Thank you Huberman for this great and informative content that you share with us. Blessings.
@for_your_entertainment
@for_your_entertainment 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so absolutely amazed and happy that podcasts like this exist. Thank you for your time!
@farahdabbas
@farahdabbas 7 ай бұрын
Someone recently introduced this podcast to my life and I can say it’s literally influential and keep adding meanings to my day
@manuel8617
@manuel8617 3 жыл бұрын
So that's why I instinctively take out my phone for no reason , when I feel awkward. Makes perfect sense , I noticed mysel and many other people did too and hypothesized it was to anchor ourselves in something we are familiar and comfortable with instead of sitting with our awkwardness. Next time I will make an effort to sit with the awkwardness and embrace it.
@thorbenk.3339
@thorbenk.3339 3 жыл бұрын
I enjoy watching these podcasts so much, thank u Mister Huberman for your contribution to society :D
@suzanneamos7690
@suzanneamos7690 3 жыл бұрын
I love these podcasts so much. Thank you Dr Huberman. There are always so many practical take-aways from each one.
@sonjavass8014
@sonjavass8014 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr. Huberman, you are a pioneer. Your dedication and commitment to integrity shines. The time and energy you gift to us is greatly appreciated. Your intelligence, fluid thoughts, scientific passion, humor and talent in speaking so every listener is spoken to with respect -and acknowledged, all with your charm and humble intentions - and you’re handsome. 😉 every time I listen or watch your podcasts or interviews I learn something new and relatable to my life. 🙏
@sunsetradiance
@sunsetradiance 2 жыл бұрын
Just want to say thank you. I enjoy your podcast so much and I have told numerous people around me and they love it as well. Thank you for your time and sharing the knowledge.
@dr.mahmoudjarhaman9584
@dr.mahmoudjarhaman9584 3 жыл бұрын
Mondays is much much better because of you!
@AnthonyGhandour
@AnthonyGhandour 2 жыл бұрын
I love how he always answers your next question, he never just leaves you hanging 👍
@anandk5536
@anandk5536 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you professor. This podcast has more information than a book.
@getrektboi1232
@getrektboi1232 3 жыл бұрын
This is a magnificent Monday, thanks to the hubermanlab podcast
@sakuratanaka1877
@sakuratanaka1877 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, Professor! Have an excellent start for the week and please take care of yourself. With the very best regards from Scandinavia, Sakura, your Student for Life!
@beautifulintentions5678
@beautifulintentions5678 Жыл бұрын
I just love how smart you are & your calm voice. I just absolutely love learning from you.❤
@gangli9463
@gangli9463 3 жыл бұрын
Dr Huberman is like Prometheus. Prometheus made man to walk upright and gave us fire. Dr Huberman is giving us the wisdom of the gods.
@patriciam4566
@patriciam4566 3 жыл бұрын
Indeed, the myth of Prometheus came to my mind when I started watching this podcast. From the perspective of someone who loves greek mythology he definitely fits the archetype.
@dylan8487
@dylan8487 3 жыл бұрын
Man your subscribers count is going great Andrew! Several thousands a week? Really deserved!
@CaddyOKnoglies
@CaddyOKnoglies 3 жыл бұрын
Andrew, thanks so much for these videos. You're doing something truly important and paradigm-shifting by democratising learning. Will be signing up to donate what I can!
@tauruslake6918
@tauruslake6918 3 жыл бұрын
Great episode! Your subtle humor is perfect, Dr H! Amazing how you include so much info but make it fun to learn about for both academia-nuts like myself and anyone seeking practical advice. Cheers and thanks!
@brightonhardy4792
@brightonhardy4792 2 жыл бұрын
I am creating into the universe the real experience of thanking you face to face. Thank you Andrew for all you have done to create these episodes it's much more than just making a video and doing research and I am very inspired by you. Thank you.
@robertobenedit
@robertobenedit 3 жыл бұрын
It's incredible how you change my life Andrew. Present!
@BenfromFlux
@BenfromFlux 3 жыл бұрын
It’s great to start the week with this. Thank you!
@bryanasarmento2044
@bryanasarmento2044 Жыл бұрын
Listening to a Huberman podcast while doing my meal prep is a weekly thing for me
@superfun7380
@superfun7380 3 жыл бұрын
It’s been an emotional day, but science is making me feel better! Thanks Dr H!
@WLynn-su2fs
@WLynn-su2fs 3 жыл бұрын
Once again, I am better equipped because of Huberman Lab Podcasts. Thank you. What a time to be alive (wishes are futile, e.g. "wish I had had this in middle school").
@ruthkofmel1747
@ruthkofmel1747 3 жыл бұрын
This is phenomenal! My new working hypothesis served on a silver platter. The holy Trinity we shall call it - or so.
@kidestm
@kidestm 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this episode! I took so many notes --- the breakdown on interoception and exteroception is so invaluable!!!
@katielkashan
@katielkashan Жыл бұрын
Thank you for these lectures. They make my life so much more interesting and meaningful. I spent 20 years of my youth studying psychology, sociology, educational psychology and social work. Now being retired I had no hope to get a chance to pursue my intellectual interests but your lectures make me hopeful and alive, intellectually. In my book you are a Saint or a Prophet.
@josiprietkovic
@josiprietkovic 3 жыл бұрын
Sir, You have helped me so much with these podcasts. I am grateful and happy to be able to watch and listen to You and the knowledge You provide us. Best regards from Croatia!
@mc7965
@mc7965 3 жыл бұрын
Ovo nebi trebalo bit besplatno hahahah
@christianpicardo2683
@christianpicardo2683 3 жыл бұрын
a red notification and says Dr. Andrew Huberman uploaded new video...even im on the middle of netflix rerun(Breaking Bad/ Better Call Saul/ Narcos) will click the X window and watch a Free Golden Knowledge by this learneth Man . thanks doc
@wakefulonesees
@wakefulonesees 11 ай бұрын
I absolutely love your podcasts, always feel inspired and enlightened! This one really hit home for me. Thank you so much!!!❤
@-farawla
@-farawla 3 ай бұрын
1:36:57 “consciousness, there I said the word”. Pure gold! I appreciate your work, generosity, humbleness, and so much more qualities that brings you to do the word you do! Thank you for such beautiful episode even as a PsyD with a background in microbiology, I found this refreshing and helpful in bridging the information and the training I have.
@artsvanberg
@artsvanberg Жыл бұрын
It's such amazing podcast to listen to every morning 😍 high concentrated value and very carefully delivered🌟 everyone should listen to this podcast if they are serious about learning things ♥️
@dlewis99
@dlewis99 3 жыл бұрын
I just took two pages of notes. I have 4 kids, but my 3rd, 14 year old son is very shy. I worry so much about his emotional state. This podcast is extraordinary I’m so grateful for the info🤍
@PrashantMaurice
@PrashantMaurice 3 жыл бұрын
Can you share your notes pls. I wish we can do something like that here
@gheedbizri
@gheedbizri 3 жыл бұрын
Can you share your notes pls?
@christaknappen3355
@christaknappen3355 3 жыл бұрын
You can start a group on FB with Dr. Huberman’s permission, possibly? I would assume one already exists...
@kylehall4275
@kylehall4275 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely agree we need a group to share notes on facebook or some platform created to discuss topics related to specific videos
@derrickrose4232
@derrickrose4232 Жыл бұрын
@@kylehall4275 if this has been made I would like to join
@catherineeagleson2005
@catherineeagleson2005 Жыл бұрын
Your podcast was recommended to me by a friend. I found this episode absolutely fascinating. It clarified a lot of things I have been researching myself recently. I look forward to hearing further episodes.
@gonzophilosophy7858
@gonzophilosophy7858 Жыл бұрын
I am so grateful for this incredible podcast. Absolutely beyond comparison. The best info I've ever gotten on so called self improvement.
@samismx
@samismx 3 жыл бұрын
Please do a pod with Cal Newport! His work on Deep Work and your concepts on peak performance would be an epic discussion.
@ruthkofmel1747
@ruthkofmel1747 3 жыл бұрын
I am so relieved. I might get this sorted after all. Thank you for ever.
@Nick_Tag
@Nick_Tag 3 жыл бұрын
I got into all this about a year ago now -- i sleep-walked into some 'adventurous' lives that were perhaps emotionally taxing at times, but after all that (in normal brick dwellings once again) I accidentally consumed aspartame cola & a fermented food *almost* simultaneously -- boom, I fell into an inexplicable 2-day mood suppression -- once i backtracked to realise what happened, that led me to awareness of the gut-brain connection and further study. Suddenly, armed with that visceral empathy it felt like any 'upset' person might experience those same lows from random food choices... and that's just one of factors i've come across (so far) that can explain the way we, and others, think feel or act. It's totally re-framed my perception of human interactions and sociology. (Random semi-related aside: at some point, for weeks, raw cabbage was the unwitting culprit but within seconds of consuming butyrate/butter i was cured..!) Good luck with your quest.
@lanedewar73
@lanedewar73 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much once again, Dr Huberman! Outstanding content!
@Telltale.
@Telltale. 8 ай бұрын
I’m so addicted to these videos. I watch them over and over. Such a great resource of knowledge
@angelagreene8618
@angelagreene8618 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing episode! I clearly remember around age 12 walking with my parents in the mall and being horrified at the thought of any of my friends seeing me walking together with my parents.😁 I haven’t thought about that until today!
@hollywodetzki4982
@hollywodetzki4982 3 жыл бұрын
This was such an excellent, rich, valuable episode! So grateful! Would love to hear more nuance about 'affect' vs. 'emotions' - they kind of got lumped together here.
@user-mm1qq6gm9e
@user-mm1qq6gm9e 7 ай бұрын
I can’t believe this material is free. Thank you, Andrew Huberman!!. I can’t believe this material is free. Thank you, Andrew Huberman!!.
@evarodriguezmateo2742
@evarodriguezmateo2742 Жыл бұрын
Invaluable information, truly appreciate how you shed some light in our paths with your priceless podcasts. Your follower from Spain!
@blin483
@blin483 3 жыл бұрын
Thank youuu I already know this is gonna be another smashing episode
@mercedesg450
@mercedesg450 3 жыл бұрын
This being human is a guest house. Every morning a new arrival. ​ A joy, a depression, a meanness, some momentary awareness comes as an unexpected visitor. ​ Welcome and entertain them all! Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows, who violently sweep your house empty of its furniture, still, treat each guest honorably. He may be clearing you out for some new delight. ​ The dark thought, the shame, the malice, meet them at the door laughing, and invite them in. ​ Be grateful for whoever comes, because each has been sent as a guide from beyond. -Rumi, ‘The Guest House’ Whenever I think of emotions, this poem always comes to mind. 💗 I loved this episode so much! So good! When he said we don’t know we feel or how other people feel, I was kinda surprised. I feel like, I know how I feel most of the time unless I’m lying to myself about that?! I also feel like I can pick up on people’s vibes/“energies”, not in a witch kinda way but just generally. I could be projecting but I feel like I’m pretty clear what’s what (most of the time). Emotions are so complicated and subjective but I guess the beauty of them. Sensitive people like me feel things deeply and clearly, not in a snowflake-y kinda way, but I embrace them as teachers who reveal so much. 💗
@rosyloveslearning3013
@rosyloveslearning3013 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing in such an outstanding manner. If I can’t sit in your lab or class, I will graciously accept this. 🙏🏼
@mahsamoadeli5294
@mahsamoadeli5294 Жыл бұрын
I said that before and I'll say it again, wow, your intellectual capacity and way of externalising them vocally is truly outstanding. I love the organised way you communicate things.
@ceciliakuewa3167
@ceciliakuewa3167 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this information! Every parent should understand puberty at this level. I wish I would have known this then.
@karolina.321
@karolina.321 3 жыл бұрын
Andrew, I don't know if you read comments but this podcast is exceptional. Excellent information and very well presented. Thank you!
@dianedevery3711
@dianedevery3711 2 жыл бұрын
What a time to be alive. Fascinating exploration of our inner world. Thank you.
@alexanderzlatanov3325
@alexanderzlatanov3325 3 жыл бұрын
Love it,every single episode is amazing. Thank you for the knowledge
@vozzsch
@vozzsch 3 жыл бұрын
The interactive component of this episode is a welcome addition! Wouldn't mind if there will be more of that in the future!
@ojanya1606
@ojanya1606 3 жыл бұрын
Andrew, can you please touch on seasonal affective disorder at some point? I would love to move back north to my friends and family, but so far the only solution I've found is living in the south.
@hubermanlab
@hubermanlab 3 жыл бұрын
Yes. Will do. Thank you!
@jonathonshaw6688
@jonathonshaw6688 2 жыл бұрын
I believe that supplementing vitamin D3 and K2 (which helps the D3 go to the right places) can sustain vitamin D levels such as to negate the lack of sun exposure driving SAD. Supplementing vitamin D doesn't provide everything that sunlight does, but it goes a long way.
@rosariomontoya1826
@rosariomontoya1826 Жыл бұрын
@ojanya Have you tried those lamps made for this purpose? (Don’t know the name.) A friend of mine claims it made going through winter in the north possible for her.
@jacksoneglise1657
@jacksoneglise1657 2 жыл бұрын
Oh yes, the magnificent revelations you provide us every time we watch you.
@sirik.1147
@sirik.1147 6 ай бұрын
Doc. I'm so grateful for this. My husband is not fluent in English and I would love to share these contents with him. Every time I have to translate. So thanks so much. I really understand the value of these informations.
@belindaoleary4000
@belindaoleary4000 3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate you sharing your knowledge and insight so the masses can reach it at no cost ..What a gift 🎁 😍
@DreamsofStardust75
@DreamsofStardust75 3 жыл бұрын
I super excited for this episode!! These are my favorite topics.
@mikekiraly1967
@mikekiraly1967 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for another excellent installment. I appreciate your hard work.
@DOGB14
@DOGB14 3 жыл бұрын
Dr. Huberman has a special way of making me feel like I have more control over my life in a way a guy like Dr.Peterson made me reject over time. There is something so special about this podcast IMO.
@dprincenj
@dprincenj 4 ай бұрын
What do you mean by that? How did Jordan Peterson influence your ability to feel control over your life in a negative way?
@TheReminderChannnel
@TheReminderChannnel 3 жыл бұрын
Was waiting for the next episode - listening now! 🙈💪
@johnnyregs2378
@johnnyregs2378 3 жыл бұрын
I used the new NSDR protocol last night and it was superb!
@hubermanlab
@hubermanlab 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for that feedback. We will continue to bring you more links to free resources based on lab findings.
@westkootenaywild7658
@westkootenaywild7658 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this available to us. You are amazing.
@mistydawn3825
@mistydawn3825 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for making these. My understanding of attachment has changed and I feel like I can understand myself a little better.
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